Wandering Wads

This week on the Coach Wads Podcast, I’m joined by Valentino Di Lorenzo—the founder of DiLorenzo Soccer Mindset and a true game-changer in the world of youth sports. We dive into Valentino’s powerful story, from growing up playing soccer in Italy to developing a proven 90-day mindset coaching program that’s transforming how young athletes show up on and off the field.We explore why so many kids quit sports by age 13, how fear and pressure from coaches, parents, and internal expectations can mentally block performance, and what Valentino’s doing to help reverse that. He breaks down how his program reprograms self-talk, builds belief systems, and gives kids the mental tools they need to play with confidence, aggression, and joy again.We also talk about the role of mentors, why mindset is the “missing piece” in most athlete development programs, and how habits and positive routines create sustainable growth. Whether you’re a coach, parent, or just someone who wants to lead with more impact—this episode will hit home.Connect with Valentino and his team: https://www.dilorenzosoccermindset.com/Instagarm: @dilorenzosoccermindset—🔥 Like what you’re hearing? Subscribe, share, and tag someone who needs this.#YouthMindset #AthleteConfidence #MentalToughness #YouthSportsCoaching #MindsetCoaching #DSM #CoachWads #YouthDevelopment #LeadershipInSports #GrowthMindset

It is my great pleasure to introduce to you all, Tommy Rhine, founder of Spectrum in Camouflage. In this powerful episode of Coach Wads LIVE & Unfiltered, Tommy opens up about raising a son with regressive autism, the mental toll of parenting in silence, and how hunting, faith, and community helped him reclaim his life. From growing a successful family business to launching a podcast and nonprofit rooted in transparency and hope, Tommy shares how he's turning pain into purpose—building awareness and support for parents, caregivers, and anyone navigating adversity.🎯 Connect with Tommy here:🌐 Website & All Links: https://spectrumincamouflage.com#Fatherhood #AutismAwareness #SpecialNeedsParenting #MentalHealthMatters #ParentingJourney #MindsetCoach #BlueCollarDad #SpectrumInCamouflage #FaithAndFamily #MenSupportingMen #PodcastLife #OvercomingAdversity #HealingThroughPurpose #UnfilteredConversations #CaretakerSupport #Advocacy

In this episode of Coach Wads LIVE & Unfiltered, I had the pleasure of sitting down with Scott Robinson, founder & CEO of Alchemy Athletics, to dive deep into training young athletes, mindset development, and the power of discipline. We discuss how to shape future champions, the mental and physical preparation needed for success, and why developing strong habits in youth sports translates to lifelong success. Whether you're a coach, a parent, or an athlete looking to level up, this conversation is packed with valuable insights and actionable takeaways.🎯 Connect with Scott Robinson: 📷 Instagram: Alchemy Athletics 🌍 Website: Alchemy Athletics#YouthAthlete #SportsTraining #MentalToughness #AthleteMindset #AlchemyAthletics ​

In this episode of Coach Wads LIVE & Unfiltered, Deven Stone shares his powerful transformation—from small-town Kentucky to the Air Force, and ultimately, to a life of discipline, personal growth, and leadership. We dive into his journey of overcoming setbacks, stepping into fatherhood with purpose, and building a mindset rooted in resilience and self-discipline.🔥 Inside this episode:✅ Lessons from the military & how they shape mental toughness✅ The pivotal moment that pushed Deven into personal development✅ The power of fitness, nutrition, and mindset in creating lasting change✅ Strategies for becoming a stronger leader—at home and in lifeThis is an episode for anyone looking to break old patterns, build unshakable confidence, and create a disciplined, purpose-driven life.🎯 Connect with Deven Stone:📷 Instagram: @DevenStone98🎵 TikTok: @DevenStone98🎥 YouTube: @DevenStone98📘 Facebook: Deven Stone#Mindset #PersonalGrowth #Discipline #Fatherhood #Leadership #Resilience #MentalToughness

Is there a difference between being content and being complacent? In this episode of Coach Wads Live & Unfiltered, we dive deep into mindset, personal growth, and leadership, breaking down how small choices shape confidence, discipline, and success. Learn why contentment can fuel progress, while complacency slowly erodes self-trust—and how to take consistent action to level up in fatherhood, business, and life.

In this episode, we sit down with Trapper Searles, a serial entrepreneur and wealth of knowledge, for an insightful conversation about business, mindset, and the journey of growth. We discuss his experiences in entrepreneurship, lessons learned, and where Coach Wads is headed next. Trapper brings his unique perspective on success, discipline, and adapting in an ever-changing world—this is one you don’t want to miss!🎯 Connect with Trapper Searles:📍 LinkedIn:Trapper Searles📷 Instagram:@trappersearles🎵 TikTok:@trappersearlesTune in now and drop a comment with your biggest takeaway! 🔥 #EntrepreneurMindset #Success #Growth #MindsetMatters #BusinessLeadership

In this episode, we sit down with our friend Deryk Faber to catch up, dive into his journey as an entrepreneur, and talk about his Credit & Financial Mentoring business. We also break down the mindset required for success and where Coach Wads is headed next. Don’t miss this conversation packed with insights on growth, business, and taking control of your future!🎯 Connect with Deryk Faber:📺 YouTube:Scarlett Arrow Family📘 Facebook:Deryk Faber🎵 TikTok:@derykfaberListen now and let us know your biggest takeaway! 🔥 #MindsetMatters #FinancialFreedom #SuccessMindset

There's a First Time For Everything... Today we're trying something new. I would love your feedback; let me know if you like this style of show or if it's just a ridiculous idea.

Today I delve into the profound lessons and mindset that sports teach us about life, drawing parallels between athletic competition and everyday challenges. Through my personal journey in sports and as a coach observing my boys, I've come to appreciate how sports instill values like perseverance, teamwork, and emotional control. I discuss how these lessons help us focus on the present and shape our future, emphasizing the mantra, "So what, next pitch?" to teach us to move forward without being held back by past successes or failures.

In today's episode, I dive into a tweet about Dave Pascoe, a 61-year-old whose epigenetic age is just 37, thanks to his unique lifestyle habits. This sparks a deeper exploration into whether such a lifestyle is practical or even affordable for the average person. I compare these methods with my own, emphasizing the importance of adapting these practices to fit personal circumstances and budgets. Join me as I break down the seven core pillars of his regimen and discuss how we can realistically incorporate elements of them into our daily lives to improve both physical and mental health. Let's get into the nitty-gritty of making health optimization accessible and practical for everyone.

I share a pivotal moment that sparked a major shift in my life—it wasn't about physical fitness or diet, but about a profound shift in MINDSET. I confronted my self-doubts and fears about my capabilities and responsibilities as a father and husband. This self-reflection led me to realize that real change begins in the mind. Join me as I dive into how I transformed my mindset to positively impact my health, both mental and physical, and how you can harness the power of your mind to change your life too. Let's talk about the journey from realizing the need for change to taking actionable steps towards a healthier, more fulfilled self.

Today, I delve into the impact of self-awareness and personal growth through a compelling conversation with a fellow coach about his struggles in coaching his son. This discussion leads us to explore the idea that our capacity for growth is intimately linked to our willingness to confront and accept the truths about ourselves. This theme is encapsulated in a powerful quote that prompts a deep reflection on personal development and the courage it takes to face our own imperfections head-on.

Today, I find a moment of peace in my happy place, despite the chilly morning. From unexpected wildlife encounters to tackling home projects and enjoying simple moments of stillness, I reflect on the beauty of the natural world and the tasks that make up our daily lives. Join me as I navigate the day's challenges, and share the joys and surprises of everyday life.

"Encouragement in the mouth of a woman is strength in the heart of a man." Today I dive into the potent impact of encouragement within relationships, particularly the transformative power of kind words from a partner. After receiving a surprising and uplifting message from my wife, I'm inspired to reflect on the dynamic strength that support and recognition can bring to both partners, emphasizing how such gestures fuel motivation and enhance personal growth.

Delving into the "manosphere" and "red pill" movement has me questioning its impact on society. It's a realm advocating for men's rights but often slips into promoting toxic ideals that undercut women's value. While the movement claims to champion male empowerment, it veers towards negative expressions of masculinity, confusing young men about their roles and what being a man is all about. In my view, true strength in men doesn't come from dominance but from leading with integrity and respect, aiming to uplift rather than diminish. Let's shift our mindset back to what masculinity truly is, aiming for a balance that honors both men and women, fostering unity and shared growth.

Today, I dig into why patience eludes me and how it’s a learned skill in a world craving instant gratification. From managing my kid’s defiance to navigating daily routines and long-term goals, I explore the essence of patience, acknowledging that good things truly come from consistent effort and timing. Follow my journey of turning frustration into lessons on patience, proving that while we can’t control everything, we can master our response to life’s tests.

Ever start your day feeling "off"? Join me today as we navigate a hectic day and try to turn this day around. Discover the importance of a quick moment with your Mindset Journal can refocus and realign and make all the difference.

In today's episode I grapple with the strange concept of time. What is time and how do we manage our time? Are we being productive, are we just busy, or are we wasting time?

Facing the tide of misinformation and manipulation from all sides, I'm compelled to share my frustration; urge critical thinking and mindset shift. As I navigate through the clutter of skewed narratives and echo chambers, my skepticism is both a shield and a lonely path. Let's delve deeper into the responsibility of discerning truth in a world saturated with deception. Wandering Wads, where we talk all things MINDSET. FEC Website: https://www.fec.gov/data/browse-data/ Trump Ohio Speech: https://youtu.be/NwF5SeswFQc?si=7XQkFQl5mnFgNzjx

In this phase of my journey, I’m feeling the weight of solo effort as I navigate the early stages of building my brand and working towards financial and time freedom. It’s all on me right now, handling everything from video edits to developing my apparel brand, and the path feels pretty lonely. But I’m not seeking a lighter load; instead, I’m aiming to strengthen my shoulders for the journey ahead. I’m reminding myself that growth happens outside the comfort zone, and with time and perseverance, I believe in turning this solitude into success.

Starting fresh with the new quarter, month, week, and day, I’m taking a moment to reflect on my journey so far, aligning my goals and celebrating the progress. It’s a chance to recalibrate, considering both the gains and the areas needing attention. As I step into the gym, I’m reminded of the importance of balance, between pushing forward and ensuring rest, between the grind and family time. It's all about keeping your momentum.

Join me this morning as I share my reflective moments and the value of solitude with my thoughts. Amid the calm and occasional chaos of nature, I ponder life's complexities and the grounding effect of simple, mindful practices. As I prepared for the day's challenges, I contemplated the balance of pushing through the tough moments while appreciating the peaceful ones, highlighting the importance of self-discipline and mental clarity in navigating daily life.

Reflecting on the dynamic nature of relationships and the influence of those we surround ourselves with, I delve into the essence of forming a strong, supportive circle, emphasizing the mutual impact we have in each other's lives. Through personal anecdotes and the metaphor of concentric circles, I explore the importance of aligning with people who share our values and aspirations, underscoring the continuous process of evaluating and nurturing our social sphere for mutual growth and support.

Diving into the mental battles of self-doubt and negativity, I unravel the significance of rest and recovery in combating these challenging days. Through personal insights, I share practical tips including setting a bedtime alarm and the unique strategy of a 'coffee nap.' This narrative isn't just about battling negativity; it's about acknowledging the power of active recovery and finding solace in activities which align with personal goals and mental rejuvenation.

Navigating the unpredictable waters of parenting, I faced a philosophical inquiry from my eight-year-old, spiraling into a deeper, unexpectedly tricky conversation about the facts of life. This tale isn't just about answering those big life questions but also embracing the sometimes awkward, always important role of being the go-to source for knowledge, no matter how challenging the topic. It's a candid reflection on the complexities and joys of guiding young minds through life's vast, uncharted territories.

Kicking off the day right isn't just about jolting awake; it's about setting a rhythm that primes you for success. I've nailed down 4 practical steps to conquer the morning grogginess; shaping a routine that fuels both body and mind. Plus, I'll let you in on the ultimate 5 minute evening prep that guarantees a head start on tomorrow, proving it's the small tweaks that lead to big leaps in daily productivity and overall well-being.

Fatherhood is a journey without a map, filled with lessons both spoken and silently learned. Today, I'm sharing those unspoken truths and the silent lessons I hope my boys grasp as they grow. From the complexities of building confidence yet remaining humble, to the depths of a father’s love and fear, these are the heartfelt revelations of a dad navigating the intricate dance of guiding his children while preparing them to one day navigate the world on their own.

Why do we reliably show up for others but often fail to do the same for ourselves? I've started something new to help strengthen my mindset and reinforce the importance of showing up for myself. Let's build self-accountability into our daily/weekly routines. Let's fuel our ability to be in service of others by first showing up for ourselves.

Starting off the day with a challenge, like plunging into an ice bath, isn’t just about physical endurance; it's a mental fortitude test, setting the tone for the day. This practice of controlled adversity, drawing from both my experiences and insights from thinkers like James Lane Allen and Michael Easter, isn’t just about enduring the tough moments but building resilience for life's chaos. Incorporating this into my daily life, and even my parenting, is about seeking discomfort in preparing for life’s inevitable unpredictability, ensuring we're not just surviving but thriving through every challenge thrown our way.

You will never lose motivation again! In today's episode, it's all about the raw, internal drive that propels us forward, a kind of motivation that's ignited from within, not borrowed from the outside world. Tracking progress offers a tangible measure of how far we've come, providing a concrete reflection of our growth and the hurdles we've over-come. It’s not just about the destination but valuing each step of the climb, recognizing our strength in the struggles, and celebrating every win, big or small, along the way.

Today kicked off with a promise, but then, out of nowhere, something hit me hard, throwing a wrench into the works. It's not about seeking sympathy but acknowledging the unpredictable nature of life and the relative scale of bad days. While grappling with this migraine, I'm reminded that everyone has their battles, some seemingly larger than others, yet each person's struggle is valid. So, this is me, dealing with the day's curveball, committed to pushing through and sharing this slice of reality with you, hoping it resonates or helps someone feeling the same way.

Today in our Mindset Morning we dive into why our brains crave this predictability and how distinguishing between habits and routines can unlock comfort and safety. I'm juggling different morning schedules based on my kids' needs, and it's clear: sticking to these routines, especially with my 5 a.m. gym goal, keeps me grounded. Tackling the 'breadth vs. depth of experience' concept, I'm mixing up my workout regimes to dodge the boredom trap and keep my days lively and purposeful. Here's a peek into how I keep my routines flexible yet consistent, ensuring each day is primed for success.

What is the value of waking up tomorrow? In today's episode we go through a couple of thought experiments to highlight the amazing influence of mindset and how to start your day.

It's about recognizing and appreciating the value in all aspects of our lives, from our position in life to the things we have to the simple fact that we woke up today. Let's explore how embracing gratitude can transform our mindset and our well-being.

In today's episode I share with you an actual negative comment I received, few ways to change your mindset, things to keep in mind when you experience negative comments in everyday life. Let's rise above negativity.

In today's episode I discuss a recent failure of mine; I tried something new and it didn't pan out how I was hoping. I share with you some encouraging words to keep moving forward.

In today's episode we discuss the motivation behind the Mindset Morning series? It's part self-improvement and part overall WHY. Am I up for it? We'll find out.

In today's episode we discover a stark truth about why you're so overwhelmed. Let's throw away your to-do list, do this instead. Today we uncover a simple exercise you can do everyday to tackle and conquer your ever-growing to-do list. Let's get shit done!

There are 86,400 seconds in a day, today we discuss how to not let 10 seconds ruin it.

In today's episode we discuss the significance of the quote, "Real growth starts when you're tired of your own ****."

When the week doesn't start off as we'd hoped; how do we adapt and overcome. I'll share how I am taking back my week by reframing and refocusing my mindset.

On today's episode, we explore the quirky origins of some iconic brands and the personal origins of "Wandering Wads" by offering a unique blend of historical anecdotes, personal reflections, and an inspiring message on how YOU are in control of the meaning of your name. Join us as we explore how names can evolve from mere labels into symbols of innovations and success.

Welcome to Wandering Wads, where we talk all things mindset. You see, MINDSET is the master key. It will unlock the door to the life you want. But, it's on you to determine what's on the other side. In today's episode, we peel back the layers of a personal, introspective dialogue that unexpectedly evolved into a powerful moment of self-reflection. Initially a private conversation, this raw and insight into the thoughts that shape our actions felt too significant not to share. Together, we'll navigate through the familiar terrain of excuses, procrastination, rationalization, and the often-crippling fear of taking the first step, along with the trap of over-analysis that can hold us back from moving forward. This conversation is more than just words; it serves as a stark mirror to the self-imposed barriers that limit our potential. It's a rallying cry to shake off the comfort of complacency and a passionate appeal to embrace the reality that dreams are within reach, awaiting our move from mere planning to determined, continuous action. I invite you to join this exploration of MINDSET by subscribing, liking, and sharing. Engage with us by leaving your thoughts in the comments, contributing to a growing community dedicated to fostering self-confidence and empowering each other to craft a better future. Let's transform our dreams into our reality, together.