I Am Hole

This week we are discussing the painful reality that has been overt in our community. I have my dear friend discuss her personal and professional perspective about what has been occurring. She also shares comfort and articulates what can be helpful to the AAPI community and those who love and support us. Thank you for joining as this is only the beginning of these difficult but necessary conversations.  I am hole does not own or promote anything for profit~ It simply lists for education and empowerment services.  See below some of the references noted in this podcast: https://www.routledge.com/Asian-Art-Therapists-Navigating-Art-Diversity-and-Culture/Kitazawa/p/book/9780367625481?fbclid=IwAR1q1_O9LLHUccUCrtJlZroHaFDu9dipSQfxxa5L-EJHB9js4KyHR7rLyNU https://a24films.com/films/minari https://www.pbs.org/show/asian-americans/

This week I am back! ya'll! I've been sick and sort of down. We all get that way and it's okay to stop, think and take care. I want to produce quality content and promise to do my best whenever I upload these episodes. This week I am joined by none other than my BEST FRIEND IN THE WHOLE WORLD!!!!! She is the strongest, loveliest, and most treasured friend ~~ She knows all about my ins and outs and she still accepts me~ And she also claims I am her bestie too! This week meet CARRIE!!!!

This week I am joined by None other than Annie! I knew Annie for over ten years now and she is just as sweet as ever~ sometimes Annie is so hilariously funny I feel it needs to be seen and heard more often~ Annie shares her insight, dreams and some advice on this weeks I am whole episode ❤️

This week I am joined by my first MENTAL HEALTH COUNSELOR! Melody is such a sweet guest and very open about her identity, experiences, feelings and road to happiness. I spent 3 years with her in grad school but did not know about some intimate parts of her life. She shares how she gathers strength, courage, support and while also helping others. I am so glad to hear that she is still in the work and giving me some insight on how we can move forward in helping others! In addition, Melody gives some tidbits on how we can cope, manage stress anxiety during COVID with some practical and fun ideas! I am so grateful to have her and she was HILARIOUS during our game session~ Melody does not hold back! This episode is rated PG-13 for some content that may not be suitable for everyone On the other end it is rated B for BESTTTTTTT woot woot!!!

This next guest enjoyed listening to the podcast so much that I invited her to come on the episode! We sat down to reconnect, laugh, pray and enjoy each other's company. She shares about her new job during COVID-19, being creative as well as just doing the damn best she can! Also, personally she is in a new season and she shares wisdom as an upcoming bride! This girl has so many stories, pointers, as well as snippets from the past, present and future! If you miss it you ain't it! Enjoy! Here's Joyce! 

I remember seeing Cosplayers walking through Penn station in New York and being in awe of their joy and outfits. Cloud is our fabulous guest this week! She is dressed head to toe in an outfit she made as well as its accessories. Cloud shares some stories about what to expect in the cosplay community and also some things that I did not expect to hear. Cloud shares how cosplay is more than dressing up. It is an empowering tool to learn more about oneself, be confident and have a supportive crowd. This is such a fun episode and I learned lots!

This week my dear old friend Phil stops by! Phil is the epitome of not seeing something for only face value. Phil is deep, thoughtful and has come a long way.  Phil is here to discuss life lessons, burden of being firstborn male, and how he came upon his life values. It was such a blast from the past and I really enjoyed catching up with a childhood friend.

This week I am joined by the beautiful and talented Lucy! Lucy is the creator of and host of her own Youtube Vlog: Lucy TV: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nQNipyWBy3U&feature=youtu.be Lucy gets real about her past relationships and gives out some advice on how to spot red flags!  Lucy shares about some of her passions and how she got to where she is now! This episode discusses the beauty of being a young woman and all the beauty of it! This episode is rated R: for some language, content, trigger warnings, abuse, sex, racism, etc.  Sit back and enjoy!~ 

This week I am joined by one of my longest and dearest friends! She has seen me through my weak, vulnerable and awkward phase. She does NOT hold back and I had to hold myself from laughing on the floor because she brought it!  I am so honored to have her join me as we dive into our past, present and hilarious potential future. This podcast is rated R for language, violence, adult material, suicide, sex, and adult rated content~ 

I knew Simon. I liked Simon as a friend. But we didn't have much more. Until one day, we decided to talk. Really talk. I think we both were surprised by the result of that special day but I am very grateful for it. It reminds me to be aware of those around me and to be brave and say "Hi".  Take a listen at how far we've come and a little inspiration to those who want to make new friends during this crazy time.

In today's podcast we have David stop by and share some of his thoughts! I've known David for about 10 years and it hasn't always been an easy ride. Listen as we now gather to talk about our mishaps, communication and present.  Enjoy! 

If you didn't know it is mental health awareness month! My dear friend Dasle joins me this week to speak about how she applies mental health in her every day life. She also happened to have gotten married during the global health pandemic and explains why it was still a wonderful day!  I don't know anyone who is as intentional with their life as my dear friend Dasle Kim. Whether she is approaching her work, personal life or her faith she is always bringing her all! Through her she reminded me to how to enjoy culture, nature, and have a spirit of adventure!  My only regret is not being able to hit the dance floor with her!  However, patience is a virtue! It's an endearing time ya'll! Enjoy! 

Ready for a roller coaster?!? This week we have my dear friend Boris~ We had a moment to have a conversation full of substance, realization and understanding. We find out a little more about each other, faith, our hopes, our goals, and why our friendship has lasted!

This week I am joined by my dear coworker and friend Katherine! Professional relationships do not always end up becoming friendships so I am so glad to have made a genuine connection. I always loved Katherine because she was funny, quick witted and sassy. I haven't seen her in about 2 years and I am so glad to see she has not lost any of it! If anything her insight and gains really made me ponder and felt validated during this time. We also have her beautiful daughter co-starring with us! It gets real folks! Get in or get lost! We will find out what makes Katherine whole :) 

Kelvin continues to share about his viewpoint and we actually come to an impasse~  He continues to delve into himself and is surprised at how much he has shared~ It was a pleasure to have a time to sit down with a good friend and a joy :)

Kelvin is a dear friend of mine and I am so pleased he was able to join me on this episode. We knew each other for several years however, I don't think we ever really had a conversation like this. I am so excited to see and hear how much he has grown and his journey! The conversation was so good that we spread it out to two parts~ Enjoy! 

We have a guest! My best friend~ my confidante~ my boyfriend! Listen as he awkwardly shares and eventually becomes more comfortable opening up about his life experiences and his view on the current situation~ don’t miss it!!!!

Hear how convo convo goes went a different direction ~ Three friends discuss their friendship and embarrassing situations in life~ it goes in a different direction and three friends share their struggles. Specifically about being an Asian American these days ~ don’t miss out! It’s the first guests ever!

Hi guys! There are times that we are confronted with that test us more than others. Join me as I self reflect on my behaviors when it comes to jealousy~ can’t wait to share how my Greek yogurt turned into an epiphany~