Lighting the Path: A New Concept of Hospice Care

In this episode of Lighting the Path, grief and bereavement specialist Dawn Delaloye, PhD, shares the story of how she was drawn into walking alongside people in seasons of deep loss. She gently introduces the idea of anticipatory grief—the kind of grief that shows up before a death or major loss—and talks about when it can surface for patients, caregivers, and families who know that change is coming. Dawn names some of the common signs of anticipatory grief, like feeling on edge, tearful, exhausted, distracted, or "not like yourself," and reassures listeners that these are normal responses, not personal failures. From there, Dawn talks about how grieving before a loss feels different from grieving after a death, especially when you are still caregiving, making big decisions, and trying to hold on to small, meaningful moments at the same time. She offers kind, practical suggestions for how caregivers and family members can navigate this season—putting words to their emotions, making space for rest, creating memories with their loved one, and reaching out for support instead of trying to be "the strong one" all the time. The conversation closes with a list of resources and places to find help, so no one has to walk through anticipatory grief alone. To learn more about Dawn, visit her website at Sunrise Coaching.   Connect with Harbor Hospice & Beacon Hospice: Follow Harbor Hospice on Facebook. Follow Beacon Hospice on Facebook. For more information about Harbor Hospice, please visit harborhospice.com For more information about Beacon Hospice, please visit beacon.life For more information about HarborCare & BeaconCare Palliative Services, please visit myharborcare.com Please send your questions or comments to the podcast host at [email protected]. 

In this deeply moving episode of Lighting the Path, Jerry Fenter sits down with Jason Rosenthal—attorney turned therapist, author, and widower of acclaimed writer Amy Krouse Rosenthal. Just ten days before her death from ovarian cancer in 2017, Amy published a now-viral New York Times essay titled "You May Want to Marry My Husband." In it, she lovingly encouraged Jason to find happiness again after she was gone. What followed was an extraordinary public response—and a profoundly personal journey through grief. Jason reflects on what it was like to process loss while suddenly becoming a public figure. He shares how his grief was both deeply familiar and uniquely exposed, and how Amy's final act became a guiding light—not just for him, but for countless others navigating loss. In this conversation, Jason explores: p]:pt-0 [&>p]:mb-2 [&>p]:my-0"> The emotional impact of Amy's final essay and how he responded to it p]:pt-0 [&>p]:mb-2 [&>p]:my-0"> What it means to "live fully" in the face of mortality p]:pt-0 [&>p]:mb-2 [&>p]:my-0"> The complexities of grieving in the public eye p]:pt-0 [&>p]:mb-2 [&>p]:my-0"> How writing his own book became a tool for healing and helping others p]:pt-0 [&>p]:mb-2 [&>p]:my-0"> The unexpected ripple effect of his TED Talk and the gratitude it inspired p]:pt-0 [&>p]:mb-2 [&>p]:my-0"> His transition from a career in law to becoming a therapist focused on supporting others Jason also offers thoughtful, practical wisdom for those walking through grief—reminding us that while loss is universal, each journey through it is deeply personal. This episode is a powerful reflection on love, legacy, and the courage to keep living fully—even after profound loss. To read more about Jason, visit his website at www.jasonbrosenthal.com  Connect with Harbor Hospice & Beacon Hospice: Follow Harbor Hospice on Facebook. Follow Beacon Hospice on Facebook. For more information about Harbor Hospice, please visit harborhospice.com For more information about Beacon Hospice, please visit beacon.life For more information about HarborCare & BeaconCare Palliative Services, please visit myharborcare.com Please send your questions or comments to the podcast host at [email protected]. 

In this episode of Lighting the Path, host Jerry Fenter talks with Melissa Lunardini, Chief Clinical Officer at Help Texts, about transforming grief support through technology. Help Texts is a pioneering service that sends thoughtful, personalized messages to people experiencing grief and loss — and just as importantly, to their friends and family who want to offer meaningful support but may not know how. Melissa explains the clinical philosophy behind Help Texts, the models that guide message design, and how the service helps normalize ongoing grief through timely, compassionate communication. She shares powerful testimonials from participants whose healing journeys were eased by receiving these messages, and discusses what demographic trends reveal — including that the largest user groups are adults aged 40–64 and 65+, and that men find the service particularly supportive. Together, Jerry and Melissa explore how grief can be met with empathy, connection, and innovative digital pathways that remind us all that healing begins with compassionate words. Learn more about Help Texts at www.helptexts.com. For pricing information please visit Pricing | Help Texts Connect with Harbor Hospice & Beacon Hospice: Follow Harbor Hospice on Facebook. Follow Beacon Hospice on Facebook. For more information about Harbor Hospice, please visit harborhospice.com For more information about Beacon Hospice, please visit beacon.life For more information about HarborCare & BeaconCare Palliative Services, please visit myharborcare.com Please send your questions or comments to the podcast host at [email protected]. 

Children experience grief differently from adults—yet their feelings are just as deep and real. In this episode of Lighting the Path,  Melissa Lunardini, Chief Clinical Officer for Help Texts and nationally recognized expert in children's grief, explores how we can better support children and teens who are grieving. Drawing on her 20 years of experience, Melissa dispels common myths about how children understand and express loss. She shares practical ways adults can offer genuine help without unintentionally causing harm—highlighting specific words and phrases to avoid when comforting younger children. Melissa also offers two key insights for helping grieving teens, whose needs often differ from younger children and adults alike. While grief touches all ages, she reminds us that the way people need to grieve can differ significantly based on age, development, and emotional capacity. The episode concludes with a helpful tool Melissa recommends for anyone—parents, teachers, clinicians, or clergy—who walks alongside children and teens in grief. Key Discussion Points: p]:pt-0 [&>p]:mb-2 [&>p]:my-0"> Common misconceptions about how children grieve p]:pt-0 [&>p]:mb-2 [&>p]:my-0"> Why language matters: what not to say to grieving children p]:pt-0 [&>p]:mb-2 [&>p]:my-0"> Two practical ways to support grieving teens p]:pt-0 [&>p]:mb-2 [&>p]:my-0"> Understanding developmental differences in the grieving process p]:pt-0 [&>p]:mb-2 [&>p]:my-0"> A practical tool to help children and teens process loss Connect with Harbor Hospice & Beacon Hospice: Follow Harbor Hospice on Facebook. Follow Beacon Hospice on Facebook. For more information about Harbor Hospice, please visit harborhospice.com For more information about Beacon Hospice, please visit beacon.life For more information about HarborCare & BeaconCare Palliative Services, please visit myharborcare.com Please send your questions or comments to the podcast host at [email protected]. 

In this follow-up episode of Lighting the Path, host Jerry Fenter continues the conversation with Kera Sanchez, founder and editor of Get Griefy magazine. Kera shares how the idea for the magazine first came to her—quite literally—in the shower. Though she had no formal background in journalism, her passion for helping others share their stories of grief and loss led her to create a publication that now reaches readers across the globe. Through Get Griefy, people from every walk of life have found a place to express their experiences with loss, healing, and transformation. Kera reflects on some of her favorite published stories and how they've connected a worldwide community of grievers and creatives alike. The upcoming issue of Get Griefy focuses on women's issues—honoring resilience, vulnerability, and empowerment through storytelling. Listeners can explore more or read the free digital edition at getgriefymagazine.com, with a print version also available for purchase. Key discussion points: p]:pt-0 [&>p]:mb-2 [&>p]:my-0"> The unexpected inspiration behind Get Griefy p]:pt-0 [&>p]:mb-2 [&>p]:my-0"> Turning passion into purpose without formal training p]:pt-0 [&>p]:mb-2 [&>p]:my-0"> Highlighting meaningful stories from around the world p]:pt-0 [&>p]:mb-2 [&>p]:my-0"> A preview of the next Get Griefy issue on women's issues Connect with Harbor Hospice & Beacon Hospice: Follow Harbor Hospice on Facebook. Follow Beacon Hospice on Facebook. For more information about Harbor Hospice, please visit harborhospice.com For more information about Beacon Hospice, please visit beacon.life For more information about HarborCare & BeaconCare Palliative Services, please visit myharborcare.com Please send your questions or comments to the podcast host at [email protected]. 

When grief meets creativity, something powerful can emerge. In this episode of Lighting the Path, host Jerry Fenter talks with Kera Sanchez, founder and editor of Get Griefy—a heartfelt online and print magazine that explores grief, healing, and creative expression. Kera begins by sharing the deeply personal story of her mother's sudden death while traveling abroad. The timing and circumstances brought unique emotional challenges, leaving Kera searching for ways to process the loss. Through that pain, she discovered the healing potential of creative self-expression. Her first project—a guided grief journal—became a meaningful outlet for reflection and connection. That experience inspired her next endeavor: Get Griefy, a magazine dedicated to normalizing grief, amplifying voices of those in mourning, and creating community through storytelling and art. Listeners will come away inspired by Kera's courage, her creativity, and her commitment to opening new conversations about loss, resilience, and the many ways we find meaning after heartbreak. Key discussion points: p]:pt-0 [&>p]:mb-2 [&>p]:my-0"> The emotional challenges of losing a loved one abroad p]:pt-0 [&>p]:mb-2 [&>p]:my-0"> How creativity became part of Kera's healing journey p]:pt-0 [&>p]:mb-2 [&>p]:my-0"> The origins of Get Griefy magazine and its mission p]:pt-0 [&>p]:mb-2 [&>p]:my-0"> Why storytelling and creative community matter in grief work Connect with Harbor Hospice & Beacon Hospice: Follow Harbor Hospice on Facebook. Follow Beacon Hospice on Facebook. For more information about Harbor Hospice, please visit harborhospice.com For more information about Beacon Hospice, please visit beacon.life For more information about HarborCare & BeaconCare Palliative Services, please visit myharborcare.com Please send your questions or comments to the podcast host at [email protected]. 

Licensed professional counselor and grief specialist Chuck Olliff returns to the podcast.  Chuck has been leading bereavement support groups for more than 20 years, and in this episode he explains why grief support groups play such an important role in healing and connection after loss. He walks listeners through the six key topics he covers in his six-week virtual grief groups, offering valuable insights for anyone navigating their own grief or supporting others who are. Chuck's compassionate and practical approach makes the process feel less daunting and more accessible to all. All of Chuck's groups meet virtually via Zoom, allowing participants to join from anywhere. To learn more about Chuck Olliff and to register for an upcoming grief group, visit chuckolliff.com. Chuck also mentions the resources of Alan Wolfelt in this episode.  To see Alan's resources you can visit his website here.   Connect with Harbor Hospice & Beacon Hospice: Follow Harbor Hospice on Facebook. Follow Beacon Hospice on Facebook. For more information about Harbor Hospice, please visit harborhospice.com For more information about Beacon Hospice, please visit beacon.life For more information about HarborCare & BeaconCare Palliative Services, please visit myharborcare.com Please send your questions or comments to the podcast host at [email protected]. 

In this episode of Lighting the Path, host Jerry Fenter welcomes Chuck Olliff, a Licensed Professional Counselor and grief specialist with more than 25 years of experience leading grief support groups. Chuck shares the story of how his journey into grief counseling began unexpectedly — when a local funeral director asked him to facilitate a series of grief groups for families coping with loss. Together, Jerry and Chuck explore the origins and lasting influence of Elisabeth Kübler-Ross's work on the five stages of grief — denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance. Chuck offers a thoughtful look at each stage, explaining how they appear in real-life experiences of grief and how understanding them can bring compassion and perspective to the grieving process. Listeners will gain valuable insights into the emotional landscape of bereavement, the evolving nature of grief support, and the deeply human connection that guides people through loss toward healing. Topics discussed include: p]:pt-0 [&>p]:mb-2 [&>p]:my-0"> Chuck Olliff's personal path to becoming a grief specialist p]:pt-0 [&>p]:mb-2 [&>p]:my-0"> Understanding Kübler-Ross's five stages of grief p]:pt-0 [&>p]:mb-2 [&>p]:my-0"> How the stages appear in real-world experiences p]:pt-0 [&>p]:mb-2 [&>p]:my-0"> The evolving understanding of grief and healing To learn more about Chuck Olliff and the services he offers, visit www.chuckolliff.com  Connect with Harbor Hospice & Beacon Hospice: Follow Harbor Hospice on Facebook. Follow Beacon Hospice on Facebook. For more information about Harbor Hospice, please visit harborhospice.com For more information about Beacon Hospice, please visit beacon.life For more information about HarborCare & BeaconCare Palliative Services, please visit myharborcare.com Please send your questions or comments to the podcast host at [email protected]. 

In this episode of Lighting the Path, Jerry sits down with Dr. Emma Jones, author of The Phoenix Blueprint, to talk about resilience, burnout, and the emotional tools needed to thrive as a caregiver. Dr. Jones shares what inspired her to write the book and opens up about the real causes of burnout among healthcare professionals—factors that reach far beyond workload and long hours. She introduces the concept of "emotional PPE," a metaphor she uses to describe the inner armor caregivers need to protect their emotional well-being—just as firefighters use physical protective equipment to face the dangers of their work. Dr. Jones walks listeners through her six-step model designed to help professionals prevent burnout, restore balance, and reconnect with meaning in their work. As the conversation unfolds, she offers practical wisdom drawn from her own experience and research, and finally shares the single takeaway she hopes readers and listeners will carry with them from The Phoenix Blueprint. Listeners who want to connect with Dr. Jones can visit her website or follow her on Instagram for more insights and resources. Resources mentioned p]:pt-0 [&>p]:mb-2 [&>p]:my-0"> The Phoenix Blueprint: Emerging Stronger from the Blaze of Healthcare by Emma Jones, MD p]:pt-0 [&>p]:mb-2 [&>p]:my-0"> Emma Jones, MD – website and additional resources for healthcare professionals (speaking, workshops, and support offerings) Connect with Harbor Hospice & Beacon Hospice: Follow Harbor Hospice on Facebook. Follow Beacon Hospice on Facebook. For more information about Harbor Hospice, please visit harborhospice.com For more information about Beacon Hospice, please visit beacon.life For more information about HarborCare & BeaconCare Palliative Services, please visit myharborcare.com Please send your questions or comments to the podcast host at [email protected]. 

In this episode of Lighting the Path, hospice and palliative care physician Dr. Emma Jones shares her personal experience of spiraling into burnout and the moment that forced her to confront the depth of her mental and emotional exhaustion. Drawing from her book, The Phoenix Blueprint: Emerging Stronger from the Blaze of Healthcare, she reflects on how perfectionism, overwork, and the culture of silence around clinician distress pushed her past her limits, and how stigma and fear made it difficult to admit she needed help. Emma also talks about early warning signs of burnout—emotional depletion, growing cynicism, and a loss of meaning in work—and shares statistics that reveal how widespread burnout and mental health struggles are among healthcare professionals. She then outlines key steps in her healing process, including setting boundaries, reconnecting with purpose, and finding support beyond traditional healthcare structures, emphasizing her belief that real change begins in communities and resources outside the system itself. Resources mentioned p]:pt-0 [&>p]:mb-2 [&>p]:my-0"> The Phoenix Blueprint: Emerging Stronger from the Blaze of Healthcare by Emma Jones, MD p]:pt-0 [&>p]:mb-2 [&>p]:my-0"> Emma Jones, MD – website and additional resources for healthcare professionals (speaking, workshops, and support offerings) Connect with Harbor Hospice & Beacon Hospice: Follow Harbor Hospice on Facebook. Follow Beacon Hospice on Facebook. For more information about Harbor Hospice, please visit harborhospice.com For more information about Beacon Hospice, please visit beacon.life For more information about HarborCare & BeaconCare Palliative Services, please visit myharborcare.com Please send your questions or comments to the podcast host at [email protected]. 

In this encore episode, grief specialist Gary Roe discusses how survivors can manage feelings of guilt after the death of a loved one. Roe explores the difference between guilt and regret and offers methods for finding forgiveness and reducing emotional baggage. Guilt vs. Regret Roe explains that while often used interchangeably, guilt and regret are distinct emotions: - Guilt is the feeling we experience when we knowingly do something wrong, usually related to ethical, moral, or legal reasons. - Regret is the emotion we feel when looking back on past actions, realizing we could have handled situations differently. Strategies for Managing Guilt and Regret Roe shares several strategies for managing these difficult emotions: 1. Release these feelings through talking, writing, or creative expression 2. Seek support: Talk to someone who listens well and loves you[3]. 3. Practice self-compassion: Remember that you're doing the best you can with the information you had at the time. Reducing Emotional Baggage To lighten the load of guilt and regret, Roe suggests: - Accepting that you can't change the past: Focus on what you can control in the present. - Practicing forgiveness: Both for yourself and others involved in the situation. - Honoring the deceased: Find ways to celebrate their memory and continue their legacy. - Seeking professional help: If guilt or regret persist, consider talking to a grief counselor or therapist. You can visit Gary's website for free resources and contact information at www.garyroe.com. Connect with Harbor Hospice & Beacon Hospice: Follow Harbor Hospice on Facebook. Follow Beacon Hospice on Facebook. For more information about Harbor Hospice, please visit harborhospice.com For more information about Beacon Hospice, please visit beacon.life For more information about HarborCare & BeaconCare Palliative Services, please visit myharborcare.com Please send your questions or comments to the podcast host at [email protected]. 

Enjoy this encore episode from Lighting the Path and Harbor Healthcare System.  The holiday season is loaded with hopes and dreams and expectations.  For those who are providing care for someone on hospice the holidays can be difficult to manage.  Rosalind Hall-Hiner is the System Director of Social Workers for Harbor Hospice and Beacon Hospice.  In this episode she shares ways that caregivers can avoid the depression that often comes with the holiday season.   If you were benefitted by the information in this episode, please consider sharing it with your friends on social media.   Follow Harbor Hospice on Facebook. Follow Beacon Hospice on Facebook.  For more information about Harbor Hospice, please visit harborhospice.com.  For more information about Beacon Hospice, please visit beacon.life. For more information about HarborCare & BeaconCare Palliative Services, please visit myharborcare.com Please send your questions or comments to the podcast host at [email protected].   

Enjoy this encore episode about how to manage grief during the holidays with Harbor Hospice chaplain and bereavement counselor, Polly Stock. For many people the holidays are not a season of joy and cheer, but a time of grief and sadness.  Holidays are times when families come together and the death of an important person in the family can make holidays feel heavy.  In this episode, Polly Stock, Bereavement Coordinator with Harbor Hospice of Missouri, shares tips on how to manage grief during the holidays.   In this episode, Polly shares some of her favorite resources, including the following books that you can find by following the links below.   Healing Your Holiday Grief by Alan Wolfelt Surviving the Holidays Without You by Gary Roe The Empty Chair by Robert DeVries Follow Harbor Hospice on Facebook. Follow Beacon Hospice on Facebook.  For more information about Harbor Hospice, please visit harborhospice.com.  For more information about Beacon Hospice, please visit beacon.life. For more information about HarborCare & BeaconCare Palliative Services, please visit myharborcare.com Please send your questions or comments to the podcast host at [email protected]. 

Enjoy this encore episode about how to manage grief during the holidays with grief specialist Gary Roe.   In this podcast episode featuring grief specialist Gary Roe, the discussion centers on managing grief during the holidays, a time often marked by intensified emotions for those experiencing loss. Here are the key points covered in the episode: Why Grief Intensifies During the Holidays Emotional Triggers: The holidays can amplify feelings of grief due to memories associated with loved ones who have passed. Traditions that once brought joy may now serve as painful reminders of absence. Isolation: Many people feel alone in their grief during this time, leading to feelings of sadness and disconnection from others who may not understand their experience. Challenges of Grieving During the Holidays Expectations vs. Reality: Society often promotes a cheerful holiday spirit, which can clash with an individual's personal experience of grief, creating additional pressure. Coping Mechanisms: Some individuals may resort to unhealthy coping strategies, such as overeating or withdrawing from social interactions, as they navigate their pain. Strategies for Managing Grief Acknowledge and Process: Gary emphasizes the importance of acknowledging one's feelings rather than suppressing them. He introduces the acronym A.I.R.: Acknowledge what you are feeling. Identify how those feelings affect you. Release those feelings through expression—be it talking, writing, or creating art. Seek Support: Engaging with loved ones who can listen and provide comfort is crucial. Sharing experiences can help alleviate feelings of isolation. Personalize Your Grief Journey: Recognize that everyone grieves differently. It's essential to find what works best for you, whether that's honoring memories in a new way or creating new traditions. Conclusion Gary Roe's insights remind listeners that grief is a personal journey without a set timeline. He encourages individuals to embrace their feelings and seek support as they navigate through the complexities of loss, especially during emotionally charged times like the holidays. For more resources and support from Gary Roe, visit his website at GaryRoe.com. Connect with Harbor Hospice & Beacon Hospice: Follow Harbor Hospice on Facebook. Follow Beacon Hospice on Facebook. For more information about Harbor Hospice, please visit harborhospice.com For more information about Beacon Hospice, please visit beacon.life For more information about HarborCare & BeaconCare Palliative Services, please visit myharborcare.com Please send your questions or comments to the podcast host at [email protected]. 

Author and dementia advocate Tracy Cram Perkins joins this episode of Lighting the Path to share the heart and purpose behind her book, Dementia Home Care: How to Prepare Before, During, and After. Inspired by a moving comment from her father, Tracy walks listeners through what it means to truly prepare for the dementia caregiving journey. She explains the value of creating a "survivor's binder" with essential documents and advance care plans, helping families avoid confusion in times of crisis. Tracy also emphasizes that people living with dementia are still themselves, deserving of dignity, respect, and opportunities to share their insights. Listeners will hear helpful ideas for caregiver self‑care, including Tracy's Daily D.O.S.E. method and how to use her Meltdown Trigger List, available at tracycramperkins.com, to prevent stressful moments before they start. This conversation reminds every caregiver that with preparation and compassion, it's possible to bring calm, comfort, and connection into dementia care. Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review if this episode helped you or someone you know in their serious illness journey! Connect with Harbor Hospice & Beacon Hospice: Follow Harbor Hospice on Facebook. Follow Beacon Hospice on Facebook. For more information about Harbor Hospice, please visit harborhospice.com For more information about Beacon Hospice, please visit beacon.life For more information about HarborCare & BeaconCare Palliative Services, please visit myharborcare.com Please send your questions or comments to the podcast host at [email protected]. 

In this episode Jerry welcomes Tracy Cram Perkins, author of Dementia Home Care: How to Prepare Before, During, and After. Tracy describes what it was like to be thrust into the role of caregiver—first for one loved one, and eventually for four family members living with dementia or Alzheimer's disease. Drawing from years of firsthand experience, she shares the lessons, mistakes, and moments of grace that shaped her caregiving journey. Tracy talks about the overwhelming early days of caregiving and the key resources that helped her begin to navigate this challenging role. She explains why patience and laughter became her most valuable lessons and how they allowed her to sustain both compassion and hope over time. For those struggling with the constant repetition of questions so common in dementia care, Tracy reveals her thoughtful method for reducing "question fatigue." Listeners will walk away with Tracy's practical tips for new caregivers, reminders about self‑care and realistic expectations, and encouragement drawn from her own hard‑won insights. Her website, TracyCramPerkins.com, offers additional tools and resources—and anyone who subscribes to her newsletter will receive her free guide, 10 Steps to Calming Aggressive Dementia Behavior. Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review if this episode helped you or someone you know in their serious illness journey! Connect with Harbor Hospice & Beacon Hospice: Follow Harbor Hospice on Facebook. Follow Beacon Hospice on Facebook. For more information about Harbor Hospice, please visit harborhospice.com For more information about Beacon Hospice, please visit beacon.life For more information about HarborCare & BeaconCare Palliative Services, please visit myharborcare.com Please send your questions or comments to the podcast host at [email protected]. 

In this episode of Lighting the Path, Jerry sits down with Shari Ross, a senior living specialist and author of Senior Living Made S.I.M.P.L.E.. Shari brings years of experience helping families navigate the difficult — and often emotional — decisions about finding the right living environment for their senior loved ones. Her book uses the acronym S.I.M.P.L.E. — Support, Information, Matching, Preparation, Letting go, Engagement — as a practical framework for families facing this transition. Shari shares how this approach provides clarity and confidence during one of the most stressful times in a caregiver's journey. We discuss some of the most common challenges families face when searching for senior living options: p]:pt-0 [&>p]:mb-2 [&>p]:my-0"> Guilt when making housing decisions for a loved one. p]:pt-0 [&>p]:mb-2 [&>p]:my-0"> Panic when faced with an emergency or rushed move. p]:pt-0 [&>p]:mb-2 [&>p]:my-0"> Neglecting self-care while being a caregiver. Shari also talks about the relief families feel once their loved one is safe, cared for, and thriving in the right community. Beyond the book, she provides affordable tools and resources through her Etsy store, Senior Living Shop, to help families get organized and feel prepared. For more information, visit Shari's website at seniorlivingmadesimple.com or order Senior Living Made S.I.M.P.L.E. online wherever books are sold. If you're a caregiver or family member facing senior living decisions, this episode offers both practical strategies and much–needed encouragement.

In this episode Shari Ross breaks down the biggest myths and misconceptions about senior living, providing clarity and reassurance for families facing difficult choices. Drawing from her personal experiences helping her own parents and in-laws, Shari shares practical strategies—including how to approach honest conversations about advance directives and long-term wishes. Shari tells the story of her father-in-law's move to a senior living facility and explains how the transition improved his quality of life and reinforced the value of compassionate, informed care. She also discusses the crucial partnership between hospice and senior living communities, outlining how these services work together for residents' comfort, along with the unique challenges and benefits of blending both approaches. Learn more about her real-world advice and find additional resources at her website, www.seniorlivingmadesimple.com. She is also on Facebook. Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review if this episode helped you or someone you know in their serious illness journey! Connect with Harbor Hospice & Beacon Hospice: Follow Harbor Hospice on Facebook. Follow Beacon Hospice on Facebook. For more information about Harbor Hospice, please visit harborhospice.com For more information about Beacon Hospice, please visit beacon.life For more information about HarborCare & BeaconCare Palliative Services, please visit myharborcare.com Please send your questions or comments to the podcast host at [email protected]. 

In this touching episode, guest Larry W. Robinson—renowned faith-based media personality and author of Sacred Steps, A Faith-Filled Journey Through Transition into Eternity—offers a deeply personal account of his mother's final chapter and the powerful legacy she leaves behind.  Larry shares how his mother's journey led her to Harbor Hospice in Lake Charles, a facility known for providing comfort, dignity, and spiritual support for patients and families facing life's greatest challenge. A central theme of the episode is Larry's inspiration for writing Sacred Steps, envisioned as a spiritual resource for Christians seeking encouragement and deeper understanding of the process of "transitioning" from this life to eternity. Larry explains his intentional use of the word "transitioning," emphasizing the sacredness of the moment when one crosses from earthly life into eternity—a perspective rooted in faith and reverence. One of the most stirring moments in the conversation comes as Larry reflects on his mother's last breath, describing it as a "holy moment"—sacred ground that transformed his grief into awe. His story is a moving reminder of the spiritual significance of end-of-life experiences and the enduring power of a legacy rooted in love and faith. To find out more about Larry's books and media, visit his website at www.ceolarry.com Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review if this episode helped you or someone you know in their caregiving journey! Connect with Harbor Hospice & Beacon Hospice: Follow Harbor Hospice on Facebook. Follow Beacon Hospice on Facebook. For more information about Harbor Hospice, please visit harborhospice.com For more information about Beacon Hospice, please visit beacon.life For more information about HarborCare & BeaconCare Palliative Services, please visit myharborcare.com Please send your questions or comments to the podcast host at [email protected]. 

Debbie Compton, caregiver advocate, author, and founder of The Purple Vine, joins Lighting the Path to share her story and expertise. In this episode, Debbie discusses how her experience as a caregiver sparked the creation of The Purple Vine and explains the meaningful inspiration behind its name. She highlights the resources available on her website, including her books about caregiving, coloring books for adults and children, online courses, and opportunities for caregivers to schedule one-on-one consultations. Debbie talks about the stress-relieving benefits of coloring books and how they support connection and creativity for both caregivers and care recipients. She also provides simple, practical tips for caregivers on how to ask for help with dignity. p]:pt-0 [&>p]:mb-2 [&>p]:my-0" style= "box-sizing: border-box; border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: oklch(0.3039 0.04 213.68 / 0.16); scrollbar-color: initial; scrollbar-width: initial; --tw-border-spacing-x: 0; --tw-border-spacing-y: 0; --tw-translate-x: 0; --tw-translate-y: 0; --tw-rotate: 0; --tw-skew-x: 0; --tw-skew-y: 0; --tw-scale-x: 1; --tw-scale-y: 1; --tw-scroll-snap-strictness: proximity; --tw-ring-offset-width: 0px; --tw-ring-offset-color: #fff; --tw-ring-color: rgb(59 130 246 / .5); --tw-ring-offset-shadow: 0 0 #0000; --tw-ring-shadow: 0 0 #0000; --tw-shadow: 0 0 #0000; --tw-shadow-colored: 0 0 #0000; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding-inline-start: 0.375em; padding-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px;"> Learn more about Debbie's offerings and support for caregivers at: thepurplevine.com p]:pt-0 [&>p]:mb-2 [&>p]:my-0" style= "box-sizing: border-box; border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; border-color: oklch(0.3039 0.04 213.68 / 0.16); scrollbar-color: initial; scrollbar-width: initial; --tw-border-spacing-x: 0; --tw-border-spacing-y: 0; --tw-translate-x: 0; --tw-translate-y: 0; --tw-rotate: 0; --tw-skew-x: 0; --tw-skew-y: 0; --tw-scale-x: 1; --tw-scale-y: 1; --tw-scroll-snap-strictness: proximity; --tw-ring-offset-width: 0px; --tw-ring-offset-color: #fff; --tw-ring-color: rgb(59 130 246 / .5); --tw-ring-offset-shadow: 0 0 #0000; --tw-ring-shadow: 0 0 #0000; --tw-shadow: 0 0 #0000; --tw-shadow-colored: 0 0 #0000; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding-inline-start: 0.375em; padding-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px;"> Highlights include: caregiving books, coloring books, online courses, consultation sessions, and weekly tips for caregivers. Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review if this episode helped you or someone you know in their caregiving journey! Connect with Harbor Hospice & Beacon Hospice: Follow Harbor Hospice on Facebook. Follow Beacon Hospice on Facebook. For more information about Harbor Hospice, please visit harborhospice.com For more information about Beacon Hospice, please visit beacon.life For more information about HarborCare & BeaconCare Palliative Services, please visit myharborcare.com Please send your questions or comments to the podcast host at [email protected]. 

In this episode, we're joined by Debbie Compton—author, caregiving advocate, and the founder of The Purple Vine. Debbie brings compassion and hard-won wisdom from years spent caring for her father, her mother, and her mother-in-law. Debbie opens up about the personal journey that led her to leave her job in order to become a full-time caregiver. Like many, she initially saw herself as simply "a daughter taking care of her parents," not realizing she was part of a much larger community of caregivers. We discuss the emotional and practical challenges she faced, including the experience of caregiver burnout and the many lessons she wishes she had known before beginning her caregiving journey. Debbie shares how hospice care changed her family's story and urges listeners to consider its benefits sooner rather than later. A chance encounter with a hospice nurse inspired Debbie to start The Purple Vine, a supportive resource for other caregivers who might feel alone or overwhelmed. She offers advice, encouragement, and tangible tips for those walking a similar path. If you are a caregiver, know someone who is, or simply want to better understand the realities of caregiving, this episode is filled with empathy, honesty, and hope. Topics Include: Debbie's personal caregiving journey for three loved ones The decision to leave work and take on full-time caregiving Why so many people don't 'identify' as caregivers The realities of caregiver burnout The comfort and relief hospice care brought her family Things Debbie wishes she had known at the beginning The inspiration behind The Purple Vine and its mission Advice for new caregivers Resources: Learn more about Debbie and discover support for your caregiving journey at thepurplevine.com Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review if this episode helped you or someone you know in their caregiving journey! Connect with Harbor Hospice & Beacon Hospice: Follow Harbor Hospice on Facebook. Follow Beacon Hospice on Facebook. For more information about Harbor Hospice, please visit harborhospice.com For more information about Beacon Hospice, please visit beacon.life For more information about HarborCare & BeaconCare Palliative Services, please visit myharborcare.com Please send your questions or comments to the podcast host at [email protected]. 

Episode Overview In this enlightening episode, Dr. Barry Jacobs shares his journey from clinical psychologist to widely-read AARP columnist and best-selling author. Dr. Jacobs discusses how he began collaborating with AARP and the path that led him to write a monthly column addressing the needs and struggles of caregivers across the country. Together with his wife and co-author, Dr. Julie Mayer, Dr. Jacobs recently released The AARP Caregiver Answer Book, a comprehensive new resource designed to support and empower those caring for loved ones. Key Topics Covered Origins of the Collaboration: How Dr. Jacobs connected with AARP and became a regular contributor. Inside The AARP Caregiver Answer Book: An overview of the practical guidance included in the book, including: Self care strategies and why this chapter is the most extensive—caregivers need to care for themselves first to effectively care for others. Advance care planning tools and conversations. Managing finances and navigating financial stress. Addressing sibling issues and family dynamics. The process of handling grief and loss. Addressing the Unspoken: Dr. Jacobs highlights key topics that are often underrepresented in caregiving literature: Feelings of anger, resentment, and emotional exhaustion. Relationship challenges between caregivers and care receivers. Practical advice for tackling tough conversations and setting boundaries. Resources Mentioned The AARP Caregiver Answer Book by Dr. Barry Jacobs & Dr. Julie Mayer Dr. Barry Jacobs' monthly AARP column (check the AARP site for recent articles) Who Should Listen? Family caregivers and those supporting loved ones Healthcare professionals advising families Anyone interested in the emotional and practical realities of caregiving Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review if this episode helped you or someone you know in their caregiving journey! Connect with Harbor Hospice & Beacon Hospice: Follow Harbor Hospice on Facebook. Follow Beacon Hospice on Facebook. For more information about Harbor Hospice, please visit harborhospice.com For more information about Beacon Hospice, please visit beacon.life For more information about HarborCare & BeaconCare Palliative Services, please visit myharborcare.com Please send your questions or comments to the podcast host at [email protected]. 

In this episode of Lighting the Path, host Jerry Fenter welcomes Dr. Julia Mayer, a seasoned psychotherapist and co-author of the newly published The AARP Caregiver Answer Book, written with her husband, Dr. Barry Jacobs. Dr. Mayer brings her extensive expertise to offer a comprehensive look at the caregiving journey—from its challenging beginnings to its often-overlooked end. Key Topics Discussed: Comprehensive Caregiving Guidance: Dr. Mayer shares insights from her book, which covers every stage of the caregiving experience, providing practical advice and emotional support for caregivers at all points in their journey. Life After Caregiving: Dr. Mayer emphasizes the importance of the chapters dedicated to what comes after caregiving ends. She encourages caregivers to recognize the difficulty of what they've accomplished and to give themselves credit for their dedication and hard work. Coping with Guilt and Regret: The conversation delves into the common feelings of guilt and regret that many caregivers experience after their responsibilities conclude. Dr. Mayer offers compassionate advice on processing these emotions and finding peace. Preparing for Caregiving: Dr. Mayer advocates for proactive preparation, urging listeners to plan for caregiving roles before they arise to minimize stress and uncertainty. Affirmation for Caregivers: Throughout the episode, Dr. Mayer reminds caregivers that their efforts matter deeply and that they deserve acknowledgment for the significant, often unrecognized, work they do. Whether you are currently a caregiver, have been one in the past, or anticipate stepping into this role in the future, this episode provides validation, practical tips, and heartfelt encouragement. For more information: www.loveandmeaning.com www.aarp.org The AARP Caregiver Answer Book Connect with Harbor Hospice & Beacon Hospice: Follow Harbor Hospice on Facebook. Follow Beacon Hospice on Facebook. For more information about Harbor Hospice, please visit harborhospice.com For more information about Beacon Hospice, please visit beacon.life For more information about HarborCare & BeaconCare Palliative Services, please visit myharborcare.com Please send your questions or comments to the podcast host at [email protected].   

In this episode of Lighting the Path, we welcome Dr. Barry Jacobs, a clinical psychologist and acclaimed writer for AARP, known for his expertise on caregiving issues. Dr. Jacobs brings a unique perspective, blending his professional background with his deeply personal journey as a caregiver. Join us as Dr. Jacobs opens up about the complexities of caregiving—sharing candid stories from his own experience, the emotional highs and lows, and the lessons learned along the way. He discusses the rewards that come from caring for a loved one, but also the frustrations, guilt, and emotional fatigue that so many caregivers face. Dr. Jacobs emphasizes that, despite his years of professional work, nothing has shaped his understanding of caregiving as profoundly as living it himself. Whether you are a caregiver, know someone who is, or want to better understand the realities behind caregiving, this episode offers heartfelt insight, practical wisdom, and encouragement for anyone walking this challenging path. Key Topics: Dr. Jacobs' personal caregiving story The emotional challenges: frustration, guilt, and burnout How personal experience reshaped his professional perspective Advice and encouragement for caregivers Guest Bio: Dr. Barry Jacobs is a clinical psychologist, family therapist, and author specializing in caregiving and family dynamics. He is a regular contributor to AARP and a leading voice on the complexities of caregiving in America. For more information: www.loveandmeaning.com www.aarp.org The AARP Caregiver Answer Book Connect with Harbor Hospice & Beacon Hospice: Follow Harbor Hospice on Facebook. Follow Beacon Hospice on Facebook. For more information about Harbor Hospice, please visit harborhospice.com For more information about Beacon Hospice, please visit beacon.life For more information about HarborCare & BeaconCare Palliative Services, please visit myharborcare.com Please send your questions or comments to the podcast host at [email protected]. 

In this insightful episode, Jerry sits down with Dr. Julia Mayer, a clinical psychologist specializing in women's issues and caregiver support. Drawing from both her professional expertise and lived experience, Dr. Mayer opens up about the unique challenges, emotional complexities, and unexpected rewards of caregiving. The discussion includes,  The emotional impact of becoming a caregiver unexpectedly Balancing personal well-being while supporting loved ones Navigating family dynamics and communication during times of crisis The importance of self-compassion and seeking support Dr. Mayer also offers a sneak peek into her upcoming book, The AARP Caregiver Answer Book (co-authored with Dr. Barry Jacobs), which will be published in July. She shares practical tips, resources, and encouragement for anyone walking the caregiving path. Key Takeaways: Caregiving is both challenging and deeply rewarding Self-care and support systems are essential for caregivers Open communication can ease family tensions and foster understanding Every caregiving journey is unique, but no one has to go it alone For more information: www.loveandmeaning.com www.aarp.org The AARP Caregiver Answer Book Connect with Harbor Hospice & Beacon Hospice: Follow Harbor Hospice on Facebook. Follow Beacon Hospice on Facebook. For more information about Harbor Hospice, please visit harborhospice.com For more information about Beacon Hospice, please visit beacon.life For more information about HarborCare & BeaconCare Palliative Services, please visit myharborcare.com Please send your questions or comments to the podcast host at [email protected]. 

In this episode, we sit down with Shanna Briggs, Regional Manager for the Southeast Texas chapter of the Alzheimer's Association. Shanna shares a comprehensive look at the wide range of resources the Association offers to individuals and families impacted by Alzheimer's and other forms of dementia. Key topics covered: Caregiver Support: Shanna highlights the importance of caregiver support groups, which offer a safe space to connect, share experiences, and find guidance. She also discusses the Association's 24-hour caregiver helpline, available anytime for information and emotional support. Fundraising Initiatives: Learn about the Walk to End Alzheimer's, the Association's signature fundraising event. Shanna explains how the funds raised support local programs, research, and advocacy efforts. Register for the Beaumont walk at act.alz.org/beaumont. Volunteering and Getting Involved: Discover the many ways you can make a difference, from volunteering at events to participating in outreach and education programs. Advocacy and Awareness: Shanna discusses the Association's work in advocacy, raising awareness, and educating elected officials to improve support and resources for those affected by Alzheimer's. For more information about local and national resources, visit alz.org. If you or someone you know needs support, call the Alzheimer's Association's 24/7 Helpline at 1-800-272-3900. Connect with Harbor Hospice & Beacon Hospice: Follow Harbor Hospice on Facebook. Follow Beacon Hospice on Facebook. For more information about Harbor Hospice, please visit harborhospice.com For more information about Beacon Hospice, please visit beacon.life For more information about HarborCare & BeaconCare Palliative Services, please visit myharborcare.com Please send your questions or comments to the podcast host at [email protected]. 

In this heartfelt episode, we welcome Shanna Briggs, the Southeast Texas Regional Manager for the Alzheimer's Association. Shanna opens up about her deeply personal journey as a caregiver for her mother, who was diagnosed with a rare form of dementia. She shares the challenges and rewards of being a "sandwich caregiver," balancing the responsibilities of raising her two daughters while supporting her father in caring for her mother. Shanna discusses how caregiving became a family affair, involving her daughters in the process and fostering in them a passion for helping and caring for older adults. Her story highlights the importance of support, resilience, and love in the face of dementia, and offers practical insights for families navigating similar journeys. In this episode, you'll learn: What it means to be a "sandwich caregiver" How to involve children in caregiving in a positive way The emotional and practical challenges of caring for a loved one with dementia To learn more... Visit the Alzheimer's Association website at alz.org Connect with Harbor Hospice & Beacon Hospice: Follow Harbor Hospice on Facebook. Follow Beacon Hospice on Facebook. For more information about Harbor Hospice, please visit harborhospice.com For more information about Beacon Hospice, please visit beacon.life For more information about HarborCare & BeaconCare Palliative Services, please visit myharborcare.com Please send your questions or comments to the podcast host at [email protected]. 

In this episode, we welcome Jill Couch, a DAWN Dementia Care Specialist, Trainer, and Occupational Therapist, who brings years of expertise helping families and professionals navigate the challenges of dementia care.  Jill explains how the DAWN Method offers a strength-based, person-centered approach that transforms the caregiving experience for both families and professionals. The DAWN Method helps caregivers reduce their stress and find deeper meaning in their roles by focusing on the skills retained by people living with dementia, rather than what has been lost. Jill highlights how this approach not only improves the well-being of those with dementia but also empowers caregivers to feel more confident and less burdened. The conversation also explores how the DAWN Method provides training for professional caregivers-whether in home care, assisted living, or healthcare settings-giving them practical tools to enhance their confidence, reduce workplace stress, and improve outcomes for their clients. Jill shares stories from her work with Better People Care and offers practical advice for anyone supporting a loved one or working professionally with dementia. Key Topics Covered: What is the DAWN Method and how is it different from traditional dementia care? How strength-based, person-centered care can reduce caregiver stress and foster hope. The emotional and practical benefits for families and professional caregivers using the DAWN Method. Real-life examples of how DAWN training has improved care environments and caregiver satisfaction. How to access DAWN Method training and resources for families and professionals. Resources Mentioned: The DAWN Method of dementia care Better People Care agency DAWN Method training and certification programs for families and professionals Connect with Harbor Hospice & Beacon Hospice: Follow Harbor Hospice on Facebook. Follow Beacon Hospice on Facebook. For more information about Harbor Hospice, please visit harborhospice.com For more information about Beacon Hospice, please visit beacon.life For more information about HarborCare & BeaconCare Palliative Services, please visit myharborcare.com Please send your questions or comments to the podcast host at [email protected]. 

In this heartfelt and insightful episode, we sit down with Jill Couch, a dementia care specialist, DAWN Method trainer, and founder of Better People Care. Jill shares her personal journey into dementia care, sparked by her experiences as a caregiver for her father, who recently passed away after living with dementia for several years. Jill opens up about the challenges and rewards of caring for a loved one with dementia, offering invaluable wisdom drawn from both her professional expertise and personal experience. She also addresses a critical issue many families face: what to do when a dementia patient doesn't meet criteria for hospice services. Jill provides practical advice and actionable tips to help caregivers navigate this difficult situation. Whether you're a caregiver, family member, or simply looking to learn more about compassionate dementia care, this episode is packed with insights that will inspire and empower you. Learn more about Jill's work at BetterPeopleCare.com.

In this episode, we welcome Carrie Aalberts, also known as The Dementia Darling, to discuss her work in gerontology and dementia care. Carrie, the founder of Dementia Darling, provides valuable resources, speaking engagements, and consulting services for both private and professional caregivers. Episode Highlights: Carrie shares her journey into gerontology and what inspired her to create Dementia Darling A personal story that illustrates the rewarding aspects of caregiving for individuals with dementia Candid discussion about the challenges and difficulties faced by dementia caregivers Insights into the resources and support available through Dementia Darling Tips for both private and professional caregivers working with dementia patients Carrie Aalberts brings a wealth of experience to the conversation, with her Master of Science in Gerontology and over a decade of work in senior care and technology. Her dedication to supporting the dementia community, particularly through her social media presence as @dementiadarling, has made her a valuable resource for caregivers seeking guidance and support.  To connect with Carrie, please view her webiste at dementiadarling.com.  Carrie co-hosts the podcast "Gather Darlings" with Nicole Will, focusing on real, unfiltered conversations about caregiving. The podcast provides support, resources, and community for caregivers.  Connect with Harbor Hospice & Beacon Hospice: Follow Harbor Hospice on Facebook. Follow Beacon Hospice on Facebook. For more information about Harbor Hospice, please visit harborhospice.com For more information about Beacon Hospice, please visit beacon.life For more information about HarborCare & BeaconCare Palliative Services, please visit myharborcare.com Please send your questions or comments to the podcast host at [email protected]. 

In this episode, we welcome Carrie Aalberts, widely known as The Dementia Darling, to share her inspiring journey in the field of dementia care and support.  Carrie shares her expertise, personal experiences, and the mission behind Dementia Darling, offering valuable insights for anyone touched by dementia care. Carrie recounts her pre-teen experience of watching her grandmother battle dementia while being cared for by Carrie's father. This pivotal experience shaped her future, leading her to pursue both undergraduate and master's degrees in gerontology. Carrie holds a Master of Science focused in Gerontology and has over a decade of experience in dementia care. She is a Certified Dementia Practitioner and Montessori Dementia Care Professional. Through her platform, Dementia Darling, founded in 2019, Carrie provides a safe space for dementia caregivers, offering education, resources, and encouragement. Her mission is to enhance quality of life, encourage joy, and challenge the tragedy narrative around dementia and aging. Carrie co-hosts the podcast "Gather Darlings" with Nicole Will, focusing on real, unfiltered conversations about caregiving. The podcast provides support, resources, and community for caregivers. For more information, you can visit Carrie's website at www.dementiadarling.com. Additionally, the episode mentions Lorenzo's House as a valuable resource for children with parents who have dementia. Connect with Harbor Hospice & Beacon Hospice: Follow Harbor Hospice on Facebook. Follow Beacon Hospice on Facebook. For more information about Harbor Hospice, please visit harborhospice.com For more information about Beacon Hospice, please visit beacon.life For more information about HarborCare & BeaconCare Palliative Services, please visit myharborcare.com Please send your questions or comments to the podcast host at [email protected]. 

In this episode, we explore the world of hospice volunteering with Deanna Sonnier, the volunteer coordinator for Harbor Hospice of Beaumont. With 14 years of experience, Deanna shares valuable insights into the roles of hospice volunteers and the process of becoming one. Key Points Volunteer Roles: Hospice volunteers can contribute in various ways, including: Providing companionship to patients Offering caregiver relief Assisting with practical services and errands Supporting patients spiritually Helping with administrative tasks Becoming a Volunteer: The process typically involves: Completing an application Undergoing comprehensive training Flexible scheduling options Training Topics: Volunteers receive education on: Hospice philosophy and services Communication skills End-of-life care Grief support Deanna shares a touching anecdote about hospice volunteers facilitating a special photo session for a husband and wife, highlighting the profound impact volunteers can have on patients and their families. For those interested in becoming a hospice volunteer, contact Harbor Hospice at (855) 542-7267. Connect with Harbor Hospice & Beacon Hospice: Follow Harbor Hospice on Facebook. Follow Beacon Hospice on Facebook. For more information about Harbor Hospice, please visit harborhospice.com For more information about Beacon Hospice, please visit beacon.life For more information about HarborCare & BeaconCare Palliative Services, please visit myharborcare.com Please send your questions or comments to the podcast host at [email protected].   

In this powerful episode, we welcome Sheralin Samuels, a dedicated caregiver who shares her personal journey of caring for her mother with early-onset Alzheimer's. Sheralin opens up about the challenges of balancing her caregiving responsibilities with raising two young children, maintaining her marriage, and working full-time. She offers valuable insights into the unique difficulties of caring for someone with early-onset Alzheimer's and provides practical advice for other caregivers facing similar situations. Sheralin discusses how she found support and resources through the Alzheimer's Association's support groups, which proved instrumental in her caregiving journey. She emphasizes the importance of self-care and seeking help when needed, drawing from her own experiences of managing multiple roles. As an extension of her caregiving experience, Sheralin has created a YouTube channel dedicated to offering resources and encouragement to fellow caregivers. She shares how this platform has become a way for her to connect with and support others in similar situations. Throughout the episode, Sheralin provides practical tips for managing daily tasks, ensuring safety, and maintaining quality of life for both the caregiver and the person with Alzheimer's. Her story is a testament to the resilience, love, and strength required in the caregiving journey. Connect with Harbor Hospice & Beacon Hospice: Follow Harbor Hospice on Facebook. Follow Beacon Hospice on Facebook. For more information about Harbor Hospice, please visit harborhospice.com For more information about Beacon Hospice, please visit beacon.life For more information about HarborCare & BeaconCare Palliative Services, please visit myharborcare.com Please send your questions or comments to the podcast host at [email protected]. 

In this episode, we welcome Sheralin Samuels, a dedicated caregiver and medical professional, who shares her personal journey of caring for her mother diagnosed with early-onset Alzheimer's disease. Sheralin's story highlights the challenges of recognizing the disease at a young age and the profound impact it has on families. She reflects on how she and even some physicians were initially in denial about the possibility of Alzheimer's at such a young age—her mother was just 48 when symptoms began. Sheralin shares the difficulties in getting a diagnosis, as many healthcare professionals were hesitant to consider Alzheimer's due to her mother's age. She talks about the emotional struggle of coming to terms with the diagnosis and how it affected her family's dynamics. Sheralin shares valuable insights and advice for others who may be facing similar challenges, emphasizing the importance of early recognition and seeking support. She concludes by highlighting the resilience and love that have sustained her family throughout this journey. Sheralin has a YouTube channel dedicated to helping others understand early-onset Alzheimer's.  Connect with Harbor Hospice & Beacon Hospice: Follow Harbor Hospice on Facebook. Follow Beacon Hospice on Facebook. For more information about Harbor Hospice, please visit harborhospice.com For more information about Beacon Hospice, please visit beacon.life For more information about HarborCare & BeaconCare Palliative Services, please visit myharborcare.com Please send your questions or comments to the podcast host at [email protected]. 

In this episode, we speak with two exceptional Harbor Hospice and Beacon Hospice professionals who have been recognized for excellence in their field: Hope Nelson, office coordinator in Oakdale, Louisiana Genevieve Himes, volunteer coordinator in Victoria, Texas Our guests share their personal journeys into hospice care and offer valuable insights for those considering a career in this meaningful field. Topics discussed include: What drew them to work in hospice Memorable experiences that have shaped their work Challenges and rewards of the job Advice for those interested in pursuing hospice as a career Whether you're a healthcare professional exploring new career paths or simply curious about the world of hospice, this episode provides an illuminating look at this vital area of healthcare from two of its most dedicated practitioners.  For more information about careers at Harbor Hospice and Beacon Hospice, please visit the following link: Harbor Hospice Careers Connect with Harbor Hospice & Beacon Hospice: Follow Harbor Hospice on Facebook. Follow Beacon Hospice on Facebook. For more information about Harbor Hospice, please visit harborhospice.com For more information about Beacon Hospice, please visit beacon.life For more information about HarborCare & BeaconCare Palliative Services, please visit myharborcare.com Please send your questions or comments to the podcast host at [email protected]. 

In this episode, grief specialist Gary Roe discusses how survivors can manage feelings of guilt after the death of a loved one. Roe explores the difference between guilt and regret and offers methods for finding forgiveness and reducing emotional baggage. Guilt vs. Regret Roe explains that while often used interchangeably, guilt and regret are distinct emotions: - Guilt is the feeling we experience when we knowingly do something wrong, usually related to ethical, moral, or legal reasons. - Regret is the emotion we feel when looking back on past actions, realizing we could have handled situations differently. Strategies for Managing Guilt and Regret Roe shares several strategies for managing these difficult emotions: 1. Release these feelings through talking, writing, or creative expression 2. Seek support: Talk to someone who listens well and loves you[3]. 3. Practice self-compassion: Remember that you're doing the best you can with the information you had at the time. Reducing Emotional Baggage To lighten the load of guilt and regret, Roe suggests: - Accepting that you can't change the past: Focus on what you can control in the present. - Practicing forgiveness: Both for yourself and others involved in the situation. - Honoring the deceased: Find ways to celebrate their memory and continue their legacy. - Seeking professional help: If guilt or regret persist, consider talking to a grief counselor or therapist. You can visit Gary's website for free resources and contact information at www.garyroe.com. Connect with Harbor Hospice & Beacon Hospice: Follow Harbor Hospice on Facebook. Follow Beacon Hospice on Facebook. For more information about Harbor Hospice, please visit harborhospice.com For more information about Beacon Hospice, please visit beacon.life For more information about HarborCare & BeaconCare Palliative Services, please visit myharborcare.com Please send your questions or comments to the podcast host at [email protected]. 

In this episode, we welcome grief specialist Gary Roe, author of several books on grief, to discuss how loss impacts relationships. Gary shares insights from his extensive experience and personal journey with grief. This episode offers valuable insights for those navigating grief and its effects on past, present, and future relationships. Listeners will gain a deeper understanding of the grieving process and learn strategies for maintaining and rebuilding connections during difficult times. The Impact of Grief on Relationships --Grief profoundly affects relationships in various ways: - Changes in relationship dynamics: Grief can alter the nature of connections with friends, family, and partners. - Communication challenges: The overwhelming emotions of grief can make it difficult to express feelings and thoughts. - Emotional rollercoaster: Grieving individuals may experience a range of emotions, including anger, which can strain relationships. --The Five Stages of Grief and Their Effects on Relationships 1. Denial: This initial stage can lead to disbelief and numbness, potentially causing withdrawal from loved ones. 2. Anger: Grieving individuals may lash out at those closest to them, creating conflict and misunderstandings. 3. Bargaining: This stage might involve attempts to restore or rebuild relationships, which can be challenging. 4. Depression: Isolation and loneliness may occur, impacting social connections. 5. Acceptance: Gradually, individuals come to terms with their loss and may be ready to open up to new experiences and relationships. For more information, visit GaryRoe.com. Connect with Harbor Hospice & Beacon Hospice: Follow Harbor Hospice on Facebook. Follow Beacon Hospice on Facebook. For more information about Harbor Hospice, please visit harborhospice.com For more information about Beacon Hospice, please visit beacon.life For more information about HarborCare & BeaconCare Palliative Services, please visit myharborcare.com Please send your questions or comments to the podcast host at [email protected].   

In this podcast episode featuring grief specialist Gary Roe, the discussion centers on managing grief during the holidays, a time often marked by intensified emotions for those experiencing loss. Here are the key points covered in the episode: Why Grief Intensifies During the Holidays Emotional Triggers: The holidays can amplify feelings of grief due to memories associated with loved ones who have passed. Traditions that once brought joy may now serve as painful reminders of absence. Isolation: Many people feel alone in their grief during this time, leading to feelings of sadness and disconnection from others who may not understand their experience. Challenges of Grieving During the Holidays Expectations vs. Reality: Society often promotes a cheerful holiday spirit, which can clash with an individual's personal experience of grief, creating additional pressure. Coping Mechanisms: Some individuals may resort to unhealthy coping strategies, such as overeating or withdrawing from social interactions, as they navigate their pain. Strategies for Managing Grief Acknowledge and Process: Gary emphasizes the importance of acknowledging one's feelings rather than suppressing them. He introduces the acronym A.I.R.: Acknowledge what you are feeling. Identify how those feelings affect you. Release those feelings through expression—be it talking, writing, or creating art. Seek Support: Engaging with loved ones who can listen and provide comfort is crucial. Sharing experiences can help alleviate feelings of isolation. Personalize Your Grief Journey: Recognize that everyone grieves differently. It's essential to find what works best for you, whether that's honoring memories in a new way or creating new traditions. Conclusion Gary Roe's insights remind listeners that grief is a personal journey without a set timeline. He encourages individuals to embrace their feelings and seek support as they navigate through the complexities of loss, especially during emotionally charged times like the holidays. For more resources and support from Gary Roe, visit his website at GaryRoe.com. Connect with Harbor Hospice & Beacon Hospice: Follow Harbor Hospice on Facebook. Follow Beacon Hospice on Facebook. For more information about Harbor Hospice, please visit harborhospice.com For more information about Beacon Hospice, please visit beacon.life For more information about HarborCare & BeaconCare Palliative Services, please visit myharborcare.com Please send your questions or comments to the podcast host at [email protected]. 

In this episode, we speak with two exceptional Harbor Hospice and Beacon Hospice professionals who have been recognized for excellence in their field: Dina Stepan, receptionist Carey Davis, social worker Our guests share their personal journeys into hospice care and offer valuable insights for those considering a career in this meaningful field. Topics discussed include: What drew them to work in hospice Memorable experiences that have shaped their work Challenges and rewards of the job Advice for those interested in pursuing hospice as a career Whether you're a healthcare professional exploring new career paths or simply curious about the world of hospice, this episode provides an illuminating look at this vital area of healthcare from two of its most dedicated practitioners. Connect with Harbor Hospice & Beacon Hospice: Follow Harbor Hospice on Facebook. Follow Beacon Hospice on Facebook. For more information about Harbor Hospice, please visit harborhospice.com For more information about Beacon Hospice, please visit beacon.life For more information about HarborCare & BeaconCare Palliative Services, please visit myharborcare.com Please send your questions or comments to the podcast host at [email protected]. 

As the holiday season approaches, many individuals find themselves grappling with grief and sadness rather than experiencing the traditional joy and cheer. The holidays, typically a time for family gatherings, can feel particularly heavy when a significant family member is no longer present. In this replay episode, Polly Stock, the Bereavement Coordinator at Harbor Hospice of Missouri, offers valuable insights on navigating grief during this challenging time of year.  In this episode, Polly shares some of her favorite resources, including the following books that you can find by following the links below.   Healing Your Holiday Grief by Alan Wolfelt Surviving the Holidays Without You by Gary Roe The Empty Chair by Robert DeVries Connect with Harbor Hospice & Beacon Hospice: Follow Harbor Hospice on Facebook. Follow Beacon Hospice on Facebook. For more information about Harbor Hospice, please visit harborhospice.com For more information about Beacon Hospice, please visit beacon.life For more information about HarborCare & BeaconCare Palliative Services, please visit myharborcare.com Please send your questions or comments to the podcast host at [email protected]. 

In this episode, host Jerry Fenter interviews Susanne White, founder of Caregiver Warrior. As a family caregiver with personal experience, Susanne has created an organization dedicated to supporting the family caregiver. Tune in for invaluable insights and encouragement for caregivers everywhere! Episode Highlights: Inspiration for Caregiver Warrior: Susanne shares her personal journey as a caregiver for her parents and the motivation behind starting the organization. Resources for Caregivers: An overview of the helpful tools and support available on the Caregiver Warrior website. Meaning of "Caregiver Warrior": The significance of the name, honoring her father's service as a bombadier pilot in World War II. Discussion of "Self-Care for Caregivers": Insights from her book, emphasizing the importance of self-care amidst caregiving responsibilities. You can find the resources of Caregiver Warrior on their website. Susanne and her "weapon of the day" for caregivers on X (Twitter) can be found here.  You can connect with Susanne on LinkedIn here.  To purchase her book on Amazon or buy it on Audible you can go to Amazon here.  Connect with Harbor Hospice & Beacon Hospice: Follow Harbor Hospice on Facebook. Follow Beacon Hospice on Facebook. For more information about Harbor Hospice, please visit harborhospice.com For more information about Beacon Hospice, please visit beacon.life For more information about HarborCare & BeaconCare Palliative Services, please visit myharborcare.com Please send your questions or comments to the podcast host at [email protected]. 

In this episode, we welcome Susanne White, who dedicated a decade to caring for her family members, including four years for both of her parents, who passed away just seven weeks apart. Susanne opens up about her transformative caregiving journey, sharing invaluable lessons learned along the way. She hopes to empower fellow caregivers, offering hope and guidance drawn from her own experiences. Tune in to discover how you can navigate the challenges of caregiving with resilience and grace. Episode Highlights: Susanne reveals the unexpected way became her parents caregiver The lessons she learned about herself through her experience as a caregiver The need to step away from shame and guilt Planning self care activities as a caregiver How she dealt with competing demands while caregiving Connect with Harbor Hospice & Beacon Hospice: Follow Harbor Hospice on Facebook. Follow Beacon Hospice on Facebook. For more information about Harbor Hospice, please visit harborhospice.com For more information about Beacon Hospice, please visit beacon.life For more information about HarborCare & BeaconCare Palliative Services, please visit myharborcare.com Please send your questions or comments to the podcast host at [email protected]. 

In this episode, we speak with two exceptional Harbor Hospice and Beacon Hospice professionals who have been recognized for excellence in their field: Shannon Britan, RN Case Manager Erica Sanchez, RN Case Manager Our guests share their personal journeys into hospice care and offer valuable insights for those considering a career in this meaningful field. Topics discussed include: What drew them to work in hospice How to overcome the myths of hospice Challenges and rewards of the job Advice for those interested in pursuing hospice as a career Memorable experiences that have shaped their work Whether you're a healthcare professional exploring new career paths or simply curious about the world of hospice, this episode provides an illuminating look at this vital area of healthcare from two of its most dedicated practitioners. Connect with Harbor Hospice & Beacon Hospice: Follow Harbor Hospice on Facebook. Follow Beacon Hospice on Facebook. For more information about Harbor Hospice, please visit harborhospice.com For more information about Beacon Hospice, please visit beacon.life For more information about HarborCare & BeaconCare Palliative Services, please visit myharborcare.com Please send your questions or comments to the podcast host at [email protected]. 

In this episode, we speak with two exceptional Harbor Hospice and Beacon Hospice professionals who have been recognized for excellence in their field: Shawna Sibley, Hospice Administrator Graham Paterson, Hospice Spiritual Counselor Our guests share their personal journeys into hospice care and offer valuable insights for those considering a career in this meaningful field. Topics discussed include: What drew them to work in hospice Key skills and qualities needed to thrive in hospice care Challenges and rewards of the job Advice for those interested in pursuing hospice as a career How their roles as administrator and spiritual counselor complement each other Memorable experiences that have shaped their work Whether you're a healthcare professional exploring new career paths or simply curious about the world of hospice, this episode provides an illuminating look at this vital area of healthcare from two of its most dedicated practitioners. Connect with Harbor Hospice & Beacon Hospice: Follow Harbor Hospice on Facebook. Follow Beacon Hospice on Facebook. For more information about Harbor Hospice, please visit harborhospice.com For more information about Beacon Hospice, please visit beacon.life For more information about HarborCare & BeaconCare Palliative Services, please visit myharborcare.com Please send your questions or comments to the podcast host at [email protected]. 

In this episode, we welcome Rosanne Corcoran, host of Daughterhood: The Podcast for Caregivers and a recognized advocate for aging. Rosanne shares the inspiring story behind Daughterhood, a vital resource for caregivers, and discusses how her personal caregiving experience was helped by this supportive community.  Rosanne brings her wealth of experience and compassionate approach to caregiving, offering listeners valuable insights and strategies for managing the complex world of care. Whether you're a current caregiver or anticipating this role in the future, this episode provides essential information and inspiration for your caregiving journey. Episode Highlights: The origins and mission of Daughterhood How Daughterhood provides support, resources, and a sense of community for caregivers The creation and impact of Daughterhood: The Podcast for Caregivers Rosanne's role as a Daughterhood Circle Leader since 2019 Her recognition as one of Next Avenue's 2024 Advocates for Aging The importance of authentic conversations and expert insights in navigating caregiving challenges Connect with Harbor Hospice & Beacon Hospice: Follow Harbor Hospice on Facebook. Follow Beacon Hospice on Facebook. For more information about Harbor Hospice, please visit harborhospice.com For more information about Beacon Hospice, please visit beacon.life For more information about HarborCare & BeaconCare Palliative Services, please visit myharborcare.com Please send your questions or comments to the podcast host at [email protected]. 

In this episode of Lighting the Path, Rosanne Corcoran shares her transformative journey through 12 years of caregiving for her mother with dementia. Rosanne discusses the emotional and practical challenges she faced, the lessons learned, and the importance of community and support for caregivers. Listeners will gain valuable insights into navigating the complexities of caregiving, including strategies for self-care and coping mechanisms. Join us in this heartfelt discussion and find the support you need on your caregiving journey. Resources Mentioned in This Episode: Daughterhood Website: For more information, support, and community resources for caregivers, visit Daughterhood. Judy Cornish and the DAWN Method: Learn about the DAWN Method of dementia caregiving, which focuses on person-centered care and understanding the unique needs of individuals with dementia. Visit Judy Cornish's website for more resources. Connect with Harbor Hospice & Beacon Hospice: Follow Harbor Hospice on Facebook. Follow Beacon Hospice on Facebook. For more information about Harbor Hospice, please visit harborhospice.com For more information about Beacon Hospice, please visit beacon.life For more information about HarborCare & BeaconCare Palliative Services, please visit myharborcare.com Please send your questions or comments to the podcast host at [email protected].   

In this episode, we explore the vital role of caregiver support groups in helping family caregivers manage the multifaceted stresses of caring for a loved one with a life-limiting illness. Our guest, John Wayland, a spiritual counselor and facilitator for a caregiver support group at Harbor Hospice, shares his insights and experiences on the practical benefits of these groups. Key Discussion Points: Introduction to Caregiver Support Groups: Definition and purpose of caregiver support groups. Overview of the types of support provided: physical, emotional, and spiritual. Guest Introduction: Background of John Wayland. His role as a spiritual counselor and facilitator at Harbor Hospice. Practical Benefits of Support Groups: How support groups help caregivers handle stress and prevent burnout. The importance of sharing experiences and learning from others in similar situations. Practical tips and knowledge shared in these groups that make caregiving easier. Emotional and Spiritual Support: The role of emotional support in maintaining caregiver well-being. Spiritual support and its impact on coping with the challenges of caregiving. Encouragement and Community Building: Stories of encouragement and support from fellow group members. Building a community and sense of belonging among caregivers. Facilitation and Participation: John's approach to facilitating the group sessions. How participants can join and what to expect in a typical session. Resources and Links: For more information about Harbor Hospice or Beacon Hospice support groups, visit their website at www.harborhospice.com or www.beacon.life. Current caregiver support groups are being offered at Harbor Hospice of Lufkin, Harbor Hospice of Lake Charles, Harbor Hospice of Gulf Coast (Rockport), and Harbor Hospice of East Kansas City (Independence, MO). Call to Action: If you are a caregiver feeling overwhelmed, consider joining a support group. You don't have to do it alone. Reach out to local resources or online support groups to find the help and community you need. Tune in to this insightful episode to learn more about how caregiver support groups can make a significant difference in your caregiving journey.

Jennifer O'Brien, author of The Hospice Doctor's Widow, joins us to discuss her experiences and resources for caregivers and those facing end-of-life situations. Key points from the interview: - Jennifer created "Precious Time," a resource to help healthcare professionals communicate effectively about end-of-life situations. - She discusses the concept of the "triad of certainty". - Jennifer's website (www.hospicedrswidow.com) offers several valuable resources for caregivers, including:   - A guide to better sleep   - A griever's guide to major days   - The "At Peace Toolkit" - a step-by-step guide for end-of-life preparation and discussions Additional resources mentioned: - A free download of five art journaling prompts - A comprehensive position description for family caregivers Jennifer's book, The Hospice Doctor's Widow, is a beautiful, artistic journal exploring the caregiver's journey through dying and grief. Connect with Jennifer: Visit her website: hospicedoctorswidow.com Follow her on social media for more insights and updates. Connect with Harbor Hospice & Beacon Hospice: Follow Harbor Hospice on Facebook. Follow Beacon Hospice on Facebook. For more information about Harbor Hospice, please visit harborhospice.com For more information about Beacon Hospice, please visit beacon.life For more information about HarborCare & BeaconCare Palliative Services, please visit myharborcare.com Please send your questions or comments to the podcast host at [email protected]. 

Jennifer O'Brien, author of "The Hospice Doctor's Widow," returns to discuss her free "At Peace Toolkit" in this episode. This essential resource, available at hospicedrswidow.com, guides individuals through simple yet crucial steps for end-of-life planning. The At Peace Toolkit offers: - A streamlined approach to end-of-life preparations - Potential life-saving measures for individuals - Strategies to alleviate family stress and complications after death O'Brien, drawing from her personal experience as a caregiver and widow of a hospice physician, designed this toolkit to empower people in making informed decisions about their end-of-life care. The episode explores how this free, downloadable resource can help listeners: - Navigate difficult conversations about death and dying - Organize important documents and information - Communicate end-of-life wishes effectively By discussing the At Peace Toolkit, this episode provides valuable insights for anyone looking to proactively address end-of-life planning, ensuring peace of mind for themselves and their loved ones. Connect with Jennifer: Visit her website: hospicedoctorswidow.com Follow her on social media for more insights and updates. Connect with Harbor Hospice & Beacon Hospice: Follow Harbor Hospice on Facebook. Follow Beacon Hospice on Facebook. For more information about Harbor Hospice, please visit harborhospice.com For more information about Beacon Hospice, please visit beacon.life For more information about HarborCare & BeaconCare Palliative Services, please visit myharborcare.com Please send your questions or comments to the podcast host at [email protected]. 

In this episode, we delve into the poignant and insightful journey chronicled in Jennifer A. O'Brien's book, The Hospice Doctor's Widow: A Journal. Jennifer shares her deeply personal experience of caring for her husband, Bob, a hospice and palliative care physician diagnosed with advanced metastatic cancer. This episode is a heartfelt exploration of the challenges and emotional landscape faced by caregivers. Key Topics Discussed: Jennifer's Caregiving Journey: Learn about Jennifer's transition from wife to caregiver and how she coped with the anticipatory grief and eventual loss of her husband. Art and Healing: Discover how Jennifer used digital art and journaling as a form of self-care and emotional expression during her caregiving journey. Advice for Caregivers: Practical tips and advice for those currently in caregiving roles, including how to navigate the emotional and physical demands. Understanding Grief: Insights into the different processes experienced by patients and caregivers, and how to honor and live through grief. Connect with Jennifer: Visit her website: hospicedoctorswidow.com Follow her on social media for more insights and updates. Connect with Harbor Hospice & Beacon Hospice: Follow Harbor Hospice on Facebook. Follow Beacon Hospice on Facebook. For more information about Harbor Hospice, please visit harborhospice.com For more information about Beacon Hospice, please visit beacon.life For more information about HarborCare & BeaconCare Palliative Services, please visit myharborcare.com Please send your questions or comments to the podcast host at [email protected].