You've Gotta Hear This

In a culture that constantly tells us to 'try before you buy,' we're challenged to embrace a radically different approach: commit before you connect. This message confronts the modern narrative around sexual intimacy head-on, reminding us that sex isn't just a physical transaction or a test drive—it's a sacred covenant designed by God for marriage. The biblical principle is clear: our bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, bought with a price, and becoming 'one flesh' requires dying to ourselves and entering into permanent covenant, not just temporary commitment. What makes this message so powerful is its practical wisdom alongside spiritual truth. We learn that waiting isn't about outdated religious rules—it's about building trust, developing discipline, and creating security that lasts a lifetime. When we practice self-control in our dating relationships, we're actually building the character muscles we'll need for every future challenge: financial discipline, relational faithfulness, and emotional maturity. The testimony shared here proves that covenant creates safety, and that the boundaries we establish today become the foundation for unshakable marriages tomorrow. This isn't about shame for past choices—it's about the redemptive power of starting fresh, drawing new lines, and surrendering our desires to God's perfect design.

In a world that either idolizes or whispers about sex, we're invited to reclaim God's original design for this beautiful gift within marriage. This conversation challenges us to see that when our intimate lives feel tired, boring, or disconnected, it's not a sign of brokenness—it's simply a signal that our season has changed. The biblical truth that God declared sex as 'good' from creation reminds us that physical intimacy was meant to be a source of refreshment, reconnection, and covenant renewal between husband and wife. We discover three transformative principles: First, that emotional safety must precede physical intimacy—we cannot expect passion in the bedroom when we haven't cultivated connection throughout the day.  Second, that intentionality beats spontaneity in busy seasons—planning for intimacy doesn't diminish romance, it demonstrates priority. Third, that grace for our current season matters more than regret for past ones—whether navigating exhaustion, hormonal shifts, or life transitions, faithfulness in the inconvenient moments is itself a form of intimacy. This message calls us back to covenant thinking, reminding us that the hard work of communication, prayer, and creating margin will always outperform quick fixes that promise connection but deliver division.

In our journey of faith and family, we often find ourselves trapped in the exhausting cycle of maintaining perfect routines—the endless plate-spinning that leaves us depleted rather than fulfilled. This conversation challenges us to shift from rigid regimens to sustainable rhythms that honor both our values and our humanity. At the heart of this message is a profound truth: our non-negotiables must be rooted in what truly matters eternally, not in cultural pressures or parental guilt. When we examine the principle of Sabbath rest found throughout Scripture, we discover it's not just a religious obligation but a divine rhythm designed for our flourishing. God Himself modeled rest after creation, and Jesus reminded us that the Sabbath was made for humanity's benefit. The wisdom here calls us to identify our spiritual anchors—like consistent participation in the body of Christ—and build our family life around those foundations rather than allowing youth sports, career demands, or societal expectations to dictate our calendar. We're invited to ask ourselves honestly: What are we truly gaining from our frenetic pace? Are we investing in what has eternal value, or are we sacrificing our marriages, our peace, and our spiritual health on the altar of activities that won't matter in eternity?  This is a call to courageous prioritization, to saying 'no' to good things so we can say 'yes' to the best things, and to building family rhythms that reflect kingdom values rather than cultural pressures.

What if the breakthrough we're desperately seeking isn't found in our circumstances changing, but in our spirits being transformed? This powerful exploration of prayer and fasting challenges us to shift our perspective from 'fasting for' to 'fasting towards'—moving toward intimacy with God rather than manipulating outcomes. Drawing from the story of Daniel in the lion's den, we're reminded that fasting doesn't guarantee our situations will improve; in fact, spiritual warfare may intensify. Yet something profound happens in the unseen realm when we deny our flesh and quiet the noise of our desires. Daniel still got thrown to the lions, but his spirit was so fortified through prayer that angels shut the mouths of those beasts. The real victory wasn't avoiding the den—it was emerging from it transformed. When Jesus spoke about certain challenges that 'only come out by prayer and fasting,' He was revealing a spiritual truth: some battles require a deeper level of preparation. We can't coast on yesterday's spiritual disciplines when today's giants are at our door. This isn't about earning God's favor—we already have that through Christ. It's about training our spirits like athletes train their bodies, feeding the right dog in the fight between flesh and spirit, and positioning ourselves to hear God's voice above the constant clamor of our appetites.

This powerful conversation tackles one of the most painful yet common experiences in our faith journey: being hurt by the church. We discover that church hurt doesn't disqualify us from community—instead, it makes healing within that community even more essential. Drawing from Psalm 23's imagery of the Good Shepherd, we're reminded that the journey from turbulent waters to still waters isn't always comfortable. Sometimes the path to green pastures involves rocky terrain, and what feels like hurt in the moment may actually be part of our spiritual growth process. The message challenges us to examine how we filter our experiences through pain, creating distorted narratives that can imprison us for years. We learn that forgiveness isn't optional for followers of Christ—it's mandated. The most dangerous response to church hurt is isolation, cutting ourselves off from the very body where healing happens.  Like a lone antelope separated from the herd, we become vulnerable when we insulate ourselves in echo chambers that only reinforce our wounds. The irony is profound: the place where we experienced hurt is often the exact place where we encounter the Healer. This isn't about subjecting ourselves to continued abuse, but about refusing to let bitterness rob us of the life God intends for us.

 In a world that constantly pulls us toward negativity and complaint, we're challenged to embrace a radical truth: Gratitude is not a feeling that happens to us, but a discipline we must actively cultivate. Drawing from Colossians 3 and James 1, we discover that working at thankfulness is as essential as farming—requiring intentional planting, watering, and tending. The message reminds us that it takes the same emotional energy to be grateful as it does to be negative, which means we have a choice in every moment. When we face trials—financial stress, relational conflict, health challenges, or disappointment—we're called to consider it pure joy, not because the circumstances are good, but because these very trials filter our joy down to its purest form. Like water passing through a filter, our struggles remove the temporary sources of happiness and reveal what remains: the unchanging truth that Christ has overcome the world. This isn't about manufacturing fake positivity, but about redirecting our focus to the foundation that cannot be shaken. Whether through worship in our kitchens, handwritten thank-you notes, or monthly gratitude practices, we're invited to build systems that keep us anchored in thankfulness. When we do this work, our limitations may not disappear, but our perspective shifts—and we begin to truly love the life we're living.

What does it truly mean to consider trials pure joy? This powerful conversation challenges us to move beyond surface-level faith into a resilient Christianity that transforms pain into purpose. We discover that resilience isn't about avoiding difficulty, it's about managing it with grace and intentionality. The discussion draws from James 1, which calls us to find genuine joy in trials, not as a passive acceptance but as an active celebration of God's faithfulness. We learn practical strategies for enduring hard seasons: establishing sacred rhythms like Shabbat to reset our souls, maintaining daily spiritual disciplines even when we don't feel like it, and literally 'fixing our shoulders'—standing tall as children of the King even when circumstances tempt us to shrink. The message from Hebrews reminds us that God's discipline, though painful in the moment, produces a peaceful harvest of right living and shares us in His holiness. Perhaps most importantly, we're reminded that worrying about tomorrow violates Jesus' teaching; we have divine permission to focus only on today's concerns. This isn't about toxic positivity; it's about strategic faith that understands growth only happens at the edge of our pain threshold. When we're tempted to quit, we must return to our 'pearl'—the original vision God gave us—and take just one more step forward.

When life falls apart, what does it really mean to endure? In this powerful conversation, we explore the deep connection between pain and purpose—and how resilience is about more than just surviving tough seasons. Drawing wisdom from Ecclesiastes and James 1:2–4, we uncover how trials can become the very ground where faith grows strongest. Like the oyster that turns irritation into a pearl, God often uses pressure to produce something precious in us. Abraham never saw the fulfillment of God's promise in his lifetime, yet his faith never wavered—challenging our modern craving for instant results. This episode invites you to slow down, reflect, and ask:  Are you wasting your waiting season, or letting it mature you?  Are you focused on comfort—or on the calling being forged within you? Because sometimes, the most beautiful things take years to form. And that's exactly what makes them precious.

In times of crisis, we're called to be more than spectators - we're called to action. This episode of "You've Gotta Hear This", reminds us that 'this is our time' to shine God's light in the darkest moments. Drawing inspiration from 2 Corinthians 1:3-5, we're encouraged to see our suffering not as a burden, but as an opportunity to comfort others with the comfort we've received from God. When the world seems chaotic, our small acts of kindness and faith can make a tremendous impact. Like a tiny flashlight in pitch darkness, even our smallest efforts to show Christ's love become beacons of hope. This challenges us to step out of our comfort zones, face our fears, and actively seek ways to serve those around us, knowing that God's strength is made perfect in our weakness.

In today's episode, we explore the intricate journey of parenting and how it's intertwined with building a life you love. Drawing from personal experiences, we discuss the challenges, rewards, and lessons learned while raising four children. Discover how to view kids not as limitations but as integral parts of your life's legacy. We share insights on parenting, setting boundaries, maintaining emotional health, and balancing a professional life with family. Join us as we reframe common misconceptions about parenting, from the financial costs to the emotional energy required, and learn how children can be seen as valuable investments and opportunities rather than b

Join hosts Crystal and Tyler Tullos in this heartfelt episode of 'You've Got To Hear This,' a lifestyle podcast designed to inspire you to take big risks and build a life you love. In this episode, they share the origin story of the church they found in 2012, StoryHeights Church, from its inception as a tiny seed of faith to a thriving community in Massachusetts. Listen as they delve into their personal journey of overcoming setbacks, enduring pain, and fostering a spirit of wonder and purpose. Whether you're aiming to start a church, take on a new venture, or simply seeking encouragement, this episode offers practical wisdom and a compelling narrative of resilience and faith.

Welcome to this episode of 'You Gotta Hear This,' where we dive deep into the essential principles of how to start a business, specifically how to start a daycare and run a successful childcare center. Join us as we discuss the indispensable value of willingness and capability, the steps to establishing a successful childcare business, and our personal journey in the early education space. Get ready for an unscripted, honest conversation filled with practical tips, personal stories, and actionable steps to help you turn your vision into reality. Whether you're an aspiring entrepreneur or a seasoned business owner, this episode will offer valuable insights to defy limitations and build a life you love. Don't forget to subscribe, and follow us on social media for more inspiring content!

Welcome to this episode of 'You Gotta Hear This,' where we dive deep into the essential principles of how to start a business, specifically how to start a daycare and run a successful childcare center. Join us as we discuss the indispensable value of willingness and capability, the steps to establishing a successful childcare business, and our personal journey in the early education space. Get ready for an unscripted, honest conversation filled with practical tips, personal stories, and actionable steps to help you turn your vision into reality. Whether you're an aspiring entrepreneur or a seasoned business owner, this episode will offer valuable insights to defy limitations and build a life you love. Don't forget to subscribe, and follow us on social media for more inspiring content!

"I could never work with my spouse..." In this episode, Tyler and Crystal Tullos share the secrets to successfully working alongside your spouse without falling into the trap of competition. Married for over 20 years and partners in multiple ventures, including pastoral roles, real estate, and childcare centers, they explain how to become complementarians and achieve common goals. The episode discusses the importance of setting boundaries, establishing healthy rhythms, and creating a unified vision and mission for your marriage. Whether you are newly married, seasoned partners, or even if you are single, these principles will help you enhance collaboration and live a life you both love. #marriage #teamwork #business #spouse #work #team #vision

In today's podcast, hosts Tyler and Crystal Tullis share their inspiring journey of taking courageous steps to pursue their dreams. They discuss the importance of taking that first step, no matter how scary it may be, and how to embrace the unknown with courage and strategy. They recount their personal experiences, including moving across the country and starting a church amidst challenges and uncertainties. Through their 20 years of marriage, business ventures, and personal growth, they offer practical insights and encouragement to help you defy limitations and begin living a life you love. Join them and learn how to transform fear into action! 

In the debut episode of You've Got to Hear This, hosts Crystal and Tyler Tullos reveal their inspiring 20-year journey of faith, entrepreneurship, and overcoming challenges to build a life they love. From relocating to Boston from Louisiana with only a U-Haul and $7,000 to founding a thriving church and launching successful businesses, this episode highlights the ups and downs of their unique path. Crystal and Tyler set the stage for what their podcast will revolve around, six key life pillars: turning ideas into reality, fostering meaningful relationships, mastering financial management, biblical understanding, navigating family life, and conquering fear through faith. Listen in for practical tips and motivational stories that will empower you to defy your limitations and pursue a life you truly love. This episode includes deep gratitude for the support from their family, friends, and community, which has been instrumental in shaping their mission and dreams.  00:00 Introduction: Building a Life You Love 01:43 Welcome to Our Podcast 04:10 Our Journey Begins: College Days 06:46 Starting a Family and Ministry 08:17 The Move to Boston 11:06 Diversifying Our Lives 12:58 Venturing into Real Estate and Childcare 14:35 Overcoming Financial Struggles 16:00 Expanding Our Ventures 16:44 The Birth of the POP Center 17:22 Balancing Ministry and Innovation 17:54 Family Involvement and Growth 18:37 Overcoming Challenges and Critics 19:55 Encouragement and Motivation 21:02 Introducing the Podcast 23:22 Six Vital Life Pillars 25:05 Gratitude and Acknowledgements 32:52 Final Thoughts and Future Plans

Welcome to "You've Gotta Hear This," the podcast where Tyler and Crystal Tullos help you break through limitations and build a life you love. With 20 years of experience as pastors, parents, and entrepreneurs, we're here to share bold stories that inspire you to take risks, step out in faith, and chase your dreams. Whether we make you laugh, cry, or challenge you, we believe these are the stories you've gotta hear.

Welcome to "You've Gotta Hear This," the podcast where Tyler and Crystal Tullos help you break through limitations and build a life you love. With 20 years of experience as pastors, parents, and entrepreneurs, we're here to share bold stories that inspire you to take risks, step out in faith, and chase your dreams. Whether we make you laugh, cry, or challenge you, we believe these are the stories you've gotta hear.