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In this episode, the hosts reflect on the themes of Advent, focusing on God's love as revealed through the story of Jesus' birth. They discuss the significance of Mary's reflections, the shepherds' journey, and the unpredictable nature of God's love. The conversation emphasizes the importance of personalizing God's love, embodying it in our lives, and extending love to others, especially those who are difficult to love. The hosts explore how hope, peace, joy, and love interconnect during the Advent season, culminating in the celebration of love's embodiment in Christ.TakeawaysMary's reflection on God's love is profound and personal.The shepherds' immediate response to the angel's message is inspiring.God's love is often revealed in unexpected ways.Personalizing God's love can be a challenging but rewarding journey.Receiving God's love requires us to let go of feelings of unworthiness.Embodying Christ's love means showing gentleness and kindness to others.Loving the unlovable is a true reflection of Christ's love.Hope, peace, joy, and love are interconnected themes of Advent.The culmination of Advent is a celebration of love's embodiment in Christ.Love is the ultimate message of the Christmas season.

In this week’s Uncommon Purpose Podcast, Mandy and Stephanie dive into the third week of Advent — Joy — exploring what it means to find joy that lasts beyond fleeting happiness. As the pink candle is lit, they reflect on how true joy often follows the hard work of hope and peace.Together, they talk about the difference between joy and happiness, the way God’s presence produces lasting joy, and how family traditions, even in seasons of grief, can become sacred reminders of God’s goodness. From Mariah Carey singalongs and Christmas lights to tears of gratitude and the reminder that “joy isn’t fragile,” this episode invites listeners to slow down, notice joy, and name it with gratitude.✨ Whether your holiday feels bustling or bittersweet, you’ll be reminded that joy grows deep roots in the soil of faithfulness and gratitude.Scripture References:Psalm 30:5 – “Joy comes in the morning.”Galatians 6:9 – “Let us not become weary in doing good… for at the proper time we will reap a harvest.”Psalm 16:11 – “In Your presence there is fullness of joy.”Luke 2:10–11 – The shepherds and the good news of great joy.Names of God Mentioned:Messiah — The Anointed One who has comeJehovah Rapha — The Lord who healsPractical Notes to Add:Mention of Mariah Carey’s “All I Want for Christmas Is You” (music reference)Traditions discussed: Christmas Eve pajamas + Christmas lights driveReflection practice: “Name what brings you joy this week and give thanks.” Tag @uncommonpurposepodcast on Instagram when you share their joy moments on your social media

In this Uncommon Purpose conversation, Mandy and Stephanie unpack Advent’s second candle—Peace—as shalom: wholeness, restoration, and right relationship with God and others. They wrestle honestly with hurry, rest, and why “peace” isn’t just the absence of conflict. You’ll hear practical rhythms (a weekly 24-hour Sabbath, breathwork, keeping Advent simple and consistent), tender stories (a mentor who reminded us Jesus already gave you peace), and a theology that moves toward redemptive, restorative living—owning our part, reconciling, and carrying God’s peace into chaotic rooms.They revisit Jesus’ way of peace (John 14:27), talk about being peacemakers in real relationships, and offer small seasonal practices—from breathing prayers to cutting December errands—that help you access the peace you already have in Christ.Scripture mentioned or clearly alluded toJohn 14:27 — “My peace I give you…”Matthew 5:9 — “Blessed are the peacemakers…”Isaiah 9:6 — “Prince of Peace”( Numbers 6:24–26 (Priestly Blessing), Colossians 1:19–20 (reconciliation)Names of God referencedJehovah Shalom — “The Lord is Peace” (Judges 6:24)El Roi (spelled this way) — “The God Who Sees Me” (Genesis 16)Resources & cultural referencesBEMA Discipleship Podcast with Marty Solomon (Sabbath “rules”: no work, all play; we rest; God loves us; trust the story)The Chosen — Mary reflecting on Jesus’ birth (“He needed me.”)Breathwork — breathing prayer as a restorative practice (physiological reset)Advent practices: keeping a consistent, simple routine; lighting the Peace candle; nature/creation as a peace pathwayHoliday logistics that reduce chaos: front-loading shopping; avoiding crowded stores; blessing delivery driversPractical prompts to include“Light the Peace candle. Take three slow, deep breaths. Ask the Spirit to remind you of the peace you already have.”“Peacemaking practice: own your side of the street, apologize quickly, pursue reconciliation.”“Nature prompt: spend five minutes noticing creation (even through a window) and thank God for what you see.”

In this Uncommon Purpose episode, Mandy and Stephanie open Advent with Hope—not wishful thinking or “hope in people,” but biblical hope rooted in God’s character and promises. They reflect on the long silence before Christ’s birth, Mary and Joseph’s steadfast obedience, and how generational preparation forms a hopeful posture. Practically, they share simple Advent rhythms: lighting the first candle, keeping devotions un-fussy, using a family Jesse Tree, and weaving Scripture into ordinary pauses with the YouVersion Bible app.You’ll hear why remembering past faithfulness fuels present hope (Romans 15:13), how to start small if you’re late to Advent (“no shame”), and names of God that anchor hope—El Shaddai (All-Sufficient God) and Jehovah Jireh (The Lord Will Provide). Expect a warm nudge to journal specific memories of God’s faithfulness and tuck that journal into your Christmas box to revisit each year—because His faithfulness before is evidence of His promises going forward.Scripture Romans 15:13 — “May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace…”Advent context: Intertestamental silence & Messianic prophecy (e.g., Luke 1–2, Isaiah 7:14; 9:2,6–7)Obedience/faithfulness themes: Matthew 1:18–25 (Joseph), Luke 1:26–38 (Mary), Luke 1:46–55 (Magnificat)Resources the episode namesAdvent devotional: “Shadows and Light” — Jenni Keller — “Love Comes Near” YouVersion Bible App Jesse Tree Practical prompts for listeners“Light the Hope candle. Spend five minutes remembering a time God was faithful; write it down.”“Start small: one Advent moment this week is better than a perfect plan you never use.”“Create a Hope Journal and store it with your Christmas decor to revisit each year.”

In this Uncommon Purpose Advent kickoff, Mandy and Stephanie reframe December from “do it all” to intentional celebration. They unpack what Advent means (“coming”)—both the first coming of Jesus and His promised return—and why the season is a spiritual preparation that helps us practice presence in a hurry-prone month. You’ll hear honest reflections on waiting (trusting God’s timing), simple ways to build anticipation (lighting candles, short daily readings, breath prayers), and how to choose traditions that point to Christ rather than “more stuff.” The hosts outline a four-week mini-series on Hope, Peace, Joy, and Love, and invite listeners to use the extra time from these shorter episodes to actually practice Advent.Scripture referenced / alluded toRevelation 22:20 — “Come, Lord Jesus.”Isaiah 9:2,6–7 — Light in the darkness; Prince of Peace (Advent prophecy)Matthew 1:18–25; Luke 1–2 — Nativity accounts (hope/obedience in waiting)John 8:12 — Jesus, Light of the World (fits the candle imagery)Names of God mentionedEmmanuel — “God with us”Alpha and Omega — beginning and endMessiah — the Anointed OneLight of the WorldPractices & resources discussedAdvent candles (weekly or daily lighting; colors optional—use what you have)Short daily devotion + breath prayer (presence over perfection)Traditions that build anticipation (versus “just more presents”)Jenny Keller — Love Comes Near (family-friendly Advent devotional) Optional: Advent spiral/wreath tools for daily counting (Mandy mentions a movable spiral; add a generic link to an Advent spiral product or note “pictured on socials”)Helpful clarifications for your listenersAdvent = “coming” (both first coming of Jesus and His return)12 Days of Christmas run Dec 25–Jan 5, concluding with Epiphany (Jan 6)Many put magi in nativity sets, but historically their visit is associated with Epiphany (a fun “did you know?” you raise in the episode)Practical prompts to add“Name what you’re waiting for this Advent. Write it on a card and place it beside your candle.”“Trade one December task for ten minutes of quiet with Scripture (YouVersion plan, one psalm, or Luke 1–2).”“Breathe: 4 in / 4 hold / 6 out while praying, ‘Come, Lord Jesus.’”Cultural references worth notingAdvent calendars (Lego/socks/chocolate) as means of anticipation—great if they point to ChristNational Lampoon’s Christmas Vacation advent-calendar gag (lighthearted nod)

In this cozy Thanksgiving week episode of the Uncommon Purpose Podcast, hosts Mandy and Stephanie gather around the mic (and the imaginary table) to talk about the beauty and complexity of gratitude. From family dynamics and cultural traditions to pie debates and Black Friday chaos, the two friends invite listeners to slow down, savor the moment, and intentionally choose joy and gentleness this season.They share stories of Persian-American Thanksgiving traditions, grieving with gratitude, and how cultivating a thankful heart can transform even the hardest moments. This episode is filled with laughter, warmth, and reflection—a reminder that gratitude is not just a feeling but a spiritual discipline that draws us closer to God.🙏 Devotional Companion: “Lingering at the Table”Scripture:“Enter his gates with thanksgiving; go into his courts with praise. Give thanks to him and praise his name.” — Psalm 100:4 (NLT)Reflection: Thanksgiving isn’t just a meal—it’s a mindset. Between the noise of family chatter, the football game humming in the background, and the to-do list that never ends, it’s easy to miss the sacred in the ordinary.Mandy and Stephanie remind us that gratitude is more than a seasonal sentiment—it’s a posture of the heart that changes how we experience both joy and ache. True thanksgiving happens when we pause long enough to name what we’re grateful for, linger in conversation, and notice God’s presence in the midst of it all.Practice:Before you sit down to eat, whisper one quiet thank-you to God for something only you and He know.Speak one word of blessing over someone at your table.Choose gentleness—with your words, your expectations, and yourself.Prayer: Lord, thank You for the people, memories, and even the imperfections that make this season beautiful. Help me linger longer at the table, love deeper in the tension, and see Your goodness woven through it all. Teach me to live a life that overflows with gratitude—not just in November, but every day. Amen.

It’s that funny little space between pumpkins and poinsettias—when the candy’s gone, the turkey’s still frozen, and the first twinkle lights are starting to glow. In this warm and reflective episode, Mandy and Stephanie explore the in-between—those mid-November days where gratitude meets anticipation.They talk about the tension between peaceful preparation and holiday pressure, how to practice presence when life speeds up, and what it means to find contentment in the middle. The conversation moves from coffee cups and Christmas trees to deep reflections on trust, boundaries, and emotional health. Together, they remind listeners that the sacred often hides in the quiet spaces between.Listen for: ☕ Mandy’s reflections on preparation vs. planning 🎄 Stephanie’s take on gratitude, simplicity, and slowing down 🧘 The difference between anticipation and anxiety 💬 How to hold boundaries while believing the best in others 🕯️ Finding contentment and trust in life’s “in-betweens”💭 Key ThemesThe In-Between Season: How to find peace and meaning between fall and ChristmasAnticipation vs. Anxiety: How excitement can shift when we rush instead of restGratitude and Enough: Learning that abundance isn’t about more—it’s about fulfilledBoundaries and Trust: Navigating complicated relationships during the holidaysEmbodied Peace: Paying attention to what your body is holding in stress and stillnessPresence as Preparation: How rest, coffee, and quiet mornings ready our hearts for joy🙏 Scriptures & Spiritual AnchorsPsalm 46:10 – “Be still and know that I am God.”Philippians 4:11–13 – Learning to be content in all circumstances.John 10:10 – “I have come that they may have life, and have it abundantly.”Ephesians 3:20 – “Immeasurably more than we can ask or imagine.”☕ Practical Practices MentionedMorning Rituals: Walks, sunlight, coffee, silence, and Lectio 365 app for morning prayerRed Light Therapy: Slowing the body to signal calmGratitude Practice: Pausing daily to name three simple good things“Enough” Reflection: Asking what feels like too much, not enough, or just enoughBreathwork + Stillness: Releasing tension to make room for tendernessContentment Challenge: Find joy in needing less instead of acquiring more💡 Listener Reflection PromptsWhat does your in-between look like right now?Where is anticipation turning into anxiety?What rhythms help you begin your day with peace instead of rush?How might you practice trust—in God, in others, or in yourself—this season?What would “enough” look like for you this month?🪞 Mentioned ResourcesLectio 365 App (daily prayer rhythms)Ephesians 3:20 reflection Mandy mentionedRed Light Therapy for grounding + calm mornings

The holidays aren’t merry for everyone—and that’s okay. In this heartfelt and deeply relatable episode, Mandy and Stephanie talk honestly about the grief, loneliness, pressure, and expectations that surface between Thanksgiving and Christmas.From infertility and loss to fractured families and financial strain, they remind listeners that joy and sorrow can coexist. Through vulnerable storytelling, Scripture-rooted wisdom, and practical reflection, the hosts explore how to hold space for the beauty in the hard—without pretending everything is perfect.They unpack how to manage expectations, navigate grief, practice emotional maturity, and find comfort through honesty, vulnerability, and faith. This conversation is equal parts therapy and theology, offering compassion for anyone walking through a heavy season.Listen for: 💔 The myth of holiday perfection—and how to release it 🎄 Grieving loved ones while creating new traditions 🤍 The courage to have hard conversations with family 💬 Why clarity is kindness (and how to communicate expectations) 🕯️ Spiritual practices to settle your heart when the season feels heavy🙏 Scriptures & Faith AnchorsMatthew 11:28-29 – “Come to Me, all who are weary…”Psalm 34:18 – “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted.”Romans 15:13 – “May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace…”John 16:33 – “In this world you will have trouble. But take heart…”🧩 Practical Tips & ReflectionsJournal your “heart inventory” for the season—what feels heavy and what feels hopefulUse the Dwell App or Lectio 365 to play Scripture or guided prayer throughout your dayWhen disappointment rises, ask: What did I expect—and did I communicate it?Honor loved ones by telling stories, keeping one small tradition, or creating a new onePractice self-compassion: identify one thing that comforts your heart and make time for it💬 Mentions & Links for Show NotesDwell App (Audio Bible)Lectio 365 App (Daily guided prayer)YouVersion Bible AppPrevious episode: Holiday Prepping & PlanningRelated reading: Emotionally Healthy Spirituality by Peter Scazzero🪞 Reflection PromptsWhat expectations am I holding for this holiday—and which ones can I release?Who or what am I grieving this season?Where do I feel unseen or disconnected—and how can I name it before God?What is one practice that helps me feel grounded in hope?

It’s officially Christmas preseason—and Mandy and Stephanie are diving in! From November 1st on, the holidays arrive fast, and this conversation helps listeners trade stress for sacred preparation.Together they unpack how to plan your home, heart, and calendar with intention—without losing sight of joy or Jesus. Stephanie shares her beloved “holiday planner” system (and her famous stocking traditions), while Mandy reflects on evolving family rhythms, new gift ideas, and holding space for both celebration and grief.They talk trees, playlists, budgeting, Advent, and the tension between being organized and being present. You’ll hear practical tips for planning gifts and gatherings, as well as encouragement for those entering the season feeling lonely or overwhelmed.Whether you’re an over-prepper, a spontaneous spirit, or somewhere in between, this episode will help you create a holiday that reflects your values—not your to-do list.Listen for: 🎄 Mandy’s take on the “Christmas preseason” 🎁 Stephanie’s system for stocking stuffers that mean something 🕯️ How to plan with presence and purpose 💡 Why values—not pressure—should shape your holiday ❤️ Encouragement for those feeling lonely or overextended🎄 Practical Planning TopicsGift-Giving Framework: one thing you want, one thing you need, one thing to wear, one thing to read (and why their families are evolving that!)Holiday Planner: Stephanie’s early-season checklist (decor, menus, shopping, experiences)Holiday “Big Rocks” Principle: prioritizing what matters most before adding the extrasIntentional Advent Practice: how both hosts keep Jesus at the centerStocking Stuffers vs. Gifts: creating small, personal touches that feel meaningfulTraditions & Trees: how multi-tree households became a thing 😉Music & Atmosphere: swapping playlists, sharing favorite classics + modern mixes💡 Faith & ReflectionAdvent as a rhythm of spiritual preparationPlanning rest and Sabbath amid celebrationHow intentionality helps cultivate gratitude and joyInviting others in: reaching out to those who may feel lonely or disconnectedLiving “on purpose and for a purpose” through the holiday season🎁 Things to Include in Show Notes (Mentions)Mandy & Stephanie’s Holiday Playlists Stephanie’s: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/1ESUiIf67qzypkP6VQeWsu?si=o2t1HvXgSWazL22sf0zgzw&pi=-420hi46SPeoKMandy’s: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/5qq0umg7ZExBmzmNGBgJFp?si=V7X2pwWpT6WDiljDJ5s1OQ

Mandy and Stephanie dive into one of the most debated topics in Christian circles: Halloween. Is it harmless fun or spiritual compromise? In this candid and grace-filled conversation, they unpack how believers can approach October 31 with both conviction and compassion.From childhood candy traditions to neighborly connections, they remind listeners that the night can become an opportunity to show up with light rather than hide from darkness. Mandy shares how living in the country made her miss trick-or-treat community life, while Stephanie describes how she sits curbside with full-size candy bars and open arms. Together they discuss discernment, boundaries, redemption, and why it’s “hard to hate up close.”The result is a thoughtful, sometimes funny, always Christ-centered dialogue about holiness, humility, and the art of neighboring—complete with pumpkin-shaped pizzas, banana Laffy Taffy, and one unforgettable “Great Pumpkin” confession.Listen for:How to be “in the world but not of it” on Halloween nightWhy holiness ≠ judgment and love ≠ compromiseRedemption and agency: bringing light into dark spacesThe difference between conviction, temptation, and condemnationScriptures & ThemesProverbs 6:16-19 – What God hates (pride, deceit, violence, stirring conflict)1 John 4:4 – “He who is in you is greater than he who is in the world.”Matthew 5:14-16 – “You are the light of the world.”Romans 12:2 – In the world, not of it.Themes: holiness vs. self-righteousness, redemptive theology, boundaries without judgment, neighbor love, discernment and agency, light over fearHot Topics & StoriesWhy both hosts choose to show up in love rather than withdraw in fear“Hu Bars” and healthy candy banter 😂The “Great Pumpkin” tradition (Mandy’s confession & repentance!)Banana Laffy Taffy and the return of neighbor kids with treats = a “harvest of joy”How to teach kids discernment without fearSalem trip reflections — what the witch trials teach us about fear, power, and the church’s treatment of womenResources & MentionsJohn Crist’s Halloween bit Christy McLelland – Jesus and Women studyJen Wilkin quote: “For them and for then first, then for us.”It’s the Great Pumpkin, Charlie Brown – family tradition favoritePractical Ideas for ListenersNeighboring Challenge: Sit outside on Oct 31 with light on and kindness ready.Discernment Exercise: Pray through what’s “good for us” vs. “judgment of others.”Reflection Prompt: Where am I called to bring light instead of withdrawing in fear?Family Tradition Idea: Share a meal or treat with neighbors before trick-or-treat.Calls to ActionFollow @uncommonpurposepodcast on Instagram and Facebook for more faith + fun seasonal episodes.Share your Halloween tradition or neighbor story in the comments of our episode post.Subscribe on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or Amazon Music so you don’t miss our upcoming Advent series!

Recording together (hello, Westfield Library!), Mandy and Stephanie explore harvest as more than crops—it’s a spiritual season where we pause, notice the fruit of faithful work, and practice gratitude. From chickens and cornfields to academic-calendar rhythms, they trace the whole cycle: prepare → plant → cultivate → prune → wait → harvest → rest. The conversation gets real about “enough,” active waiting, and how some harvests don’t look like we hoped—but God’s presence and faithfulness are still the truest reward. You’ll hear stories of ministry seasons taking flight, deployments that stretched dependence, and the long obedience behind “overnight” fruit. The episode lands with a gentle challenge: take a sacred pause to name your harvest and thank God—then celebrate.Listen for:The full rhythm of growth: prepare/plant/cultivate/prune/wait/harvest/restWhy “harvest” means embracing enough and practicing gratitudeReal-life examples of fruit in family, friendship, and ministryWhen the “harvest” isn’t what you expected—and where God meets youScripture referenced / alluded toGalatians 6:9 — “Let us not become weary in doing good… at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.”James 1:2–4 — “Consider it pure joy…,” perseverance maturing us (fits the “even if” harvest) John 15:1–5 (vine, pruning, fruit), Psalm 126:5–6 (sow in tears, reap with joy)Themes & frameworks to listThe harvest cycle: prepare → plant → cultivate → prune → wait → harvest → restActive waiting vs. passivity (worship, journaling, communion, breathwork, presence)Sabbath prep (“get things done so you can not get things done”)Enough as a spiritual posture; gratitude as the close of every seasonPractical promptsSacred Pause: Sit 5 minutes. Name 3 fruits from this season. Thank God for each.Relational Harvest: Text one friend/mentor and name the “fruit” you see in them.Presence Practice: One slow, intentional ritual (light a candle, pour-over coffee, or evening walk) to mark the shift from work to rest.Calls to actionShare your harvest on Instagram: @uncommonpurposepodcast Subscribe/follow the show; leave a review with one “harvest” you’re celebrating.

Mandy and Stephanie kick off Season 4 with contagious excitement (and matching outfits!) as they announce Harvest to Hope—a four-month journey through the holidays from fall to Christmas. Recorded in true Uncommon Purpose fashion—equal parts laughter, reflection, and depth—this conversation sets the tone for a season devoted to celebration, intentional living, and keeping Jesus at the center of it all.From pumpkin spice to Hallmark movies, the co-hosts talk honestly about what it means to stay present through the chaos of October to December. They name the tension between joy and exhaustion, resilience and rest, grief and gratitude, and remind listeners that every season can become sacred when we slow down and remember why we celebrate.Whether you love Christmas trees (plural!), red-truck décor, or late-night Hallmark binges, you’ll find warmth and purpose in this kickoff episode—and a gentle nudge to approach the coming months with hope, humor, and holy awareness.Video Audrey Mentioned at the Beginning of the Episode: IT'S TIME! Listen for:Why the co-hosts chose Harvest to Hope as their new themeHow to keep Jesus in the center of every celebrationHonest reflections on play, grief, resilience, and tirednessThe great Christmas-tree debate and Hallmark traditionsHow being present changes how we experience the seasonScriptures & ThemesMatthew 11:28-29 – “Come to me, all who are weary…” (rest & presence)Galatians 6:9 – Perseverance and harvestPsalm 46:10 – “Be still and know…” (centering in busy seasons)Themes: Presence, resilience, slowing down, purpose in celebration, joy + grief, spiritual rhythms, finding Jesus in every holidayTopics & StoriesWhy the team shifted from a “deep” planned season to this celebratory oneThe meaning behind Harvest to Hope — four months (Oct–Dec) of purpose-filled celebrationBalancing faith and fun: Halloween, Thanksgiving, Advent, and ChristmasHallmark movies, Christmas-tree traditions, and the true nativity timelineHonest talk about resilience and permission to rest“Sister Perry” (menopause humor and honesty) and being gentle with ourselvesThe rhythm of fall as a built-in invitation to slow down and reconnectMentions & ResourcesJohn Mark Comer’s “Ruthless Elimination of Hurry” sermon referenceTherapy & Theology Podcast with Lisa TerKeurstDull’s Tree Farm and Dickens on Main in TexasOura Ring conversation on rest and resilience trackingReflection Prompts for ListenersWhat does it mean for you to be present this holiday season?Where do you feel weary or “tired of being resilient”?What rhythms help you slow down—Sabbath, journaling, walks, worship?How might you find Jesus in the middle of the ordinary—pumpkins, parties, or porch lights?Calls to ActionFollow and engage on Instagram @uncommonpurposepodcast and Facebook.Comment your favorite fall-to-Christmas tradition or how you plan to stay present.Share this episode with a friend who needs a little hope heading into the holidays.

In this Season 4 kickoff, Mandy and Stephanie reunite after a long summer apart and invite listeners into an honest catch-up on life, loss, and laughter. From family bucket lists and barista daughters to RV trips, coffee rituals, and floods in Texas, the conversation moves easily between humor and depth. Both women share how the last few months have been marked by intentional family time, unexpected grief, physical healing, and renewed spiritual rhythms.They talk about what it means to be centered in Christ amid chaos, how our bodies carry unprocessed sorrow, and the importance of slowing down to notice both joy and redemption. It’s a tender reminder that God meets us right where we are—on porches, beaches, and backroads—holding both our laughter and our tears.Listen for:Stephanie’s “core-four” family summer, grief, and God’s redemptionMandy’s reflections on embodiment, grief triggers, and spiritual groundingReal talk about inflammation, clean coffee, and why our bodies rememberWhat it means to be centered—anchored in Jesus when life feels uprootedA reminder that presence, play, and prayer belong togetherScriptures & ThemesPsalm 34:18 – “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted.”Romans 8:28 – God works all things for good.Matthew 11:28–29 – Rest for the weary.Philippians 4:7 – Peace that passes understanding.Themes: Embodied faith, centering in Christ, redemption, grief, intentional presence, joy and sorrow coexisting.Places & Stories ReferencedTexas floods (July 2024) – community response, neighbor love, economic impactAsheville/North Carolina hurricane – resilience and recoverySouthwest Michigan (St. Joe & South Haven) – family RV trip and beach memoriesDisney World & Port Aransas family bucket list – joy and play as spiritual practiceResources to LinkEcho Prayer App – Mandy’s prayer-list reminder toolThe Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk (for embodied grief)Clean coffee recommendation: Kion Coffee (from their chiropractor’s tip)Family Framework at Northview Church (Adventure Race reference)Practices MentionedGrounding pads & walking barefoot (“toes in grass”)Yoga and somatic breathwork (for emotional regulation, not spiritual blending)Silence, solitude, journaling, communion, and worship as personal disciplines“Family Friday” bucket-list tradition for intentional connection“Sacred play” — rediscovering fun as a spiritual resetListener Reflection PromptsWhere have you been—emotionally, spiritually, physically—since summer?What grief might your body still be carrying?What practice (walks, worship, journaling) helps you feel centered in Christ?Where did you see God’s redemption in the middle of something hard?

In this episode, Mandy and Stephanie celebrate the conclusion of their third season by reflecting on the importance of celebration in their lives and faith. They discuss the significance of remembrance in scripture, and how personal experiences shape their understanding of celebration. The conversation highlights the importance of overcoming negative thought patterns and the significance of community in celebrating milestones. They also touch on the balance of joy and mourning, highlighting that both can coexist in meaningful ways.

In this episode of the Uncommon Purpose Podcast, Dr. Mike discusses the transformative power of chiropractic care. The conversation explores the importance of understanding trauma and stress, the evolution of chiropractic practice, and the necessity of making lifestyle changes to achieve optimal health. Dr. Mike emphasizes the role of neurologically based chiropractic in empowering patients to take control of their health and the significance of creating a supportive environment for healing. The episode concludes with insights on living an intentional life and the challenges of making lasting changes. In this episode, the conversation delves into the complexities of making healthy food choices in a toxic environment, the impact of one's upbringing and surroundings on health, and the importance of embracing discomfort for personal growth. The discussion also highlights the role of chiropractic care in maintaining health and the necessity of a long-term commitment to wellness.Resources: https://thepremierlife.comhttps://www.seedoilscout.com/

Join Mandy and Stephanie today as Jenni Keller shares her experiences in writing and ministry, highlighting her recent transition into entrepreneurship with a focus on leadership development for churches. The conversation highlights the importance of intentionality in parenting and the significance of acknowledging individual identities in twins. Throughout, themes of faith, personal growth, and the challenges of entrepreneurship are explored, showcasing Jenni's journey and the support of her friends. In this conversation, Jenni shares her journey of growth, faithfulness, and the importance of community and mentorship. She discusses overcoming doubt, the significance of spiritual disciplines, and the power of example in leadership. The conversation highlights the importance of connection, support, and a long-term commitment to faithfulness in one's spiritual journey.Resources: https://jennikeller.coLove Comes Near: An Advent Bible StudyEstablish Your Heart: A Six-week Study of JamesNLT Every Woman’s Bible

Jeff Scott is an author, speaker, and passionate teacher about the Holy Spirit. With nearly 50 years of Christian experience, he has dedicated himself to helping others understand and experience a meaningful relationship with God's Spirit.In this engaging podcast episode, Jeff Scott shares his journey of faith and understanding of the Holy Spirit. He discusses the often misunderstood role of the Holy Spirit as a guide, counselor, and comforter, emphasizing the importance of inviting the Holy Spirit into our lives. The conversation explores practical encounters with the Holy Spirit, the significance of being Spirit-led versus Spirit-filled, and the presence of the Holy Spirit in both the Old and New Testaments. Listeners are encouraged to seek and recognize the Holy Spirit's guidance in their daily lives, highlighting the transformative power of this divine presence. In this conversation, Jeff Scott shares his insights on recognizing the Holy Spirit in daily life, the importance of building relationships with the Holy Spirit, and his journey as an author. He emphasizes the significance of slowing down to notice divine guidance and the role of community in spiritual growth. Jeff discusses his book 'Empowered for More' and his passion for helping others understand their faith journey, while also reflecting on the art of writing and sharing wisdom.Recommended Resources:Book: "Empowered for More" by Jeff Scott (https://a.co/d/d4Q6Mg9)Website: JJeffersonScott.comDevotionals: "Guided" and "Never Alone"

In this engaging conversation, Mandy Polster shares her journey of connection, community, and spiritual growth. The discussion highlights the importance of friendships, the transition from corporate life to ministry, and the challenges and joys of ordination. Mandy reflects on her experiences with family, the pursuit of joy, and the deepening of her spiritual disciplines. The conversation concludes with thoughts on mentorship and the significance of living out one's calling in various contexts.

Mandy and Stephanie welcome listeners to season 3 of Uncommon Purpose Podcast! They share their excitement about this new season and how in each upcoming episode they have the joy and privilege of celebrating some sweet friends and the uncommon accomplishments in their lives. Listeners are invited to join the celebration!

Come along with Mandy and Stephanie for a very special Memorial Day conversation. Get to know Mandy and her husband, Phil Cooley. They share candidly about their life together and about how Phil found his calling and career of service in the Indiana Army National Guard as well as an Indiana State Trooper. Their conversation covers the following:The impact of a heritage of serviceThe journey to find this callingDeployment experiencesFinding and pursuing purposeThe experience of being a military spouseDecompressing as a familyThe value and importance of Memorial DayResources:Tribe by Sebastion Junger

Celebrate with Mandy and Stephanie as they share their meaningful moments from Season 2, Spiritual Friendships. In this episode they reflect on the following:Reflections on the basic human need of relationshipThe value of the face-to-face experience of relationshipComfort and its different meanings in friendshipThe discomfort and value of repairConfessional communityConfrontation definedA recap of our incredible podcast guestsA peek into what is to come!Resources:2 Corinthians 1:3-7Curt ThompsomBeing Known PodcastConfessional CommunityBooks by Curt ThompsomAnatomy of the SoulThe Soul of Shame

A gentle note about this episode. Hi Friends, in this episode our guest shares a deeply personal and emotional story about an accident involving her son which had a lasting impact on their lives. It is a conversation filled with love, resilience and hope, but it may be an emotional journey for some listeners. Please feel free to listen at your own pace. Take care of yourself along the way. And as always, we are grateful you are here with us.Join Mandy and Stephanie as they have a very tender conversation with Stephanie’s dear friend, Jamie Brunner. They are blessed to share some of the highs and lows of their 28-year friendship as a testimony of the blessing of spiritual friendship and the value of walking alongside. In this vulnerable conversation they discuss the following:How they met and cultivated their friendshipHow friendship was maintained over the years and across the milesThe way friendship weathered the different seasons of lifeThe power of faith and God in their lives and friendshipThe impact and blessing of coming alongside amid crisesLetting loved ones come alongside in hard timesHow to let your safe people in and whyThe way spiritual friendships bring support during heartbreaking situationsResources:1 Kings 3:9Alongside by Sarah Beckman

Mandy and Stephanie have a heartfelt conversation with friend and author Sarah Beckman. Sarah shares the inspiration and research process for her book and gives many practical ideas about implementing the principles she learned along the way. In this rich conversation they discuss the following:What it means to come alongside in friendshipTiers of friendship definedThe important role of curiosity and asking questionsThe important role of listeningHow to have hard conversations with those in crisisReal life examples of how to love your neighborThe little things and how they matterResources:Find Your People by Jenni AllenSarah BeckmanAlongside: A Practical Guide for Loving Your Neighbor in their Time of Trial by Sarah BeckmanJenni’s Ice CreamsFarmgirl Flowers

Mandy and Stephanie host a very special conversation with guest Landon Porter. He gives valuable insight into male friendships. In this conversation they discuss the following:The different relationship needs of menThe value of being known for menHow men find and cultivate friendshipsThe value of shared experiencesHow to pursue mentorship and why it’s importantFriendships between men and women and appropriate boundariesWorkplace relationshipsGood bible study and discipleship resourcesResources:1 Timothy 3:2People Fuel by John TownsendBetter ManVince MillerChris HarperChris Harper Quote: “Your church will never rise above the emotional and spiritual level of its men.”

Mandy and Stephanie share about a few friendships that are found in the scriptures. They talk about why each story is meaningful to them both. Thinking about the insights, wisdom, and examples that can be gleaned from the stories. In this conversation they touch on the following:Favorite friendships found in the ScripturesPaul and Barnabas, “mission field besties”A Biblical example of conflict between friendsGods’ goodness in reconciliationThe need to balance grace and truthRuth and Naomi, loyal friendsAge is just a number in friendshipsImpact and influence in friendshipsResources:Acts chapter 9-15The book of RuthStages of GriefThe book of JobThe Bible RecapThe Bible Project

Mandy and Stephanie engage in a vulnerable conversation with Katie Chow as she shares her heart on finding and maintaining friendships through the many seasons of life. They talk about the following:Intentional pursuit of friendships regardless of ages or stagesWhen friendships change and how to walk through the changesSharing your love and appreciation for your friendsPressing into the uncomfortable seasons of friendshipKeeping flexibility and allowing friendships to grow and changeHow to navigate when friendships don’t go as hopedGrieving when friendships don’t survive changeHonoring friendships for what they are/wereBringing vulnerability into relationshipsCultivating authentic friendships within familyResources:Titus 2:3-5

Join Mandy and Stephanie as they talk with their dear friend Sue Scott. Sue shares such a richness of life experience in friendship and relationships. Sue talks about the following:Deep friendshipsHow uncomfortable conversations can create lasting relationshipsWhat long term relationships look likeThe difference between self-consciousness and self-awarenessThe value of paying attention in relationshipWhat is attunementThe role of Holy Spirit in friendshipWhen and how the role of parenting turns to friendship with childrenResources: Titus 2:3-5Growth Seekers

Mandy and Stephanie share a heartfelt conversation about the more challenging topics of conflict and forgiveness in the specific context of friendship. How to walk this out in relationship using real life vulnerable examples. Talking about the following:Gossip- what it is and why it is destructiveProcessing- what healthy processing looks likeThe needs we carry in conflictThe impact of not keeping our word or commitmentsOwning our capacity with confidenceHow to repair after conflictRestoration and reconciliationHealthy boundariesHow conflict can lead to deeper connection and intimacyResources:Lisa DamourTrust by Henry CloudBrene Brown BRAVE resourceUnoffendable by Brant Hansen

Mandy and Stephanie discuss what it takes to maintain friendships as well as the importance of grace, listening, learning, honesty and openness when cultivating and maintaining friendships. Sharing thoughts on:The intentional pursuit of friendshipHow hard friendships can be for womenTaking risks to build friendshipStewarding relationships wellReleasing expectationsPraying over your friends and friendshipsResources:Margin by Richard SwensonAmos 3:3

Mandy and Stephanie continue the conversation about cultivating friendships. Sharing friendship experiences in real time, the value of true authenticity and vulnerability in relationships and the holy gift of true friendship. Reflecting on:What to look for in a friendshipHow to show up well in friendshipWhat makes your people, your peopleTiers of relationshipNavigating needs in relationshipsAttributes of a good friendThe risks of relationshipsThe role of faith in relationshipsResources::Find Your People by Jenni AllenFind your People Study Guide by Jenni AllenAlongside By Sarah Beckman

Mandy and Stephanie begin season 2 talking about the importance of friendships. How our souls are designed for connection within friendship and how to cultivate friendships over the years and through the seasons. Sharing about:What we need in friendshipThe way God demonstrates relationship for usIntrovert and extrovert differencesThe value of being known and safe in a relationshipSharing and oversharingGenesis 1:1-2Genisis 1:26-27Safe People by Henry Cloud and John TownsendHow People Grow by Henry Cloud and John Townsend

Celebration 2.0 and a huge Thank You!Join Mandy and Stephanie as they sit in gratitude for the completion of Season One launch and all the wonderful listeners of Uncommon Purpose Podcast. Sharing thoughts on:Big milestones of the seasonHighs and lows of the launchThe heart of the show and next seasonHow you can come alongside usNew Year planning that brings joy, gratitude, and peaceEncouragement for how to implement this into your yearResources:Kylee HigginsNiah Jo PhotographyMargret FineburgWheel of LifeJohn Mark Comer Practicing the WayJohn Mark Comer Rule of Life Builder Ruth Haley Barton Embracing the rhythms of work and rest

Season One is complete!! Celebrate this exciting accomplishment with Mandy and Stephanie!They will share highlights from the season and what they have learned. Talking about:Challenges of this podcast endeavorHow God showed up in this seasonWhat is coming for season 2!!!Resources:The Enneagram JourneyThe Enneagram InstituteA Long Obedience in the Same Direction by Eugene H. Peterson

Mandy and Stephanie consider how living with one another in WITHNESS counteracts the fear of being alone, separation, and isolation. As well as how this messy value of withness brings incredible richness to this life. Talking through the followingThe important difference between withness and witnessThe impact of coming alongside others in life’s big momentsJesus in WithnessWhen we don’t know what to sayThe Ministry of PresenceWithness as a skillResourcesThe Chosen

Mandy and Stephaine share their thoughts on the challenging topic of apology. What it is and what it is not. Jump right in:What genuine apology looks and sounds likeApology as the access point to humilityShame- based apology vs. humility-based apologyImportant steps to making amendsDangers of over apologizingHow awareness informs apologyResources:Psalm 51:7Matthew 18:15-20The 5 Apology Languages by Gary ChapmanApology Language QuizCelebrate RecoveryLife Recovery

Join Mandy and Stephanie as they explore the different ways to hear God and the different ways He speaks. They will discuss the following:The way it feels-mind, body and soul-when Gods speaks.How self-doubt affects hearing GodTrusting yourself and your history with GodKnowing the God who pursuesWhat the quiet meansPassion worship momentThe ChosenThe StoryPsalm 23Romans 5:3-51 Kings 19Whisper by Mark BattersonShow quotes:“Experiencing God in the hard allows me to hold onto hope” Mandy“God is in the still small whisper-quiet yourself to hear Him.” Stephanie

Mandy and Stephanie talk about the benefits and blessings of progress as well as the contrasting costs to weigh in the pursuit of a balanced life. Today they share the following points:The need for discernment in progress consumptionThe value of self-awareness of intentions and motivesGlorifying God in all thingsQuestions to ask before consumingRights vs. benefitResources:+ Margin by Richard Swenson+BEMA Podcast+I Corinthians 6:12-19

What is margin? Mandy and Stephanie will talk through this concept, define it, share why it’s important and how one can start incorporating into daily life. They will touch onMargin as a wholistic self-care toolAcknowledgement of personal limitsHow ignoring the call for margin can have high costMargin as a priorityHealthy practices to honor commitment to marginResources:+ Margin by Richard Swenson+ The Chosen+ How to Create More Margin in Your Life by Michael Hyatt+Mark 2:27

Mandy and Stephanie talk through curiosity as a virtue and relationship enhancer. Sharing ingredients of healthy curiosity as well as misconceptions surrounding being a curious person. Join them as they chat about:Curiosity as a skill to be valued and developedCuriosity pitfallsPractical examples of curious questions in different relationship situations.Resources:+Book: Safe People: How to Find Relationships that are Good for you+Question Behind the Question+1 Corinthians 13

Co-hosts Mandy and Stephanie welcome you. Here they share their thoughts and hearts on themselves, each other and the origin of Uncommon Purpose Podcast. You will hear about how they met and bonded and the truths and values they are bringing to you, the listeners of Uncommon Purpose Podcast.

Cultivate your uncommon purpose with Mandy and Stephanie as they talk through what it looks like to show up for yourself. They will discuss the following:HALTSB – Hindrances to be aware ofSelf-Care – The role self-care plays in showing up and why it’s so important to pursueBoundaries- How healthy boundaries impact the way we show up in relationshipsResources:+The Enneagram Journey+The Enneagram Institute+1 Kings 19:3-7+Ruth Haley Barton Podcast+Jamie Kern Lima Book: Worthy+ Carey Nieuwhof Podcast Episode+Boundaries Book

Listen to a sneak peek of what you can expect from season one of the Uncommon Purpose Podcast!