Throuple Talk Podcast

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Throuple Talk Podcast

Throuple Talk’s mission is to unite throuples around the world and to bring help, hope, and community to those in egalitarian plural relationships by sharing the wisdom we've gathered as a result of our personal, real-world experience, as well as interviews with our guests.Whether you're already in a polyamorous relationship or still dipping your toes in the water to see if polyamory is right for you, we hope you find our podcast to be your go-to resource for information and encouragement.

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    #57: Breakups, Proposals & Building a Home Together | Interview with @YourLocalThrouple

    In this episode of Throuple Talk Podcast, we sit down with Sara, Zack, and Kyla to talk about what it really takes to build a life together as a throuple.From dealing with insecurity and rebuilding trust after a breakup, to moving into a new home and the story behind Kyla’s proposal, they share their unfiltered journey of loving deeply in a relationship of three. This episode is full of honesty, connection, and reminders that there’s more than one way to build a beautiful life.🎧 Listen in as we explore: • How they came back stronger after breaking up • What helped them handle jealousy and insecurity • What type of man can be in a relationship with two women • The proposal that united all three • What it feels like to build a home filled with love—times three.Follow their journey on Instagram and YouTube: ​⁠ @YourLocalThrouple  .If you'd like to send us a 📞 voice message, click here: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk/messageJoin our Facebook Community, Throuple Talk’s Connection Hub: https://www.facebook.com/groups/367901899061611👀 Watch or 🎧 listen on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, and Audible: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk#throuple #polyamory #podcast

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    #56 - Tools for Throuples: The Non-Monogamy Card Game Paves the Way to Deep Connection

    Welcome back to the Throuple Talk Podcast! In this episode, we’re joined by Ayala and Kristen—two Northern California-based psychotherapists and the brilliant minds behind The Non-Monogamy Card Game. Designed for curious newbies and seasoned polyam folks alike, this thoughtful game is a relationship tool made to spark deep conversations, clarify agreements, and strengthen intentional connections.We explore the inspiration behind the game, how their clinical work with non-monogamous clients shaped the design, and why communication is the core of any successful open relationship. From navigating sensitive topics to drawing a card live on air, this episode is packed with insights, laughs, and actionable wisdom.🎴 Hear the origin story of the game💬 Learn how it facilitates tough but essential conversations🛠 Get tips for first-time players❤️ And see how a simple card can lead to powerful breakthroughs🔗 Explore the game: thenonmonogamycardgame.comWhether you’re solo-poly, polyamorous, open, or exploring, this episode is for you!#nonmonogamy #polyamory #relationshiptools #ThroupleTalk #cardgamesforadults #intentionalrelationships

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    #55 - 🍄 Psychedelics, Non-Monogamy & Throuple Therapy: A Radical New Approach with Nicole Thompson

    We’re back with a brand new topic! In this episode we sit down with sex and relationship psychotherapist Nicole Thompson, an expert in psychedelic integration therapy and non-monogamous relationship structures. 🍄We explore: • What psychedelics really are — and how they can deepen intimacy • The intersection of psychedelic therapy and ethical non-monogamy • How couples and throuples can use these tools to prepare for polyamory or ENM • Tips for bringing up psychedelics with a partner • Legal considerations and how to access this kind of therapyNicole shares her journey from conservative purity culture to queer sex radical, offering grounded insights for those ready to explore healing, pleasure, and connection on a deeper level.✨ Whether you’re curious about psychedelic therapy, polyamory, or the throuple relationship — this episode will expand your perspective.🔗 Learn more about Nicole: modernanarchypodcast.com🔗 Nicole’s Psychedelics Jealousy Guide: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/psychedelicjealousyguide🔗 Fireside Project to minimize the risks of psychedelic experiences : https://firesideproject.org#PsychedelicTherapy #NonMonogamy #ThroupleTherapy #SexAndRelationships #ENM #Polyamory #RelationshipAnarchy #NicoleThompson #PsychedelicsAndSex #ConsciousRelationships

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    Exclusive Invitation: Relationship Retreat for Ladies in Throuples 💖

    ✨ Exciting Announcement: Women’s Throuple Retreat! ✨ We’re thrilled to introduce the first-ever relationship retreat exclusively for women in throuples! Join us April 11-13, just outside Austin, TX for a transformative weekend focused on deepening your connection, fostering community, and prioritizing your relationship in a peaceful, luxury “glamping” retreat setting. 💖 Why Attend? ✔ Deepen your bond with the woman you love. ✔ Connect other women in throuples who truly understand your journey. ✔ Strengthen your relationship with meaningful workshops led by us & special guests, Dr. Rachael Meir and her wife, Kasey. ✔ Enjoy activities like yoga, fire pits, hiking trails, and more at a beautiful spiritual retreat center. ✔ Experience a small, intimate setting (only 12 spots - 6 dyads - total!)—and we have just ONE spot left! ✨ Register before February 12 for an early-bird discount! ✨ 🔗 Join our private Facebook group, Throuple Talk's Connection Hub, for details & booking: https://www.facebook.com/groups/367901899061611 💡 Watching after the event? Sign up to be notified of future retreats and special offerings! If you'd like to send us a 📞 voice message, click here: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk/message 👀 Watch or 🎧 listen on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, and Audible: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk #ThroupleTalk #WomenInThrouples #RelationshipRetreat #LGBTQCommunity

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    #54 - Strengthening 1-on-1 Relationships Within A Throuple | How Healthy Dyads Conquer FOMO & Jealousy

    In a throuple, the strength of each 1-on-1 relationship (aka, “dyad”) will make or break the relationship. We are Char, Josh, and Liv, a throuple that lives together and is raising kids together. In this episode, we share how we have learned to make space for the individual dyads within our polyamorous triad. From discussing the practical logistics of how we make time for each relationship (arranging childcare, sharing calendars, etc.) to how we address challenges such as jealousy and FOMO, we hope this conversation is helpful for any poly family that wants to make sure each relationship thrives and experiences more fulfillment, support, and compersion! If you'd like to send us a 📞 voice message, click here: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk/message Join our Facebook Community, Throuple Talk’s Connection Hub: https://www.facebook.com/groups/367901899061611 👀 Watch or 🎧 listen on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, and Audible: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk #throuple #polyamory #podcast

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    #52 - Why These Men Are Thankful to Share a Love for This Woman

    Tyler, Crystal, and Robin are a polyamorous “V” MFM triad with Crystal as the hinge partner, who all live and raise children together. Listen in to hear how their relationship dynamic works so well for each of them and why, knowing what they know now, none of them would choose a different family structure. Their beautiful story of deep, abiding love, coupled with resilience and commitment to personal growth, is sure to be an inspiration. Join our Throuple Community, Throuple Talk’s Connection Hub: https://www.facebook.com/groups/367901899061611 If you'd like to send us a 📞 voice message, click here: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk/message 👀 Watch or 🎧 listen on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, and Audible: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk

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    #51 - How To Let Go of the Old To Embrace the New | Changing Relationships To Become A Throuple

    In this episode, Missi, Brian, and Lisa share what makes their bonds strong enough to transcend international borders, including how Lisa helped Brian and Missi reframe the changes that needed to happen in their couple relationship in order to make space for a healthy throuple relationship to form. Join our Throuple Community, Throuple Talk’s Connection Hub: https://www.facebook.com/groups/367901899061611 If you'd like to send us a 📞 voice message, click here: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk/message 👀 Watch or 🎧 listen on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, and Audible: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk #throuple #polyamory #podcast

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    #50 - Experiences in Matriarchal Polyamory From A Polyamorous Elder | Susan Bratton

    In this episode, Susan Bratton shares insights on how embracing matriarchal polyamory has impacted her life, both personally and professionally. As a polyamorous elder with decades of experience in the poly community, she offers unique perspectives to consider. Listen in as she opens up about both the joys and trials she has faced, and tells what she would do differently. To connect with Susan, follow her on Instagram, Threads, and OnlyFans @susanbratton or visit her website http://susanbratton.com/. Join our Throuple Community, Throuple Talk’s Connection Hub: https://www.facebook.com/groups/367901899061611 If you'd like to send us a 📞 voice message, click here: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk/message 👀 Watch or 🎧 listen on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, and Audible: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk #throupletherapy #throuple #polyamory #podcast #egalitarianpluralrelationship #egalitarianpluralmarriage 

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    #49 - Confronting Lies About Sexuality w/ Dr. Danielle Kramer, Certified Sexologist & Sex Therapist

    Regardless of whether you ever personally believed the restrictions and stigmas that purity culture and other toxic ideologies have used to shame our sexuality, these faulty beliefs have far-reaching negative impacts on our lives and relationships. In this episode, Dr. Danielle Kramer, a certified sex therapist and board-certified clinical sexologist, joins Char, Josh, and Liv to discuss the ways these damaging teachings are influencing our relationships, regardless of our personal beliefs. Char, Josh, and Liv are a throuple that lives and raises their children together in Texas. Through open and honest conversations they aim to change societal relationship norms by proving that monogamy is not the only healthy relationship structure. Dr. Danielle Kramer (she/they) is a certified sex therapist and board-certified clinical sexologist who splits their time between clinical practice, research, and consulting. In clinical practice, Dr. Kramer specializes in the care of LGBTQ+ folks and women’s/AFAB (assigned female at birth) sexual health. Dr. Kramer was raised in purity culture and devotes a significant amount of their practice to working with religious and sexual trauma, as well as being the only certified sex therapist in the Florida Panhandle providing gender-affirming care. In research, Dr. Kramer focuses on misogyny in the US, abortion care and access, and AFAB sexual health. Dr. Kramer also consults at the local, state, and national levels on the politics and policy of abortion care and access. Dr. Kramer is a member of American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (ASSECT); The American Alternative Sexualities Health Research Alliance (TASHRA); and the Sexual Health Alliance. Social media handles - Tiktok and Instagram: @inbedwithdanielle Dr. Danielle practices in Florida and Nebraska, if you're interested in working with her she can be found at inbedwithdanielle.com For more support, join our Facebook Community, Throuple Talk’s Connection Hub: https://www.facebook.com/groups/367901899061611 If you'd like to send us a 📞 voice message, click here: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk/message 👀 Watch or 🎧 listen on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, and Audible: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk #throuple #polyamory #podcast #exvangelical #toxicpurityculture #religiousdeconstruction 

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    #48 - Meet the Throuples| The Luckiest Three - David, Brandon & Julian

    In the world of social media where many people are only willing to share the “highlight reel” of their lives, David, Brandon, and Julian, known on Instagram as The Luckiest Three, are hoping to set new trends. Listen in as they give a behind-the-scenes look into their lives, and candidly share not only their favorite things about their throuple, but also the biggest challenges they’ve faced, and how they’ve conquered them. Their transparency is a breath of fresh air, and sure to bring encouragement to many others who have (or hope to have) a throuple relationship! Join our Throuple Community, Throuple Talk’s Connection Hub: https://www.facebook.com/groups/367901899061611 Connect with David, Julian, and Brandon: Social media: @theluckiestthree, @dvendetti, @brandonward_muah davidvendetti.com (for yoga classes, in person and online) Brandon’s Salon: Flipp Salon in Providence, RI If you'd like to send us a 📞 voice message, click here: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk/message 👀 Watch or 🎧 listen on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, and Audible: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk #gaythrouple #gaystories #throuple #polyamory #podcast

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    #47 - Examining Feline Relationship Structures w/ Dr. Piedmont

    In this episode, Char, Josh, and Liv are joined by Dr. Mildred Piedmont, author of a groundbreaking article on the growing community of polyamorous felines. Tune in to hear the intriguing findings of Dr. Piedmont’s in-depth case study of her cats’ polycule. Join our Throuple Community, Throuple Talk’s Connection Hub: https://www.facebook.com/groups/367901899061611 If you'd like to send us a 📞 voice message, click here: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk/message 👀 Watch or 🎧 listen on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, and Audible: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk #catloversclub #cat #cats #polyamory #polyhumor #podcast

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    #45 - Meet the Throuples | I Love You Twoo - Jordan, James, & Sara

    This throuple, known as “I Love You Twoo” on Instagram has been together since 2017, and lives happily together in Phoenix, AZ, with their 3 dogs and a house chicken. Listen in as Jordan, James, and Sara share the beautiful story of how they have built a relationship that has seen them through many highs, such as traveling in their RV, and also significant lows, including facing (and beating) a very aggressive cancer. Join our Throuple Community, Throuple Talk’s Connection Hub: https://www.facebook.com/groups/367901899061611 Connect with Jordan, James, and Sara on Instagram: @i_love_you_twoo If you'd like to send us a 📞 voice message, click here: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk/message 👀 Watch or 🎧 listen on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, and Audible: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk #throuple #polyamory #podcast #egalitarianpluralrelationship #egalitarianpluralmarriage 

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    #44 - Fighting Fair & Healthy Conflict Resolution | Dr. Stephanie Sigler

    In this episode, Char, Josh, and Liv receive an impromptu personal therapy session as Dr. Stephanie Sigler teaches throuples how to fight fair. She provides valuable insights, such as the importance of knowing what your “communication language” is, and resources, such as her Anti-Fight Journal, so that conflicts can be resolved in a healthy way. Join our Throuple Community, Throuple Talk’s Connection Hub: https://www.facebook.com/groups/367901899061611 If you'd like to send us a 📞 voice message, click here: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk/message Connect with Dr. Stephanie Sigler: Website: https://www.evolveyourintimacy.com/ Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/@evolveyourintimacy Instagram: @evolveyourintimacy Buy Dr. Stephanie Sigler’s Anti-Fight Journal: https://amzn.to/3Vu7PSb (affiliate link*) 👀 Watch or 🎧 listen on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, and Audible: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/@ThroupleTalk  #throuple #polyamory #fightingfair #egalitarianpluralrelationship #egalitarianpluralmarriage  @StephanieSigler *We are a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a means for us to earn fees by linking to Amazon.com and affiliated sites.

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    #43 - Meet the Throuples | ThroupleTime - David, Sonja & Ashley

    In this episode, we meet Sonja, David, and Ashley, known on Instagram as ThroupleTime! With 5 kids between them, their blended family thrives on outdoor adventures, globetrotting explorations, and the heartwarming chaos that comes with a big, loving crew. These three do it all with infectious enthusiasm and a deep commitment to nurturing their love. Join our Throuple Community, Throuple Talk’s Connection Hub: https://www.facebook.com/groups/367901899061611 If you'd like to send us a 📞 voice message, click here: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk/message 👀 Watch or 🎧 listen on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, and Audible: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk Time Stamps 00:00 - Intro 00:20 - Meet David, Sonja & Ashley 16:56 - Traveling as a throuple 22:04 - One throuple, two homes 25:07 - Throuple Halloween costumes 27:24 - Being out as a throuple 40:35 - Communication and couple's privilege when not living together as a throuple 52:21 - Advice for new throuples 58:09 - Favorite thing about being in a throuple #throuple #polyamory #podcast #egalitarianpluralrelationship 

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    #42 - Reimagining Partnership with Dr. Joli Hamilton

    In this episode, we are joined by Dr. Joli Hamilton, the relationship coach for people who color outside the lines, as she shares valuable insights on the necessary actions and paradigm shifts that need to take place in order to successfully transition from monogamy to a plural relationship. Dr. Hamilton has spent the past two decades studying and reimagining what love can be if we open our imaginations to possibility. She helps people create non-monogamous partnerships that are custom-built for their authentic selves, no more shrinking, pretending, or hiding required. Her 1-year course, The Year of Opening, coaches and supports couples through the first year of transitioning out of a monogamous relationship. Joli also co-hosts the Playing with Fire podcast with her anchor partner, Ken. Check it out on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/35kIc9nIONuelMHetrQvWj YouTube: @drjoli_hamilton Connect with Dr. Joli Hamilton: Website: www.JoliHamilton.com Instagram: drjoli_hamilton Join our Throuple Community, Throuple Talk’s Connection Hub: https://www.facebook.com/groups/367901899061611 If you'd like to send us a 📞 voice message, click here: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk/message 👀 Watch or 🎧 listen on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, and Audible: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk Time Stamps: 00:00 - Intro 00:20 - Meet Dr. Joli Hamilton 01:35 - Dr Hamilton's program to explore transition from monogamy to polyamory 02:56 - What is a mono-paradigm 04:21 - Mono paradigms in the way of polyamory 07:12 - Why we fear change and what is different 08:56 - Most common challenge faced when transitioning from mono to poly 10:42 - Sex before dawn 12:46 - Steps for a couple to open from monogamy to polyamory 17:17 - Grieving the old monogamous relationship  18:46 - Throuple Talk Connection Hub on Facebook for throuples community  22:15 - Secret to a successful polyamorous relationship 28:29 - Tips for new throuples to improve their chances of success 37:55 - Jealousy in polyamorous and monogamous relationships #throuple #polyamory #podcast #egalitarianpluralrelationship #egalitarianpluralmarriage 

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    #41 - Meet the Throuples | ThriceTheLove - Sara, Fred & Ari

    This Couple to Throuple love story began when Fred and Sara took Fred’s co-worker, Ari, out drinking for her 21st birthday. The trio instantly hit it off and started spending their weekends together. Friendly outings like grabbing lunches, going to amusement parks, and hitting the beach, soon turned into dinners, movie dates, and even a multi-day family trip to Orlando. After dating exclusively for a year, the throuple got engaged and were all married in 2020. They live together and raise their 3, soon to be 4, children as a unit. Connect with Sara, Fred, and Ari in our Throuple Community, Throuple Talk’s Connection Hub: https://www.facebook.com/groups/367901899061611 Follow ThriceTheLove on Instagram: @thricethelove If you'd like to send us a 📞 voice message, click here: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk/message 👀 Watch or 🎧 listen on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, and Audible: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk Time Stamps 00:00 - Intro 00:17 - Meet Sara Fred and Ari 02:55 - Being a throuple by accident 06:13 - Did you know you were bisexual before meeting each other? 08:29 - From dating to throuple 12:58 - Sleeping Arrangements  15:36 - We moved our girfriend in wihout her knowledge 17:46 - Comming out as a throuple 30:26 - Throuples are everywhere 34:16 - Our Facebook group for throuples 34:55 - Going out and travelling as a throuple 35:48 - Having kids as a throuple 39:53 - Throuple marriage 41:34 - Throuple marriage proposal 47:28 - Decoupling, fom couple to throuple 53:36 - one man two women in the same house 57:37 - Favorite thing about being in a throuple 01:01:20 - Your neighbors might be a throuple 01:05:28 - Advice for other throuples #throuple #polyamory #podcast #egalitarianpluralmarriage #egalitarianpluralrelationship 

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    #40 - Couple to Throuple: Sexpert Ally Iseman Weighs In

    In this episode, Ally Iseman, a non-monogamy sexpert, joins Char, Josh, and Liv, a real-life throuple, to discuss Peacock’s new reality TV show, Couple to Throuple. Listen in as they discuss the pros and cons of how the show is representing throuple relationships, address some of the classic mistakes the various couples and singles made, and consider how they could have been avoided with access to resources that are specific to egalitarian plural relationships. 16 years into a beautiful marriage, Char and Josh successfully made the transition from couple to throuple with their now-fiancé, Liv.  Join our Throuple Community, Throuple Talk’s Connection Hub: https://www.facebook.com/groups/367901899061611 If you'd like to send us a 📞 voice message, click here: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk/message 👀 Watch or 🎧 listen on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, and Audible: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk Connect with Ally Iseman: Contact: [email protected] Website: https://www.passport2pleasure.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/passport2pleasure Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@passport2pleasure Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61554151163099 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@passport2pleasure LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/company/passport2pleasure, www.linkedin.com/in/allyiseman The Relationship Ratio | www.passport2pleasure.com/ratio Your Big Why | www.passport2pleasure.com/bigwhy Time Stamps: 00:00 - Intro 00:18 - Ally Iseman, Non-monogamy sexpert 01:40 - Couple to Throuple reality tv show on Peacock 03:18 - Couple to Throuple is not realistic 11:21 - Wilder, Corey and Denise Throuple 14:42 - Sean, Brittne and Sanu Throuple 23:05 - Dylan, Lauren and Mia Throuple 25:27 - Maximo and Ash on Couple to Throuple 30:03 - Singles are treated like cattle on Couple to Throuple 34:26 - Ashmal, Rehman and Jonathan Throuple 40:18 - Ally's non-monogamy retreats #throuple #coupletothrouple #egalitarianpluralrelationship #podcast

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    #39 - Meet the Throuples | The Olive Three - Eleni, Yolanda & Mariana

    Mariana and Yolanda had been together for several years as a happy couple when they met Eleni. The trio had an instant connection and soon became a throuple. Listen in as they share their “accidental polyamory” couple-to-throuple love story! Join our Throuple Community, Throuple Talk’s Connection Hub: https://www.facebook.com/groups/367901899061611 If you'd like to send us a 📞 voice message, click here: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk/message 👀 Watch or 🎧 listen on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, and Audible: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk Connect with The Olive Three on Instagram: @politroppia https://www.instagram.com/politroppia/ Time Stamps: 00:00 - Intro 00:18 - Meet the Olive Three - Eleni, Yolanda & Mariana 03:37 - Transition from monogamy to polyamory 06:45 - Throuples in movies 09:21 - Public perceptions of throuples in Italy 13:50 - How its like working together as a throuple 20:12 - Finding resources for throuples 23:40 - Throuples Sleeping Arrangements 28:28 - Discussing with your partner that you want to be in a throuple 30:51 - Tips for throuples 33:45 - How to prepare for being in a throuple 36:09 - Envy in a throuple 38:50 - Polyguilt in a throuple #coupletothrouple #throuple #egalitarianpluralrelationship #podcast 

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    #38 - Meet the Throuples | Triad In Texas - Jesse, Kate & Harley

    For Kate, Jesse, and Harley’s throuple, everything started during the Covid lockdowns. Even though they were limited to Zoom dates for their first interactions, sparks quickly ignited when a game of Truth or Dare took their relationship in an unanticipated direction! Listen in for another beautiful Couple to Throuple (the ETHICAL way) love story! Join our Throuple Community, Throuple Talk’s Connection Hub: https://www.facebook.com/groups/367901899061611 If you'd like to send us a 📞 voice message, click here: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk/message 👀 Watch or 🎧 listen on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, and Audible: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk Connect with Kate, Jesse, and Harley on Instagram: @triadintexas https://www.instagram.com/triadintexas?igsh=ZnJrd214dGE0ZjBl Buy Kate Brauning’s Book, a young adult novel with a positive portrayal of polyamory Amazon/Audible: https://amzn.to/3UCOrld (affiliate link*) Signed Copy: https://author.katebrauning.com/store/the-ballad-of-dinah-caldwell-signed Time Stamps: 00:00 - Intro 00:24 - Meet Triad In Texas -  Jesse, Kate & Harley 05:54 - Trust and open communication in polyamory 10:48 - Couple to Throuple Jealousy 14:15 - Religious upbringing and polyamory 16:46 - Being out as a polyamorous throuple 27:57 - Uncoupling to become a throuple 36:49 - Polyamorous Community Living in Austin 39:46 - Polyamory in books and movies 45:58 - Three years as a throuple 52:51 - Throuple sleeping arrangements  55:58 - Sharing the love for Star Wars as a throuple *We are a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a means for us to earn fees by linking to Amazon.com and affiliated sites. #coupletothrouple #throuple #egalitarianpluralmarriage #egalitarianpluralrelationship #podcast

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    #37 - How To Overcome Religious Trauma, Toxic Purity Culture, & Sexual Shame with Katie Ziskind

    In this episode, Char, Josh, and Liv are joined by Katie Ziskind, LMFT, to discuss the damaging effects of purity culture, particularly within the context of non-monogamous relationships. As exvangelicals who have been going through religious deconstruction, they get personal with discussing everything from feelings of shame around sexual expression to the rarely discussed religious trauma syndrome that is negatively impacting individuals and relationships all around us. Katie is a Holistic Therapist, owner of Wisdom Within Counseling, and host of the “All Things Love and Intimacy" podcast. Tune in for this candid, yet intimate, conversation that dives deep into how we can deconstruct the religious beliefs that are not based on truth and are causing far more harm than good. Connect with Katie Ziskind Website to work one-on-one with Katie: www.WisdomWithinCt.com Check Katie’s Sex-Positive Podcast All Things Love and Intimacy Listen on Spotify: Click Here Listen on Apple Podcasts: Click Here Insta: @WisdomWithinCt Resources: Pure, by Linda Kay Klein https://amzn.to/3HDUUEY (affiliate link*) Join our Facebook Community, Throuple Talk’s Connection Hub: https://www.facebook.com/groups/367901899061611 If you'd like to send us a 📞 voice message, click here: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk/message Time Stamps  00:00 - Intro 00:42 - Katie Ziskind, Holistic Therapist 01:16 - What is the impact of purity culture 08:57 - Josh Harris, his books and purity culture 09:13 - Pure, book by Linda Kay Klein 11:04 - Religios Trauma Syndrome 20:03 - Stepping away from religion and monogamy 22:11 - Throuple Talk Connection Hub on Facebook 24:01 - Most women think they can't have an orgasm 29:34 - Resources to improve sex life and intimacy 34:02 - Sex education from within the family vs from society 40:28 - Quick tips to start getting over sexual shame 49:56 - Get in touch with Katie Ziskind 👀 Watch or 🎧 listen on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, and Audible: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk #purityculture #throuple #podcast #exvangelical #ex-evangelical #religiousdeconstruction    @AllThingsLoveandIntimacy *We are a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a means for us to earn fees by linking to Amazon.com and affiliated sites.

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    #36 - Meet the Throuples | Triad and True - Rachael, Aaron & Kasey

    Better known by their social media followers as “Triad and True”, Rachael, Aaron, and Kasey have a genuine connectedness that shines through in this interview. In this episode, Dr. Rachael Meir, along with her husband, Aaron, and wife, Kasey, share their throuple love story. In addition to sharing the wisdom that has come as a result of their real-world experiences, Rachael is a Contemporary Relationship Clini-Coach® offering a Defy Relationship Conformity coaching program, and shares much professional wisdom, as well. Connect with Triad and True in our Throuple Community on Facebook, Throuple Talk’s Connection Hub: https://www.facebook.com/groups/367901899061611 Follow Triad and True on Instagram and TikTok: @triadandtrue Follow Dr. Rachael Meir on Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok: @drrachaelmeircoaching Contact Dr. Rachael Meir to inquire about her Defy Relationship Conformity coaching program: https://www.drrachaelmeir.com/ If you'd like to send us a 📞 voice message, click here: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk/message 👀 Watch or 🎧 listen on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, and Audible: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk Time Stamps  00:00 - Intro  01:04 - Meet Triad and True throuple 03:33 - Decoupling, from couple to throuple 14:21 - Throuple sleeping arrangements 19:40 - Trouple proposal video 24:44 - Throuple wedding 29:36 - Coming out as a throuple 36:15 - Living with two women 40:22 - Throuple therapy 46:22 - Throuple Talk Connection Hub on Facebook 52:13 - Favorite things for being in a throuple 53:27 - Advice for other throuples #throuple #polyamory #polyamorousthrouple #podcast

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    #35 - Meet the Throuples | ThreeRingThrouple77 - Bobbi, Mike, & Diana

    Bobbi and Mike were a happily married couple, but when they met Diana, the polyamorous trio quickly knew they wanted to spend the rest of their lives together as a polyamorous throuple. Listen in as they share their unique and heartwarming couple-to-throuple love story! Connect with the Chandlers in our Throuple Community on Facebook, Throuple Talk’s Connection Hub: https://www.facebook.com/groups/367901899061611 Follow ThreeRingThrouple on Instagram: @threeringthrouple77 If you'd like to send us a 📞 voice message, click here: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk/message 👀 Watch or 🎧 listen on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, and Audible: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk Time Stamps 00:00 - Intro 00:13 - Meet the Chandler throuple 04:10 - Throuple resources 06:48 - Going from couple to throuple 08:16 - Vee triad vs throuple 09:42 - What we told our children when we became a throuple 15:05 - Throuple marriage and having children 17:20 - What was your governing force when things got tough 21:44 - Couples privilege 27:07 - Throuple sleeping arrangements 32:02 - Having a baby between three parents 34:07 - Communication strategies as a throuple 38:52 - Throuple Therapy Website 40:16 - Polyamory and purity culture 41:49 - Advice for a new throuple 43:23 - Chandlers' favorite thing about being in a throuple #throuple #polyamory #polyamorousthrouple #coupletothrouple #podcast 

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    #34 - America’s Got Talent’s Justin Rupple: A Real-Life Couple to “Thrupple” Love Story

    In this episode, comedian Justin Rupple (as seen on America’s Got Talent), along with his wife, Katy Rupple, and their fiancé, Claire Thornhill, share their one-of-a-kind love story. Listen in on this real-life couple to throuple love story as Katy, Justin, and Claire tell us how they became “The Thrupples”! To connect with Join our Throuple Community, Throuple Talk’s Connection Hub: https://www.facebook.com/groups/367901899061611 If you'd like to send us a 📞 voice message, click here: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk/message 👀 Watch or 🎧 listen on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, and Audible: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk Follow the Thrupples on Instagram: @thrupples Follow Justin on Instagram & TikTok: @therupple Website: https://rupple.co/ Follow Claire on Instagram: @clairethornhillla Follow Katy on Instagram: @katyrupple Follow Claire’s LA Closet on Instagram: @claireslacloset Check Out Claire's LA Closet on Poshmark: @clairerock23 Time Stamps 00:00 - Intro 00:16 - Meet The Thrupples 10:48 - Building a throuple during covid lockdown 14:02 - How it is to be out as polyamorous 17:10 - Polyamory in the bible 19:22 - Moving in together as a throuple 20:45 - Sleeping arrangements and cohabitation 25:30 - Love languages and thrifting 27:27 - Couple's privilege 28:39 - Domestic partnership for a throuple and being accepted 36:54 - Winning the jackpot 41:54 - Things that only exist in a throuple 45:23 - Has polyamory improved the relationship of the original couple? 48:39 - Communication and discussing feelings among men 53:24 - Finding resources for throuples 57:23 - Throuples tattoos 58:17 - Advice for other throuples 01:01:25 - The thing that drives you nuts about living with two women #throuple #polyamory #podcast #coupletothrouple 

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    #33 - A Polyamorous Love Story w/ Special Guest Abbie

    Join us as we chat with Abbie, who is a hinge partner in a polyamorous vee dynamic relationship, with dreams of someday living all together in one big house with her boyfriend, her girlfriend, and her girlfriend’s husband. Connect with Abbie: * In our Facebook Community, Throuple Talk’s Connection Hub: https://www.facebook.com/groups/367901899061611 * On TikTok @glitteringfiesta  * On Instagram @paintmeglitter  * Buy Abbie’s skincare products:  www.theglittercarecenter.com and it’s on all the socials as @theGlitterCareCenter Join our Facebook Community, Throuple Talk’s Connection Hub: https://www.facebook.com/groups/367901899061611 If you'd like to send us a 📞 voice message, click here: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk/message 👀 Watch or 🎧 listen on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, and Audible: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk Time Stamps 00:00 - Intro 00:33 - Abbie, polyamorous part of a quad 03:43 - Being bisexual and non-monogamous 05:47 - Being out as poly and family acceptance 10:33 - Abbie's Quad dynamic 12:42 - Finding therapist who are pro polyamory 13:53 - Communication within Abbie's quad 17:18 - Transitioning from a vee dynamic to a throuple 19:20 - As polyamorous are you acting different with different partners? 21:13 - Abbie's advice for polyamorous quads 22:01 - How to get in touch with Abbie, join our Throuple Talk facebook group 23:19 - Your polyamorous partner get married, Abbie's experience 28:55 - Abbie's favorite thing about being in a polyamorous relationship 32:29 - The importance of having access to a community #throuple #polyamory #podcast

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    #32: What do we tell our kids?

    What do you tell the kids about your polyamorous throuple relationship? How well did the children adjust? These are some of the most common questions we get from people who want to be in a throuple relationship and also have children. In this episode, Char, Josh, and Liv share all about their experiences in integrating Liv as a third parent in their family. Join our Throuple Community, Throuple Talk’s Connection Hub: https://www.facebook.com/groups/367901899061611 If you'd like to send us a 📞 voice message, click here: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk/message 👀 Watch or 🎧 listen on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, and Audible: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk #throuple #polyamory #podcast Time Stamps 00:00 - Intro 01:24 - How to integrate your kids with your poly partners 03:26 - Did we have any rules? 05:13 - Territorial Parents 06:26 - What can the new adult bring in the family that is new and helpful 08:40 - How to use boundaries and rules 10:54 - What is normal and how the kids perceive it 12:49 - How we parent outside the house 15:05 - Teaching our kids relationships by setting an example

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    #31 - Meet the Throuples | The Traveling Throuple - Ness, Katie & Kay

    Listen in to hear this amazing Couple to Throuple true story! In this episode, “The Traveling Throuple” (Ness, Katie, and Kaylie), share their love story of “accidental polyamory”, where newlyweds, Ness and Katie, accidentally fell in love with their long-time best friend. When the couple shared their feelings with their Maid of Honor they were pleasantly surprised to find out the feelings were mutual. Join our Facebook Community, Throuple Talk’s Connection Hub: https://www.facebook.com/groups/367901899061611 Follow The Traveling Throuple on Instagram and TikTok: @traveling_throuple If you'd like to send us a 📞 voice message, click here: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk/message 👀 Watch or 🎧 listen on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, and Audible: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk Time Stamps 00:00 - Intro 00:12 - Introducing the Traveling Throuple 04:10 - How to find Throuple Resources Online 06:31 - What it's like to be a throuple to the outside world 07:39 - Hyper-sexualizing poly relationships 10:06 - Coming out as poly 13:00 - Transitioning from couple to throuple 19:17 - What it's like to be "the third"? 21:55 - Traveling as a throuple 24:12 - Traveling tips for throuples 29:56 - Advice for other throuples 30:54 - Throuple three-way kiss on NYE 31:18 - Favorite thing about becoming a throuple 32:57 - How to connect with the Traveling Throuple   #throuple #polyamory #podcast #coupletothrouple

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    #30 Achieve Compersion by Overcoming Jealousy w/ Ali Hendry

    In this episode, Ali Hendry, a holistic relationship coach, joins Char, Josh, and Liv to share her valuable insights on overcoming jealousy and achieving compersion in polyamorous relationships. Ali’s expertise stems from not only professional training but also from her personal experience in non-monogamous relationships, including having been in a throuple. Join our Facebook Community, Throuple Talk’s Connection Hub: https://www.facebook.com/groups/367901899061611 If you'd like to send us a 📞 voice message, click here: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk/message 👀 Watch or 🎧 listen on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, and Audible: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk Watch Ali’s TEDx, Survivor’s Guide to Jealousy: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BTtrGxZXWrI Connect with Ali and check out her many valuable services and resources: Website: https://alihendry.co.uk/ LInktree: https://linktr.ee/alihendrycoaching Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alihendrycoaching Twitter/X: https://twitter.com/ali_hendry Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/ahcoachingcommunity/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ali-hendry-6191b328/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCzp2131iNLlNwLBOVV77mMA TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alihendrycoaching? Time Stamps 00:00 - Intro 00:25 - Our guest, Ali Hendry, holistic relationship coach 01:27 - Dealing with jealousy in a polyamorous relationship 02:26 - Where is the line between healthy and unhealthy jealousy? 06:14 - Feeling jealous of one partner and envious of another in a Throuple 13:32 - What can help with achieving compersion 19:50 - What is a healthy way to communicate jealousy? 28:42 - What is jealousy? 33:12 - Ali’s tips for being in a Throuple 37:31 - Ali's book on people who are afraid of love 39:18 - How to get in touch with Ali and her coaching offerings #throuple #polyamory #podcast #jealousy

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    Couple to Throuple Reality TV Show

    As a real-life throuple, Char, Josh, and Liv from Throuple Talk Podcast were fascinated to hear about the new reality show called “Couple to Throuple”. With more and more people being a part of a throuple relationship, but still very few throuples who are publicly “out”, shows like this could be instrumental in spreading awareness of and normalizing alternative relationship structures. Join our Throuple Community, Throuple Talk’s Connection Hub: https://www.facebook.com/groups/367901899061611 If you'd like to send us a 📞 voice message, click here: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk/message 👀 Watch or 🎧 listen on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, and Audible: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk #throuple #coupletothrouple

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    Throuple Talk Podcast - Live TV Interview

    Throuple Talk Podcast was interviewed on Live TV! In a discussion that openly questioned the motivations for their relationship and the equity for all involved, Char, Josh, and Liv were delighted to be given a platform with those who do not understand what a throuple is, to not only defend their chosen family dynamic but also to explain why their relationship is so beneficial for everyone in their home. The throuple was also pleased to share their reasons for launching the Throuple Talk Podcast and Throuple Talk’s Connection Hub on Facebook. Join our Throuple Community, Throuple Talk’s Connection Hub: https://www.facebook.com/groups/367901899061611 If you'd like to send us a 📞 voice message, click here: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk/message 👀 Watch or 🎧 listen on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, and Audible: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk #throuple #coupletothrouple

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    #29 - Threesomes are Amazing

    Threesomes: it’s the most common fantasy, but it is easy for this dream to turn into a nightmare without the proper communication, planning, and preparation. Before becoming a throuple, Char, Josh, and Liv had a lot of threeways with new partners. While some encounters were better than others, all of them had something to learn. In this episode, they share tips from their personal experiences, covering everything from how to meet the right person to planning out the perfect night, to help your fantasy become a reality! If you'd like to send us a 📞 voice message, click here: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk/message 👀 Watch or 🎧 listen on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, and Audible: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk Buy Char's Panties: https://amzn.to/3G4wHqH (*Amazon Affiliate Link) Buy Us A 🍸 Drink: https://www.amazon.com/registries/gl/guest-view/3I9O1NMVV3ZC1 Time Stamps  00:00 - Intro 00:27 - What makes our threesomes better? 03:05 - Set expectations when it comes to bisexuality 04:16 - Are you shy? 06:29 - Taking risks 09:12 - Talk about protection 10:38 - Hosting a threesome 13:29 - Aftercare 15:18 - Men vs women on performance anxiety during a first three-way 16:38 - How to find a unicorn 21:01 - Outtakes *We are a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a means for us to earn fees by linking to Amazon.com and affiliated sites. #openrelationship #nonmonogamy #podcast

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    #28 - The Secret To Attracting Goddesses With Unapologetic Masculinity

    We live in a culture where masculine traits have often been deemed “toxic” and are viewed as attempting to dominate or suppress the feminine. However, when masculinity is expressed in a healthy way it is fundamental to achieving an environment where both masculine and feminine can not simply coexist, but mutually thrive. In this episode, Char, Josh, and Liv share how Josh’s masculinity has created an environment within their throuple where the trio can each lean into the fullness of who they are. If you'd like to send us a 📞 voice message, click here: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk/message 👀 Watch or 🎧 listen on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, and Audible: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk Buy Char's Panties: https://amzn.to/3G4wHqH (*Amazon Affiliate Link) Buy Us A 🍸 Drink: https://www.amazon.com/registries/gl/guest-view/3I9O1NMVV3ZC1 Time Stamps 00:00 - Intro 01:50 - How masculine and feminine energies complement each other 02:30 - The power of masculinity in the world 03:31 - Mistaking positive masculinity for negative masculinity 05:03 - Toxic masculinity 08:09 - Being treated differently because you are very masculine  09:50 - What is true masculinity 11:08 - Masculinity: nature or nurture? 13:06 - Powerful masculinity and polyamory 13:29 - We now have femininity in its shadow 14:39 - Women like to be led 18:04 - Women in their masculinity 23:17 - Masculine and feminine, we’re so much better together  *We are a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a means for us to earn fees by linking to Amazon.com and affiliated sites. #throuple #polyamory #polyamorousrelationship  #polyamorous #polyamorousthrouple

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    #27: Egalitarian Plural Marriage On the Rise | TRIGGER WARNING

    When you look at the culture around us, it is clear that monogamy is not working for many people. In this episode, we share why egalitarian plural marriage works so well for our polyamorous throuple and why we think that egalitarian polygamy is going to gain popularity as a very desirable relationship dynamic. If you'd like to send us a 📞 voice message, click here: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk/message 👀 Watch or 🎧 listen on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, and Audible: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk Buy Char's Panties: https://amzn.to/3G4wHqH (*Amazon Affiliate Link) Buy Us A 🍸 Drink: https://www.amazon.com/registries/gl/guest-view/3I9O1NMVV3ZC1 Time Stamps 00:00 - Intro 00:02 - Women are making society polygamist 02:06 - Women mate hypergamously while men are not enough in relationships 05:00 - There is a lack of strong successful men 07:16 - The top performing men will get more and better quality female partners 11:44 - Women make the choices in relationships and they chose polyamorous throuples 13:34 - This is doomsday for men who refuse to do the relationship work 14:31 - Your neighbors are poly | We are everywhere 15:43 - Join our private FB group Throuple Talk Connection Hub 15:56 - Conclusion | CTA *We are a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a means for us to earn fees by linking to Amazon.com and affiliated sites. #polygamy #polyamory #podcast

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    #26: Sharing A High-Value Man In A Polyamorous Hinge Dynamic

    Before becoming a throuple, Char, Josh, and Liv’s relationship dynamic was a polyamorous v triad. In this episode, Char, Josh, and Liv share what Josh did as the hinge partner to make their poly triad relationship stronger and healthier. NOTE: A hinge partner in a polyamorous "v" triad is a person who is a partner to two people who do not have a relationship with each other. Thus, the "hinge" is the person in the middle that connects the "v". If you'd like to send us a 📞 voice message, click here: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk/message 👀 Watch or 🎧 listen on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, and Audible: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk Buy Char's Panties: https://amzn.to/3G4wHqH (*Amazon Affiliate Link) Buy Us A 🍸 Drink: https://www.amazon.com/registries/gl/guest-view/3I9O1NMVV3ZC1 Time Stamps 00:00 - Intro 00:04 - A good hinge got me into polyamory 00:43 - Our polyamorous hinge makes our dynamic possible 01:01 - Can your hinge partner fix your jealousy? 01:31 - How our hinge partner prepare for being in a vee 02:53 - The no 1 thing needed to be a good hinge partner 03:32 - The second most important thing to be a hinge partner 03:56 - Hinge partner’s influence on the metamour relationship 12:37 - Join our Facebook Group, Throuple Talk Connection Hub 12:57 - Can our hinge fully satisfy us, both? 18:49 - Being a polyamorous hinge partner is a full time job. *We are a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a means for us to earn fees by linking to Amazon.com and affiliated sites. #triad #polyamory #podcast

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    #25: Coming Out As Polyamorous to Family & Friends w/ Consensual Non-Monogamy Coach Ellecia Paine

    In this episode, we are joined by Ellecia Paine to talk about the ins and outs of coming out as polyamorous to friends and family. Ellecia is a non-monogamy coach and host of the podcast, “Nope! We’re Not Monogamous”. In addition to opening up about how polyamory was used against her family in a custody case, Ellecia also shares the wisdom she has gained from working with her clients who are in open relationships. If you'd like to send us a 📞 voice message, click here: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk/message 👀 Watch or 🎧 listen on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, and Audible: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk Buy Char's Panties: https://amzn.to/3G4wHqH (*Amazon Affiliate Link) Buy Us A 🍸 Drink: https://www.amazon.com/registries/gl/guest-view/3I9O1NMVV3ZC1 Time Stamps  00:00 - Intro 00:16 - guest Ellecia Paine from Nope, We're Not Monogamous Podcast  05:11 - What was it like for us to come out as polyamorous 05:46 - Polyamory being used against you in a custody battle 11:03 - If you're comfortable being polyamorous, it's easier 18:25 - Bigamy laws are archaic  19:01 - A Non-Monogamy Coach’s tips for anyone wanting to come out 23:01 - Best thing about coming out as polyamorous 38:02 - How to get in touch and work with Ellecia Paine *We are a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a means for us to earn fees by linking to Amazon.com and affiliated sites. @nopewerenotmonogamous #polyamory #nonmonogamy  #podcast #openrelationship

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    #24: Why Dating Unicorns Best Aligns With Our Relationship Goals - Relationship Coach Jennifer Kaylo

    In the world of non-monogamy, couples who are only open to having relationships with a unicorn are often demonized. While there are valid reasons for many unicorn hunting practices to be deemed unethical, there are also many misconceptions about unicorn hunters as a whole. In this episode, we joined forces with Jennifer Kaylo, host of The Open Bedroom Podcast  @theopenbedroompodcast, to have a candid conversation about this sensitive subject. You can find more info about Jennifer and her podcast here: https://linktr.ee/jenniferkayloruscin If you'd like to send us a 📞 voice message, click here: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk/message 👀 Watch or 🎧 listen on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, and Audible: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk Buy Char's Panties: https://amzn.to/3G4wHqH (*Amazon Affiliate Link) Buy Us A 🍸 Drink: https://www.amazon.com/registries/gl/guest-view/3I9O1NMVV3ZC1 Time Stamps 00:00 - Intro 00:28 - Jennifer Kaylo from Open Bedroom Podcast and Throuple Talk 01:22 - Why dating women women exclusively works for Jennifer and her husband 02:49 - Is the Throuple currently dating unicorns? 13:12 - One peennis policy 14:20 - What is a unicorn 19:55 - Couples privilege within our throuple 25:55 - How the kids are reacting to our polyamorous relationship 29:39 - Jennifer on becoming a throuple 40:08 - Kitchen table polyamory 41:55 - San Antonio, cave yoga and Texas BBQ 43:04 - Ideal dynamic for dating unicorns only and threesomes 48:14 - Couple swapping 50:10 - Jennifer’s clients as a relationship coach 54:28 - How we support each other in our relationships *We are a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a means for us to earn fees by linking to Amazon.com and affiliated sites. #throuple #polyamory #polyamorousrelationship  #polyamorous #polyamorousthrouple

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    #23: You Are Worthy

    In relationships, we don’t have to try very hard to see what our partner could do better, but few of us put as much effort into considering how we could improve. In this episode, we talk about the benefits of looking in the mirror to see what areas we need to work on in order to be the best possible version of ourselves. In this episode, we share our experience with how taking this approach in our throuple has improved our polyamorous relationship. If you'd like to send us a 📞 voice message, click here: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk/message 👀 Watch or 🎧 listen on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, and Audible: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk Buy Char's Panties: https://amzn.to/3G4wHqH (*Amazon Affiliate Link) Buy Us A 🍸 Drink: https://www.amazon.com/registries/gl/guest-view/3I9O1NMVV3ZC1 Time Stamps: 00:00 - Intro 00:37 - Feeling validated in a polyamorous relationship 03:58 - Reevaluate what you bring to the table in your relationship 04:38 - How to take negative feedback 06:34 - How men and women are different when receiving feedback 08:54 - Women look at relationships as a finality. The happily ever after 11:03 - Compare your ideal partner's qualities to yours and see if you match 15:44 - Should you change your love languages for your partner(s)? 20:18 - What would you do differently if you'd be back in the dating market? 25:19 - Closing 27:29 - Outtakes *We are a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a means for us to earn fees by linking to Amazon.com and affiliated sites. #throuple #polyamory #polyamorousrelationship  #polyamorous #polyamorousthrouple

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    #22: I Swiped Right on a Couple! What Now? Part 1 of 2

    When you’ve met an amazing couple and want to date one or both of them, it is important to know what questions you should ask and what to be aware of before you get in too deep. Do they date separately or only together? Do one or both have veto power? Is their relationship solid, or are they looking for someone to “spice things up”? In this episode, Liv gives her tips for how to date a couple and shares her experience of starting a relationship with Josh and Char and tells what she saw as the initial indicators that this could be a beautiful polyamorous throuple relationship. If you are considering dating a couple, be sure to tune in to this podcast! If you'd like to send us a 📞 voice message, click here: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk/message 👀 Watch or 🎧 listen on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, and Audible: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk Buy Char's Panties: https://amzn.to/3G4wHqH (*Amazon Affiliate Link) Buy Us A 🍸 Drink: https://www.amazon.com/registries/gl/guest-view/3I9O1NMVV3ZC1 Time Stamps 00:00 - Intro 04:32 - Polyamory red flag: couples who only date together 05:26 - Have well written profiles while dating online 06:15 - Beware of people who just want to sext 08:41 - Things to ask a couple when you start dating them 10:42 - Ensure everyone is engaged and committed to being in a throuple 11:52 - Green flag: Polyamorous couples with well behaved children 13:17 - Transitioning from consensual non-monogamy to polyamory 15:17 - Never say never 16:01 - Sexual compatibility and chemistry as a throuple 18:03 - Find partners who are warmhearted and kind 19:52 - Transitioning from monogamy to polyamory 23:39 - Liv's advice for solo poly individuals wanting to join a couple  25:48 - The power of the law of attraction when dating online 27:17 - Closing 27:37 - Outtakes *We are a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a means for us to earn fees by linking to Amazon.com and affiliated sites. #polyamory #datingtips #throuple

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    #21: Threesome Dating with Feeld

    FEELD, a dating app designed for non-monogamous people, has been hard at work overhauling its application to make it poly-inclusive and throuple-friendly. We are very excited about and appreciative of their conscious effort to adapt their business model to serve a variety of relationship dynamics! While the polyamorous community has been growing and becoming more accepted in social circles, the corporate realm has been slow to adapt, so it is exciting and refreshing when we hear of companies that have accommodations available for alternative relationship structures. And when we hear of them, we are excited to share them with you! If you'd like to send us a 📞 voice message, click here: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk/message 👀 Watch or 🎧 listen on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, and Audible: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk Buy Char's Panties: https://amzn.to/3G4wHqH (*Amazon Affiliate Link) Buy Us A 🍸 Drink: https://www.amazon.com/registries/gl/guest-view/3I9O1NMVV3ZC1 Time Stamps: 00:00 - Intro 00:57 - New Feeld dating app update to include polyamorous throuple and other plural structures 01:24 - We use Feeld to make polyamorous and non-monogamous friends 01:57 - Feeld was always inclusive of ENM people 03:13 - Greater impact that companies have on societal acceptance of polyamorous family dynamics 04:36 - Conclusion, CTA #throuple #polyamory #datingapps #dating *We are a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a means for us to earn fees by linking to Amazon.com and affiliated sites.

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    #20: Enforced Monogamy: Cure to Male Violence?

    Jordan Peterson has voiced very strong opinions on why he believes polyamory and other non-monogamous relationships are not healthy for society, proposing in interviews with Joe Rogan and Chris Williamson that modern society should double down on the commitment to enforced monogamy, which is to reward those who embrace monogamy and shame those who do not. In this episode, we point out how the reasoning behind these assertions is not fully informed and share why our polyamorous throuple relationship works so much better for everyone in our home, particularly since Char and Liv are bisexual. With others, including Stirling Cooper, publicly vocalizing similar sentiments in desiring a polygamous family structure, it is clear that the tides are turning to a society where family dynamics are becoming more varied to meet the unique needs and desires of the individuals in each home, and should therefore be accepted and respected. Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more insights into our polyamorous life. 👍🔔📝 👀 Watch or 🎧 listen on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, and Audible: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk If you'd like to send us a 📞 voice message, click here: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk/message Buy Char's Panties: https://amzn.to/3G4wHqH (*Amazon Affiliate Link) Buy Us A 🍸 Drink: https://www.amazon.com/registries/gl/guest-view/3I9O1NMVV3ZC1 Time Stamps 00:00 - Intro 00:18 - Enforced Monogamy is not working for our society 01:29 - Punishing non-monogamous people for being different 02:09 - Polyamory being confused with promiscuity 07:26 - Patriarchal secular polygamy vs polyamory 09:25 - Violence on societies with more men than women and the role of monogamy in reducing violence 10:30 - Women’s responsibilities to reduce male violence 12:09 - Freedom of choice of relationship 13:53 - Enforce monogamy standards to keep young male aggression under control 18:29 - Equality of outcome valid except for sexuality and relationship? 23:02 - Women’s Hypergamy naturally leads to genetic non-monogamy 28:04 - Relationship free market can get you a better partner 29:06 - Natural selection leads to polyamory, fighting natural biology with enforced monogamy 32:05 - Raising children in polyamorous families vs raising them by monogamous single moms 34:27 - Polyamory is going to happen regardless of society’s level of comfort or approval 39:50 - Conclusion #throuple #polyamory #polyamorousrelationship  #polyamorous #polyamorousthrouple *We are a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a means for us to earn fees by linking to Amazon.com and affiliated sites.

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    #19: My Story of Dating a Polyamorous Partner Monogamously

    There are many differences between a monogamous relationship and a polyamorous relationship, but dating a polyamorous person when you are monogamous is in a category all its own. In this episode, we interview Danielle, who is monogamous and has been dating a polyamorous person for more than five years. Listen in as she tells stories of her modern dating experiences and shares the wisdom she has learned along the way! Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more insights into our polyamorous life. 👍🔔📝 👀 Watch or 🎧 listen on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, and Audible: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk If you'd like to send us a 📞 voice message, click here: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk/message Buy Char's Panties: https://amzn.to/3G4wHqH (*Amazon Affiliate Link) Buy Us A 🍸 Drink: https://www.amazon.com/registries/gl/guest-view/3I9O1NMVV3ZC1 Time Stamps: 00:00 - Intro 00:14 - Introducing our guest, Danielle, talking about her polyamorous dating adventures 00:50 - My first threesome. What it's like to date a polyamorous person 11:37 - Red flags when dating a poly person 16:05 - Tips for monogamously dating a polyamorous person 19:35 - Dealing with the unexpected during a polyamorous date 27:32 - What is something that you learned about yourself while having a poly partner? 31:39 - Polyamorous relationhsip hierarchy 33:39 - Unicorn hunting in the dating scene 34:30 - Presence of variety in polyamory 36:21 - Jealousy as a monogamous person dating poly individuals 36:48 - Practicing ethical non-monogamy 38:21 - Monogamy = your partner has to be your everything 41:50 - Types of love, in Greek philosophy 43:35 - Educating yourself makes you a good partner 44:04 - Danielle's tips for finding a good partner 46:06 - Conclusion 46:43 - Subscribe to our channel 47:08 - Outtake #polyamory #polyamorousrelationship  #polyamorous *We are a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a means for us to earn fees by linking to Amazon.com and affiliated sites.

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    #18: Charting the Course to a Thriving Throuple Part 2 of 2

    So, you've met a couple you want to build a life with, and there are questions you have about so many things, but you don't know who to ask because you don't know anyone who's ever tried to do this before! 🧐 In this episode, Liv tells her experience of moving in with Josh and Char and shares the valuable insights she learned along the way as the polyamorous triad charted the pathway to Throuple Bliss. Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more insights into our polyamorous life. 👍🔔📝 If you'd like to send us a 📞 voice message, click here: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk/message 👀 Watch or 🎧 listen on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, and Audible: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk Buy Char's Panties: https://amzn.to/3G4wHqH (*Amazon Affiliate Link) Buy Us A 🍸 Drink: https://www.amazon.com/registries/gl/guest-view/3I9O1NMVV3ZC1 Time Stamps: 00:00 - Intro 00:15 - How we met 01:58 - From polyamorous hinge to throuple 03:32 -  Powerful chemistry makes the couple to throuple integration easier 03:55 - Having an open mind helps when engaging in polyamory 04:24 - Monogamy was never on the table 05:32 - Throuple dynamic is the ideal solution for bisexual people 06:29 - Going out on our first polyamorous date 07:57 -  Sex life as a throuple 08:41 - Challenges when joining a couple: PDA 15:50 - Challenges when joining a couple: merging different styles of conflict resolution 19:16 - Feeling vulnerable in front of your metamour 23:06 - When moving from couple to throuple keep your eyes on the prize and don't give up 24:17 - Outtake #throuple #polyamorousrelationship #polyamory *We are a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a means for us to earn fees by linking to Amazon.com and affiliated sites.

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    #17: I'll Be Polyamorous For Christmas

    During the holidays, it’s a “Poly Jolly Christmas” in the home of our polyamorous throuple! With triple the traditions, triple the hands in the kitchen, and triple the love in the home, there’s plenty of cheer to go around! 🥂 From introducing a new partner to extended family members to creating and sharing traditions, in this episode, we share how our throuple celebrates this joyous time of year. 🎄 If you need stocking stuffers for some sexy ladies, Buy Char's Panties: https://amzn.to/3G4wHqH (*Amazon Affiliate Link) Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more insights into our polyamorous life. 👍🔔📝 👀 Watch or 🎧 listen on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, and Audible: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk Buy Us A 🍸 Drink: https://www.amazon.com/registries/gl/guest-view/3I9O1NMVV3ZC1 If you'd like to send us a 📞 voice message, click here: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk/message#polyamory #throuple #polyamorousrelationship *We are a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a means for us to earn fees by linking to Amazon.com and affiliated sites. Time Stamps: 00:00 - Intro 00:11 - How we spent last Christmas 00:29 - First polyamorous Christmas in our new house 01:00 - Poly holidays are always fun 01:28 - Polyamorous Christmas = more traditions 01:57 - Meeting extended family as a throuple for the holidays 02:49 - What we've done to have happy holidays 05:26 - Make room for hurt feelings 07:46 - What was different as a throuple during Christmas 08:23 - Christmas as a throuple with kids 10:14 - Pick a chosen family for the holidays 11:12 - Char's panties 12:03 - Conclusion 12:28 - Outtake

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    #16 - Throuple Relationship Tips: Building Trust and Communication in Polyamory

    A throuple relationship is not necessarily any more difficult than a monogamous one, but there are things that should be done differently. In this episode, we share four key tips that have helped us to build and maintain a strong, loving, thriving throuple.💞 . Here is a link to the Conflict Resolution Emergency Action Plan (CREAP) we developed in order to resolve conflicts in a healthy way: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1pfG0f8eHg39c-u5h8YJ7GwOFTO39RVxG/view?usp=sharing . Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more insights into our polyamorous life. 👍🔔📝 . 👀 Watch or 🎧 listen on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, and Audible: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk . Buy Char's Panties: https://amzn.to/3G4wHqH (*Amazon Affiliate Link) . Buy Us A 🍸 Drink: https://www.amazon.com/registries/gl/guest-view/3I9O1NMVV3ZC1 . If you'd like to send us a 📞 voice message, click here: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk/message . #polyamory #throuple #polyamorousrelationship . Resources: Conflict Resolution Emergency Action Plan [CREAP]: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1pfG0f8eHg39c-u5h8YJ7GwOFTO39RVxG/view?usp=sharingCouple’s Privilege: https://feeld.co/blog/feeld-guides/what-is-couple-privilege *We are a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a means for us to earn fees by linking to Amazon.com and affiliated sites. Time Stamps: 00:00 - Intro 00:35 - Tip 1: Have a conflict resolution plan 11:27 - Tip 2: Go all in 14:56 - Tip 3: Quality time 17:24 - Tip 4: Personal growth 20:56 - What we do personally to improve our throuple relationship 24:14 - Conclusion 25:21 - Outtakes

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    #15 - The Surprise Proposal

    It was her first cruise, and she was nervous, so she had no idea there were ulterior motives behind the romantic getaway. . In this episode, we share our engagement story. We are excited about our future as a polyamorous throuple and appreciate you all being witnesses to our journey! . Remember to subscribe to our channel to stay updated with our latest content. Thank you for joining us on this journey towards understanding and acceptance. . 👀 Watch or 🎧 listen on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, and Audible: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk . Buy Char's Panties: https://amzn.to/3G4wHqH (*Amazon Affiliate Link) . Buy Us A 🍸 Drink: https://www.amazon.com/registries/gl/guest-view/3I9O1NMVV3ZC1 . If you'd like to send us a 📞 voice message, click here: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk/message . #polyamory #throuple #podcast . *We are a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a means for us to earn fees by linking to Amazon.com and affiliated sites.

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    #14 - Living in a Throuple: daily life, roles, and responsibilities

    Have you ever wondered what it’s like to be in a throuple? Are you in a throuple and wonder if other throuples do things differently? If so, tune in to hear what our life is like! . In this episode, we give a glimpse into how our lives are similar to and different from monogamous families. We address simple things like who sits in the front seat of the car, as well as more sensitive subjects like financial decisions, and share why we love the throuple life! . Remember to subscribe to our channel to stay updated with our latest content. Thank you for joining us on this journey towards understanding and acceptance. . 👀 Watch or 🎧 listen on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, and Audible: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk . Buy Char's Panties: https://amzn.to/3G4wHqH (*Amazon Affiliate Link) . Buy Us A 🍸 Drink: https://www.amazon.com/registries/gl/guest-view/3I9O1NMVV3ZC1 . If you'd like to send us a 📞 voice message, click here: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk/message. Time Stamps: 00:00 - Intro 00:05 - Why listen to Throuple Talk Podcast 01:11 - How is our life different as a Throuple vs a couple 05:23 - Who gets the front seat when traveling in the car 07:26 - How we handle fights 12:11 - How we make big purchases 15:20 - We are your traditional suburban Throuple 16:24 - Time management tips for a Throuple 17:14 - Living together vs living separately 19:37 - Outro and outtakes . #polyamory #throuple #cnm . *We are a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a means for us to earn fees by linking to Amazon.com and affiliated sites.

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    #13 - Understanding and Overcoming Jealousy & Envy In A Throuple Relationship

    When those jealous and envious thoughts creep in they feel awful, but what are they indicating, and what is the best way to respond to them? In this episode, Char, Josh, and Liv, an established throuple, share their personal experiences, as well as resources and practices that they have found to be most useful when these big emotions arise. Join our Throuple Community, Throuple Talk’s Connection Hub: https://www.facebook.com/groups/367901899061611 If you'd like to send us a 📞 voice message, click here: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk/message 👀 Watch or 🎧 listen on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, and Audible: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk Resources: The Untethered Soul by Michael Singer: https://amzn.to/3QIt7IG * Atlas of the Heart by Brenee Brown: https://amzn.to/3Qlpt6e * Ali Hendry - holistic relationship coach specializing in non-monogamy https://alihendry.co.uk Time Stamps 00:00 - Intro 03:20 - Difference between jealousy and envy 05:00 - Compersion is not a cure for jealousy 08:45 - Dealing with your partner being intimate with another person 11:20 - Over-communication and why it helps polyamorous dynamics 12:00 - Action steps to deal with jealousy in polyamory 16:30 - Resentment caused by jealousy 22:05 - Non-monogamy, not a place for the immature 22:50 - Resources #Podcast #throuple #polyamory #coupletothrouple #egalitarianpluralrelationship *We are a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a means for us to earn fees by linking to Amazon.com and affiliated sites.

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    #12 - Polybombing: Blindsided by your partner’s desire to be polyamorous

    Has your monogamous partner expressed that they are polyamorous or want to practice polyamory? Did this revelation come as a shock to you? If so, you have just been “polybombed”. . Have you discovered you are polyamorous while in a monogamous relationship and are now considering coming out as poly to your partner? This experience can often be overwhelming and leave both partners feeling like they have no one who understands, and we are on a mission to provide hope and guidance during this challenging and confusing time. . In this episode, we're talking about polybombing. We discuss the different ways of responding to a polybomb and recommend some immediate positive action steps you and your partner can take to help you successfully navigate the path forward. . Remember to subscribe to our channel to stay updated with our latest content. Thank you for joining us on this journey towards understanding and acceptance. . 👀 Watch or 🎧 listen on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, and Audible: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk . Buy Char's Panties: https://amzn.to/3G4wHqH (*Amazon Affiliate Link) . Buy Us A 🍸 Drink: https://www.amazon.com/registries/gl/guest-view/3I9O1NMVV3ZC1 . If you'd like to send us a 📞 voice message, click here: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk/message . Resources: Polysecure by Jessica Fern https://amzn.to/47ldlZE (Amazon affiliate link*) ⁠ @estherperel ⁠ https://youtu.be/MoZPZlygxJI?si=KaBE55JyCMwUSjHS ⁠ @TealSwanOfficial ⁠ https://youtu.be/RYRY3ehBHz0?si=eJyp4LkNWu99OsfV https://youtu.be/QKgDZDFOXEg?si=jDDAwZGg5josIc5o . Time Stamps 00:00 - Intro 00:37 - What is Polybombing 01:47 - Your options if you’ve been polybombed 07:30 - Polybombing = earth-shattering experience 12:30 - Throuple Talk’s experiences with polybombing 26:09 - What to do if you’ve been polybombed 35:13 - Resources 37:34 - Outtakes . #polyamory #nonmonogamy #podcast *We are a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a means for us to earn fees by linking to Amazon.com and affiliated sites.

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    #11 - Modern Dating In the Midst of Changing Relationship Norms

    You swipe, match, chat... and then repeat. For a woman, modern dating has become a never-ending loop of potential connections. But where are all the good men? The ones that get you to stop swiping and start dreaming about a possible future together? Are women living a fairytale fantasy, looking for Mr. Perfect and ignoring Mr. Just Right? What is the real problem? The exhaustive list of demands women have, the lack of good quality male partners, or the inability to see the reality of today’s dating market? Join us to find out why is it so hard for women to find a partner willing to commit. If you'd like to send us a 📞 voice message, click here: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk/message If you'd like to Buy Us A 🍸 Drink, click here: https://www.amazon.com/registries/gl/guest-view/3I9O1NMVV3ZC1 👀 Watch or 🎧 listen on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, and Audible: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk Resources: Why Women Have S*x, by Cindy M. Meston, David M. Buss, et al. https://amzn.to/3SKY68v (*Amazon Affiliate Link) Marry Him: The Case for Settling for Mr. Good Enough by Lori Gottlieb https://amzn.to/47yD8xM (*Amazon Affiliate Link) Sarah's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sarah_uli/ @access-vegas https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a6F3VRQSjL4 @psychacks https://youtu.be/jGY6jLY2tw4?si=lRXigqsFVFtJ3ROz @estherperel https://youtu.be/a-PDqXa_K7E?si=4TNWsgN1QBEi1ziD #datingadvice #relationshipadvice #polyamory00:00 - Intro 01:47 - What it’s like to date these days 05:33 - What is a good or hight-value man? 07:55 - Men don’t want to be monogamous anymore 09:20 - Women’s agency years 11:40 - Hypergamy: women look for men that are better than they are 18:27 - Models have the worst relationships 21:15 - What type of men choose non-monogamy 23:15 - Women ask for perfection, but don’t question their contribution to the relationship 26:55 - Would polyamory work if that was the only way to get the ideal man? 30:44 - Where are all the good men? 31:41 - Are women’s demands of men realistic? 38:17 - Do men know how to be in a relationship? 42:30 - Musical chairs game of dating 45:00 - There are no good men or women out there 46:50 - What I need vs what I offer *We are a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a means for us to earn fees by linking to Amazon.com and affiliated sites.

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    #10 - Exploring Sexual Variety in Polyamorous Triads

    You've likely heard the saying, "Variety is the spice of life!", but when it comes to sexuality, variety is often frowned upon. In this episode, we get into the spiciness that comes from embracing sexual variety, particularly within our polyamorous throuple. . In this episode, we share how challenging outdated societal norms has increased our sexual chemistry, strengthened our relationships, and resulted in higher satisfaction both in ourselves and each other. . Remember to subscribe to our channel to stay updated with our latest content. Thank you for joining us on this journey towards understanding and acceptance. . 👀 Watch or 🎧 listen on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, and Audible: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk . Buy Char's Panties: https://amzn.to/3G4wHqH (*Amazon Affiliate Link) . Buy Us A 🍸 Drink: https://www.amazon.com/registries/gl/guest-view/3I9O1NMVV3ZC1 . If you'd like to send us a 📞 voice message, click here: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throupletalk/message . Resources: - Pusssy, by Regena Thomashauer and Hay House https://amzn.to/46hAprq (*Amazon Affiliate Link) - Taking Segsy Back, by Alexandra H. Solomon PhD, Lori Brotto PhD, et al. https://amzn.to/3ubKpFi (*Amazon Affiliate Link) - Living An Orgazzmic Life, by Xanet Pailet, Emily Morse https://amzn.to/3ugL0FY (*Amazon Affiliate Link) - The State of Affairs by Esther Perel https://amzn.to/3QKSecQ (*Amazon Affiliate Link) - Mating in Captivity by Esther Perel https://amzn.to/3sz6duf (*Amazon Affiliate Link) - The Ethical Sluuut by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy https://amzn.to/3SFHUFB (*Amazon Affiliate Link) Time Stamps: 00:00 - Intro 00:25 - Is variety the spice of life? 03:08 - Polyfidelity, how polyamory and monogamy come together 07:27 - Char’s ways of keeping the relationship fresh 10:00 - Exhibitionist and voyeur aspect of a throuple dynamic 18:45 - Esther Perel and her books on keeping desire fresh in a LTR 19:25 - Liv’s ways of keeping the relationship exciting 23:00 - Demonizing the desire for sexual satisfaction 23:55 - How sex is perceived around the world 26:30 - Taboos and purity culture 31:15 - Escaping sexual oppression 38:15 - Arguments against polyamory never touch on sexuality 41:03 - Outro 41:32 - Outtakes . #polyamory #throuple #podcast . *We are a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a means for us to earn fees by linking to Amazon.com and affiliated sites.

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Throuple Talk’s mission is to unite throuples around the world and to bring help, hope, and community to those in egalitarian plural relationships by sharing the wisdom we've gathered as a result of our personal, real-world experience, as well as interviews with our guests.Whether you're already in a polyamorous relationship or still dipping your toes in the water to see if polyamory is right for you, we hope you find our podcast to be your go-to resource for information and encouragement.

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