Manhood Tribes

Most men want to lead well—but feel stuck when it comes to actually following through. We're continuing our series on leadership, focusing today on the crucial aspect of self leadership. This is about taking control of your own path and achieving personal mastery, which is vital for any man seeking self improvement. We'll explore how this journey can significantly contribute to your personal growth and ultimately, help you be a better man.In this conversation with Dusty Holcomb, we break down why self-leadership is the foundation for everything—and how your habits, your calendar, and your discipline reveal the kind of man you're actually becoming. 💪- Why self-leadership is the gateway to real impact- How your calendar exposes your true priorities- The danger of waiting for perfect conditions- Why discipline—not motivation—creates growth- How to build a system that actually changes your life----------------------------📝 Take the Quiz: How Manly Are You? https://bit.ly/3Pfx7SAFind out how manly you really are and see where you stand compared to other men📖 Get the Book: How To Be a Man https://amzn.to/4cm2eplDiscover the 5 Marks of Manhood and start leading with strength and purpose----------------------------#ManhoodTribes #Leadership #MensGrowth #ChristianMen #MasculinityEpisode 073: Your Actions Don't Match Your Intentions? Here's WhyTimestamps00:00 Introduction03:00 The power of mentorship07:30 What self-leadership actually means10:30 Why most men avoid leading themselves13:00 Your calendar reveals your priorities16:00 Why “perfect” is the enemy of progress18:30 Discipline and doing the hard thing21:00 The importance of brotherhood and accountability24:00 Leadership rules of engagement27:00 Creating clarity and alignment30:00 Building a leadership operating system34:00 Purpose, vision, and execution37:00 Weekly reflection practice40:00 Why self-leadership changes everything42:00 Wrap up and comment prompt💪 Want to know how you measure up as a man? Take our free quiz, called How Manly Are You? and learn how you can get better at being a man. Download for free at manhoodtribes.com/manly. 💪

Men often feel frustrated when their leadership isn't valued in the workplace or family. We discuss how to gain respect and how to earn respect, emphasizing the importance of effective communication skills. Learn how to be a leader that inspires trust and follow-through, navigating masculinity and leadership with strength and purpose. 💪If you’ve ever stayed silent, avoided conflict, or wondered if your leadership even matters, this episode will help you take the next step. We walk through three powerful shifts that can help you lead with clarity, confidence, and impact:- Why passivity is the biggest enemy of male leadership- The difference between blaming others and taking responsibility- Why staying silent often makes things worse- How to step into leadership even when it’s uncomfortable- The three shifts that make people actually want to follow you------------------------------📝 Take the Quiz: How Manly Are You? https://bit.ly/3Pfx7SAFind out how manly you really are and see where you stand compared to other men📖 Get the Book: How To Be a Man https://amzn.to/4cm2eplDiscover the 5 Marks of Manhood and start leading with strength and purpose-----------------------------#ManhoodTribes #Leadership #ChristianMen #MensGrowth #Masculinity-----------------------------Episode 072: Lead Like a Man: 3 Shifts for Greater ImpactTimestamps00:00 Introduction01:00 Why leadership doesn’t always land03:00 The real problem: passivity06:00 Why men avoid stepping up08:00 Story: leading in finances and family10:00 Shift 1: Don’t be passive, take action12:00 Shift 2: Don’t be a victim, take responsibility15:00 Shift 3: Don’t be silent, take a stand18:00 Why courage matters in leadership19:30 How leadership actually brings peace21:00 Wrap up and comment prompt💪 Want to know how you measure up as a man? Take our free quiz, called How Manly Are You? and learn how you can get better at being a man. Download for free at manhoodtribes.com/manly. 💪

Most men admit their faith isn't as strong as they'd like, and this video explores why. We dive into the challenges men face in prioritizing spiritual growth, offering biblical wisdom to help trust God. Discover practical ways to navigate these 'hard times' and strengthen your connection.A tribe of men can challenge you, support you, and help you grow spiritually in ways that isolated faith never will. In this episode we cover:- Why many men’s faith becomes private and starts to fade- The difference between routine spiritual habits and real spiritual life- How brotherhood strengthens your faith like a shield wall in battle- Why spiritual disciplines are actually preparation to fight for other men- How a tribe helps you develop a vibrant, active relationship with Jesus---------------------------📝 Take the Quiz: How Manly Are You? https://bit.ly/3Pfx7SAFind out how manly you really are and see where you stand compared to other men📖 Get the Book: How To Be a Man https://amzn.to/4cm2eplDiscover the 5 Marks of Manhood and start living with purpose today---------------------------#ManhoodTribes #ChristianMen #MensFaith #Brotherhood #BuildYourTribe---------------------------Episode 071: Christian Men Are Getting This Wrong About FaithTimestamps00:00 Introduction01:00 Why men struggle to prioritize their faith03:00 How faith becomes private and starts to fade06:00 Why routine spiritual habits often feel lifeless09:00 Why men grow through action and challenge11:00 The “shield wall” analogy for brotherhood15:00 Spiritual disciplines as training for battle16:00 Connecting to Jesus vs. religious routines18:30 Why most men’s groups fail19:00 Build Your Own Tribe program20:00 Wrap up and comment prompt💪 Want to know how you measure up as a man? Take our free quiz, called How Manly Are You? and learn how you can get better at being a man. Download for free at manhoodtribes.com/manly. 💪

Your marriage isn't likely to end in a dramatic explosion; instead, it could slowly erode over time. What starts as love and passion can gradually shift into boredom and disinterest, leading to faded love. Understanding why most marriages fail often comes down to recognizing this subtle process, offering crucial relationship advice for those looking to build lasting connections.- Why most marriages fade through distance and routine rather than crisis- How a tribe of men helps you face hard truths about yourself- Why listening to God together can bring wisdom and direction for your marriage-----------------------------📝 Take the Quiz: How Manly Are You? https://bit.ly/3Pfx7SASee how manly you really are and discover where you stand compared to other men📖 Get the Book: How To Be a Man https://amzn.to/4cm2eplDiscover the 5 Marks of Manhood and start living with purpose and integrity today-----------------------------#ManhoodTribes #MensGroups #ChristianMen #Marriage #BuildYourTribe-----------------------------Episode 070: How a Tribe Can Save Your MarriageTimestamps00:00 Introduction01:00 Why marriages usually fade instead of exploding03:00 Autopilot, routine, and slow marital drift05:00 Why men cannot fix marriage problems alone07:00 Two real stories from a tribe10:00 Getting brutally honest with your brothers12:00 Focusing on yourself instead of controlling your wife15:00 Listening to God together for wisdom18:00 Build Your Own Tribe program19:30 Why restoration is possible💪 Want to know how you measure up as a man? Take our free quiz, called How Manly Are You? and learn how you can get better at being a man. Download for free at manhoodtribes.com/manly. 💪

Are you a Christian man struggling to break free from porn? This episode dives into the unique challenges men face with sexual temptation, why willpower alone often fails, and how a tribe of trusted brothers can help you gain real freedom and build integrity:- Why trying to quit porn on your own often fails- How shame and secrecy keep men stuck- How a tribe of men can provide accountability, challenge, and sustainable freedom-------------------------------📝 Take the Quiz: How Manly Are You? https://bit.ly/3Pfx7SASee how manly you really are and discover where you stand compared to other men-------------------------------📖 Get the Book: How To Be a Man https://amzn.to/4cm2eplLearn the 5 Marks of Manhood and start living a life of freedom and integrity today-------------------------------#ManhoodTribes #MensGroups #ChristianMen #Brotherhood #BuildYourTribe-------------------------------Timestamps00:00 Introduction01:00 Why willpower alone won't free you from porn03:00 How porn gains power through secrecy and shame06:00 The risks and benefits of sharing your struggle09:00 Living openly in the context of community12:00 How a tribe helps men find freedom and build integrity16:00 Turning progress into a sustainable lifestyle17:30 Comment challenge: share what hasn't worked for you💪 Want to know how you measure up as a man? Take our free quiz, called How Manly Are You? and learn how you can get better at being a man. Download for free at manhoodtribes.com/manly. 💪

Are you a Christian man who's tired of disappointing men's groups? This video addresses the common challenge many Christian men face with unfulfilling mens ministry experiences and strained relationships. We discuss why many find these groups lacking and offer insights into fostering true spiritual growth and community:- Why Christian men's groups are often built for women, not men- The three ways men connect and grow together- How to turn a simple group into a powerful experience of trust, challenge, and growth-------------------------------📝 Take the Quiz: How Manly Are You? https://bit.ly/3Pfx7SAFind out how manly you really are and see where you stand compared to other men-------------------------------📖 Get the Book: How To Be a Man https://amzn.to/4cm2eplDiscover the 5 Marks of Manhood and start living with purpose today-------------------------------#ManhoodTribes #MensGroups #ChristianMen #Brotherhood #BuildYourTribe-------------------------------Timestamps00:00 Introduction01:00 Why men's groups often disappoint03:00 The content trap and surface-level conversation07:00 How men connect differently than women12:00 Action, challenge, and trust in men's groups15:00 Example of a high-impact men's group18:00 Build Your Own Tribe program20:00 Wrap up and comment prompt💪 Want to know how you measure up as a man? Take our free quiz, called How Manly Are You? and learn how you can get better at being a man. Download for free at manhoodtribes.com/manly. 💪

Every man needs a mentor — someone who’s walked farther down the path and can help you see where you’re headed. But finding the right mentor can feel impossible. Where do you start? How do you ask? And what if you don’t even know what kind of guidance you need?In this episode, Don unpacks the truth about mentorship — how to find one, how to build trust, and how to use those relationships to become the man you actually want to be.You’ll discover: • The 3 types of mentors every man needs • How to overcome pride and fear when asking for help • Why humility and curiosity are the secret ingredients to growth📘 Want to go deeper in becoming a man of strength, skill, and purpose? Grab Don’s book How to Be a Man — your guide to the 5 Marks of Manhood and the path to true masculine growth. 👉 https://bit.ly/43Fh30QFollow & Connect 💪 Take the “How Manly Are You?” Quiz → https://bit.ly/3Leh2L1 🧭 Get the Pathway to Freedom guide for men → https://bit.ly/4olGz3S 📘 Read How To Be A Man → https://bit.ly/43Fh30Q 📘 Facebook: https://facebook.com/manhoodtribes 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/manhoodtribes 🎙️ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7HrM8c2cbFvwCSTjyWRlWo 🍎 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/manhood-tribes/id1723837362Question for You What’s one area of your work or life where you wish you had a mentor? Drop it in the comments — your honesty might inspire another man to seek guidance too.⏰ TIMECODES 00:00 Why Mentorship Matters 02:15 The Pressure and Myths Around Mentoring 03:10 The “Multiple Mentor” Mindset 05:15 How to Find the Right Kind of Mentor 06:20 My Experience Being Mentored by Older Men 08:00 Overcoming Pride and Fear 10:05 How Mentorship Builds the 5 Marks of Manhood 11:45 Why It Strengthens Skill, Courage, and Allegiance 14:30 Benefits of Mentorship and Next StepsHASHTAGS #ManhoodTribes #MensGrowth #MentorshipForMen #FaithForMen #MensLeadershipABOUT MANHOOD TRIBES In our culture today, many men don’t feel like they know what it means to be a man, and they lack male friendships. Manhood Tribes guides you to becoming an extraordinary man by pursuing strong, healthy masculinity and building a life-changing group of men around you. Get started at https://manhoodtribes.com💪 Want to know how you measure up as a man? Take our free quiz, called How Manly Are You? and learn how you can get better at being a man. Download for free at manhoodtribes.com/manly. 💪

Every man hits a moment in his career when he wonders: Is this really what I’m meant to do?In this episode, Don sits down with Jake Kennington, a structural engineer turned coach, to talk about how men can recognize when it’s time for a career change — and how to make that pivot wisely. You’ll learn: • How to know the difference between a rough season and a wrong path • Why success on paper can still leave you empty • How to redefine success and build a life that fits your valuesGuest Resources 🎯 Jake Kennington — Actively Human Website: https://activelyhuman.com Free “Own Your Life” Playbook: https://activelyhuman.com/#playbook LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jakekenningtonFollow & Connect 💪 Take the “How Manly Are You?” Quiz → https://bit.ly/3Leh2L1 🧭 Get the Pathway to Freedom guide for men → https://bit.ly/4olGz3S 📘 Read How To Be A Man → https://bit.ly/43Fh30Q 📘 Facebook: https://facebook.com/manhoodtribes 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/manhoodtribes 🎙️ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7HrM8c2cbFvwCSTjyWRlWo 🍎 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/manhood-tribes/id1723837362Question for You What’s one area of your career or life that you’ve felt restless about lately? Drop it in the comments — your story might help another man find the courage to make his next move.⏰ TIMECODES 00:00 Introduction to Jake Kennington 01:12 Jake's Career Journey and Realization 04:20 Navigating Mid-Career Transitions 12:03 Redefining Success and Personal Growth 18:34 The Role of Creativity and Experimentation 28:58 Building Connections and Coaching 40:59 Conclusion and Contact InformationHASHTAGS #ManhoodTribes #MensGrowth #CareerChange #MensLeadership #PurposeDrivenWork #FaithForMenABOUT MANHOOD TRIBES In our culture today, many men don’t feel like they know what it means to be a man, and they lack male friendships. Manhood Tribes guides you to becoming an extraordinary man by pursuing strong, healthy masculinity and building a life-changing group of men around you. Get started at https://manhoodtribes.com.💪 Want to know how you measure up as a man? Take our free quiz, called How Manly Are You? and learn how you can get better at being a man. Download for free at manhoodtribes.com/manly. 💪

Most men are terrified to show weakness at work. We think if we admit struggle, we’ll lose credibility or respect. But the truth is, learning how to be vulnerable the right way actually earns you more trust — and frees you from the pressure to fake strength.In this episode, Don shares how men can open up at work without losing respect. You’ll learn: • Why courage and skill are both required to show vulnerability well • How to identify the right person and setting to share honestly • Why vulnerability builds stronger teams and better leaders💼 Feeling like your life and work are starting to unravel? If you’re stuck, burned out, or just tired of pretending you’re okay, Don’s Victorious Man Coaching can help you rebuild from the inside out. 📩 Email [email protected] to find out if it’s right for you.Follow & Connect 💪 Take the “How Manly Are You?” Quiz → https://bit.ly/3Leh2L1 🧭 Get the Pathway to Freedom guide for men → https://bit.ly/4olGz3S 📘 Read How To Be A Man → https://bit.ly/43Fh30Q 📘 Facebook: https://facebook.com/manhoodtribes 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/manhoodtribes 🎙️ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7HrM8c2cbFvwCSTjyWRlWo 🍎 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/manhood-tribes/id1723837362Question for You What’s one weakness you need to open up about at work? Drop it in the comments — your honesty might give another man the courage to do the same.⏰ TIMECODES 00:00 The Struggle of Showing Weakness at Work 01:05 The Importance of Addressing Weaknesses 05:13 Understanding the Five Marks of Manhood 05:54 Combining Courage and Skill 07:20 Practical Steps to Open Up at Work 15:27 The Benefits of Vulnerability in the Workplace 19:00 Conclusion and Call to ActionHASHTAGS #ManhoodTribes #MensGrowth #WorkplaceCourage #FaithForMen #MensLeadership #VulnerabilityABOUT MANHOOD TRIBES In our culture today, many men don’t feel like they know what it means to be a man, and they lack male friendships. Manhood Tribes guides you to becoming an extraordinary man by pursuing strong, healthy masculinity and building a life-changing group of men around you. Get started at https://manhoodtribes.com💪 Want to know how you measure up as a man? Take our free quiz, called How Manly Are You? and learn how you can get better at being a man. Download for free at manhoodtribes.com/manly. 💪

Every man wants to “have it all” — the perfect career, family, fitness, faith, and freedom. But the truth? You can’t. And chasing that dream will only leave you burned out and empty.In this episode, Don exposes the myth of “having it all” and shows how to build a life of meaning by choosing what truly matters. You’ll learn: • Why the online version of success is a trap • How to live with honor and make intentional sacrifices • Why a tribe of men helps you define and protect what matters most📘 Want to go deeper into the 5 Marks of Manhood — including Honor? Grab Don’s book How To Be A Man and learn how to live them out in your own tribe: https://bit.ly/43Fh30QFollow & Connect 💪 Take the “How Manly Are You?” Quiz → https://bit.ly/3Leh2L1 🧭 Get the Pathway to Freedom guide for men → https://bit.ly/4olGz3S 📘 Read How To Be A Man → https://bit.ly/43Fh30Q 📘 Facebook: https://facebook.com/manhoodtribes 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/manhoodtribes 🎙️ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7HrM8c2cbFvwCSTjyWRlWo 🍎 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/manhood-tribes/id1723837362Question for You What’s one value you want to uphold — and what’s one thing you’ll need to sacrifice to honor it? Comment below and share your example.⏰ TIMECODES 00:00 The Myth of Having It All 01:18 The Reality Check 03:32 The Importance of Honor 04:54 The Illusion of Internet Perfection 08:03 Personal Experience with Overcommitment 10:46 Building a Tribe and Setting Priorities 13:34 ConclusionHASHTAGS #ManhoodTribes #MensGrowth #WorkLifeBalance #FaithForMen #MensTribe #MasculinityABOUT MANHOOD TRIBES In our culture today, many men don’t feel like they know what it means to be a man, and they lack male friendships. Manhood Tribes guides you to becoming an extraordinary man by pursuing strong, healthy masculinity and building a life-changing group of men around you. Get started at https://manhoodtribes.com💪 Want to know how you measure up as a man? Take our free quiz, called How Manly Are You? and learn how you can get better at being a man. Download for free at manhoodtribes.com/manly. 💪

Most men don’t know what it really means to live out their faith at work. Is it just about being ethical, or is there something more? In this conversation, Don sits down with Brian Gray, VP of Formation at the Denver Institute for Faith and Work, to unpack what it looks like to integrate faith into your career, find meaning in everyday work, and lead with integrity and excellence.If you’ve ever wondered how to bring your faith to work without being “that guy,” this episode will give you a deeper, more practical vision for what faith at work really means.🙏 Brian mentioned a free devotional called “God Loves Work.” 👉 Download it here: https://www.denverinstitute.org/god-loves-work/Follow & Connect💪 Take the “How Manly Are You?” Quiz → https://bit.ly/3Leh2L1 🧭 Get the Pathway to Freedom guide for men → https://bit.ly/4olGz3S 📘 Read How To Be A Man → https://bit.ly/43Fh30Q 📘 Facebook: https://facebook.com/manhoodtribes 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/manhoodtribes 🎙️ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7HrM8c2cbFvwCSTjyWRlWo 🍎 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/manhood-tribes/id1723837362Question for You What’s one way you’ve found to live out your faith in the workplace? Drop it in the comments — your example might give another man the courage to do the same.⏰ TIMECODES 00:00 Exploring Faith in the Workplace 00:57 Brian Gray’s Role and Work 03:06 Challenges of Faith and Work Integration 06:35 Historical and Cultural Context of Faith at Work 12:58 The Bigger Vision of Faithful Christian Living 16:42 Finding Meaning and Purpose in Work 22:16 The Value of Work in God’s Design 23:20 The Divine Purpose of Work 24:12 Finding Meaning in Everyday Tasks 26:53 Integrating Faith into Work 27:19 Practical Exercises for Faith at Work 32:25 Sharing Faith in the Workplace 38:53 Resources and Community for Faith and Work 43:10 Final ThoughtsHASHTAGS #ManhoodTribes #FaithAtWork #MensLeadership #ChristianMen #WorkAndFaithABOUT MANHOOD TRIBES In our culture today, many men don’t feel like they know what it means to be a man, and they lack male friendships. Manhood Tribes guides you to becoming an extraordinary man by pursuing strong, healthy masculinity and building a life-changing group of men around you. Get started at https://manhoodtribes.com💪 Want to know how you measure up as a man? Take our free quiz, called How Manly Are You? and learn how you can get better at being a man. Download for free at manhoodtribes.com/manly. 💪

Every man knows the pressure to overwork. We feel like if we don’t push harder, someone else will — and we’ll fall behind. But what if saying no to overwork could actually make you a better man?In this episode of the Manhood Tribe Show, Don explores why men feel trapped in the cycle of overwork and how to break free — without tanking your career. You’ll learn how to: • Set boundaries that earn respect, not punishment • Develop the courage to say no at the right time • Trust God as your ultimate provider — not your paycheckFollow & Connect 💪 Take the “How Manly Are You?” Quiz → https://bit.ly/3Leh2L1 🧭 Get the “Pathway to Freedom” guide for men → https://bit.ly/4olGz3S 📘 Read How To Be A Man → https://bit.ly/43Fh30Q 📘 Facebook: https://facebook.com/manhoodtribes 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/manhoodtribes 🎙️ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7HrM8c2cbFvwCSTjyWRlWo 🍎 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/manhood-tribes/id1723837362Question for You Where do you need to say “no” to overwork in your life right now? Comment below — your courage might help another man draw his own boundary.⏰ TIMECODES 00:00 The Pressure to Overwork 01:08 Introduction to the Manhood Tribe Show 02:51 The Impact of Overwork on Personal Life 06:51 Setting Boundaries at Work 10:50 Developing the Courage to Say No 14:28 Trusting God as Your Provider 18:57 Conclusion and Call to ActionHASHTAGS #ManhoodTribes #MenAndWork #FaithForMen #Overworking #CourageForMen #MasculinityABOUT MANHOOD TRIBES In our culture today, many men don’t feel like they know what it means to be a man, and they lack male friendships. Manhood Tribes guides you to becoming an extraordinary man by pursuing strong, healthy masculinity and building a life-changing group of men around you. Get started at https://manhoodtribes.com💪 Want to know how you measure up as a man? Take our free quiz, called How Manly Are You? and learn how you can get better at being a man. Download for free at manhoodtribes.com/manly. 💪

Do you ever wake up, go to work, grind through the day, and wonder… what’s the point of all this? You’re not alone. Every man eventually wrestles with how to find purpose in work that feels meaningless or lifeless.In this episode of the Manhood Tribe Show, Don unpacks why so many men lose a sense of calling in their jobs — and how to rediscover purpose even in the most ordinary work.You’ll learn how to: • Reframe your daily grind for deeper purpose • Apply the Five Marks of Manhood in your career • Shift your attitude toward strength, courage, skill, honor, and allegiance — even when the job itself doesn’t changeFollow & Connect 💪 Take the “How Manly Are You?” Quiz → https://bit.ly/3Leh2L1 🧭 Get the “Pathway to Freedom” guide for men → https://bit.ly/4olGz3S 📘 Read How To Be A Man → https://bit.ly/43Fh30Q 📘 Facebook: https://facebook.com/manhoodtribes 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/manhoodtribes 🎙️ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7HrM8c2cbFvwCSTjyWRlWo 🍎 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/manhood-tribes/id1723837362Question for You What’s one way you bring purpose into your work, even when it feels lifeless? Drop your thoughts in the comments — your insight could help another man find meaning again.⏰ TIMECODES 00:00 The Daily Grind: Finding Meaning in Work 01:37 The Importance of Work in Men's Lives 02:50 The Consequences of Meaningless Work 04:18 Identifying the Problems in Your Job 11:16 Reframing Your Work for Greater Purpose 14:01 Applying the Five Marks of Manhood at Work 22:01 When Attitude Shifts Aren’t Enough 23:14 Becoming a Man of PurposeHASHTAGS #ManhoodTribes #MensPurpose #FaithAndWork #Masculinity #ManhoodJourneyABOUT MANHOOD TRIBES In our culture today, many men don’t feel like they know what it means to be a man, and they lack male friendships. Manhood Tribes guides you to becoming an extraordinary man by pursuing strong, healthy masculinity and building a life-changing group of men around you. Get started at https://manhoodtribes.com💪 Want to know how you measure up as a man? Take our free quiz, called How Manly Are You? and learn how you can get better at being a man. Download for free at manhoodtribes.com/manly. 💪

Every man wrestles with the same question: How do I succeed at work without losing my soul — or my family?In this first episode of the Men and Work series, Don tackles the tension between career ambition and being fully present at home. You’ll learn how your allegiance — what or who you ultimately serve — determines whether your life stays in balance or spirals into burnout.Follow & Connect💪 Take the “How Manly Are You?” Quiz → https://bit.ly/3Leh2L1 🧭 Get the Pathway to Freedom guide for men → https://bit.ly/4olGz3S 📘 Read How To Be A Man → https://bit.ly/43Fh30Q📘 Facebook: https://facebook.com/manhoodtribes 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/manhoodtribes 🎙️ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7HrM8c2cbFvwCSTjyWRlWo 🍎 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/manhood-tribes/id1723837362Question for YouWhere does your allegiance get pulled off track the most — work or family? Comment below — your story might help another man find his balance.⏰ TIMECODES00:00 Introduction: The Struggle of Balancing Work and Home Life 00:35 New Series: Men and Work 04:19 The Importance of Allegiance 06:55 Influence of Childhood on Work-Family Balance 12:21 Setting Boundaries for Work and Family 17:28 The Benefits of Proper Allegiance 20:33 Conclusion: Aligning Ambition with AllegianceHASHTAGS#ManhoodTribes #MenAndWork #FaithForMen #WorkLifeBalance #MensLeadershipABOUT MANHOOD TRIBESIn our culture today, many men don’t feel like they know what it means to be a man, and they lack male friendships. Manhood Tribes guides you to becoming an extraordinary man by pursuing strong, healthy masculinity and building a life-changing group of men around you. Get started at https://manhoodtribes.com💪 Want to know how you measure up as a man? Take our free quiz, called How Manly Are You? and learn how you can get better at being a man. Download for free at manhoodtribes.com/manly. 💪

Christmas was never meant to be just gifts and chaos. It’s supposed to be a celebration of Christ — but most men find the holiday overrun by stress, parties, and materialism. In this episode, Don shares practical ways you can bring the worshipful meaning back into Christmas Day and lead your family with intention.💪 Want to grow stronger in your faith and leadership as a man? Take the How Manly Are You? quiz and discover how to develop the 5 Marks of Manhood — including Allegiance: https://bit.ly/3Leh2L1Follow & Connect💪 Take the “How Manly Are You?” Quiz → https://bit.ly/3Leh2L1 🧭 Get the Pathway to Freedom guide for men → https://bit.ly/4olGz3S 📘 Read How To Be A Man → https://bit.ly/43Fh30Q 📘 Facebook: https://facebook.com/manhoodtribes 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/manhoodtribes 🎙️ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7HrM8c2cbFvwCSTjyWRlWo 🍎 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/manhood-tribes/id1723837362Question for YouWhat’s one way you’re putting Christ at the center of your Christmas this year? Comment below — your example might inspire another man to do the same.⏰ TIMECODES00:00 Rediscovering the True Meaning of Christmas 02:47 Setting the Tone for a Christ-Centered Christmas 04:18 Making Christmas Eve Worshipful 06:48 Creating a Worshipful Christmas Morning 10:00 Meaningful Christmas Day Traditions 13:19 Encouragement and Final ThoughtsHASHTAGS#ManhoodTribes #FaithForMen #ChristmasMeaning #ChristCentered #MensLeadershipABOUT MANHOOD TRIBESIn our culture today, many men don’t feel like they know what it means to be a man, and they lack male friendships. Manhood Tribes guides you to becoming an extraordinary man by pursuing strong, healthy masculinity and building a life-changing group of men around you. Get started at https://manhoodtribes.com.💪 Want to know how you measure up as a man? Take our free quiz, called How Manly Are You? and learn how you can get better at being a man. Download for free at manhoodtribes.com/manly. 💪

Feeling overwhelmed by the Christmas season? Between finances, family, food, and endless commitments, the holidays can leave men drained instead of joyful. In this episode, Don shares practical and heartfelt ways to slow down, simplify, and rediscover real peace this Christmas.🧭 Need a reset? Download Pathway to Freedom — a free guide for men who feel stuck or overwhelmed and want to take the first steps toward peace: https://bit.ly/4olGz3SFollow & Connect💪 Take the “How Manly Are You?” Quiz → https://bit.ly/3Leh2L1 🧭 Get the Pathway to Freedom guide for men → https://bit.ly/4olGz3S 📘 Read How To Be A Man → https://bit.ly/43Fh30Q 📘 Facebook: https://facebook.com/manhoodtribes 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/manhoodtribes 🎙️ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7HrM8c2cbFvwCSTjyWRlWo 🍎 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/manhood-tribes/id1723837362Question for YouWhat’s one thing you’re going to do over the next 10 days to remove some stress from your Christmas season and bring back peace? Comment below — your answer could help another man do the same.⏰ TIMECODES00:00 Introduction: Finding Peace During Christmas 00:32 Understanding Men's Holiday Stress 01:56 Major Stressors: Finances and Weight Gain 03:37 Family Dynamics and Grief 06:37 Practical Tips to Reduce Holiday Stress 12:51 Sharing the Load and Seeking Support 15:25 Conclusion: Embracing Joy and PeaceHASHTAGS#ManhoodTribes #MensGrowth #HolidayStress #ChristmasPeace #MensMentalHealthABOUT MANHOOD TRIBESIn our culture today, many men don’t feel like they know what it means to be a man, and they lack male friendships. Manhood Tribes guides you to becoming an extraordinary man by pursuing strong, healthy masculinity and building a life-changing group of men around you. Get started at https://manhoodtribes.com.💪 Want to know how you measure up as a man? Take our free quiz, called How Manly Are You? and learn how you can get better at being a man. Download for free at manhoodtribes.com/manly. 💪

Feeling the financial pressure of Christmas? Between gifts, travel, and family events, most men overspend and pay the price in January. In this episode, Don shares practical ways to avoid Christmas debt, reduce money stress, and still create a meaningful, joyful holiday for your family.💪 Want to become the kind of man who leads with skill — not stress? Take the How Manly Are You? quiz and discover how to grow stronger in the 5 Marks of Manhood: https://bit.ly/3Leh2L1Follow & Connect💪 Take the “How Manly Are You?” Quiz → https://bit.ly/3Leh2L1🧭 Get the *Pathway to Freedom* guide for men → https://bit.ly/4olGz3S📘 Read How To Be A Man → https://bit.ly/43Fh30Q📘 Facebook: https://facebook.com/manhoodtribes📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/manhoodtribes🎙️ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7HrM8c2cbFvwCSTjyWRlWo🍎 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/manhood-tribes/id1723837362Question for YouWhat’s one money move that’s helped you stick to a budget at Christmas? Drop your answer below — your insight could help another man find some peace this year.⏰ TIMECODES00:00 Introduction: The Financial Stress of Christmas03:39 Personal Stories: Christmas Spending Mistakes06:26 Tips for a Financially Stress-Free Christmas06:35 Setting Priorities and Budgeting10:42 The Importance of Generosity12:26 Conclusion: A Joyful and Debt-Free ChristmasHASHTAGS#ManhoodTribes #MensGrowth #ChristmasBudget #DebtFreeChristmas #HolidayStressABOUT MANHOOD TRIBESIn our culture today, many men don’t feel like they know what it means to be a man, and they lack male friendships. Manhood Tribes guides you to becoming an extraordinary man by pursuing strong, healthy masculinity and building a life-changing group of men around you.Get started at https://manhoodtribes.com.💪 Want to know how you measure up as a man? Take our free quiz, called How Manly Are You? and learn how you can get better at being a man. Download for free at manhoodtribes.com/manly. 💪

Struggling to find the *perfect Christmas gift* for your wife or girlfriend? You’re not alone. In this episode, Don shares how to take the stress out of holiday shopping and actually give her something that makes her feel seen, loved, and appreciated.🎁 Get Don’s book How To Be A Man — the perfect gift for the man who wants to grow: https://bit.ly/43Fh30QFollow & Connect💪 Take the “How Manly Are You?” Quiz → https://bit.ly/3Leh2L1🧭 Get the *Pathway to Freedom* guide for men → https://bit.ly/4olGz3S📘 Read How To Be A Man → https://bit.ly/43Fh30Q📘 Facebook: https://facebook.com/manhoodtribes📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/manhoodtribes🎙️ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7HrM8c2cbFvwCSTjyWRlWo🍎 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/manhood-tribes/id1723837362Question for YouWhat’s the best (or worst) gift you’ve ever given your wife or girlfriend? Drop your story in the comments — you might just help another man out this Christmas.⏰ TIMECODES00:00 Introduction: The Christmas Gift Dilemma00:50 Understanding the Holiday Stress for Men01:45 The Key to Picking the Perfect Gift04:40 Common Gift Mistakes and Lessons Learned08:11 Crafting Meaningful and Thoughtful Gifts12:46 Visualizing the Perfect Christmas Morning14:19 Conclusion and Next StepsHASHTAGS#ManhoodTribes #MensGrowth #ChristmasForMen #GiftIdeasForHer #HolidayStressABOUT MANHOOD TRIBESIn our culture today, many men don’t feel like they know what it means to be a man, and they lack male friendships. Manhood Tribes guides you to becoming an extraordinary man by pursuing strong, healthy masculinity and building a life-changing group of men around you. Get started at https://manhoodtribes.com. 💪 Want to know how you measure up as a man? Take our free quiz, called How Manly Are You? and learn how you can get better at being a man. Download for free at manhoodtribes.com/manly. 💪

Most men want to leave a legacy—to know their life mattered and they made a real difference. But too often we think that comes through status, wealth, or reputation. In this episode of the Manhood Tribes Show, we explore a radically different path to impact: following Jesus as the ultimate model of manhood. Jesus shows us that true greatness doesn’t start by climbing higher but by going lower—embracing what’s known as the J Curve, a journey down into humility, suffering, and even death before rising into glory and purpose.We talk about why every man carries wounds, how those wounds are often tied to the very place of his greatest calling, and why healing them is essential to living out the life God created you for. Through real-life stories and biblical wisdom, you’ll see how following Jesus transforms your identity, restores your purpose, and empowers you to leave a lasting mark—not through chasing fame, but through surrender and strength in Him.If you’ve ever wondered how to become the man God designed you to be, this episode will give you clarity, encouragement, and a roadmap for stepping into your true legacy.⏱️ Timestamps0:00 Why men long to leave a legacy2:15 The world’s path to success vs. Jesus’ model5:30 Understanding the J Curve9:45 How wounds reveal your greatest glory15:20 A personal story of finding healing21:10 Moving from wounds to true identity27:05 How following Jesus changes everything33:40 Your legacy and calling as a man💪 Want to know how you measure up as a man? Take our free quiz, called How Manly Are You? and learn how you can get better at being a man. Download for free at manhoodtribes.com/manly. 💪

Some men hold the perception that following Jesus makes them less masculine. We explore what it truly means for christian manhood and how it aligns with biblical masculinity, rather than detracting from it. This discussion aims to provide clarity and encouragement for christian men navigating these thoughts, affirming that faith enhances, rather than diminishes, true masculinity.If you’ve ever struggled with the idea that Christianity makes men passive, or wondered how following Jesus fits with being strong, bold, and respected, this conversation will give you a whole new vision of biblical masculinity. You’ll discover that Jesus was not only holy and humble — He was also fearless, powerful, and fiercely manly. Following Him doesn’t diminish your masculinity; it refines and elevates it.-------------------------------📝 Take the Quiz: How Manly Are You? https://bit.ly/3Pfx7SAFind out how manly you really are and see where you stand compared to other men📖 Get the Book: How To Be a Man https://amzn.to/4cm2eplDiscover the 5 Marks of Manhood and start living with purpose today-------------------------------Episode 054: The Real Jesus vs. the Soft Jesus Everyone Thinks They KnowTimestamps:00:00 Does Following Jesus Make You Weak?04:12 The Problem with the “Soft Jesus” Image12:47 Confrontational, Bold, and Respected21:05 Jesus’ Strength and Sacrifice31:18 What True Christian Masculinity Looks Like💪 Want to know how you measure up as a man? Take our free quiz, called How Manly Are You? and learn how you can get better at being a man. Download for free at manhoodtribes.com/manly. 💪

In a time when women were often ignored, undervalued, or treated as second-class citizens, Jesus stood apart. His interactions with women in the Gospels were radical for His culture — yet perfectly aligned with God’s design. In this episode of The Manhood Tribes Show, we explore how Jesus treated women with respect, honor, and dignity, and what that means for every Christian man today.You’ll see how Jesus spoke directly to women when others refused to, defended their worth in public when they were shamed, and invited them into His mission and ministry. His example dismantled cultural prejudices without compromising biblical truth — showing men how to lead, protect, and love women in a way that reflects the heart of God.If you’ve ever wondered what the Bible really says about respecting women, how Jesus balanced truth and grace, or what Christian manhood looks like in relationships, this episode will give you a clear and powerful model to follow. Whether you’re single, dating, married, or mentoring the next generation, Jesus sets the standard for how men should treat women.Timestamps:00:00 Introduction: Jesus and Women in His Culture03:18 Speaking Directly and With Respect11:42 Defending Women’s Worth Publicly19:26 Including Women in His Mission28:09 How Men Can Follow Jesus’ Example💪 Want to know how you measure up as a man? Take our free quiz, called How Manly Are You? and learn how you can get better at being a man. Download for free at manhoodtribes.com/manly. 💪

When most people hear “lead like Jesus,” they think servant leadership. But what if that’s only part of the story? In this episode of The Manhood Tribes Show, we break down three powerful leadership traits of Jesus that go far beyond the usual church talk — and show you how they can transform the way you lead at home, at work, and in your community.You’ll learn: - Why servant leadership alone doesn’t capture the full picture of Jesus’ leadership style - How Jesus empowered His followers to carry His mission - Why His love for people was the secret to lasting loyalty - How His sacrificial leadership set the ultimate standard for men to followIf you’ve ever asked yourself “What does the Bible say about leadership?” or “How can I lead like Jesus in my everyday life?” — this is the practical, straight-talk guide you’ve been looking for.Timestamps:00:00 Introduction: Rethinking “Servant Leadership”02:01 Why Jesus Didn’t Use the Term05:12 Leadership Trait #1: Empowering Others14:55 Leadership Trait #2: Leading with Love24:19 Leadership Trait #3: Sacrifice in Leadership34:05 How You Can Lead Like Jesus💪 Want to know how you measure up as a man? Take our free quiz, called How Manly Are You? and learn how you can get better at being a man. Download for free at manhoodtribes.com/manly. 💪

Do you think masculinity is a good thing or a bad thing? In today’s culture, masculinity gets all kinds of labels — from toxic masculinity to woke masculinity, MAGA masculinity, feminist masculinity, and more. It’s no wonder so many men feel lost trying to figure out what it really means to be a strong, reliable man today.In this episode of The Manhood Tribes Show, we break down the three major categories of masculinity and explain why only one offers a truly fulfilling and meaningful way forward. If you’ve ever wondered where Jesus fits into the conversation about manhood, you’re in the right place — because He is the ultimate example of real masculinity.We’ll discuss how toxic masculinity misuses strength and honor, why woke masculinity misses the mark, and how biblical masculinity — rooted in the five marks of manhood (strength, courage, skill, honor, and allegiance) — sets a powerful and inspiring standard for men to follow.00:00 Introduction: The Masculinity Debate01:21 Series Overview and Jesus' Relevance02:34 Toxic Masculinity Explained08:30 Woke Masculinity: A New Perspective17:05 Biblical Masculinity: The Ideal Path19:25 Conclusion and Community Engagement💪 Want to know how you measure up as a man? Take our free quiz, called How Manly Are You? and learn how you can get better at being a man. Download for free at manhoodtribes.com/manly. 💪

What does the Bible really say about being a man?Many churches reduce “biblical masculinity” to being a good husband and father. While those roles matter, they’re not the full story. In this episode, discover a bigger, bolder vision of manhood rooted in the life of Jesus Himself.We break down the 5 Marks of Manhood—Strength, Courage, Skill, Honor, and Allegiance—and reveal how Jesus embodied each one. You’ll learn why the last two marks, Honor and Allegiance, are crucial to living as a godly man, building strong brotherhood, and staying loyal to your true calling.If you’ve ever felt out of place in church conversations about masculinity, this episode will reframe the discussion and give you a vision of manhood that challenges and inspires—whether you’re single, married, a father, or not.Timestamps:00:00 Introduction: Why the Church Gets Manhood Wrong03:12 Why “Good Husband and Father” Isn’t Enough07:41 The 5 Marks of Manhood in the Bible11:58 Allegiance: Putting God First17:35 Honor: Building a Brotherhood That Shapes You22:15 How This Vision Changes Everything💪 Want to know how you measure up as a man? Take our free quiz, called How Manly Are You? and learn how you can get better at being a man. Download for free at manhoodtribes.com/manly. 💪

We explore some often overlooked and untold stories of Jesus by examining moments from his life around the time of his crucifixion. We discuss how Jesus exemplifies true manhood through His courage, strength, and dedication to His mission. Join us as we dive into moments from the Garden of Gethsemane, Jesus’s trials, and His conquest over death and Hades, highlighting why these stories should be celebrated and emulated.00:00 Introduction: Iconic Male Heroes01:54 Reevaluating Jesus as a Manly Man04:24 The Garden of Gethsemane: A Test of Courage09:49 The Trial: Facing Authority with Strength13:31 The Harrowing of Hell: Jesus' Ultimate Victory18:24 Conclusion: Jesus, The Ultimate Epic Hero💪 Want to know how you measure up as a man? Take our free quiz, called How Manly Are You? and learn how you can get better at being a man. Download for free at manhoodtribes.com/manly. 💪

What does it mean to be a man? In this episode, we explore a clear framework—the five marks of manhood: strength, courage, skill, honor, and allegiance. We delve into how Jesus perfectly exemplified each of these traits, demonstrating his manliness in ways that can inspire and guide us today. Join us as we learn from Jesus’ example to become better men and followers.00:00 Introduction to the Five Marks of Manhood01:56 Exploring the Five Marks: Strength, Courage, Skill, Honor, and Allegiance04:44 Jesus as the Ultimate Model of Manhood06:23 Strength: The Core of Manhood11:08 Courage: Facing Challenges Head-On14:28 Skill: Mastering the Art of Teaching16:49 Honor and Allegiance: Building Respect and Loyalty20:12 Conclusion: Emulating Jesus in Manhood21:21 Join the Manhood Tribes Community💪 Want to know how you measure up as a man? Take our free quiz, called How Manly Are You? and learn how you can get better at being a man. Download for free at manhoodtribes.com/manly. 💪

Are you striving to become a man who is strong, successful, and respected? This video introduces a new series, 'Jesus: The Man Most Worth Following I,' where he explores how Jesus embodies the ultimate role model for men. Don argues that qualities men aspire to, such as strength, courage, and honor, were perfectly demonstrated by Jesus. Whether it's about success, building relationships, or living with purpose, Jesus set the example. If you want to grow into the best version of yourself, join us in this journey of examining the life of Jesus through the lens of manhood.00:00 Introduction: Becoming a Man Worthy of Respect01:10 Introducing the Series: Jesus, The Man Most Worth Following03:59 Jesus as the Embodiment of the Best Man05:23 The Five Marks of Manhood09:01 Jesus and Success: Redefining Achievement12:17 Jesus and Relationships: Righteousness in Action16:51 Purpose and Mission: Living with Intent19:15 Conclusion: Join the Conversation💪 Want to know how you measure up as a man? Take our free quiz, called How Manly Are You? and learn how you can get better at being a man. Download for free at manhoodtribes.com/manly. 💪

How can men better themselves in a world where they are currently struggling? We introduce the concept that the missing piece in most discussions about manhood is the need for men to build strong, intimate friendships with other men. Highlighting key elements from Don's book, 'How to Be a Man,' we dive into how men can develop camaraderie and attain freedom by forming a tribe. Available for on Amazon now! https://www.amazon.com/How-Be-Man-Masculinity-Brotherhood-ebook/dp/B0FPBPZL97/Join us as we explore what real, meaningful male friendships look like and how they can transform your life.00:00 Introduction: The State of Men Today00:48 The Missing Piece in Conversations About Manhood01:29 The Importance of Male Friendships01:53 Defining Real and Intimate Friendships04:03 The Concept of a Tribe04:55 Building a Tribe: Manhood, Camaraderie, and Freedom05:50 Camaraderie: Trust and Shared Experiences08:07 Adventure and Getting Naked: Building Deeper Connections11:17 Freedom: Overcoming Life's Biggest Obstacles14:11 Conclusion: Becoming the Man You Want to Be💪 Want to know how you measure up as a man? Take our free quiz, called How Manly Are You? and learn how you can get better at being a man. Download for free at manhoodtribes.com/manly. 💪

Men, what does it truly mean to be a man? In this episode on the Manhood Tribes Channel, we explore the five marks of manhood: strength, courage, skill, honor, and allegiance. Don shares his personal journey and the challenges he faced in understanding manhood, leading to the creation of his book 'How to Be a Man.' Available for pre-order on Amazon now! https://www.amazon.com/How-Be-Man-Masculinity-Brotherhood-ebook/dp/B0FPBPZL97/This episode not only defines these key traits but also provides actionable steps for men to develop and embody them. Tune in to learn what it takes to live a life of authentic and impactful masculinity.00:00 Introduction: What Defines a Man?00:46 The Struggle with Modern Masculinity02:53 Introducing the Five Marks of Manhood06:21 Strength08:32 Courage10:03 Skill11:20 Honor and Allegiance15:36 Conclusion and Call to Action💪 Want to know how you measure up as a man? Take our free quiz, called How Manly Are You? and learn how you can get better at being a man. Download for free at manhoodtribes.com/manly. 💪

Men, are you ready to embark on a journey towards true manhood? In this episode, I reveal my new book, How to Be A Man. I crafting a concise, action-oriented guide to address what men need today. I also provide a teaser by reading the first chapter, sharing an exhilarating adventure that raises essential questions about manhood. Discover how this book can help you grow into the man you aspire to be. Available for pre-order on Amazon now! https://www.amazon.com/How-Be-Man-Masculinity-Brotherhood-ebook/dp/B0FPBPZL97/00:00 Introduction: Why Another Book for Men?00:39 The Challenge of Engaging Men with Books01:51 A Different Approach to Writing for Men02:48 Action-Oriented Content03:49 Book Availability and Teaser04:15 Reading Chapter One: Being a Man Is Awesome14:07 Conclusion and Next Steps💪 Want to know how you measure up as a man? Take our free quiz, called How Manly Are You? and learn how you can get better at being a man. Download for free at manhoodtribes.com/manly. 💪

Men, are you ready to become the man you know you were meant to be? In this episode, we discuss how to transition from merely surviving to truly thriving in life as the man you want to be. We cover a four-stage roadmap to help you achieve your goals: Surviving, Stabilizing, Rebuilding, and Thriving. You'll learn how to address your mindset, eliminate harmful habits, develop healthy routines, build strong relationships, set and achieve goals, and deepen your faith. 00:00 The Ultimate Roadmap to Thriving01:39 Stage 1: Surviving04:23 Stage 2: Stabilizing08:38 Stage 3: Rebuilding13:22 Stage 4: Thriving15:19 Conclusion and Community Invitation💪 Want to know how you measure up as a man? Take our free quiz, called How Manly Are You? and learn how you can get better at being a man. Download for free at manhoodtribes.com/manly. 💪

Do you feel like you're failing at life? You're not alone. Modern life can feel so challenging for men today. We discuss the pressures from social media, societal expectations, and the lies that make us feel inadequate. Learn how to recalibrate your focus, establish meaningful male friendships, and tackle the important priorities in life. 00:00 The Struggles of Modern Manhood02:30 Personal Stories and Common Challenges03:32 Middle Age and Its Unique Challenges05:47 Later Years: Navigating Retirement and Loneliness08:29 Recalibrating Your Life08:52 Addressing the Lies and Celebrating Small Victories10:37 Building Strong Male Friendships11:53 Refocusing on What Matters14:33 Rebuilding and Moving Forward16:29 Conclusion and Community Invitation💪 Want to know how you measure up as a man? Take our free quiz, called How Manly Are You? and learn how you can get better at being a man. Download for free at manhoodtribes.com/manly. 💪

Men's worst-kept secret is that we turn to all kinds of vices and escapisms in order to cope with life's hardships, often wrecking our mental health and relationships. From porn to substance use, workaholism, humor as denial, and isolation, we dissect how these behaviors inhibit true masculinity. Learn actionable steps to build strong male friendships, incorporate faith, and face these realities head-on to understand how to be a man of strength and purpose.💪 See how you measure up as a man. Take our free 'How Manly Are You?' quiz at https://manhoodtribes.com/manly 💪Episode 041: P*rn, Alcohol, Overwork: Why Men Choose These Escapes00:00 The Burden of Modern Manhood01:42 Vices and Medications: Coping Mechanisms03:01 The Pervasiveness of Porn08:18 Alcohol and Drugs: Numbing the Pain09:46 Workaholism: Escaping Through Labor11:12 Sarcasm and Humor: Avoidance Strategies12:30 Isolation: The Silent Retreat14:30 Steps Towards Real Solutions16:33 Incorporating Faith and Building Connections20:18 Conclusion and Resources💪 Want to know how you measure up as a man? Take our free quiz, called How Manly Are You? and learn how you can get better at being a man. Download for free at manhoodtribes.com/manly. 💪

It's a sad truth that the male suicide has reached alarming heights in our culture. We offer some practical suggestions for the man struggling with overwhelming thoughts, or for the man who might be in a position to help another man who is. We emphasize the importance of establishing basic routines, breaking down tasks into manageable steps, avoiding destructive habits, seeking support from others, and maintaining communication with God. We also highlight the significance of developing strong male friendships in preventing and coping with feelings of hopelessness.00:00 Introduction: Addressing a Hard and Heavy Topic00:41 The Alarming Reality of Male Suicide01:01 Offering Hope and Practical Suggestions03:35 The Importance of Male Friendships05:06 Understanding Your Mindset07:25 Practical Steps to Cope11:20 Finding Support and Reaching Out12:56 Talking to God14:37 Final Encouragement and Resources💪 Want to know how you measure up as a man? Take our free quiz, called How Manly Are You? and learn how you can get better at being a man. Download for free at manhoodtribes.com/manly. 💪

There's a lot of talk right now about the male loneliness epidemic, but we think there's more going on here than just loneliness. We explain how modern societal changes have led many men to live isolated lives, even when they don't feel lonely—until life's challenges hit hard. We discuss the importance of building close male friendships, not just for support in tough times, but for overall mental health and resilience. And we offer some practical advice on where and how to start forming these crucial connections. 00:00 Understanding the Male Isolation Epidemic02:01 Introduction to Manhood Tribes02:26 The Challenge of Building Male Friendships04:13 The Consequences of Isolation07:34 Steps to Building Friendships10:12 Practical Tips for Making Friends16:44 Join the Manhood Tribes Community17:40 Engage and Share Your Challenges💪 Want to know how you measure up as a man? Take our free quiz, called How Manly Are You? and learn how you can get better at being a man. Download for free at manhoodtribes.com/manly. 💪

Ever feel like God is silent during prayer, especially in difficult times? It's not uncommon for men to feel like God has gone quiet.We discuss ways to stay connected to faith, including being honest about emotions, recalling foundational beliefs, recognizing spiritual interference, and seeking support from other men of faith. We also emphasize the importance of perseverance in prayer and offers practical advice for engaging with God, even when it feels challenging. 00:00 Introduction: Feeling Unheard by God00:17 The Struggles of Modern Men01:51 The Importance of Faith02:20 When God Feels Distant04:38 Steps to Reconnect with God08:37 The Role of Spiritual Warfare10:59 Biblical Examples of Struggle12:25 Practical Tips for Prayer16:42 Conclusion and Community Invitation💪 Want to know how you measure up as a man? Take our free quiz, called How Manly Are You? and learn how you can get better at being a man. Download for free at manhoodtribes.com/manly. 💪

In this raw and honest episode, we address tough questions about the challenges men face in long-term relationships. We dive into the emotional complexities that arise when men feel unnoticed and undervalued despite their best efforts. Host Don, with decades of experience working with men, shares insights and practical advice on improving relational intimacy, building better connections, and understanding mutual needs. Join us for an eye-opening discussion that's all about being honest and finding ways to grow stronger together as men and partners.00:00 Introduction and Setting the Stage01:16 The Struggles Men Face in Relationships02:30 The Importance of Male Friendships03:29 Understanding the Modern Man's Role09:55 Empathy and Understanding Your Partner14:27 Effective Communication and Honesty15:41 Rekindling the Romance17:33 Encouraging Quality Friendships for Your Partner18:42 Conclusion and Community Invitation💪 Want to know how you measure up as a man? Take our free quiz, called How Manly Are You? and learn how you can get better at being a man. Download for free at manhoodtribes.com/manly. 💪

Men face a wealth of struggles today. Many men feel overwhelmed by the pressures to be financial providers, emotional supports, and leaders in all areas of life, often leading to exhaustion and isolation. We discuss the importance of redefining manhood, fostering strong male friendships, and incorporating vulnerability as a masculine trait. We also explore practical steps to relieve these burdens, such as engaging in honest self-reflection, seeking professional help, strengthening male relationships, and investing in one’s faith. 00:00 The Weight Men Carry: An Introduction02:22 The Modern Provider: More Than Just Finances03:51 The Emotional Toll of Being the Rock05:53 The Isolation of Responsibility10:37 Finding Freedom: Redefining Manhood14:23 Building Strong Male Relationships15:33 Faith as a Foundation16:35 Join the Manhood Tribes Community17:21 Engage and Share Your Burdens💪 Want to know how you measure up as a man? Take our free quiz, called How Manly Are You? and learn how you can get better at being a man. Download for free at manhoodtribes.com/manly. 💪

Men in today’s society are bombarded with conflicting messages about masculinity. From cultural and political pressures to personal expectations, men often feel under attack and confused about how to navigate their identities. We discuss the extremes of toxic masculinity and overly-aggressive alpha ideals, advocating instead for a balanced approach centered around the 5 Marks of Manhood: strength, courage, skill, honor, and allegiance. Join us as we explore how to build strong male friendships, adopt healthy masculine traits, and move forward with confidence. 00:00 The Modern Man's Dilemma02:12 The Cultural and Political Attack on Masculinity03:55 Extremes of Masculinity: Toxic vs. Alpha Male09:18 The Middle Ground: Finding a Balanced Masculinity11:59 The 5 Marks of Manhood15:28 Conclusion: Embracing a New Vision of Manhood💪 Want to know how you measure up as a man? Take our free quiz, called How Manly Are You? and learn how you can get better at being a man. Download for free at manhoodtribes.com/manly. 💪

In this episode, we explore the increasing complexity of manhood in modern society. We discuss traditional expectations of men, the confusion these expectations cause today, and the resulting feelings of hopelessness.We provide actionable steps to navigate these challenges, including naming struggles without shame, seeking mentorship, defining personal allegiances, and building quality male friendships.00:00 Introduction: The Allure of Classic Masculinity01:23 The Decline of Modern Manhood03:03 Challenges of Contemporary Masculinity04:32 The Crisis of Male Identity09:02 Reclaiming a Vision of Manhood10:44 Building Brotherhood and Honor12:04 Conclusion: Steps to Rediscover Manhood💪 Want to know how you measure up as a man? Take our free quiz, called How Manly Are You? and learn how you can get better at being a man. Download for free at manhoodtribes.com/manly. 💪

In this episode, we delve into the immense pressures men face today. We identify three primary pressures: the pressure to perform, to be emotionally fluent, and to be everything to everyone. We discuss the mental and emotional toll these pressures take and emphasize the importance of acknowledging these difficulties and seeking help. 00:00 Understanding the Pressures Men Face00:56 Introduction to Hidden Pressures02:10 Pressure to Perform05:27 Pressure to Be Emotionally Fluent08:48 Pressure to Be Everything to Everyone14:28 Acknowledging and Seeking Help15:24 Building Connections and Community16:40 Engage with the Community💪 Want to know how you measure up as a man? Take our free quiz, called How Manly Are You? and learn how you can get better at being a man. Download for free at manhoodtribes.com/manly. 💪

In this episode, we explore the increasing complexity of manhood in modern society. We discuss traditional expectations of men, the confusion these expectations cause today, and the resulting feelings of hopelessness. We provide actionable steps to navigate these challenges, including naming struggles without shame, seeking mentorship, defining personal allegiances, and building quality male friendships.00:00 Introduction: The Struggles of Modern Manhood01:12 Welcome to Manhood Tribes01:52 Traditional Roles and Modern Confusion03:43 The Pressure to Be Perfect04:56 Coping Mechanisms and Shame08:35 Steps to Reclaiming Manhood12:57 Conclusion: Join the Conversation💪 Want to know how you measure up as a man? Take our free quiz, called How Manly Are You? and learn how you can get better at being a man. Download for free at manhoodtribes.com/manly. 💪

Join us in this insightful episode of the Manhood Tribe Show as we wrap up our 'The Way of the King' series with a special interview featuring Mike Van Pelt, a seasoned men's coach at True Man Life Coaching. Mike shares his journey and insights on developing a masculine faith and living as a 'true man' in alignment with Jesus Christ. We also dive into his book 'True Man, True Ways: A Roadmap of Discovery to the Masculine Heart,' discussing practical steps for men to cultivate authentic faith and deeper relationships. You can find out more about Mike and his book at truemanlifecoaching.com. Tune in for a powerful conversation on manhood, faith, and personal growth!00:00 Welcome to the Manhood Tribe Show00:53 Introducing Mike Van Pelt02:06 The Journey to True Man Life Coaching05:54 Challenges and Insights in Men's Ministry09:36 The Importance of Men's Groups15:48 Writing True Man, True Ways25:01 The Roadmap to the Masculine Heart41:45 Final Thoughts and Where to Find More💪 Want to know how you measure up as a man? Take our free quiz, called How Manly Are You? and learn how you can get better at being a man. Download for free at manhoodtribes.com/manly. 💪

In this episode of the Manhood Tribes Show, we dive deep into the concepts of heaven and the next life. Host Don explores the hope, longing, and key elements of a masculine faith—epic, purposeful, and resilient. We wrap up the series, discussing the significant aspects of the Christian faith, misconceptions about heaven, and the future resurrection and new bodies. Don also touches on the idea of eternal life on earth, Jesus' return, and the ultimate union with God. This thought-provoking episode encourages us to envision our role and dreams in the next age and challenges us to cultivate a hopeful heart about what lies ahead.00:00 Introduction: Contemplating Heaven00:43 Manhood Quiz: How Manly Are You?01:18 Series Recap: The Way of the King01:48 Defining Masculine Faith06:18 Misconceptions About Heaven08:59 Biblical Perspective on the Next Age14:19 Resurrection and New Bodies17:11 Defeating Enemies and Spiritual Powers19:12 Union with Christ: The Wedding Feast21:42 Imagining the New Age24:38 Personal Hopes for the New Age28:10 Conclusion: Embracing a Masculine Faith💪 Want to know how you measure up as a man? Take our free quiz, called How Manly Are You? and learn how you can get better at being a man. Download for free at manhoodtribes.com/manly. 💪

In this episode of The Manhood Tribes Show, we explore the often uncomfortable topic of how to talk to others about following Jesus. Host Don discusses the significance of developing a masculine faith within the series. We delve into understanding faith as an epic, purposeful, and resilient journey. We also highlight Jesus' mission for his followers to make disciples and how baptism signifies a radical commitment to the kingdom of light. Don provides practical advice on how men can share their faith authentically and effectively in their everyday lives. Tune in to discover how to live out a faith that feels truly masculine and impactful.00:00 Introduction: The Challenge of Sharing Faith00:58 Manhood Quiz: How Manly Are You?01:32 Welcome to the Manhood Tribe Show01:49 Developing a Masculine Faith04:20 The Essence of Being a Christian06:04 Relating to Non-Followers of Jesus06:47 The Mission: Making Disciples11:27 Understanding Baptism: An Act of War16:28 Living and Sharing the Way of Jesus20:30 Final Challenge and Series Conclusion💪 Want to know how you measure up as a man? Take our free quiz, called How Manly Are You? and learn how you can get better at being a man. Download for free at manhoodtribes.com/manly. 💪

In this episode of the Manhood Tribes show, we dive deep into what it means to be a good Christian. Host Don explores the criteria for living a meaningful Christian life that aligns with masculine values—epic, purposeful, and resilient. We discuss the importance of forming strong, loving relationships with other followers of Jesus, treating them like family, and how forgiveness, repentance, and seeing others through the lens of Jesus' sacrifice can transform our spiritual maturity. Join us in this series as we seek to redefine masculine faith and invite others into a family that embodies true Christian values.00:00 Introduction: What Defines a Good Christian?00:52 Manhood Quiz: How Manly Are You?01:27 Series Overview: The Way of the King02:14 Challenges of Modern Faith for Men03:17 Three Pillars of Masculine Faith05:13 Measuring Spiritual Maturity07:40 Treating Fellow Christians as Family12:05 Sacrificial Love in Action19:28 Forgiveness and Repentance22:20 Conclusion: Living as a Family in Faith💪 Want to know how you measure up as a man? Take our free quiz, called How Manly Are You? and learn how you can get better at being a man. Download for free at manhoodtribes.com/manly. 💪

In this episode of The Manhood Tribes Show, Don explores the true purpose and impact of following Jesus beyond just the promise of heaven. He challenges the traditional view that being a Christian is solely about salvation and going to heaven, arguing that it’s more about creating a union with God. He discusses the importance of sacred spaces in the scriptures and how men can live out their faith in a way that resonates deeply with them. Don also shares practical steps, including daily reunions and spiritual disciplines, to help men connect their hearts to God and live out their faith meaningfully.00:00 Introduction: The Purpose of Following Jesus01:01 Manhood Tribe Show: Resources for Men01:35 Series Overview: The Way of the King01:54 Challenges of Modern Christian Men03:13 Defining a Masculine Faith03:43 The Epic Story of Faith04:12 Purpose and Resilience in Faith08:41 The Role of Sacred Spaces13:26 Jesus as the New Temple16:30 Union with God: Theosis20:34 Practical Steps for Daily Reunion28:55 Spiritual Disciplines for Engagement30:45 Spiritual Disciplines for Disengagement36:18 Conclusion: Building a Daily Reunion💪 Want to know how you measure up as a man? Take our free quiz, called How Manly Are You? and learn how you can get better at being a man. Download for free at manhoodtribes.com/manly. 💪

In this episode of the Manhood Tribes Show, we explore the deeper meaning of the title 'King' for Jesus. Host Don Ross dives into the essence of the gospel, clarifying that it's not just about personal salvation or forgiveness of sins but about recognizing Jesus's kingship and the availability of His kingdom to everyone. We examine the epic, purposeful, and resilient nature of a masculine faith and discuss how men can live out their roles in Jesus's kingdom today. Tune in to rediscover the gospel and learn to live a life aligned with Christ's teachings.00:00 Introduction: The Title of Jesus01:01 The Manhood Quiz01:34 Series Overview: The Way of the King03:18 The Three Pillars of Masculine Faith05:06 The Story of God and Humanity06:40 Understanding the Gospel13:15 The Gospel: Not About Me, About Jesus15:54 The Gospel: Not About Salvation, About Kingship19:58 The Gospel: Not About Forgiveness, About the Kingdom23:54 The Gospel: Not About Heaven, About Now26:20 Living in Jesus's Kingdom31:04 Invitation to Join Jesus's Kingdom33:28 Conclusion and Next Steps💪 Want to know how you measure up as a man? Take our free quiz, called How Manly Are You? and learn how you can get better at being a man. Download for free at manhoodtribes.com/manly. 💪

As a man, have you ever felt disconnected or bored with the traditional church experience? In this episode of the Manhood Tribes Show, Don explores the fascinating and often untold epic story of faith as presented in the Bible. We dive deep into the roles men are meant to play in this grand narrative and discuss what it means to have a masculine faith. You'll learn about the real purpose, resilience, and epic nature of a faith rooted in the Christian scriptures, and how it can transform your life. Join us as we start a new series designed to help men understand their pivotal role in God's story. Take our free 'How Manly Are You?' quiz to find out more about your journey in faith and manhood. 00:00 Introduction: The Struggle with Church00:10 Discovering a Compelling Story00:38 Manhood Tribe Show: New Series Announcement01:33 The Disconnect Between Men and Church04:48 Redefining Masculine Faith05:27 The Epic, Purposeful, and Resilient Faith08:22 The True Story of Faith17:52 The Role of Israel and the Coming of Jesus23:23 Jesus' Mission and Resurrection29:18 Living Out a Masculine Faith31:35 Conclusion: Embracing Your Role💪 Want to know how you measure up as a man? Take our free quiz, called How Manly Are You? and learn how you can get better at being a man. Download for free at manhoodtribes.com/manly. 💪

Download the Level 5 Friendship Playbook at https://menhuddle.com.In this episode of the Manhood Tribes Show, Don interviews Jeff Kemp, a former NFL quarterback and former VP at Family Life. They discuss Jeff's book 'Receive: The Way of Jesus for Men', which addresses the crisis of male friendship and how men can develop close relationships. Jeff emphasizes adopting the identity of being God's son, the importance of consistent and deep friendships, and practical steps on how to pursue and maintain these connections. Jeff also shares personal anecdotes and practical advice for men feeling isolated or friendless.00:00 Introduction to the Manhood Tribe Show01:52 Interview with Jeff Kemp: Building Male Friendships04:26 The Crisis of Male Identity and Friendship07:15 Receiving Identity from God12:53 Practical Steps to Embrace Your Identity17:05 Living as a Son: Daily Practices26:04 Tennis and Marriage: A Lesson in Identity28:29 The Importance of Identity in Friendships30:33 The Epidemic of Loneliness Among Men35:28 Building Deep Friendships: Level 4 and Level 541:18 Practical Steps to Cultivate Level 5 Friendships45:23 Finding Friends and God's Guidance48:05 Resources for Building Strong Friendships💪 Want to know how you measure up as a man? Take our free quiz, called How Manly Are You? and learn how you can get better at being a man. Download for free at manhoodtribes.com/manly. 💪