Ex-Homeschoolers Club

This week on the podcast, I sat down with D.L. Mayfield for one of the most intense and thought-provoking conversations we’ve ever had on the Ex-Homeschoolers Club. We unpacked the influence of Focus on the Family, James Dobson, purity culture, and authoritarian parenting on an entire generation of homeschool kids — and what it means to revisit those ideas as adults.ResourcesSTRONGWILLED Project: https://www.strongwilledproject.comCoalition for Responsible Home EducationChapters00:00 Content Warning00:14 Meet DL and Homeschool Roots02:38 Pastor Kid Life and Moving Often03:33 Reading Escape and Uneven Schooling06:17 Public School Transition and Doomsday Prep07:20 Host Reflections and Shared Homeschool Vibes09:46 Focus on the Family in Childhood10:31 Dobson Parenting and Abuse Enablers13:38 Adventures in Odyssey Nostalgia vs Critique16:49 Fascism Framework and Why Dobson Matters21:48 Dobson Origins and Eugenics Links24:06 Deconstruction Reaction and New Thesis27:05 Porn Commission and Ignored Child Abuse32:26 Predator Profiles and Forgiveness Culture37:05 Wit as Trusted Authority39:29 Imagination Station Lessons42:53 Parenting Against Blind Trust44:54 Authority and Homeschool Myths46:26 Incest Denial and Epstein Parallels50:45 Purity Culture and Male Lust54:40 Girls Modesty and Predators57:21 Forgiveness Without Justice01:02:17 Stop Hitting Children01:06:05 Listen to Kids and Reform01:07:45 Strong Willed Resources01:09:48 Late Bloomer Hope01:11:42 Closing Thanks and WrapIf you enjoyed this conversation, be sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a friend who might benefit from hearing this story. Follow Ex-Homeschoolers Club on Instagram and TikTok for updates, and send us a message – we’d love to hear from you!Connect with Jacob Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/exhsclub/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@exhsclubEmail me at [email protected]

Want to be alerted when new episodes drop? Join the newsletter: https://exhsclub.beehiiv.com/RB returns to the Ex-Homeschoolers Club to share how his life has changed since his first appearance. After years of trauma therapy, RB opens up about receiving an adult ADHD diagnosis and how it reshaped his understanding of his past, his behaviors, and his identity. From navigating burnout after a “manic phase” of newfound freedom to finding the right medication and building healthier systems, RB offers an honest look at what healing actually looks like in real life. The conversation also explores homeschooling, generational trauma, digital boundaries, and how to live in the “gray” instead of black-and-white thinking. This episode is a deep dive into growth, self-awareness, and what it really means to move forward.Connect with RB:• RB on Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/flyerbrown/⁠If you enjoyed this conversation, be sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a friend who might benefit from hearing this story. Follow Ex-Homeschoolers Club on Instagram and TikTok for updates, and send us a message – we’d love to hear from you!Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/exhsclub/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@exhsclubEmail me at [email protected]:00 Welcome Back: RB Returns to the Ex Homeschoolers Club00:46 RB’s Homeschooling “Elevator Pitch” (States, Groups, and Religion)02:00 Homeschool Accountability & Why State Rules Matter04:40 Life Update: Adult ADHD Diagnosis—Why Get Tested Now?05:32 Trauma Therapy to “Manic Phase”: Freedom, Overcommitment, and Burnout12:24 Getting Evaluated: 6 Hours of Testing + Inattentive ADHD Explained17:55 Medication Journey: Non‑Stimulants, Ritalin Fears, and Doctor Oversight23:38 Dialing In Adderall + ADHD Coaching: Sleep, Phones, and Focus Loops28:28 Digital Boundaries & Circles of Trust (Notifications, Slack, After‑Hours)37:41 Reframing Childhood Through ADHD: The Pearl Harbor Paper & Healing the Story42:12 Trauma Isn’t the Event: Validating Your Past and Tracking Real Progress46:35 Seeing Parents as People: Generational Trauma, Estrangement, and Limits49:20 Breaking the Cycle: Becoming a Better Parent Than You Had49:42 From Black-and-White Faith to Living in the Gray52:13 Political Deconstruction: 2016, Voting, and the Right to Change57:26 Reframing the Past: Homeschooling Through Trauma & Poverty58:47 Pick Your Boat: Choosing a Cause Without Carrying Every Issue01:02:04 Healthcare Access 101: The ‘Boat’ He’s On and Why It Matters01:03:39 Fixing the System: Data Portability, QR Codes, and Killing the Fax Machine01:09:57 Owning Your Health Data: Consent, Walled Gardens, and Trust01:11:15 Crypto, AI, and Creativity: Where Tech Helps—and Where It Hurts01:24:25 Real Connection in a Digital World: Friends, Touch, and Sandlot Baseball01:28:20 Wrap-Up: Gratitude, Annual Check-Ins, and How to Share Your Story

Sign up for Day of the Homeschool Child: https://crhe.org/dothcGet on the email newsletter: https://exhsclub.beehiiv.com/Email me at [email protected] you've been wondering what happened to the show, I'm answering all the questions today. As well as sharing some updates for things to come. Chapters00:00  Where have I been?00:15 Welcome Back to the Ex-Homeschoolers Club00:48  Life Update05:40  Show Update06:59 Special Announcements07:03  Day of the Homeschool Child09:10  Ex-Homeschooler Happy Hour10:19  Book Club11:25  Wanna Be A Guest?14:50  Sign Up for the Newsletter16:01  Thanks for being here

Subscribe to Un•Religiously on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@UnReligiously What happens when a homeschooled teenager raised in a deeply evangelical environment suddenly enters a community college classroom filled with new ideas, identities, and worldviews?In this episode of The Ex-Homeschoolers Club, I'm sitting down with YouTuber Lauren Howe, creator of the Un•Religiously channel, to talk about growing up homeschooled in a highly religious environment and navigating the massive culture shock of entering public education and college.Lauren shares how her family originally started homeschooling due to learning challenges like ADHD, but over time became immersed in the evangelical homeschool culture of the early 2000s. She reflects on everything from joking that school buses were “prison buses” as a kid to grappling with evolution, gender identity, and even yoga classes for the first time in college.The conversation explores both the benefits and drawbacks of homeschooling, the influence of homeschool culture beyond parents themselves, and the complicated process of reconciling faith with new perspectives.Chapters00:00 Sneak Peek00:50 Welcome to the Ex-Homeschoolers Club01:52 Lauren’s Background04:09 Is Public School Really That Bad?07:11 Homeschool Culture Influence08:35 Homeschooling Pros and Cons10:27 What Parents Did Well11:51 Testing Out and Dual Enrollment13:43 Transition and Socialization17:03 Faith vs Evolution20:45 Yoga and Moral Panic22:48 Four Year College Next24:18 Pop Culture Catch Up26:59 College Culture Shock27:53 Hiding Homeschool Roots29:27 Spotting Fellow Homeschoolers30:16 Unreligiously Channel Mission33:06 Deconstruction First Dominoes37:26 Fear Silence And Fallout40:09 Seeing Prayer As Love43:00 Catching Up On Pop Culture45:20 Homeschooling X Factor47:38 Advice For New Homeschoolers51:51 Religious Liberty Commission Warning53:26 Final Thanks And WrapConnect with MeInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/exhsclub/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@exhsclubEmail me at [email protected]

Want to be alerted when new episodes drop? Join the newsletter: https://exhsclub.beehiiv.com/In this episode of Ex-Homeschoolers Club, I sit down with my cousin Amanda, a second-grade public school teacher with 13 years of classroom experience, to explore education from the “dark side.” Haha!Amanda shares what it’s really like inside today’s public schools: what works, what’s frustrating, and what’s changed over the last decade. From student teaching stories to advocating for kids who need services, she offers an honest look at the realities teachers face, including funding challenges, inclusion classrooms, and navigating parents who are (and aren’t) involved.We also talk candidly about homeschooling; the myths, the shifts in perception, and the surprising reality that even a public school teacher might consider homeschooling her own children.Key PointsWhy Amanda believes second grade is the “sweet spot” What student teaching really looks like (including full classroom takeover)How public education has shifted in the last 13 yearsThe reality of funding and where resources actually goWhy parental involvement makes a massive differenceThe biggest myth Amanda had about homeschoolingWhy she’s now reconsidering homeschooling for her own kidsWhat kids actually remember about school (hint: not the standards)If this episode hit home, share it with a parent, teacher, or anyone who's ever wondered what's really going on in our schools. Leave a comment and tell Jacob what landed for you. Connect with MeInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/exhsclub/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@exhsclubEmail me at [email protected]:00 Why She Loves Teaching the Little Ones (Kinder–3rd Vibes)00:42 Growing Up Public Schooled: Favorite Teachers & Loving School02:40 When the ‘I Want to Teach’ Lightbulb Turned On05:15 College Path + Getting Credentialed (5-Year Track)06:36 Student Teaching Stories: Kindergarten, 6th Grade & Full Class Takeover09:43 13 Years in the Classroom: Landing in 2nd Grade for Good10:47 Why Second Grade Is the Sweet Spot: Independence & Interests Bloom13:23 Which Grades Are ‘Best’ to Teach? (And Why Junior High Is a No)15:19 Homeschooling From the Other Side: Myths, Social Life & Changing Views18:19 Homeschool Reality Check: Isolation, Co-ops, and Different Kids Thrive Differently20:00 How Public School Has Changed: Funding, Services, and Advocating for Kids23:14 Fighting for Students Without Support at Home23:40 Where the Money Goes: New Schools vs. Student Services25:32 Is Public Education ‘Broken’? Advocacy & Community Support26:21 Parents: Get Involved, Ask Questions, Know Your Rights29:39 Beyond Parents: Voting, Bonds, and Showing Up to Board Meetings32:03 Has a Public School Teacher Considered Homeschooling?34:10 Homeschool Reality Check: Space, Structure, and the Mom/Teacher Blur36:44 How Much Freedom Do Teachers Have? Standards, Pacing, and Customization40:57 What Kids Actually Remember: Hands-On Learning Over Test Prep42:36 Final Takeaway: Whatever You Choose, Stay Involved44:29 Wrap-Up, Thanks, and Call to Action

Get on the newsletter: https://exhsclub.beehiiv.com/What happens when homeschooling meets full-time travel, nature-based learning, and a family determined to break out of traditional education models? In this episode of The Ex-Homeschoolers Club, Jacob sits down with Kayla Mathieu to explore her family’s roadschooling journey, how travel shaped her children’s education, and why reconnecting with nature has become a central pillar in their homeschooling philosophy.Kayla shares how her family successfully visited all 50 states while educating their children on the road, the challenges of adapting to different learning styles, and how stepping outside conventional classroom structures helped her kids thrive. She also discusses the importance of flexibility, community, and self-grace for families navigating homeschooling.From nervous system regulation through outdoor experiences to practical advice for parents considering homeschooling, this episode offers a thoughtful and balanced look at alternative education through lived experience.Quick HitsKayla’s family traveled to all 50 states while roadschooling their childrenHow travel and experiential learning shaped her children’s educationAdapting homeschooling methods to accommodate different learning stylesThe role of nature in supporting emotional regulation and mental healthThe realities of transitioning from traditional education structures to flexible learningAdvice for parents considering homeschooling and finding educational approaches that fit their familyThe importance of homeschool communities and support networksConnect with Kayla MathieuWandering Past Limits Blog: https://www.wanderingpastlimits.comYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@wanderingpastlimits Chapters00:00 Introduction and Welcome00:56 Meet Kayla: A Homeschooling Journey Begins01:18 Challenges in Traditional Schooling10:44 A Turning Point: Deciding to Homeschool11:46 First Year of Homeschooling: Learning the Ropes14:52 Finding the Right Curriculum19:32 Integrating Travel with Learning21:10 Revolutionary War History and East Coast Travels21:54 Navigating ADHD and Autism in Homeschooling22:45 Socialization and RV Homeschooling Groups26:02 Favorite Travel Destinations27:12 Individualized Homeschooling Approaches29:24 Reconnecting with Nature34:00 Advice for New Homeschooling Families36:18 Conclusion and Final ThoughtsConnect with MeInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/exhsclub/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@exhsclubEmail me at [email protected]

In this episode of The Ex-Homeschoolers Club, I'm sitting down with Tess Ulrey, Executive Director of the Coalition for Responsible Home Education (CRHE). Tess shares her experience growing up homeschooled across multiple countries, transitioning in and out of public, private, and international schools, and how those experiences shaped her work advocating for homeschool children today.Together, they unpack the privilege embedded in homeschooling, the blurry lines between homeschooling and unschooling, the challenges many homeschool alumni face in college and adulthood, and why responsible oversight matters—not to punish families, but to protect kids.This conversation explores the good, the bad, and the uncomfortable realities of homeschooling, including abuse, neglect, and the gaps that exist in state laws across the U.S.Key Topics CoveredTess’s experience being homeschooled in Michigan, Japan, and GermanyHomeschooling vs. unschooling—and why the line is blurrier than everThe role of privilege in homeschooling decisionsTransitioning from homeschooling to college and adult lifeWhy many homeschool alumni hide their education backgroundHow public schools and community organizations fill critical support gapsThe mission and work of the Coalition for Responsible Home EducationThe reality of abuse, neglect, and lack of oversight in homeschooling lawsCurrent legislation impacting homeschool children in the U.S.🔗 Resources & LinksCoalition for Responsible Home Education: https://crhe.orgHomeschooling's Invisible Children Database: https://hic.crhe.org Connect with MeInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/exhsclub/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@exhsclubEmail me at [email protected]: https://exhsclub.beehiiv.com/If you’re a former homeschooler, your story matters. Consider connecting with CRHE to support research, advocacy, and responsible policy that centers the lived experiences of homeschool alumni.Chapters00:00 Coming Up00:44 Meet Tess Ulrey01:43 Tess's Homeschooling Journey04:12 Transitioning Between Education Systems08:14 Defining Homeschooling and Unschooling10:17 Challenges and Benefits of Unschooling14:09 College and Career: Post-Homeschooling Life18:18 Nonprofit Work and Community Support23:03 Public Schooling Decision for Tess's Kids26:41 The Coalition for Responsible Home Education33:05 How to Get Involved with CRHE44:42 Conclusion and Call to Action

Join the newsletter here: https://exhsclub.beehiiv.com/What happens when homeschooling leaves the house and hits the open road? In this episode of The Ex-Homeschoolers Club, I'm sitting down with Robin (aka BG Barnstormer), a former homeschooling mom who spent three years educating her kids while living full-time in an RV. Robin shares how a rotating pilot schedule led her family to homeschooling, how community support shaped their early years, and what really happens when learning differences, sensory needs, and emotional regulation collide in 350 square feet. Whether you’re a homeschool parent, an ex-homeschooler, or just curious about alternative education paths, this episode is packed with practical insight and lived experience.*Key Topics Covered*- Why a nontraditional work schedule pushed the family toward homeschooling- Building community through Classical Conversations and homeschool co-ops- Recognizing reading challenges, dyslexia, dysgraphia, and tracking issues- The power of audiobooks for kids with learning differences- Emotional regulation tools and “quiet corners” for kids (and adults)- How homeschooling in an RV forces flexibility and creativity- Why getting a diagnosis can be empowering, not limiting- Transitioning from homeschooling into online public school*Connect with Robin*- Website: https://bgbarnstormer.com- Blog Post Mentioned: https://bgbarnstormer.com/autism-spectrum/snowflakes-understanding-our-unique-self/- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bgbarnstormer- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BGBarnstormerIf you enjoyed this conversation, be sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a friend who might benefit from hearing this story. Follow Ex-Homeschoolers Club on Instagram and TikTok for updates, and send us a message – we’d love to hear from you!*Connect with Me*Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/exhsclub/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@exhsclubEmail me at [email protected]*Chapters*00:00 Introduction to the Ex Homeschoolers Club00:45 Meet Robin: The Homeschooling Mom on the Road01:55 The Decision to Homeschool04:34 Early Homeschooling Days and Community Building11:50 Homeschooling Challenges and Learning Difficulties28:36 Homeschooling in an RV: Strategies and Adaptations31:53 Creating Quiet Spaces for Emotional Regulation33:33 The Importance of Regulation Tools49:02 Navigating Public Online Schooling55:54 Experiential Learning Through Travel01:00:07 Robin’s Book and Blog01:03:16 Final Thoughts and Farewell

Wanna be on the podcast? Email your homeschool experience to [email protected] In this end of year episode I'm reflecting on the incredible year of conversations, stories, and community we've creating in the ex-homeschoolers club. Get a little sneak peek of what's coming in early 2026 and some of the ideas I've got percolating. Resources & Links- Email the show: [email protected] Follow on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/exhsclub/- Follow on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@exhsclub- Learn more about the Coalition for Responsible Home Education (CRHE): https://crhe.orgChapters00:00 Welcome Back To The Ex-Homeschoolers Club00:23 Thank You For Coming On The Journey00:53 Happy Holidays01:26 Sneak Peek of 202603:01 What's Changing in 202604:34 I Need Your Feedback06:59 That's All FolksIf you enjoyed this conversation, be sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a friend who might benefit from hearing this story. Follow Ex-Homeschoolers Club on Instagram and TikTok for updates, and send us a message – we’d love to hear from you!

Former public school teacher turned world traveler Patti Hunt joins Jacob to unpack what teachers really think about homeschoolers, why she eventually wished she homeschooled her own kids, and how road-schooling families are reshaping modern education. Patti also shares her journey from the classroom to RV life, and the powerful lesson that pushed her to stop waiting and start living.Key PointsWhat 20 years in public schools taught her about kids, parents, and the systemMyths homeschoolers believe about public school — and what’s actually truePatti’s honest experience growing up in Philadelphia’s school systemHow teacher bias shows up in classrooms (even unintentionally)Why she now believes homeschooling can be powerful...but not for everyonePatti’s transition from teaching to entrepreneurship to RV travelThe road-schooling families she met and the hilarious moment she told one she was a public school teacherThe urgent lesson from her mother’s final days: don’t wait to live your lifePractical encouragement for parents who feel guilty about their choicesConnect with PattiYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@InspiredTravelsWithPatti Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/10YFZMzAmwA305cI4W5Db5?si=1a0d269337d44814Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/inspiredtravelswithpatti/ If you enjoyed this conversation, be sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a friend who might benefit from hearing this story. Follow Ex-Homeschoolers Club on Instagram and TikTok for updates, and send us a message – we’d love to hear from you!Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/exhsclub/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@exhsclubEmail me at [email protected]:00 Introduction and Welcome00:21 Meet Patti Hunt: A Journey from Teaching to Traveling01:43 Patti's Teaching Career: From Business to Education04:28 Homeschooling vs. Public School: Myths and Realities13:46 Parental Involvement in Education16:28 The RV Life: From Classroom to Open Road19:21 Road Schooling: Educating on the Move22:00 Parental Guilt and School Choices22:26 Homeschooling Success Stories24:11 Rethinking College Education26:41 The Value of Hands-On Learning28:53 Exploring the United States33:47 Encouraging Spontaneous Travel39:12 Final Thoughts on Parenting and Education

This week on the pod, I sit down with long-time friend Hannah to unpack her deeply personal journey through homeschooling, neurodivergence, and self-discovery. Growing up in a chaotic Christian homeschool environment with six siblings, Hannah reflects on what worked, what didn’t, and how a lack of structure and support shaped her sense of self-worth. She opens up about entering adulthood feeling unprepared, navigating community college with massive anxiety, and later discovering she’s neurodivergent, a revelation that reframed her entire childhood. Now working in education and pursuing behavioral-tech certification, Hannah shares how therapy, understanding, and self-compassion have helped her rebuild confidence and reclaim her love of learning. This conversation is raw, insightful, and incredibly validating for anyone who felt “behind” growing up homeschooled.Key PointsBig family life, AWANA memories, and mime team cultureHow chaos, parental conflict, and lack of structure shaped her educationFeeling “behind” and “dumb” the long-term effects of educational neglectNavigating college without foundational skillsDiscovering she’s neurodivergent at 30 & how therapy reframed everythingSensory issues, coping strategies, overstimulation, and emotional regulationHomeschooling today vs. “the bubble” we grew up inTimestamps00:00 Welcome to the Ex Homeschoolers Club00:32 Childhood Memories and AWANA Days07:39 Homeschooling and Family Dynamics12:10 Struggles with Education and Self-Worth16:23 College Challenges and Career Choices20:39 Discovering Neurodivergence and Therapy29:42 Managing Overstimulation30:30 Dealing with Everyday Frustrations33:10 Understanding Neurodivergence37:06 Homeschooling Reflections43:29 Big Family Dynamics46:39 Advice for Future Homeschoolers49:48 Pursuing New Learning Opportunities53:20 Homeschool Memories55:45 Final Thoughts and EncouragementIf you enjoyed this conversation, be sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a friend who might benefit from hearing this story. Follow Ex-Homeschoolers Club on Instagram and TikTok for updates, and send us a message – we’d love to hear from you!Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/exhsclub/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@exhsclubEmail me at [email protected]

This week I sit down with Ashley Peek, a current homeschool parent, content creator, and founder of the Secular Homeschool Revolution. Ashley shares her journey from navigating a broken public school system to creating a thriving secular progressive homeschool community in Texas. She opens up about her daughter’s challenge getting the IEP services she needed, the struggle to find inclusive co-ops, and how she built a space that celebrates diversity, social justice, and child-led learning.Together, we unpack the evolution of homeschooling beyond religion—covering everything from micro schools and anti-racist curriculum to sex education and the role of community in raising curious, confident kids.🔑 Key Points- How Ashley transitioned from frustrated parent to homeschooling advocate- What “secular progressive homeschooling” really means—and why it matters- The challenges of finding (and creating) inclusive co-ops for families of color- Building child-led education through clubs, field trips, and micro schooling- The importance of sex education, open conversations, and justice-centered learning- How homeschooling parents can still advocate for better public schools- Why mutual aid and community support are essential for homeschool success🔗 References & Guest Links- Podcast “Secular Homeschool Revolution”: https://open.spotify.com/show/5O8R301kT316E67DOf6y17?si=df7803f117334631- TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@secular_homeschool_mama- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/secular_homeschool_revolution⏱️ Timestamps00:00 Introduction to Secular Progressive Homeschooling00:22 Meet Ashley Peek: Homeschool Parent and Content Creator02:03 Ashley’s Homeschooling Journey: Challenges and Decisions08:25 Building a Secular Progressive Homeschool Community15:59 Defining Secular Progressive Homeschooling25:34 Co-op and Micro Schooling: A New Approach40:23 Experiential Learning at Home41:18 The Role of Curriculum in Homeschooling42:14 Unschooling: Pros and Cons45:27 Encouraging Deep Dives into Interests46:42 Real-Life Skills vs. Academic Knowledge48:55 The Importance of Play and Exploration49:47 Parental Responsibility in Education59:20 Community Support in Homeschooling01:01:12 Advocacy for Public Education01:01:52 Conclusion and Final ThoughtsIf you enjoyed this conversation, be sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a friend who might benefit from hearing this story. Follow Ex-Homeschoolers Club on Instagram and TikTok for updates, and send us a message – we’d love to hear from you!Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/exhsclub/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@exhsclubEmail me at [email protected]

This week I'm reconnecting with longtime friend Stephanie to unpack her full-circle journey through homeschooling, early marriage, motherhood, and now parenting kids in public school. Stephanie shares candid reflections on growing up in an unstructured homeschool environment, her surprising enrollment into El Camino, and the decision to homeschool her own children—before realizing public school was the right fit. We explore the tension between faith, education, and identity in the homeschool world, revealing how breaking away led to personal growth, renewed curiosity, and healthier family dynamics.🔑 *Key Points*- Stephanie’s experience growing up in a large, loosely structured homeschool family- Transitioning from homeschool to El Camino and earning her GED- Early marriage, motherhood, and the challenges of homeschooling her own kids- Letting go of the “public school is evil” mindset- Rediscovering a love for learning as an adult through podcasts and books🔗 *References & Mentions*- Adventures in Odyssey- Group Solutions Homeschool Co-op- El Camino Independent Study Program- Ken Ham / Answers in Genesis (mentioned critically)⏰ *Timestamps*00:00 Introduction and Welcome00:55 Meet Stephanie: A Lifelong Homeschooler01:46 Homeschooling Dynamics and Family Life06:52 Extracurricular Activities and Group Solutions12:45 Transition to El Camino and GED Journey20:07 Homeschooling Her Own Kids24:17 Rethinking Education Choices25:42 Public vs. Homeschooling: A Personal Journey26:18 Challenging Public School Stereotypes28:39 Parental Involvement in Public School30:22 Balancing Exposure and Protection35:12 Advice for Prospective Homeschoolers38:42 Rediscovering the Love of Learning42:20 Unique Homeschool Memories45:19 Conclusion and Final ThoughtsIf you enjoyed this conversation, be sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a friend who might benefit from hearing this story. Follow Ex-Homeschoolers Club on Instagram and TikTok for updates, and send us a message – we’d love to hear from you!Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/exhsclub/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@exhsclubEmail me at [email protected]

Hey everyone—it’s Jacob Gooden, and I’m back with an update on the Ex-Homeschoolers Club! In this solo episode, I open up about why the show has been quiet for the past month, what’s been happening behind the scenes, and how I’ve been dealing with burnout, anxiety, and social media overload. I share the changes I’ve made to prioritize my mental health, including stepping back from social platforms, cutting down on caffeine, and making time for rest and fun. I also give you a sneak peek at the exciting new interviews coming soon—ranging from conversations with a sex education expert to homeschooling parents and college prep specialists. Finally, I ask for your feedback on the future direction of the show, possible community spaces, and ways we can grow together as ex-homeschoolers.🔑 Key TakeawaysWhy the Ex-Homeschoolers Club is not canceled and what’s coming nextMy personal journey with burnout, overwhelm, and how I’m working through itThe importance of mental health practices: less caffeine, better sleep, stepping away from social mediaSneak peek at upcoming guest interviews covering sex education, college prep, and modern homeschooling perspectivesCall for listener feedback on building community (book clubs, Zoom hangouts, Reddit/Discord, etc.)⏰ Timestamps00:00 WE ARE BACK BABY00:30 Where have I been?04:28 What is happening with the show05:53 I need your feedbackThe Ex-Homeschoolers Club isn’t going anywhere—but I want your help shaping its future! Share your thoughts in the YouTube comments, on Spotify, or by emailing me at [email protected]. Don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with a friend who needs it. And if you’re new here, check out past episodes to get caught up. Let’s keep building this space for ex-homeschoolers together.

Get signed up for the newsletter here: https://exhsclub.beehiiv.com/In this solo episode of the Ex-Homeschoolers Club, I, Jacob Gooden, turn the mic on myself to share my full homeschooling journey. From starting in second grade to navigating private Christian homeschool co-ops in Southern California, I unpack the curriculum choices, the socialization opportunities, the challenges, and the lessons I carried into college and adulthood. I reflect on the strengths and weaknesses of Christian-based education, the role of extracurriculars like swing dance and theater, and how homeschooling shaped my worldview, work ethic, and career. This is a candid look at my personal story and what I’ve learned about education, growth, and identity along the way.Key Takeaways:Insights into different types of homeschooling: private, charter, and unschooling.Curriculum that worked (Math-U-See, Story of the World) and what fell short (Spanish with Rosetta Stone).The role of co-ops, church groups, and extracurriculars in building socialization skills.How Christian-based curriculum shaped my early worldview—and where it left gaps.Transitioning from homeschool to college: challenges, growth, and learning to adapt.Resources Mentioned:Math-U-See (math curriculum)Story of the World (history curriculum)Exploring Creation (science curriculum)Rod & Staff EnglishRosetta Stone (language learning)CHEA (Christian Home Educators Association)If this episode resonates with you, share it with a friend, leave a review on your favorite podcast app, and don’t forget to subscribe to the Ex-Homeschoolers Club newsletter for updates, resources, and community stories. Join the conversation with me on Instagram, Threads, and TikTok at @exhsclub.

If you haven't already, consider subscribing to the YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@Ex-HomeschoolersClubIn this episode of The Ex-Homeschoolers Club, I sit down with Julius, one of 12 siblings, to unpack what it was like growing up in a massive homeschool family led by a pastor dad. From the chaos of daily life in a household of 14 to navigating the isolating years of COVID, Julius shares candidly about academic challenges, sibling dynamics, extracurricular outlets, and ultimately, a journey of questioning faith and identity. We explore the highs and lows of homeschooling in a big family, the tension between church and education, and how discovering a love of learning outside those boundaries shaped Julius into who they are today. This conversation is raw, real, and deeply relatable for anyone who’s grown up homeschooled, in faith-heavy environments, or simply searching for identity beyond the structures they were raised in.Key Takeaways:Life inside a homeschool family of 12 kids: chaos, support systems, and sibling dynamics.Balancing academics with church commitments under a pastor parent.The impact of COVID on socialization, isolation, and extracurricular opportunities.Julius’ journey of self-discovery, questioning faith, and embracing identity.Why cultivating curiosity and a love of learning matters beyond traditional schooling.Timestamps:00:00 Introduction and Welcome01:13 Meet Julius: Growing Up in a Big Homeschool Family01:50 Homeschooling Dynamics and Daily Life06:06 Academic Challenges and Achievements14:08 Socialization and Extracurricular Activities16:53 Impact of COVID-19 on Homeschooling27:14 Deconstructing Faith and Personal Growth33:59 Realizing the Fallibility of Beliefs35:33 Exploring Other Religions36:44 Questioning Faith and God's Existence39:28 Controlling the Narrative of Personal Beliefs44:43 The Importance of Learning and New Experiences53:41 Balancing Extracurriculars and Church Commitments58:30 Advice for Homeschooling Parents01:04:19 Cherishing Sibling Bonds01:06:18 Conclusion and Final ThoughtsIf this episode resonated with you, please subscribe to The Ex-Homeschoolers Club on your favorite podcast platform, leave us a 5-star review, and share this episode with a friend who’d connect with Julius’ story. Don’t forget to follow me on YouTube, Instagram, and Threads at @EXHSClub to join the ongoing conversation.

In this episode of the Ex-Homeschoolers Club, we’re wrapping up our four-part series on Joshua Harris’s controversial book I Kissed Dating Goodbye. In this final installment, I dissect Part Four, “Now What?”, where Harris outlines his vision for marriage, intimacy, and what he calls “principled romance.” I share personal stories of feeling pressured to marry young, highlight the contradictions in Harris’s teachings on intimacy, and reflect on how purity culture created lasting shame around sex and relationships. If you’ve been following the series, this episode ties it all together and calls out the damaging legacy of purity culture.Key Takeaways:Why young Christians felt pressured to marry quickly and “redeem the time.”Harris’s inconsistent and harmful ideas on intimacy.The damaging effects of modesty culture and gender stereotypes.How parental control undermined personal agency in relationships.The lasting shame purity culture instilled around sex and marriage.Resources Mentioned:I Kissed Dating Goodbye by Joshua HarrisPrevious podcast episodes in this seriesPart 1: https://open.spotify.com/episode/5FUQajXv6SLZzwpQfkwE89?si=8b13dae4bd2f49b6 Part 2: https://open.spotify.com/episode/7eYDn78AVImTRde8Igfr9d?si=90b6d63245b74df5 Part 3: https://open.spotify.com/episode/4tlrZ8S9T2VjwNJJp8SuxO?si=e6b8022f3fb34db1 If this episode resonated with you, make sure to subscribe to the Ex-Homeschoolers Club on your favorite podcast app, leave a review to share your thoughts, and join the discussion in our community at r/ExHomeschoolersClub. Let’s continue unpacking the impact of purity culture together.

This week on the podcast, we’re throwing a birthday party! It's the one-year anniversary of the Ex-Homeschoolers Club, and to celebrate, I brought back my very first guest and longtime friend Cari Frantz for a fun and nostalgic conversation. We dive deep into the media, books, movies, and music we weren’t allowed to consume growing up as Christian homeschoolers—and the surprising ways we found our way to them as adults. From Harry Potter to Pitbull concerts, purity culture to Plugged-in reviews, we talk about the weird rules we lived by, what we now enjoy guilt-free, and how we're making peace with our past. Whether you're a fellow ex-homeschooler or just curious about the quirks of conservative upbringings, this episode will have you laughing, nodding along, and maybe even dusting off your old Adventures in Odyssey tapes.Key Takeaways:The irony of being banned from Harry Potter but encouraged to read NarniaPluggedIn, Christian DVD players, and other evangelical tools for "safe" mediaWatching or reading forbidden content as adults and learning to trust our own boundariesHow music like Pure NRG, Backstreet Boys, and even Pitbull shaped our teenage rebellionRespecting our parents' intentions while forging our own relationships with pop cultureResources Mentioned:PluggedIn.comAdventures in Odyssey by Focus on the FamilyThe Chronicles of Narnia by C.S. LewisHarry Potter series by J.K. RowlingThe Space Trilogy by C.S. LewisCrossroads Guitar FestivalPure NRG, Jump5, Charlie Puth (early covers), Christina GrimmieDid you grow up homeschooled with strict media rules? What were you not allowed to read, watch, or listen to? Drop a comment with your story. And if you’ve been with the podcast from the beginning, help us celebrate one year by sharing your favorite episode! Don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and follow the Ex-Homeschoolers Club for more stories every week. And share it with a friend who might benefit from hearing this story.Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/exhsclub/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@exhsclubEmail me at [email protected]

This week I'm diving into Part 3 of I Kissed Dating Goodbye by Joshua Harris—a section packed with so-called "practical tools" for keeping Christian teens pure. Spoiler: it's just more purity culture with a fresh coat of patriarchal paint.In this episode, I unpack chapters 8 through 11, covering Harris’s infamous four-step plan for building godly relationships. We look at what it means to “start with a clean slate,” why he thinks you need your parents’ permission to date, and the mental gymnastics required to avoid every ounce of human attraction. I also share personal stories about awkward birthday ceremonies, homeschool dating dynamics, and how being taught to distrust your own body messes you up well into adulthood.This one’s heavy but important—especially if you're trying to untangle the emotional damage of purity culture.In This Episode, I Cover:The “Four Steps” to godly dating and why they don’t hold upHow purity culture reinforces shame, secrecy, and lack of bodily autonomyMy own cringe memories of gendered homeschool rituals and toxic birthday partiesHow mentorship, boundaries, and even lust are twisted in this frameworkRedefining intimacy, friendship, and trust outside of evangelical fear-mongeringWant More Like This?Subscribe to Ex-Homeschoolers Club wherever you get your podcasts, leave a rating or review (it helps a ton!), and join the newsletter (https://exhsclub.beehiiv.com/subscribe)  for show updates, behind-the-scenes notes, and community discussion.If this episode brought back memories or stirred something in you, I’d love to hear your story. Share your thoughts with me on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/exhsclub/)  or drop me an email at [email protected]

Subscribe to my email newsletter: https://exhsclub.beehiiv.com/subscribe This week on the Ex-Homeschoolers Club, I had an absolutely joyful conversation with artist, teacher, and former homeschooler Noah Fontana. From the moment we hit record, it felt like two longtime friends reconnecting. We dove deep into Noah's unique homeschool upbringing, how his love of comic books and creativity shaped his early education, and how homeschooling helped him lean into his artistic talents. We also explored Noah's journey from animation work at DreamWorks to discovering his true passion in art therapy and teaching. If you've ever wrestled with the intersection of creativity, identity, and education, this episode is for you.Key Takeaways:How Noah's homeschool environment nurtured his passion for art and comicsThe connection between storytelling, animation, and emotional expressionThe challenges of people-pleasing, code-switching, and growing up in a controlled homeschool bubbleHow art therapy changed Noah's career trajectory and how he connects with students through creative expressionThe value of reframing "bad" traits like people-pleasing into useful tools when used mindfullyConnect with NoahInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/teacher.noah/Grab a copy of his book Mixed-Up Metaphors: https://a.co/d/gHFVTq6Resources Mentioned:Jeneve Dube's podcast "Homeschooled": https://solo.to/homeschooled"Creativity, Inc." by Ed Catmull: https://a.co/d/h4CuAiQ"Blink" by Malcolm Gladwell: https://a.co/d/cfhPqpy Timestamps:00:00 Introduction and Podcast Overview01:16 Meet Noah: New Guest Introduction02:38 Noah's Homeschooling Journey06:33 Artistic Passions and Early Influences12:49 Public Speaking and Personal Growth27:48 From High School to Career Beginnings28:06 Reflecting on SATs and Standardized Tests29:58 SAT and ACT Experiences31:22 College Application Process34:00 Choosing Between BA and BFA36:12 College Life and Education System Critique39:29 Exploring Art and Creativity50:05 Art Therapy and Career Shift01:00:48 Teaching and Art Therapy in Practice01:03:18 Debating Art Therapy Practice01:03:46 Impact of Teachers on Kids01:04:44 Incorporating Art Therapy in Classrooms01:05:05 Engaging Kids Through Art01:08:37 Homeschooling Insights and Advice01:11:59 Challenges and Rewards of Teaching01:17:46 Parents Learning to Teach01:24:42 Nostalgic Homeschool Memories01:32:08 Final Thoughts and PromotionsEnjoying the show? Make sure you're subscribed so you never miss an episode. If you found Noah's story inspiring, leave us a review and share this episode with a friend who loves creativity or is on their own journey of self-discovery post-homeschooling. And don’t forget to sign up for my newsletter for updates, resources, and behind-the-scenes extras from the podcast!

This week on The Ex-Homeschoolers Club, I'm diving into Part 2 of I Kissed Dating Goodbye by Joshua Harris, tackling the chapters that aim to define "true Christian love" and promote the gift of singleness. As a former homeschooler who grew up immersed in purity culture, I bring my personal experience and critical reflection to the table. We unpack the book's problematic teachings around sex, self-love, gender roles, and its impact on developing healthy relationships. I also reflect on the emotional weight of shame, the myth of male self-control, and the limitations of evangelical definitions of love and purity. This episode is raw, personal, and full of the hard questions we need to ask about how books like this shaped a generation.Key Topics Covered:The toxic binary of Christian vs. worldly loveHow purity culture shames normal human emotions and desiresThe myth of male sexual helplessness and how it harms everyoneThe concept of singleness as a spiritual calling vs. realityThe failure of evangelical literature to cite evidence or acknowledge harmResources Mentioned:I Kissed Dating Goodbye by Joshua HarrisWhen Religion Hurts You by Laura E. AndersonThe Westminster CatechismThe story of King David and Bathsheba (2 Samuel 11-12)Timestamps00:00 Introduction to 'I Kissed Dating Goodbye'00:19 Recap of Part One01:29 Exploring Christian Love vs. Worldly Love02:10 Chapter Four: Looking Up "Love" in God's Dictionary04:42 Aphrodite or Christ: Defining Love10:04 Chapter Five: The Right Thing at the Wrong Time Is the Wrong Thing20:21 The Gift of Singleness26:14 Chapter Six: The Direction of Purity28:46 Purity as a Direction, Not a Fixed Point32:55 The Story of King David and Bathsheba33:58 Questioning Christian Justifications35:30 Proverbs and the Seductive Spirit36:30 Purity in Action38:58 Critique of Christian Literature40:40 Billy Graham and Evangelist Integrity41:58 Purity Culture and Male Accountability47:04 Gender Roles and Responsibilities52:34 Chapter Seven: A Cleansed Past: The Room01:00:17 Reflections and Future DirectionsIf this episode resonates with you, I want to hear your story. What was your experience with purity culture? Did you read I Kissed Dating Goodbye or grow up around its teachings? Send me a DM on Instagram or Threads or email [email protected]. And don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with a friend who might need to hear it.

This week in the clubhouse, we're chatting with Marsh, the youngest guest to date and a recent escapee from the world of homeschooling. We dive into their story of growing up homeschooled in rural Oklahoma, using the ACE (Accelerated Christian Education) curriculum, and being raised by their grandmother in a deeply religious environment. Marsh opens up about the challenges of being a queer, creative kid in a conservative Christian bubble, and how homeschooling shaped (and sometimes hindered) their education, self-worth, and social development. It’s a raw and reflective conversation about isolation, religion, and finding your identity outside of the system.💡 Key Topics & Takeaways:What it’s like being homeschooled by your grandma using the ACE curriculumHow ADHD and rural isolation shaped Marsh’s academic and social experienceThe religious trauma and fundamentalist ideology baked into Christian homeschooling materialsThe importance of creative outlets like art in surviving mental and emotional hardshipReclaiming your identity as a queer person after leaving a controlling environment📚 Resources & Mentions:ACE Curriculum (Accelerated Christian Education)⁠When Religion Hurts You by Laura E. AndersonAwana (evangelical youth program)Indistractable by Nir Eyal (book on managing focus and technology)🔗 Connect with MarshTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@marshintobattleInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/marshin.to.battle/⏱️ Timestamps00:00 Introduction and Guest Announcement01:16 Meet Marsh: A New Ex-Homie02:09 Marsh's Homeschooling Journey04:03 The ACE Curriculum Explained07:15 Challenges and Dynamics of Homeschooling41:10 Creativity and Art in Marsh's Life43:22 Rediscovering Creativity Post-Internet43:59 The Ebb and Flow of Creative Waves44:54 Finding Comfort in Creativity46:21 The Therapeutic Power of Art47:37 Lego and Problem-Solving Creativity49:09 Dealing with Creative Blocks52:19 The Impact of Stress on Creativity55:12 Religious Upbringing and Homeschooling56:22 Questioning Religious Teachings01:09:33 Homeschooling Challenges and Advice01:14:55 Reflecting on Homeschooling Experiences01:17:21 The Importance of Tailoring Education01:20:47 Final Thoughts and FarewellIf you enjoyed this episode, please take a moment to rate and review the show on your favorite podcast app. It helps other ex-homeschoolers find the pod! Subscribe on ⁠YouTube⁠ to watch full video episodes.

I read "I Kissed Dating Goodbye" by Joshua Harris—so you don’t have to. This is Part 1 of a multi-episode series where I unpack the book’s harmful messages, its connection to purity culture, and its deep roots in the Christian homeschooling world. From courtship myths to repressed sexuality and emotional confusion, I explore how this 1997 “dating manual” shaped a generation—and how Harris himself eventually walked it all back.I also share personal experiences growing up in a conservative Christian homeschool setting, including my early encounters with the Harris family’s broader influence. Whether you're deconstructing your upbringing or just want to understand how purity culture warped an entire generation’s view of relationships, this episode is for you.Key Topics Covered:- The origin and impact of I Kissed Dating Goodbye- Why purity culture thrived in the homeschool movement- My own history with the Harris family’s teachings- Courtship vs. dating: myths, harms, and personal pushback- Emotional, sexual, and developmental confusion caused by purity messagingResources & Mentions:- I Kissed Dating Goodbye by Joshua Harris (now retracted)- Do Hard Things by Alex & Brett Harris- Sex Isn’t the Problem (Lust Is) by Joshua Harris- HSLDA (Homeschool Legal Defense Association)Timestamps00:00 Introduction to the Ex Homeschoolers Club01:09 Overview of 'I Kissed Dating Goodbye'02:39 The Harris Family and Homeschooling03:30 Personal Experiences with the Harris Family05:17 Initial Thoughts on 'I Kissed Dating Goodbye'06:34 Courtship vs. Dating07:35 Navigating Teenage Years and Sexuality12:38 Chapter One: Smart Love22:14 Chapter Two: 7 Habits of Highly Defective Dating28:20 Introduction to Defective Dating Habits29:12 Intimacy Without Commitment32:14 Physical Relationship vs. True Love34:44 Dating as a Distraction36:46 Artificial Environment in Dating41:25 Chapter Three: A New Attitude Towards Dating42:20 The Gift of Singleness47:22 Purity and Boundaries in Relationships51:48 Final Thoughts and Personal ReflectionsIf you enjoyed this conversation, be sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a friend who might benefit from hearing this story. Follow Ex-Homeschoolers Club on Instagram and TikTok for updates, and send us a message – we’d love to hear from you!Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/exhsclub/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@exhsclubEmail me at [email protected]

This week, I sit down with Charlie Monroe, a licensed therapist and former youth pastor, to explore the complexities of growing up homeschooled in a large, religious family. Charlie shares his K-12 rural homeschool experience, the emotional toll of isolation, and the transition into college and career. We discuss the impact of evangelicalism, rigorous religious curricula, and emotional enmeshment in homeschool families. As a therapist, Charlie now works with modern homeschool families, offering insight into both the successes and systemic challenges they face. This is a powerful conversation about deconstruction, emotional maturity, and how we can better support future generations of homeschoolers.Key Topics & Takeaways:Life in a rural homeschool family of nine with a rigorous religious focusThe emotional and social cost of isolation during middle and high school yearsTransitioning from homeschool to a Christian university and later to youth ministryLeaving evangelicalism and navigating spiritual deconstructionHow emotional enmeshment affects homeschool familiesWhat Charlie sees today as a family therapist working with homeschooling clientsA call for humility and emotional health in educational choicesConnect with Charlie:Charlie’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/charles_irving/ Timestamps00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction00:52 Charlie's Homeschooling Background01:40 Daily Life on the Farm03:39 Social Dynamics and Isolation10:27 Religious Influence in Homeschooling13:47 Transition to College21:20 Questioning Faith and Career in Ministry26:56 Reflecting on Youth Ministry and Transition to Therapy27:56 Dealing with Anger and Writing as a Coping Mechanism31:39 Experiences in Family Therapy and Homeschooling34:42 Challenges and Dynamics in Homeschooling40:13 Emotional Health and Homeschooling49:42 Final Thoughts and Advice for Homeschooling Parents55:25 Conclusion and Contact InformationIf you enjoyed this conversation, make sure to subscribe to Ex-Homeschoolers Club on your favorite podcast app, leave a review, and share this episode with a friend who grew up homeschooled. Follow us on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/exhsclub/ and TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@exhsclub, or email us at [email protected]. We want to hear your story too!

This conversation dives into the highs, lows, and hard truths of RB's journey through homeschooling, patriarchal systems, and his path to healing. We discuss his early education in Pennsylvania, the move to Kansas, and the gendered disparities in educational investment he witnessed as the oldest of five siblings. RB opens up about the unintended privileges he received, his culture shock entering college and the workforce, and how he later found healing through therapy, community, and authentic adult friendships. Topics like male friendship, trauma recovery, and starting a coworking space in Texas also make this an episode full of raw honesty and powerful insights.Key Takeaways:Homeschooling looked vastly different in Pennsylvania vs. Kansas, with the latter having virtually no oversight.Patriarchal religious beliefs led to unequal educational opportunities for RB and his sisters.Post-homeschool life brought intense culture shock, but also personal and professional growth.RB found healing through therapy, adult friendship, and creating Bastrop Coworking in Texas.Real success is about embracing curiosity, connection, and lifelong learning, not replicating rigid ideals.Timestamps:00:00 Introduction and Podcast Overview01:18 Guest Introduction: RB's Homeschool Experience02:31 Early Homeschooling in Pennsylvania08:27 Transition to Homeschooling in Kansas16:26 Challenges and Gender Disparities in Homeschooling30:37 Post-Homeschool Life and Culture Shock37:23 Reflecting on Religious Upbringing38:51 College Life and Career Goals43:50 Homeschooling and Socialization46:02 Friendships and Community Building51:17 Challenges and Growth in Adulthood54:18 The Importance of Social Connections01:07:17 Homeschooling Reflections and Advice01:09:31 Final Thoughts and Contact InformationConnect with RBBastrop Coworking: https://www.instagram.com/bastropcowork/RB on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/flyerbrown/If you resonated with this episode, share it with a friend, leave a review, and subscribe to The Ex-Homeschoolers Club. YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Ex-HomeschoolersClub Newsletter: https://exhsclub.beehiiv.com/subscribe Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/exhsclub/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@exhsclubEmail me at [email protected]

Join the Newsletter for the latest Ex-Homeschooler News: https://exhsclub.beehiiv.com/subscribeIf you’re an ex-homeschooler with a story to tell—this episode is your invitation to share it. Today I’m breaking down everything you need to know about becoming a guest on the show. Whether your homeschooling experience was amazing, traumatic, or somewhere in between, your voice matters here. In this episode, I walk you through the kind of stories I’m looking for, the interview process (spoiler: it’s super chill), and even give you a sneak peek at the types of questions I ask. If you’ve ever thought, “Could I be on a podcast?”—this episode invites you to find out. Let's get to know each other. Shoot me an email at [email protected].💡 Key Topics Covered:- Why your homeschool story is definitely worth sharing- The types of guests and topics I’m looking for (neurodivergence, purity culture, curriculum wins/fails, LGBTQ+ experiences, and more)- What the interview process looks like from start to finish- Sample questions I’ll likely ask in your episode- How this show helps shape the next generation of homeschoolers📌 Takeaways:- Your story matters. Even if it feels ordinary to you, it could mean the world to someone else.- Everyone’s homeschool experience is different. I want to highlight the full spectrum—from big families to agnostic households.- You don’t need to be a pro. The process is designed to be low-pressure, flexible, and collaborative.- This podcast is more than therapy. It’s a way to connect, validate, and impact future homeschoolers and parents.- We edit the episodes. So don’t worry about messing up—we got you.⏰ Timestamps:00:00 Introduction and Welcome00:49 Why You Should Be a Guest01:47 Topics of Interest08:11 Interview Process Overview13:07 Sample Questions16:16 Upcoming Episodes and Closing Remarks✅ Call to Action:Think you’ve got a story worth telling? You do. Email me at [email protected] and let’s make it happen. Also, don’t forget to subscribe to the show, leave a review on your favorite podcast platform, and join the newsletter to stay in the loop.Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/exhsclub/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@exhsclub

Join the Newsletter for the latest Ex-Homeschooler News: https://exhsclub.beehiiv.com/subscribeIn this powerful follow-up episode of The Ex-Homeschoolers Club, Alyssa Gaona is back for a raw, insightful conversation about her personal experiences with autism and neurodivergence. While her first appearance focused on the wild realities of growing up homeschooled, this episode takes a deeper dive into how her undiagnosed autism shaped her social development, relationships, and self-worth. Alyssa opens up about the challenges of masking, navigating dating and friendships as a neurodivergent adult, and how the homeschooling environment lacked the resources and awareness she needed. We also explore broader societal perceptions of autism, the impact of labeling, and how entrepreneurs and creatives often operate with neurodivergent brilliance. This is a must-listen for anyone who wants a better understanding of what life on the spectrum truly feels like.Key Takeaways:What autism is, how it develops neurologically, and common misconceptionsAlyssa's self-diagnosis journey through studying child development and taking the RAADS testThe reality of masking and its emotional tollWhy clear, direct communication is essential for neurodivergent individualsThe failure of many homeschool environments to recognize and support neurodiverse learnersResources Mentioned:RAADS-R test (for self-assessing traits of autism): https://embrace-autism.com/raads-r/Love on the Spectrum (Netflix series)Kaelynn Partlow's YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Kaelynnism Alyssa's Substack: https://alyssagaona.substack.com If you enjoyed this conversation, be sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a friend who might benefit from hearing this story. Follow Ex-Homeschoolers Club on Instagram and TikTok for updates, and send us a message – we’d love to hear from you!Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/exhsclub/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@exhsclubEmail me at [email protected]

On today's show I'm joined by Mia Brooks, a longtime family friend. We dive into Mia's unique homeschool upbringing as the youngest of several siblings, her early leap into community college at age 14, and her reflective journey as a neurodivergent adult. From a less structured homeschool experience to discovering her ADHD as an adult, Mia shares candidly about burnout, creativity, and finding her voice through music. If you're a former homeschooler navigating adulthood, neurodivergency, or the creative grind, this one's for you. We discuss everything from educational gaps to emotional growth, and how embracing one's uniqueness can unlock surprising paths. Key Takeaways:Mia's flexible homeschool education fostered independence but masked underlying struggles.Community college at 14 gave Mia early access to higher learning but came with social culture shock.Getting diagnosed with ADHD as an adult reframed many of Mia's childhood behaviors and coping methods.Burnout and shame were lingering effects from trying to "overachieve" in a neurotypical world.Today, Mia channels her experience into music, releasing indie work under the name "Babi Manatee."Check out Mia's Music Here:Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/0ObF6Vylh7jUtpMeRx7GXr?si=5OS23T24SkS8SYdG5WygPgInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/babimanatee/Timestamps00:00 Welcome to the Ex Homeschoolers Club01:13 A Day in the Life of Mia Brooks02:58 Homeschooling vs. Public Schooling05:21 Early College Experience16:05 Graduating Early and Future Plans22:58 Discovering Neurodivergence30:04 Childhood Memories and Dramatic Moments30:57 Understanding Emotions and Therapy32:30 Stigma and Neurodivergency35:13 Coping Mechanisms and Self-Discovery36:50 Homeschooling Experiences and Reflections50:16 Music Career and Creative Journey55:28 Final Thoughts and FarewellIf this episode resonated with you, hit that subscribe button, leave a review, and share this episode with a friend who grew up outside the box. Want more behind-the-scenes content? Sign up for my free newsletter—link in the show notes below. And don’t forget to stream Mia's album and follow her musical journey as Babi Manatee!#ExHomeschoolersClub #ADHD #Neurodivergent #HomeschoolLife #CreativeJourney #IndieMusic #BurnoutRecovery #BabiManatee #PodcastInterview

Stream Jeremy's New Album Here: https://www.blondemedicine.com/bm142-almost-a-grown-man In this episode of, I sit down with comedian Jeremy Alder to unpack his wild and winding journey from fundamentalist Christian homeschooling in rural Texas to releasing his debut stand-up comedy album, Almost a Grown Man. Jeremy shares what it was like to be one of the only homeschoolers in South Texas during the 1980s, his early curriculum of Bible studies and Highlights magazines, and how his world expanded through music, friendship, and eventually a dive into philosophy. We discuss his later-life entry into stand-up comedy, how preaching prepared him for the stage, and the ups and downs of crafting a career in comedy. This episode is filled with laughs, insights, and nostalgia for anyone who has ever felt like an outsider trying to make sense of their past. Key Takeaways:Jeremy was homeschooled starting in the mid-80s with no local community or support network.His early education relied on Highlights magazines and Bible memorization.A shift occurred in the '90s when homeschooling became more accepted and structured.Jeremy's path included Christian rock dreams, a dip into philosophy, and eventually stand-up comedy.He uses humor to process and reflect on his strict religious upbringing.Timestamps:00:00 Welcome to the Ex Homeschoolers Clubhouse00:09 Introducing Jeremy Alder: From Rural Texas to Stand-Up Comedy03:05 Jeremy's Homeschool Journey: Early Years and Challenges12:48 The Evolution of Homeschooling: Community and Acceptance24:44 High School and Beyond: Navigating Adulthood36:42 Exploring Faith and Philosophy: A New Path38:23 Connecting with the Intelligent Design Community39:42 Transition to University Life40:14 Challenges and Triumphs of Homeschooling40:44 Applying to College as a Homeschooler44:35 Embracing the Homeschool Identity47:30 Journey into Comedy54:19 The Art and Struggle of Stand-Up Comedy01:08:21 Reflections on Homeschooling and Public Education01:16:02 Conclusion and Final ThoughtsConnect with Jeremy AlderVist his website for the most up to date information: https://www.jeremyalder.comSee his previous special: https://youtu.be/i9OmDo5Weoc?si=nBFGW9emmrnVr5hMIf you enjoyed this conversation, be sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a friend who might benefit from hearing this story. Follow Ex-Homeschoolers Club on Instagram and TikTok for updates, and send us a message – we’d love to hear from you!Join the Newsletter: https://exhsclub.beehiiv.com/subscribeInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/exhsclub/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@exhsclubEmail me at [email protected]

Join the Newsletter for the latest Ex-Homeschooler News: https://exhsclub.beehiiv.com/subscribeIn this episode of The Ex-Homeschoolers Club, I'm reflecting on a decade of being homeschooled and dive into three specific areas I would approach differently if I had the chance to go back. While I appreciate much of what my parents did, this episode explores critical reflections on my understanding of government, religious curriculum, and emotional boundaries. I also unpack how these elements have impacted my adult life and what I think future homeschoolers can do better. Whether you're a current homeschooler, a curious ex-homeschooler, or just someone interested in education reform, this one's for you.Key Takeaways:Government Education Matters: I discuss the missed opportunity to deeply understand local and state politics beyond textbooks—through field trips, town hall meetings, and active involvement.Challenging Religious Narratives: Why I'd encourage exposure to a broader spectrum of belief systems rather than faith-based exclusivity in every subject.Emotional Boundaries in Education: The crucial need for learning to set boundaries, communicate discomfort, and recognize the importance of emotional well-being from a young age.The Power of Perspective: Looking back on my homeschool journey offers powerful lessons for educators, parents, and students alike.Self-Reflection as Growth: Honest retrospection is key to personal development and helps create better systems for the next generation.Timestamps00:00 Welcome Back to the Ex-Homeschoolers Club00:35 Reflecting on 10 Years of Homeschooling01:00 Understanding Government and Politics03:11 Challenging Religious Curriculum12:21 The Importance of Emotional Boundaries16:38 Conclusion and Final ThoughtsIf you enjoyed this conversation, be sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a friend who might benefit from hearing this story. Follow Ex-Homeschoolers Club on Instagram and TikTok for updates, and send us a message – we’d love to hear from you!Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/exhsclub/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@exhsclubEmail me at [email protected]#Homeschooling #ExHomeschoolers #EducationReform

Join the Newsletter for the latest Ex-Homeschooler News: https://exhsclub.beehiiv.com/subscribeI can't believe it's been over 7 years... on today's podcast I reconnect with my longtime friend Katrin McGoogan (formerly Frantz). We dive deep into our shared homeschooling past, her experience navigating adulthood and motherhood, and her recent ADHD diagnosis. Katrin opens up about what it was like growing up in a highly creative homeschool family, her time in ministry, and how that shaped her view on faith, parenting, and education. We talk about the challenges of re-evaluating childhood beliefs, raising independent kids, and the real-life mental load that comes with being a mom. Whether you were homeschooled, are a parent considering education options, or someone who just loves a good reflective convo—this one’s for you.Key Takeaways:What it’s like reconnecting after years apart—and how much life changesThe ups and downs of growing up homeschooled in a creative, flexible environmentNavigating an ADHD diagnosis as an adult and learning to work with your brain, not against itHow motherhood shapes your view of your own upbringing and education choicesLetting go of fear-based beliefs, questioning narratives, and giving your kids room to growTimestamps00:00 Reunion After Seven Years01:07 Homeschooling Memories02:55 Creative Homeschooling Experiences11:45 Navigating ADHD22:18 Post-High School Adventures28:09 Navigating Beliefs and Independence29:01 Leaving Home and Facing the Real World30:26 Parenting and Personal Growth31:39 Questioning and Evolving Beliefs37:14 Educational Choices for Children47:42 Homeschool Memories and Extracurricular Activities53:02 Conclusion and Final ThoughtsResources & Mentions:Pomodoro Timer technique: https://pomofocus.io/KONOS and Group Solutions (homeschool co-ops)Mrs. Yip (legendary writing teacher in our community!)Tools for ADHD (timers, breaks, multi-sensory learning strategies)Loved this episode? Subscribe to The Ex-Homeschoolers Club wherever you listen to podcasts! Leave us a review, share this episode with a friend, and don’t forget to sign up for my newsletter for updates, resources, and behind-the-scenes goodness.

Join the Newsletter for the latest Ex-Homeschooler News: https://exhsclub.beehiiv.com/subscribeIn this solo episode I'm taking a deep dive into the definition of an "ex-homeschooler." Is it someone who has left homeschooling behind with negative feelings, or simply anyone who has experienced it? I'm sharing my personal journey—hiding my homeschool background in college, rediscovering its impact on my identity, and launching this podcast to connect with fellow ex-homeschoolers. I reflect on the strengths and weaknesses of homeschooling and how it has shaped his life today. Whether you were homeschooled for a short time or your entire education, this episode is for anyone who has ever wondered what it truly means to be an ex-homeschooler.Resources Mentioned:The Ex-Homeschoolers Club social media pages (@exhsclub on Instagram, Threads, and TikTok).Email: [email protected] for sharing stories or reaching out.Jacob’s newsletter (subscribe via the first link in the show notes).If you enjoyed this episode, make sure to subscribe to The Ex-Homeschoolers Club podcast, leave a review, and follow on social media! Have a homeschool story to share? Reach out via email or social platforms—we’d love to feature you on a future episode. And don’t forget to sign up for the newsletter for exclusive updates, recommendations, and behind-the-scenes content.

Today I'm sitting down with Korbs to explore his unconventional path from homeschooling to navigating life beyond structured education. We discuss the quirks of homeschool culture, how it shaped his worldview, and the challenges of transitioning into traditional social and professional settings. Korbs shares his experiences adapting to new environments, the lessons he’s learned, and his perspectives on what homeschooling did (and didn’t) prepare him for. Whether you were homeschooled or just enjoy hearing unique life experiences, this episode is packed with relatable stories and insights into personal growth and resilience.Key Takeaways:How homeschooling influenced Korbs’ perspective and approach to life. The challenges of adapting to social norms after homeschooling. The impact of self-directed learning on real-world success. Insights into overcoming obstacles and embracing change. Funny and bizarre homeschool stories that shaped Korbs’ outlook. Timestamps:00:00 Introduction and Welcome01:02 Korbs' Homeschooling Journey02:15 Religious Upbringing and Isolation03:08 Transition to DVDs and Gaming10:14 Challenges of Post-Homeschool Life14:17 Questioning Faith and Finding New Paths21:46 Realizing the Love for Learning22:37 The Impact of Self-Help23:48 Navigating Education Independently24:52 College and Social Skills26:42 Reflecting on Homeschooling30:31 Embracing Differences and Unique Stories32:55 Finding Balance After Restrictive Upbringing36:24 Letting Go of Past Resentments41:27 The Power of Community42:10 Final Thoughts and OutroResources Mentioned: Korbs’ social media and personal projects. Recommended books on personal development and adapting to new environments. Support communities and resources for homeschool alumni. If this episode resonated with you, let’s keep the conversation going!📩 Sign up for my newsletter for podcast updates & book recommendations – https://exhsclub.beehiiv.com/subscribe📌 Follow Ex-Homeschoolers Club on social media (@EXHSClub everywhere)⭐ Leave a 5-star review on your podcast platform – it helps others find the show!📧 Share your thoughts or your own story at ⁠⁠⁠[email protected]#Homeschooling #LifeAfterHomeschooling #ExHomeschoolers #PersonalGrowth #NavigatingChange #Podcast

In this episode of The Ex-Homeschoolers Club, I sit down with Jenève, host of Homeschooled, a podcast exploring alumni experiences. We discuss our eerily similar homeschooling journeys, from big families and unconventional education styles to the chaos of homeschool theater and religious mime performances. Jenève shares her transition from stage management to business, the realities of navigating life post-homeschooling, and the importance of re-evaluating personal beliefs as an adult. If you're curious about how homeschooling shapes identity—or just want to laugh about our past drama group experiences—this one’s for you!🎧 Key Takeaways:How homeschooling varies based on parental teaching styles and family dynamicsThe role of arts in homeschool education, including theater, choir, and (yes) religious mimeThe challenges of transitioning from homeschooling to college and career lifeNavigating personal identity and belief shifts after growing up in a religious homeschool environmentAdvice for parents considering homeschooling—what to think about beyond the idealized version⏰ Timestamps00:00 Welcome to the Ex Homeschoolers Club00:14 Introducing Geneve and Her Homeschool Experience01:24 Homeschooling Dynamics and Family Life04:05 Extracurricular Activities and Homeschool Community08:12 Theater and Drama in Homeschooling13:34 College Journey and Career Path17:04 Reflections on College and Career Choices21:15 Overcoming Challenges and Building Resilience33:06 Starting a Podcast on Homeschooling34:52 Idealistic Views on Homeschooling35:20 Challenges Faced by Homeschool Moms37:02 Balancing Roles: Mom vs. Teacher38:35 Emotional Impact on Children47:12 Community and Support Systems52:39 Advice for Prospective Homeschooling Parents56:14 Reflecting on Personal Homeschool Experiences57:47 Navigating Religious Reasons for Homeschooling01:05:33 Final Thoughts and Encouragement📚 Resources Mentioned:Homeschooled Podcast by Jenève (find it on Spotify, Apple, and YouTube!): https://solo.to/homeschooled"Lifehouse Everything" SkitVarious homeschool groups like NJHSA, co-ops, and theater programsIf this episode resonated with you, let’s keep the conversation going!📩 Sign up for my newsletter for podcast updates & book recommendations – https://exhsclub.beehiiv.com/subscribe📌 Follow Ex-Homeschoolers Club on social media (@EXHSClub everywhere)⭐ Leave a 5-star review on your podcast platform – it helps others find the show!📧 Share your thoughts or your own story at ⁠⁠[email protected]#Homeschooling #ExHomeschoolers #HomeschoolAlumni #ParentingChoices #Education #IdentityShift #LifeAfterHomeschool

In this episode I’m sitting down with Dr. Chez Leeby and Stephanie Boye, hosts of 7 on Sundays, a podcast focused on sex, relationships, and mental health for young adults. We dive into the challenges of relationships, loneliness, and navigating connection in today's world. From the impact of homeschooling, social media, pornography, and dopamine addiction, to actionable steps for fostering real, meaningful connections—we cover it all. If you’ve ever struggled with loneliness, relationship skills, or finding your community, this episode is for you.Key Takeaways:The social impact of homeschooling: How growing up homeschooled affects friendships and relationships.Pornography and its influence on relationships: How it shapes unrealistic expectations and the way young people approach intimacy.Dopamine addiction & digital distraction: How social media and instant gratification impact our ability to build deep relationships.Practical steps to combat loneliness: How to actively seek community and build fulfilling relationships in adulthood.Men’s mental health and connection: The rise of men’s groups and the importance of emotional support for young men.Timestamps00:00 Welcome to the Ex Homeschoolers Club00:17 Introducing Special Guests: Dr. Chez Leeby and Stephanie Boye02:08 Homeschooling Experiences and Challenges05:33 The Importance of Social Interaction in Homeschooling09:04 7 on Sundays: The Podcast for Young Adults18:06 Discussing Pornography and Its Impact20:15 The Power of Group Therapy and Human Connection31:53 Building Healthy Relationships34:37 Staying Connected and Finding Community37:29 The Importance of Genuine Connection38:02 Combating Loneliness in Modern Society39:02 Building and Maintaining Friendships39:53 Finding Community Outside Traditional Spaces42:25 The Role of Men's Groups in Mental Health45:41 Navigating Relationships and Communication46:34 Books and Resources for Personal Growth51:53 The Impact of Social Media on Happiness57:15 Creating a Balanced and Fulfilling Life01:01:16 Final Thoughts and Contact InformationResources Mentioned:7 on Sundays Podcast (Listen here: 7onsundays.com)Indistractable by Nir Eyal (Book on overcoming digital distractions)Build the Life You Want by Oprah Winfrey & Arthur C. Brooks (Book on happiness and fulfillment)The Happiness Project by Gretchen Rubin (Book on intentional happiness strategies)Libby App (Free library audiobooks & e-books)If this episode resonated with you, let’s keep the conversation going!📩 Sign up for my newsletter for podcast updates & book recommendations – https://exhsclub.beehiiv.com/subscribe📌 Follow Ex-Homeschoolers Club on social media (@EXHSClub everywhere)⭐ Leave a 5-star review on your podcast platform – it helps others find the show!📧 Share your thoughts or your own story at ⁠[email protected]

In this solo episode of I'm diving into the book When Religion Hurts You by Laura E. Anderson. This book explores the psychological effects of high-control religious environments and offers insights into healing from religious trauma. Inspired by my own deconstruction journey, I unpack key concepts from the book, including the nervous system’s response to fear, different types of grief, and the challenge of rebuilding self-trust. I also share personal stories of how religious trauma shaped my experiences growing up and how I'm learning to set healthier boundaries. Whether you’re currently deconstructing or just curious about the mental health impact of religion, this episode is packed with insights.Key Takeaways Understanding Trauma Responses – The fight, flight, freeze, and fawn responses, and how high-control religions keep people in a state of constant fear. Grieving Life After Religion – The different types of grief that come with leaving faith, including lost community, altered worldviews, and shifts in self-identity. Rebuilding Self-Trust & Compassion – How religious environments discourage self-trust and how we can reframe our internal dialogue. Setting Healthy Boundaries – Moving from rigid, externally imposed boundaries to self-defined, evolving ones. The Good in Religion – Recognizing that not everything about faith was harmful, and processing the loss of positive aspects like community and structure.Timestamps00:00 Introduction and Solo Episode Announcement00:26 Book Introduction: When Religion Hurts You00:41 Newsletter Launch Announcement01:29 Impactful Insights from the Book03:14 Understanding the Nervous System04:51 Personal Experiences with Religious Trauma09:06 Grieving the Life You Once Had18:22 Different Types of Grief19:35 Grieving Childhood and Adolescence24:37 Grieving Our View of Others and the World26:06 Recognizing the Pull Away from God27:05 Grieving the Good in Religion30:00 Trust and Vulnerability Post-Religion32:23 Building Self-Trust and Compassion42:55 Redefining Boundaries45:54 Final Thoughts and EncouragementResources Mentioned When Religion Hurts You by Laura E. Anderson Brene Brown’s The Anatomy of Trust (Super Soul Sessions)If this episode resonated with you, let’s keep the conversation going!📩 Sign up for my newsletter for podcast updates & book recommendations – https://exhsclub.beehiiv.com/subscribe📌 Follow Ex-Homeschoolers Club on social media (@EXHSClub everywhere)⭐ Leave a 5-star review on your podcast platform – it helps others find the show!📧 Share your thoughts or your own story at [email protected]

Real stories. Real conversations. If you want the latest episodes of the Ex-Homeschoolers Club podcast, plus bonus insights and community highlights, sign up for the newsletter.https://exhsclub.beehiiv.com/subscribeIn this episode of The Ex-Homeschoolers Club, I sit down with my longtime friend, Aaron MacDonald, to talk about his homeschool experience, the unique quirks of growing up in a religious homeschooling community, and how it shaped his perspective on life, art, and relationships. We dive deep into topics like group learning, purity culture, and navigating personal growth beyond the homeschool bubble. Aaron also shares insights into his artistic journey, how he overcame self-doubt, and the unconventional ways he connects with his creativity.Key TakeawaysHomeschooling & Socialization – How co-ops like Group Solutions impacted our childhood and social skills.Religious Influence – The role faith played in our upbringing and how it shaped our views on relationships, sex, and adulthood.Purity Culture & Dating – Breaking down the "purity ring" experience and unlearning unhealthy narratives about sex.Self-Discovery & Healing – Aaron’s powerful method of visualizing younger versions of himself to work through personal growth.The Artistic Journey – Aaron's evolution as an artist, his preferred mediums, and how he now teaches art to others.Resources MentionedAaron's artwork on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aaronmacdnldart/Books on art & creativity from the Bauhaus SchoolI Kissed Dating Goodbye by Joshua Harris (discussed critically)Timestamps00:00 Introduction and Welcome00:57 Introducing Aaron MacDonald01:46 Aaron's Homeschool Journey04:30 Homeschool Curriculum and Methods08:07 Group Solutions and Social Aspects14:53 Religion and Homeschooling21:27 Dating and Purity Culture28:13 Sexuality and Cultural Impacts33:54 Healing the Internal Voice34:55 Meeting the Expert35:55 Challenging Childhood Beliefs38:26 Therapy and Self-Reflection50:40 Artistic Journey01:02:51 Memorable Homeschool Experiences01:06:42 Conclusion and Final ThoughtsEnjoyed this episode? Make sure to:✅ Subscribe to The Ex-Homeschoolers Club on your favorite podcast app.✅ Leave a review – it helps others find the show!✅Email me at:[email protected]✅ Join the discussion on Reddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/exhomeschoolersclub/✅ Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/exhsclub/✅ Sign up for the newsletter:https://exhsclub.beehiiv.com/subscribe

I'm always striving to make this show better and I want to hear from you. If you've got a few minutes, would you mind answering a few questions? ⁠https://exhsclub.beehiiv.com/forms/ecd981ec-ed4e-4b22-a15d-ae3b2858c757⁠ On this weeks Ex-Homeschoolers Club, we welcome Ruth Brooks, a former homeschooler turned homeschool mom of four, to explore her unique educational journey. From hiding from truant officers in the early days of homeschooling to navigating modern resources, Ruth shares how her experiences shaped her homeschooling style, including how she balanced structure and flexibility, adapted to her children’s unique learning needs, and handled the transition from teaching to rediscovering herself. They discuss navigating curriculum challenges, managing large families, and fostering emotional health in both parents and children. This episode is packed with insights for parents, homeschoolers, and those curious about the homeschool experience. Key Takeaways • Ruth’s early days as a homeschooler in the 1970s and how it shaped her parenting approach. • How she addressed learning challenges like dyslexia within her family. • The value of group learning and how literature-based curricula enriched her children’s education. • Her advice for parents on following their gut instincts and prioritizing emotional health. • Insights on the emotional challenges of transitioning out of homeschooling. Timestamps 00:00 Introduction and Special Guest Announcement 00:48 Ruth Brooks' Early Homeschooling Experience 02:20 Transition to Structured Homeschooling 03:34 Family Dynamics and Responsibilities 06:27 Deciding to Homeschool Her Own Kids 08:08 Homeschooling in the 2000s 09:38 Joining Homeschool Groups 13:22 Adapting Curriculum for Different Learning Styles 19:54 Parental Reflections and Challenges 27:33 Hands-On Learning in Homeschooling 27:56 Reading Aloud: A Non-Traditional Approach 29:05 The Value of Story-Based Learning 31:55 Transitioning to College Classes 37:46 Balancing Homeschooling and Emotional Health 41:29 The Transition Out of Homeschooling 46:27 Reflecting on Homeschooling Experiences 50:54 Final Thoughts and Farewell If you enjoyed this conversation, be sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a friend who might benefit from hearing this story. Follow Ex-Homeschoolers Club on Instagram and TikTok for updates, and send us a message – we’d love to hear from you! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/exhsclub/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@exhsclub Email me at [email protected]

WE ARE LAUNCHING A BOOK CLUB!!! That's right the Ex-Homeschoolers Book Club is going live. Our first book is going to be “When Religion Hurts You” by Dr. Laura E Anderson Link to our Fable Book Club: https://fable.co/club/ex-homeschoolers-book-club-with-jacob-gooden-585330795145?invite=d05c4720-2e57-471a-ad97-dfe8a5026688 Grab your copy of “When Religion Hurts You”: https://drlauraeanderson.com/book #exhomeschoolersbookclub #exhomeschooler #homeschool #whenreligionhurts #whenreligionhurtsyou #bookclub 

I'm always striving to make this show better and I want to hear from you. If you've got a few minutes, would you mind answering a few questions? https://exhsclub.beehiiv.com/forms/ecd981ec-ed4e-4b22-a15d-ae3b2858c757In this episode of the Ex-Homeschoolers Club, host Jacob Gooden welcomes special guest Liz, a homeschool graduate from the 80s and 90s. Together, they delve into the unique experiences of homeschooling across decades, highlighting their differences and surprising commonalities. Liz shares her journey as a "Marine brat" growing up in a conservative Catholic homeschool setting, the challenges of isolation, and the unique dynamics of her family’s educational decisions. The conversation also touches on the cultural shifts in homeschooling, adapting to college life, and the lasting impact of homeschooling on personal and professional growth. This heartfelt discussion sheds light on the strength, adaptability, and camaraderie of the ex-homeschooler community.Key Takeaways:The contrasting experiences of homeschooling in the 80s/90s versus the 2000s, including societal perceptions and available resources.Navigating isolation and limited social interactions in a homeschool setting and the long-term effects on personal development.The shift in homeschooling acceptance and normalization in the late 90s and early 2000s.Adapting to college life as a former homeschooler, including cultural catch-up and overcoming challenges.Liz’s reflections on homeschooling’s mixed impact on her life, from moments of gratitude to lessons learned.Timestamps00:00 Introduction and Special Guest Announcement01:18 Liz's Homeschooling Journey Begins04:20 Challenges and Isolation in Homeschooling07:56 Social Dynamics and Homeschool Groups12:10 Adapting to College Life16:41 Reflections on Homeschooling and College Experience28:12 Holiday Breaks and Realizations29:22 Navigating Pop Culture as a Homeschooler30:32 Cultural Catch-Up and Masking38:06 Homeschooling Stereotypes and Realities42:38 Homeschooling in Different Cultures48:08 Mixed Experiences and Reflections56:07 The Impact of 2020 and Homeschooling59:39 Final Thoughts and EncouragementResources Mentioned:I Heart the 80s and I Heart the 90s (VH1 shows)Catholic Youth Organization (CYO)Turner Classic Movies and AMC (classic programming staples)Enjoyed this episode? Subscribe to the Ex-Homeschoolers Club podcast, leave a review, and share it with a friend! You can also connect with Jacob on Instagram @EXHSClub or email at [email protected] to share your own homeschool story or suggest topics for future episodes.

I'm always striving to make this show better and I want to hear from you. If you've got a few minutes, would you mind answering a few questions? https://exhsclub.beehiiv.com/forms/ecd981ec-ed4e-4b22-a15d-ae3b2858c757Hey everyone! In this episode of the Ex-Homeschoolers Club, I sit down with Whitney Brim-DeForest, a former homeschooler with an incredible journey. Whitney’s story is a mix of unique experiences, from an unconventional homeschool structure to finding her calling as a plant scientist. We discuss the ups and downs of her homeschooling years, the challenges of reintegrating into public school, and how a passion for science blossomed from her eclectic upbringing. Along the way, we dive into the cultural gaps she experienced, the mentors who shaped her, and how her homeschooling days influenced her parenting philosophy today. If you’ve ever wondered how homeschooling shapes independence and self-direction, you’ll love this episode!Key Takeaways: Whitney’s homeschooling journey featured Saxon Math alongside experiential learning in arts, history, and hands-on activities. How periodic public school stints and a lack of peer consistency impacted her social development. The discovery of pop culture, music, and friendships after homeschooling. A transformative high school physics teacher and how mentors can inspire career paths. Whitney’s choice not to homeschool her kids and the value of diverse opportunities for children.Timestamps:00:00 Introduction to the Ex Homeschoolers Club00:33 Whitney's Unique Homeschooling Journey02:24 The Challenges of Socialization03:27 Homeschool Curriculum and Learning Styles07:03 Transitioning to Public School09:44 Finding Passion and Career Path17:15 Religious Influences and Gender Roles23:50 Navigating Pop Culture Post-Homeschooling24:45 Early Tech Exposure and Music Sneaking26:25 Musical Influences and High School Experience28:04 College Life and Music Exploration31:18 Peace Corps and Cultural Disconnect31:55 Friendship Challenges and Socialization38:13 Parenting Choices and Homeschool Reflections43:48 Biggest Positives and Negatives of Homeschooling46:44 Final Thoughts and FarewellResources Mentioned: Saxon Math curriculum "The Miseducation of Lauryn Hill" (album) Adventures in Odyssey audio series "Our Bodies, Ourselves" (book)If you enjoyed this episode, please hit that subscribe button and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform—it helps more listeners find the show! Got a story to share? Email me at [email protected] to join the conversation. Let’s keep exploring the amazing and sometimes weird world of ex-homeschoolers together!

I'm always striving to make this show better and I want to hear from you. If you've got a few minutes, would you mind answering a few questions? https://exhsclub.beehiiv.com/forms/ecd981ec-ed4e-4b22-a15d-ae3b2858c757Join me as I sit down with long-time friend and fellow Ojai Valley homeschooler, Alouette Pettit (Kim). From her unique homeschooling journey to her transition into a nursing career and now as a new mother, Alouette shares insightful reflections and hard-won lessons. Listen as they discuss the joys and challenges of homeschooling, the impact of mental health struggles, and the value of support systems in personal growth. Whether you're a homeschooler, parent, or someone navigating life’s unpredictable turns, this episode is packed with relatable and empowering moments.Key Takeaways: Homeschooling Experiences: Alouette’s journey as a K-12 homeschooler and how it shaped her educational and social outlook. Navigating Mental Health: Overcoming anxiety, depression, and suicidal ideation with the help of cognitive-behavioral therapy. Professional Path: Transitioning from a science-loving homeschooler to a successful nursing career and educator. Parenting Reflections: Considering homeschooling for her daughter while balancing career and family. Building Resilience: The importance of community, communication, and seeking help when facing life’s challenges.Timestamps00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome02:20 Alouette's Homeschool Journey06:39 Navigating Social Circles in Homeschooling13:08 Transitioning from Homeschool to College25:55 Choosing a Career in Nursing29:34 Balancing Career and Family Life31:55 Considering Homeschooling for the Next Generation34:50 Setting Goals and Flexibility35:14 Homeschooling Reflections37:32 Mental Health Struggles44:29 Therapy and Recovery01:00:48 Generational Trauma and Family Dynamics01:07:26 Funny Homeschool Moments01:10:08 Closing Thoughts and Reaching OutResources Mentioned: "The Well-Trained Mind" by Susan Wise Bauer If you enjoyed this conversation, be sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a friend who might benefit from hearing this story. Follow Ex-Homeschoolers Club on Instagram and TikTok for updates, and send us a message – we’d love to hear from you!Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/exhsclub/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@exhsclubEmail me at [email protected]

I'm always striving to make this show better and I want to hear from you. If you've got a few minutes, would you mind answering a few questions? https://forms.gle/SCAWjZ3fo1L4CxCK9This week on The Ex Homeschoolers Club, I had the absolute pleasure of sitting down with my college friend Adam Gaus. Until recently, I had no idea Adam was also homeschooled! In our conversation, he shared his fascinating journey of splitting his education between public school and homeschool. We reminisced about our time in college, dove into his creative outlets like music, and explored how his unique upbringing shaped his critical thinking and parenting style. Adam’s story is a mix of heartfelt reflections, hilarious cringy moments, and valuable insights into the balance between education and life. Whether you’re a homeschool veteran or just curious about the lifestyle, this episode has something for everyone.Key Takeaways:• Adam’s hybrid education journey: 50% public school, 50% homeschool.• The role of community and church in shaping Adam’s homeschooling experience.• How homeschooling influenced Adam’s self-reliance and critical thinking skills.• Insights into parenting and navigating public schooling for Adam’s children.• Reflecting on the ups and downs of homeschool life, including hilarious cringy moments like metal band performances.Resources Mentioned:• Niche Knowledge and Nonsense Podcast hosted by Adam's wife, Bailey: https://linktr.ee/nknpodIf you enjoyed this conversation, be sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a friend who might benefit from hearing this story. Follow Ex-Homeschoolers Club on Instagram and TikTok for updates, and send us a message – we’d love to hear from you!Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/exhsclub/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@exhsclubEmail me at [email protected]

I'm always striving to make this show better and I want to hear from you. If you've got a few minutes, would you mind answering a few questions? https://forms.gle/SCAWjZ3fo1L4CxCK9In this deeply personal episode, I open up about my journey of faith, doubt, and discovery. Reflecting on the intersection of my Christian upbringing and homeschooling experience, I share the struggles I faced reconciling my beliefs with hard questions, and how I eventually found the courage to embrace agnosticism. This year-end reflection is my raw and heartfelt exploration of identity, community, and the ongoing search for truth. Themes include my childhood faith, deconstructing religion, and rebuilding community after stepping away from traditional beliefs.Key Takeaways:- The Foundation of Faith: Growing up in a devout Christian household shaped my early worldview.- Critical Turning Points: I wrestled with the Bible’s literal interpretations and observed inconsistencies within the church.- Community and Loss: Leaving church life brought challenges of isolation and rebuilding my sense of identity.- Deconstruction Journey: I moved from evangelical Christianity to agnosticism by questioning and exploring my beliefs.- Encouraging Open Dialogue: I now embrace curiosity and strive to foster respectful conversations about belief and doubt.Resources Mentioned- Dirty Rotten Church Kids: https://www.instagram.com/dirtyrottenchurchkids/?hl=en- Ear Biscuits Deconstruction: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1qbna6t1bzw&list=PLLxmqs8vQskUbE_KnXQhA2gXmEg5dVMp3- Ken Ham vs. Bill Nye: https://www.youtube.com/live/PPLRhVdNp5M?si=HC8GrldP_zzkYmWl - The New Evengelicals: https://www.thenewevangelicals.com/about/Timestamps00:00 Introduction and Year-End Reflections00:20 The Gooden Family December Episodes00:42 Sharing My Christian Journey01:36 Gratitude and Listener Engagement03:42 Nervousness and Vulnerability05:34 Early Christian Experiences11:05 Church Involvement and Music16:04 Transition to Reality Church27:25 College and Faith Challenges31:31 Reconciling Evolution and Faith32:01 Overwhelmed by Religious Commitments33:21 Questioning Biblical Literalism34:26 Exploring Different Perspectives36:40 Burnout and Leaving Church39:13 Deconstructing Faith49:59 Embracing Agnosticism53:21 Building a New Community59:10 Final Thoughts and Future PlansIf you enjoyed this conversation, be sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a friend who might benefit from hearing this story. Follow Ex-Homeschoolers Club on Instagram and TikTok for updates, and send us a message – we’d love to hear from you!Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/exhsclub/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@exhsclubEmail me at [email protected]

I'm always striving to make this show better and I want to hear from you. If you've got a few minutes, would you mind answering a few questions? https://forms.gle/SCAWjZ3fo1L4CxCK9In this heartfelt episode of The Ex-Homeschoolers Club, I sit down with my dad, Keith Gooden, for an in-depth conversation about homeschooling, fatherhood, and personal growth. We reflect on his evolving role in my education, the pivotal moments that reshaped his involvement, and how challenges like a hip injury and a cancer diagnosis sparked his commitment to health and resilience. Together, we discuss the joys and trials of homeschooling, the importance of parental involvement, and the life lessons we’ve both learned along the way. Keywords: homeschooling, fatherhood, personal growth, family dynamics, education.Key Takeaways:- Homeschool Evolution: How Keith transitioned from a "hands-off" principal to an active teacher and advocate for homeschooling.- Parental Involvement: The value of fathers participating in their children’s education and extracurricular interests.- Resilience in Adversity: How health challenges reshaped Keith’s mindset and inspired a commitment to fitness and personal development.- Creative Education Methods: Incorporating history through movies, discussions of controversial books, and hands-on learning.- Building Strong Family Bonds: The role of shared activities like airsoft and home projects in strengthening relationships.If you enjoyed this conversation, be sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a friend who might benefit from hearing this story. Follow Ex-Homeschoolers Club on Instagram and TikTok for updates, and send us a message – we’d love to hear from you!Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/exhsclub/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@exhsclubEmail me at [email protected]

I'm always striving to make this show better and I want to hear from you. If you've got a few minutes, would you mind answering a few questions? https://forms.gle/SCAWjZ3fo1L4CxCK9In this heartfelt episode, Jacob Gooden sits down with his mom, Susan Gooden, to explore her decision to homeschool, the challenges of starting out, and the unexpected joys of building a homeschooling community. Susan shares how she navigated the pressures of tailoring education for two vastly different kids, balancing personal growth with parental responsibilities, and transitioning out of homeschooling into a fulfilling post-homeschool life. Her candid reflections offer valuable insights for parents considering or currently homeschooling. Tune in for relatable anecdotes, laughter, and timeless wisdom.Key Takeaways The Why of Homeschooling: Susan’s journey from public schooling to homeschooling inspired by conviction and community. Overcoming Challenges: Navigating failed curriculum choices and building an adaptable approach. Building Community: The role of co-ops, support groups, and friendships in sustaining the homeschool journey. Transitioning Out: Finding new purpose and joy after homeschooling ends. Parental Growth: How homeschooling fostered personal growth alongside her children’s education.Resources Mentioned Curriculums: A Beka, Math U See, and Sunlight Books: The Well-Trained Mind by Susan Wise Bauer Organizations: CHEA, ACHEV, and Group Solutions Events: The CHEA ConventionLove this episode? Don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share with a friend! Follow us on Instagram @exhsclub or send us your questions at [email protected] for future episodes.

I want to hear from my Ex-Homeschool Friends. Here is my Google Form for you to share your thoughts on the future of the EXHS Club: https://forms.gle/tpJyso45KMcnWjcUAHey folks, you're getting a solo from me today. I'm gonna walk you through the journey of launching the Ex-Homeschoolers Club, what you can expect for the end of 2024, and some of the changes and goals for 2025And be sure to hang out to the very end for a special holiday surprise!If you enjoyed this conversation, be sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a friend who might benefit from hearing this story. Follow Ex-Homeschoolers Club on Instagram and TikTok for updates, and send us a message – we’d love to hear from you!Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/exhsclub/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@exhsclubEmail me at [email protected]

I'm always striving to make this show better and I want to hear from you. If you've got a few minutes, would you mind answering a few questions? https://forms.gle/SCAWjZ3fo1L4CxCK9In this weeks episode of The Ex-Homeschoolers Club, I'm sitting down with Alyssa Gaona to explore her unconventional homeschooling journey. From growing up in a restrictive and cult-like environment to discovering her passion for teaching and biology, Alyssa shares her struggles and triumphs. Together, they discuss the impact of childhood experiences, the importance of mental health awareness, and how education shapes identity. This episode highlights Alyssa's journey from surviving a challenging upbringing to pursuing a career in teaching with hope and resilience.Key Takeaways Alyssa's experience with minimal educational structure and the challenges it created. The influence of supportive mentors and how they shaped her aspirations. Insights into mental health awareness and its intersection with homeschooling. Alyssa’s decision to pursue teaching, specializing in biology and early childhood development. Practical advice for parents on fostering healthy educational environments.Resources Mentioned California’s Educational Standards: Official Website Alyssa’s Instagram: @TheMexicanPersonEnjoyed this episode? Don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a friend! Connect with us: Instagram: @EXHSclub Email: [email protected]

Hey Ex-Homeschoolers! NO INTERVIEW this week but I'm making it up to you next week by dropping 2 episodes! If you enjoyed this conversation, be sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a friend who might benefit from hearing this story. Follow Ex-Homeschoolers Club on Instagram and TikTok for updates, and send us a message – we’d love to hear from you! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/exhsclub/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@exhsclub Email me at [email protected]

I'm always striving to make this show better and I want to hear from you. If you've got a few minutes, would you mind answering a few questions? https://forms.gle/SCAWjZ3fo1L4CxCK9In this episode, we’re joined by Keara Minshall, a filmmaker and homeschool alum, who shares her inspiring journey through homeschooling, the challenges she faced, and her pursuit of a career in film. Keara reflects on the pivotal role her homeschool community played in shaping her love for storytelling, from creating backyard productions to studying film in college. She candidly discusses her professional path, the impact of COVID-19 on the film industry, and her recent work on Netflix’s "The Electric State." Join us as we explore the highs and lows of homeschooling, creative passions, and the evolving world of storytelling.Key Takeaways- Homeschool Journey: Keara's experience highlights the adaptability of homeschool education and its impact on creativity.- Creative Beginnings: Early exposure to filmmaking through homeschool classes sparked Keara’s passion for storytelling.- Industry Insights: Challenges and shifts in Hollywood, plus Keara’s journey into commercial directing.- Community Building: Importance of finding and fostering friendships and support networks, especially in a homeschool setting.Resources Mentioned- The Electric State by the Russo Brothers (Film, releasing March 14)https://youtu.be/9gUDaPTPxwo?si=w2pWfldE233MIzeS- Home-Schooled series on Rokuhttps://app.pureflix.com/series/292224550859/home-schooled- Chuck Testa Commercial https://youtu.be/LJP1DphOWPs?si=qHlGgk0SB_1VLPsGTimestamps00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome01:04 Keara's Homeschool Journey06:20 Transition to Public School07:57 Homeschool vs. Traditional School14:22 Discovering a Passion for Filmmaking16:49 College Experience and Video Production Club20:27 Post-College Career in Filmmaking23:25 Working on The Electric State28:05 Insights on Storytelling29:38 Reflecting on the Purpose of the Show30:30 Homeschooling Stories: The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly31:05 The Direction and Outcome of Storytelling32:03 Current Projects and the State of Hollywood32:42 The Rise of Podcasting and Scripted Audio Stories33:43 Challenges in the Film Industry38:05 The Magic of Movie Theaters40:50 Directing Commercials: A New Venture44:04 Nostalgia and Early Creative Endeavors47:18 The Importance of Friendship and Community54:54 Concluding Thoughts and Staying ConnectedIf you enjoyed this conversation, be sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a friend who might benefit from hearing this story. Follow Ex-Homeschoolers Club on Instagram and TikTok for updates, and send us a message – we’d love to hear from you!Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/exhsclub/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@exhsclubEmail me at [email protected]