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Hard Things

Everyone knows there are endless taboo and off-limits topics that we just don't talk about as adults, but we sometimes need insight on. Join Angie and Ellie each week as they explore the hard things we all avoid in our relationships - and the good, bad, and risqué about each one.

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    Season 2 Ep 56: Why Your Relationship Gets Boring (And What Actually Fixes It) 😳

    This episode starts chaotic… and somehow turns into one of our most real and research-backed conversations about relationships 😅We’re talking about:The Michelangelo Effect (are you building your partner up or breaking them down?)Why relationships feel exciting at first… and then don’tThe science behind attraction, adrenaline, and “chemistry”Why your partner can actually impact your confidence and growthThe truth about “good enough” sex (and why perfect is unrealistic)We also get into:Embarrassing moments (Bluetooth betrayed us 😭)Why people lose attraction in long-term relationshipsCommunication vs expectations in datingWhy “B-minus sex” might actually be healthyPlus:💡 The 36 questions to fall in love💡 How to keep relationships from getting boring💡 Why novelty matters more than you thinkIf you’ve ever:– Felt bored in a relationship– Questioned attraction or chemistry– Wondered if something is “wrong”This episode is for you.💬 COMMENT BELOW:Are you dating a sculptor… or a sledgehammer?👍 Like, Subscribe, and Share if you want more real, unfiltered conversations about relationships, sex, and life📧 [email protected]⏱️ Chapters00:00 Intro + chaotic opening02:00 Embarrassing audiobook story (Bluetooth betrayal 😭)08:10 Spicy books, media, and expectations13:30 Relationship psychology intro15:00 The Michelangelo Effect explained20:10 Are partners building you up or tearing you down?24:30 Mirror vs telescope in relationships29:00 Why affirmation matters more than you think34:00 The “sledgehammer effect” (toxic dynamics)39:00 How partners affect confidence & performance43:30 Sexual self-expansion theory48:00 Why relationships get boring52:00 Novelty vs routine in long-term dating56:00 The 36 questions to fall in love1:05:00 Deep questions & emotional connection1:15:00 Fear, vulnerability, and communication1:22:00 Adrenaline & attraction (bridge study)1:27:00 Why anxiety feels like chemistry1:32:00 The truth about “good enough” sex1:37:00 Why perfect sex is unrealistic1:41:00 B-minus sex vs no sex debate1:45:00 Final takeaways + relationship challenge

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    Season 2 Ep 55: Petty Revenge Stories That Will Make You

    We found some of the wildest Reddit relationship stories… and yeah, we had opinions 😅In this episode of the Hard Things Podcast, we react to:Petty revenge stories that actually went too farRelationship double standards (and calling them out)The “cool girl” myth and why it backfiresWhat “50/50” really means in relationshipsLosing respect, settling, and emotional disconnectWe also get into:Matching energy vs communicating like an adultPublic vs private revenge (and where the line is)Why people expect mind reading instead of communicationThe reality of modern dating and expectationsSome of these stories are hilarious…Some are messy…And some will make you question your entire relationship 😬💬 COMMENT BELOW:Which story had you like “nah… that’s too far”?👍 Like, Subscribe, and Share if you enjoy real, unfiltered conversations about relationships, sex, and life.📧 [email protected]⏱️ Chapters00:00 Intro – chaotic energy + call for engagement02:15 Reddit story: “Cool girl” revenge06:45 Do people want low maintenance or no accountability?10:20 Communication expectations in relationships15:10 Reddit story: 50/50 malicious compliance19:40 What “fair” actually means in relationships25:30 Reddit story: Losing respect for a partner30:40 Attraction vs respect discussion35:10 Reddit story: “I settled for you”40:20 Can you come back from that comment?45:15 Reddit story: Public cheating exposure50:30 Public vs private revenge debate56:10 Reddit story: Rating him back59:45 Matching toxic behavior vs setting boundaries1:03:10 Reddit story: Acting single1:07:00 Social media & relationship validation1:12:20 Reddit story: texting/response games1:17:00 Communication vs “matching energy”1:21:30 Reddit story: canceling plans revenge1:25:40 Respecting time & effort1:29:10 Reddit story: comparing to ex1:33:00 Why comparisons kill relationships1:36:40 Reddit story: “I’m just lonely”1:41:30 Settling vs building connection1:45:30 Final thoughts + outro

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    Season 2 Ep 54: The Real Reason Relationships Don’t Work Anymore

    Why do relationships still fail… even when you’re trying your best?In this episode of the Hard Things Podcast, we break down one of the most frustrating realities in dating and relationships:doing everything “right” and still feeling unmet.We talk about:• why communication alone doesn’t fix relationships• the difference between needs vs expectations• how emotional mismatches actually happen• why some people feel “too much” or “not enough”• how relationship dynamics quietly fall apart over time• the role of self-awareness in choosing the right partner• when to keep trying… and when to walk awayThis episode dives into the uncomfortable truth:Sometimes it’s not about trying harder.Sometimes it’s about recognizing the mismatch.If you’ve ever felt confused, frustrated, or emotionally exhausted in a relationship… this conversation will hit.📩 Send questions or topic ideas:[email protected] on:Spotify | Apple Podcasts | YouTube | iHeartRadio⏱ Chapters00:00 Intro01:20 Setting the Stage – Relationship Frustrations05:10 When You Feel Like You’re Trying and It’s Not Working09:30 Needs vs Expectations14:15 Why Communication Doesn’t Always Fix Things19:40 Emotional Mismatch in Relationships24:30 Feeling “Too Much” or “Not Enough”29:20 Patterns That Keep Repeating34:10 Self-Awareness in Dating39:00 Choosing the Right Partner vs Fixing the Wrong One44:20 When to Keep Trying vs Walk Away49:30 Hard Truths About Relationships54:10 Final Takeaways57:00 Closing Thoughts

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    Season 2 Ep 53: Solo Partnering, Chosen Family & Why Traditional Relationships Aren’t Working | Hard Things Podcast

    What if your best friend made a better life partner than your romantic partner?In this episode of the Hard Things Podcast, we get into one of the most interesting relationship shifts happening right now: solo partnering, chosen family, domesticated friendships, friendfluence, and clear coding.We talk about why more people are rethinking the traditional relationship model, why some friendships feel more stable than romance, and whether the nuclear family blueprint actually works for everyone anymore.In this episode, we cover:solo partnering and platonic life partnershipschosen family and domestic friendshipswhy some people want closeness without constant cohabitationthe idea of best friends as emotional and practical life partnersclear coding in dating and communicationsocial battery, boundaries, and emotional capacitywhy vague communication wrecks relationshipswhether society is more comfortable with romance than practical friendship partnershipsthe cost of modern life, relationships, and independencewhy honesty and explicit boundaries matter more than everThis one is funny, messy, weirdly practical, and very real.If you’ve ever thought:“I want love, but I do not want somebody in my house all the damn time,”this episode might be for you.Listen now on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, iHeartRadio, and wherever else you get your podcasts.#HardThingsPodcast #SoloPartnering #ChosenFamily #DatingPodcast #RelationshipPodcast #ModernDating #CommunicationSkillsTags

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    Season 2 Ep 52: Are You Actually Ready for a Relationship… or Just Lonely? (Brutal Truths)

    What if you’re not actually ready for a relationship… you’re just lonely?In this episode of the Hard Things Podcast, we break down the difference between real relationship readiness vs emotional loneliness—and why so many people confuse the two. We dive into:The science of loneliness (and why it literally feels like physical pain)Why you might be idealizing the wrong peopleSigns you’re dating out of loneliness (not connection)The “fixer” trap and why you can’t change peopleRelationship red flags vs “stay or go” scenariosHow to tell if you actually want THEM… or just how they make you feelPlus… we get real about dating disasters, emotional availability, and the chaos of modern relationships.If you’ve ever:✔ Stayed too long✔ Ignored red flags✔ Thought “I can fix them”✔ Or just didn’t want to be alone…This episode is for you.🎧 Listen now and get both your heads right.00:00 Intro & chaotic life updates02:30 Birthday party disaster recap06:45 “Bi-situational” explained10:15 Are you lonely or actually ready?14:30 What loneliness does to your brain18:45 Signs you’re dating from loneliness25:30 Validation vs real intimacy32:10 The “fixer” trap explained40:15 Why people stay in bad relationships52:00 Stay or Go: real dating scenarios1:10:00 Brutal honesty about attraction & dating apps1:20:00 Final questions to ask yourself⏱️ Chapters

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    Season 2 Ep 51: Why People Fall Out of Love (It Starts WAY Before Cheating) | Gottman Method Explained

    What if relationships don’t fall apart because of cheating… but because of how you think about your partner?In this episode of the Hard Things Podcast, we break down:The Gottman Method and what actually predicts breakupsWhat negative sentiment override is (and why it’s dangerous)How “the ick” forms and turns into resentmentWhy social media is quietly ruining your relationshipThe Magic 5 Hours of Connection that can save your relationshipWe also get real about:Dating frustrationsEmotional neglect vs. intentional connectionWhy people compare their partner to others (and don’t even realize it)How small moments slowly destroy intimacyIf you’ve ever thought:👉 “I could do better than this…”👉 “Why am I suddenly annoyed by everything they do?”👉 “Why does my relationship feel like roommates?”This episode is for you.💬 COMMENT BELOW:Have you ever realized your partner was trying… but you were too frustrated to see it?📧 Email us: [email protected]👍 Like, Subscribe & Share if you’re ready for real conversations about relationships, sex, and emotional growth.Chapters: 00:00 Intro – “Life is hard…” + chaotic week recap02:15 Tax disaster story (and why adulting is a scam)06:10 Stress, injuries & inappropriate PT humor09:30 Why attraction shifts over time12:05 What is Negative Sentiment Override? (Gottman)15:40 The moment relationships start to decline18:20 Emotional bids – why small moments matter21:10 “I could do better” – the dangerous thought24:00 Comparing your partner to others (real vs fantasy)27:30 Social media & relationship dissatisfaction30:40 Are partners responsible for your happiness?34:20 Can a relationship recover once it turns negative?36:10 The Magic 5 Hours of Connection (how to fix it)42:30 Why couples stop putting in effort45:10 Phones, dating apps & modern disconnection49:00 Positive vs Negative mindset examples54:30 When small annoyances become dealbreakers58:20 The #1 predictor of cheating (this one matters)1:02:00 Are you missing your partner’s effort?1:04:30 Final questions + audience engagement

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    Season 2 Ep 50: The Ick: Why Attraction Suddenly Dies (And You Can’t Get It Back)

    Why do we suddenly lose attraction to someone we liked?In this episode of Hard Things Podcast, we break down the psychology behind the “ick” — that sudden feeling of disgust or loss of attraction that can instantly kill a romantic connection.But first… we start with one of the most wild Reddit revenge stories we’ve ever heard: a man discovers his girlfriend cheated and orchestrates one of the most calculated breakups imaginable.Then we dive into:• The psychology of the “ick” in dating• Why tiny behaviors suddenly destroy attraction• The difference between an ick vs a red flag• How attachment styles shape relationships• Why modern dating culture might be making people too pickyWe also talk about real dating stories, weird turn-offs, and how emotional patterns from childhood show up in adult relationships.If you’ve ever suddenly felt the “ick” about someone you were attracted to… this episode will explain why. Topics CoveredThe science behind the “ick”Evolutionary psychology and mate selectionWhy people suddenly lose attractionAnxious vs avoidant attachment stylesModern dating culture and relationship expectationsBoundaries, trust, and emotional self-awareness📩 Send us your stories or questions:[email protected] & listen:SpotifyApple PodcastsiHeartRadioYouTubeChapters00:00 Intro – Life Is Hard… and So Are Dicks01:10 Angie’s Hand Surgery & The “One Finger Threat”03:20 New Phoenix + Raven Tattoo Story07:10 Episode 50 Celebration08:15 The Wild Reddit Cheating Revenge Story16:40 The Twist: Vasectomy Reveal20:50 The Breakup Fallout & Consequences24:30 Boundaries and Self-Respect in Relationships27:40 What Is “The Ick”?30:15 Weird Things That Give People the Ick35:00 The Psychology Behind the Ick40:00 Evolutionary Psychology & Attraction44:10 Red Flags vs Icks48:30 The Problem With Modern Dating Culture53:10 Attachment Styles Explained58:30 Anxious vs Avoidant Relationship Patterns1:04:10 Childhood Experiences & Attachment1:10:20 Why Relationships Fail (Hard Truths)1:15:00 Final Advice on Dating & Emotional Growth1:17:30 Closing Thoughts

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    Season 2 Ep 49: Why Do People Stay in Bad Relationships? (Why We Keep Giving Them “Another One”)

    Why do people stay in bad relationships even when they know they’re unhappy?And why do we keep giving someone “another one” even after the red flags are obvious? In this episode of the Hard Things Podcast, we break down the real psychology behind why leaving toxic, unhealthy, or emotionally draining relationships can feel so hard. We talk about trauma bonds, attachment styles, fear of being alone, sunk cost fallacy, financial barriers, intermittent reinforcement, and the patterns that keep people emotionally stuck.This conversation covers both the emotional and practical sides of bad relationships, including how people rationalize harmful behavior, why the “good days” keep people hooked, and how to recognize when loyalty turns into self-abandonment.We also get into:trauma bonding and nervous system dysregulationanxious and avoidant attachment dynamicswhy intense relationships can feel like passionfear of loneliness after a breakupwhy people stay because of time investedfinancial dependence and practical barriers to leavingwarning signs of unhealthy relationshipshow to start detaching and building independencewhy healthy love can feel “boring” after chaosIf you’ve ever stayed too long, questioned your own patterns, or wondered why someone you love won’t leave, this episode is for you.Topics in this episode: toxic relationships, attachment theory, trauma bonds, dating psychology, emotional abuse, unhealthy relationship patterns, fear of abandonment, relationship advice, mental health, self-worth, boundaries, breakup psychologyListen, subscribe, and share with someone who needs this conversation.Hard Things PodcastRelationship advice, psychology, intimacy, communication, healing, and all the messy human stuff in between.Chapters 00:00 – Intro: Life Is Hard… and So Are Dicks01:10 – Plato’s Closet vs Play-Doh & Podcast Chaos03:05 – Why People Stay in Bad Relationships06:20 – The “Slot Machine Relationship” (Intermittent Reinforcement)10:45 – Tracking Relationship Patterns Like a Therapist15:10 – Abuse, Apologies, and What Real Change Looks Like20:30 – Why the Good Days Keep People Hooked25:00 – Trauma Bonding Explained30:10 – When Toxic Chaos Gets Mistaken for Passion35:20 – The Sunk Cost Fallacy in Relationships41:00 – Learning From Failed Relationships46:15 – Attachment Styles: Secure, Anxious, Avoidant, Disorganized52:00 – The Anxious vs Avoidant Relationship Cycle56:40 – Fear of Being Alone1:01:10 – Financial & Practical Reasons People Stay1:06:40 – Warning Signs of an Unhealthy Relationship1:10:30 – How to Actually Leave a Bad Relationship1:14:10 – When Loyalty Becomes Self-Abandonment1:16:10 – Why Healthy Relationships Feel “Boring”

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    Season 2 Ep 48: Best Buy Installer Shot His Shot… In My Kitchen 😳 | Dating in Your 40s Is Unhinged

    In this episode of Hard Things Podcast, Angie gets a real-life plot twist: her Best Buy refrigerator installer asks for her number… in her kitchen 😳😂So we unpack it all: boundaries, safety, age gaps, “is he smooth or is this a red flag?”, and the real question—is dating worth disrupting your peace when you’re already 90% happy?We also spiral (respectfully) into:✅ “Princess lifestyle” self-awareness (the audacity of us)✅ why winter car washes actually matter (rust is a menace)✅ ethical dilemma personality tests that make you cry✅ and a very honest rant about Tyra Banks + reality TV exploitationDrop your thoughts in the comments:Would you give the installer your number—yes or no? And what’s your personal “happiness percentage” threshold for risking a relationship?Listen on Spotify / Apple Podcasts: Watch more Hard Things: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLacGseGzpsHidOZvEMCVDxFjMBJQSEs51&si=d4O0w35_Fxz31Lc4Business / Fan Email: [email protected]👍 Like, subscribe, and share if you enjoy chaotic honesty + real talk.Chapters if you wanna skip ahead...00:00 Intro: “Life is hard…” + weekend exhaustion02:10 The “don’t do meth” tiredness rant (we get it but… no)06:20 Refrigerator delivery day + the plug cord problem (little-d*ck cord energy)12:40 The installer asks: “Do you have kids?” “How old are you?” “Are you single?”15:10 “I’m trying to be professional, but can I have your number?” 😳18:40 Reality check: he has your address (meet-cute vs restraining order)21:30 Age gap: he’s 32 / Angie’s almost 44 — does it matter?24:00 Winter car washes + rust horror story (held together by rust alone)30:10 “I might be a princess…” self-awareness spiral38:40 Goodwill / Walmart / bougie confession + perception vs intention48:20 Ethical dilemma personality test: why it hit so hard55:40 Dating after 40: the “% happy” test (is the 10% worth the risk?)1:03:20 Tyra Banks / America’s Next Top Model doc rant1:08:20 Wrap-up + nap time + birthday shoutout

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    Season 2 Ep 47: Dating Advice Gone Wrong: The Comment Section Is Not Your Therapist

    In this episode of Hard Things Podcast, we read a listener's ( @nicolajones2579 ) email that spirals into a conversation about modern dating, attraction standards, and the way men and women completely misunderstand each other online.From unsolicited messages… to viral relationship advice debates… to the harsh reality of how people judge compatibility — we unpack the difference between honesty, cruelty, and communication.We talk about:• Why people send explicit photos in the first place• How internet dating advice goes off the rails• Are people “aiming too high” or just incompatible?• The truth about attraction vs personality• Why criticism feels personal in dating• Standards vs expectations vs negotiation• The role of confidence, success, and appearance• What actually keeps relationships working long-termThis episode isn’t about blaming men or women — it’s about why we keep talking past each other.Chapters00:00 – Intro02:40 – Listener email & unexpected messages12:10 – Why people send photos they shouldn’t20:30 – Internet dating advice gone wrong33:00 – Attraction vs personality debate46:20 – Standards vs expectations58:40 – Why criticism feels like rejection1:08:00 – Communication problems between men & women1:18:30 – What actually makes relationships last1:26:00 – Final thoughts

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    Season 2 Ep 46: Is a Bad First Kiss a Dealbreaker? The Science of Attraction & Chemistry

    In this episode of Hard Things Podcast, we dive into something almost everyone does… but nobody experiences the same way — the kiss.For some people it’s casual and fun.For others it’s deeply intimate and more vulnerable than sex.We break down the psychology, biology, and real-life awkwardness behind kissing:• Why a bad kiss can instantly kill attraction• The biology your brain runs during a first kiss• Why some people refuse to kiss during casual hookups• How pheromones and immune compatibility affect attraction• Whether a person can actually learn to kiss better• Why voice, smell, and sensory chemistry matter more than looksPlus — real stories, uncomfortable moments, and the universal question:Can chemistry exist if the kiss doesn’t?This episode mixes science, relationship talk, and honest experiences about attraction, boundaries, and compatibility.CHAPTERS00:00 – Intro02:15 – Is a bad kiss a dealbreaker?08:20 – Can you teach someone to kiss better?15:40 – When chemistry disappears instantly23:10 – The biology of attraction & immune compatibility31:00 – Why some people don’t kiss during hookups39:30 – Sensory attraction: smell, voice & energy48:00 – First kisses vs first sex memories56:00 – Dating age gaps & attraction psychology1:05:00 – Valentine’s Day & meaningful gestures1:12:00 – Final thoughts

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    Season 2 Ep 47: Dating Advice Gone Wrong: The Comment Section Is Not Your Therapist

    In this episode of Hard Things Podcast, we read a Youtube listener's ( @nicolajones2579 ) email that spirals into a conversation about modern dating, attraction standards, and the way men and women completely misunderstand each other online.From unsolicited messages… to viral relationship advice debates… to the harsh reality of how people judge compatibility — we unpack the difference between honesty, cruelty, and communication.We talk about:• Why people send explicit photos in the first place• How internet dating advice goes off the rails• Are people “aiming too high” or just incompatible?• The truth about attraction vs personality• Why criticism feels personal in dating• Standards vs expectations vs negotiation• The role of confidence, success, and appearance• What actually keeps relationships working long-termThis episode isn’t about blaming men or women — it’s about why we keep talking past each other.Chapters00:00 – Intro02:40 – Listener email & unexpected messages12:10 – Why people send photos they shouldn’t20:30 – Internet dating advice gone wrong33:00 – Attraction vs personality debate46:20 – Standards vs expectations58:40 – Why criticism feels like rejection1:08:00 – Communication problems between men & women1:18:30 – What actually makes relationships last1:26:00 – Final thoughts

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    Season 2 Ep 45: Women Showing Up, Sex Mishaps, and Chaos with a Sense of Humor | Hard Things Podcast

    This episode of Hard Things Podcast is chaotic, funny, and unexpectedly tender.We start with a real-life stress spiral: a car dying in the middle of traffic, kids in the backseat, ice on the road—and strangers who actually show up. What unfolds becomes a bigger conversation about women helping women, emotional labor, and why community matters more than systems that don’t respond fast enough.From there, the conversation moves exactly where real life does:• Exhaustion and nervous system overload• Sex positivity without performance pressure• Piercing mishaps mid-sex (because of course)• Parenting chaos, body autonomy, and boundaries• Why humor is sometimes the only coping skill leftThis episode isn’t about perfection, productivity, or pretending things are fine. It’s about laughing through the mess, owning your boundaries, and surviving the week without losing your mind.🎧 Listen if you enjoy:Unfiltered conversationSex-positive but grounded talkDark humorReal storiesWomen telling the truth⏱️ CHAPTERS00:00 – Intro02:10 – Car dies in traffic & panic sets in07:30 – Strangers step in & community shows up14:00 – Stress, exhaustion & emotional overload20:30 – Consent, sex, and real-life intimacy27:00 – Piercing mishaps & observational fails34:40 – Parenting chaos & bodily autonomy43:00 – Humor as survival49:30 – Wrapping up the week

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    Season 2 Ep 44: Sex Spreadsheets & Valentine’s Day Pressure | Consent, Desire & Real Communication

    Life is hard. Relationships are harder. And sometimes people make Excel spreadsheets about sex instead of having an actual conversation.In Season 2, Episode 44 of the Hard Things Podcast, we dive into:The viral post about a husband tracking sexual rejection (yes… a spreadsheet)Why “no” still means no, even in marriageLibido mismatch, overstimulation, and mental loadWhy transactional affection kills desireValentine’s Day pressure, expectations, and resentmentDating like a job interview vs letting chemistry breatheCommunication, consent, effort gaps, and emotional laborAwkward honesty is better than performative romanceWhy real connection beats flowers, spreadsheets, and AI-written love notesWe’re not man-haters. We’re bullshit-haters.If you’ve ever felt touched-out, pressured, misunderstood, or like intimacy turned into a chore—you’re not broken. And you’re definitely not alone. Hard Things Podcast talks sex, relationships, desire, boundaries, and the messy human stuff—without sugarcoating it. Listen. Laugh. Learn. Stay hard.00:00 – Welcome to Hard Things (Life Is Hard… So Are Dicks)03:10 – The Sex Spreadsheet That Broke the Internet08:45 – Consent, Marriage & Why “No” Still Means No14:20 – Transactional Touch & Libido Killers19:30 – Mental Load, Motherhood & Overstimulation26:10 – Libido Mismatch: Who’s Wrong? (Spoiler: No One)32:40 – Valentine’s Day Pressure & Bad Expectations38:55 – Dating Like a Job Interview vs Real Chemistry45:20 – Communication Without Spreadsheets51:10 – Effort Gaps, Emotional Labor & Desire57:30 – AI Love Notes & Losing Romantic Awkwardness1:03:45 – Real Intimacy is preferred to Performative Romance1:09:30 – Final Thoughts: Say What You Actually Want

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    Season 2 Ep 43: Can CNC Heal Trauma? Shoveling Snow, Sex Therapy & Savage Truths | Hard Things Podcast

    Life is hard... and so are dicks — but like the badass bitches we are, we handle it. In this raw and hilarious episode of Hard Things Podcast, we dive headfirst into everything from snowpocalypse struggles and platform boots to deep conversations about consensual non-consent (CNC), trauma healing, and the psychological power of kink. Plus, you'll get an inside look at our personality test results and the chaos of dating dudes who say “WYD” too much. It’s sex education meets savage commentary, with a heavy dose of real-life snow shoveling rage.Get both your heads right, fam.🔔 Like, comment, subscribe, and share with the real ones. We’re also on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio & Facebook!📧 Contact: [email protected]🧠 Hosted by a real therapist and Co-Hosted by Voice Artist Extraordinaire. Fueled by sarcasm and savage wit.Chapters:0:00 Intro – Life is Hard & So Are Dicks1:52 The Snowpocalypse & Platform Boot Rage5:30 Shoveling Stairs in Dad’s Coat (Send Help)9:01 Houseguests, Book-Inspired Lust & Beating the 10-Minute Mark13:45 Breaking Down CNC & Trauma Recovery19:30 Somatic Healing, Vagus Nerve, and Aftercare Science24:50 Why Submission is a Relief for High Achievers30:10 Red Flags in BDSM & Therapy-Informed Play35:20 Personality Test Results (ENFP vs ESTJ Smackdown)42:00 Therapist Career Rants & Leaderboard Controversy50:15 Dating in the Snow – Perching, Proposals & Personality Clash59:40 Indoor Cats vs. Ski Lodge Dates1:04:20 Final Thoughts – Communication, Freak Matching & Stay Hard

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    S2 Ep 42: More Erotic Audiobook Recs, Bad Hookups & Why Clingy Kills the Mood | Hard Things Podcast

    Life is hard — and so are dicks — but like badass bitches, we can handle it.In this episode of Hard Things Podcast, Angie and Amy spiral (intelligently and hilariously) through erotic audiobooks, toys, libido droughts, bad hookups, stage-five clingers, dating entitlement, and the fine line between confidence and absolute delusion.What starts as a discussion about erotic audiobooks and voice kryptonite turns into a brutally honest breakdown of:What actually gets people in the mood (and what absolutely kills it)Why pressure ruins sex faster than bad techniqueHookup expectations vs realityClingy texting, entitlement, and “you there?” energyIndependence in relationships (inside and outside the bedroom)Why you don’t have to like your partner’s hobbies to support themBeing an indoor house cat in a world full of outdoorsy peopleAustralia: beautiful, terrifying, and not worth the spidersWhy boundaries aren’t mean — they’re necessaryHow grown adults should communicate (hint: not instantly)This episode is raw, funny, reflective, chaotic, and deeply relatable — especially if you value independence, mutual effort, and not being someone’s emotional support human.📩 Send us your stories (anonymous is fine):[email protected]🎧 Available on Spotify, YouTube, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music & iHeartRadio👍 Like • Subscribe • Comment • Share🔞 Content Warning: Adult language, sexual content, dating stories, relationship dynamics, explicit humor.⏱️ CHAPTERS / TIMESTAMPS(Replace times after upload — titles are optimized for scanning & retention)00:00 – Intro: Life is hard & so are dicks03:20 – Why listeners won’t write in (we only bite when asked)07:45 – Erotic audiobooks & voice kryptonite14:30 – Full-cast narration, Lauren Blakely & why it works20:10 – Libido droughts & timing windows27:00 – The hookup that missed the moment34:15 – Pressure, performance & when it all goes sideways41:30 – Toys, effort & “this is not a blowjob-only situation”49:20 – Clingy texting & “you there?” energy57:40 – Independence vs codependency in dating1:06:30 – Hobbies, compatibility & not ruining each other’s joy1:18:00 – Indoor house cats vs outdoorsy humans1:25:10 – Australia is gorgeous but absolutely unhinged1:39:00 – Boundaries are not cruelty1:50:30 – Final thoughts: autonomy, humor & mutual respect

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    Season2 Ep 41: Listener’s Unsolicited Dick Pic Story Proves Men Can’t Measure | Hard Things Podcast

    Life is hard — and so are dicks — but unsolicited ones? Absolutely not.In this episode of Hard Things Podcast, Angie and Amy read a listener-submitted story that spirals into a brutally funny (and painfully accurate) breakdown of modern dating, unsolicited dick pics, terrible communication, workplace red flags, and why men absolutely cannot be trusted with measurements. Or why women can't if we believe the measurements guys give us...We talk about:Unsolicited dick pics at work (HR has entered the chat)Why “Mr. 10 Inches” is usually lyingHow women actually respond to dick pics (spoiler: group chat)Dating app conversations that go nowhere fastFetishization vs attraction (BBW talk done right and wrong)Why “hey” and “wyd” are conversation killersPretty privilege, dating myths, and gender resentment narrativesConfidence, boundaries, and why kindness still mattersWhen clapping back is deserved — and when silence is powerThis episode is unfiltered, hilarious, and validating for anyone navigating dating apps, internet audacity, or just trying to survive being perceived online.📩 Send us your stories:[email protected]🎧 Available on Spotify, YouTube, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music & iHeartRadio👍 Like • Subscribe • Comment • Share🔞 Content Warning: Adult language, sexual topics, dating stories, workplace behavior.⏱️ Chapters / Timestamps(Replace times after upload — titles are optimized for scanning & retention)00:00 – Intro: Life is hard & so are dicks02:10 – Podcast growth, listeners & fan appreciation05:40 – Listener email: unsolicited dick pic at work10:15 – Measuring lies & “Mr. 10 Inches” exposed15:30 – Why women share dick pics in group chats20:45 – Workplace fallout & HR-level chaos26:10 – How men think we’ll react vs reality32:00 – Dating apps, bad openers & communication fails38:30 – Fetishization vs attraction (BBW conversation)45:20 – Confidence, boundaries & manipulation tactics52:10 – Pretty privilege myths & gender resentment takes1:00:30 – Why kindness still matters in dating1:08:00 – Final thoughts, listener shoutouts & wrap-up

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    Season 2 Ep 40: The Dick Pic Dilemma, Freak Matching & WTF Is HAM? | Hard Things Podcast

    Life is hard—and so are dicks. But like badass bitches, we can handle it. 🎤 Welcome to the unfiltered world of the Hard Things Podcast, where real talk, dark humor, and sexual candor collide.In this NSFW episode, Angie and Amy dive deep into:🤯 Being offered a tip (haha) for a glory hole hookup🍆 Dick pics with “consent”?🫣 Freak matching & why it's trending in modern dating🎭 People-pleasing vs. authentic weirdness🚨 Red flags vs. quirks: What’s a dealbreaker?💩 Why going back to your ex is like putting poop back in your butt🧠 Identity crises after breakups🎵 Plus: going HAM = what now?Grab a drink, clutch your pearls, and join us for the chaos.⏱️ Timestamps & Chapters:00:00 - Intro: Life is hard, dicks are harder01:14 - Frog throats & accidental innuendos04:10 - Glory hole economics07:32 - Consent & dick pics12:05 - Why your Tinder pics suck17:20 - Rating dicks (based on what, exactly?)22:40 - Freak Matching 10126:15 - Codependency & “Runaway Bride” syndrome35:50 - Identity crises after divorce42:22 - New boundaries & choosing again51:40 - The turd you don’t put back54:12 - Shitty exes & helping anyway58:33 - Food, prison calls, and buffalo chicken salads1:08:40 - HAM = hard as a what now?!1:12:00 - The power of hating the same thing1:16:50 - Fake freaks vs. real kinks1:25:10 - Freak flags & runaway brides1:30:00 - Closing thoughts, listener challenge, and our usual chaos🎧 Subscribe, rate, and send us your unfiltered confessions:📧 [email protected]📱 TikTok | YouTube Shorts | Facebook Reels | Spotify#StayHard, fam. 💜💦

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    Season 2 Ep 39: Holiday Burnout, Dating Red Flags & Why Adulting Is a Scam | Hard Things Podcast

    Life is hard — and so are d*cks — but adulthood, dating, money, and the holidays might be harder.In this episode of Hard Things Podcast, Angie and Amy spiral (in the best way) through holiday burnout, modern dating frustrations, gift resentment, being single with no kids, time boundaries, money honesty, and why “normal adult life” feels like a scam sometimes.This episode is funny, reflective, unfiltered, and painfully relatable — especially if you’re exhausted, overworked, single, partnered, childfree, neurodivergent, or questioning literally everything during the holidays.We talk about:Working holidays and why random days off don’t helpDating red flags (including unemployed “Jimbos”)Why weekday texts feel suspiciousFeeling weird about gifts, Venmo culture, and thoughtfulnessBeing single with no kids and how that quietly affects money & milestonesNavigating grief, loneliness, and changing family dynamicsSecret Santa chaos (yes… HR-level chaos)Why socks and candles are not personality traitsValuing your time, charging for your labor, and setting boundariesSugar daddy fantasies vs realitySide hustles, selling underwear, and the economics of timeStretch therapy, pain management, and aging bodiesWhy New Year’s growth plans work better than resolutionsFood, Weight Watchers logic, baby steps, and balanceIf you’ve ever thought:“I love my life… but this still kind of sucks sometimes,”this episode is for you.🎧 Hard Things Podcast — sex, relationships, money, work, and mental health without sugarcoating.📩 Send us your stories or hot takes:[email protected] on Spotify, YouTube, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music & iHeartRadio👍 Like • Subscribe • Comment • Share🔞 Content Warning: Adult language, dating, money talk, grief, sexuality, holiday stress.⏱️ CHAPTERS / TIMESTAMPS(Replace timestamps after upload — titles are optimized for scanning)00:00 – Intro: Holidays, burnout & zero chill02:15 – Working Christmas & why random days off suck06:40 – Dating during the workweek & “do you have a job?” energy10:55 – “Jimbos,” dating red flags & housing insecurity jokes15:30 – The brick/elephant/giraffe riddle (brain chaos)20:10 – Being single, podcast hiatus & creativity struggles24:45 – Craftmatic beds, aging bodies & getting creative29:30 – Holiday gifts, Venmo culture & why it hit different this year36:10 – Being childfree & explaining Santa to nieces42:20 – The single/no-kids “gift economy” reality50:15 – Weddings, showers, milestones & unequal expectations57:30 – Secret Santa chaos (Diet Coke + flick-a-dick incident)1:05:40 – Minimalists vs gift people & buying smarter1:11:50 – Stretch therapy, pain relief & productivity1:20:10 – Time boundaries, inconvenience fees & charging for labor1:30:00 – Sugar daddies, side hustles & pricing your time1:40:25 – Selling underwear, effort vs time & weird economics1:52:00 – New Year’s growth plans (not resolutions)2:00:15 – Food, Weight Watchers logic & baby-step balance2:12:40 – Final thoughts, rest, naps & self-care

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    Season 2 Ep 38:No Means No—Even in Relationships -Even for Men, Sex & Dating Double Standards

    Life is hard—and so are d*cks—but consent is never automatic.In this episode of Hard Things Podcast, Angie and Amy dig into one of the most misunderstood and uncomfortable truths about sex and relationships: consent, power, and double standards—especially inside dating, long-term relationships, and marriage.We cover:Why “no” still means no, even in committed relationshipsThe history of marital consent (and how disturbing it actually is)How cultural conditioning teaches men to push and women to appeaseWhy rejection triggers entitlement, anger, and coercion for some peopleHow women are punished for saying no—and punished for saying yesWhy men’s consent is often minimized or ignored ( AND IT SHOULDNT BE)The difference between communication vs. pressureReal-world dating stories that show how fast “nice” can turn hostileWe also unpack:Dating app entitlementWhy you don’t owe anyone sex, time, explanations, or politenessHow to respond when someone doesn’t respect your boundariesWhy rejection isn’t a character flaw—and why not everyone is your personThis episode blends research, therapy insight, history, and raw real-life conversations to dismantle outdated sexual scripts and call out behavior that needs to end.🎧 Hard Things Podcast is where sex, relationships, psychology, and power get real.📩 Send your stories or questions:[email protected]📍 Available on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, YouTube, iHeartRadio & more👍 Like • Subscribe • Share • Comment🔞 Content Warning: Adult language, sexual consent, dating behavior, relationship dynamics, power imbalances.

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    Season 2 Ep 37: SEXLESS WINTER: Holiday Stress Kills Libido! 🤯 (Cortisol, Sleep, & Socks!)

    Angie & Amy dive into the "Hard Thing" that is the Sexless Winter phenomenon. The holidays are here: the lights are twinkling, the cookies are baking, and your libido is currently wearing an eye mask and hiding under the covers. Why does this happen every year?It's not you, it's science! We break down the biological reasons your desire is MIA and offer realistic, funny solutions to save your relationship (and your sanity) this December.In this episode, we discuss the Hard Things:[0:00] Intro: The Stress is Real & Your Libido is Hiding[3:21] The Science of Sexless Winter: The Cortisol Crisis & Why Your Body Cancels the Appointment with Pleasureville[6:45] Sleep Deprivation Dip: You’re Too Tired for a Quickie (and that’s normal!)[9:02] The Audacity of Dudes: Angie's Hilarious and Disrespectful Snapchat Encounter 🤬[14:10] The "Good Luck Chuck" Curse: When Your Exes Find Forever After One Bite[19:55] Body Dissatisfaction Spike: Why the Holiday Puffiness is a Wet Blanket for Desire[22:05] The Hard Conversation: Surviving the Logistically Impossible Quickie with Family Nearby[25:30] Why Scheduled Sex is HOT: Debunking the Monotony Myth & Building Desire[29:45] Dick Pic Etiquette & The Toilet Seat Rule: Grooming, Consent, and Why You Need to Ask First[33:15] Challenge #1: The Knee-High Orgasm Challenge (Bob Ross Socks Stay ON!)[35:40] Challenge #2: The 5-Minute No-Goal Touch & The Erotic Text Bomb[38:11] The Big Takeaway: Sex is the Stress Therapy You're Skipping[40:15] Happy Chrismukkah Quanza! (Outro & Where to Find Us)Try the challenges, send us your stories, and remember: The holidays are about connection. It can be as simple as holding hands!💌 Send us your stories & questions:[email protected]🎧 Listen & follow Hard Things Podcast on:Spotify • Apple Podcasts • YouTube • TikTok • Facebook • iHeartRadioIf your sex life is on ice this winter, you are not broken. You’re tired.Stick around and we’ll help with both.🔞 Content warning: Adult language, sex, libido, holiday stress, NSFW themes.

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    Season 2 Ep 36: He Had Sex to This Song for 2 Years 😳 | Reddit’s Wildest Sex & Relationship Fails

    Life is hard… and so are d*cks — but like badass bitches, we can handle it. 💅In this episode of Hard Things Podcast, Angela and Amy spiral into some of Reddit’s WILDEST sex and relationship stories, including:The guy who practiced thrusting to one specific song and used it for every hookup (yes, it’s CBAT 👀)A boyfriend who discovers his girlfriend’s entire cheating saga… and breaks up with her via Reddit“Worst sex ever” confessions featuring:Walmart parking lot chaosPeppa Pig as sex soundtrack (WHY.)Farts, bad angles, tiny d*ck insecurity, accidental pee, and full-body ickA surprisingly wholesome update: therapy, pottery, boxing, and choosing yourself after betrayalWe also chat about:Why accountability (Weight Watchers-style) actually helps with weight lossWhy music during sex is less important than music that gets you in the moodHow partners avoid talking about what actually works in bed—and why that kills your sex life💌 Got a wild story or question?Email us: [email protected]📲 Listen & follow Hard Things Podcast on:SpotifyApple PodcastsYouTubeTikTokiHeartRadio & moreIf you laughed, cringed, or said “oh NO” even once…👉 Like, subscribe, share, and drop your own “worst sex ever” story in the comments.(We might read it on a future episode 👀)🔞 Content warning: Adult language, sex, cheating, Reddit drama, and way too many details about terrible hookups.

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    Season 2 Ep 35: “Squirting Isn’t Pee” & Other Wild Sex Myths | Hilarious NSFW Podcast Confessions

    Life is hard—and so are dicks. But like badass bitches, we can handle it.In this raw, hilarious, and unexpectedly educational episode of the Hard Things Podcast, we dive into a wild mix of:🔍 Cookie cravings and grocery store delusions🍑 The difference between a fuckboy and a fuckMAN🧠 The science behind squirting (it’s not pee—don’t be dumb)😤 Why people ghost instead of using their words🍆 Spicy anatomy truths: clits have legs, cervical orgasms are real, and your Kegels matter💦 A breakdown of female ejaculation, pelvic floor tips, and why communication is the real aphrodisiac💅 Frugal gel manicures, family holiday chaos, and toe-sucking confessionsUnfiltered, unedited, unapologetic.📌 CHAPTERS00:00 – Cold Open: Life Is Hard (and So Are Dicks)01:12 – The Case of the Missing Smoked Sausage04:50 – Cookie Meltdowns & Shortbread Fails07:55 – OG Co-Host Tiffany Drops Wisdom10:40 – Fuckboys vs. FuckMEN: Yes, There’s a Difference15:10 – Living Apart Together: Relationships with Boundaries19:32 – Ghosting, Emotional Maturity, and Why Grownups Should Text Back23:45 – Squirting Deep Dive: Science, Shame & Female Anatomy31:25 – Kegels, G-Spots, and The Wishbone-Shaped Clit38:00 – Horny Ghosts, Cervical Orgasms, and the A-Spot43:50 – Pig Orgasms and Bacon Joy: A Tangent47:15 – Foot Fetishes, Personal Kinks & Spicy Boundaries52:05 – Family, Holidays, and Home Manicures58:30 – Therapist Rants, Time Management, and Final Cookie Thoughts🎙 ABOUT THE PODCASTWelcome to Hard Things—where therapy meets thirst trap. Hosted by Angie (therapist, ex-pro girl, chaos manager) and Amy (hot mess with great timing), this audio-only podcast dives deep into the messy parts of sex, love, and being human—always with humor, heart, and a dash of filth.🔞 100% NSFW. 1000% real.🔗 FOLLOW & CONNECT📍 Listen: Spotify | Apple | YouTube📧 Email: [email protected]📸 Follow: TikTok | IG | Facebook @HardThingsPodcast

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    Season 2 Ep 34: Cold Showers, Broken Roofs, & Grown-Ass Meltdowns: Adulting Is a Scam | Hard Things

    Life is hard… and so are d*cks—but so are water heaters when they stop working. 😤 In this brutally honest, laugh-out-loud episode of Hard Things Podcast, we unpack the not-so-sexy side of adulting: broken plumbing, $21K roof quotes, cold ass showers, family drama, sibling disagreements over "useful" education, and the emotional toll of just trying to keep your head above water.Angie and Amy dig into:Cold showers & creative hygiene hacks 💦The real cost of being a grown-ass woman in 2025Inheritance guilt & emotional landmines 💰💥Adult loneliness, friendship shifts, and making new communityWhy millennials are DONE with the old ways—and ready to rage against late-stage capitalism 🔥Hilarious commentary on roof repairs, customer service rage, and the eternal desire for adult summer camp 🍃🛶Whether you’re hanging on by a thread, stress-laughing in your car, or rage-cleaning your kitchen—this one’s for you.📩 Want to vent with us? Email: [email protected]📲 Follow us on TikTok, YouTube, and Facebook @HardThingsPodcast🎙️ Listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts & wherever you get your fix⭐ Support the pod: send us stars or share with your fellow stressed-out friendsStay hard. We got you.

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    Season 2 Ep 33: “FWB or ‘Just a Hole’? Dating App Myths, Coffee-Date Flakes & Other Red Flags”

    It’s hard out here for a pimp — or anyone trying to date with standards. Angie and Amy break down why “friends with benefits” often forgets the friend part, swap stories about ghosting, coffee-date flops, and the stretch-table straps that sparked a thousand jokes.They also dive into audiobook narration icks, “The Materialists” movie, Lexi Blake & Nora Roberts obsessions, and a wild take on the new divorce reform debate. Funny, honest, and a little unfiltered—because life is hard, but we can handle it.🎧 Email your red-flag stories: [email protected]💋 Stay Hard

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    He Said “Get a Dog” 😳 Poly Dating, Kink & Wild Red Flags | Hard Things Podcast

    We dove into a polyamory & kink FB group…and a 29-year-old’s DMs went off the rails fast. From “move to Missouri” in 5 texts to “get a dog” instead of companionship, we unpack dating red flags, double standards (MMF vs FFM), consent, perimenopause + kids, and what real communication looks like in open relationships.If you’ve navigated poly dating, kink 101, or just modern app chaos—this one’s for you.In this episodePolyamory basics: roles, boundaries, and consentKink & communication (no, “sweetheart” isn’t a strategy)MMF vs FFM dynamics—why the double standard?Red flags in DMs: negging, flip-flops, and pressure tacticsPerimenopause, fertility, and setting non-negotiablesWhy clarity > vibes when you’re building a roster or a relationship💬 Tell us your hottest take on poly dating etiquette.📩 Listener stories: [email protected]👍 Like, subscribe, & share if this made you laugh (or rage).🔔 New episodes weekly — stay hard.#Polyamory #Kink #OpenRelationships #DatingRedFlags #Consent #Communication #SexEd #Relationships #ComedyPodcast #HardThingsPodcast

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    Season 2 Ep 31 : Do Foods Change Body-Fluid Taste? Foreplay Myths & a Rye Bread Attempt | Sonya Maya Shoutout

    We kick off with a first-time rye bread adventure (proofing wins, crumb lessons learned) and slide into a no-blush sex-ed chat: does diet actually change the taste of body fluids? We break down hydration, fruit myths, sulfur foods, and hygiene basics. Then we tackle foreplay misconceptions, communication vs. performance, premature finish anxiety, a wild Reddit “cheater rules” story, and whether some folks might actually be asexual (and what to do if sex feels icky or humiliating).Plus: a quick shout to Sonya Maya (love her content!), why voice memos > 47 short texts, and the eternal PSA: lift, wash, rinse, repeat.Tell us your take in the comments, or email: [email protected]“Stay hard.” 💋Chapters:0:00 Cold open & bread fail → lessons5:40 Diet & body-fluid taste (what helps/hurts)16:30 Hygiene > perfume (always)20:45 Foreplay myths (it’s not just oral)28:00 Premature finish: biology & better options37:15 Asexuality? When sex feels gross/ humiliating45:50 Reddit story: “I stayed after cheating… with rules”57:20 Communication that actually works1:05:00 Sonya Maya shoutout + wrap#SexEd #Relationships #Foreplay #Consent #Hygiene #Baking #RyeBread #Podcast #SonyaMaya

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    Season 2 Ep 30: Sex Work: Legalize It? Pros, Cons, & Real Talk (+ “Hold My C*ck” Party Drink)

    Amy’s under the weather, Angie’s got a fresh trigger-thumb surgery, and the group chat is CHAOTIC: we swap hilarious game-night stories (Go Fck Yourself, Puns of Anarchy, New Phone Who Dis?, Ransom Note), share our dangerously delicious “Hold My Cck” cocktail, then dive into the big one—should sex work be legalized or decriminalized?We cover safety, consent, STI testing, GFE, screening, licensed companions (Vegas/Amsterdam vibes), economics, relationship dynamics (from “outsourcing” hard limits to menopause & desire changes), polyamory mindset, and why stigma makes everything worse. Sound off in the comments: would you ever pay for sex, be a sex worker, or support legalization?👉 Like, comment, subscribe, and email us: [email protected]“Stay hard.” 💋Chapters (optional):0:00 Cold open & housekeeping1:10 The “Hold My C*ck” cocktail (recipe rundown)4:05 Spicy game night highlights9:30 Trigger-thumb surgery update12:40 Snapchat creeps & boundaries16:45 Should sex work be legal/decriminalized?38:10 Safety, screening, testing, consent58:20 Relationships, outsourcing hard limits, GFE1:14:00 Your takes + sign-off#SexWork #Legalization #BDSM #Consent #Relationships #Podcast #Comedy #AdultHumor

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    Season 2 Ep 29: Reddit AITA—Fiancé in Viral Doc; Receipts, Sex-Work Discourse, Consent, & Tech Detox

    Life is hard—stay hard.In this episode we dig into a wild Reddit AITA story tied to the viral “A 1000 Men & Me” documentary (on Channel 4), the fallout from group-chat receipts, and the bigger convo about consent, communication, and sex-work discourse. We also nerd out on the Universe-25 “mouse utopia” study and why a mini tech Sabbath might save your sanity. (Raspy-voice edition, but we showed up anyway. 😅)In this episode:AITA breakdown: Should you tell a pregnant friend if you recognize her fiancé in a viral spicy doc?Open vs. monogamy: expectations, boundaries, and consent IRLGroup-chat receipts: digital safety, doxxing risks, and naming contacts smartlySex-work & virality: platforms, rules, and the economics behind a headlineUniverse-25, attention spans, and a practical “no-screens” reset18+ content note: Adult themes and explicit language. This is opinionated commentary, not advice. Practice informed consent and aftercare.Join us:Discord: Hard Things Podcast (look for our logo)Email: [email protected]: YouTube • Spotify • Apple • iHeart • AmazonIf this made you think (or cackle), like, subscribe, and drop your AITA verdict below. 💬 #HardThingsPodcast #AITA #RedditStories #ViralDocumentary #OnlyFans #RelationshipAdvice #ConsentMatters #StayHard

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    Season 2 Ep 28: CNC Roleplay, the “Flintts Mints” Hack & Why-Choose Romance | Hard Things Podcast

    Programming note: This episode was recorded out of sync and we’re dropping it as a bonus filler because we have some Hard Things going on so bear with us while we prep the next mainline ep. It’s raw, spicy, and very us.In this episode:Consensual Non-Consent (CNC) roleplay done safely (trust, scripts, aftercare)The viral “Flint Mint” saliva hack that leveled up someone’s oral game (plus beginner tips)Body-hair debates, grooming preferences, and boundary settingApp dating safety: dealing with creeps, contact-name hygiene, and “Are we dating the same guy?” sitesSpicy reads: “why-choose”/reverse-harem romance & audiobooks we can’t stop talking about⚠️ Content warnings: Adult themes, explicit language, kink discussion (CNC), dating-safety stories. 18+ only. Always practice informed consent (SSC/RACK), discuss boundaries, and prioritize aftercare.Join the conversation:Discord: “Hard Things Podcast” (look for our logo)Facebook: @HardThingsPodcast – come comment on the cartoon avatars post!Email: see contact in our channel bioListen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, iHeart, YouTube, & moreIf you laughed, learned, or got a new idea—like, subscribe, and drop a comment with your hottest why-choose recs. 💦

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    Season 2 Ep 27: Threesome Fails, Beard Guys & The Hookup Lottery 🎲 (NSFW Chaos!)

    Life is hard… and sometimes horny hard. This week’s Hard Things Podcast is an absolute ride. 🚀Inside this episode:Threesome gone wrong: babysitters, beard guys, and flaky dudes ruining the fantasyWhy women get blue balls too — and why it’s just as frustratingThe “hookup lottery” experiment 🎲 (Hunger Games edition: may the odds be ever in your favor)Why groups of women at work can turn into “king of the hill” drama 👑A Reddit rabbit hole: What makes sex the BEST ever for men?The truth about faking confidence vs faking orgasms (don’t do the second one)Toy tales, edging confessions, squirting stories 💦 and almost going deaf from pleasureSexy voices, dirty talk, and why men lose their minds when women flip the script 🔥A live “phone sex voice” performance that might just break the internet👉 Plus, we’re starting a Discord for live hangouts, Q&As, and more unfiltered chaos.🎧 Listen everywhere: Spotify, Apple, iHeart, YouTube

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    Season 2 Ep 26: Adult Friend Finder, Missed Hookups & Women’s Wildest Fantasies

    Life is hard… and so are d***s. But your favorite chaotic duo is back with one of the wildest Hard Things Podcast episodes yet. 💀This week, we cover:Accidental cam girl “market research” on Adult Friend Finder (spoiler: topless + typing = $$$)The most awkward hookup ever (feat. a hot dog bun analogy you’ll never unhear 🌭😭)Why communication matters more than excuses when you ghost last-minuteA deep dive into a book of women’s sexual fantasies (and Gloria’s outrageous “Market of Men” story)Our own secret fantasies (DP fears, mechanic smells, tattoo thigh obsessions 👀)The “dark side of TikTok” and why gray sweatpants content is apparently researchWhy lube is your bestie, why “you’re so wet” is usually a lie, and how to talk honestly in bed✨ Spoiler: this episode is equal parts NSFW chaos, feminist real-talk, and way too many cereal & Dr. Seuss jokes.👉 Tell us: what’s YOUR secret fantasy (anonymous if you want)? We might read it in a future “storytime.”

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    Season 2 Ep 25: From Shibari to “Wait… What?!” — The Taboo Kink Game (No Shame, Just Real Talk)

    Life is life-ing HARD and we’re recording at the latest hour ever… so naturally we ended up with cop cars, SWAT trucks, and a zero-filter convo about the kinks people are scared to say out loud. 🙃Today we play the Taboo Kink Game: we toss out terms (from rope art to food play to “uh… please Google that carefully”) and say if it’s a yes, a no, or a “with precautions.” Then we get practical with green flags, red flags, safety tools, and consent—because curiosity ≠ consent, and fantasy ≠ obligation.What’s inside:Neighborhood drama (12 cruisers + SWAT?!), neighborly nosiness, and accidental community watch 🕵️‍♀️The kink lightning round: shibari/rope art, food mess play, tickling, primal chase, and moreWhy experience, aftercare, and safe words matter (and when a “no” from a Dom is healthy)“Don’t yuck someone’s yum” vs. “this is unsafe for me” — how to talk about limits without shameOur funniest late-night giggle spiral (cereal rankings included 🥣)Content note: Adult themes, frank discussion of sexuality. We don’t endorse unsafe/illegal activity. Always practice informed consent, risk awareness, and harm reduction.Join the convo:What’s a kink/topic you’re curious about but rarely hear discussed? Drop it (anonymously if you want) and we’ll add it to a future round.

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    Season 2 Ep 24: Life Hacks, Laughs, and Erotic Escapades 🎧 | Hard Things Podcast

    🗣️ Kick off your shoes and dive into some spicy and hilarious conversations! On this episode of the 'Hard Things Podcast,' we explore the wild world of erotic literature, sexy voices, and relationship advice you didn't know you needed. Angie and her Amy talk about everything from cringe-worthy morning songs to using assets to get ahead at work. Get ready to laugh out loud, learn about the importance of communication in relationships, and maybe even discover why women and men desire differently. Don't miss out on the playful banter, real-life stories, and some surprisingly deep insights into what makes us tick. Tune in and stay hard! 💪😈

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    Season 2 Ep 23: 🔥 Erotic Confessions, Saucy Scenarios, & Amy's BDSM Checklists | Part 1

    Welcome to a no-holds-barred episode of the Hard Things Podcast! Get ready for some raw, unfiltered stories and rants as we delve into erotic literature, relationship advice, and naughty toys. Our host vents about recent experiences with online dating frustrations, from sudden wife interruptions to inappropriate DMs, and aptly discusses the importance of respect and communication in sexual relationships. Stick around as we dive deep into a BDSM checklist discussion, touching on voyeurism, exhibitionism, forced nudity, triple penetration, and more! Don't miss out on the juicy confessions and candid chat that's sure to leave you wanting more. Remember to like, subscribe, and hit the bell for more spicy content! Stay hard! 🔥

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    Season 2 Ep 22: 🔥 Spicy Pickup Lines Showdown: Comedy, Sass & Naughtiest Pickup Lines Ever! 🔥

    Join us for a hilarious and bold dive into the world of pickup lines, where no line is too cheesy and no response too savage! We're here to spice up your day with some of the best, worst, and downright naughty pickup lines you've ever heard! Plus, we delve into outrageous sexual humor, personal anecdotes, and tantalizing ideas for your own flirtatious adventures. Perfect for a laugh, some inspiration, or just pure entertainment. Stay tuned for the raw, unfiltered banter and much more! Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share! Stay hard!

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    Season 2 Ep 21: Let's Talk About Casual Encounters, Scrotal Ladders, and Erotic Piercings!

    Good afternoon, good evening, and good night! Get ready for an unabashedly candid and hilarious episode where Amy, Zack, and Angie cover it all—from wild conversations about erotic piercings, scrotal ladders, and personal stories of sexual exploration, to an unfiltered discussion on the emotional cost of casual sex and societal perceptions of gendered intimacy. Does casual sex have an emotional cost? Are women really more likely to catch feelings? Why do men get praised for sleeping around while women are shamed? Dive in for some raw, unscripted fun and maybe learn a thing or two about the wild world of human sexuality!

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    S2 Ep 20: Intimate Confessions: Regrets, Desires, & Open Relationships Unfiltered Relationship Talk

    Join us in this sizzling episode as we delve into everything from relationship regrets and hookup dynamics to the tantalizing world of open relationships. With candid discussions about personal arousal, unspoken desires, and the controversial crazy hot matrix, our hosts and special guest Zack bring raw, unfiltered perspectives to the table. Plus, juicy tales of personal experiences that will leave you hooked. Don't miss out on these steamy revelations! Subscribe, comment, and share your thoughts!  @ShtsNGigsPodcast ​

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    Season 2 Ep 19 Wild Confessions & Piercings 💉✨ - Our Ratchet Weekend Unveiled! 😱

    Why are we late from last week, or are we early for this week? Amy's visit turned into an unforgettable adventure! From hilarious confessions about nipple piercings to steamy conversations and the complexities of love and freedom, we've got it all. Join us as we dive into the wild tales of our weekend, share funny anecdotes, discuss the societal pressures surrounding relationships, and challenge the norms. Don't miss the juicy details and the laughs along the way. Engage, comment, and subscribe for more ratchet fun and deep discussions!

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    Season 2 Ep 18: Spicy decisions, Hot Debates: F*ck Marry K*ll Challenges & More!

    Join us for a wild ride as we dive into hilarious and spicy conversations about FMK (F*ck, Marry, Kill) choices, unexpected confessions, and banter about sex, superheroes, and everything in between! From Deadpool versus Loki debates to the surprising antics of Guardians of the Galaxy, get ready for an hour of unfiltered and comedic chat. Plus, a surprising take on who would get down with Superman and marry Captain America! Don't miss out on this steamy and fun episode. Like, subscribe, and share with your friends for more juicy content! 😈💥

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    Season 2 Ep 17: Hilarious NSFW Hard Talks: Navigating Adulting, Erotica, & Unexpected Adventure-

    Get ready for unfiltered laughs and spicy confessions on the Hard Things Podcast! We dive deep into wild tales of adulting woes, shocking nineties music discoveries, and unexpected pole dance dreams. From unexpected musical encounters like 'Smell Yo Dick' by Risque to hot takes on fitness and sex scenes with your favorite celebs, this episode is packed with jaw-dropping moments. Don't miss out on our candid talk about erotic fitness trends, Shakespearean influences on modern films, and much more. Plug in your headphones, hit that like button, and subscribe for a dose of fun, laughter, and hardcore realness!

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    Season 2 Ep 16: Misheard Lyrics, Erotic Tales, and Staff Fantasies - Stay Hard!

    Join us for a hilarious and spicy episode where we tackle everything from misheard song lyrics to wild stories involving fans and intimate encounters. From crazy marketplace interactions to the fantasy of having a full-time staff to cater to every need, this episode is filled with laughter and candid moments. Don't miss our takes on dating mishaps, accidental sexy time successes, and wild speculations about life with an all-inclusive domestic staff. Get ready to laugh out loud and share in the silly escapades - and remember, stay hard!  @StirlingCooper ​

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    Season 2 ep 15: Kinks, Connections & Glory Holes: Unveiling Sexual Attachment Styles

    Dive into this spicy podcast episode featuring an exciting discussion on adult relationships, attachment theories, and the world of BDSM! Our hosts explore the psychological foundations of attachment styles and how they impact adult intimacy and sexual preferences. From the eagerly anticipated 'Spaceballs 2' to enlightening insights into subspace and domspace, this episode covers it all. Plus, don't miss the debut of a custom-made glory hole...Angie talks about using  @flinttsmints  —stay tuned for seductive secrets and intriguing psychological revelations!

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    Season 2 Ep 14: Kinky Confessions & Brain Fetishes: What Turns You On? 🧠🔥 | Hard Things Podcast

    Dive into an uncensored discussion with the hosts of Hard Things Podcast as they explore the tangled web of kinks, fetishes, and how our brains play a crucial role in our sexual desires. This week, the hosts tackle listener engagement, recount an eye-opening personal dream, and delve deep into the fascinating world of sex and neurobiology. What triggers arousal? How do early experiences shape our preferences? And why does a spanking or whispering have such an impact? Tune in for a wild ride full of surprising confessions, insightful information, and plenty of laughs. Don't miss out on this spicy and educational episode!  @bullsweetfitness5065 ​

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    Season 2 Ep 13: Explosive Episode: Navigating Toxic Podcasts, Juicy Confessions & NSFW Mishaps!

    Dive into an unfiltered conversation where Angie and Amy recount a surprise guest appearance on a controversial podcast and reflect on the wild, unexpected turns of the show. From navigating toxic conversations to sharing hilarious and sometimes shocking experiences—like the perils of being caught in the act and discussing the diversity of intimate anatomy—this episode is packed with raw honesty and humor. As our hosts explore everything from relationship dynamics to the complexities of toys and preferences, this is one spicy episode you do not want to miss!

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    Season 2 Ep 12: Daring Fantasies & Honest Confessions: A Provocative Deep Dive

    In this episode, Angie , Amy and Guest JR, dive into saucy discussions and personal revelations. They explore topics such as Amy's OnlyFans success stories, the dynamics of relationship communication, provocative fantasies, and preferences in intimate experiences. Engaging and spontaneous, they tackle questions on their dirtiest fantasies, preference for different sexual scenarios, and what they would choose to keep or give up between various intimate activities. Don't miss out on this candid and entertaining brainstorming session around sexuality and desire. Tune into the new soon for extra content (Sexy Novella Storytime in Duet form with Amy and JR like the old radio show plays)

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    Season 2 Ep 11 Diving Deep into Kinks & Would You Rather: A Hilariously Candid Conversation

    Join Angie, Amy, and special guest JR, for an unfiltered and amusing episode as we dive into all things kinky, from DIY dungeon projects to hilarious 'Would You Rather' games that leave no stone unturned. We are discussing experiences with BDSM, awkward encounters, fantasies, and the nitty-gritty details in both hilarious and insightful ways. Tune in for laugh-out-loud moments and compelling conversations about sex, relationships, and more!..

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    Season 2 Ep 10: Angie and Amy .chat with a fan and learn some

    Angie and Amy have a guest who loves the show and shares a secret story... straight from his texts. The girls also discuss how fun Amy's new OF is gonna be. Check it out here: https://onlyfans.com/its_mimi_luv They also talk about their Wish Lists, and how they can showcase any presents they receive on the show.... Links here and in Bio Angie's Wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/registries/gl/guest-view/3S8XAH8UCA74UAmy's Wishlist : https://www.amazon.com/registries/gl/guest-view/2MH8Q0XANIFGP

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    Season 2 Ep 9: How do you feel about a rub and tug?

    Join the girls as they discuss rub and tugs, happy endings and their prevalence in today's society. Also Angie brings up "pretty privilege" and the girls decide nice guys don't finish last and the girls recommend that people don't need to be a dick, just go bounce on each other.  @TheClientList   @JessAfterDark   @BunnyRanchBrothel ​

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    Season 2 Ep 8: Sexy Voices Dad Bods and FAFO

    Angie and Amy talk about being cougars, Angie being shallower than a teaspoon and Amy's sexy voice and how she would clean up having a voiceover on OF.. Angie also tries to convince Amy to get her nipples pierced. Angie tells Amy about  @bullsweetfitness5065  analogy about Marathons and how she needs someone that can run more than a 5 minute mile.

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ABOUT THIS SHOW

Everyone knows there are endless taboo and off-limits topics that we just don't talk about as adults, but we sometimes need insight on. Join Angie and Ellie each week as they explore the hard things we all avoid in our relationships - and the good, bad, and risqué about each one.

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