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So......this week we get to grieve in real time with Ab as she shares the huge loss of a patriarch in her family.  Hear some of the best memories from her childhood (and adulthood) and the most beautiful love story you'll ever hear.  Send us Fan MailThere There, you got thisFind me on Facebook, Instagram, and my homepage, There There

Hello there!  Ab gets super confused about what cross purposes means.  She discusses how difficult it's been for her and Ken both with him home for so long, and also sings his praises, because he really truly is an excellent man.  Also, book reviews and discussions are back!  Find out her book goal for the year and how far along she's gotten.  Whoops!Send us Fan MailThere There, you got thisFind me on Facebook, Instagram, and my homepage, There There

Where do I start?  Welcome to another shit show of clusterfucky goodness.  I had some gummies and recorded, and actually produced a pretty decent episode with realizations and life lessons.  I finally share my concert experience with A, and then go into what I'm currently up to and things I'm learning through it all.  I also share one of my favourite stories ever including my Mom.  Thanks for tuning in for another week.  Send us Fan MailThere There, you got thisFind me on Facebook, Instagram, and my homepage, There There

Helloooooo there!  Welcome to Episode something where Ab goes on and on and on about her personal life and then finally gets to the topic of dreams.  Demonic libraries anyone?  She trips over small, easy words, but flies through the difficult rarely spoken vocabulary like a hot knife through buttah.  Come, join us.Send us Fan MailThere There, you got thisFind me on Facebook, Instagram, and my homepage, There There

Hellooooooo there!  Welcome to week....something.  Ab goes long (GO LONG!) and tells stories about how she always feels left out and lonely, even in a crowded room.  Starting with a big rant of how much her mother in law sucks.  Join me this week in realizing that if you're experiencing these kinds of treatment and situations, you're not alone.  You don't suck, everyone else sucks. Send us Fan MailThere There, you got thisFind me on Facebook, Instagram, and my homepage, There There

Hello there!  This week you get to hear how the anniversary trip went!  It was nothing short of the best trip ever.  Ab talks about the heaviest things going on right now, and shares how her husband and she are discussing a divorce to better their marriage.  You are amazing!!!Send us Fan MailThere There, you got thisFind me on Facebook, Instagram, and my homepage, There There

Welcome to yet another week with Ab!  (How many more weeks can I say that?)  This week's Oracle card has a lot of interesting stuff to say which is applicable to gaining independence from whatever's weighing you down.  Hear how Ab ended up with her husband a whopping 25 years ago and what she did on her last first date.  It's a bit of a short one this week but a good one nonetheless.  Also, a bonus of hearing Ab try to get information from her husband in real time.  Send us Fan MailThere There, you got thisFind me on Facebook, Instagram, and my homepage, There There

Welcome back for another week of Ab's rants.  Today we're continuing on with flirty shit, lesbian thirst traps, and wondering why anyone cares about who someone goes to bed with.  Let's be Vikings!  Send us Fan MailThere There, you got thisFind me on Facebook, Instagram, and my homepage, There There

Hello there!  Welcome to week....something.  Very exciting life updates and showing up when you just don't feel like it.  Being yourself in your rawest form is why we're here - and I'm showing it in real time this week.  Talking about being drawn to people and not being drawn to people, friendships, relationships, break-ups, and finding your people after trying so hard to fit in.  Send us Fan MailThere There, you got thisFind me on Facebook, Instagram, and my homepage, There There

Helloooooo there!  Welcome to Episode 11 where I discuss my biggest discovery in life - women can NOT do it all.  I chat about my difficulties in trying to be a full time mom, employee, and side hustler and how it's just not possible.  And tattoo stories abound.  Thanks for hanging out with me for another week - it's a gooder, like usual.Send us Fan MailThere There, you got thisFind me on Facebook, Instagram, and my homepage, There There

Happy New Years!!  For Auld Lang Syne.....(ya, sorry about that).  Join 2026 Ab as she gives positive life updates, describes her Christmas and New Years, and delves into why do we punish ourselves spending time with blood relatives and making ourselves miserable on the holidays instead of prioritizing our mental health and ensuring we only have positive memories to preserve.  Seriously now?  November 28 it is.  And, true to form, lots of tangerines.  This was a really fun episode to record and it felt true to my vision.  I hope you enjoy it as much as I do!Send us Fan MailThere There, you got thisFind me on Facebook, Instagram, and my homepage, There There

Merry Christmas to my listeners!!  I am so happy that my episode releases today, Christmas Day.  I chat about updates, go over mourning at Christmas time, and Santa around the world.  I also tangerine all over the place which is typical.  Thank you to all of my listeners and followers around the world - you are special and important and I am so glad you're on this Earth with me.  Nothing can dim the lights which shine from within - let your light shine just like Rudolph's nose.Follow Santa's journey all over the world at Official NORAD Tracks SantaSend us Fan MailThere There, you got thisFind me on Facebook, Instagram, and my homepage, There There

Hello there!  Ab finally gets to the concerts - quickly.  Of course there's a few tangerines and reminders that we're all human and we all need some There There energy.  See you on Christmas Day!!Send us Fan MailThere There, you got thisFind me on Facebook, Instagram, and my homepage, There There

Hello there!  Join Ab this week as she talks about concerts, just not the ones she was supposed to talk about.  Ab tries something new this week, talks about her recent health problems that are finally getting better (sorta), and talks about music.  It's a fun one today being passionate and excited about things.  Even though I leave with a cliffhanger.Send us Fan MailThere There, you got thisFind me on Facebook, Instagram, and my homepage, There There

Ok so......I did an episode and I was so out of it I guess I didn't publish it.  Awesome.  So here goes I guess!Send us Fan MailThere There, you got thisFind me on Facebook, Instagram, and my homepage, There There

It's a good day to have a good day!  Welcome to There There Season 2 Episode 5!  I get into the nitty gritty of the female reproductive system and how much being a woman sucks.  Ok it's not that deep, but I do chat about my experiences with multiple OBGYN's and my current issues with fighting for my health.  I also talk about really random shit like usual.  Tune in and join me for another week of tangerines and outrage.  Maybe that should be my new podcast name. Send us Fan MailThere There, you got thisFind me on Facebook, Instagram, and my homepage, There There

Hey!! We're back to shoot the shit together.  Ok I got a little passionate.  And tangerined all the way off the tracks and path and the side of the fucking hill with fire sticks.  However, I had fun, and kept it fairly light for a rainy Wednesday.  You'll have to listen to know what I'm referencing ;) Send us Fan MailThere There, you got thisFind me on Facebook, Instagram, and my homepage, There There

All your weight, it falls on me, it brings me down.  Big topic of the week - sexual abuse.  Ab has experienced more than anyone knows and wants to bring this archaic system to the front so we're talking about it and defending ourselves from it.  If you or someone you know has experienced sexual abuse in any form, go to https://endingviolencecanada.org/.  There are links for phone numbers and email addresses.  Tell someone.  Talk to someone.  Get it off your chest.  You are not alone.  The statistics shared speak loud volumes that should not exist.  And please, even it is your last resort, click on one of my links or find me on tik tok @abjbaer and talk to me.  I'm happy to listen without judgement.  Do not sit silently.  Speak out.  You got this!!!But also, Lizzie Borden on my podcast would be EPIC.  Or my deck, drinking wine and smoking a J.Ab's childhood sexual assault is discussed in S1E12 if you haven't listened or need a refresher.Link to the infographic read on the podcast: Canada.ca/ItsNotJustSend us Fan MailThere There, you got thisFind me on Facebook, Instagram, and my homepage, There There

Hello there!  Unexpectedly the Ab family had a family emergency and had to skip a week; she's back this week to talk about it and everything else!  So many tangerines - my EPIC birthday party, why I've been too busy to record, some family time, Archie and Beetle Bailey, and more.  Grief is included, no added fees or taxes.  Anyone got a dirty kleenex for me?  Come on, all together now, There There, you got this.Send us Fan MailThere There, you got thisFind me on Facebook, Instagram, and my homepage, There There

She's back for Season 2 of There There!  Join Ab this week (finally) and hear why she abandoned you for 4 months over the summer and how she clearly has not learned her lesson yet.  With a very phallic microphone, Ab talks about her summer and her new acquisition.  Send us Fan MailThere There, you got thisFind me on Facebook, Instagram, and my homepage, There There

Season 1 ends with some pretty emotional talk!  Ab discusses getting off the struggle bus slowly but surely, the crazy neighbour lady, and the last time she ever saw her sister in person.  It's a wild ride (why else are you here?) and I'm extremely grateful for everyone's support in my first season.  See you for a bonus summer episode (or more) and I'll be back in September.  Thank you for your listening ears as I worked out some speed bumps.  Remember - YOU GOT THIS!Find me on Facebook, Instagram, and my homepage, There There Send us Fan MailThere There, you got thisFind me on Facebook, Instagram, and my homepage, There There

Ab's here for her second to last episode of the season!  She talks about what's going on lately which is basically sitting in every fucking seat on the struggle bus.  What she's learning from Sober May is definitely eye opening.  She talks about childhood emotions, regulating adult emotions, recognizing childhood emotions are not capable of comprehending adult emotions, and basic life updates.  You got this!!Find me on Facebook, Instagram, and my homepage, There ThereSend us Fan MailThere There, you got thisFind me on Facebook, Instagram, and my homepage, There There

Hello friends!  Welcome to Episode 22 where I had to keep it short because life is fucking crazy.  I still made it through and got an episode out day of!!  I chat about life updates, the origin of Mother's Day, and how what goes around comes around (one of my favourite Justin Timberlake songs thankyouverymuch).  Thanks for joining me for another week and I'm excited to wrap up this season with a bang in the next couple of weeks!!  I can't believe I kept it relatively trauma free this week - isn't that the whole point of my podcast?  Send us Fan MailThere There, you got thisFind me on Facebook, Instagram, and my homepage, There There

Ab got ditched this week (kidding) so she's here to talk about her crazy life, how she spent the weekend celebrating Christmas with her kids, and everything in between.  This includes Sober May (eeeeek), subconscious dreams/nightmares whatever you want to call it about her sister, and how she's discovered she's healing without all the mumbo jumbo.  Life is hard; let's try to do it together.Find me on Facebook, Instagram, and my homepage, There There Send us Fan MailThere There, you got thisFind me on Facebook, Instagram, and my homepage, There There

Join Ab for Episode 20!!  I give life updates, how I spent my Easter weekend, and just kind of yap away.  Hear about my sink debacles and my realization that a new car just isn't in my cards right now.  Also, if you could like, share, subscribe, that would be awesome.Find me on Facebook, Instagram, and my homepage, There There Send us Fan MailThere There, you got thisFind me on Facebook, Instagram, and my homepage, There There

Join Ab as she tangerines all over the fucking place in between talking about her Dad and how it's been 25 years since he passed, the psycho neighbour update, and a rude guy at work.  Ab is feeling empowered and nothing can stop her now!  Also, I warn you, I sing.  A couple of times.  Find me on Facebook, Instagram, and my homepage, There There   Send us Fan MailThere There, you got thisFind me on Facebook, Instagram, and my homepage, There There

Join Ab as she continues on with her complicated mother/daughter relationship.  Finally find out how Blossom helped Ab see it all in a practical light, and hear all the stories good and bad that shaped what has become.  Some worse than others.Find me on Facebook, Instagram, and my homepage, There There   Send us Fan MailThere There, you got thisFind me on Facebook, Instagram, and my homepage, There There

Hang out with Ab this week as she discusses life updates, today's tattoo adventure, and her relationship with her mother.  Ab tangerines a lot and forgets to finish the story about Blossom and is on a strict time constraint.  So join me this week for some hopefully relatable tough relationship dynamics and come back next week for more thoughts and experiences. Send us Fan MailThere There, you got thisFind me on Facebook, Instagram, and my homepage, There There

Woohoo someone responded!  Join Ab and Alex this week as we discuss THE NEIGHBOURS *dun dun dun*.  Ab spends a long time detailing as much as she can think of in her experiences with her neighbours from hell covering 9 years in total.  Alex talks stiffies and meat pounding (it's not what you think ;) ) and we tangerine a lot, as we do.  A wild ride of an episode; don't miss this one!  Find me on Facebook, Instagram, and my homepage, There There  Send us Fan MailThere There, you got thisFind me on Facebook, Instagram, and my homepage, There There

Join Ab this week for episode 15 (one quarter, obv) and get your eardrums burst.  I'm so sorry!  I totally forgot a few weekly updates but I shared a few.  I tangerine quite a bit and get startled by an unwelcome farm pet.  Finally I get to the meat and bones of this week's podcast: Celebrating International Women's Day.  I reveal the impressionable women in my life from the ones that raised me to the ones that are impacting my life now, recognizing beautiful female souls and their individuality and strength.Come check me out on Facebook, There There Podcast, and my episode webpage There There  Send us Fan MailThere There, you got thisFind me on Facebook, Instagram, and my homepage, There There

Welcome to Episode 14 where I'm not sure if it's 14 or not.  Come along with me as I discover what it's like to podcast for apparently the first time ever.  I set up a website in real time, talk about my day that involves getting pulled over by a police officer, the sudden loss of 4 important people in my life and how it's affected me, as well as how to avoid being scammed.  Then child #2 joins me to talk about his previous experiences with feeling "dark" and the Kids' Help Phone, as well as being bullied in high school.  Some things never change.  Find me on Facebook, Instagram, or email me [email protected].  You can also newly find my episodes at There There on Buzzsprout.  Also, the Kids' Help Phone can be reached at either 1-800-668-6868, Text CONNECT to 686868, or live chat on kidshelpphone.ca.  They've been detrimental in our lives and I will praise them to the moon.  Send us Fan MailThere There, you got thisFind me on Facebook, Instagram, and my homepage, There There

Join Ab and Alex this week as we chat about fat shaming, podcast changes, human interactions, and many other tangerines.  Check out our podcast on  Facebook  Instagram or contact me by email @ [email protected]  I'd love to hear from you!  Also check out the lovely Jennifer Victor on Youtube: Jennifer Victor - YouTubeSend us Fan MailThere There, you got thisFind me on Facebook, Instagram, and my homepage, There There

I'm here to bum you out for another week.  Warnings: includes descriptions of childhood sexual abuse and bullying.  Ab discusses the childhood sexual abuse she experienced as well as being micromanaged every time she came near a piece of food from the earliest memory until now.  Heavy subjects surrounded by random topics that pop into Ab's head.  Tune in for a story about a warm apple pie candle.  It wouldn't be There There without some uncomfortable topics sandwiched in comedy.  Send us Fan MailThere There, you got thisFind me on Facebook, Instagram, and my homepage, There There

Hey!!  Come hang out with Ab and Alex and get totally bummed out hearing about the shittiest part of life.  Learn about self-care during crippling grief, what you can do when you're grieving, and the only rule I have for whether or not I'm nice to you.  (Spoiler alert: it's in the episode title)  Also, finally find out if Ab ever figured out that fucking weed whacker.Send us Fan MailThere There, you got thisFind me on Facebook, Instagram, and my homepage, There There

We made it to Episode double digits!!!  How exciting!!!  An entire episode of friendly chatter including a hot start with the Simpsons, ski hills, personal life catching up, Alexa interruptions, cell phone addictions, ADHD stims, alcoholic beverage stigmas for men from the 1990's, Gimli Manitoba, an old lady with a narrow throat, vegan carrots, dictator burgers, cannoli vs cannelloni, beets and brussels sprouts (5x), Ab's brain, and covering meat the fuck.  Also a couple There There's to my family dealing with grief.  It's a jam-packed episode for our big 1-0 and I'm really excited to share my back-and-forths with Alex this week.  Send us Fan MailThere There, you got thisFind me on Facebook, Instagram, and my homepage, There There

Come hang out with Ab and Alex this week.  Find out what Ab's been up to, listen to some basic back and forth conversation between friends, and then join us as Ab learns about politics in *sort of* laymen's terms (ha ha) and puts Celine Dion, Bryan Adams, and Justin Beiber in seats, from a former political science student.  Send us Fan MailThere There, you got thisFind me on Facebook, Instagram, and my homepage, There There

Ab didn't prepare enough so she went it alone today.  Discussing a day in the life, being mature adults, Socrates being a badass dude, and how books are better than children.  In my opinion at least.  Find us on our socials - Facebook is There There - A Podcast, Instagram is @theretherepodcast and email which is stated incorrectly in the podcast, is [email protected].  Please laugh and enjoy with Ab as she nervously takes center stage this week and tries to fill an hour.  Or so.  Send us Fan MailThere There, you got thisFind me on Facebook, Instagram, and my homepage, There There

Today's guest host is none other than Ab's husband!  He's a little quiet which she makes up for easily, but their banter and own personal success story is sure to entertain.  They're very unconventional but hey, this is a non-judgemental kinda place.  Go on lots and lots of tangents with us and hear about mortal kombat, who likes hair bands (not the accessory) and SQUIRREL!!!Send us Fan MailThere There, you got thisFind me on Facebook, Instagram, and my homepage, There There

Today 3 pieces of Ab's heart join her to talk about trauma processing from their perspectives, what their interests are, and what a skibidi toilet is.  I still don't get it though.  *This episode is family friendly but with heavy subject matterSend us Fan MailThere There, you got thisFind me on Facebook, Instagram, and my homepage, There There

With a special guest, Ab discusses past and current holiday traditions.  Solstice?  Christmas?  Sultry Succulent Saturnalia?  Whatever your traditions, hear what Ab and Alex do for their holidays and learn some history.  Also, many many unpaid plugs and we lose Alex in food talk.  Twice.  Did Ab ever meet Jared Keeso?  Listen to see if she even knows.  Send us Fan MailThere There, you got thisFind me on Facebook, Instagram, and my homepage, There There

Hang out with us this week to hear how Ab and Kizmit met and we discuss attraction as well as our Lord and Savior Fred DurstSend us Fan MailThere There, you got thisFind me on Facebook, Instagram, and my homepage, There There

Today's topics include the clusterfuck that is Ab's trauma - what lead to it all, the crap in between, and healing from it.  We also go on a few tangents, which is what we do.Send us Fan MailThere There, you got thisFind me on Facebook, Instagram, and my homepage, There There

Today we get to know Kizmit, my cohost.  We talk about shit noses, our families, and Kizmit's condensed version of her life thus far.Send us Fan MailThere There, you got thisFind me on Facebook, Instagram, and my homepage, There There

The Pilot.  We get to know a bit about Ab and Kizmit and dive a little bit into Ab.  Who and what made her who she is?  Join us and get to know your host for week one.Send us Fan MailThere There, you got thisFind me on Facebook, Instagram, and my homepage, There There

What's to come with There ThereSend us Fan MailThere There, you got thisFind me on Facebook, Instagram, and my homepage, There There