The Scaries with Matty Rossi

This week on The Scaries, Matt is joined by comedian, podcaster, and social media personality Joey Camasta (aka best friend of Nicole ‘Snooki’ Polizzi) for one of the most unhinged episodes to date.They dive into their absolute WORST hookup stories — from chaotic run-ins with Häagen-Dazs delivery drivers to Matt’s infamous “bathroom wall incident” after a questionable dinner decision. It’s messy, it’s graphic (in the storytelling sense), and it’s exactly what you’d expect from two people who have zero business oversharing this much.They also get into the realities of dog parenting (and why it weirdly feels like having a terminally ill child… in theory), Amish culture and Rumspringa fantasies, and a bunch of other completely unfiltered tangents. Safe to say… this is one of the wildest episodes in The Scaries history.

The Scaries is joined by Eric Goldie, social media personality and real estate agent. We get into all things Real Housewives, the Bachelorette cancellation, and the art of putting expensive purchases on your husband’s credit card. He also shares the story of getting robbed at gunpoint and enlightens us on horses on Ozempic.

First solo episode of Season 2 and we’re getting into it. I finally answer the questions I’ve been actively dodging — from my full dating history since coming out to my type, celebrity crushes, and the realities of life in NYC vs. Boston.We also get into some unhinged moments including how I got banned from a Four Seasons and a few stories that probably didn’t need more detail… but you’re getting it anyway.Plus we talk about the weird duality of being in your 30s — going out one night and the next day your friends are having babies — along with conversations around body count, catching print, and everything in between. Nothing is off limits. Though some of it should be.

Billy Duke is back for his FOURTH appearance — our most recurring guest, resident twink, and still somehow the second most requested to return guest.We get updates on his love life, life as a twink in WeHo, and dive into the chaos of the NYC gay dating scene.As expected, it spirals into red flags, questionable advice, and pure chaos.

Max Cohen (aka Murray Hill Boy) joins me for one of the most chaotic episodes of the season.We get into what it was like growing up on Long Island in a Jewish household, including the time he and his brother absolutely destroyed the family computer (yes… exactly how you’re thinking). We talk about coming out at a young age in the most nonchalant way possible, being a full-on theater kid, and how a boring legal career shaped who he is now as a creator in NYC.We also spiral into why people tend to date versions of their parents (whether they realize it or not), the realities of gay dating culture, and some truly unhinged modern behavior—including airdropping unsolicited pics to the homies.We wrap with a game of Legit or Full of Sht*, where Max reacts to your submitted Scaries… and let’s just say hooking up with your HR director is, unfortunately, very real.

Season 2 is here and we’re starting with a bang. Jake Eldridge joins me for a long overdue conversation where we finally address the dating rumors, break down our types, biggest icks, and the realities of dating in 2026. We get into NYC nightlife, how we first met, and some of the funniest (and most unhinged) advice we’ve given each other along the way.Jake also opens up about his journey—from being a D1 football player at Rutgers to coming out publicly and building a new life as a model and internet personality in New York City. And of course, we tackle the hard-hitting question: would you rather have a micro-penis or a receding hairline?

In this Holiday Spectacular, Matt catches listeners up on life since the Halloween Special—settling into NYC, solo traveling to London, and navigating dating in a new city.He reads listener-submitted Holiday Scaries, covering everything from hooking up with your crush at the holiday party and surviving Christmas shopping to handling political differences with family once the wine starts flowing.Matt also talks about the importance of gay representation in TV, how one very hot show unexpectedly got him into hockey, and how coming out helped him stop people-pleasing and care less about internet opinions and hate comments.The episode wraps with updates on The 29 Project and a preview of what’s coming in Season 2 of The Scaries Podcast.

Matt and his resident twink/BFF Billy Duke are back from the dead for a special out-of-season Scaries episode filled with horror stories, costume changes, and way too many tequila shots. From listener-submitted scaries to Matt’s own coming-out horror stories, nothing is off-limits. It’s spooky, it’s messy, and it’s the unhinged Halloween special you didn’t know you needed — complete with ghosts, gays, and good tequila. 

In the Season One finale, Matt unpacks what it really means to start over—moving to a new city, navigating breakups and open relationships, and finding comfort in your own company. From adjusting to life post-move in NYC to embracing independence, he shares the lessons and mindset shifts that have shaped this chapter. Plus, a look ahead at what’s coming for Season Two of The Scaries Podcast.

The Bachelder Brothers (Chad and Sammy) join Matt on the couch for an unhinged mix of dating disasters, family confessions, and career chaos. Together they tackle Scaries like: a date having a heart attack, accidentally sending a nude to the family group chat, an ex getting a face tattoo after a breakup, and the ultimate debate—eating ass on the first date. Plus, they open up about how growing up with sisters shaped them, share job interview advice, and even weigh in on what happens when your boss ends up pregnant.

Who said dating has to be scary? This episode comes straight from the Banners Bachelor singles event, where the drinks were flowing, the crowd was buzzing, and love (or at least situationships) was in the air. Guests from the audience share their Sunday Scaries—ranging from awkward hookups to growing up in a cult—and help prove that no topic is off limits. It’s your all-access pass to the chaos, laughs, and romance of Boston’s most unforgettable singles night.

In this episode, Matt shares the story of how he went from being the son of first-generation Italian immigrants—both entrepreneurs themselves—to carving his own path from a top university into a corporate career at PepsiCo. Along the way, he learned the ins and outs of brand management and intrapreneurship inside Fortune 500 companies, but something was missing.Matt opens up about how starting a side hustle alongside his 9-to-5 turned into the spark that changed everything, eventually giving him the confidence to quit his job and pursue social media and podcasting full time. He also reflects on how his coming-out journey intersected with finding passion and purpose, and why building a career around what you love, what you’re good at, and what financially sustains you is the ultimate form of freedom.Whether you’re feeling stuck in your job, dreaming about your own side hustle, or searching for work that truly fulfills you, this episode is packed with inspiration and practical takeaways to help you take the leap.

This week’s episode is extra sweaty—recorded live at Ritual Social Wellness Club. Four guests pulled straight from the crowd join in to share their Sunday Scaries and help answer them. From two-year-long situationships to boyfriends with tragic guitar obsessions to men peeing the bed after a hookup, nothing is off-limits. Plus, a look at Ritual as a sweaty, healthier alternative to meeting people at the club. Hydrate for this one—you’ll need it.

In this milestone 20th episode, Matt reflects on the past six months of The Scaries podcast and shares how social media played a pivotal role in his coming out journey. He recounts the first person he ever came out to, the moment he downloaded Grindr for the first time, and how that led to an avalanche of positive life changes. Plus, he talks about his upcoming move to New York City—why he's making the leap and what this next chapter means. Tune in for real talk, personal reflections, and a look at the exciting changes ahead.

This week, Matt is joined by Dancing with the Stars pro and TikTok sensation Ezra Sosa for a conversation that twirls between heartfelt and hilarious. Ezra opens up about coming out to a deeply religious family, growing up Mormon, and finding freedom through dance. They dive into ballroom drama, showmances, the icks only dancers understand, and the power of embracing your truth. Plus, Matt finally learns how to salsa (kind of).

Matt hosts the first-ever Scaries live show at The Tall Ship in Boston with The Handle Bar—and the chaos did not disappoint. With help from his childhood bestie (🌹), he dives into your wildest dating and situationship questions in real time. From hot takes to honest advice, no question was off limits. Plus, some hilarious crowd stories and spontaneous submissions.

Matt is joined by Boston-based content creator Narcolepsy Betsy to talk all things dating — from falling for your best friend to navigating the chaos of Boston situationships. They swap unfiltered stories, break down the red (and beige) flags, and announce a live Scaries dating event happening in Boston. We’re taking the scaries out of dating… see you there.

Matt is back from his EuroSummer adventures and is hitting the ground running. This week, he’s recapping your Fourth of July Scaries, reading some of his wildest DMs, and sharing the story of his very first time at a gay bar. Plus, a hilariously awkward and mildly embarrassing journey to finally starting PrEP. Just another week of oversharing you didn’t ask for.

Reporting live (and a bit overserved) from a Sardinian hot tub, Matt recaps the emotional aftermath of a recently ended situationship while poking holes in the fantasies of Call Me by Your Name. With surprise guest appearances from his family, an impromptu Italian lesson, and plenty of unfiltered honesty --it’s wet, hot, Italian chaos in its purest form.

To close out Pride Month with the chaos it deserves, Matty’s resident twink Billy Duke is back in the studio—fresh off the sheets of last night’s Upper West Side hookup. After a Memorial Day weekend debut, Billy returns to unpack all the gay sh*t—from transatlantic romances to sugar daddies, wedding date drama, being the other woman, and falling in love with straight men.Halfway through, Billy hijacks the mic and flips the script, grilling Matt on all things bisexuality. It's the perfect sendoff to Pride Month filled with laughter, honesty, and lessons learned the hard way.

We’re back with international best-selling author Nina Purewal for Part 2—and yes, we’re still letting that sh*t go. We kick things off with the chaos of work/life balance, then dive into trauma & grief, and learn how to not give a fuck (kinda). Bonus: Nina closes with a guided meditation to help you chill out, breathe deep, and leave a little lighter.

This week, Matty is joined by bestselling author and mindfulness guru Nina Purewal—his longtime mentor and friend—for a grounding convo on the “chatty mind,” anxiety, and self-doubt.They unpack listener submissions about comparison spirals, feeling behind in life, and dating confusion—all while exploring how to build self-trust and find calm in the chaos. Nina shares her journey from corporate hustle to mindfulness guru, and what it actually takes to start letting go.This is Part 1 of a two-part episode on releasing what no longer serves you—mentally, emotionally, and professionally.

Matty’s best friend Ben Shore returns (last seen in Episode 3) for a chaotic catch-up that covers everything from imposter syndrome to the ethics of sleeping with your boss—and one micropenis sighting we’re still recovering from.

In celebration of the first day of Pride, Matty shares his full coming out story as a bisexual man—from years of silent confusion to the messy, beautiful process of finally living out loud. After a very public straight relationship on The Bachelorette, coming out felt even scarier. How do you explain being somewhere in between when the world expects you to pick a side?We share heartfelt listener messages of support from others navigating their own journeys, followed by excerpts from Matty’s personal journal and answers to some of your most frequently asked questions. From internalized shame to dating in the in-between, this episode dives deep into identity, public image, and what it really means to own your truth.There’s also reflection, hard-won advice, and the reminder that no matter where you are in the process—you’re not alone.

For the first time ever, we’re taking The Scaries out of the studio and into the group chat. This special Memorial Day episode was recorded on a friends weekend with some familiar faces—and some new ones—including the return of Anika Dhar from Episode 4. With strong martinis and even stronger opinions, we dive into dating drama, chaotic friend trip stories, and submissions that spark the kind of unfiltered advice you only get off the clock.

In this episode, Matt is joined by licensed therapist Abby Granigan for a deep (and occasionally unhinged) dive into the psychology behind cheating, why we keep texting our exes, and the surprisingly common roots of foot fetishes. From emotional spirals to kink curiosities to full-blown crashouts, it’s the Sunday Scaries session you didn’t know you needed—without the co-pay.

In this episode, Matt is joined by Matt Kearney, aka Gay Cousin Matt, to dive into the spooky side of corporate life. They spill the tea on scandalous Snapchats, HR horror stories, and Zoom trauma, while also unpacking the chaos of Gen Z vs. Millennials in the workplace, gay dating in Boston, and getting overserved at open bar weddings. Consider this your Sunday Scaries cure before the workweek chaos begins.

This week, Matt dives off the deep end with professional cliff diver Morgane Herculano — and yes, there’s literal diving involved. From conquering a fear of heights to the unexpected risks of active diarrhea mid-competition (yep), Morgane shares what it really takes to throw yourself off a cliff for a living. Plus, your Sunday Scaries submissions spark some freefalling chaos of their own.

Matt is joined by his real-life fitness coaches, Jamie Hines and Darren Battista, for a sweaty (and slightly scandalous) deep dive into gym life. They talk building confidence when you feel out of place at the gym, smart (and realistic) nutrition tips, and the right way to approach your gym crush without being a creep. Equal parts helpful and unhinged, it’s your Sunday Scaries cure with a side of protein.

This week, it’s a Survivor x Bachelorette crossover episode as Matt sits down with his friend Anika Dhar from CBS’s Survivor. Learn how they met—and how they both somehow ended up on reality TV—while they unpack your wild weekends and share stories from their messiest adventures together.There’s tea, there’s chaos, and there’s at least one story that probably shouldn’t have been recorded.

In this episode, Matt is joined by his childhood best friend, Ben Shore, who’s been around since sixth grade and knows all the stories Matt would probably rather forget. From middle school to college and every chaotic phase in between, their friendship has survived it all.Together, they reflect on what it takes to maintain and create new adult friendships, share a few ridiculous (and questionably appropriate) stories, and introduce a new game segment: Would You Rather. Along the way, Matt opens up in a way he hasn’t before—making this episode equal parts hilarious and unexpectedly heartfelt.

Our first-ever guest has joined the show and let's just say she understood the assignment. Boston content queen Kayla Michelle Fisher joins us to break down your wildest, weirdest, and most relatable "Scaries" submissions. From dating red flags to the chaos of modern adulting, we’re reacting and giving unsolicited-yet-somehow-necessary advice from both the His and Her perspective.Expect laughs, hot takes, and just enough emotional damage to make you question your last situationship. Plus, an all-new surprise segment we like to call "The Most Likely Culprit." If you liked the show, leave us a review, give us a rating, and follow us @thescariespod across all platforms. Want to submit your own Scaries? Email us anonymously at ⁠[email protected]⁠. We’ll see you every Sunday at 12pm!

Welcome to The Scaries with Matty Rossi — the ultimate cure for your Sunday Scaries (no prescription required).Each week, Matty reads your wildest weekend stories and does his best to offer some advice… or at least a few laughs to help you survive the spiral and make it to Monday. So buckle up, take a deep breath, and remember: no matter what happened, there’s always someone who did something MUCH worse.If you liked the show, leave us a review, give us a rating, and follow us @thescariespod across all platforms. Want to submit your own Scaries? Email us anonymously at [email protected]’ll see you every Sunday at 12pm!