The Orange Tapes

OT. Episode 10: "Dear Sister,"This is a close one.In “Dear Sister,” Nicole J sits down with her sister, Monique Akisanya, for one of the most honest and layered conversations they’ve ever shared. What unfolds is a deeply reflective dialogue on sisterhood—unpacking comparison, conflict, grief, faith, and identity.Together, they explore the unspoken reality that siblings can grow up under the same roof yet experience life—and each other—so differently. Through vulnerability and truth-telling, they confront distance, rediscover connection, and examine how God has used their relationship to reveal who they are and teach them how to love better.This isn’t just one conversation—it’s many. Raw, evolving, and intentional.A layered episode. A shared story. Made for your ears.Monique's SocialsIG: @monique.akiOT SocialsFollow us:Host: @ByNicole J.IG: @theorangetapesTikTok: @theorangetapespodFB: @theorangetapesYoutube: @theorangetapesContact us Email: @[email protected]

Season 2 kicks off with Nicole J and Olu Akinwande exploring a world divided by polarization, politics, and Christian nationalism, where viral tragedies dominate our feeds and emotions run high. In this episode, we dig into why society feels increasingly extreme, why people are so quick to pick sides, and how these pressures impact the way we think, feel, and respond to one another.We discuss how to stay grounded, navigate online outrage, and engage with current events thoughtfully without letting anger, fear, or ideology define our relationships or our sense of self.This conversation challenges us to examine our loyalties, confront the ways cultural and political forces shape us, and consider what it looks like to respond with empathy, wisdom, and clarity in a world that often demands we pick a side.Olu's SocialsIG: @oluandshoOT SocialsFollow us:Host: @ByNicole J.IG: @theorangetapesTikTok: @theorangetapespodFB: @theorangetapesYoutube: @theorangetapesContact us Email: @[email protected]

Welcome to season 2 of The Orange Tapes with Nicole J.This season, we’re going a little deeper and having the conversations that are often felt but rarely spoken out loud. From navigating the political climate to unpacking mental health, unhealthy family dynamics, the realities of being a woman in today’s world, and what healthy relationships and marriages truly look like, nothing is off the table.Each episode is an invitation to reflect, learn, and grow through honest dialogue and shared experiences.Take a moment, lean in, and join us as we peel back the layers together.

OT Ep. 8 – It took me 32 years to understand this (Part 2)In this conclusion of season 1 and the second installment of It Took Me 32 Years to Understand This, I continue sharing the 32 lessons that have shaped me over 32 years. In this episode, we dig into some of the most transformative lessons like releasing offense before it becomes a prison, refusing to let one chapter define your whole story, and breaking free from group-think so you can stand firm in who you truly are. If you’ve ever felt stuck, misunderstood, or held back by trauma, this conversation is for you.Grab your headphones and let’s peel back a few more layers together.Hope you can join me in season 2! OT SocialsFollow us:Host: @ByNicole J.IG: @theorangetapesTikTok: @theorangetapespodFB: @theorangetapesYoutube: @theorangetapesContact usEmail: @[email protected]

OT Ep. 8 – It took me 32 years to understand thisWhat does 32 years of life really teach you? In part one of a two-part series, Nicole J. reflects on 16 lessons that shaped her life, faith, and everything she’s still learning, from imposter syndrome and anxiety to identity and growth. Join her as she peels back the layers and uncovers lessons we can all relate to and learn from.OT SocialsFollow us:Host: @ByNicole J.IG: @theorangetapesTikTok: @theorangetapespodFB: @theorangetapesYoutube: @theorangetapesContact usEmail: @[email protected]

OT Pod Episode 7 – The Biggest Lie We Believe About Men with Corey Farrow| Hosted by Nicole J.In this episode, Nicole J and Corey Farrow debunk some of the most damaging myths about men. Together, they challenge cultural narratives and explore what true masculinity looks like through the lens of faith, life, and authenticity.Corey's SocialsIG: @Corey.farrow_OT Socials Follow us: Host: @ByNicole J. IG: @theorangetapes TikTok: @theorangetapespod FB: @theorangetapesYoutube: @theorangetapesContact us Email: @[email protected]

OT Pod Episode 6 – I’m Creative, But Do I Belong Here? with Pastor Yaw | Hosted by Nicole J.Nicole J. sits down with Pastor Yaw to talk about the often unspoken tension between creatives and the church. As he prepares to launch his new book Anointed but Accountable.Together, they unpack what it feels like to be deeply creative but unsure if you fit into traditional church spaces. From the internal wrestle creatives face around finding belonging and submitting, to the very real insecurities leaders can battle when leading uniquely gifted people, this conversation holds space for both the visionary and the shepherd.Pastor Yaw’s SocialsInstagram: @Yaw_WusuOT SocialsFollow us:Host: @ByNicole J.IG: @theorangetapesTikTok: @theorangetapespodFB: @theorangetapesYoutube: @theorangetapesContact usEmail: @[email protected]

OT Ep. 5 – God, Culture, and DiddyIn this solo episode, Nicole J. takes a deep dive into the Diddy trial and opens up a bigger conversation about why God cares about culture—and why believers should, too. With honesty and insight, she unpacks how headlines reflect deeper spiritual realities and why culture isn't something Christians should ignore. Whether you're wrestling with how to process current events or wondering where faith fits into the cultural moment, this episode is a timely, thoughtful, and necessary listen.OT SocialsFollow us:Host: @ByNicole J.IG: @theorangetapesTikTok: @theorangetapespodFB: @theorangetapesYoutube: @theorangetapesContact usEmail: @[email protected]

OT Pod Ep. 4The Good, the Bad, and the Influencers: How Social Media Shapes Our Faith and DiscernmentWelcome back to The Orange Tapes—a safe space where we peel back the layers of life, culture, and faith.In this episode, Nicole J. sits down with guest Lordley to unpack the growing wave of prophetic voices on social media. Together, they explore the good and not-so-good sides of digital ministry, why hearing God’s voice personally is more crucial than ever, and how to sharpen our discernment in a world full of influence, online and in real life.This one’s for anyone wondering how to navigate faith in the age of likes, reels, and viral prophecies.Lordley's SocialsIG: @LordleyTikTok: @LordleyOT SocialsFollow us:Host: @ByNicole J.IG: @theorangetapesTikTok: @theorangetapespodFB: @theorangetapesYoutube: @theorangetapesContact usEmail: @[email protected]

OT Pod Ep. 3In this heartfelt episode of The Orange Tapes, Nicole J. sits down with her brother, Isaiah, to discuss their personal reactions to public scandals within Christian leadership. Isaiah opens up about the deep emotional impact of being part of a church where Mike Bickle, former director of the International House of Prayer (IHOP), was accused of sexual allegations and other scandals. He reflects on how this betrayal affected both him and his community, sharing his raw journey of healing. Together, Isaiah and Nicole process the situation and offer valuable advice on how to move forward after such a crisis. Tune in for a thoughtful conversation on healing from pain and rebuilding trust in the wake of broken faith.Isaiah's SocialsIG: @IsaiahJobiSpotify: @IsaiahJobiOT SocialsFollow us:Host: @ByNicole J.IG: @theorangetapesTikTok: @theorangetapespodFB: @theorangetapesYoutube: @theorangetapesContact usEmail: @[email protected]

OT Pod Ep. 2In the second episode of The Orange Tapes, Nicole J. is joined by guest Olamide Iyanda as they dive deep into the transition from the twenties to the thirties. Together, they explore the idea of “growing up” versus “growing into yourself” — discussing the changes they've experienced and the shifts in their mindsets. Both share personal stories about how they’ve evolved over the years, discussing the valuable lessons they've learned about christianity, relationships, identity, self-awareness, and embracing who they are, who they are becoming.Olamide's SocialsIG: @urbandiscipleNGT IG: @naijagirltalksBlog: https://urbandisciple.co/OT SocialsFollow us:Host: @ByNicole J.IG: @theorangetapesTikTok: @theorangetapespodFB: @theorangetapesYoutube: @theorangetapesContact usEmail: @[email protected]

The OT Pod Ep. 1In the trailer episode of The Orange Tapes, host Nicole J. introduces herself and sets the stage for an honest and open conversation about faith, culture, and life. With a tagline of “A safe place to peel back the layers of faith, culture, and life,” Nicole invites listeners into a space where no topic is off-limits.In this brief but insightful episode, Nicole shares the inspiration behind the podcast, reflecting on her own personal journey and why she believes it's important to dive deep into the complexities of modern faith and the culture surrounding it. She opens up about her vision for the show: to create a space where people can explore faith with authenticity, confront difficult questions, and find community in the process.Nicole also teases upcoming conversations with a variety of guests who will bring their unique perspectives to topics like spiritual growth, navigating life’s challenges, and the intersection of culture and faith. So, if you’re ready to explore the layers of your own story, join Nicole on this new adventure, and let The Orange Tapes be the place where your journey of peeling back the layers begins.OT SocialsFollow us:Host: @ByNicole J.IG: @theorangetapesTikTok: @theorangetapespodFB: @theorangetapesYoutube: @theorangetapesContact usEmail: @[email protected]