Whereabouts Tales | Stories of Belonging and Immigrant Experiences

📖 Buy The Courage to Be Disliked Here: https://amzn.eu/d/0d7e66AuAre you caught in the "Instagram Trap"? In Chapter 2 of the Book of Tales, we explore the psychology of true freedom and review the global bestseller, The Courage to Be Disliked.We are constantly told to live our "dream life," but how often are we actually just living someone else's dream for the validation? Inspired by a warning from Carl in Episode 60, we dive into the radical psychology of Alfred Adler. From the controversial idea that "trauma doesn't exist" to the ultimate life-hack of the "Separation of Tasks," this episode is a masterclass in learning how to stop caring about what other people think.Whether you are trying to travel the world, or just trying to leave a massive WhatsApp group chat without feeling guilty, this is your required reading.📚 The Whereabouts Reading List & Resources:• Get The Courage to Be Disliked: https://amzn.eu/d/0d7e66Au• Listen to Carl’s Full Interview (Episode 60): https://youtu.be/B0RpCS8FVds🎙️ Produced by Whereabouts Media:• Start your own podcast with Riverside (Our Affiliate Link): https://riverside.sjv.io/QYP9A9🎧 Chapters:00:00 - The "Instagram Trap" (Carl's Warning)00:44 - The Courage to Be Disliked: Adlerian Psychology01:23 - Lesson 1: Why Trauma is an Excuse (Teleology)02:25 - Lesson 2: The Separation of Tasks (The Office Birthday Cake)03:15 - Lesson 3: The True Definition of Freedom05:30 - The Whereabouts Media #TheCourageToBeDisliked #Psychology #AlfredAdler #BookReview #WhereaboutsMedia #DigitalNomad #PersonalGrowth #InstagramTrap

Welcome to an episode that truly left me speechless and filled with hope! I was absolutely thrilled to sit down with Marc and Alinka, an intercultural family whose journey is unlike any I’ve ever encountered. You might know them as "The Blaschkovs," a fascinating story in itself, as Marc adopted Alinka's unique Slavic family name for their wedding photography business, leading to a memorable start to our chat. (00:21)This couple's origins are as diverse as their adventures. Alinka, from Ukraine, and Marc, born in Ecuador but raised in Texas before returning to South America, found each other across continents in a way that feels like it’s straight out of a movie. They met on Instagram back in 2014 (05:33), when social media was still a nascent world where every like and follow felt significant. Their connection was instant and profound; Marc knew he wanted to marry Alinka within a week of talking. What followed was even more incredible: Alinka bought a one-way ticket to Ecuador just three months later (11:10)! It was a leap of faith built on deep trust, a concept I found incredibly inspiring in today's cynical world.I loved hearing about Alinka’s initial culture shock in Ecuador, from the street food to the bustling public transport. (18:51) After eight years establishing their life there, the war in Ukraine prompted another monumental decision: to move closer to Alinka's family. Their transition to Spain was smoothed by an almost unbelievable stroke of luck – an Instagram friend from Ecuador offered them his house and car in rural Galicia for a month, completely free of charge! (41:40) This act of kindness truly touched me, showcasing the power of genuine connection even across vast distances.But it wasn't all smooth sailing. I was shocked to learn about the immense difficulties they faced finding a permanent apartment in Spain, battling complex rental requirements and the infamous "ocupas" law. (28:10) Yet, their resilience shone through as they literally "sold themselves" to landlords through personal narratives and social media.This conversation was a powerful reminder for me about trust, open-mindedness, and the profound impact of travel on our perspectives. Marc's insights on how traveling cured his own prejudices, and Alinka's perspective on adapting to new cultures, resonated deeply. As a father, hearing their journey gave me immense hope for my son's future – a testament to kindness and connection in a world that often feels divided. If their life were a movie, they'd call it "Too Wild" (1:11:23), and honestly, after hearing their story, I couldn't agree more. Tune in for an episode that will challenge your perceptions and fill you with warmth!

Pre-Order Sarah's Brand New Book, The Scenic Route, right here: 👉 www.thescenicroutebook.comWelcome to Chapter 1 of the Book of Tales, a brand new series from Whereabouts Media. Every other week, we step off the road and into the library to dive deep into the psychology of global living, interviewing authors and dissecting the books that change the way we see the world.We’re told that remote work is the ultimate freedom. But what happens when the "Where" starts to feel like a cage?Today, former Fortune 500 HR leader Sarah Aviram joins us to break down the reality of her "12 countries in 12 months" experiment. We explore the exhaustion of constant change, the "30-day travel limit," and the ultimate question: Who am I when I don't have to be anything or anyone?If you’ve ever felt travel burnout, or wondered why your dream destination feels like your worst workspace, this episode is your roadmap.📚 The Whereabouts Reading List & Resources: • Pre-Order The Scenic Route: www.thescenicroutebook.com • Read Sarah's First Book (Remotivation): https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09XYZ1234 • Sarah's Website:https://sarahaviram.com🎧 In This Chapter: - Opening the Book of Tales (New Series Intro) - Leaving a Fortune 500 Career for the Unknown - The 12 Countries in 12 Months Experiment - The Reality of Remote Work & Time Zones - The 30-Day Limit: The Exhaustion of Constant Change - Is Remote Work Actually Fulfilling? - Writing "The Scenic Route" - Travel as a Mirror: Self-Discovery on the Road - Trust, Control, and The Future of Work - Advice for the Aspiring Nomad - Rapid Fire: The Magic of Kyoto & The Kuala Lumpur Burnout - The Whereabouts Media Outro🌍 About Whereabouts Tales: Produced by Whereabouts Media, we explore the intersection of travel, remote work, and human connection. Hit subscribe so you never miss our "Fresh Tales" from the road or our "Book of Tales" deep-dives.🎙️ Thinking about starting your own podcast? We use Riverside to record all our global guests in studio quality. Use our affiliate link here to get started:  https://riverside.sjv.io/QYP9A9

In this episode, I had the pleasure of sitting down with Rob Solves America, and I have to admit, it was one of those rare "cold start" conversations that resonated deeply and just flowed naturally from the get-go! I came into this chat knowing little beyond his name, but Rob’s incredible story immediately ignited my native curiosity.Rob takes us on a fascinating personal journey, tracing his roots from growing up in the bustling Bronx, New York City (01:46) – an experience he candidly describes as shaping his self-reliance and understanding of cultural enclaves (02:53) – to his current life in the vibrant city of Barcelona, Catalonia. His observation that New Yorkers are "kind but not nice" (04:19) struck me as particularly insightful. We delve into the catalysts behind his move, which went beyond the astronomical cost of living, including a pivotal work opportunity for his wife that led them to embrace Europe (09:08).His first impressions of Barcelona were nothing short of surreal (33:06), revealing unexpected cultural quirks – from where eggs are stored to the spontaneous local approach to making plans. I was utterly captivated by his newfound obsession with ancient architecture (35:05), seeing buildings with more history than the entire United States! We also explore the stark differences in healthcare systems, a topic I’m deeply passionate about, and Rob’s ongoing commitment as an expat to remain politically active back home (24:38).Rob powerfully articulates how living abroad has profoundly changed him (1:14:08), cultivating a deeper empathy for those learning new languages, a heightened appreciation for community, and a mindful approach to being a respectful guest. My personal key takeaways from our conversation include the immense value of nurturing family connections across distances through simple gestures like postcards (1:01:24), and the liberating effect of overcoming one’s ego when learning to speak a new tongue.We share laughs over his "elite" restaurant Spanish (38:35) and his newfound addiction to fresh baked bread (41:58). Rob offers compelling insights into what Spain genuinely excels at compared to the US – from its immaculate public transportation (1:20:59) to a superior quality of life – and where the US still holds its own, particularly in fostering entrepreneurship (1:23:56).Concluding our chat, Rob answers the pivotal question: given the chance, would he make the move all over again (1:28:01)? His resounding 'yes' perfectly encapsulates the episode's spirit, reminding us that home isn't merely a geographical location, but a cherished feeling (1:29:02). This episode is a rich tapestry of cultural exploration, personal evolution, and the boundless joy of embracing new experiences. You absolutely won’t want to miss it!

Hey everyone, Paul here, and I'm still buzzing from my incredible conversation with Yvonne! If you've ever dreamed of leaving your home country for a sunnier, slower pace of life, or even if you just need a serious dose of positivity, then you *have* to listen to this episode.Yvonne's story is truly captivating. Born in Germany, raised in Belgium, she’s lived what she calls a "nomad life" from a young age (03:17). But interestingly, Spain wasn't her first choice; her heart was set on France. We dive into how a freezing winter trip to France, combined with a family dream of opening a B&B, unexpectedly pivoted her and her husband Carsten towards the sunny shores of Andalusia (05:40).I was particularly fascinated by Yvonne's multilingual background, nurtured in a European school, which made the switch from French to Spanish surprisingly smooth (07:07). Her candid reflections on the cultural differences between Germany and Spain are eye-opening. She openly shares her struggles with what she perceives as a German "complaining" culture (12:18), contrasting it with the Spanish approach to life, resilience, and problem-solving, which she attributes, in part, to the legacy of dictatorship.But perhaps the most inspiring part of our chat was Yvonne's experience during the COVID-19 pandemic. When their newly established B&B (opened in 2014) faced complete shutdown for over a year and a half, Yvonne didn't despair. Instead, she embraced it as a "feature, not a bug" (51:19). She used the time to upskill in marketing and, incredibly, found innovative ways to stay connected with her guests through online "Ampero hours" and virtual wine tastings, even during personal tragedies (50:50). Her unwavering positivity and ability to focus on what *can* be done is truly contagious.My key takeaways from Yvonne's story are numerous: the power of adapting, the importance of focusing on what you can influence, and the profound difference between living to work versus working to live (1:05:00). Yvonne beautifully articulated that "home is a feeling" (1:19:41), not just a place, and how prioritizing family and embracing a slower pace has enriched her life in Spain. She also debunks the myth that expat life is all gin and tonics in the sun (1:18:58) – hard work is essential, but it’s about *how* you approach it.Join us for this wonderfully honest, insightful, and incredibly uplifting conversation. Yvonne's journey is a powerful reminder to find joy and opportunity even in the toughest times. You won't regret it!

Good evening, or whenever you're tuning in! I'm thrilled to bring you a truly special episode today, one that moves beyond typical expert advice to deliver a profound experience. I recently stumbled upon Carl's story on Reddit, where his 'Ask Me Anything' post captivated me: 'I'm 33, a man, and I traveled the whole world the last three years (85+ countries).' I knew immediately I had to invite him to share his incredible journey.Carl, an Austrian, embarked on a nearly three-year solo adventure. What struck me first was his refreshing honesty about how he afforded it: openly discussing 'privilege,' meticulous saving for over a decade, and clear priorities (06:11). I particularly resonated with his point about understanding the immense privilege of an Austrian passport and the ease of travel we often take for granted (09:25). His journey wasn't just about seeing places; it was about choosing experiences over possessions, giving up his apartment and belongings – a truly frightening leap of faith (14:13).His impulsive travels through South America, Asia, and Central Asia were filled with natural wonders and cultural immersion. He recounts booking a flight to Rio on a whim (16:55), or hiking through Nepal, asking villagers for a place to sleep without prior bookings (38:53). But Carl also sheds light on the often-unspoken realities of long-term travel, including profound loneliness, even when surrounded by people (22:35). The emotional drain of constantly forming and dissolving friendships truly made me think.From Bali’s digital nomad bubble and unexpected culinary delights (48:26) to infrastructure challenges in the Philippines and the overwhelming kindness of strangers in Kazakhstan, Carl encountered it all, often shattering his own prejudices (53:05). A profound takeaway for me was Carl's realization about the 'sweet spot' for travel – not endlessly, but in 4-6 month bursts, to avoid saturation and to allow for re-connection with home. He articulates brilliantly how removing daily distractions creates mental space for introspection and personal growth (1:23:24), leading to a detachment from money and possessions. This episode is a powerful reminder that 'home' isn't just a physical place, but the people and the feeling of belonging (1:40:31).If you've ever dreamt of traveling, or want to understand the deeper human experience behind such an epic journey, this episode is a must-listen. Carl's honesty, vulnerability, and incredible stories offer invaluable lessons on priorities, perspective, and what truly makes us happy. Join me as we explore the world through Carl's eyes, and perhaps find a bit of ourselves along the way.

In this deeply personal episode, I had the immense pleasure of sitting down with Yibet and Manuel. returnees and cultural explorers, as they trade the American dream for life in Valencia, Spain. Their immigrant experiences honor belonging and transformation from the start.From the outset, I was fascinated by their journey. Yibet and Manuel, originally from Texas and Mexico respectively, built a stable life with four children in the US. They had the big house, successful corporate jobs, and a seemingly ideal existence. But as Yibet shared, (05:43) something was missing – a sense of purpose. This feeling, coupled with their son's football opportunity in London, sparked a drastic decision: to sell everything and move to Europe.Their move wasn't without its challenges, which Yibet recounts with incredible honesty and humor. Imagine moving ten suitcases from the US to Spain, only to realize that (25:31) a typical Spanish taxi won't fit your luggage, or that even a large rental car won't hold both your family *and* your bags! Their apartment hunting was another eye-opener, navigating bureaucracy, multiple dialects, and bewildering "profile" rejections (29:03). As someone who's experienced similar frustrations in Germany, I truly empathized with the feeling of needing "closure" and understanding "why." The culture shocks, especially around personal space and the sacred Spanish siesta, (1:20:56) brought some truly hilarious and relatable moments.A huge takeaway for me was their profound shift in defining "home." For Yibet and Manuel, home is no longer a geographical place but a feeling, wherever family and purpose reside (1:34:04). I was moved by their reflection on gaining "time back" with their younger daughters, valuing presence over convenience. It's a "do-over" they never expected, and it highlights the true cost of the relentless American hustle. We also delved into their remarkable financial journey, inspired by Dave Ramsey, which helped them escape debt and build a foundation for this life-changing move (54:53).Yibet and Manuel’s candidness about their struggles—the fear, the logistical nightmares, the loss of friends who didn't understand their "no's," and even the imposter syndrome in her remote finance career (1:05:06)—makes their story incredibly real. Yet, their joy and conviction in their new life are undeniable. As Manuel simply puts it, their success is "just being here" (1:12:12), staying true to their purpose despite the hardships.This episode is a must-listen for anyone contemplating a big life change, feeling unfulfilled by the status quo, or simply needing inspiration to chase a different kind of happiness. Their journey reminds us that "the ugly truth behind the beautiful photos" is often where the most profound growth happens.

In this episode, I had the absolute pleasure of chatting with Stephanie Jahn, an American expat who traded the snowy landscapes of Wisconsin for the vibrant, sun-drenched streets of Seville, Spain. Our conversation couldn't have started better, diving straight into her unique upbringing in a tiny Wisconsin town with no stoplight and a gas station as the primary grocery store! (01:09) It immediately struck me how different her world was from the bustling metropolis she now calls home.Stephanie's journey to Spain began with a college study abroad semester in Seville, sparking a fascination with Europe's rich history and diverse cultures. I was particularly interested in how she navigated the transition from textbook Spanish to the rapid-fire, often abbreviated Andalusian dialect. We shared a laugh over the common struggles of language learning, from misinterpreting simple phrases like "over there" (22:11) to the sheer frustration of a witty one-liner getting lost in translation before you can even form the words. My personal takeaway? There is "no bigger enemy for learning a new language than your ego" (01:11:00), a sentiment I wholeheartedly agree with from my own German learning experience!Beyond language, Stephanie shared her inspiring story of building a life from scratch. From a fateful Facebook notification that led her to teach English (47:12) to rediscovering her passion for real estate, she’s now a relocation specialist, helping other expats find their footing in Spain. Her "love story" of making her first Spanish friend truly highlights the power of openness and saying "yes" to every opportunity (01:01:16). We also delved into the cultural differences, contrasting the US's 'work to live' mentality with Spain's embrace of slowing down and respecting personal time (01:44:01).Listening to Stephanie, I was reminded that success abroad isn't just about luck, but about hard work, perseverance, and a genuinely positive attitude. Her journey is a testament to embracing the unknown and chasing dreams, even when the path isn't clear. This episode is packed with relatable insights for anyone who has ever considered a move abroad or is simply curious about bridging cultures. It’s a warm, honest, and truly inspiring conversation that I know you’ll enjoy!

In this episode, I finally got to revisit a huge topic I missed last time: the impact of a specific "discovery" and how it shed light on the evolving landscape of modern journalism. I was genuinely surprised and, frankly, a bit disappointed to learn that individuals involved in misleading stories are still active – a stark reminder that the world often isn't fair (00:01). This led us into a fascinating discussion about how journalism has shifted from pure reporting to more of an entertainment medium over the last 30 years (00:37).I was so excited to hear Max talk about his new Substack, where he shares recipes and memories. It perfectly encapsulates our shared belief in the enduring power of long-form content, pushing back against the narrative that nobody has an attention span anymore (01:43). We delved into the beauty of platforms like Substack that allow for deeper dives into ideas, a refreshing change from the usual short, attention-grabbing articles.Max's work with "Food and Community" on social media also really resonated with me. I love the storytelling in his reels (06:59), and it highlights a different way of living – one that prioritizes slowing down, enjoying moments, and genuine social interaction, something I believe we've lost touch with, especially after COVID (07:46). This brought us to a deeper conversation about technology's impact, drawing a powerful parallel between social media and the tobacco industry's early days (09:47), and my growing concern about generational knowledge loss.But what truly inspired me was Max's personal journey from being a "witness" reporting on others' lives to actively "creating" his own. He shared how this led him from a fashion company to making wine, and now to his innovative non-alcoholic drink, GlassRose. This pivot to becoming the protagonist of his own story is incredibly powerful and shows the immense satisfaction that comes from bringing an idea to life (21:54). I particularly admire Max’s "slow way of living" and his philosophy of finding joy in the process (29:23), rather than being consumed by the "grind" culture. His lack of fear of failure and openness to unexpected opportunities, like a simple Facebook message that transformed his life (35:53), is a testament to embracing curiosity.We also touched upon the nuances of raising children in the US compared to Germany, exploring the educational system's flexibility versus standardization (47:39), and the pervasive "pursuit of happiness" in American culture. Finally, we teased our next episode with a discussion about Max’s journey into sobriety and the unexpected inspiration behind GlassRose (1:12:04). My biggest takeaway from this conversation is the profound importance of embracing the journey, finding joy in every step, and daring to create the life you truly want to live.

In this episode of Whereabouts Tales, I had the incredible pleasure of sitting down with Angela Jamieson, a woman whose life journey is as unconventional as it is inspiring. Join Angela, a cultural explorer and immigrant, sharing her global journey and story of belonging through unconventional life changes and personal growth. I was so excited to dive into her story, starting from her upbringing in Saskatoon, Canada, right in the same house she lives in today (1:10), to how she unexpectedly found her "ticket to travel" through engineering (3:20).Angela's career took her from Canada to the Netherlands and then to Brunei, living the life of an expat with all its perks – movers, nannies, cooks, and a vibrant international community. I particularly loved hearing about the cultural nuances she encountered, from the Dutch's relaxed cycling pace (11:10) to adapting to customs in an Islamic nation like Brunei (21:38). Angela's commitment to learning Dutch, which she considers her best second language (15:21), truly resonated with me as a powerful form of respect for her host countries. As I often reflected during our chat, doing your research and adapting to the local culture, rather than forcing your own, is key (23:45).Despite this outwardly glamorous and successful life, Angela began to feel a profound emptiness (24:53). She candidly shared how the "too privileged" existence, far from her roots, led to a deep yearning for the mundane – for the simple act of mowing her own lawn or ironing her own clothes (28:00). This realization, coupled with the profound loss of her father (46:17), became the catalyst for a monumental shift. It was a powerful reminder that sometimes, even with financial security, true fulfillment lies elsewhere, and as I often say, "you have two lives, and the second one starts when you realize you only have one" (52:31).This transformative period led Angela to quit her high-flying corporate job and embark on a new path: "inner engineering." What surprised and delighted me most was her unique approach to personal development, playfully dubbing herself a "poop philosopher." Yes, you read that right! Angela has authored a book called *Using Number Two to Get to Number One* (1:01:38), which uses the universal act of pooping as a metaphor for letting go of emotional baggage and embracing life. Her philosophy, "if you don't poop, you're full of sh*t" (54:38), is unexpectedly profound and hilarious. It's a testament to her audacity and honesty, making complex self-development concepts incredibly accessible and relatable. This book, and her whole journey, is about making personal development understandable, not philosophical (1:13:34).Join me for this unforgettable conversation with Angela as she shares how embracing the "weird" and letting go of perfectionism led her back to herself and her childhood dream of being a writer (1:12:31). Her story is a powerful reminder that sometimes, you have to travel far and even "flash a few things" to truly come home to yourself (1:20:11). I guarantee you'll walk away with a fresh perspective, a few laughs, and maybe even a new appreciation for your morning ritual.

In this episode of Whereabouts Tales, I had the immense pleasure of sitting down with Rafal, a truly incredible guest whose life story bridges two vastly different worlds. Rafal, at 46, spent his formative first 10 years in Communist Poland before embarking on a remarkable journey that led him to the United States for the next 36. This unique experience has given him an unparalleled perspective on both communism and capitalism, and I was so excited to dive into his insights.Imagine being nine years old and flying solo from Warsaw to JFK. That's exactly what Rafal did (1:36), and his vivid memories of the vibrant, colorful, and fast-paced US – a stark contrast to the "grayness" (3:55) of his communist homeland – were absolutely captivating. He recounted his first encounter with diversity, including an immigration officer using a Polish translation book, which truly highlighted the unique circumstances of that era.We explored the daily shocks of adapting to American life, from the car-centric culture to the abundance of choices in supermarkets – a world away from the "right to buy" lottery (14:36) for basic goods in Poland. I personally resonated with his "rejection" of long lines, a visceral memory from our shared Eastern European past (15:53). Rafal beautifully articulated how Hollywood movies shaped his expectations versus the reality he encountered, and how the infamous unofficial movie translators played a role in opening up communist societies (18:04).What struck me most was Rafal's honest reflection on how his childhood shaped him. He's a man driven by gratitude, prioritizing experiences over possessions, a lesson he now instills in his own daughter. We also delved into the stark differences in career paths (31:36) and the unique opportunities the US offers, contrasting with the "low floor, low ceiling" existence in communist Poland.This conversation was a powerful reminder that despite our different backgrounds, our shared history from Eastern Europe connects us on a profound level. Hearing Rafal describe feeling like a "permanent stranger" (50:07) – belonging everywhere and nowhere – truly resonated with me. His story is a testament to resilience, adaptation, and the enduring human spirit. I promise you'll gain a deeper understanding of what it means to truly navigate a world of contrasts.

In this episode of Whereabouts Tales, I had the absolute pleasure of sitting down with Azren The Language Nerd (https://azrenthelanguagenerd.com), a man whose life story is as rich and multi-layered as the languages he speaks. From the moment we started, I was captivated by his unique upbringing, speaking Gujarati, French, and English at home, a childhood that really sparked my own reflections as I’m raising a bilingual son myself (01:36). We delved deep into how growing up with multiple languages isn’t a hindrance, but rather a powerful developmental tool, shaping his brain from an early age.Azren shared a fascinating story about his exchange trip to rural France at just 15, a pivotal experience that ignited his passion and determination to truly "become French" (00:39). This commitment to cultural immersion, even as a teenager, set the stage for a compelling discussion on how language proficiency can influence our personality and interactions, and the subtle yet profound impact of cultural norms (06:42). We laughed about the importance of saying "bonjour" in France (08:09) and the "pronunciation privilege" (14:30) that can disarm strangers and build instant connection, a concept I’ve certainly witnessed in my own life.Beyond his linguistic prowess, I was particularly inspired by Azren's entrepreneurial journey. From running a window cleaning franchise (23:08) while still in university to founding Calgary Language Nerds, his path wasn’t linear. He openly discussed the initial struggles, the "baby steps" (28:56) he had to take, and how acknowledging his ego (34:03) was a massive hurdle. What truly impressed me about CLN’s philosophy is their focus on providing a reliable pathway to fluency (38:16) and their unique hiring approach, prioritizing human connection and the ability to learn over prior teaching experience (41:57).We also touched upon the future of language learning in an age of AI translation and wondered aloud if we’ll still need to speak languages in 10 years (53:45). Azren’s perspective on humans’ innate desire for skill, even when technology offers shortcuts, was incredibly thought-provoking and offered a hopeful outlook. Our conversation culminated in a profound discussion about resilience, gratitude, and how seeing life’s hard experiences as "features" rather than "bugs" (1:11:05) can shift our entire perspective.This episode is packed with personal insights, cultural revelations, and entrepreneurial wisdom. Azren's story is a testament to the power of passion, persistence, and an open mind.

Hey everyone, get ready for an episode that truly impressed and moved me. My guest, Fatima Martinez, is a force of nature whose journey of self-discovery and resilience spans continents. She started off with a statement that immediately grabbed me: "Mexico is too Mexican... and I don't like that." (0:00) That set the stage for a conversation full of unexpected twists and profound insights.Fatima's story begins in Mexico, where she was a national-level athlete, living a highly disciplined life. But at just 18, she faced what she calls her first "existential crisis," prompting a spontaneous leap to Italy, then London, simply because a university facade looked nice. I was deeply impressed by her early independence; at 17, she was already traveling solo internationally for competitions! Her parents, despite initial shock (especially when she announced her marriage in her final year of university without the traditional "asking for her hand"!), trusted her fiercely independent spirit.From London, Fatima and her husband embarked on another adventure: teaching English in China. This was a massive culture shock, as she navigated rural China with miming and broken Mandarin. We even share a laugh about a taxi driver who was a huge fan of Mexican telenovelas – what are the chances? (45:25) After returning to London and experiencing the 2008 financial crisis, Fatima found her footing in an unexpected job in jewelry sales, where her "hands-on experience" with fakes from China actually gave her an edge!But the real heart of our conversation lies in Singapore. When Fatima's husband got a job there, she moved pregnant and faced immense struggles with the heat, loneliness, and postpartum depression (1:01:59). She romanticized London, only to realize upon visiting that her old home was not set up for a new mom (1:10:04). It was in Singapore that Fatima found a unique community and a system that truly works. I was absolutely amazed by their COVID response, including free tests and even two dedicated doctors assigned to her children via WhatsApp, 24/7, for free (1:23:06). This level of care and organization is truly a testament to the "kampung spirit" – a sense of community and mutual support that she found there.However, this incredible chapter had to end. Fatima explains the bittersweet reasons for their departure, including the introduction of a "Compass System" (1:44:03), a points-based system for foreigners that made it increasingly difficult for her to work and live affordably as their contract perks ended. My key takeaway from her Singapore experience is the profound value of stability, predictability, and a community where you can truly trust your neighbors and feel safe – something she contrasted starkly with her observations back in Mexico. It’s a powerful reminder of what we, as social animals, truly need to thrive.Join me as Fatima shares her incredible story of never saying no to adventure, constantly adapting, and ultimately finding "home" in the most unexpected places. You don't want to miss this one!

This was such a captivating conversation! I was so excited to welcome back Gregory Dizzia, co-founder of the Cosmos University, for our third deep dive into the mysteries that bridge ancient wisdom and modern science. From the moment we started, it was clear we were on the trail of uncovering things that truly challenge our understanding of history and the "magic" that once permeated it.Greg shared the incredible origin story of Cosmos University, born from his lifelong fascination with alternative archaeology and the vast gap between conventional scientific understanding and profound spiritual or folkloric claims. We explored how seemingly "magical" properties of materials, like those attributed to precious stones or even common garlic, might have a verifiable scientific basis. For example, Greg broke down the mythical power of Solomon's Ring (5:00), explaining how its combination of silver, brass, and emerald could, in fact, leverage bioenergy, potential differences, and piezoelectric properties to "mess with the ether." It made me realize: **what we call "magic" today might simply be science we haven't yet understood or explained in modern terms** (38:31). We also discussed how ancient civilizations likely knew this, but chose to explain it in poetic rather than scientific terms.But the conversation truly took a mind-bending turn when we delved into our deep dive on the Book of Enoch. Greg revealed connections that left me speechless. He uncovered a prophecy within the book describing a 10,000-year period until "guilt is consummated." When aligning this ancient text with scientific flood dates, the timeline incredibly points to a momentous event like Christ's crucifixion (51:00) a discovery that sent shivers down my spine.Even more astounding was our discussion on the "Shepherd's Vision" (1:13:48). Enoch foresees 35 "good" leaders, followed by a 36th whose flock becomes corrupted. Greg's meticulous research revealed an uncanny parallel with the succession of Catholic Popes: 35 early Popes canonized as saints, followed by Pope Liberius, the 36th, whose tumultuous reign and the subsequent rise of Pope Damasus (often associated with the Council of Laodicea, which established strict new rules and a fixed canon of biblical texts around 1:20:00) profoundly reshaped Christianity. It made me wonder: **could these ancient texts contain truths so monumental that they remain hidden or dismissed even today, perhaps even within the secretive archives of the Vatican?** (1:27:13).We also touched on critical contemporary issues, from the ethical dilemmas of scientific advancements like AI-driven dream manipulation to the overwhelming "spam of information" in our digital age. Greg compellingly argued that perhaps we're not "reinventing the wheel," but rather rediscovering truths once widely known, now obscured by time.This episode is a must-listen for anyone curious about the hidden layers of history, the science behind the mystical, and the urgent need for open-mindedness in understanding our past. Greg's insights are not just thought-provoking; they're truly paradigm-shifting. I guarantee you'll want to re-evaluate everything you thought you knew!

Welcome to a truly extraordinary episode where I sit down with Max, a man whose life story defies conventional paths and radiates an infectious curiosity. From the moment we started, I was captivated by his candidness, beginning with the fascinating reason behind changing his birth name to "Max" upon arriving in America (0:07) – a decision rooted in practicality and a touch of old Hollywood cool.Max's journey began in a small German town, but his heart beat to an American rhythm, fueled by a deep love for blues, bluegrass, and the gritty allure of 40s noir literature (3:06). His early fascination wasn't just a hobby; it was a compass, guiding him to major in American literature and, ultimately, to New York City in 1989 as a journalist (16:04). His account of those initial months, living next to Katherine Hepburn and defying expectations to stay in the US, felt like something out of a movie. I loved hearing about his unique journalistic assignments, including riding Route 66 four times, which led to a bestselling book and an award-winning CD-ROM (20:49)!One of my biggest takeaways was Max's belief that America liberates the spirit, fostering an environment where "audacity is encouraged" (43:10) and failure is seen as a stepping stone. This contrasts sharply with the stifling mindset he observed in Europe, a point I deeply resonated with as someone who believes in "fail culture" not just as a concept but as a lived experience. We also delved into his surprising cultural shocks, particularly around social interactions (31:36), and his deep appreciation for American diner culture (36:40), which he fondly calls "the democratic restaurant of the new world."But Max's story doesn't stop there. Disillusioned with journalism after a major scandal (58:00), he completely reinvented himself, first as a children's apparel entrepreneur, then as a winemaker. A personal decision to stop drinking alcohol led to his most recent, incredibly innovative project: Glass Rose, a line of sparkling non-alcoholic beverages made from unfermented grapes (1:30:15). It’s a testament to his boundless creativity and willingness to embrace new challenges, even at 66 years old. His definition of "home" as an "emotion" (1:42:25) beautifully encapsulates his entire journey.Join me for an inspiring conversation that explores chasing dreams, embracing change, and finding home not in a place, but within yourself.

In this episode, I had the privilege of speaking with Wells Jones, a man whose life story is nothing short of an epic adventure. Wells, along with his partner Miles Spencer, embarked on an audacious journey in 2006, retracing T.E. Lawrence's path through the Middle East. What truly captivated me wasn't just the destination, but the sheer, mind-boggling preparation that went into it.Imagine spending eight months preparing for a trip through Saudi Arabia, Jordan, and Syria – not as soldiers, but as civilians, in the volatile post-9/11 era. Wells shares how they had to draft wills, secure international kidnap and ransom insurance, and even undergo specialized conflict and risk assessment training (04:05), led by a former SAS major who once guarded Princes Harry and William. It's truly a testament to their commitment!Their adventure was a fascinating blend of historical exploration and cutting-edge (for 2006!) technology. I was absolutely amazed to hear about their Motorola Razr phones, a satellite phone that doubled as a weapon (07:39), and their Panasonic Toughbook – which I promptly Googled – powered by a roll-out solar panel. And get this: they even had a Broadband Global Access Network (BGAN) terminal for *satellite internet in the desert* (13:34)! This wasn't just a trip; it was a self-contained, high-tech expedition into the unknown.Beyond the gear, Wells shares deeply personal encounters: the chaotic border crossings at gunpoint (20:57), the surprising welcome from Saudi citizens, including Prince Khalid bin Faisal himself, who apologized for 9/11 (26:44). But the most profoundly moving moment for me was hearing about their driver, Mahmoud, a Palestinian whose visceral hatred for Israel was palpable during a tense checkpoint encounter (36:35), and the raw, tearful confession of a Saudi friend whose own village produced 9/11 terrorists (1:11:03). These stories aren't just history; they're heart-wrenching human experiences.Wells and Miles later penned the incredible book, *A Line in the Sand*, which, as I discovered, masterfully blends historical accuracy with captivating fiction, including a time-travel device to revisit pivotal moments. My key takeaway from Wells's wisdom is his emphasis on "graciousness" as a universal language (49:56) and his message to the next generation: trust yourself, fully engage with where you are, cultivate curiosity, and *take action*.This conversation is a powerful reminder that understanding comes from truly listening and immersing yourself in different cultures, not just from headlines. Dive in and prepare to be inspired!

Hello, and welcome back to the podcast! I recently had the incredible pleasure of sitting down with Adam and Gabby Gonzalez (https://www.instagram.com/thegonzalezinspain/ )a dynamic couple who made the bold move from Southern and Northern California to Valencia, Spain, with their two daughters. Their story is a masterclass in intentional living and a powerful reminder that sometimes, you’re not running from anything, but towards a life you’ve always dreamt of.From the very beginning, I was captivated by their "why." As Gabby shared her experiences as a Crime Scene Investigator for 15 intense years, and Adam spoke of his remote work, it became clear that the pandemic acted as a pivotal moment for them. Like many of us, COVID-19 forced a re-evaluation of priorities, highlighting the grind of daily life versus precious family time. I deeply resonated with their realisation that there’s indeed "life after work," a stark contrast to the relentless pace many of us experience (04:41).Their journey to Spain was incredibly thoughtful. We delved into their decision-making process, from initially considering places like Texas or Florida, to exploring Portugal, and finally choosing Valencia over bustling Madrid or party-centric Barcelona. What struck me was their unwavering commitment to integrating, especially wanting their daughters to be fully bilingual. This dedication shone through even when tackling the infamous "Spainful" bureaucracy (07:52), a challenge they smartly navigated with professional help, something I always advocate for when making such a monumental life change.One of my biggest takeaways from our conversation was the profound cultural shifts they experienced. Adam's initial struggle with "sobremesa" the Spanish tradition of long, leisurely post-meal conversations against his American programming for efficiency was hilarious and incredibly relatable. And Gabby’s love for the daily cafe culture versus the "to-go" lifestyle of the US truly highlighted Europe's slower, more present pace. But perhaps the most eye-opening part was our discussion on the transformative walking culture (27:03). Hearing Adam boast about walking 24,000 steps in a day, compared to his 600 back home, underscored the drastic difference in daily movement and overall well-being. It sparked a personal reflection on the often-sedentary habits we fall into, and how movement can drastically improve our quality of life.We also touched on the stark difference in perceived safety, particularly concerning their daughters' independence. And of course, being the food enthusiast I am, our chat about Valencia’s incredible fresh markets and the unexpected craving for spice was a highlight!Ultimately, Adam and Gabby's story, particularly the feeling of truly "feeling human" that Spain offers (1:14:30), resonated deeply with me. It reinforced my own belief that "home is a feeling, not a place," and that stepping outside your "village"—no matter how big or small is a gift that broadens horizons and connects you with your true self.Tune in to hear how they navigated this exciting new chapter, from their first "holy crap" moment to their vision for the future. Their candidness, humor, and refreshing perspective will inspire anyone dreaming of a different path.

Buckle up, because this episode with Greg was a wild ride, and I mean that literally! We kicked things off talking about my latest thrill on the Autobahn, hitting speeds most people only dream of (0:37). But beyond the adrenaline, this led us down a fascinating road trip through the impact of technology on society, exploring how everything feels so slow once you step off that fast lane (2:07).I was so excited to dive deep into the future of humanity, especially with Greg's insights on AI and automation. We pondered how AI is already reshaping our job market and the critical question of what kind of economy exists when machines can fulfill most human needs (25:20). It’s not just about jobs; we also got into the alarming ways AI is being used for narrative shaping and manipulation on social media (31:10). This made me reflect on my own experiences growing up in communist Romania, where the state meticulously controlled information (12:46), drawing eerie parallels to today's digital landscape.But it wasn't all dystopian. We explored the incredible potential of AI in medicine, particularly its diagnostic capabilities and pattern recognition that could revolutionize healthcare, supporting doctors and saving lives (38:28). This led us to a deeply personal discussion on health and biohacking. I shared my journey with extended fasting and how the body’s innate regenerative processes like autophagy are truly mind-blowing (52:33). We even touched on cutting-edge DNA manipulation and the mRNA vaccine (45:50) – pushing the boundaries of what it means to be human.What truly stuck with me from this conversation was the stark contrast in lifestyles we observed globally. We compared the "live to work" mentality of some cultures with the "work to live" philosophy in places like Southern Europe, where community and family time are paramount (1:33:29). This brought us to questions of societal purpose, the ethics of war in an age of advanced weaponry (1:41:56), and even the philosophical implications of immortality and how we measure time (1:21:01).This episode is a journey through speed, technology, human nature, and the quest for meaning. My key takeaway? We're at a pivotal moment where understanding our past and questioning our "progress" is more crucial than ever. This conversation, while diverging from our usual Cosmos University focus, set the perfect stage for our next deep dive into ancient wisdom. I promise, you won't want to miss it!

In this episode, I had the immense pleasure of sitting down with Arjun Chhabra, whose journey I've come to call 'From Heartbreak in India to Healing in Spain.' I first connected with Arjun after seeing one of his Reddit posts, drawn in by the raw honesty of his story, and quickly realized he was a perfect fit for Whereabouts Tales, embodying the very spirit of transformation.Arjun shares the profoundly personal story of his mother's battle with breast cancer and her tragic passing in 2013 [1:21, 2:40]. This devastating loss plunged him into depression, leading to significant weight gain and a complete loss of direction. I truly felt his pain as he recounted those difficult months of helplessness, searching for answers and finding none.He then opens up about his upbringing in bustling Mumbai, challenging the stereotypes of India we often see. We delve into his unique experience with an arranged marriage [18:38, 20:26], a process that for him, involved surprising honesty and self-discovery.The conversation takes a fascinating turn as Arjun recounts his and his wife’s brave decision to sell everything and move to Spain in late 2019 [32:16], only to be met by the global pandemic [33:32]. This unforeseen challenge forced a major pivot from their organic clothing brand to a deep dive into wellness, reinvesting everything into studying functional medicine and herbalism. I was captivated by their resilience and adaptability.Arjun is now a Mind Expansion Coach, and his insights into the mind-body connection are truly transformative. He explains how our state of mind dictates our well-being [1:09:31], the importance of living in the present moment, and how trauma—even daily stress—can manifest physically. I found his distinction between easy and hard choices, and the long-term impact on our lives, particularly powerful.My key takeaway from our chat is Arjun's profound belief that healing comes from within, through acceptance and an alignment with our true purpose. It's about letting go of emotional baggage and connecting with our higher selves [1:18:05]. He’s dedicated to making wellness accessible through an upcoming online resource library, a book, and even a wellness center in Spain [1:18:41, 1:21:25, 1:25:11]. This conversation is a testament to resilience, purpose, and the incredible power of self-healing. Tune in for a truly inspiring and thought-provoking listen!Chapters00:00 Introduction 01:17 Arjun's Journey: From India to Spain04:06 The Impact of Personal Loss07:18 Growing Up in India: Cultural Insights10:29 Education and Class Systems in India13:29 The Journey to Self-Discovery16:23 The Illusion of Happiness18:54 Family Support and Personal Growth19:02 Arranged Marriages: A Cultural Perspective24:44 The Journey of Arranged Marriage27:59 Transitioning to Entrepreneurship31:08 Exploring Health and Wellness33:26 Relocating to Spain: Challenges and Adaptations41:44 Cultural Shifts and Culinary Experiences48:37 Mind Expansion and Self-Healing01:03:43 Understanding Individual Health Solutions01:08:43 The Role of Inflammation in Healing01:11:14 Mindset and Trauma's Impact on Health01:15:24 Spirituality and Healing Perspectives01:20:03 Creating Accessible Wellness Resources01:22:42 The Journey of Writing a Wellness Book01:26:20 Future Plans for a Wellness Center01:28:23 The Importance of Purpose Over Profit01:30:16 Rapid Fire Insights and Reflections01:37:37 OUTRO

In this episode, I had the immense pleasure of diving deep into the extraordinary journey of Wells Jones, a man who, as I playfully suggested, seems to have lived several lives already. From the moment he started sharing his story, I was captivated, and I know you will be too. Imagine jumping out of a plane over the South Pole, surviving the extreme conditions of Antarctica, and then walking into an acting school in New York City – that’s just a glimpse into Wells’s remarkable path.Wells's incredible adaptability and courage were forged early. Born on an army base and growing up in a bustling household of six kids after losing his father at a young age, he shared a profound insight from his mother: "I think you can do this." This simple belief became a guiding principle, acting as a recurring "tap on the shoulder" throughout his life, akin to the famous Churchill quote he shares (0:08, 0:58:18). This philosophy of embracing opportunities, even when unprepared, truly resonated with me.His decision to join the Navy was a quest for adventure, leading him to the breathtaking and brutal landscape of Antarctica as part of the Antarctic Parachute Rescue Team (0:20:59, 0:26:38). Wells vividly describes precision skydiving, crevasse rescues, and facing unimaginable conditions—like jumping from a C-130 into -59 degree Fahrenheit winds, a moment where he literally felt his hand freeze and thaw in 60 seconds (0:34:57). The raw struggle against nature and the reliance on primitive gear (0:37:04) offered powerful lessons in focus and responsibility.From the sub-zero training grounds, Wells pivoted to the stage, embarking on a fascinating acting career (0:43:13). He shares how a tough instructor taught him to "stop thinking too much and just be yourself" (0:45:53)—a lesson in authenticity that profoundly impacted his approach to life and performance. This led him into directing high-profile productions at places like Lincoln Center and the Kennedy Center (0:54:30, 0:57:24), orchestrating grand events with legendary figures.But the adventures didn't stop there. Wells recounts an audacious plan to trek through the Middle East, tracing T.E. Lawrence's path, a journey that involved 8 months of intense preparation, kidnap & ransom insurance, and an unwavering resolve even after hearing news of a hotel bombing (1:26:00, 1:27:48).Today, Wells is at the forefront of a groundbreaking venture called Reflector (SolTech), a company that uses AI to connect us with loved ones who have passed on. Imagine having an AI-powered conversation with a departed family member, hearing their voice, and revisiting their stories and nuanced responses (0:14:13). This technology is truly pushing the boundaries of legacy and remembrance, making the abstract idea of an "online obituary" a deeply personal and interactive experience.My biggest takeaway from speaking with Wells is the profound power of embracing "flow" (1:01:41)—not passively, but by fully engaging with each opportunity, learning from every challenge, and trusting that the right path will unfold. This episode is a testament to human resilience, curiosity, and the boundless possibilities that emerge when you say "yes" to life's taps on the shoulder. You won't want to miss a single moment of Wells's incredible story.

Join me on a truly special episode of Wereabout Tales as he chats with Anthony and Sam, an inspiring American couple who made the unconventional leap to move to Romania. Anthony, who was adopted from Romania as an infant, and his wife Sam, to explore their incredible journey.From the outset, their story challenges perceptions. They delve into the stark cultural differences between the US and Romania, discussing the decline of community in America post-9/11 and the profound sense of belonging they discovered in their new home (0:57). Anthony shares the deeply personal and emotional tale of tracing his biological roots, a journey initiated by Sam's curiosity, and the surreal experience of reuniting with his birth family through the 'Never Forgotten Romanian Children' network (16:43). The conversation poignantly addresses the 'trolley problem' of his adoption, revealing the heartbreaking circumstances of extreme poverty his Roma family faced in post-communist Romania (35:53), offering a rare and empathetic perspective on a complex issue.Their decision to leave the overwhelming grind of New York life for Romania wasn't instantaneous but solidified after Sam's unexpected panic attack post-holiday (47:58). They candidly discuss the challenges—from navigating Romanian bureaucracy, including Anthony's complex citizenship process (50:54), to the surprisingly difficult task of apartment hunting with two cats (1:05:02). Yet, they’ve found unexpected joys, like discovering a passion for making music (1:07:30) and embracing local delicacies like *slanina* and *pufuleti* (1:31:04).Anthony and Sam's journey is a powerful testament to open-mindedness and embracing the unknown. They encourage listeners, especially prospective expats, to 'leave your preconceived notions about Romania at the door' (1:23:10) and discover its rich, diverse regions and warm hospitality. Living in Sibiu, they continue to immerse themselves in Romanian life, with exciting plans including recording their second album and potentially buying a home. This episode is a must-listen for anyone curious about life abroad, cultural exchange, or the profound power of self-discovery.

Embark on a captivating intellectual journey with author Brian Cranley as he unveils his groundbreaking book, "The Call of Wonder." In this profound episode, Brian shares the fascinating story behind his work, which brilliantly bridges the perceived chasm between science and faith.Brian, with a unique background spanning biomedical engineering and five years in seminary studying philosophy and theology, reveals how these seemingly disparate worlds spectacularly collided. His "aha moment" (01:03), sparked by a Fermilab video on the Big Bang (05:26), revealed an astonishing parallel between modern physics' description of the early universe (unified mass, energy, and forces) and ancient philosophical concepts like divine simplicity – describing God as perfectly indivisible and unified."The Call of Wonder" invites listeners to explore this "God of reason" (16:10), a centuries-old conversation from Plato to Aquinas, providing philosophical arguments for God's existence that modern education often overlooks. Brian explains how classical wisdom helps us understand immaterial concepts like truth, beauty, and goodness, laying a foundation for deeper meaning.Dive into the "Three Miracles of Science" – the universe, life, and the human mind (21:16). Brian poses critical questions: How did matter and energy emerge from nothing? How did living cells arise from non-living matter? And what truly explains the vast chasm of human consciousness compared to other animals? He suggests that these aren't just scientific puzzles, but profound instances where the supernatural touches the natural world.Discover why "wonder" is not just an emotion but a "call" (12:15) – an innate human drive to seek understanding that unifies philosophy, theology, and science. Brian discusses how nurturing this sense of wonder can serve as a spiritual practice (43:01), offering a powerful antidote to modern cynicism and burnout, providing perspective and mental peace in our daily lives (40:57). He also shares valuable insights on how parents can foster this wonder in their children (47:35), encouraging a balanced view of science and faith.Whether you're a staunch scientist, a person of faith, or simply seeking deeper answers, this conversation promises to challenge your perspectives and reignite your own call to wonder. Brian wrote this book for those who feel science has made faith obsolete, offering a compelling narrative that celebrates compatibility rather than conflict (38:06).

In this conversation, Joe shares his migration journey from the UK to a small village in Switzerland, discussing the challenges and triumphs of adapting to a new life. He reflects on the impact of COVID-19 on his family, the cultural integration process, and the language barriers he faces. Joe also highlights the beauty of the Swiss countryside and the importance of balancing work and family life as an expat. He expresses nostalgia for British pub culture and the high cost of childcare in Switzerland, ultimately finding a sense of home in his new environment. In this engaging conversation, Paul and Joe explore the cultural nuances of living in Switzerland, touching on language barriers, regional differences, and the unexpected divisions within the country. They share personal experiences about family life, the cost of living, and the challenges of adapting to Swiss customs, including the peculiarities of Sunday closures. The discussion also delves into the joys of exploring hidden gems in Switzerland and the nostalgia of home, reflecting on the complexities of living abroad and the importance of understanding oneself in the process.Chapters00:00 Introduction and Cultural Shock01:55 Migration Journey: From the UK to Switzerland04:44 Life in a Rural Swiss Village08:07 Navigating the Challenges of Relocation10:52 Language Barriers and Integration13:48 Cultural Differences and Community Dynamics16:54 Childcare and Family Life in Switzerland20:05 Reflections on Swiss Life and Nostalgia22:49 The Cost of Living and Economic Migration25:53 Food Culture and Culinary Adaptation29:03 Conclusion: Balancing Life as an Expat34:33 Culinary Experiences in Germany and Switzerland37:04 Exploring Nature Walks in Switzerland41:02 Feeling at Home in Switzerland44:33 Cultural Differences and Missing Home46:46 Navigating the Legal Landscape in Switzerland48:53 House Buying Experience in Switzerland51:10 Unexpected Aspects of Swiss Culture54:46 Language Barriers and Regional Differences58:31 Family Adventures in Amusement Parks01:01:06 Hidden Gems in Switzerland01:04:36 Skiing and Outdoor Adventures01:08:17 Cost of Living in Switzerland vs Germany01:10:37 Cultural Differences in Child Safety01:16:02 Rapid Fire Questions and Fun Comparisons01:28:42 Reflections on Home and Nostalgia01:34:45 OUTRO

Dive into this inspiring conversation with Richie Billing, who left behind a legal career to embrace his passion for fantasy writing. Discover the bold decisions, struggles, and creative breakthroughs behind his journey from courtrooms to crafting gritty, character-driven worlds. Richie and Paul explore how personal backgrounds shape storytelling, the power of hope, and why representation and authenticity matter in modern fantasy. If you love tales of risk, resilience, and the magic of everyday people, this episode is for youYou can find Richie Billing’s latest writing, stories, and podcasts on his Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/cw/RichieBilling. He’s also got a website: richiebilling.com, where you’ll discover his guides, resources for writers, and everything about his fantasy work—plus, he’s easy to spot with a quick Google search too. Whether you want to read his novels, listen to interviews, or join his creative community, those are the best places to connect and keep up with Richie’s journey.00:00 Highlights & Intro00:31 Influences02:34 The Role of Fantasy in Life05:49 Character Development and Realism08:48 The Impact of Family Background11:46 Writing Style and Genre Preferences14:46 The Magic of Storytelling18:09 Building a Fantasy World21:03 Exploring Good vs Evil23:00 Politics and Writing27:05 Character Development in Together We Rise33:09 The Role of Music in Storytelling38:06 Personal Connections in Writing41:02 The Journey of Self-Publishing45:57 Podcasting and Creative Community56:11 The Joy of Mentoring Writers01:00:19 Wearing Many Hats: The Multifaceted Life of a Writer01:01:45 Nature as Inspiration for Writing01:02:58 The Writing Process: Daily Routines and Midnight Sessions01:04:13 Music and Storytelling: The Soundtrack of Creativity01:05:44 The Power of Fantasy in Storytelling01:07:21 Rapid Fire Round: Insights and Favorites01:18:49 Life-Changing Books and Future Aspirations01:23:07 OUTRO

Join us for a heartfelt conversation with Paul Hughes as he opens up about the challenges and transformations of expat life. Discover what it means to be a “permanent stranger” navigating identity, belonging, and the search for home in foreign lands. This episode explores culture shock, personal growth, and the realities behind the romanticized notion of moving abroad.Connect with Paul Hughes:https://paulhughespodcasting.carrd.coSubscribe for more wanderlust stories and global insights.Chapters00:00 Highlights + Intro01:05 From Swindon to Amsterdam03:41 Cultural Adjustments in Amsterdam06:41 Life in Germany: Frankfurt to Wiesbaden09:44 The Challenges of Being an Expat in Germany12:44 Navigating Language Barriers15:45 Food, Drink, and Local Traditions18:29 Exploring German Cities: A Mixed Experience21:39 Sports and Community Integration24:39 Reflections on Cultural Differences27:51 The Impact of Brexit on Expat Life49:55 Life in Germany: Cycling and Culture56:43 Driving in Germany: The Autobahn Experience01:02:55 Cultural Integration: Feeling at Home in Germany01:10:59 Changing Perspectives: The Impact of Living Abroad01:13:06 Advice for Expats: Navigating Life in Germany01:41:26 Outro

Discover how software engineer Tim O'Hearn made $500K using Instagram growth hacks and bots in this eye-opening episode. Tim (https://timohearn.beehiiv.com/subscribe) reveals the secret world of social media automation, fake followers, and Instagram algorithm manipulation. If you're curious about how some accounts grow overnight and want a behind-the-scenes look at growth hacking's dark side, this episode is a must-listen. Perfect for marketers, entrepreneurs, and anyone fascinated by social media's real mechanics.Tune in for insider stories, ethical dilemmas, and a candid look at Instagram’s hidden growth tactics.!!!Giveaway!!!How often have you seen Instagram accounts explode overnight and thought, "OMG, how did they grow so fast?!" Now it’s your turn to share! Listen to the episode and tell us your wildest "OMG, how did they grow so fast?" story — whether it’s your own or someone you know.Also, take a guess: How many fake Instagram engagements did Tim O’Hearn automate? Drop your story and guess in the comments or reply to our social post.One lucky winner will get Framed: A Villain's Perspective on Social Media, Don’t forget to follow us and share it to a friend who loves Instagram mysteries.

What happens when a spontaneous job offer on Facebook sends an American from D.C. to Berlin’s booming startup scene? In this episode, Hank Smith shares the unfiltered story of his decade-long adventure in Germany, a journey that started with the shock of a rundown airport and the miracle of finding an apartment in three days.Dive into the highs and lows of expat life as Hank recounts his battles with German bureaucracy, the frustrating (and hilarious) attempts to learn the language, and the cultural quirks that define life in Berlin, from its impossible housing market to the mandatory Sunday shutdown.This isn't just a story about moving abroad; it's about building a life, forging deep friendships, and learning to live in the moment. Follow Hank’s journey as he navigates work, culture, and identity, eventually leading him back to the U.S. for a new adventure on wheels. Tune in for a candid conversation about what it truly means to find your place in the world.Chapters00:00 Introduction and Connection Rituals03:34 Hank's Journey from D.C. to Berlin06:32 Family Background and Travel Influences09:19 The Decision to Move to Germany12:32 First Impressions of Berlin15:22 Navigating the Housing Market in Berlin18:24 Cultural Differences and Adaptation21:07 The Challenges of City Registration and Bureaucracy31:13 Navigating Bureaucracy in Germany36:17 First Day at Work: Cultural Adjustments38:24 Building Social Connections in a New Country43:22 The Evolution of Berlin's Food Scene50:38 Language Barriers and Learning German58:45 Unique German Words and Their Meanings01:02:29 The Scripted Nature of Language01:04:25 Misunderstandings and Language Nuances01:06:50 Navigating Social Norms in Germany01:07:53 Cultural Differences: Sunday Closures01:13:10 The Complexity of Moving Back01:15:27 The Loop Back: Reflections on Change01:21:23 Contrasting Cultures: Germany vs. America01:27:53 Finding Humanity Amidst Chaos01:35:31 Navigating Bureaucracy: A Personal Journey01:39:50 Cultural Reflections: America vs. Germany01:46:55 Transformation Through Experience: The Impact of Living Abroad01:49:20 Redefining Home: A Search for Belonging01:52:20 Rapid Fire: Fun Insights and Cultural Comparisons02:06:25 Outro

Join me, as I sit down with Christian and Damien, the hilarious duo behind the "Remain Rome Return" podcast, for an episode that's equal parts laughter and life lessons. We dive into their journey from our shared Midwest roots in Nebraska to Damien's big-city adventures in LA, sharing stories of friendship forged in Omaha, culture shocks that hit hard, and why some of us roam while others return home. From debating the merits of Nebraska's Runza burgers and raccoon-watching dinners at the Alpine Inn to obsessing over deep-fried pickles, jalapeño chips, and the sacred art of ranch dressing, we geek out on food, travel mishaps like marathon cancellations and packing fails, and the surprises of podcasting life. I throw in some rapid-fire questions, we bust LA stereotypes, and ponder if anywhere truly feels like "home" after you've wandered. It's a fun, unfiltered chat full of comedic tangents, expat insights, and that signature curiosity you know from my show, guaranteed to leave you smiling (and maybe hungry for sunflower seeds or a gallon of ranch). 🎙️✈️

After 15 years as a practical engineer following his parents’ plan, Jeremie André shares how a devastating pregnancy loss in France ignited a radical shift: learning English in Australia, building an online yoga and consulting business, and embracing the nomad lifestyle across Serbia, Mexico, Thailand and beyond. Discover how grief became the catalyst for freedom, why a simple fear-setting exercise helped him quit his engineering job, and how meditation, community and risk-taking unlocked his path from a tiny village near Perpignan to global adventure. Whether you’re stuck in a 9-to-5, craving more purpose, or curious about digital nomad life, this raw, inspiring story will challenge everything you thought you knew about work, happiness and what truly matters.Chapters:0:00 Introduction01:05 Welcome and Current Location01:31 Growing Up in France03:29 Childhood Reflections07:36 Early Dreams and Aspirations09:16 University and Studies11:49 First Job and Practical Choices16:34 Internship in Australia21:40 First Impressions of Australia27:58 Meeting Future Wife29:33 Long-Distance Relationship32:13 Life as a Young Couple in Paris35:59 Cultural and Personal Differences42:05 Marriage and Family Plans43:41 Pregnancy Challenges and Loss50:02 Hardest Decision and Transformation57:37 Grief and Reconstruction1:00:47 Move to Miami1:06:01 Healing and Inner Shifts1:10:55 Starting Meditation1:13:33 Leaving the 9-5 Job1:20:26 Overcoming Fear of Failure1:22:33 Family Reactions1:29:34 Misconceptions About Quitting 9-51:33:23 Breaking Free from Societal Expectations1:37:25 Living Life Fully1:41:03 Daily Life as a Nomad1:46:01 Favorite Places and Future Plans1:48:47 Coaching and Consulting Journey1:53:41 Advice for Change Seekers1:55:49 Education System Reflections2:02:12 Freedom and Letting Go2:04:08 Wrapping Up and Final Thoughts

Join host Paul Puscas for a thought-provoking conversation with Emily Pabst, founder of Remake The Rules. Emily shares her journey from government data analyst to coach and consultant, exploring how modern technology and an overload of choices shape the way we live, make decisions, and find meaning. The discussion dives into tech’s role in our daily lives, the challenge of choice inflation, and practical ways individuals can reclaim agency in a world of digital nudges and algorithmic pressure.You’ll hear personal stories on independence, street smarts, growing up amidst changing rules, and the power of reframing—not just in business, but in how we navigate relationships, family, and society. Emily brings expert insight for anyone feeling overwhelmed by today’s information landscape, stressing that tools and apps are just that: tools, not your life.Feeling stuck or want to live more intentionally?Emily Pabst works directly with individuals, leadership teams, and small businesses to help them rethink how to make decisions—big and small—in noisy, novelty-driven times.Connect with Emily:Website: remaketherules.comSocials: @remaketherules on most platformsDiscover more about Emily, her mission, and get support on your own decision-making journey at Remake The Rules.Listen now and start remaking your own rules for life with insights you won’t find anywhere else.Chapters00:00 Highlights and Intro01:30 Meet Emily Pabst: Background and Upbringing05:54 Growing Up in Missouri: A Unique Perspective09:45 Navigating Childhood: Independence and Community12:18 The Impact of Technology on Childhood16:23 Parenting Challenges in a Changing World20:11 The Role of Technology in Modern Parenting23:07 Art, Curiosity, and Challenging Perspectives26:24 Flexibility in Thought and Understanding Others28:10 The Influence of Environment on Development29:52 Transitioning to Adulthood: Education and Career Choices30:20 Emily's Journey: From Missouri to Colorado30:59 Public Service and Career Path32:08 Understanding Redistricting in the U.S.34:02 The Dynamics of U.S. Elections37:41 The Role of Data in Governance38:21 Rulemaking and Rule Breaking40:35 The Challenges of Government Institutions42:04 Power Dynamics in Governance45:16 Data Analysis and Decision Making49:14 The Need for Meaningful Data52:33 Optimization Fatigue in Modern Society53:09 Remake The Rules: A New Approach01:00:02 The Impact of Technology on Relationships01:04:50 Navigating Information Overload01:09:22 Client Transformation Stories01:11:11 Empowering Business Owners in the Digital Age01:16:26 Re-centering Purpose in Decision Making01:20:43 Navigating Technology and Information Overload01:25:04 The Complexity of Choice in the Information Age01:30:33 The Role of AI in Decision Making01:34:10 Living Well in the Information Age01:45:00 OUTRO

In this conversation, Christian shares his journey from Costa Rica to Germany and eventually to Japan. He discusses the cultural shocks he faced, the challenges of adapting to new environments, and his experiences with education and career changes. Christian reflects on the food culture in Japan, the kindness of its people, and the difficulties of navigating language barriers. He also talks about his decision to pursue a digital nomad lifestyle and the unique challenges that come with it. In this conversation, Christian shares his experiences living in Japan, discussing the challenges of language barriers, cultural connections through food, and the unique aspects of Japanese society such as perfectionism and work culture. He reflects on the differences in holiday celebrations, the search for belonging, and offers advice for future expats. The discussion also touches on humorous misunderstandings, the joys of exploring Tokyo on foot, and the cultural discoveries he made during his time there.Chapters00:00 Highlights & Intro01:32 Introduction and background04:12 Life in Costa Rica07:13 Cultural Shock in Germany10:17 University Experience and Career Path13:12 Transition to Software Engineering16:16 The Move to Japan19:16 Digital Nomad Visa Experience22:14 First Impressions of Japan25:15 Living Arrangements and Cost of Living28:19 Cultural Adaptation and Socializing31:04 Food Culture in Japan34:22 Healthcare Experience in Japan37:13 Work-Life Balance and Remote Work40:14 Final Thoughts on Living in Japan58:10 Navigating Language Barriers in Japan59:59 Building Connections Through Food01:02:01 Cultural Surprises: Garbage Rules and Perceptions01:06:09 The Pursuit of Perfection in Japanese Culture01:12:35 Cultural Differences: Employment and Social Stability01:17:27 Celebrating New Year's: A Contrast of Cultures01:19:25 Christmas in Japan: A Unique Celebration01:22:06 Homesickness and Belonging: A Personal Journey01:23:42 Advice for Future Expats: Moving to Japan01:27:17 Funny Misunderstandings: Lost in Translation01:30:40 Public Transport: A Walkable Experience01:32:31 Finding Home: A Sense of Belonging01:37:59 Cultural Discoveries: Music and Art in Japan

Pastor, professor, and sci-fi lover Robert Wallace joins Paul for a deeply human conversation about faith, doubt, and the beauty of imperfection. From the raw honesty of Psalm 88 to what Star Trek teaches us about hope, Robert shares how spirituality can remain real, relevant, and compassionate. They explore religion beyond dogma, prayer without perfection, and how it's okay to show up angry, broken, or unsure and still be heard.🎙 Topics include:– Why Psalm 88 is the most direct prayer in the Bible– How faith and doubt coexist– Building unity in politically divided communities– Sci-fi’s surprising role in spiritual insight– The danger of perfectionism in faith and lifeThis episode is not just for believers, it’s for seekers, skeptics, and anyone navigating life’s deeper questions.

Sergiu left Romania with no plan — just a hunger for adventure. He landed in South Africa expecting excitement and found a life full of contrasts: danger, kindness, loss, and love. From visa chaos to raising kids under constant vigilance, Sergiu shares the raw reality behind the romantic idea of moving abroad. A story about courage, adaptation, and what it really means to call a place home.

Pamela Topjian left an abusive marriage, a stable career, and nearly everything she owned—at 50 years old. In this raw and powerful episode, she shares how she boarded a bus to California with nothing but a suitcase and a last shred of hope. We talk about childhood trauma, surviving emotional abuse, rebuilding identity, the power of therapy, and what it means to find peace later in life. Pamela's story is a powerful reminder that it’s never too late to begin again.

In this heartfelt conclusion, Perrine opens up about how Germany became her most transformational chapter. From struggling through lockdown and language barriers to finding love and meaning, this story is a powerful reminder of how life abroad can change us—completely.Chapters00:00 Highlights & Intro00:42 Moving to Canada02:39 Cultural Differences: Language and Weather05:47 Work Experience in Canada08:27 Traveling Within Canada11:39 Social Dynamics and Friendships14:37 Conclusion: Reflections on Canada28:50 Navigating Tough Decisions: Leaving Canada31:14 The Journey to Germany: A New Adventure35:54 Finding Home: The Apartment Hunt in Munich42:03 Building Community: Expat Life in Munich44:07 Cultural Differences: Munich vs. Marseille53:12 Understanding German Society: Rules and Regulations57:20 Love and Relocation: Moving to Stuttgart01:03:17 Transformative Experiences Across Countries01:07:44 Country Recommendations for Different Ages01:11:39 Social Media Growth and Personal Branding01:13:57 Christmas Traditions and Markets in Germany01:15:54 Culinary Favorites: Poutine and German Treats01:19:43 Cultural Reflections on Safety and Community01:25:15 The Journey of Expat Life01:27:40 Cultural Recommendations: Books, Movies, and Music01:34:35 Defining Home as an Expat

What if the pyramids are older than we think? Or quantum chips are syncing across parallel universes?Paul speaks with Greg Dizzia and D.R. Foresi, co-founders of Cosmos University, about rewriting human history, the Book of Enoch, ancient floods, quantum computing, and AI's role in shaping the future. A wild ride from lost civilizations to cutting-edge tech.Perfect for fans of Graham Hancock, ancient mysteries, AI breakthroughs, and deep thought.Chapters00:00 Origins and Historical Context03:01 Graham Hancock's Influence on Alternative History05:49 The Age of Civilizations and Human Existence08:55 The Book of Enoch and Cataclysmic Events11:45 Challenging Established Archaeological Narratives14:40 The Evolution of Scientific Understanding17:54 The Role of Data in Scientific Inquiry21:07 The Interplay of Myth and History24:01 The Future of Archaeological Research32:36 The Enigmatic Figure of Noah36:45 Genetic Insights and Ancient Civilizations39:56 The Rise of Civilizations and Population Dynamics41:29 The Future of AI and Its Implications50:52 Quantum Computing and Interdimensional Theories01:01:27 The Future of Medicine and Genetic Engineering01:02:24 Universal Income and Societal Changes01:03:09 Secrets of Power and Knowledge in History01:06:45 The Fleeting Nature of Attention01:07:58 Commercialization of Information01:09:50 Media Consolidation and Its Effects01:12:36 The Power of Propaganda01:17:07 Polarization and Misinformation01:20:41 The Role of Politics in Public Health01:23:04 Healthcare Systems: A Comparative Analysis01:36:56 The Complexities of Healthcare Systems01:39:46 The Role of Preventative Medicine01:42:57 Emerging Technologies in Health Monitoring01:49:49 The Theranos Case: Innovation vs. Integrity01:56:57 The Future of Education and Research

Rachel Lloyd grew up in rural Florida, never dreaming she'd one day study international law—in Russian—in the middle of a global crisis.In this episode, she shares her bold leap from small-town life to the heart of Moscow, how she adapted to a new culture and language, and what it was like living abroad during the war in Ukraine.We talk about language barriers, protests, Russian friendships, finding confidence abroad, and how it all changed her idea of “home.”➡️ Follow Whereabouts Tales for more real expat stories.📬 Send us your thoughts or share your story: [email protected]

Author Jaye Pool joins us to share how writing became her way out of religious control, grief, and silence. From losing her faith to reconnecting with her birth mother, and finally reclaiming her voice through fiction — this is a story of emotional healing, identity, and courage.🎙 Topics we explore:Growing up in Detroit & faith tensionsLosing control, finding clarityWriting as a tool for emotional healingPublishing her debut books Make Me Free & To Die Is GainThis episode is a journey through loss, growth, and liberation.Chapters00:00 Jaye Pool: The Indie Author Journey04:33 Growing Up in Detroit: A Personal Narrative07:44 The Impact of Community and Family Dynamics10:30 The Role of Writing in Personal Healing13:29 Inspiration from Music and Culture16:38 The Transition from Academia to Podcasting19:38 Finding Voice Through Storytelling22:28 Podcasting as a Platform for Expression25:36 The Art of Storytelling in Podcasting27:25 The Challenge of Solo Podcasting27:53 Exploring Early Life and Faith29:52 Navigating Different Religious Influences32:42 The Impact of Evangelicalism and Purity Culture35:48 The Journey of Deconstruction Begins41:00 Confronting Homophobia in Faith44:46 The Role of Grief in Personal Growth53:46 Writing as a Tool for Healing01:00:55 The Decision to Self-Publish01:06:26 Facing Fears and Vulnerability in Storytelling01:08:43 The Significance of Place in Narrative01:11:44 The Boomerang Town: Community and Belonging01:14:35 The Journey of an Author: From Writing to Publication01:16:18 The Evolution of Purpose as an Author01:23:23 Advice for Aspiring Writers and Creators

Perrine Webber shares how growing up in multicultural Provence sparked her creativity and led her to leap into life abroad. From sewing in fashion school to studying in Singapore, Perrine reflects on identity, bold choices, and building a global life. This episode is a story of courage, culture, and how small steps create magical change.📍 France → Singapore → The world.Chapters00:00 Cultural Background and Childhood in France04:49 Creative Upbringing and Family Support07:40 Education Journey: From Arts to Marketing10:57 Career Path and Internships in Fashion13:40 The Shift to Business School and Marketing16:54 Desire for International Experience19:39 Moving to Singapore: A New Adventure22:56 Cultural Differences: Safety and Lifestyle25:43 First Impressions of Singapore28:50 Food Culture Shock and Adaptation31:47 University Experience in Singapore34:40 Community and Cultural Exchange in Marseille45:27 Cultural Connections in Singapore49:45 Educational Insights from Singapore54:23 Personal Growth and Style Evolution58:33 The Spark of Content Creation01:00:46 Reflections on Leaving Singapore01:04:46 Transitioning Back to France01:08:46 New Beginnings in Canada01:24:52 outro

When Kiana Burton unexpectedly lost her father, it reshaped her identity, her sense of meaning, and her understanding of solitude. In this raw and honest conversation, Kiana shares how grief impacted her life, why she embraces solitude, and what she’s learned through personal loss and working in criminal law.We talk about human nature, emotional intelligence, and why society avoids stillness. From growing up in Windsor to building resilience, this episode is an intimate look at grief, healing, and self-discovery.🎙 Guest: Kiana Burton💬 Topics: grief, solitude, healing, human nature, identity, emotional growth#Grief #HumanNature #Solitude #SelfDiscovery #KianaBurton #WhereaboutsTales

What does it really take to start over in a new country?In this raw and unfiltered conversation, Rafa shares his deeply personal story of leaving Brazil behind — not for money, but for safety, growth, and something more meaningful. From nearly backing out at the airport to rebuilding his career and identity in Europe, Rafa opens up about fear, friendship, grief, culture shock, and what it means to belong.We talk about:The emotional cost of emigrationGrowing up in Brazil and navigating its challengesWhy honesty and friendship matter more than everLife in Spain and adapting to European cultureLearning to laugh at yourself (even when you feel lost)Whether you're an expat, a dreamer, or someone standing at the edge of change, this episode is a reminder:👉 Courage isn’t the absence of fear — it’s jumping anyway.🎧 Listen now on Spotify, Apple, YouTube & Amazon Podcasts.#WhereaboutsTales #ExpatLife #MovingAbroad #StartOver #PodcastStory🔔 New episodes every Friday🎧 Follow Whereabouts Tales for stories that go beyond borders — and comfort zones.💬 Drop your thoughts in the comments – what’s your creative outlet?📺 Subscribe, review, and share if it hit home.You can find the blog version of the article thru the following link https://www.whereaboutstales.com/episodes/0023🌐 Find us on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and Amazon Podcasts▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️Enjoyed this story? Hit that subscribe button - it's free, and it means you won't miss any of our future Whereabouts Tales. We've got some amazing stories coming up!▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️Want to start your own podcast? We record our interviews using Riverside.fm - the best platform for high-quality remote recordings. Get 15% off your first three months by using our link: https://www.riverside.fm/?via=whereaboutstales. What we love about Riverside is their local recording feature that ensures crystal-clear audio quality even with unstable internet connections, perfect for international interviews like this one. Plus, their separate audio and video tracks make editing a breeze.▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️if you are interested in sharing your story in our show please go to https://www.whereaboutstales.com/book and book a 15 min slot to discuss the details

What was it like growing up in communist Romania vs capitalist America? In this nostalgic and eye-opening episode, Paul and Milo revisit their childhoods from the 1980s and 1990s—one shaped by rationing, gray cities, and propaganda; the other by neon toys, McDonald’s, and TV overload.They compare life on both sides of the Iron Curtain:🧊 Queuing at 4AM for milk vs Happy Meals at Chuck E. Cheese📼 Smuggled VHS tapes vs Saturday morning cartoons🎁 Bananas as Christmas gifts vs piles of birthday presents🛠️ Homemade skis vs consumer convenienceThis episode is for expats, history lovers, and anyone curious about how environment and politics shape childhood. A fun and powerful journey into two very different pasts—with surprising common ground.#ExpatLife #RomaniaVsUSA #ChildhoodStories #80sNostalgia #90sKids #CulturalDifferences #Podcast #WhereaboutsTales

In episode #0023, Adrien takes us on a raw and riveting journey from the American South to rural France as a queer and trans expat. We talk about the fear that led them to leave the U.S., the bureaucracy meltdown involving A4 paper and a cat, and the hilarious struggle of ordering bread in perfect French.This episode is equal parts emotional, chaotic, and deeply human—a story of identity, resilience, and rebuilding abroad.#expatliving #queerstories #francevisa #bureaucracyabroad #whereaboutstales

What happens when a quiet kid from a 70s apartment block finds his voice in podcasting and lo-fi music? Meet Steve Barnes, the creative mind behind Introvoid and Sweet Child of Time. In this warm and wildly fun episode, Steve opens up about growing up with a single mom, finding community in unexpected places, building a DIY music career, and how podcasting helped him embrace his voice—literally.🎧 Topics we explore:– Growing up in diverse 70s Richmond– Finding identity through solitude and sound– Starting a music project with a cassette recorder– Building Introvoid and publishing music on Spotify– Why podcasting changes lives (and minds!)– The value of creativity for its own sake👋 Hosted by Paul Puscas📍 Guest: Steve Barnes🎙️ Podcasts: @sweetchildoftime📌 Listen, comment, and subscribe: #SteveBarnes #Introvoid #PodcastInterview #LoFiMusic #WhereaboutsTales #CreativeJourney #SweetChildOfTime #PodcastLife #IndiePodcast #StorytellingPodcast🔔 New episodes every Friday🎧 Follow Whereabouts Tales for stories that go beyond borders — and comfort zones.💬 Drop your thoughts in the comments – what’s your creative outlet?📺 Subscribe, review, and share if it hit home.You can find the blog version of the article thru the following link https://www.whereaboutstales.com/episodes/0022🔔 Subscribe for new episodes every Friday at 17:09!🌐 Find us on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and Amazon Podcasts▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️Enjoyed this story? Hit that subscribe button - it's free, and it means you won't miss any of our future Whereabouts Tales. We've got some amazing stories coming up!▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️Want to start your own podcast? We record our interviews using Riverside.fm - the best platform for high-quality remote recordings. Get 15% off your first three months by using our link: https://www.riverside.fm/?via=whereaboutstales. What we love about Riverside is their local recording feature that ensures crystal-clear audio quality even with unstable internet connections, perfect for international interviews like this one. Plus, their separate audio and video tracks make editing a breeze.▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️if you are interested in sharing your story in our show please go to https://www.whereaboutstales.com/book and book a 15 min slot to discuss the details▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️Chapters

At just 10 years old, David Ramms saw a video that shattered his view of the world — and he's never looked at food the same way since. In this raw and deeply personal conversation, David opens up about growing up vegetarian, becoming a full-time vegan activist, and the brutal truths he’s uncovered inside farms and slaughterhouses across Europe.We talk about desensitization, the psychology of the meat industry, moral choices in a modern world, and what it really takes to create change. Whether you’re vegan, curious, or skeptical — this episode might challenge everything you think you know about what’s on your plate.🎙️ Full of hard truths, surprising insights, and moments of reflection — this is one of our most powerful episodes yet.🔔 New episodes every Friday🎧 Follow Whereabouts Tales for stories that go beyond borders — and comfort zones.👇 Let us know what moved you in the comments.📺 Subscribe, review, and share if it hit home.#DavidRamms #VeganPodcast #AnimalRights #EthicalEating #WhereaboutsTales #PodcastYou can find the blog version of the article thru the following link https://www.whereaboutstales.com/episodes/0021🎙️ Whereabouts Tales explores expat experiences, personal growth, and inspiring life stories from around the world.🔔 Subscribe for new episodes every Friday at 17:09!🌐 Find us on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and Amazon Podcasts▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️Enjoyed this story? Hit that subscribe button - it's free, and it means you won't miss any of our future Whereabouts Tales. We've got some amazing stories coming up!▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️Want to start your own podcast? We record our interviews using Riverside.fm - the best platform for high-quality remote recordings. Get 15% off your first three months by using our link: https://www.riverside.fm/?via=whereaboutstales. What we love about Riverside is their local recording feature that ensures crystal-clear audio quality even with unstable internet connections, perfect for international interviews like this one. Plus, their separate audio and video tracks make editing a breeze.▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️if you are interested in sharing your story in our show please go to https://www.whereaboutstales.com/book and book a 15 min slot to discuss the details▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️Chapters00:00 David Rams: An Advocate for Animal Rights06:17 The Impact of a Vegetarian Upbringing12:28 Investigations into Animal Cruelty18:19 The Role of Investigative Journalism in Animal Rights23:20 Open Farms and Animal Welfare28:37 The Dark Side of Dairy Farming34:01 Comparing Human and Animal Suffering39:18 The Science of Animal Consciousness45:43 The Role of Meat Replacers53:22 Navigating Processed Foods and Health58:59 The Disappointment of Processed Foods01:02:16 Animal Welfare and Personal Choices01:04:48 The Ethics of Hunting01:10:42 Bow Hunting and Its Justifications01:17:32 The Role of Activism in Veganism01:24:13 The Evolution of Vegan Discourse01:31:07 Cultish Mindsets in Veganism and Politics01:34:25 Activism Through Global Experiences01:37:27 Finding Hope Amidst Despair01:40:26 Vision for the Future of Activism01:43:22 Rapid Fire Insights on Veganism01:50:21 Legacy and Lifelong Commitment to Change

What do Saturday morning cartoons, Romanian blackouts, and Irish pub chats have in common? Milo Denison and I compare growing up in completely different worlds — the US and Communist Romania — and what it's like living abroad today.We talk:80s/90s nostalgia (and what’s worth remembering)Moving abroad without visiting firstCulture clashes, identity, and what we miss (or don’t) about “home”What Seattle, Dublin, and London have in common — and what they've lost🎙️ Hosted by Paul Puscas📍Guest: Milo Denison, co-host of The 80s and 90s UncensoredHit play if you’ve ever felt in-between cultures — or just love a good story.

Julia left Germany at 18 for an internship in Ireland. Today, she's a student and entrepreneur living in Prague. Hear her raw, funny, and insightful reflections on life as an expat, language identity, and adjusting to new cultures — all while building her future.Chapters00:00 Introduction and Background02:57 Experiences in Ireland05:51 Cultural Insights from Dublin08:57 Transition to Prague11:58 Language and Communication Challenges14:52 Cultural Differences: Czech vs. Irish18:10 Adjusting to Daily Life in Prague21:02 Education System Comparison24:05 Navigating Bureaucracy and Identity27:11 Final Thoughts on Cultural Integration39:33 Navigating Perceptions of Education42:22 Challenges in Networking and Building Connections47:20 Experiences of Moving and Settling in a New City50:28 Balancing Academic Pressure and Personal Well-being55:15 Advice for Future Students01:01:57 Lessons in Safety and Awareness01:05:50 Managing Time and Work-Life Balance01:10:44 Finding Passion and Purpose in Work01:14:14 Future Aspirations and Family Connections01:16:32 Navigating Change and Friendships01:18:52 Rapid Fire Questions and Personal Insights01:22:03 Language and Identity01:28:11 Music and Movie Recommendations01:36:15 Books and Life Lessons01:40:07 Defining Home and Belonging

Australian filmmaker Michael Papaeleftheriou shares his journey from Sydney to Spain, discussing indie filmmaking, creative control, and finding community abroad. Discover how simplifying his process led to greater artistic freedom with his film "Crossroads," and hear honest insights about film festivals, marketing, and the challenges of the industry. A thoughtful conversation about creativity, expat life, and what it means to find home.

Dr. Leah Zitter shares her extraordinary journey from spending over two decades in an extremist religious cult to becoming a neuroscientist who developed the "as-is method" for rewiring the brain. Learn how our minds are programmed by our environments and how we can break free from harmful conditioning to reclaim our authentic selves. A powerful story of transformation, resilience, and understanding cultural differences.

🌍 Join us for a heartfelt conversation with poet and adventurer Anne-Marie Wells as she shares her transformative solo journey through Iceland, where she hitchhiked across the country asking locals about their happiest memories."What I realized was none of these stories were extravagant. Nobody said, when I got this big raise at my job or when I bought this really fancy car, I was so happy. None of the stories were like that. They were simple moments of joy."Anne-Marie opens up about her writing journey, from children's books to deeply personal poetry collections dealing with grief and motherhood. Learn how her Iceland adventure shaped her perspective on happiness and inspired her upcoming travel memoir "Happy Iceland Still."📚 BOOK GIVEAWAY! 📚 Comment below with what brings you simple joy to enter for a chance to win one of Anne-Marie's books! Follow Anne Marie:Instagram https://www.instagram.com/annemariewellswriter/Tiktok https://www.tiktok.com/@annemariewellswriterFacebook https://www.facebook.com/AnneMarieWellsWriter/Youtube.  @annemariewellswriter  🎙️ Whereabouts Tales explores expat experiences, personal growth, and inspiring life stories from around the world.🔔 Subscribe for new episodes every Friday at 17:09!🌐 Find us on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and Amazon Podcasts▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️Enjoyed this story? Hit that subscribe button - it's free, and it means you won't miss any of our future Whereabouts Tales. We've got some amazing stories coming up!▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️Want to start your own podcast? We record our interviews using Riverside.fm - the best platform for high-quality remote recordings. Get 15% off your first three months by using our link: https://www.riverside.fm/?via=whereaboutstales. What we love about Riverside is their local recording feature that ensures crystal-clear audio quality even with unstable internet connections, perfect for international interviews like this one. Plus, their separate audio and video tracks make editing a breeze.▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️if you are interested in sharing your story in our show please go to https://www.whereaboutstales.com/appointments and book a 15 min slot to discuss the details▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️▪️Chapters00:00 Introduction and Guest Background02:54 The Influence of Place on Writing05:48 The Power of Storytelling and Poetry08:42 Navigating Rejection in Writing11:40 The Journey to Becoming a Writer14:31 The Impact of Personal Experiences on Writing17:48 Teaching and Writing for Children20:36 Reflections on Education and Living Abroad23:27 The Process of Writing and Publishing Poetry26:48 Emotional Vulnerability in Writing29:46 Conclusion and Future Aspirations37:46 Navigating Grief and Writing Through Pain42:48 Exploring Motherhood and the Journey of Loss47:49 The Adventure of a Lifetime: Journey to Iceland59:02 Finding Happiness in Simplicity01:08:01 Acts of Kindness and the Human Connection01:18:50 The Journey to Publishing Success01:25:33 Navigating the Self-Publishing Landscape01:32:40 Finding Community and Overcoming Writer's Block01:40:17 Embracing Individuality in Writing01:43:28 Focusing on the Little Joys in Life01:45:26 Future Aspirations and Creative Projects