The Spiritual Realest

In this deeply personal episode of The Spiritual Realest, I open up about what it felt like growing up with spiritual gifts while carrying the pressure of being a minister’s child, battling guilt, hiding my sexuality, and trying to survive under the weight of religion and expectation.For years, I believed I had to choose between being authentic and being connected to God. I share my experiences with prophecy, spiritual encounters, praying my gifts away, and the emotional exhaustion that came from constantly feeling like I had to be “on” for everyone around me while secretly struggling within myself.This episode is about what happens when guilt becomes heavier than your gifts. It’s about the moment I realized that my spirituality and my authenticity were never supposed to be enemies. I talk about suppressing parts of myself to feel accepted, the freedom I found outside of religious shame, and the powerful realization that my gifts never actually left me — they were simply waiting for me to return to myself fully and honestly.I also share spiritual practices and tools that helped me reconnect with my highest self, including lavender rituals, spiritual cleansing, and transformational healing practices that supported me on my journey.If you’ve ever felt trapped between who you are and who you were taught you had to be in order to deserve God’s love, this conversation is for you.I’m Scarlet Drought. Earthly good and heavenly minded. Subscribe on YouTube @thespiritualrealestFollow on Instagram @thespiritualrealest

Grief doesn’t always come from loss in the way we were taught to recognize it. Sometimes it shows up in the quiet spaces… in friendships that fade without conflict, in identities we outgrow, and in versions of ourselves we had to release to become who we are today.In this episode, I open up about the subtle forms of grief we don’t always acknowledge—the kind that doesn’t come with closure, but still leaves an imprint. From seasonal friendships to personal transformation, and even the deeply emotional process of redefining my spiritual identity, this conversation is about recognizing what we’ve lost… even when it wasn’t taken from us.I share my journey through change, including the grief of letting go of who I once was, the confidence I carried, and the beliefs I was raised in. This is not about regret—it’s about honesty. It’s about understanding that growth requires release, and that grief is not always a sign that something went wrong. Sometimes it’s simply a sign that something mattered.If you’ve ever felt the weight of change, questioned who you’re becoming, or struggled to let go of what once felt like home, this episode is for you.Grief comes in all shapes—physical, emotional, and spiritual. And if we don’t take the time to acknowledge it, it has a way of living in the body.Take a moment with me to breathe, to release, and to recognize that healing doesn’t always come from moving on—it comes from allowing yourself to feel.Subscribe on YouTube @thespiritualrealestFollow on Instagram @thespiritualrealest

In this episode of The Spiritual Realest, I take you into a deeply personal and honest conversation about what it really means to question your faith and why that doesn’t make you less connected to God, but possibly closer.I begin by grounding us in intention and energy, creating space for clarity, truth, and alignment. From there, I open up about my journey as a pastor’s kid, raised in the church, deeply rooted in Christianity, and fully committed to knowing God. But everything shifted when I was introduced to the idea that there may be more than one way to connect with Him.That moment did not shake my belief in God. It challenged the system I was taught.This episode explores what happens when the foundation you have always known starts to expand. What do you do when your spirit is curious, but your upbringing tells you to stay still. What do you do when the math is not making sense and your questions will not go away. I walk through that tension, the confusion, the fear, and the curiosity, and how it ultimately led me into a more personal and intimate relationship with God.We talk about the difference between questioning God and questioning the system you learned Him through. We explore why spiritual curiosity is not rebellion but growth. I share how important it is to test and try the spirit in every space, not just within religion. We also discuss letting go of fear and allowing it to push you toward deeper understanding, and the truth that God is not confined to one path, one practice, or one system.If you have ever felt guilty for asking questions, if you have ever wondered if there is more, or if you have ever felt your spirit pulling you in a direction you did not fully understand, this episode is for you.This week, I challenge you to approach God differently. Ask. Seek. Be open. Trust that the same God you have always known is big enough to meet you wherever you are and guide you to exactly where you are meant to be.Asking questions does not mean you are losing your faith. It might mean you are deepening it.Subscribe on YouTube @thespiritualrealestFollow on Instagram @thespiritualrealest

Grief is not limited to death, and in this episode I open up about the kinds of loss that often go unrecognized or unspoken. I share how I have experienced grief through unmet desires, ended relationships, identity shifts, and the quiet sacrifices I made to meet expectations that were never truly mine.I talk about what it felt like to let go of a path I deeply wanted, walking away from a long-term relationship that was rooted in love, and navigating the loss of identity as I stepped into my truth. None of these moments involved death, but each of them required me to grieve, process, and heal.This conversation is about giving myself, and you, permission to acknowledge the losses we are often told to move on from without pause. I have learned that when I ignore these experiences, I carry them with me unresolved. When I face them, I create space for real healing.Grief shows up in the loss of who I thought I would be, the life I imagined, the relationships I outgrew, and the versions of myself I had to release. Every loss deserves recognition, and every moment of grief deserves care.I want you to know that you are allowed to grieve what mattered to you, even if the world did not.Subscribe on YouTube @thespiritualrealestFollow on Instagram @thespiritualrealest

What does it really mean to embrace duality?In this episode of The Spiritual Realest, we dive deep into the truth about duality, self-acceptance, and spiritual growth. Too often, we are taught to only show our “light” side while suppressing the parts of us that are protective, reactive, or powerful. But real healing comes from accepting both.Using the powerful example of the yarrow plant, which can both stop bleeding and promote blood flow, this episode explores how duality exists in nature, in spirituality, and within ourselves. From day and night to love and wrath, even God embodies duality. So why are we taught to reject it within ourselves?This episode breaks down: How to embrace both your light and dark sides  Why self-acceptance is key to personal growth  The connection between duality and authenticity  Letting go of shame and societal expectations Don't be afraid to confront the parts of yourself you’ve been hiding and begin the journey toward becoming your most authentic self.Because you can be loving and protective. Peaceful and powerful. And anybody can f&#k around and find out!Duality is not a weakness. It’s your truth.Please take a quick moment to leave us a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify! Thank you for listening!!!Subscribe on YouTube @thespiritualrealestFollow on Instagram @thespiritualrealest

This episode is personal.I’m sharing the beginning of my Ifa journey. Not from a place of having all the answers, but from a place of obedience, curiosity, and truth. This is me being honest about what I’ve felt, what I’ve questioned, and what I’m learning as I take these first steps.For a lot of people, Ifa is misunderstood. It’s been mislabeled, judged, and spoken on without real knowledge. I’m not here to debate or convince anyone. I’m here to speak my truth and walk in what feels aligned for me.This journey is spiritual, but it’s also real. It comes with unlearning, discernment, and moments where I’ve had to sit with myself in ways I never have before.I’m still learning. I’m still growing. And I’m choosing to share this part of my life openly.If you’ve ever felt called to something deeper, something that doesn’t fit into what you were taught, this conversation might resonate with you.This is just the beginning.Subscribe on YouTube @thespiritualrealestFollow on Instagram @thespiritualrealest

In this episode, I’m clearing the air on something that has been misunderstood for generations. Hoodoo versus Voodoo.I grew up hearing these words used interchangeably, often tied to fear, myths, or things that were never fully explained. But the truth is, while both have African roots and carry deep ancestral power, they are not the same. And understanding that difference matters.I walk you through what Hoodoo really is. A spiritual practice rooted in African American history, developed in the South, and built on survival, prayer, scripture, and everyday spiritual work. Hoodoo is not a religion. It is personal. It is practical. It is about protection, healing, manifestation, and using spiritual tools like oils, herbs, candles, and prayer to navigate life.I also break down what Voodoo is. A full spiritual system and religion with structure, initiation, priesthood, ceremony, and community. Voodoo is not something you casually step into. It is something you belong to. It requires guidance, discipline, and respect.In this conversation, I also speak on responsibility. Spiritual work is not something to play with. Whether it is Hoodoo, Voodoo, tarot, or any form of spiritual practice, intention matters, protection matters, and alignment with God matters.We talk about free will, why I do not believe in doing work on others without consent, and why spiritual practices should always start with prayer, discernment, and understanding. I also share how tools like the Seven African Powers oil, Psalms 91, and intentional prayer can be used for protection and grounding in your daily life.This episode is for anyone who has been curious about Hoodoo, Voodoo, African spirituality, root work, or spiritual practices but wants clarity without fear or misinformation.This is not about trends or aesthetics. This is about culture, history, faith, and spiritual responsibility.Follow The Spiritual Realest on Spotify and Apple Podcasts and leave a review if this episode gave you clarity or shifted your perspective. That is how we grow and continue reaching people who need this information.Make sure you are following and engaging with me on Instagram so we can continue the conversation and build a deeper understanding together.I’m Scarlet Draught. Heavenly minded but earthly good.Subscribe on YouTube @thespiritualrealestFollow on Instagram @thespiritualrealest

I grew up in a Pentecostal home, deeply rooted in Christianity, prayer, and tradition. And while I will always be grateful for that foundation, I knew early on that I had questions. Questions about God, about spirituality, and about whether there was more beyond what I was taught in church.In this first episode of The Spiritual Realest, I’m speaking my truth. I’m sharing how my spiritual journey evolved from a traditional Christian upbringing into exploring deeper spiritual practices like Palo Santo, tarot cards, astrology, and connecting with my ancestors.I open up about a powerful spiritual reading that changed everything for me, when my grandfather came through and affirmed who I am, what I carry, and what I was called to do. That moment helped me release guilt, embrace my spiritual gifts, and understand that my path was never meant to look like everyone else’s.This is not about leaving God. This is about understanding Him more deeply.I still pray. I still stand on the Word. I still believe in God as the ultimate creator. But I have also learned that spirituality can include multiple tools and experiences that bring you closer to Him in a more personal and intimate way.If you have ever felt curious about spirituality, questioned your beliefs, struggled with guilt for wanting to explore things like tarot or astrology, or felt like you did not fully fit into traditional religion, this episode is for you.We are talking about faith, spirituality, Christian upbringing, personal growth, energy, manifestation, and what it really means to walk your own path with God.Follow The Spiritual Realest on Spotify and Apple Podcasts and leave a review if this episode speaks to you. That is how we grow and reach more people who need this message.Make sure you are following and engaging with me on Instagram so we can continue the conversation and build this community together.I’m Scarlet Draught. Heavenly minded but earthly good.Subscribe on YouTube @thespiritualrealestFollow on Instagram @thespiritualrealest

My mask is coming off and I’m inviting you into my real journey. Not the version of spirituality that looks good on the outside, but the one I live through as I learn, unlearn, and grow into who I truly am.“Peel it back… get to the truth… find your way home.”This space is honest and judgement free. It is me choosing to be both heavenly minded and grounded in real life at the same time.If you have ever questioned your path, your purpose, or who you are becoming, you are not alone. This is where the conversation begins.Welcome to The Spiritual Realest.Subscribe on YouTube @thespiritualrealestFollow on Instagram @thespiritualrealest