Yes I Am Selfish

LET’S CHAT 🫧🦋🤍Selfishness isn’t always bad. In this episode of Yes I Am Selfish, we dive into the difference between egoic selfishness—the kind that keeps you stuckand spiritual selfishness—the kind that elevates your life, protects your energy, and aligns you with your soul. Learn how to set boundaries, follow your intuition, and even ghost spiritually without guilt. Abraham-Hicks says it best: you must be selfish to live fully. Let’s unpack what that really means.https://life-longlearner.com/how-to-measure-consciousness-using-the-map-of-consciousness-3-of-7/Support the showThank you so much for listening. Leave a review, follow, download and share with friends if you found value in our conversations on self-development, mindset, spiritual alchemy + spiritual growth and the many transformative topics we touch on. Listening while you’re drinking a matcha, at the gym, driving or creating or being in your feminine + masculine bag or in the mirror twerking. Become a supporter of Yes I Am Selfish with your monthly contributions that helps us continue to create honest, spirit-led content that empowers the collective to embrace transformation and tap into the fullness of our souls. Choose a contribution level that resonates with you: $3, $5, $8, or $10 per month. Each supporter is invited to select a fan emoji that represents their connection to the show, adding a personal touch to their support. We’re healing the world and shifting massive timelines 🌹♥️.

LET’S CHAT 🫧🦋🤍This episode explores the death of the old self — the version of you shaped by childhood wounds, familiar pain, and survival mode. We break down what it really means to grieve who you used to be, why everything feels chaotic right before alignment, and how the subconscious, the quantum crumble, and your old patterns all play a role in your evolution. This is about releasing what no longer resonates so you can step into the timeline your soul has been calling you toward.Support the showThank you so much for listening. Leave a review, follow, download and share with friends if you found value in our conversations on self-development, mindset, spiritual alchemy + spiritual growth and the many transformative topics we touch on. Listening while you’re drinking a matcha, at the gym, driving or creating or being in your feminine + masculine bag or in the mirror twerking. Become a supporter of Yes I Am Selfish with your monthly contributions that helps us continue to create honest, spirit-led content that empowers the collective to embrace transformation and tap into the fullness of our souls. Choose a contribution level that resonates with you: $3, $5, $8, or $10 per month. Each supporter is invited to select a fan emoji that represents their connection to the show, adding a personal touch to their support. We’re healing the world and shifting massive timelines 🌹♥️.

LET’S CHAT 🫧🦋🤍In this episode, Khadijah speaks straight from spirit — guided by intuition, not structure. This is a message she sat with for a week, until the divine timing finally said “now.”She explores what it truly means to be an alchemist — not the one who turns metals into gold, but the one who turns pain into power. Through raw honesty and reflection, Khadijah shares how life’s pressure can either break you or refine you into a diamond — and how she chooses the latter every time.This episode reminds you that everything you’ve been through has shaped who you are, and that every setback holds a lesson wrapped in divine timing. You’ll hear reflections on:Transmuting pain, betrayal, and disappointment into spiritual strength.Seeing others as mirrors and teachers in your evolution.Remembering that faith in yourself is faith in God.Understanding why your journey always brings you back home — to you.It’s a conversation about authenticity, reflection, and self-alchemy — for anyone walking through their transformation and choosing not to give up on themselves.So pause the movie, grab your tea, and let’s talk about what it means to become gold. ✨💎Support the showThank you so much for listening. Leave a review, follow, download and share with friends if you found value in our conversations on self-development, mindset, spiritual alchemy + spiritual growth and the many transformative topics we touch on. Listening while you’re drinking a matcha, at the gym, driving or creating or being in your feminine + masculine bag or in the mirror twerking. Become a supporter of Yes I Am Selfish with your monthly contributions that helps us continue to create honest, spirit-led content that empowers the collective to embrace transformation and tap into the fullness of our souls. Choose a contribution level that resonates with you: $3, $5, $8, or $10 per month. Each supporter is invited to select a fan emoji that represents their connection to the show, adding a personal touch to their support. We’re healing the world and shifting massive timelines 🌹♥️.

LET’S CHAT 🫧🦋🤍✨ The moment you step into your imagination and know the law is already working in your favor, the matrix will try to pull you back—through doubt, fear, comparison, and conformity. After recording this episode, the matrix tried to get me to conform. I allowed myself to feel those emotions, process them, and then release them—so they never became my identity, so I didn’t internalize or intellectualize them. That’s the difference: you experience the wave without letting it define you. The 3D is nothing more than old memories. Persistence is your power. Your childlike imagination is your proof. What you decree within, must show without. Don’t give up before the harvest. 🌱👁️Support the showThank you so much for listening. Leave a review, follow, download and share with friends if you found value in our conversations on self-development, mindset, spiritual alchemy + spiritual growth and the many transformative topics we touch on. Listening while you’re drinking a matcha, at the gym, driving or creating or being in your feminine + masculine bag or in the mirror twerking. Become a supporter of Yes I Am Selfish with your monthly contributions that helps us continue to create honest, spirit-led content that empowers the collective to embrace transformation and tap into the fullness of our souls. Choose a contribution level that resonates with you: $3, $5, $8, or $10 per month. Each supporter is invited to select a fan emoji that represents their connection to the show, adding a personal touch to their support. We’re healing the world and shifting massive timelines 🌹♥️.

LET’S CHAT 🫧🦋🤍https://beacons.ai/khadijahjaiwhat actually is manifestation . . grab your glass of wine and dive in.Support the showThank you so much for listening. Leave a review, follow, download and share with friends if you found value in our conversations on self-development, mindset, spiritual alchemy + spiritual growth and the many transformative topics we touch on. Listening while you’re drinking a matcha, at the gym, driving or creating or being in your feminine + masculine bag or in the mirror twerking. Become a supporter of Yes I Am Selfish with your monthly contributions that helps us continue to create honest, spirit-led content that empowers the collective to embrace transformation and tap into the fullness of our souls. Choose a contribution level that resonates with you: $3, $5, $8, or $10 per month. Each supporter is invited to select a fan emoji that represents their connection to the show, adding a personal touch to their support. We’re healing the world and shifting massive timelines 🌹♥️.

LET’S CHAT 🫧🦋🤍In this raw and transformative final episode, I explore the paradox of selfishness as a sacred act of healing. We’ve been conditioned to put others first, to pour from an empty cup, and to sacrifice our own needs in the name of love, family, or duty. But what if the most selfless thing you can do is choose you?This episode is a closing chapter and an initiation. I dive into what it really means to reclaim your time, your energy, and your vision without guilt. I also reflect on how choosing radical self-prioritization became the catalyst for my deepest healing, especially around financial wounds, family patterns, and emotional shutdowns.If you’ve ever felt torn between being a good person and being a whole person, this one’s for you.🔗 ✨FREE BIRTH CHART✨: https://astro.cafeastrology.com/natal.php🔗 MY PERSONAL LINKS 🦋 https://beacons.ai/khadijahjaiSupport the showThank you so much for listening. Leave a review, follow, download and share with friends if you found value in our conversations on self-development, mindset, spiritual alchemy + spiritual growth and the many transformative topics we touch on. Listening while you’re drinking a matcha, at the gym, driving or creating or being in your feminine + masculine bag or in the mirror twerking. Become a supporter of Yes I Am Selfish with your monthly contributions that helps us continue to create honest, spirit-led content that empowers the collective to embrace transformation and tap into the fullness of our souls. Choose a contribution level that resonates with you: $3, $5, $8, or $10 per month. Each supporter is invited to select a fan emoji that represents their connection to the show, adding a personal touch to their support. We’re healing the world and shifting massive timelines 🌹♥️.

LET’S CHAT 🫧🦋🤍This episode is real, raw, and honest. I’m talking about what it feels like to reparent yourself. especially when you didn’t grow up with the love, guidance, or support you should’ve had. A lot of us, especially millennials, are waking up to the truth: we can’t keep carrying childhood wounds into our adult lives and calling it normal.We’re breaking generational cycles, but doing it alone isn’t easy. It’s painful, it’s heavy, and it forces you to face things you never asked for. But choosing to become the parent you never had… that’s powerful. That’s healing without a guide. And even if nobody claps for you, what you’re doing matters.This episode is for the ones doing the work, reparenting themselves, grieving while still showing up, and choosing to heal anyway. 🤍🔗 : BOOK A NATAL READING WITH ME ✨🔗 : SELF CONCEPT MASTERY ACADEMY [ how my journey began ]https://beacons.ai/khadijahjaiSupport the showThank you so much for listening. Leave a review, follow, download and share with friends if you found value in our conversations on self-development, mindset, spiritual alchemy + spiritual growth and the many transformative topics we touch on. Listening while you’re drinking a matcha, at the gym, driving or creating or being in your feminine + masculine bag or in the mirror twerking. Become a supporter of Yes I Am Selfish with your monthly contributions that helps us continue to create honest, spirit-led content that empowers the collective to embrace transformation and tap into the fullness of our souls. Choose a contribution level that resonates with you: $3, $5, $8, or $10 per month. Each supporter is invited to select a fan emoji that represents their connection to the show, adding a personal touch to their support. We’re healing the world and shifting massive timelines 🌹♥️.

LET’S CHAT 🫧🦋🤍We think we’re in control—but most of us are just reacting. In this episode, I break down why presence is the key to reclaiming your power, how to tell the difference between intuition and anxiety, and why your mind isn’t meant to lead—it’s meant to follow. If you’ve been overthinking, doubting, or disconnected, this is your wake-up call to come back to now.SELF CONCEPT + SOUL WORK ⤵️✨https://beacons.ai/khadijahjaiSupport the showThank you so much for listening. Leave a review, follow, download and share with friends if you found value in our conversations on self-development, mindset, spiritual alchemy + spiritual growth and the many transformative topics we touch on. Listening while you’re drinking a matcha, at the gym, driving or creating or being in your feminine + masculine bag or in the mirror twerking. Become a supporter of Yes I Am Selfish with your monthly contributions that helps us continue to create honest, spirit-led content that empowers the collective to embrace transformation and tap into the fullness of our souls. Choose a contribution level that resonates with you: $3, $5, $8, or $10 per month. Each supporter is invited to select a fan emoji that represents their connection to the show, adding a personal touch to their support. We’re healing the world and shifting massive timelines 🌹♥️.

LET’S CHAT 🫧🦋🤍This episode is your reminder that boundaries aren’t walls — they’re power moves. Setting standards is how you honor your worth, protect your energy, and demand the respect you deserve. Tune in to learn how to stand firm, move unapologetically, and create a life where access to you is earned, not given.NATAL CHART: https://astro.cafeastrology.com/natal.phpSOULWORK APP:https://soulworkapp.mn.co/plans/1519262?bundle_token=fef8819aa66b3677acc69b46dc30d5fa&utm_source=manualSupport the showThank you so much for listening. Leave a review, follow, download and share with friends if you found value in our conversations on self-development, mindset, spiritual alchemy + spiritual growth and the many transformative topics we touch on. Listening while you’re drinking a matcha, at the gym, driving or creating or being in your feminine + masculine bag or in the mirror twerking. Become a supporter of Yes I Am Selfish with your monthly contributions that helps us continue to create honest, spirit-led content that empowers the collective to embrace transformation and tap into the fullness of our souls. Choose a contribution level that resonates with you: $3, $5, $8, or $10 per month. Each supporter is invited to select a fan emoji that represents their connection to the show, adding a personal touch to their support. We’re healing the world and shifting massive timelines 🌹♥️.

LET’S CHAT 🫧🦋🤍This episode is a mirror🪞. One that reflects betrayal, boundary setting, grief, and the brutal beauty of choosing yourself. I open up about what it really means to outgrow people you once called your sister, the red flags we ignore, and the power that comes from walking away—even when it hurts. This isn’t just my story. It’s a conversation about the Saturn Return, emotional intelligence, self-worth, and the spiritual weight of unreciprocated friendships. If you’ve ever mourned a friendship breakup harder than a romantic one, this one’s for you.•• Want to dive deeper into my world or work with me directly? Tap the 🔗—https://beacons.ai/khadijahjai  — to explore all the ways we can connect.Support the showThank you so much for listening. Leave a review, follow, download and share with friends if you found value in our conversations on self-development, mindset, spiritual alchemy + spiritual growth and the many transformative topics we touch on. Listening while you’re drinking a matcha, at the gym, driving or creating or being in your feminine + masculine bag or in the mirror twerking. Become a supporter of Yes I Am Selfish with your monthly contributions that helps us continue to create honest, spirit-led content that empowers the collective to embrace transformation and tap into the fullness of our souls. Choose a contribution level that resonates with you: $3, $5, $8, or $10 per month. Each supporter is invited to select a fan emoji that represents their connection to the show, adding a personal touch to their support. We’re healing the world and shifting massive timelines 🌹♥️.

LET’S CHAT 🫧🦋🤍Some patterns aren’t just habits—they’re karmic loops keeping you from alignment. In this episode, we dive into the root of repeating cycles, how to recognize them, and how to break free through energy shifts, awareness, and intentional action. If you’re ready to stop looping and rise into your power, this one’s for you. ✨Want to dive deeper into my world or work with me directly? Tap the link in the show notes —https://beacons.ai/khadijahjai  — to explore all the ways we can connect.Support the showThank you so much for listening. Leave a review, follow, download and share with friends if you found value in our conversations on self-development, mindset, spiritual alchemy + spiritual growth and the many transformative topics we touch on. Listening while you’re drinking a matcha, at the gym, driving or creating or being in your feminine + masculine bag or in the mirror twerking. Become a supporter of Yes I Am Selfish with your monthly contributions that helps us continue to create honest, spirit-led content that empowers the collective to embrace transformation and tap into the fullness of our souls. Choose a contribution level that resonates with you: $3, $5, $8, or $10 per month. Each supporter is invited to select a fan emoji that represents their connection to the show, adding a personal touch to their support. We’re healing the world and shifting massive timelines 🌹♥️.

LET’S CHAT 🫧🦋🤍In this unapologetic episode, we’re diving deep into the transformative power of not giving a fck*—not from a place of bitterness, but from self-respect, emotional clarity, and radical self-honesty. I’m talking about what it really means to stop putting other people’s opinions on a pedestal, how anger can be a sacred teacher, and why internal peace is the real glow-up. From personal moments of breaking points to breaking free, this episode is your permission slip to be your whole self—loudly, boldly, and without explanation. If you’ve been dimming your light or second-guessing your truth, this one’s for you.You’ll hear about:• Why other people’s opinions are not your business• How to stop internalizing rejection and start seeing it as redirection• Using anger as an emotional compass, not a shame trigger• The beauty of boundaries, detachment, and no longer explaining yourself• Becoming the main character in your own life—for real this timeGet ready to release, reclaim, and return to your most authentic self.Support the showThank you so much for listening. Leave a review, follow, download and share with friends if you found value in our conversations on self-development, mindset, spiritual alchemy + spiritual growth and the many transformative topics we touch on. Listening while you’re drinking a matcha, at the gym, driving or creating or being in your feminine + masculine bag or in the mirror twerking. Become a supporter of Yes I Am Selfish with your monthly contributions that helps us continue to create honest, spirit-led content that empowers the collective to embrace transformation and tap into the fullness of our souls. Choose a contribution level that resonates with you: $3, $5, $8, or $10 per month. Each supporter is invited to select a fan emoji that represents their connection to the show, adding a personal touch to their support. We’re healing the world and shifting massive timelines 🌹♥️.

LET’S CHAT 🫧🦋🤍The Law of Exposure: What You Feed Your Mind Shapes Your Life! 🎧✨What you see, hear, and surround yourself with is shaping your reality—whether you realize it or not. 🤯 The Law of Exposure shows how your environment influences your mindset and success. By being intentional with what you consume, you can rewire your thinking, break old patterns, and create a new reality. In this episode, we’re diving into how to take control and level up. 🚀 #StayExposedToGreatnessSupport the showThank you so much for listening. Leave a review, follow, download and share with friends if you found value in our conversations on self-development, mindset, spiritual alchemy + spiritual growth and the many transformative topics we touch on. Listening while you’re drinking a matcha, at the gym, driving or creating or being in your feminine + masculine bag or in the mirror twerking. Become a supporter of Yes I Am Selfish with your monthly contributions that helps us continue to create honest, spirit-led content that empowers the collective to embrace transformation and tap into the fullness of our souls. Choose a contribution level that resonates with you: $3, $5, $8, or $10 per month. Each supporter is invited to select a fan emoji that represents their connection to the show, adding a personal touch to their support. We’re healing the world and shifting massive timelines 🌹♥️.

LET’S CHAT 🫧🦋🤍In this episode, we dive deep into the power of giving yourself permission. To heal, to set boundaries, to express your truth, and to fully embrace who you are. Too often, we suppress our emotions, silence our voices, or shrink ourselves to fit into spaces that don’t honor us. But what if you stopped waiting for external validation and simply allowed yourself to be?We explore:• Healing your relationship with yourself before seeking it from others• The importance of emotional expression—whether through journaling, video diaries, or honest conversations• Setting boundaries and recognizing when to walk away from unhealthy relationships• Releasing the fear of judgment and standing firm in your authenticity• Understanding triggers as signals for self-awareness and inner workThis is your reminder that everything is about you and will always remain about you—your growth, your peace, your evolution. It’s time to give yourself full permission to be unapologetically and authentically you and do it selfishly.Support the showThank you so much for listening. Leave a review, follow, download and share with friends if you found value in our conversations on self-development, mindset, spiritual alchemy + spiritual growth and the many transformative topics we touch on. Listening while you’re drinking a matcha, at the gym, driving or creating or being in your feminine + masculine bag or in the mirror twerking. Become a supporter of Yes I Am Selfish with your monthly contributions that helps us continue to create honest, spirit-led content that empowers the collective to embrace transformation and tap into the fullness of our souls. Choose a contribution level that resonates with you: $3, $5, $8, or $10 per month. Each supporter is invited to select a fan emoji that represents their connection to the show, adding a personal touch to their support. We’re healing the world and shifting massive timelines 🌹♥️.

LET’S CHAT 🫧🦋🤍In this episode, we dive deep into The Law of Sacrifice, a universal principle that teaches us that in order to gain something greater, we must be willing to let go of what no longer serves us. Whether it’s old habits, limiting beliefs, or relationships that keep us stagnant, true transformation requires a conscious exchange. The question is……. what are you willing to give up to step into your power?TIKTOK: KHADIJAHJAIINSTAGRAM: ITSKHADIJAHJAISupport the showThank you so much for listening. Leave a review, follow, download and share with friends if you found value in our conversations on self-development, mindset, spiritual alchemy + spiritual growth and the many transformative topics we touch on. Listening while you’re drinking a matcha, at the gym, driving or creating or being in your feminine + masculine bag or in the mirror twerking. Become a supporter of Yes I Am Selfish with your monthly contributions that helps us continue to create honest, spirit-led content that empowers the collective to embrace transformation and tap into the fullness of our souls. Choose a contribution level that resonates with you: $3, $5, $8, or $10 per month. Each supporter is invited to select a fan emoji that represents their connection to the show, adding a personal touch to their support. We’re healing the world and shifting massive timelines 🌹♥️.

LET’S CHAT 🫧🦋🤍“Everybody Is You Pushed Out ” isn’t just a concept, it’s real life. The people around you? They’re reflecting your inner world, whether you like it or not. In this episode, we’re getting into how your assumptions and your subconscious beliefs are shaping your reality and what to do if you don’t like what’s showing up. Let’s talk about it. TIKTOK: KHADIJAHJAIINSTAGRAM: ITSKHADIJAHJAISupport the showThank you so much for listening. Leave a review, follow, download and share with friends if you found value in our conversations on self-development, mindset, spiritual alchemy + spiritual growth and the many transformative topics we touch on. Listening while you’re drinking a matcha, at the gym, driving or creating or being in your feminine + masculine bag or in the mirror twerking. Become a supporter of Yes I Am Selfish with your monthly contributions that helps us continue to create honest, spirit-led content that empowers the collective to embrace transformation and tap into the fullness of our souls. Choose a contribution level that resonates with you: $3, $5, $8, or $10 per month. Each supporter is invited to select a fan emoji that represents their connection to the show, adding a personal touch to their support. We’re healing the world and shifting massive timelines 🌹♥️.

LET’S CHAT 🫧🦋🤍How often do you listen to your inner child and their needs/wants? Or do you simply neglect them and put them last because you are an adult now.That’s the first step to your problem as seeing your inner child as someone who is in your past but they are still with you every single time you wake up and go to sleep at night. Your self sabotaging behaviors starts there.TIKTOK: khadijahjaiINSTAGRAM: itskhadijahjaiSupport the showThank you so much for listening. Leave a review, follow, download and share with friends if you found value in our conversations on self-development, mindset, spiritual alchemy + spiritual growth and the many transformative topics we touch on. Listening while you’re drinking a matcha, at the gym, driving or creating or being in your feminine + masculine bag or in the mirror twerking. Become a supporter of Yes I Am Selfish with your monthly contributions that helps us continue to create honest, spirit-led content that empowers the collective to embrace transformation and tap into the fullness of our souls. Choose a contribution level that resonates with you: $3, $5, $8, or $10 per month. Each supporter is invited to select a fan emoji that represents their connection to the show, adding a personal touch to their support. We’re healing the world and shifting massive timelines 🌹♥️.