VulgHER

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VulgHER

Drag divas Selma Nilla and Vicky Vee's unfiltered, unhinged, and unapologetically queer podcast, VulgHER!

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    RPDR All stars and Devil Wears Prada 2 Premiere Carpet Review

    Florals for spring? Groundbreaking.This week, Vicky and Selma review the Devil Wears Prada 2 red carpet… and immediately spiral into a full-blown fashion roast. From looks that deserved a standing ovation to outfits that should’ve been left in the group chat, nothing (and no one) is safe.Along the way, things derail…• Drag Race drama and why “All Stars” is losing its sparkle• A shower curtain that has declared personal war• The absolute menace that is a Partiful invite• And a live show story that somehow ends with… an unsolicited reveal 😵‍💫Also: one of the most unhinged “top picks” we’ve ever heard, a passionate PSA to stop asking drag queens to paint you, and enough hot takes to get them quietly removed from the Met Gala (if they were ever invited… which they should be).High fashion. Low tolerance. Zero filter.That’s all.

  2. 39

    Coachella Craze, Addison Rae Hot Take, and a High Heel Hit and Run

    Selma and Vicky return to absolutely spiral—starting with heat wave delusion and ending somewhere between Coachella rage and hooking up with animated cars.This episode has everything: a stiletto flying across a bar and giving someone a black eye, a DoorDash disaster that turned Taco Bell into soup, Grindr bots evolving into full AI catfish, and a hookup that somehow turned into a romantic pregame martini date (growth?).They also unpack Coachella influencer culture, overpriced beers, Sabrina Carpenter chaos, and why Addison Rae might need to pick a lane. Plus: shower beverages, Swedish candy obsessions, and one deeply concerning “hear me out.”It’s sweaty, feral, and somehow still about self-improvement.

  3. 38

    Buckee’s Bottom, Waymo Trauma, and Grindr Psychosis

    Selma and Vicky are back—and somehow this episode has everything: breaking sexual dry spells, self-driving cars that may or may not be government-controlled, and a deeply spiritual encounter with a honey butter chicken biscuit.What starts as a casual catch-up quickly spirals into chaos: power dynamics with “average-sized” daddies, being ghosted by Zara Larsson’s camera crew, and surviving a Waymo ride that felt one glitch away from a headline. Along the way, they unpack conspiracy theories about Antarctica (yes, really), debate whether gays are legally required to smile at drag shows, and share travel horror stories featuring cursed airport gates and disappointing Buckee’s runs.Also on the docket: Grindr in a new city, forgetting your douche at the worst possible time, audition chaos, wig-induced identity crises, and a passionate takedown of mobile ordering apps that simply do not work.It’s h*rny, unhinged, mildly paranoid—and exactly what you needed.

  4. 37

    Disneyland Fails and Special Massages with Kiki Ball-Change

    Selma and Vicky sit down to casually catch up and immediately spiral into a full-blown breakdown over a space movie, a deeply upsetting rock alien, and why public transit has officially become a lawless society. They rant about manspreading, social media shadowbans, and a viral clip that made the internet collectively uncomfortable.Along the way, they discuss thrift store art that feels vaguely cursed, Disneyland chaos, the emotional damage of Instagram likes, and a comment section that should’ve stayed private. Then Kiki Ball-Change enters the chat to discuss cabaret life, creative hustle, and creating your own opportunities instead of waiting for one.

  5. 36

    Hop Into the Chaos: An Unhinged Easter Special

    Happy Easter… but make it VulgHER.Selma and Vicky hop into this holiday episode like two chaotic bunnies on Red Bull - starting with nostalgic Easter vibes before immediately derailing into naughty rabbit behavior, dental conspiracies, and why the CVS Pharmacy is apparently a “local business.” From debating whether the Easter Bunny is sexy or sinister to pitching a fully sponsored adult Easter egg hunt (think p*ppers, Grindr premium, and mild public indecency), nothing is safe—including religion, public transit ads, and dentists who may or may not be running a scam ring. Along the way, they spiral through: chaotic candy taste tests, TikTok lives that should not exist, rich moms building $1,000 Easter baskets, and a deeply serious discussion about putting eggs in places eggs should never go. It’s nostalgic, feral, slightly sacrilegious, and somehow still about Easter.Basically: if Jesus rose for this… he’s going back down.

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    Uber problems, Dating Fails, and NYC Cookie Battle!

    Selma and Vicky are BACK - and this week completely spirals from the jump. What was supposed to be a chill catch-up turns into one of the most chaotic, unfiltered episodes yet.Between nonstop drag gigs, moving stress, and the general madness of NYC life, the girls are hanging on by a thread… and oversharing to cope. From leaking ceilings in the drag room (yes, wigs were at risk) to late Ubers that test your sanity, it’s already a lot—but that’s just the beginning.Things really go off the rails when a “casual” hookup story enters the chat and somehow becomes a full-blown saga. We’re talking unexpected turns, questionable decisions, and a moment that changes the entire vibe of the episode. You will have questions. We still have questions.Along the way, they also get into:-A heated debate over NYC cookies (and a shocking redemption arc)-The most unexpectedly wholesome pharmacy experience of all time-Why modern tech (looking at you, two-factor authentication) is actually ruining lives-Theater nights, drag gigs, and the chaos of performing while barely holding it together-And the one moment that absolutely should’ve stayed off mic… but didn’tIt’s messy, it’s hilarious, it’s a little too honest. If you love chaotic stories, unfiltered conversations, and “did-they-really-just-say-that” moments… this one’s for you.

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    Celebrity Drama: Chappell Roan Melt Down + Timothée Chalamet Hate Train 

    Welcome back to VulgHER, the podcast where nothing is off-limits and everything gets said out loud. This week, Selma and Vicky return from their chaotic VulgHER Live show to unpack the highs, the hangovers, and everything in between. From behind-the-scenes tea in NYC’s drag scene to brutally honest takes on queer nightlife, they dive into hookup disasters and successes, customer service chaos, and the internet trends that give them the ultimate ick. It’s messy, hilarious, and unapologetically real—plus a little Grindr scrolling and way too much honesty along the way.

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    VulgHER LIVE with Van Goth! Winner of Canada’s Drag Race!

    The girls are LIVE and absolutely unhinged in this chaotic episode of VulgHER. Selma and Vicky take the podcast to the stage for a night of drag, gossip, audience chaos, and zero censorship.From drag show etiquette and Grindr horror stories to Britney Spears gossip, Taco Bell orders, and the reality of moving in New York City — nothing is off limits. The hosts also welcome a very special guest: the winner of Canada’s Drag Race Season 6, Van Goth, who spills tea on winning the crown, Drag Race casting, and life after the show.

  9. 32

    Two Truths and a Trauma

    In this episode of VulgHER, Selma and Vicky spiral through one of their most chaotic conversations yet. From spotting an adult film star at the gym to sharing their most ridiculous hookup stories, nothing is off limits.The girls talk about the weird reality of Grindr and Sniffies culture, accidentally getting featured by Drag Race queens, and why one-ply toilet paper should be illegal. They also dive into subway preachers, strange gym encounters, and a game of Two Truths and a Lie that gets truly unhinged.

  10. 31

    Gold Medals and Golden Showers

    The chaos queens are back — and they’re taking it there. 😈In this unhinged, laugh-out-loud episode, Selma and Vicky return after technical difficulties to dish on NYC winter blues, moving stress, nightlife gossip, and the looming madness of their upcoming VulgHER Live show. From jury duty panic and apartment packing meltdowns to dating app horror stories and queer culture hot takes, nothing is off limits.They dive into Grindr drama, situationships, and the strange modern dating limbo between hookup culture and emotional commitment. The conversation spirals into kinks, boundaries, drag life, nightlife hookups, and the unexpected sex appeal of seeing a performer command a room.Plus: pop culture picks, music obsessions, figure skating discourse, and the small joys keeping them sane in a chaotic world.Raw, raunchy, and ridiculously funny — this episode is peak VulgHER.

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    Sniffies, Sobriety and Stardom! Inside the Adult Industry & NYC Nightlife with Boomer Banks

    This week on VulgHER, Selma and Vicky welcome nightlife legend, adult film icon, and DJ extraordinaire Boomer Banks. From dominating the adult industry to redefining himself through music, fashion, and advocacy, Boomer shares the raw truth behind fame, identity, and survival in queer nightlife culture.The trio dives into porn industry myths, sexual honesty, sobriety, HIV advocacy, online hate, and the reality of navigating fame across multiple careers. Expect wild stories, unfiltered laughs, and surprisingly deep conversations about healing, reinvention, and chosen family.

  12. 29

    Coming Out Stories, Corsets and Bedroom Chaos

    This week, Selma and Vicky ditch the wigs and heels to reveal the boys behind the glam. From raw coming-out stories to drag sacrifices, body image journeys, and chaotic dating drama, the girls get vulnerable.They dive into the confidence drag creates, the identity shifts that happen when the makeup comes off, and the real cost of serving fantasy for a living. Expect unhinged hot takes, nightlife tea, DL boy horror stories, and honest conversations about queer identity, mental health, and self-growth.

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    Jan Sport Spills Drag Race Tea & Nightlife Drama | VulgHER Podcast

    This week on VulgHER, we welcome our first-ever guest - Jan Sport - and nothing is off limits.We get into Drag Race behind-the-scenes tea, moments that didn’t make the final cut, Glam Awards drama, NYC nightlife chaos, paparazzi icks, and the kind of drag stories you truly cannot make up.From unhinged hookup mishaps to award show politics and life after reality TV, this episode goes exactly where it shouldn’t — and we loved every second of it.

  14. 27

    Heated Rivalry: The Gay Hockey Show that Ruined Our Lives

    This week on VulgHER, we lace up our skates, crack open a White Claw, and fully lose our minds over Heated Rivalry with Hudson Williams and Connor Storrie. From h*rny air-fryer fries and Zara Larsson TikTok spirals to gay hockey players ruining our emotional stability, we break down why this show hit way harder than expected.We talk closeted trauma, locker room fear, cottage-core yearning, perfect asses, devastating monologues, and why this wasn’t p*rn — it was a love story. Grab your jersey, babes, we’re not puck-ing around.

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    Fortnite, Freaky Tops, and the Fall of America

    This week, the girls are back with no theme, no filter, and a lot to say. From beauty picks and gaming obsessions to nightlife chaos, lost keys, and tops who refuse to travel, it’s business as usual—until it isn’t.The episode also unpacks everything happening in Minnesota, police violence, ICE, and the terrifying realities of power, profiling, and silence. It’s messy, it’s emotional, it’s vulgar(HER) — and it’s real.Laugh with us. Rage with us. And don’t forget: bottoms do enough already.

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    VulgHER Ep. 22: Kissed at Midnight and Blocked by Morning

    Pop the champagne — VulgHER is ringing in the New Year loud, loose, and completely unfiltered! Selma and Vicky unpack holiday chaos, travel disasters, unhinged hookups, divine alignment, and the emotional whiplash of surviving another year. With a live gift exchange, LOLs, real reflection, and big drag energy, this episode is the perfect send-off to the old year and a reckless welcome to the new one. 🥂

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    A Very VulgHER Christmas: Stuffed Stockings, Eggnog and Emotional Damage

    Merry Christmas, Ho Ho Hoes! Selma and Vicky are spiraling through the holidays with butter ice cream, frozen chicken desserts, cursed gift exchanges, seasonal depression, and absolutely no Christmas spirit.From bodega food crimes and STI testing to worst gifts, holiday traditions, and hiding from your family — this festive episode is pure chaos.Whether you’re dodging relatives, drinking eggnog alone, or dissociating in a faux fur coat, press play and suffer with us.

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    VulgHER Ep. 20: Snow, Slop & Emotional Frostbite!

    This week Selma and Vicky get icy, frisky, and aggressively opinionated as they dive headfirst into winter chaos. From disastrous hookups, edging discourse, and Sniffies drama to Christmas music demands, subway heat psychosis, soup rankings, and why winter fashion is both fierce and a nightmare — nothing is off limits.

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    VulgHER Ep. 19: Shopaholic Sleigh Bells

    The holidays are here and Selma & Vicky are jingling their jugs through the mall! From mall nostalgia to fake-fur drama and drag-queen dating rules. They spill tea on SNL wig secrets, Netflix buying Warner Bros, the Pantone “Cloud Dancer” flop, and a new obsession: Happy Hoo-ha gummies. It’s retail therapy meets therapy-therapy. This episode is a sleigh-ride through chaos, capitalism & camp!

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    VulgHER Ep. 18: My Boyfriend’s Husband’s Boyfriend’s Boyfriend

    In this week’s episode, Selma and Vicky get raw, real, and ridiculous talking about open relationships, hookup culture, jealousy, monogamy, and what it’s like dating in NYC as drag artists and nightlife girls.From mouth-breathers on the subway to awkward gym run-ins with past hookups, the dolls spill all. They dive into how social media, Grindr, and modern gay culture shape connection — and whether monogamy is even realistic anymore. Plus, some Thanksgiving chaos, “Sex and the City” confessions, and the eternal struggle of wanting love and a little dick on the side.

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    VulgHER Ep. 17: Quiet Piggy, It’s Thanksgiving!

    It’s Thanksgiving at VulgHER! Selma & Vicky return with turkey tits and a slice of pumpkin pie for a holiday feast of filth. From Friendsgiving drama and edging confessions to phone-sex schedules and health-insurance hell, this episode is a cornucopia of chaos. The girls talk family vs chosen family, Black Friday boycotts, and being grateful for drag sisters who can actually cook. Stuff yourself like a Thanksgiving turkey and get ready to laugh till you gobble!

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    VulgHER Ep. 16: Wicked, Dead Rats, & Movie Snacks!

    This week Selma & Vicky dive broom-first into a cinematic fever dream with big witch energy — Wicked drag, movie chaos, Glam Awards nominations, dead rats in walls, onion-butter cologne, spilled spaghetti disasters, and the existential terror of AMC popcorn prices.

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    VulgHER Ep. 15: NYC, Pizza Picks, & Pop Mart!

    VulgHER is back and unhinged! Selma & Vicky unbox Skullpanda Pop Mart cuties, kiki on NYC life (subway smells, $18 cocktails, hellish apartment hunts), celebrate Zohran’s win, side-eye Hilary Duff’s “Mature,” drag unstyled human-hair wigs, debate bodegas vs food trucks, pizza wars, Port Authority vs JFK (👀), Grindr grids, and the eternal question: to douche or not to douche.

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    VulgHER Ep. 14: Vacations, Halloween Chaos, & Cruise Confessions

    Halloween hangovers, Julia Fox discourse, Vogue World 2025 gagging, a Slater/Slayyyter banger, and the great debate: beach deck vs actual beach. Plus: cruise-ship hookups, a panty-sniffer “Tell Her,” and a Mile High Club bathroom flood (…yikes).

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    VulgHER Ep. 13: Halloween, Candy Chaos, & Boo Buckets!

    It’s Halloween, babes! Selma & Vicky return as queer ghosts from the beyond to talk Halloween memories, Disney villains, ghost sex, adult trick-or-treating, and a certain Louvre jewel heist that’s giving ✨iconic✨Expect ASMR candy chaos, haunted theater stories, and enough pumpkin talk to make your local bodega nervous.

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    VulgHER Ep. 12: Death Talk, Diane Keaton, & Spooky Season

    Vampire moms are in the chat! Selma & Vicky dive into: a cursed laundromat proposition, Vicky’s new “topping era,” ghosting icks, Amazon slander, Diane Keaton memories, death plans (diamonds? trees? cashmere sweaters?!), social media after loss, and biology we did not need to know. Plus unhinged listener stories (four burners blazing).

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    VulgHER Ep. 11: Pumpkin Chaos, Gilmore Girls, Cinnamon Brooms!

    It’s fall y’all! 🍂 Selma & Vicky dive into pumpkin chaos, gym icks, cinnamon brooms, apple-cider donuts, and a truly unhinged Hive Mind game.NYC cart etiquette rants, croissant sandwiches, Gilmore Girls in October, lanternflies (!!), and some… very candid dating stories.

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    VulgHER Ep. 10: Makeup, TSwift Hot Takes & a Ploughman’s Lunch

    VulgHER goes full glam (and a little grimy). 💄Selma & Vicky confess hookup chaos, Taylor Swift, and then dive deep into MAKEUP: drag vs. beauty basics, SFX school stories, product go-tos (Ben Nye/Mehron/Dermablend), brow blocking vs. shaving, glitter placement, nose/cheek math, and “why painting other people is hard.” Plus: Sleep/nightmare talk, a Ploughman’s Lunch obsession, and our new listener segment TELL HER (anonymous wild stories!).

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    VulgHER Ep. 9: Nostalgia! Bratz and Barbie’s, iPod nano’s, and Sims mansions!

    Let’s get VulgHER. In this unhinged nostalgia trip, Selma & Vicky hit: scholastic book fairs, scented erasers, the Kid Pix spray-paint tool, HitClips, iPod nano vs. shuffle drama, Sims mansions (with cheat codes, obviously), Bratz & Barbies, webkinz “relationships,” Dairy Queen, Taco Bell prices (rip), Applebee’s cast-party afters, and the eternal question: hash browns, home fries, or tots?

  30. 11

    VulgHER Ep. 8: Musical Theater Confessions, Broadway Chaos & Hosting NYFW

    Broadway, Trader Joe’s pumpkin cake, subway icks, and hosting NYFW — Selma & Vicky dive into musical theater nostalgia, backstage confessions, and AskHER listener questions in this packed episode of VulgHER.

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    VulgHER Ep. 7: Religion, Drag Booking Drama & Vicky’s Birthday Fire Island Chaos

    Selma & Vicky return with Episode 7! Vicky turns 26 with Fire Island chaos, sharing constipation confessions, the queens discuss their viral drag booking fees clip, and then dive deep into religion — from church camp fart-lighting to tarot cards and speaking in tongues.

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    VulgHER Ep. 6: Grindr Horror Stories, Dating App Drama & Hookup Culture Exposed

    Selma & Vicky go full chaos mode on dating and hookup apps — Grindr, Sniffies, Hinge, Scruff, and more. From autocorrect disasters to hookup horror stories (and the mustache fetish no one asked for), this episode is pure VulgHER.📝 Got a question, confession, or NSFW advice request? Email us at [email protected] 📍 Recorded at https://www.instagram.com/redeye_ny 📢 Follow us on socials @VulgHERPod https://linktr.ee/vulgherpod 🩷 VulgHER Team Selma Nilla – https://www.instagram.com/selmanillanyc Vicky Vee – https://www.instagram.com/vickyveenyc Blacc Cherry – https://www.instagram.com/theblacccherry Bee Fifield – https://www.instagram.com/beexryce 🎵 Theme Music – https://www.instagram.com/thebillyrecce 🎨 Cover Art – https://www.instagram.com/juanjonas_files

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    VulgHER Ep. 5: The TOP Fast Foods, starring in a queer movie & the funniest drag queen question

    Selma Nilla and Vicky Vee get greasy in this fast food episode of VulgHER. From their most iconic and favorite fast food locations to their most horrific experiences getting food delivered on doordash.📝 Got a question, confession, or NSFW advice request? Email us at [email protected]📍Recorded at https://www.instagram.com/redeye_ny📢 Follow us on socials @VulgHERPodhttps://linktr.ee/vulgherpod🩷 VulgHER TeamSelma Nilla https://www.instagram.com/selmanillanycVicky Vee https://www.instagram.com/vickyveenycBlacc Cherry https://www.instagram.com/theblacccherryBee Fifield https://www.instagram.com/beexryce🎵 Theme Music https://www.instagram.com/thebillyrecce🎨 Cover Art https://www.instagram.com/juanjonas_files

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    VulgHER Ep. 4: Cheesecake Factory, Devil Wears Prada & Our Wildest Kinks

    Cheesecake drama, Devil Wears Prada revelations, and the kinkiest conversation yet — Selma & Vicky break down their wildest fantasies, from breath play to balloon fetishes. Get ready for laughs, gasps, and a whole lot of TMI.📝 Got a question, confession, or NSFW advice request? Email us at [email protected]📍 Recorded at https://www.instagram.com/redeye_ny📢 Follow us on socials @VulgHERPodhttps://linktr.ee/vulgherpod🩷 VulgHER TeamSelma Nilla – https://www.instagram.com/selmanillanycVicky Vee – https://www.instagram.com/vickyveenycBlacc Cherry – https://www.instagram.com/theblacccherryBee Fifield – https://www.instagram.com/beexryce🎵 Theme Music – https://www.instagram.com/thebillyrecce🎨 Cover Art – https://www.instagram.com/juanjonas_files

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    VulgHER Ep. 3: Jennifer Coolidge, Grindr problems, & a Full P*rn Deep Dive

    Selma Nilla & Vicky Vee go from Jennifer Coolidge cosplay to NYC subway surfer chaos — then dive headfirst into the world of p*rn, toys, and their guilty-pleasure categories. Plus, your juiciest AskHER questions get answered.📝 Got a question, confession, or NSFW advice request? Email us at [email protected]📍 Recorded at https://www.instagram.com/redeye_ny📢 Follow us on socials @VulgHERPodhttps://linktr.ee/vulgherpod🩷 VulgHER TeamSelma Nilla – https://www.instagram.com/selmanillanycVicky Vee – https://www.instagram.com/vickyveenycBlacc Cherry – https://www.instagram.com/theblacccherryBee Fifield – https://www.instagram.com/beexryce🎵 Theme Music – https://www.instagram.com/thebillyrecce🎨 Cover Art – https://www.instagram.com/jonas.fashionfiles

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    VulgHER Ep 2: Firsts Part 2 & Drag Gig Disasters

    Selma Nilla and Vicky Vee are back with Firsts Part 2 — from hookups to first drag gigs. Messier, filthier, and even more VulgHER. 💋✨

  37. 4

    VulgHER Ep 1: First Kisses, Scary D Pics, and MTA Meltdowns

    Drag divas Selma Nilla and Vicky Vee kick off the VulgHER podcast with a wild ride through their "firsts" — first kisses, first drag gigs, first time doing you know what and more. From edible trips to Taco Bell orders to MTA rage, nothing is off-limits. Get into it and get VulgHER. 💋✨https://linktr.ee/vulgherpod

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Drag divas Selma Nilla and Vicky Vee's unfiltered, unhinged, and unapologetically queer podcast, VulgHER!

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