Missions Life: Navigating Life, Leadership, and Ministry Abroad

Contentment can feel almost impossible in a world that constantly trains us to compare, complain, and chase after the next thing. In this episode of Missions Life: Navigating Life, Leadership, and Ministry Abroad, we talk with Erik Raymond, pastor in Boston and author of Chasing Contentment, about what true Christian contentment looks like and how believers can learn to rest in God in both blessing and hardship.Erik helps us think biblically about grumbling, complaining, envy, hardship, church community, and the deeper battle taking place in the heart. We also talk about the difference between Stoic self-reliance and Christian contentment, which is rooted in the strength, goodness, and sufficiency of God.In This Episode, We Cover:✅ Where the idea for Chasing Contentment came from✅ Why contentment is more than simply “being okay” with hard circumstances✅ How grumbling and complaining reveal what we believe about God✅ Why discontentment often comes from believing false promises✅ How trials can become tools God uses to train us in godliness✅ Why both blessing and affliction can expose our hearts✅ How the church can move beyond superficial gathering and stir one another toward contentment✅ How compassion, rather than envy, helps us respond when unbelievers prosperKey Themes:Spiritual Resilience & Personal Growth in MissionsContentment is not passive resignation. It is a learned strength that grows as we trust God in the middle of real hardship, unanswered questions, and daily pressures.Leadership & Team DynamicsGrumbling and comparison can quietly shape the culture of a team, church, or ministry. Learning contentment helps leaders model trust, gratitude, and spiritual maturity.Cross-Cultural Ministry & AdaptationMissionary life often exposes discontentment through transition, loss, unmet expectations, and comparison. This conversation offers practical encouragement for resting in God when life and ministry do not look the way we expected.Missionary Family Life & MarriageContentment affects how we respond to our spouse, children, teammates, churches, and circumstances. It shapes the tone of the home and the health of our relationships.Episode Encouragement:Christian contentment is not found by pretending life is easy. It is learned by seeing God clearly, trusting His goodness, and resting in His care even when circumstances are painful or confusing.Erik Raymond is the pastor of Redeemer Fellowship Church in Boston. He is also the author of a number of books, including Chasing Contentment.We want to hear from you!Have a question, story, or idea for a future episode?Send us a message at [email protected] with the subject “Podcast” or connect with us on Instagram: @kyle.farranWhether it’s a challenge you’re facing, a topic you’re curious about, or just a quick note to say hi—we’d love to hear it.Your feedback and ideas help shape the future of Missions Life!

In this reposted interview, Richard Blackaby talks with Kyle about Godly Grit and the kind of resilience needed for life, leadership, and ministry. We explore why spiritual strength matters, how grit is formed through challenges, and what it looks like to keep moving forward with faith and endurance.Show Notes and Links:https://www.kylefarran.com/missionslife/34-richard-blackaby-interviews-kyle-on-godly-gritView Godly Grit on AmazonThe Richard Blackaby Leadership Podcast

Godly Grit: Unshakable Resilience and Grit for Life and Leadership launches today—in this episode we’re talking about how to stay steady when life gets hard and bad news hits.What if hard seasons didn’t have to shake you to the core?In Psalm 112, God gives us a picture of the person who is steady, calm, and unafraid—even when bad news comes.In this episode, we talk about how Godly Grit grows when we stop expecting life to be easy and start building our life on the One who never moves.“In the world you will have tribulation.” (John 16:33).“For the righteous will never be moved… He is not afraid of bad news; his heart is firm, trusting in the LORD. His heart is steady; he will not be afraid…” (Psalm 112:6–8).“I have set the LORD always before me; because he is at my right hand, I shall not be shaken” (Psalm 16:8).In This Episode, We Cover:✅ Why expecting “easy” sets us up for discouragement and quitting✅ What it means to be unshakable (and how resilience is different than being shaken)✅ Psalm 112: the marks of a steady heart that doesn’t fear bad news✅ How fear is often rooted in comfort, control, and wanting to know the plan✅ Why real faith isn’t trusting a plan—it’s trusting a Person✅ A story about a charging rhino (and what it taught us about trusting God)✅ How your response to challenges can make God look big to the people watchingView Godly Grit on Amazon Show notes and links:https://www.kylefarran.com/missionslife/33-godly-grit-how-to-be-unshakable-when-bad-news-hitsWe want to hear from you!Have a question, story, or idea for a future episode?Send us a message at [email protected] with the subject “Podcast” or connect with us on Instagram: @kyle.farranWhether it’s a challenge you’re facing, a topic you’re curious about, or just a quick note to say hi—we’d love to hear it.​Your feedback and ideas help shape the future of Missions Life: Navigating Life, Leadership, and Ministry Abroad!

In this episode, we talk with E.D. Burns about why being deeply grounded in Scripture is essential for missionaries who want to endure faithfully for the long haul. Drawing from his book The Missionary-Theologian, Evan challenges common assumptions about preparation, ministry methods, and success in missions, pointing us back to a Word-centered vision shaped by theology rather than trends or results.In This Episode, We Cover:✅ The central message of the book and why theology matters for everyday ministry on the field✅ The dangers of shaping ministry methods around culture, trends, or measurable results instead of Scripture✅ What modern missionaries and everyday Christians can learn from the Word-centered lives of Adoniram and Ann Judson✅ How missionary methods reveal underlying theology—and practical ways to evaluate whether our approaches flow from biblical convictions or pressure for quick outcomes✅ Preparing the heart to endure suffering, weakness, and hardship without losing joy, hope, or faithfulnessThis conversation is a timely reminder that lasting fruit in missions does not come from clever strategies, but from leaders who are immersed in the Word, anchored in sound doctrine, and willing to endure faithfully for God’s glory.E.D. Burns is the executive director for training and development at ABWE, and  also directs the MA in Cultural Apologetics at Founders Seminary. He is on faculty at Asia Biblical Theological Seminary, and he and his family live in a small hilltribe village in Northern Thailand, where he works with training and translating materials into hilltribe languages.We want to hear from you!Have a question, story, or idea for a future episode?Send us a message at [email protected] with the subject “Podcast” or connect with us on Instagram: @kyle.farranWhether it’s a challenge you’re facing, a topic you’re curious about, or just a quick note to say hi—we’d love to hear it.​Your feedback and ideas help shape the future of Missions Life: Navigating Life, Leadership, and Ministry Abroad!

In this episode, we dive into how the right perspective on challenges can help you develop strength, resilience, and grit—essential qualities for anyone in missions and leadership.This conversation also lays the foundation for my upcoming book, Godly Grit, where I expand on these ideas and offer a practical framework for building resilient, faith-filled strength in life and leadership.This is the podcast episode I wish I had before starting my journey in missions. If you're a missionary, leader, or someone navigating a difficult season, you know how easily challenges can rob you of joy. A wrong mindset drains energy and motivation—but a biblical, resilient perspective can turn obstacles into opportunities for growth.Over the past few years, these life-shaping insights have been like water for my soul, reshaping how I face hardship. They form the backbone of Godly Grit, and I truly believe they can transform your mindset and impact your life too.In This Episode, We Cover:✅ How to reframe challenges to fuel growth, perseverance, and faith✅ Why a negative perspective quietly drains joy and strength✅ How to cultivate mental and spiritual resilience in leadership and missions✅ How hardships can become stepping stones to deeper strength and gritIf you’re facing resistance, fatigue, or discouragement, this episode—and the message behind Godly Grit—will help you build strength that lasts.Sign up to be reminded about Godly Grit when it launches:https://www.kylefarran.com/missionslife/31-godly-grit-unshakable-resilience-and-grit-for-life-and-leadership-kyle-farran

Stewarding your body isn’t about six-pack abs or fitting into a certain size of pants. It’s about being healthy enough to serve God well, for as long as possible. In this episode, we talk about “Stewardship of the Body” and how caring for your physical health is deeply connected to hearing, “Well done, good and faithful servant.”I (Kyle) share some of my own journey of being flat on my back with debilitating back pain, migraines, and stress-related issues—and how that season became a turning point for me.This episode connects biblical stewardship with our motivation, and gives very practical steps you can start today in the areas of stress, food, exercise, and sleep.In This Episode, We Cover:✅ What “stewardship of the body” really means✅ Why your body belongs to God, not you✅ How neglecting your health can impact your “well done”✅ Finding a deeper motivation than comfort or appearance✅ Practical starting points in four key areas: Stress, Food, Exercise, and Sleep✅ Why micro changes matter more than massive short bursts✅ Why there is no “single solution” to health✅ A sober reminder about eternityIf you want to serve God for as long as you can, stewarding your body is part of your calling.Pick one thing you already know you should do—and start there.Join the Book Launch Team for Godly GritGo to: https://www.kylefarran.com/launch-team.htmlShow Notes and Links:https://www.kylefarran.com/missionslife/30-stewardship-of-the-body-kyle-farranWe want to hear from you!Have a question, story, or idea for a future episode?Send us a message at [email protected] with the subject “Podcast” or connect with us on Instagram: @kyle.farranWhether it’s a challenge you’re facing, a topic you’re curious about, or just a quick note to say hi—we’d love to hear it.Your feedback and ideas help shape the future of Missions Life!

An Unhurried Life — with Alan FadlingIn this episode, we talk with Alan Fadling, author of An Unhurried Life, about what it really means to slow down and lead from a place of rest. Alan reminds us that hurry isn’t just about a busy schedule—it’s about a busy heart. Together we explore what it looks like to follow a relaxed Savior, lead from stillness, and embrace the slow, deep work of spiritual growth.In This Episode, We Cover:✅ The difference between a disordered schedule and a disordered heart—and why hurry begins in the soul.✅ How seeing Jesus as “relaxed” changes the way we view leadership and ministry.✅ Why Jesus’ 30-year wait before ministry teaches us to trust God’s timing instead of forcing outcomes.✅ How leading from stillness transforms our decision-making and dependence on God.✅ The temptation to measure success by crowds instead of deep discipleship.✅ What it means to welcome “holy interruptions” as part of God’s work.✅ How to become “oaks of righteousness”—deeply rooted and slow-growing.✅ The practice of Extended Personal Communion (EPC) days and learning to simply be with God.✅ Seeing prayer as strategic leadership, not an afterthought.Alan’s insights invite us to live and lead at the pace of Jesus—unhurried, rooted, and deeply present.Alan Fadling (MDiv) is a founding partner of Unhurried Living, Inc. in Mission Viejo, CA. He writes and speaks as an expert in the challenge of hurry in contemporary life and work and how to overcome it. He consults and coaches leaders and their organizations in the U.S. and around the world, helping them work towards long-term productivity that lasts rather than settling for quick fixes that don’t work. He is the award-winning author of six books including An Unhurried Life, An Unhurried Leader and A Non-Anxious Life.Show notes and links: https://www.kylefarran.com/missionslife/29-an-unhurried-life-alan-fadlingWe want to hear from you!Have a question, story, or idea for a future episode?Send us a message at [email protected] with the subject “Podcast” or connect with us on Instagram: @kyle.farranWhether it’s a challenge you’re facing, a topic you’re curious about, or just a quick note to say hi—we’d love to hear it.Your feedback and ideas help shape the future of Missions Life: Navigating Life, Leadership, and Ministry Abroad!

What does it mean to be truly productive in life and ministry? In this episode, we talk with author Tim Challies about his book Do More Better and explore how missionaries and ministry leaders can steward their time, energy, and resources for God’s glory and the good of others.Tim unpacks how productivity is not about doing more things—but about doing the right things, with the right heart, for the right reasons.In This Episode, We Cover:✅ How biblical productivity reshapes the way missionaries think about ministry✅ Why busyness can be just as dangerous as laziness—and how both steal fruitfulness✅ Why the absence of productivity is first a theological problem✅ The principle of “planned neglect” and how missionaries can let go of good things to focus on the best things without guilt✅ The key tools in Tim’s productivity system: task management, scheduling, and storing information✅ Practical tips for managing email, WhatsApp, and multiple messaging platforms without drowning in digital clutter✅ The importance of daily and weekly planning timesTim is husband to Aileen and father to two daughters who are young adults and one son who is waiting for him in heaven. He worships and serves as an elder at Grace Fellowship Church in Toronto, Canada. He is the author of many books and a daily blog.Show notes and links:https://www.kylefarran.com/missionslifeWe want to hear from you! Have a question, story, or idea for a future episode? Send us a message at ⁠[email protected]⁠ with the subject “Podcast” or connect with us on Instagram: ⁠@kyle.farran⁠ ​Whether it’s a challenge you’re facing, a topic you’re curious about, or just a quick note to say hi—we’d love to hear it. Your feedback and ideas help shape the future of Missions Life!

Risk is an unavoidable part of following God’s call—especially in missions. But how should believers think about risk, make wise decisions, and find the courage to keep going when challenges feel overwhelming?In this episode, Kyle talks with Scott Brawner, the founder of Concilium—an organization committed to equipping believers with practical tools and biblical wisdom for navigating risk in global ministry. Together, we explore what risk really means, how the Bible shapes our perspective, and practical frameworks for decision-making in uncertain or dangerous contexts.Whether you’re preparing for the mission field, already serving, or sending others, this conversation will help you evaluate risk with wisdom, courage, and faith.In This Episode, We Cover:✅ How to define “risk” and why the world’s definition differs from a biblical perspective✅ Truths to encourage believers who feel fearful about taking a step of faith✅ The role of God’s calling when facing risky decisions✅ A practical framework for deciding which risks are worth taking✅ The importance of resilience in missions✅ Ways to endure daily risk without losing heart—both theological encouragement and practical habitsScott Brawner is the President/CEO of Concilium, a global nonprofit ministry helping Christians thrive where the Lord has called them and remain effective where He plants the. Scott is also the Executive Director of the Risk Management Network, a network of security professionals serving in Great Commission organizations. Scott is a theologically trained security practitioner who combines sound theological perspective with security best practices for Christian churches, mission agencies, humanitarian organizations, and persecuted Christians around the world. Scott lives in the Midwest with his wife and three children.Show notes and links:https://www.kylefarran.com/missionslife/27-courage-and-risk-in-the-great-commission-scott-brawnerWe want to hear from you! Have a question, story, or idea for a future episode? Send us a message at ⁠[email protected]⁠ with the subject “Podcast” or connect with us on Instagram: ⁠@kyle.farran⁠ ​Whether it’s a challenge you’re facing, a topic you’re curious about, or just a quick note to say hi—we’d love to hear it. Your feedback and ideas help shape the future of Missions Life!

If you’ve ever felt soul-weary while still showing up for others, this conversation with author and former pastor Lance Witt will be like water for your soul. His wisdom, honesty, and practical tools will encourage any leader in ministry—especially those on the front lines of missions.In This Episode, We Cover:✅ Early warning signs of soul neglect and how leaders can drift into running on skill instead of the Spirit✅ Why soul health is the most powerful leadership tool a pastor or missionary can develop✅ How the pace of Jesus challenges our addiction to hurry—and the disciplines that help slow us down✅ What Sabbath rest teaches us about trust, identity, and letting go of control✅ A better pursuit than growth: choosing godliness over size and applause✅ How to discern between wisdom and fear when facing hard leadership decisions✅ Practical ways to invest in the spiritual and relational health of your teamLance is the founder of REPLENISH ministries. Replenish is dedicated to helping people live and lead from a healthy soul.Along with speaking and consulting, Lance does individual life coaching and team development. Lance's newest book is called Your ONE Life: Own it, Live it, Love it. He is also the author of Replenish and High Impact Teams.Show notes and links:https://www.kylefarran.com/missionslife/26-replenishing-your-soul-for-ministry-lance-wittWe want to hear from you!Have a question, story, or idea for a future episode?Send us a message at [email protected] with the subject “Podcast” or connect with us on Instagram: @kyle.farran​Whether it’s a challenge you’re facing, a topic you’re curious about, or just a quick note to say hi—we’d love to hear it.Your feedback and ideas help shape the future of Missions Life!

In this episode, we talk with authors and veteran missionaries Emily Bennett and Amy Bowman about their devotional Before You Go, written by women, for women preparing to serve cross-culturally.With warmth and transparency, they share the heart behind the book and how God used the stories of ten women to minister to others walking the same path. Whether you're preparing to go, already serving, or walking alongside someone who is, this conversation offers wisdom, clarity, and encouragement for the journey.We also talk about the vital conversations couples and families should have before stepping into life overseas—and how anchoring your soul in Christ is the key to thriving in ministry, not just surviving.In This Episode, We Cover:✅ What they wish they had known before going to the mission field✅ Key insights and standout wisdom from the book that every missionary woman should hear✅ Crucial conversations husbands and wives should have before leaving for the field✅ What to talk about with your kids as you prepare for overseas life✅ The importance of clinging to Christ—and how that shaped their journey as wives, mothers, and missionariesEmily Bennett, along with her husband and three children served in North Africa and the Middle East for 7 years. She currently lives in Cedarville, OH where she works with an organization helping refugees and immigrants acclimate to life in the States.  She is the editor of the book Before You Go, which seeks to equip aspiring missionaries. Amy Bowman, along with her husband and four children, served internationally for 17 years with the International Mission Board in rural Zambia and later in South Asia. Amy currently lives with her family in Cedarville, Ohio, where her husband is a professor at Cedarville University. They work remotely for Radius International and love mentoring the next generation who are called to the unreached.Shownotes and links:https://www.kylefarran.com/missionslife/25-before-you-go-womens-episode-emily-bennett-amy-bowmanWe want to hear from you!Have a question, story, or idea for a future episode?Send us a message at [email protected] with the subject “Podcast” or connect with us on Instagram: @kyle.farranWhether it’s a challenge you’re facing, a topic you’re curious about, or just a quick note to say hi—we’d love to hear it.Your feedback and ideas help shape the future of Missions Life!

The missionary road is hard—this resource will help prepare you.In this episode of Missions Life, we talk with two seasoned missions practitioners and professors—Matt Bennett and Josh Bowman—about their book, Before You Go: Wisdom from 10 Men on Serving Internationally. Whether you're preparing to head overseas, mentoring others who are, or serving in a sending church, this conversation is packed with real-world insights, hard-won lessons, and biblical wisdom for the journey ahead.In This Episode, We Cover:✅ Misconceptions about missions that often blindside new missionaries✅ How missionaries can set realistic expectations✅ How to discern your calling and prepare spiritually before heading to the field✅ Key character traits and heart attitudes every missionary needs✅ Common struggles in the first year—and how to prepare for them✅ How to thrive on a team and avoid isolation or burnout✅ The role of sending churches and how they can better care for missionariesMatthew Bennett and his family lived in North Africa and the Middle East for seven years. He is now an Associate Professor of Missions and Theology at Cedarville University in Cedarville OH. He earned a PhD in Missiology at SEBTS and also holds an MA in Intercultural Studies and an MDiv in Intercultural Church Planting.Josh Bowman graduated from Southern Seminary in 2002, and then served as a rural church planter in Zambia with the International Mission Board. His passion is to see healthy churches led by theologically sound leaders reach those who have never heard the Gospel. After eight years in Zambia, the Lord led his family to South Asia to focus on church strengthening, leadership development, and unengaged people groups. He is now a professor at Cedarville University where his desire is to raise up students with a passion for Jesus and the nations.Show notes and links:https://www.kylefarran.com/missionslife/24-before-you-go-mens-episode-matt-bennett-josh-bowmanWe want to hear from you!Have a question, story, or idea for a future episode?Send us a message at ⁠[email protected]⁠ with the subject “Podcast” or connect with us on Instagram: ⁠@kyle.farran⁠Whether it’s a challenge you’re facing, a topic you’re curious about, or just a quick note to say hi—we’d love to hear it.​Your feedback and ideas help shape the future of Missions Life!

What if the greatest threats to your team’s health aren’t the obvious ones?In this episode with Elizabeth Smith, we talk about the often-overlooked impact of small traumas—the subtle, cumulative wounds that can quietly fracture trust and unity on a missions team.✅ What “small traumas” are and why they matter in a missions context✅ Real examples of how trauma can show up in leadership or daily team life without being recognized✅ How unresolved pain shapes team dynamics, communication, and spiritual health✅ Signs your team may be impacted by unspoken trauma✅ The role of leaders in fostering psychological safety and building healing spaces✅ Mistakes leaders often make that deepen trauma instead of addressing it✅ Mindset shifts needed to lead with compassion and resilienceWhether you're leading a team or serving on one, this conversation will help you navigate the hidden emotional challenges of life in ministry with greater empathy and intentionality.We’ve invited Elizabeth back because she recently wrote the book Trauma-Informed Leadership , which is a book that combines over a decade of leadership experience with her expertise as a certified Trauma-Informed Care Practitioner.  She equips leaders to identify and address the subtle, everyday traumas that can quietly undermine team trust and effectiveness. Her leadership background includes ministry and missions work, as well as her current role as COO of TCK Training, a company recognized for its commitment to emotional safety in the workplace. As an international speaker and full-time traveler, Elizabeth brings a globally-informed perspective to the practical strategies she offers to missions leaders and teams looking to strengthen their team dynamics.Show notes and links:https://www.kylefarran.com/missionslife/23-the-unseen-struggles-on-teams-recognizing-small-traumas-elizabeth-smithWe want to hear from you!Have a question, story, or idea for a future episode?Send us a message at [email protected] with the subject “Podcast” or connect with us on Instagram: @kyle.farranWhether it’s a challenge you’re facing, a topic you’re curious about, or just a quick note to say hi—we’d love to hear it.Your feedback and ideas help shape the future of Missions Life!

Today on the podcast, we have with us Richard Blackaby. Richard is the president of Blackaby Ministries International and the eldest son of Henry and Marilynn Blackaby. He holds a Ph.D. in church history from Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary and has served as both a senior pastor and seminary president. Richard speaks internationally on topics such as spiritual leadership, experiencing God, revival, and God in the marketplace. He regularly works with Christian CEOs of Fortune 500 companies and hosts The Richard Blackaby Leadership Podcast. He and his wife Lisa live in Atlanta, and they are blessed with three children who all serve in ministry and eight grandchildren.In this conversation, we dive into the heart of Spiritual Leadership.We talk about how leadership isn’t just about vision, goals, or strategies—but about knowing and following God. Richard shares powerful insights on what makes spiritual leadership different from secular leadership, and why character, prayer, and obedience are at the core of leading well.✅ How to define leadership from a biblical perspective✅ How to balance wise planning with trusting God's direction✅ How spiritual leaders can stand firm against the pressures of popularity and criticism✅ Why spiritual maturity must be prioritized over visible success✅ How to build a deep, resilient prayer life as a leader✅ How to raise up the next generation of spiritual leadersIf you want to grow into the kind of leader God can use, this conversation will challenge and encourage you.Show notes and link:https://www.kylefarran.com/missionslife/22-the-heart-of-spiritual-leadership-richard-blackabyWe want to hear from you!Have a question, story, or idea for a future episode?Send us a message at [email protected] with the subject “Podcast” or connect with us on Instagram: @kyle.farranWhether it’s a challenge you’re facing, a topic you’re curious about, or just a quick note to say hi—we’d love to hear it.Your feedback and ideas help shape the future of Missions Life!

Based on the book Overflowing: Ministry and Missions That Flow From the HeartTopics: Spiritual Growth • Leadership Development • Missions • Christian Character • Heart TransformationIn this episode, we talk about one of the most important—and often overlooked—questions in ministry and missions:Why does God use some people more than others?Drawing from the first chapter of Overflowing: Ministry and Missions That Flow From the Heart, we explore what sets certain individuals apart in God's plan—not in talent, platform, or performance, but in character.In this episode, we'll answer:✅ What kind of person is God looking to use?✅ Why is who you are more important than what you do?✅ How can we become useful vessels for God’s purposes?✅ What does 2 Chronicles 16:9 teach us about God's search for wholehearted servants?✅ How do humility, holiness, and faithfulness prepare you for greater impact in ministry?We dig deep into how God’s strong support rests on those whose hearts are fully His, and how developing godly character is the foundation for fruitfulness in life and leadership.This episode is not just about doing more for God, but about becoming the kind of person God looks to use. If you’re in ministry, missions, or simply want to live a life that counts for eternity, this message will help you evaluate where you are—and where God is calling you to grow.If you want your life, ministry, or organization to be one that God uses and blesses with His strength—it all starts with character.This episode is based on Chapter 1 of my book, Overflowing. If you want to keep exploring what it means to become the kind of person God looks to use, you can get the full book on Amazon.We want to hear from you!Have a question, story, or idea for a future episode?Send us a message at [email protected] with the subject “Podcast” or connect with us on Instagram: @kyle.farranWhether it’s a challenge you’re facing, a topic you’re curious about, or just a quick note to say hi—we’d love to hear it.Your feedback and ideas help shape the future of Missions Life!

Resilient leadership isn’t about toughness—it’s about strength, flexibility, and endurance.In this episode, we sit down with Tod Bolsinger, author of Tempered Resilience and How Not to Waste a Crisis, to discuss what it really takes to lead through challenges without burning out.Leadership is hard. How do leaders survive the pressure, setbacks, and stress of leading change? In This Episode, We Cover:✅  What it means to be “tempered” as a leader – strong yet flexible✅  Why resilience is built through stress, not comfort✅  How missionaries can develop a grounded identity under pressure✅  The importance of rest rhythms in sustaining resilience✅  How to grow through mistakes instead of being crushed by them✅  Balancing mission work with self-care“The question is not ‘Can I learn the skills I need to lead?’ but ‘Can I survive it?’” – Tod BolsingerWhether you're a missionary, church leader, or nonprofit worker, this episode will help you build resilience and sustain your calling through faith, wisdom, and healthy leadership habits.​Listen now to learn how to strengthen your leadership without burnout!​Tod Bolsinger has his MDiv, PhD, and is the co-founder and principal of AE Sloan Leadership, Inc, an executive coaching and consulting firm that works with church, non-profit, university, and marketplace leaders in leading change. He is also the Executive Director of the De Pree Center Church Leadership Institute and Associate Professor of Leadership Formation at Fuller Theological Seminary. Before his educational career, he served as a pastor for 27 years.Tod is the author of nine books, including Canoeing the Mountains: Christian Leadership in Uncharted Territory, Tempered Resilience: How Leaders are Formed in the Crucible of Change, and the Practicing Change Series.Show notes and links: https://www.kylefarran.com/missionslife/-20-building-resilience-how-to-strengthen-and-sustain-your-ministry-and-leadership-tod-bolsingerWe want to hear from you!Have a question, story, or idea for a future episode?Send us a message at [email protected] with the subject “Podcast” or connect with us on Instagram: @kyle.farranWhether it’s a challenge you’re facing, a topic you’re curious about, or just a quick note to say hi—we’d love to hear it.Your feedback and ideas help shape the future of Missions Life!

Starting a gospel conversation can feel intimidating. How do you go from everyday small talk to talking about faith, Jesus, and the gospel?Most evangelism tools help us share the gospel once a conversation is already happening, but many of us struggle with how to start those conversations in the first place.In this episode, I share practical ways to connect with unbelievers and real-world strategies to naturally start gospel conversations without awkwardness.In This Episode We Cover:✅ How to build connections with unbelievers in everyday life✅ Simple, effective ways to transition into a spiritual conversation✅ Practical steps to start gospel conversations with confidenceWhether you're new to faith conversations or looking to be more intentional in sharing the gospel, this episode will equip you with real, actionable strategies to start meaningful discussions about Jesus.I hope this is a blessing to you!Show notes and links:https://www.kylefarran.com/missionslife/19-practical-steps-to-start-gospel-conversations-kyle-farranWe want to hear from you!Have a question, story, or idea for a future episode?Send us a message at ⁠[email protected]⁠ with the subject “Podcast” or connect with us on Instagram: ⁠@kyle.farran⁠Whether it’s a challenge you’re facing, a topic you’re curious about, or just a quick note to say hi—we’d love to hear it.Your feedback and ideas help shape the future of Missions Life!

Pride is one of the greatest dangers in ministry—so how do we recognize and root it out? In this episode of Missions Life: Navigating Life, Leadership, and Ministry Abroad, Heather sat down with Peg Forrest to discuss the vital role of humility in ministry and the hidden ways pride can creep in, especially for women in missions.Peg shares why humility is a non-negotiable, how unchecked pride can mirror the enemy, and the most common pride struggles women in ministry face. We also dive into practical ways to expose pride, cultivate genuine humility, and stay spiritually healthy while serving in cross-cultural ministry.In This Episode, We Cover:✅ Why humility is essential for effective ministry and leadership✅ How pride subtly infiltrates our hearts—and why it’s so dangerous✅ The sobering truth: “We are never more like Satan than when we operate in pride”✅ Common pride struggles among women in ministry✅ Practical ways to identify and overcome pride in our lives✅ Encouragement for women serving on the mission fieldPeg has a deep passion for teaching and discipling women. With years of experience as a missionary in Kenya, a counselor, a Bible study teacher, and the Dean of Women at Arizona Christian University, she brings wisdom and insight to this discussion. She and her husband, a former 6'10" NBA center for the Phoenix Suns, founded FOCUS Ministries in 1992 after returning from Africa. Together, they travel the world, sharing the gospel and teaching about Christ through their life stories and experiences.Show notes and link:https://www.kylefarran.com/missionslife/18-the-humility-we-need-the-pride-we-must-leave-behind-peg-forrestWe want to hear from you!Have a question, story, or idea for a future episode?Send us a message at ⁠[email protected]⁠ with the subject “Podcast” or connect with us on Instagram: ⁠@kyle.farran⁠Whether it’s a challenge you’re facing, a topic you’re curious about, or just a quick note to say hi—we’d love to hear it.Your feedback and ideas help shape the future of Missions Life!

In this episode, we dive into how the right perspective on challenges can help you develop strength, resilience, and grit—essential qualities for anyone in missions and leadership.This is the podcast episode I wish I had before starting my journey in missions. If you're a missionary, leader, or someone navigating difficult seasons, you know that challenges can rob you of joy. A wrong mindset can drain your energy and motivation, but shifting your perspective can turn obstacles into opportunities for growth.Over the past few years, these life-changing insights have been like water for my soul, reshaping how I face difficulties. I truly believe that they can transform your mindset and impact your life too!Tune in now to learn how to:✅ Reframe challenges to fuel growth, perseverance, and faith✅ Avoid the joy-draining trap of a negative perspective✅ Cultivate mental and spiritual resilience in leadership & missions✅ Embrace hardships as stepping stones to strengthStart transforming your challenges into opportunities!Show notes and links:
https://www.kylefarran.com/missionslife/17-building-strength-resilience-and-grit-for-life-leadership-and-ministry-kyle-farranWe want to hear from you!Have a question, story, or idea for a future episode?Send us a message at ⁠[email protected]⁠ with the subject “Podcast” or connect with us on Instagram: ⁠@kyle.farran⁠Whether it’s a challenge you’re facing, a topic you’re curious about, or just a quick note to say hi—we’d love to hear it.Your feedback and ideas help shape the future of Missions Life!

Leaving the mission field is one of the hardest transitions a missionary can face. In this episode, we talk with Amy Medina, who shares her personal experience of leaving Tanzania and transitioning back to life in the USA.Amy opens up about the challenges of re-entry, the unexpected emotions that come with it, and how God has encouraged her family through the process. We also discuss practical steps for reintegration, managing relationships with supporters, and finding a sense of belonging after years overseas. Whether you’re preparing for transition or supporting missionaries through it, this conversation is packed with wisdom and encouragement.In This Episode, We Cover:✅ The biggest challenges of transitioning back to the USA✅ How God provides strength and encouragement in seasons of change✅ Advice for families facing sudden or unexpected transitions✅ Navigating relationships with supporters after returning home✅ Practical steps for reintegrating into culture and daily life✅ Finding a new sense of belonging after years on the mission field✅ Identity shifts: What happens when "missionary" is no longer your title?✅ The most helpful support and resources for returning missionariesAmy Medina spent almost half her life on the continent of Africa, first as an MK in Liberia and then sixteen years in Dar es Salaam, Tanzania. Amy's ministry was at Haven of Peace Academy as a teacher and administrator. The Medinas relocated to Southern California in 2020, and she now serves with ReachGlobal as a coach, placement specialist, and trainer for pre-deployed missionaries. Amy blogs at www.amy-medina.com.Show notes and links:https://www.kylefarran.com/missionslife/16-transitions-when-missionaries-have-to-leave-the-field-amy-medinaWe want to hear from you!Have a question, story, or idea for a future episode?Send us a message at ⁠[email protected]⁠ with the subject “Podcast” or connect with us on Instagram: ⁠@kyle.farran⁠Whether it’s a challenge you’re facing, a topic you’re curious about, or just a quick note to say hi—we’d love to hear it.Your feedback and ideas help shape the future of Missions Life!

Burnout is real—but it doesn’t have to define your ministry.In this episode of Missions Life: Navigating Life, Leadership, and Ministry Abroad, we sit down with Steph Boon, a missionary in Tanzania, counselor, and PhD psychology student specializing in burnout recovery and prevention.Together, we dive into the hidden role of expectations in ministry burnout and explore practical ways to protect your heart, mind, and calling. Whether you’re a missionary, ministry leader, or someone feeling weary in your calling, this conversation offers powerful insights and real-world strategies to help you stay strong for the long haul.In This Episode, You'll Learn:✅ How unmet expectations contribute to burnout in missions & leadership✅ The signs of burnout every missionary & ministry leader should recognize✅ Practical strategies to protect your emotional, spiritual, and mental well-being✅ How to build resilience and sustain your calling for the long term🎧 Tune in now to gain wisdom, encouragement, and tools to prevent burnout in ministry!Steph and her family have been serving with ABWE in Tanzania since 2012. Steph and Aaron have 5 children; plus several more who have lived with them over the years and call them parents. Steph is a counselor, PhD social psychology student and social and behavioral researcher; specializing in burnout recovery and prevention, social cognition and cultural adjustment, clinical traumatology, conflict resolution and group counseling. She loves Scripture and is passionate about sharing it professionally and personally with anyone who will listen. She helps run a non-profit called Sifa Collective which gives young women the hope of the gospel and tools to launch their own local businesses. She also co-runs and counsels at a community counseling center that offers counseling both locally and abroad as well as help train local churches to provide biblical counseling to their members and communities.Show notes and links: https://www.kylefarran.com/missionslife/15-exploring-expectations-and-burnout-steph-boonWe want to hear from you!Have a question, story, or idea for a future episode?Send us a message at ⁠[email protected]⁠ with the subject “Podcast” or connect with us on Instagram: ⁠@kyle.farran⁠Whether it’s a challenge you’re facing, a topic you’re curious about, or just a quick note to say hi—we’d love to hear it.Your feedback and ideas help shape the future of Missions Life!

Conflict is an unavoidable part of life and ministry, but it doesn’t have to derail relationships or teams. In this episode, we sit down with Ken Sande, author of The Peacemaker, and Rich Douglass to explore practical skills for resolving conflict—especially in the high-stakes environment of missions.With 50% of missionaries leaving the field during their first term—many due to preventable team conflict—learning to navigate disagreements biblically and effectively is essential. Ken and Rich share proven principles that help missionaries and leaders become true peacemakers, so they can focus on gospel ministry without unnecessary distractions.In This Episode, We Cover:✅ Why The Peacemaker has impacted over 500,000 readers worldwide✅ The Four G’s of Peacemaking—a biblical framework for conflict resolution✅ Why conflict is an opportunity rather than an obstacle✅ The Slippery Slope of Conflict—how we tend to respond to disagreements✅ The difference between personal issues vs. material issues in conflict✅ Key steps to resolving personal issues (The 7 A’s of Confession & 4 Promises of Forgiveness)✅ How the PAUSE Principle provides a roadmap for navigating conflict✅ What to do when others refuse to reconcile✅ Relational Wisdom 3.0 & Relational Peacemaking—online courses to strengthen conflict resolution skillsKen Sande is the founder of Peacemaker Ministries and RW360. Trained as an engineer, lawyer, and mediator, Ken has conciliated hundreds of family, business, church, and legal conflicts. He is the author of numerous articles and books, including The Peacemaker, which has sold over 500,000 copies in twenty languages. He teaches internationally on biblical peacemaking, Christian conciliation, and relational wisdom, which is an enhanced form of emotional intelligence that helps people “get upstream of conflict” by improving their ability to read and manage emotions in themselves and others. These resources are being used to strengthen relationships, promote teamwork and reduce and resolve conflict in churches, families, businesses, schools and military bases around the world. Ken is a Certified Emotional Intelligence Instructor with TalentSmartEQ and a Certified Relational Wisdom Conciliator, Coach, and Instructor. He has served as a church elder, an Editorial Advisor for Christianity Today, a Certified Professional Engineer and as a member of the Alternative Dispute Resolution Committee of the Montana Bar Association.Rich Douglass is an experienced leader of multinational Christian and secular organizations offering expertise in developing successful growth strategies, training both team leaders and individual representatives and creating dynamic events and environments that engage. Rich and his wife both served in the Air Force. After retiring from the Air Force they served as missionaries in Kenya and Palau (Palow) and have lived in Japan, Germany, France, and Italy.In addition to pastoral assignments, Rich was the South Carolina FCA Endurance Coordinator while Donna served on the National Leadership Board.  During their time with FCA-E, they had the chance to develop and teach evangelism to Christian Athletes nationwide. Rich now feels very privileged to serve on staff with RW 360 and looks forward to what the Lord is going to do in the years to come!Show notes and links: https://www.kylefarran.com/missionslife/14-practical-skills-for-resolving-conflict-ken-sande-and-rich-douglassWe want to hear from you!Have a question, story, or idea for a future episode?Send us a message at ⁠[email protected]⁠ with the subject “Podcast” or connect with us on Instagram: ⁠@kyle.farran⁠Whether it’s a challenge you’re facing, a topic you’re curious about, or just a quick note to say hi—we’d love to hear it.Your feedback and ideas help shape the future of Missions Life!

Furlough is a unique season—filled with challenges, transitions, and opportunities. After eight furloughs over 17 years, we’ve learned valuable lessons about how to navigate this time well while balancing ministry, family, and personal health.In this episode, we share practical strategies for managing expectations, setting boundaries, and making the most of your furlough. We cover how the role of furlough has changed, the biggest challenges missionaries face, and how to structure your time to avoid burnout while still being effective in ministry.In This Episode, We Cover:✅ The purpose of furlough and how it has changed over the years✅ Why digital communication has blurred the lines between field and furlough✅ The biggest challenges of furlough—balancing ministry, support-raising, and family time✅ Managing expectations and setting realistic goals for your time in the U.S.✅ How to plan vacations and rest to avoid exhaustion✅ Furlough with kids—helping them adjust, stay engaged, and thrive✅ Avoiding the “Furlough 15”—staying healthy while traveling✅ Faith and finances—trusting God when you need to raise additional support✅ Time-saving hacks and travel tips for a smoother furlough✅ The power of boundaries—why planning ahead prevents burnoutThis can be a helpful episode for missionaries as well as for family members or churches who would like to better understand the ups and downs of furlough/home assignment.Show notes and links:https://www.kylefarran.com/missionslife/13-tips-and-life-lessons-from-8-furloughs-kyle-heather-farranWe want to hear from you!Have a question, story, or idea for a future episode?Send us a message at ⁠[email protected]⁠ with the subject “Podcast” or connect with us on Instagram: ⁠@kyle.farran⁠Whether it’s a challenge you’re facing, a topic you’re curious about, or just a quick note to say hi—we’d love to hear it.Your feedback and ideas help shape the future of Missions Life!

Missions is hard—but being prepared can help you endure.In this episode of Missions Life: Navigating Life, Leadership, and Ministry Abroad, we sit down with Brooks Buser, a seasoned missionary and president of Radius International, to discuss how to prepare for the challenges of missions.Whether you're a future missionary, current missionary, or someone supporting missions, this episode will equip you with practical wisdom, biblical encouragement, and real-world strategies to navigate the hardships of cross-cultural ministry.In This Episode, You’ll Learn:✅ Why missions is harder than many expect—and how to prepare✅ The key mindset shifts that help missionaries endure long-term✅ Common challenges in cross-cultural ministry and how to overcome them✅ How to build spiritual, mental, and emotional resilience for the fieldBrooks is the President of Radius International. Brooks and his wife served among the Yembiyembi people of Papua New Guinea for 13 years. During their time among the Yembiyembi they learned their language, developed an alphabet for them, taught them to read and write, translated the Scriptures, and established a strong New Testament church among the Yembiyembi people. In 2016 they returned to the U.S. and Brooks assumed the leadership of Radius International, a missionary training school that prepares those going to the last unreached language groups of the world. Show notes and links: https://www.kylefarran.com/missionslife/12-how-to-prepare-for-difficulties-in-missions-brooks-buserWe want to hear from you!Have a question, story, or idea for a future episode?Send us a message at ⁠[email protected]⁠ with the subject “Podcast” or connect with us on Instagram: ⁠@kyle.farran⁠Whether it’s a challenge you’re facing, a topic you’re curious about, or just a quick note to say hi—we’d love to hear it.Your feedback and ideas help shape the future of Missions Life!

The transition from life overseas to college in the U.S. can be a major adjustment for MKs (Missionary Kids). How can parents help their children navigate this transition well and prepare them for success in college and beyond?In this episode, we talk with Brian & Dianna Nester about the unique challenges MKs face when leaving their host country, the advantages they bring, and what it looks like when an MK thrives in college. We also dive into practical steps parents can take—both during high school and as they transition back to the U.S.—to set their kids up for a smooth and successful launch into college life.In This Episode, We Cover:✅ The biggest challenges MKs face when transitioning from overseas to the U.S.✅ The unique skills and advantages MKs bring to college✅ What it looks like when an MK is thriving in college✅ The most common struggles MKs experience in college life✅ How parents can prepare their MKs in high school for a successful transition✅ Practical steps for helping MKs settle in when they return to the U.S.Brian and Dianna Nester have been involved in missions for over 4 decades. Dianna is an MK from Jamaica. When in youth ministry Brian led his first short term mission trip. As missionaries 1988-1994 they homeschooled and sent their children to Hungarian schools. Since 1994, Brian has served as Director of the Global Outreach office at Cedarville University. Brian and Dianna are the staff advisors for the Cedarville MK organization, MuKappa.Show notes and links: https://www.kylefarran.com/missionslife/11-preparing-mks-for-college-and-life-brian-dianna-nesterWe want to hear from you!Have a question, story, or idea for a future episode?Send us a message at ⁠[email protected]⁠ with the subject “Podcast” or connect with us on Instagram: ⁠@kyle.farran⁠Whether it’s a challenge you’re facing, a topic you’re curious about, or just a quick note to say hi—we’d love to hear it.Your feedback and ideas help shape the future of Missions Life!

What makes a missionary team healthy—and what can leaders do when things go wrong?In this episode, we sit down with Rick Hicks, an experienced missions leader with a passion for team health, to explore the essentials of building strong, unified missionary teams.In This Episode, We Cover:✅ Why team health matters so much in cross-cultural ministry✅ The root causes of team dysfunction✅ Practical strategies for promoting unity and trust✅ How to navigate conflict resolution on the field✅ Advice for team leaders guiding missionaries through challenges✅ Helpful resources for teams and team leadership developmentWhether you're a new missionary, a seasoned team leader, or a church supporting missions, this episode offers biblical insight and practical tools to help you build stronger teams for long-term ministry impact.Join us for a conversation with Dr. Rick Hicks about how to build healthy missionary teams. Rick has worked with missionary teams for many years and is currently serving as the Special Assistant to the International Director of Operation Mobilization, as well as training Boards of OM Fields in effective board governance.  Operation Mobilization is a non-denominational, international mission agency, working in over 130 countries around the world, and comprised of about 5200 missionaries from over 100 countries. Rick’s previous roles in OM include President of OM USA for 14 years and North America Area Leader for 6 years. At the end of 2023, Rick retired from WCM Investment Management, after serving for ten years as their Chief Culture Officer. His role there involved helping the company focus on organizational health to identify and stay true to their culture, develop a leadership team, and help employees understand themselves, the culture, and how they fit into the organization. In addition to his current responsibilities in OM, Rick speaks at conferences, churches, colleges, businesses, and a variety of other groups throughout the country and around the world to promote world missions. He also speaks on the topics of effective board governance, organizational health and culture, the understanding of temperaments, value development, and generational differences, thus promoting understanding within groups. His Ph.D., although in Education, actually focused more on Developmental and Organizational Psychology. Show notes and links: https://www.kylefarran.com/missionslife/10-building-healthy-missionary-teams-rick-hicksWe want to hear from you!Have a question, story, or idea for a future episode?Send us a message at ⁠[email protected]⁠ with the subject “Podcast” or connect with us on Instagram: ⁠@kyle.farran⁠Whether it’s a challenge you’re facing, a topic you’re curious about, or just a quick note to say hi—we’d love to hear it.Your feedback and ideas help shape the future of Missions Life!

Why do so many leaders struggle with delegation—and how can we do it well?In this episode, leadership expert and bestselling author Hans Finzel joins Kyle & Heather to explore one of the most essential (and often neglected) skills in missions leadership: delegation.From biblical examples to practical strategies, Hans unpacks how delegation isn't just a task—it’s a mindset that empowers others and multiplies ministry impact. This conversation is especially helpful for missionaries, ministry leaders, and faith-based workers seeking to grow in leadership and build healthy, sustainable teams.In This Episode, We Cover:✅ The most important leadership competencies to focus on✅ Why delegation is a critical skill for every missions leader✅ Biblical examples that guide how we delegate✅ Practical steps to begin delegating with clarity and confidence✅ Common delegation mistakes and how to avoid themWhether you're leading a missions team, mentoring others, or just starting your leadership journey, this episode will give you vision and tools to delegate well and lead with purpose.Hans Finzel is a successful author, speaker and trusted authority in the field of leadership.  For 20 years he served as President of an international non-profit WorldVenture, working in over 65 countries. Hans speaks, writes, and teaches practical leadership principles. He has written eleven books, including his international bestseller The Top Ten Mistakes Leaders Make (David C Cook). Having trained leaders on five continents in his career, his books have been translated into over twenty-five foreign languages.   Today he serves as President of HDLeaders and teaches, consults, and speaks globally on all things leadership.  Show notes and link:https://www.kylefarran.com/missionslife/9-leadership-in-missions-the-art-of-delegation-hans-finzelWe want to hear from you!Have a question, story, or idea for a future episode?Send us a message at ⁠[email protected]⁠ with the subject “Podcast” or connect with us on Instagram: ⁠@kyle.farran⁠Whether it’s a challenge you’re facing, a topic you’re curious about, or just a quick note to say hi—we’d love to hear it.Your feedback and ideas help shape the future of Missions Life!

What if your greatest ministry impact came not from working harder—but from being filled first?In this episode, Heather interviews Kyle about prioritizing our hearts in ministry and missions. Kyle wrote Overflowing: Ministry and Missions That Flow From The Heart after 10 years of journalling on how we must prioritize our heart. God wants worshipers who work, not workers who worship. There is a vast difference between the two.Kyle shares his personal journey, exploring how character, connection with God, and spiritual vitality must come before effectiveness. This honest and hope-filled conversation will resonate with missionaries, ministry leaders, and faith-based workers who want to pursue a life of deep impact rooted in a vibrant relationship with God.In This Episode, We Cover:✅ Why Kyle wrote Overflowing and the heart journey behind it✅ The biblical foundation for focusing on “being” before “doing” in ministry✅ Why focusing on the heart is essential for ministry, leadership, and longevity✅ Key barriers that block overflow: disobedience, pride, and unbelief✅ Powerful stories from Kyle’s time ministering in South Africa, including facing fear, danger, and trusting God✅ What it means to be a spiritual oasis in a dry and thirsty world✅ Kyle’s top challenge to missionaries: “Prioritize your soul”Whether you’re serving overseas or leading in your local church, this episode is a timely reminder that ministry begins in the heart—and flows outward from there.Show notes and links:https://www.kylefarran.com/missionslife/8-ministry-and-missions-that-overflow-from-the-heart-kyle-farranWe want to hear from you!Have a question, story, or idea for a future episode?Send us a message at [email protected] with the subject “Podcast” or connect with us on Instagram: @kyle.farranWhether it’s a challenge you’re facing, a topic you’re curious about, or just a quick note to say hi—we’d love to hear it.Your feedback and ideas help shape the future of Missions Life!

What happens when a pastor becomes the president of a global missions agency? How does it change the way they see missions—and the people serving on the field?Join us for a great conversation with Paul and Martha Davis. God has given them a unique perspective in transitioning from pastoral ministry to ABWE president. They share actionable tips for missionaries wanting to connect better with churches and for churches/missions committees wanting to understand missionaries better. Paul and Martha reflect on what they’ve learned about missions, missionary life, and the local church since stepping into their global leadership role.They share personal surprises, practical advice for missionaries and sending churches, and fresh encouragement for anyone serving cross-culturally. Whether you're a missionary, church leader, or missions advocate, this conversation is full of wisdom and real-world insight.In This Episode, We Cover:✅ What surprised Paul and Martha most about missionary life✅ What sending churches need to hear—and how they can better support their missionaries✅ What missionaries should communicate more clearly to their churches✅ How to build strong, healthy relationships between churches and missionaries✅ Common struggles missionaries face around the world—and encouragement for each one✅ Trends in missions and churches that every missionary should be aware of✅ How biblical strength connects to resilience in missionsThis episode is a heartfelt reminder that you’re not alone and that both the Church and your leadership care deeply about your health, growth, and long-term impact.Paul & Martha have served in pastoral ministry since 1989. In their lifetime of ministry, they have led church plants, Christian schools, and dynamic ministry teams. Additionally, they have given oversight to children’s, youth, and college/career ministries. They enjoy pace-setting leadership as well as serving as educators, conference speakers, and ministry trip facilitators. ​In 2017, Paul became the seventh President of ABWE. Today, Paul and Martha are working hard to meet, support, and encourage the ABWE global team, striving to embolden gospel-centered churches to become sending and supporting churches, connecting God-enabled donors to the visionary projects of our fields, and humbly working to build, heal and reignite relationships with ABWE partners past, present and future. ​The Davises have four adult children who are maturing believers in Jesus Christ. Show notes and links:https://www.kylefarran.com/missionslife/7-from-pastor-to-president-what-do-you-more-deeply-understand-now-about-missionsWe want to hear from you!Have a question, story, or idea for a future episode?Send us a message at [email protected] with the subject “Podcast” or connect with us on Instagram: @kyle.farranWhether it’s a challenge you’re facing, a topic you’re curious about, or just a quick note to say hi—we’d love to hear it.Your feedback and ideas help shape the future of Missions Life!

What if your leadership success wasn’t about doing more—but focusing on what matters most?In this episode, we dive into the powerful framework from the book Lead. Develop. Care., a refreshing approach to leadership that cuts through the noise of tactics and trends to focus on the heart of leadership.Rather than chasing the latest leadership hacks, this model centers on what every leader is actually called to do: lead with clarity, develop others with intentionality, and care with Christlike compassion. Whether you're serving in missions, church leadership, or ministry teams, this episode offers practical tools and biblical insight to help you thrive and help others grow.In This Episode, We Cover:✅ What makes Lead. Develop. Care. different from most leadership books✅ How the jigsaw puzzle and “box top” illustration gives leaders the big picture✅ What it really means to lead with clarity and direction✅ Why developing others is often neglected—and how to do it well✅ The power of caring for those you lead—and how it fuels long-term health and trust✅ How to balance Lead, Develop, and Care in your day-to-day leadership✅ The concept of Think Tanks and how they can fuel creativity and problem-solving in your team✅ What it takes to move from reading the book to living out the LDC frameworkIf you’re a missionary, team leader, or ministry coach, this episode will equip you with a simple, transferable model to grow as a leader and invest deeply in others.Terry Cook is a leader, teacher, coach, and change agent. In 2005 Terry helped launch LDN Global to follow his heart to develop leaders who would have a worldwide impact. Terry carries his passion to encourage, train, and coach leaders all over the world as he shares the LDC Leadership Framework to bring clarity, competence, and confidence to leaders. Show notes and links:https://www.kylefarran.com/missionslife/6-lead-develop-care-terry-cookWe want to hear from you!Have a question, story, or idea for a future episode?Send us a message at [email protected] with the subject “Podcast” or connect with us on Instagram: @kyle.farranWhether it’s a challenge you’re facing, a topic you’re curious about, or just a quick note to say hi—we’d love to hear it.Your feedback and ideas help shape the future of Missions Life!

Why do some missionaries make it to the field—and others never do? What does it really take to get there?In this episode, we talk with Rob and Sherry Hagerty, who serve in missionary mobilization and training, about what it takes to successfully navigate the season of pre-field ministry—the crucial time of preparation before launching overseas.They unpack the real challenges and overlooked blessings of support raising, partner development, personal readiness, and the essential role of sending churches. Whether you’re preparing for missions or walking alongside someone who is, this episode will give you clarity, encouragement, and next steps to move forward with confidence.In This Episode, We Cover:✅ The key components of pre-field ministry and what each one involves✅ Why some people thrive—and others struggle—in the preparation process✅ The biggest hurdles missionaries face before ever reaching the field✅ Why raising support isn’t just a task—it’s an opportunity✅ The hidden joys and spiritual benefits of pre-field ministry✅ How to grow in communication and people skills for effective partnership development✅ The vital role of sending churches in missionary success✅ Practical advice for missionaries and those who support themWhether you're on the journey to the field or helping others get there, this episode will equip you to prepare well and trust God through the process.Rob and Sherry served as full-time ABWE missionaries for nearly ten years in Santiago, Chile. During this time, they facilitated the onboarding of many new missionaries. Nearly five years ago, they began ministering with ABWE headquarters as new missionary coaches. They continue to serve new missionaries through teaching, coaching, and mentorship helping to prepare them for their fields of service. Show notes and links:https://www.kylefarran.com/missionslife/5-getting-to-the-mission-field-what-does-it-take-rob-sherry-hagertyWe want to hear from you!Have a question, story, or idea for a future episode?Send us a message at [email protected] with the subject “Podcast” or connect with us on Instagram: @kyle.farranWhether it’s a challenge you’re facing, a topic you’re curious about, or just a quick note to say hi—we’d love to hear it.Your feedback and ideas help shape the future of Missions Life!

What if the best way to lead, disciple, and develop others isn’t through giving answers—but asking powerful questions?In this episode, we talk with Dr. Keith Webb, creator of The COACH Model® and a global leader in Christian coaching. We explore how coaching can transform the way we lead, mentor, parent, and serve others in ministry.Whether you’re a missions leader, pastor, parent, or teammate, this conversation will help you understand the power of coaching skills—and how to begin using them right away to support growth, ownership, and Spirit-led transformation in the lives of others.In This Episode, We Cover:✅ How Dr. Keith Webb defines coaching and why it matters in ministry✅ What led him to shift from telling to coaching—and the impact it had✅ The mindset shift required to truly coach others✅ A practical walkthrough of The COACH Model® and how it works✅ How coaching naturally spills into parenting, marriage, and daily life✅ The difference between becoming a professional coach and simply using coaching skills in everyday roles✅ The WIN method for generating feedback instead of giving it✅ Simple, practical steps to begin growing your coaching skills today✅ Why coaching helps people hear from God for themselves and walk in deeper ownershipThis episode is full of practical tools and deep insight to help you better disciple, develop, and care for those you serve—no matter your role in ministry.Dr. Keith E. Webb is a Professional Certified Coach, author, and speaker specializing in leadership development. He founded and leads Creative Results Management, a global training organization focused on equipping Christian leaders to multiply their impact. For 20 years, Keith lived in Japan, Indonesia, and Singapore where he created The COACH Model® and several International Coaching Federation-approved coaching training programs. He is the author of The COACH Model for Christian Leaders.  
 
Keith lives in Washington State.Show notes and links:https://www.kylefarran.com/missionslife/4-coaching-in-ministry-keith-webbWe want to hear from you!Have a question, story, or idea for a future episode?Send us a message at [email protected] with the subject “Podcast” or connect with us on Instagram: @kyle.farranWhether it’s a challenge you’re facing, a topic you’re curious about, or just a quick note to say hi—we’d love to hear it.Your feedback and ideas help shape the future of Missions Life!

How can we better support missionary kids—and help them thrive emotionally, spiritually, and relationally?In this episode, we talk with Elizabeth Smith about the unique journey of missionary kids (MKs) and third culture kids (TCKs). Elizabeth shares wisdom from her own ministry experience and offers practical insight from the field of TCK care, grief processing, and emotional resilience.Whether you’re a missionary parent, team leader, or part of a sending church, this episode will equip you to better understand the MKs and TCKs in your life—and empower them to grow into confident, grounded, faith-filled adults.In This Episode, We Cover:✅ Elizabeth’s personal journey into ministry and heart for missionary kids✅ What a Third Culture Kid (TCK) is and why this identity matters✅ The story behind TCK Training and how it’s making a global impact✅ Traits and habits of TCKs who thrive—and how to nurture them✅ Red flags and warning signs that may indicate a TCK is struggling✅ How the books The Grief Tower and Unstacking Your Grief Tower help TCKs process and heal✅ Practical resources and training options available through TCK Training✅ Encouragement for parents who want to love, lead, and support their children wellThis episode is full of grace-filled truth, helpful tools, and gospel-centered encouragement for anyone involved in the lives of missionary kids.Elizabeth Smith is with the organization TCK Training.  (Third Culture Kids). Elizabeth spent five years doing missions work in Papua New Guinea with her husband and two children, and is now COO of TCK Training. TCK Training is committed to helping globally mobile families thrive and, in her role, Elizabeth has helped families all around the globe through debriefings and trainings to help their family thrive. She travels the world together with her own family, sometimes to provide in-person services and always for pleasure. Elizabeth is the author of “The Practice of Processing”.Show notes and links:https://www.kylefarran.com/missionslife/3-how-to-understand-and-empower-mks-elizabeth-smithWe want to hear from you!Have a question, story, or idea for a future episode?Send us a message at [email protected] with the subject “Podcast” or connect with us on Instagram: @kyle.farranWhether it’s a challenge you’re facing, a topic you’re curious about, or just a quick note to say hi—we’d love to hear it.Your feedback and ideas help shape the future of Missions Life!

What’s it really like to serve in missions as a single person—and how can churches and teammates support singles better?In this episode, we talk with Mandi Vermilyea and Stephanie M. Kozick, two single missionaries who share candidly about the joys, challenges, and victories of serving God as single missionaries. This honest and grace-filled conversation explores what helps singles thrive on the mission field—and how married teammates, churches, and leaders can better understand and support them.In This Episode, We Cover:✅ Unique joys and opportunities that come with being single in ministry✅ Common challenges singles face on the field—including loneliness, assumptions, and cultural expectations✅ What singles wish their married teammates and sending churches understood✅ Practical mindsets and rhythms that help singles thrive long-term✅ Habits and spiritual practices of healthy, resilient single missionaries✅ Ways married couples can better walk alongside and support singles in missions✅ Words of encouragement for singles—and those serving with themThis episode is a powerful reminder of the vital role singles play in advancing the gospel around the world and how they can thrive in ministry.Mandi Vermilyea grew up in Quebec City as an MK. Then, God called her to return to Canada to serve with ABWE in Montreal in 2016. Over the past 8 years, she has developed relationships with people in her community through various means such as book clubs, teaching English, and volunteering at Meals on Wheels. God has richly blessed those friendships and given her many opportunities to share His love with others. Her dog, Charlie, has also been instrumental in meeting many people in her neighborhood! She has also been actively involved in her French-speaking church, most recently with the single women in the congregation. She created a group to provide encouragement and mutual support just over 2 years ago. As she saw the fruits of that group, God laid on her heart a similar ministry for the single women serving with ABWE. She launched Flourish in early 2023 and prays that it will be used by God to bless, encourage, and come alongside the women serving Him faithfully all around the world.Stephanie M. Kozick has lived and worked in Europe since 2008. She spent her first nine years abroad working with various ministries in Dublin, Ireland. For the past seven years, she has served outside Athens, Greece with both ministry to nationals and the refugee population. She very much enjoys connecting with people from many different cultures learning what she can from those around her. She also enjoys writing and engaging around the subject of singleness, as she has never been married and is passionate about helping others with the same status thrive as they discover both the blessings and difficulties that come with this gift. Show notes and links:https://www.kylefarran.com/missionslife/2-singles-in-missions-trials-triumphs-and-how-to-thrive-mandi-vermilyea-stephanie-kozickWe want to hear from you!Have a question, story, or idea for a future episode?Send us a message at [email protected] with the subject “Podcast” or connect with us on Instagram: @kyle.farranWhether it’s a challenge you’re facing, a topic you’re curious about, or just a quick note to say hi—we’d love to hear it.Your feedback and ideas help shape the future of Missions Life!

How can married couples thrive in ministry—not just survive?In this very first episode of Missions Life, we talk with Jerry and Char Pelfrey, longtime pastor and ministry leaders, about what it takes to build and maintain a healthy marriage while serving in full-time ministry. From lessons learned to practical habits, they share honest encouragement for couples serving together on the field.Whether you're newly married or have decades of ministry behind you, this episode is filled with wisdom, grace, and practical advice to help your marriage thrive.In This Episode, We Cover:✅ The unique joys of serving together as husband and wife in ministry✅ Common challenges couples face in cross-cultural ministry✅ Habits and rhythms of couples who maintain healthy, Christ-centered marriages✅ Common mistakes that husbands and wives can fall into while ministering together✅ What Jerry and Char wish they had done differently earlier in their marriage and ministry✅ Words of encouragement and hope for married couples on the fieldThis episode is a reminder that your marriage is one of your greatest ministries—and it’s worth investing in.Jerry Pelfrey has been the senior pastor of Grace Baptist Church in Mason, Ohio for 38 years, has done intense counseling for 3 decades, served as City Chaplain for over 30 years, and is active in civic organization. Char served for 16 years on the Mason City Council and was one of the mayors and now serves as a board member with our mission organization, ABWE. Jerry & Char have 4 daughters and have been married for 44 years. They have kids and grandkids on the mission field and are a sending church to 8 missionary families. They constantly seek to help missionaries build and maintain healthy marriages. Show notes and links: https://www.kylefarran.com/missionslife/1-healthy-marriages-in-ministry-jerry-char-pelfreyWe want to hear from you!Have a question, story, or idea for a future episode?Send us a message at [email protected] with the subject “Podcast” or connect with us on Instagram: @kyle.farranWhether it’s a challenge you’re facing, a topic you’re curious about, or just a quick note to say hi—we’d love to hear it.Your feedback and ideas help shape the future of Missions Life!

In this episode, we share a bit about our family and our missions journey.Show notes and links:
https://www.kylefarran.com/missionslife/episode-0We want to hear from you!Have a question, story, or idea for a future episode?Send us a message at [email protected] with the subject “Podcast” or connect with us on Instagram: @kyle.farranWhether it’s a challenge you’re facing, a topic you’re curious about, or just a quick note to say hi—we’d love to hear it.Your feedback and ideas help shape the future of Missions Life!