For The Love of Chaos

Send us Fan MailIn this inspiring interview, Host, Andi Harper has a special guest, Leighton Lunger on. Leighton shares her journey from public health to founding Pray Her Forward, a ministry focused on biblical mentorship for girls and young women. Andi discusses how difficult it can be for teenage girls to discover their confidence. Leighton shares beautiful wisdom and insight on how we can make a change.Discover practical tips on building confidence, overcoming insecurities, and mentoring the next generation with faith and authenticity.Chapters:00:00 Introduction and Conference Reflections02:51 The Importance of Mentorship05:55 Building Confidence in Christ08:56 Authenticity and Relationships in Ministry12:08 Overcoming Insecurity and Lies15:02 The Role of Trials in Building Faith18:00 Journaling and Reflection for Growth20:54 Empowering Young Girls Through Identity24:05 Affirmations and Scriptural Truths25:15 Empowering Girls Through Faith and Prayer26:41 The Importance of Healthy Relationships27:40 Balancing Appearance and Identity29:24 Navigating Rejection and Social Media Pressure31:50 Understanding God's Intentions in Our Lives33:42 Guarding Our Inner Light35:43 Encouraging Girls to Lead in Faith37:50 Mentorship Across Generations39:38 The Impact of Small Conversations41:45 Taking Thoughts Captive44:14 The Power of Gratitude

Send us Fan MailIn this inspiring interview, Andi interviews author and speaker, Jennifer Dukes Lee. She shares practical tips and spiritual insights on how to cultivate a meaningful morning routine, even in busy seasons. Discover how small habits and understanding your archetype can transform your mornings and deepen your connection with God.Key TopicsThe importance of sleep and night routinesThe four morning archetypes and how to identify yoursPractical tips for establishing a morning routine in busy seasonsThe spiritual significance of mornings in scriptureHow small habits can lead to lasting changeChapters00:00 Introduction to Jennifer Dukes Lee02:11 The Importance of Sleep and Morning Routines06:02 Creating Small Habits for a Better Morning10:07 The Role of God in Our Mornings13:51 Inspiration Behind the Book18:04 Understanding Morning Archetypes24:01 Practical Tips for Morning Success30:04 Encouraging Kids to Love Mornings

Send us Fan MailDiscover how embracing your chaos and imperfections can propel you into God's purpose with Andi Harper’s inspiring new book, "Purpose Over Perfection." In this episode, Andi shares her journey of writing the book, its message of hope, and practical encouragement for women feeling disqualified because of their messiness. In this episode:The emotional and spiritual significance behind the launch of Purpose Over PerfectionAndi's personal stories and the inspiration for her book, including her messy house and parenting chaosHow biblical truths affirm that God can use even our messiest stories for goodThe importance of sharing your testimony regardless of how imperfect it seemsHow to combat the enemy’s lies that your chaos disqualifies you from being used by GodThe story behind the imperfect and colorful cover design, symbolizing purpose over perfectionThe significance of chapters like "The Perfection Trap" and "When the Wind Gets Knocked Out"Practical ways to share your story and encourage others through your testimonyThe warfare faced during the writing process and trusting the Holy Spirit’s guidanceHow emotional seasons and personal hardships become powerful messages for othersTimestamps: 00:00 - Launch day excitement for Purpose Over Perfection 00:27 - The motivation and personal stories behind the book 01:00 - The biblical truth: Your calling isn't canceled by chaos 01:30 - The messy but beautiful cover design and its symbolism 02:10 - How God uses our messes for His purpose 02:50 - Overcoming fear and shame around sharing hard parts of our story 03:30 - The chapter "The Perfection Trap" and its lessons 04:10 - Personal story: Dyed blue hair and identity crises 05:00 - The importance of sharing real-life struggles to help others 05:40 - Recognition of warfare and spiritual battles during the writing process 06:20 - The chapter "When the Wind Gets Knocked Out" and its message of hope 07:00 - Practical advice for moms balancing chaos and purpose 07:40 - How God nudges us to write and share our stories 08:20 - The power of testimony and God's faithfulness through seasons of pain 09:00 - Encouragement to step out and use your mess for His glory 09:40 - Final thoughts on purpose, faith, and imperfect obedience Purpose Over Perfection - Book (example link, replace with actual link once available)Andi Harper on InstagramAndi Harper on FacebookConnect with Andi Harper:InstagramFacebookNote: The message and themes from this episode emphasize that God’s purpose is often fulfilled through our messes and imperfections. Your story matters, and sharing it can inspire and heal others.

Send us Fan MailJoin Andi Harper and her cousin Lily Freeman as they explore the spiritual significance of Holy Week, the importance of authentic faith, and practical ways to incorporate prayer and reflection into daily life. This heartfelt conversation emphasizes surrender, repentance, and the transformative power of Jesus' sacrifice.Chapters00:00 Introduction and Personal Background08:42 The Significance of Easter and the Cross14:19 The Importance of Repentance and Cleansing19:30 Praying Over Daily Chores and Gratitude24:30 Teaching Kids About the Fruits of the Spirit30:13 Understanding the Depth of Jesus' Sacrifice36:10 The Darkness Before the Resurrection41:46 Commercialization of Easter vs. Spiritual Significance

Send us Fan Mail Surrendering your child to drive alone? It's harder than it sounds. As a mom of twins turning 16, Andi discusses feeling all the big emotions surrounding her oldest twins turning 16. Andi also discusses the importance of surrendering your burdens, fears, and anxieties all at the feet of Jesus. Sometimes we have to let go, even when it feels impossible. If we continue carrying around what was never meant for us to carry, we will end up worn out and worn thin. Surrender isn’t just about giving up control; it’s about trusting God with our deepest fears. 

Send us Fan MailIn this episode, Andi Harper discusses the joys of Spring, good old fashioned Vitamin D while encouraging listeners to enjoy the sunshine and the effects it has on mental health. She emphasizes the health benefits of spending time outside and addresses the impact of seasonal depression. Additionally, she announces her participation in the Daughters Conference in Gallatin, TN on March 7th where she will speak about finding purpose in various life seasons. She discusses the importance of embracing each season and looking for beauty, even in the messes. 

Send us Fan MailAfter a season of stepping back, Andi is finally back — and she’s sharing what God has been building behind the scenes.In this episode, Andi catches listeners up on her new book Purpose Over Perfection, becoming a host mom unexpectedly, and stepping into speaking at Teach Them Diligently. But the heart of this episode is about something deeper: calling.What do you do when God places something on your heart… but life feels chaotic?What happens when the vision feels cloudy?What if fear, distraction, or delay tries to pull you off the wall?Through the story of Nehemiah, Andi reminds us that opposition does not cancel assignment. Chaos does not cancel calling. And just because the water feels murky doesn’t mean God isn’t leading you forward.If you’ve ever felt tempted to come down off the wall — this one is for you.Key Takeaways• You don’t need full clarity to take the next step.• If God called you to it, He will provide for it.• Opposition is often confirmation.• Delay is the enemy’s strategy when destruction fails.• You can build with one hand and hold a sword in the other.• If you’ve come down off the wall, you can go back.If this episode encouraged you, share it with a friend who needs to hear it.And stay tuned — this season is going to be powerful.📖 Purpose Over Perfection launches in April.Andi's website:https://www.andiharper.com/YouTube Channel:http://www.youtube.com/@ForTheLoveofChaosPodcast

Send us Fan MailPrayer isn't optional...isn't necessary...In this engaging podcast episode, Host- Andi Harper has an amazing guest and friend, Amanda Hayhurst discuss the importance of community, the journey of writing her viral book Pray For Him, and the transformative power of prayer in marriage and motherhood. They share personal stories of overcoming challenges, navigating marriage and family dynamics, and the role of faith in personal growth. The conversation emphasizes the need to embrace life's messiness, find hope in difficult situations, and the significance of finding humor in all of life's messes. Watch on Youtube: https://youtu.be/RHfGo6GvlcgSubscribe so that you don't miss an episode this season!Follow me: Tiktok- @fortheloveofchaospodcast                     Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/andiharper_/                     andiharper.com                     For collab opportunities: [email protected] amandahayhurstwrites.com for amazing resources and more info on Amanda's books. Pray For Him and Pray For Her are available at Target and on Amazon as well! If you enjoy this podcast, don't forget to leave a review!  :)

Send us Fan MailIn a world where they try to predict everything...only Jesus knows the day and the hour. But we should ask ourselves are we using the time we have here on earth to share our faith?

Send us Fan MailTake a stroll down memory lane, as Andi reflects back on summers growing up in the 90's and how to incorporate some of that nostalgia magic with her own children.  

Send us Fan MailSometimes God places dreams and goals on our hearts, but we are simply too tired. Too bogged down and over scheduled. Maybe we are in survival mode. But God just wants our obedience and surrender. Surrender is Scary. Andi gives you a mom hack as well, if you find yourselves with feral children that are testing your patience. 

Send us Fan MailCome listen to Andi chat about birthdays and bucket lists as we get older. She also talks about her recently getting a black eye from a baby lamb. 

Send us Fan MailWhether you're struggling with teaching fractions or worried about your sick kids, God is there on the good days and the bad days. Come giggle with Andi as she shares a funny story or two and talks about distractions in motherhood. It's important to note something from a devotional... "God loves and accepts you just as much on your worst day, as he does on our best day." 

Send us Fan MailCome listen as Andi chats about laying down things that are weighing us down in 2025. She also discusses how important it is to show up for others and help them through hard times. 

Send us Fan MailCome listen to Andi chat about New Year's Resolutions she's broken over the years. She also talks about the power of saying yes to God and surrendering our plans to whatever God has in store. 

Send us Fan MailCome dive in as Andi hosts a special guest in this episode, Lily Freeman. In this raw and engaging conversation, Andi and Lily explore the power of a positive mindset, the importance of choosing joy daily, and the role of gratitude in navigating life's challenges. They discuss the emotional complexities of motherhood, the significance of acknowledging feelings, and how faith plays a crucial role in maintaining a joyful outlook. The conversation emphasizes the need for personal growth, emotional health, and the redemptive nature of Jesus in our lives. In this conversation, they discuss the importance of surrounding yourself with positivity, especially in the context of parenting kids and teenagers. Andi discusses the challenges of navigating teenage years, the significance of outdoor activities and vitamin D for mental health, and the necessity of finding joy amidst parenting struggles and daylight savings time. The duo emphasizes the power of laughter, the reality of allergies, and the rediscovery of personal hobbies. They conclude with a discussion on the impact of words and the importance of spiritual warfare in parenting. In this conversation, Andi and Lily discuss the profound impact of prayer in parenting, the challenges of navigating wilderness seasons, and the importance of raising children with faith. They emphasize open communication with kids, the spiritual warfare facing the current generation, and the transformative power of worship. The discussion also touches on being the church beyond traditional settings and living out the Great Commission in everyday life.

Send us Fan MailCome sip your coffee with Andi as she discusses her laughing disorder.  She shares lots of real life stories of how her laughing has gotten her into some pickles throughout life. 

Send us Fan MailLife is like a box if chocolates, you never know what you're gonna get. Especially when it comes to to this podcast. Andi chats about running on fumes and giving yourself grace. And... Peter cutting off someone's ear, but she encourages you not to do that either. 

Send us Fan MailIn this episode, Andi chats about her confections and convictions on celebrating Halloween as a Christian parent. She talk about what a slippery slope it can be and how to prayerfully navigate our choices. She also talks about DIY costumes and rolling in late to events. 

Send us Fan MailIn this engaging podcast episode, Andi Harper welcomes an amazing guest...her friend, Niki Kirby.  You don't want to miss it!  Listen in as they discuss various aspects of life, including the challenges and joys of living at the beach, the complexities of family dynamics, and the importance of community.  Niki has an amazing analogy comparing comfort to vegan cheese...and they both agree it isn't anything like the real thing. They delve into the concept of 'dangerous prayers' and how discomfort can lead to personal growth and always trusting God's plans, no matter how blind we may be to that. The conversation shifts to parenting, particularly the challenges faced by neurodivergent children, and the need for advocacy and support in education. Through personal anecdotes and insights, they explore the nuances of parenting in today's world, emphasizing the importance of understanding and supporting children with different learning needs. In this conversation, Niki and Andi explore the themes of neurodivergence, parenting challenges, and the importance of fostering individuality in children.  They talk about the impact and importance of advocating for your child. They also chat about how neurodivergent individuals possess unique gifts, the impact of sleep on learning, and the significance of understanding the fight or flight response in children. The conversation emphasizes the need to protect relationships with children, the growth journey of parenting, and the importance of community support. They also highlight the value of play and interest-led learning in fostering critical thinking and creativity in children.

Send us Fan MailChat with Andi as she talks about the pressures and obligations on moms! And why its totally fine if you don't buy your kids a boo basket. 

Send us Fan MailCome listen to Andi chat about battling for your family and doing the hard stuff. And also her story about birthday candles and wishes going way wrong! 

Send us Fan MailSit down with a cup of coffee and listen to Andi chat about choosing battles when it comes to parenting your kids. Nothing about parenting is easy, and we have to choose which battles are worth fighting. This is part 1 of a 3 week series. 

Send us Fan MailCatch up with Andi has she catches up on life and plans for Season 3! 

Send us Fan MailValentine's Day can be a cheesy holiday.  It can trigger bitterness, loneliness, and sadness for some.  But it is the ultimate day to celebrate God's love for us. Come chat with Andi as she talks about how her family celebrates their favorite tradition on this day. 

Send us Fan MailCome Listen with Andi as she discusses her struggles with procrastination! She chats about embraces the "winging it" mantra in life and motherhood! There are a million ways to be a good mother, but no perfect way. Embrace the imperfections! 

Send us Fan MailGod is speaking to us all the time. Even in the middle of our messy kitchens while making sourdough. Grab a cup of coffee and listen to Andi chat about life and all the highs and lows, but how God is there for it all. 

Send us Fan MailCome sit with Andi as she chats about goals for the new year! Don't feel alone or ashamed if you've already hit some bumps in the road on yours.  You aren't alone...life happens. Hear embarrassing kid moments and about healthy eating habits with 6 kiddos. Laugh along and find a friend in Andi as she takes you into her chaotic journey of motherhood. 

Send us Fan MailCome sit with Andi as she talks about chaos surrounding the month of December.  Sometimes we can't juggle it all, so we have to focus on what is most important. Giggle along and feel less alone in the messes of motherhood. 

Send us Fan MailOne of Andi's favorite quotes is..."If you want to change the world, go home and love your family." -  Mother TeresaAs mothers, sometimes we feel inadequate in our every day duties in our homes. It is easy to compare our lives and struggle with contentment.  Come sit with Andi and hear her thoughts on finding joy and contentment in your crazy and chaos.

Send us Fan MailDo you ever feel overwhelmed by the messes in life? Come chat with Andi about purging your junk and purging toxic thoughts. Don't judge too harshly as her toddler interrupts her episode.  

Send us Fan MailCome sit with Andi as she shares funny stories from her adventures on The Struggle Bus of motherhood! Remember, this is a judgement free zone and you can come as you are in your messes along with your mischievous kids! 

Send us Fan MailIn this episode, Andi discusses her family's new adventure in homeschooling.  She helps weigh the pros and cons and encourages other mommas that may be considering it. She also discusses having funny and feral children. 

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Send us Fan MailGrab a cup of coffee and come sit with Andi as she discusses ways to have fun with your kids this fall on a budget!  Come hear all about the accidental pumpkin patch and the time our deck almost blew up from a night of s'mores! 

Send us Fan MailDo you ever feel like you have lost yourself in all the chores, to do lists, and messes that go along with motherhood?  Grab a cup of coffee and come sit with me for a real, raw, unfiltered convo about life in your 30's and finding yourself again. It's never too late to start again or chase your dreams...unless that dream is a clean house! 

Send us Fan MailSometimes we all feel stuck or like a hamster on a wheel.  Constantly busy, but getting nowhere. Which leads us to feel unproductive or like a failure.  Maybe it is fear.  Maybe is is insecurity.  Maybe it is depression.  Whatever it is...God doesn't want us in a stagnant place. Move your feet sister! You got this! 

Send us Fan MailAndi has some encouraging words for any momma that may be overwhelmed. Even God sent an angel to Elijah and told him to get and eat and to rest. Sometimes we try to juggle too much and forget to take care of ourselves. So get up, girl! And go order fajitas and take you a nap! 

Send us Fan MailIn this episode, Andi discusses the guilt that comes along with summertime for moms. Hence the post about 18 summers with our kids. She talks about letting go of imperfections and the to-do list. Sometimes simple things make the best memories for our kids. 

Send us Fan MailCome have a cup of coffee and gain some confidence to step out in whatever calling you have on your life. Let go of opinions and imperfections and embrace exactly who you are and who God is. calling you to be!

Send us Fan MailThis episode touches on all things motherhood, along with funny kid stories including a malfunction with a bidet due to toilet paper shortage.  Buying up band aids and peroxide in case of a World War 3, and bad mom advice. Whether you are a mom or not, you will enjoy and relate to this episode. 

Send us Fan MailAndi is back for season 2 and catches you up on life.  She shares some funny stories and also shares struggles with depression and anxiety. A good reminder that you motherhood can be lonely at times, but it's important to know you're never alone.