Piece by Piece Autism Podcast

This week, we sit down with Mike Greer, Christi’s brother, for a fun and thoughtful conversation all about how autism is portrayed in Hollywood.Together, we review several well-known shows and movies that feature autistic characters and discuss what feels realistic, what feels exaggerated, and which character traits remind us of Alec. From classic films to modern streaming shows, we share our honest perspectives as a family who has lived the reality of autism every day.We discuss iconic titles like Rain Man and Temple Grandin, Love on the Spectrum and The Good Doctor.We talk about the strengths and shortcomings of autism representation in media, the common themes we see repeated in Hollywood, and why representation matters for families, educators, and the broader community.Whether you’re curious about how accurately autism is portrayed on screen or just want to hear a relatable conversation connecting real life to pop culture, this episode is both entertaining and insightful.Send us Fan Mail

In this episode, we sit down with two very special guests—Tyler and Madeleine, Alec’s original roommates when he first moved to Utah seven years ago.These were the early days of Alec’s transition into group home living, and Tyler and Madeleine were right there helping him settle in, build routines, and adjust to a new level of independence. What started as a working relationship quickly grew into something much deeper.Now, years later, it has been so special to reconnect and see how their relationship with Alec has continued to grow and evolve—even after they moved back to California and started a family of their own.We talk about the life lessons they learned during their time with Alec, the challenges they faced, and of course, the funny and unforgettable moments that come with daily life supporting someone on the autism spectrum.This episode offers a unique behind-the-scenes look at what it’s really like to support someone transitioning into a group home setting—highlighting the importance of consistency, connection, and the relationships that make it all meaningful.It’s a reminder that while systems and structure matter, it’s the people who truly make the difference.Send us Fan Mail

In this episode, we share Alec’s journey with communication—one of the most meaningful and challenging parts of his story.We take you back to the early years, starting with speech therapy and the initial stages of communication, and the moment Christi realized that Alec may not develop verbal language. From there, we walk through the many paths we explored in helping Alec find a way to communicate.We discuss Alec’s experience working with Soma in Austin, Texas, where he began using a letter board, and how that method evolved into the communication system he uses today. While the journey has not been easy, it has been incredibly meaningful. Through this process, Alec has been able to share his thoughts, feelings, and personality in ways that were once out of reach.We also talk honestly about the challenges along the way, including attempts to transition to typing on an iPad. Despite working with multiple communication specialists, that path has come with roadblocks, reminding us that communication is not one-size-fits-all.This episode is a reflection on persistence, growth, and the importance of continuing to seek out what works for each individual. For families navigating nonverbal autism or exploring communication options, we hope Alec’s story offers both encouragement and insight.Send us Fan Mail

In this episode, we sit down with Sharisa Lewis, Dylan’s mom, to hear her perspective on raising a child on the autism spectrum and navigating the journey from early intervention to adulthood.Dylan, a good friend of Alec’s, is a fun, creative, and project-loving young man, and Sharisa shares what it has looked like to support him every step of the way. From receiving his official autism diagnosis at age five to starting early intervention at just two years old, her story highlights the importance of getting support early and staying the course through each stage of development.In addition, Sharisa brings a wealth of knowledge when it comes to autism services and government waivers, and we touch on how important these supports can be for families planning for the future. We’re already looking forward to having her back for a deeper dive into this topic.Most of all, this episode is a reminder of how valuable it is to hear from other autism parents—sharing experiences, learning from one another, and realizing you’re not alone on this journey.Send us Fan Mail

In this episode, we sit down with our longtime friend Megan, a passionate advocate for children with learning differences — both in the classroom and at home. With years of experience raising her own children and teaching students with a wide range of needs, Megan brings a valuable dual perspective to the conversation.Married to her husband Michael for 22 years and a proud mom to Anna, Blake, Max, and Spencer, Megan’s life is full of camping trips, baseball games, and soccer fields. She earned her education degree from TWU and has spent the last 12 years advocating fiercely for her children and her students. Special education has become a true calling for her, and she plans to pursue her Master’s degree next fall.Megan also holds a special place in Alec’s story. As a longtime friend of his, she’s seen firsthand how advocacy, support, and individualized education can change a child’s trajectory.This episode is an incredible resource for any parent who feels unsure about how to navigate school systems, special education services, or how to best support a child who learns differently. Megan offers practical advice, real-life examples, and empowering encouragement to help families feel confident and informed as they advocate for their children.Send us Fan Mail

This week, we’re joined by a very unique guest—Mr. J, the creator behind Punk for Kids, a music project bringing upbeat punk and ska sounds to children and families.Mr. J shares how Punk for Kids began with a simple need—wanting something more enjoyable to listen to during daily commutes with his son. What started as a personal solution quickly grew into a creative project that blends high-energy music with kid-friendly themes, making it fun for both parents and children.As a full-time high school TV Production teacher in New Jersey, Mr. J is no stranger to creativity. His students even produce a live show every day for their school. But his most meaningful work came from home—creating music for his autistic son as a way to connect, engage, and bring more joy into their everyday routines.We also talk about his journey as a parent of a child on the autism spectrum and how music has played such an important role in his son’s learning and enjoyment. From weekend trips to amusement parks to sharing a love of music, Mr. J brings a relatable and heartfelt perspective on parenting and connection.In this episode, he shares one of his songs, “Frankie Mac and Cheese.”Whether you’re a parent, caregiver, or just someone looking to bring more fun into your daily routines, this episode is a reminder that sometimes the best ideas come from simply trying to make life a little more enjoyable—for both you and your child.You can find Mr. Jay @punk4kids on instagram, tiktok, and youtube.If you would like to donate to the Shannon Daley Fund, visit the link below:Shannon Daley Memorial FundSend us Fan Mail

In this episode, we open up Alec’s teaching toolbox and share many of the tools, programs, and systems that have helped him learn, grow, and gain independence over the years.Teaching individuals on the autism spectrum often requires creativity, structure, and the right supports. We talk about some of the programs and skill-building activities we’ve implemented with Alec over the years, including things like Travel Match, practicing waiting, and other structured learning opportunities that help build independence.We also discuss some of the physical tools we use during teaching sessions—everything from laser pointers and whiteboards to Alec’s computer and textbooks. These simple but effective tools help keep learning engaging, organized, and accessible.Beyond the tools themselves, we share how we organize and support Alec’s team. Having systems in place allows the team to be consistent, efficient, and focused on helping Alec succeed.Whether you’re a parent, caregiver, or professional working with individuals on the autism spectrum, this episode offers a look inside the practical tools and strategies that have helped Alec thrive.Send us Fan Mail

This week’s episode is a very special one for us. For the first time, we sit down with the person who started it all—Alec.Because Alec is nonverbal, this conversation looks a little different than a traditional interview. Ahead of recording, we sat down with Alec and asked him a series of questions. Using his keyboard, Alec thoughtfully typed out his responses, giving us a rare and meaningful opportunity to hear directly from an adult on the autism spectrum about his experiences, thoughts, and perspective.To help bring Alec’s words to life on the podcast, we were joined by Michael Owen, who reads Alec’s responses and serves as his voice during the episode.Michael Owen is a detective by day, but a devoted friend and advocate of Alec by heart. Having shared years of life’s ups and downs with Alec, Michael brings a raw and honest look at what friendship looks like beyond the diagnosis. He isn’t an expert—just someone who has learned that connection doesn’t always need words, and that showing up is the most important part of the journey.Michael has been a police officer and detective for 20 years. He has been married to his wife Megan for almost 23 years, and together they have four children ranging in age from 21 to 13. When he’s not working, Michael enjoys camping with his family, spending time on the lake, and coaching his boys’ baseball teams.This episode is a powerful reminder that communication can take many forms, and when individuals on the spectrum are given the right tools and support, their voices can absolutely be heard. We’re honored to share Alec’s thoughts with all of you and grateful to Michael for helping bring them to life.Send us Fan Mail

Chores may seem simple, but they can be one of the most powerful tools for building independence in children and adults on the autism spectrum.In this episode, we expand on one of our most popular topics—Alec’s chore system—and dive deeper into how we teach life skills through everyday tasks at home. We talk about the prompt levels we use in ABA, how to gradually fade support, and why learning to contribute around the house builds confidence, responsibility, and independence.We also discuss how chores can lay the foundation for future vocational opportunities. Skills like cleaning, organizing, carrying items, and completing multi-step tasks can later translate into meaningful work experiences.For families just getting started, we encourage you to start small. Cooperative activities like walking the dog together, carrying groceries, or moving a cooler from the garage are great ways to begin building instructional cooperation and teamwork.Whether your learner is young or an adult, chores can help develop essential life skills, independence, and pride in contributing to their home and community.If you’re looking for practical ways to teach responsibility and real-world skills through ABA principles, this episode is full of ideas to help you get started.The BEST laser pointer! Send us Fan Mail

In this episode, we talk about one of our most practical tools for daily life with Alec—the backpack. Whether you’re running errands, heading to a therapy appointment, or spending the day out and about, being prepared can make all the difference when caring for a child with autism.We share what we always keep packed and ready to go—from sensory supports and snacks to communication tools and cleanup supplies. Our favorite? The Under Armour Hustle 5.0 backpack—but the most important thing is finding a bag that fits your child’s specific needs and routines.We’ll walk through our must-haves, a "thank goodness we had that” stories, and tips for building your own go-bag to reduce stress and stay one step ahead of the unexpected.Click here for Under Armour Hustle 6.0 backpackSend us Fan Mail

In this episode, we sit down with Anna Osmond, Alec’s house manager and an essential part of his support team. Anna has known Alec for years and brings a rare, full-circle perspective—having worked with him in Texas before his move to Utah and now supporting him in his group home setting.Anna shares what it truly looks like to support an adult on the autism spectrum behind the scenes. From managing home maintenance and scheduling appointments to making sure everyday essentials like laundry soap, toothpaste, and toilet paper are always stocked, her role allows direct support staff to focus fully on Alec himself. These details may seem small, but they make a huge difference in creating stability, consistency, and independence.We also talk about Anna’s background as a school teacher and how working with Alec and learning from ABA has shaped the way she supports students in her classroom. Most of all, this episode highlights the heart behind the work—how genuine connection, consistency, and teamwork create an environment where individuals on the spectrum can thrive.If you’ve ever wondered what it takes to build a strong autism support system—or how ABA principles extend far beyond therapy sessions—this episode is for you.Send us Fan Mail

In this episode, we sit down with one of Alec’s favorite people — former team member and roommate, Heather. Their relationship is a powerful example of what consistent, compassionate autism support can grow into over time.When Heather was first hired, Alec didn’t make it easy — he tested boundaries, pushed limits, and was a bit of a stinker. But instead of giving up, Heather stayed consistent, patient, and steady. Over time, she earned Alec’s trust, laying the foundation for a bond that has lasted years beyond her role as a caregiver.Heather knows Alec deeply and continues to be an important part of his life. She has also played a key role in helping foster friendships for Alec with other individuals on the spectrum, showing how strong support can expand into meaningful community and connection.From spending holidays together to building trust through consistency, this episode highlights the heart of autism support — the relationships that go beyond job titles. If we had a Hall of Fame for team members, Heather would absolutely be in it.This episode is for parents, caregivers, and professionals who want to understand how trust, consistency, and genuine connection can change everything for individuals on the spectrum.Send us Fan Mail

In this episode, we kick off an important conversation about behavior in autism by breaking down one of the most foundational tools in ABA: ABC Data — Antecedent, Behavior, and Consequence.We explain what ABC data is, why it matters, and how it helps us move away from guessing or labeling behavior and toward truly understanding why behavior happens. Using real-life examples from Alec, we share how we’ve tracked behavior over the years and how observing what happens before, during, and after a behavior has shaped his supports and programming.This conversation isn’t about judgment or punishment — it’s about clarity. ABC data helps identify patterns, guide interventions, and answer the core ABA question: What is this behavior communicating or getting for the learner?This episode lays the groundwork for future discussions about behavior, functions, and support strategies, and is perfect for parents, caregivers, and educators who want practical, real-world insight into autism, ABA, and behavior support.If behavior has ever felt confusing or overwhelming, this episode is your starting point.Send us Fan Mail

In this episode, we dive into a topic that so many parents of individuals with autism experience — caretaker fatigue. When the needs are constant and the demands feel never-ending, it’s easy for caregivers to put themselves last… until burnout sets in.We talk about the signs and symptoms of caretaker fatigue and why prioritizing yourself is not selfish — it’s essential. Christi shares honestly about her experience raising Alec, including the ways she felt supported by friends, the moments she felt isolated, and the intentional choices she made to care for herself along the way.We discuss why taking breaks — including trips without Alec — allowed Christi to reconnect with her other children, feel renewed, and return as a better, more present caregiver. Because the last thing any parent wants is to feel resentment toward the individual who needs their care.This episode is a reminder that supporting an individual with autism starts with supporting the caregiver. When parents take care of themselves, everyone benefits — especially their child.If you’re a parent or caregiver feeling stretched thin, this conversation is for you.Send us Fan Mail

In this episode, we talk openly about Alec’s journey with epilepsy over the last 12 years. Alec had his first seizure at 16, and like many individuals on the autism spectrum, epilepsy became an additional and life-changing diagnosis.According to the Epilepsy Foundation, 20–30% of individuals with autism also have epilepsy, making seizures the most common neurologic complication associated with autism. We share the realities of navigating the medical system, the frustration of not always being heard, and the long, difficult process of finding the right medication — one that not only controlled seizures but also minimized side effects. Those years were some of the hardest Alec has faced, and they shaped how we advocate, ask questions, and push for better care.This episode is for families raising children on the spectrum who are also managing epilepsy or other medical complexities. We hope Alec’s story helps you feel less alone, more informed, and more empowered to advocate for your child. Send us Fan Mail

In this episode, we talk all about setting goals with Alec and why goal setting matters for everyone — on the autism spectrum or not. Every individual deserves to feel pride, confidence, and a sense of accomplishment, and for some, that journey simply requires additional support and structure.Alec has been setting goals from a young age. We started small with attainable, short-term goals and gradually built toward larger, yearly goals that support independence, confidence, and growth. Along the way, we’ve learned how powerful it is to break goals into manageable steps and celebrate progress at every stage.We share how we’ve adapted goal setting over time, what’s worked, what we’ve adjusted, and why helping individuals on the spectrum experience success is just as important as the goals themselves. Whether you’re supporting a young child, a teen, or an adult with autism, this episode offers encouragement and practical ideas to help make goal setting meaningful and achievable — piece by piece.Send us Fan Mail

In this episode, we’re recapping the holidays — autism and all. The holiday season can be especially challenging for individuals on the autism spectrum, with disrupted routines, sensory overload, and nonstop social demands. This year, we’re happy to report that Alec earned a solid B+, and we couldn’t be more thrilled.We break down what worked well for Alec, the strategies that helped support him, and what we might do differently next time. While this holiday season felt like a win, it hasn’t always been this way — and we share openly about the years when the holidays were anything but successful.This honest recap is meant to encourage families who are still in the trenches. Progress isn’t about perfection — it’s about learning, adjusting, and celebrating the small wins along the way. If your holidays felt hard, you’re not alone, and there is hope for smoother seasons ahead.Send us Fan Mail

Join us—Angie Matheney and Christi Jensen—for a candid Q&A-style conversation where Christi opens up about what she wishes she could have told her younger self when Alec was first diagnosed.We talk about the shifting priorities that come with raising a child on the spectrum, the pressure to "do everything right," and the importance of giving yourself grace. Whether you're just starting out or years into your journey, this episode offers encouragement, perspective, and a reminder that you're not alone.Send us Fan Mail

In this episode, we’re talking chores—how we got Alec started, how we create chore chains with just the right level of support, and why these daily tasks are so much more than household responsibilities.Chores have been a huge part of Alec’s journey toward independence. We share how we taught him to complete tasks step by step, how we adjusted support as his skills grew, and why we believe every child—regardless of ability—can take pride in contributing at home.Chores also lay a solid foundation for real-world job skills. These early routines can turn into resume-worthy experience, and we’ve seen firsthand how powerful that can be.Send us Fan Mail

In this episode, we—Angie and Christi—look back on Alec’s early years and the start of our autism journey. We share what it was like when Alec was diagnosed at just 2 years old, some of the behaviors he struggled with, and how we navigated those early, uncertain days as parents and caregivers.We talk about the professionals who came into our lives and played a huge role in shaping Alec’s progress, as well as the lessons we learned along the way. It’s a personal, emotional, and sometimes funny reflection on those formative years. If you're just beginning this path or have already walked it, we hope our stories bring comfort, hope, and maybe even a few laughs.Send us Fan Mail

In this episode, we dive into the real challenges families face during the holiday season when raising children on the autism spectrum. What should be a magical, joyful time can quickly turn stressful with disrupted routines, extra people in the house, sensory overload, travel, noise, and unpredictable schedules.We talk about why the holidays can feel “not so merry and bright,” share our own experiences, and offer practical tips for reducing stress—for kids and parents. From preparing for transitions to managing big feelings, creating safe spaces, and setting realistic expectations, we explore ways to make the season more manageable and meaningful.If your holidays don’t look like a Hallmark movie, you’re not alone—and this conversation is for you.Send us Fan Mail

This week we have the best time talking with Blake Harsh, Alec’s ski instructor turned one of his best buddies. Blake is a mechanical engineer with an undergraduate degree from Brigham Young University and a master’s in Space Systems Engineering from Johns Hopkins University, where he specialized in orbital mechanics and spacecraft subsystems. He works at Northrop Grumman as a solid rocket propulsion engineer, contributing to large-scale nuclear defense programs and space-launch systems for NASA and commercial customers. He has also built a growing real estate investment portfolio. Blake is tri-lingual in English, Spanish, and Papiamento, and does translation work in Papiamento, including scripture translation and simultaneous interpretation for international conferences. Blake lives in Utah, where he’s happiest outside—offroading in his truck, rock climbing, wakeboarding, surfing (boat and ocean), and, most importantly, skiing.When Blake first met Alec, he had zero experience working with anyone on the autism spectrum — but that changed fast. Blake jumped in with an open mind, a lot of patience, and a love for the mountains… and the friendship that followed is something special.Blake shares hilarious and heartwarming stories from their time on the slopes, the moments where Alec’s confidence really took off, and why he sees absolutely no limit to Alec’s potential. Their adventures prove that the right support, the right person, and the right environment can unlock incredible growth.He’s already counting down to the first snowfall — and after this episode, you will be too.Send us Fan Mail

In this episode, we sit down with our longtime friend Megan, a passionate advocate for children with learning differences — both in the classroom and at home. With years of experience raising her own children and teaching students with a wide range of needs, Megan brings a valuable dual perspective to the conversation.Married to her husband Michael for 22 years and a proud mom to Anna, Blake, Max, and Spencer, Megan’s life is full of camping trips, baseball games, and soccer fields. She earned her education degree from TWU and has spent the last 12 years advocating fiercely for her children and her students. Special education has become a true calling for her, and she plans to pursue her Master’s degree next fall.Megan also holds a special place in Alec’s story. As a longtime friend of his, she’s seen firsthand how advocacy, support, and individualized education can change a child’s trajectory.This episode is an incredible resource for any parent who feels unsure about how to navigate school systems, special education services, or how to best support a child who learns differently. Megan offers practical advice, real-life examples, and empowering encouragement to help families feel confident and informed as they advocate for their children.Send us Fan Mail

In this special episode, we sit down with Angie’s son, Jackson, who has known Alec his entire life. At just 12 years old (and already 5’11”!), Jackson brings a fresh and heartfelt perspective on what it’s like to grow up with an autistic bonus brother as a constant part of his early years.As the oldest of four siblings, Jackson is a natural leader — hardworking, fun to be around, and the kind of big brother everyone looks up to. Whether he’s playing first base or snagging fly balls in the outfield, he brings the same dedication to baseball that he brings to understanding people who are different from him.Jackson shares how Alec shaped his compassion, patience, and confidence. We talk about the lessons he’s learned, the funny and meaningful moments they’ve shared, and how growing up alongside someone on the autism spectrum has made him more empathetic and aware.Whether you’re a parent, sibling, or friend, Jackson’s insight will remind you how impactful these relationships can be.Send us Fan Mail

In this episode, we wrap up our Sibling Series with Alec’s last sibling — Morning Winterholler. Morning is the second born of Alec’s older sisters. She is 34 years old and has called Houston, Texas home for the last decade. Morning is married to Michael, and mom to three of Alec’s favorite nieces and nephews - Jay, Wynn, and Kit. Morning is actively involved in her Church and neighborhood communities. In her free time she loves playing mahjong and tennis, jumping on the trampoline, and drinking Diet Coke.We talk about her memories, the challenges she navigated, the ways Alec shaped her childhood, and the compassion and resilience that grew from being part of his world. Her voice adds another meaningful piece to Alec’s story and reminds us how deeply autism impacts — and enriches — the lives of siblings. Send us Fan Mail

In this episode, we continue our Sibling Series with Alec’s sister, Andrea Jensen Semidey. Andrea lives in Allen, TX with her husband and 4 kids. She works in finance as a corporate attorney. She graduated from SMU with a degree in Advertising and History and graduated from law school in New York City at Yeshiva University. She enjoys horseback riding, yoga, running, legos, cooking, baking and reading, and only wishes for more time to do any one of those things. She and her family are huge "soccer" fans and Arsenal supporters. Andrea shares her perspective on growing up with a brother on the autism spectrum — the challenges, the joy, and the lessons that shaped her along the way.Send us Fan Mail

In this heartfelt episode, Christi and Angie open up about the journey of helping Alec build and maintain meaningful friendships over the years.Friendship doesn’t always come naturally — especially for individuals on the autism spectrum — but with patience, intentional opportunities, and the right support, genuine connections can grow. We talk about what’s worked for Alec, from structured social opportunities to natural friendships that blossomed through shared interests, work relationships and team bonds.Whether you’re a parent, sibling, or caregiver, we hope this conversation offers encouragement and practical ideas for helping your loved one form lasting bonds — one piece at a time.Send us Fan Mail

In this episode, we kick off our Sibling Series with a special guest — Todd Jensen. Todd is Alec's senior by three years. He grew up in Japan, Denmark and Texas. Todd holds a B.S. of Accounting from Brigham Young University - Utah. Following college, Todd has pursued a career in speciality finance in Texas while maintaining a few entrepreneurial real estate ventures on the side. In his free time, he enjoys hunting, fishing, smoking meat, riding dirt-bikes (much to Christi's dismay), playing RuneScape and bugging the living heck out of Alec! Todd shares his unique perspective on what it was like growing up with a sibling on the autism spectrum — the challenges, the lessons, and the moments that shaped their bond.From early memories to the realities of sharing family attention and adapting to Alec’s needs, Todd’s honest reflection sheds light on how autism impacts not just the individual, but the entire family. We talk about what he learned along the way, how his relationship with Alec has evolved, and what advice he has for other siblings navigating similar experiences.It’s a heartfelt, insightful look at family life, understanding, and the lasting love that comes from growing up piece by piece alongside autism.Send us Fan Mail

Mel Robbins may have her “Let Them” theory — but when it comes to sensory and stimulatory behaviors that interfere with learning and growth, we’ve developed our own version: “Don’t Let Them.”In this episode, we unpack the overlap between sensory and stimulatory (stimming) behaviors — how they can look similar on the surface, but often serve different purposes. We talk about how sensory behaviors are often the body’s way of seeking or avoiding input, while stimulatory behaviors can be self-soothing or a form of communication. Understanding these differences is key to knowing when to allow, when to redirect, and how to use each moment as an opportunity for growth.Through stories from Alec’s journey and years of experience, we discuss how gently addressing certain sensory or stimming behaviors early on can open doors for learning, social participation, and independence later in life.It’s all about balance — supporting regulation and self-expression while also creating pathways for progress. With the right approach, “don’t let them” doesn’t mean stop them — it means guide them toward what’s next.Send us Fan Mail

In this episode, we sit down with one of Alec’s very first team members, Trout — someone who came to us with no formal ABA (Applied Behavior Analysis) training but an open heart and a willingness to learn.We share stories from those early days, the training process, and the meaningful impact that comes from hands-on learning and genuine connection. From memorable moments with Alec to the life lessons gained through supporting someone on the autism spectrum, this conversation is full of insight, laughter, and heart.It’s a reminder that sometimes the best team members aren’t those with the most experience, but those who are teachable, compassionate, and dedicated to helping others grow — piece by piece. 💙Send us Fan Mail

Alec is now 28 years old and living in what we lovingly call his golden years. It’s been a long road filled with lessons, challenges, and so much growth, and we’re here to share the journey — every piece of it. We take a chance to share who we are, why we started Piece by Piece, and what continues to inspire us. Through years of learning, trial and error, and a whole lot of love, we’ve seen firsthand what’s possible for individuals on the autism spectrum. Alec’s success didn’t happen overnight, but with the right tools, structure, and support, families who are still in the trenches can find hope and see similar outcomes.While we are still learning and growing in all things autism, we are experts when it comes to Alec — his upbringing, his development, and the experiences that shaped who he is today. Our goal is to share what worked for us in hopes that it can help you, too.We’re so glad you’re here — learning, growing, and walking this journey with us, piece by piece. 💙Send us Fan Mail

Life with autism often comes with serious moments—hard days, big emotions, and challenges that can feel overwhelming. In this episode, we open up about some of the most difficult times we’ve faced with Alec and the weight that comes with parenting a child on the autism spectrum. But it’s not all heavy—we also share how finding a supportive community and remembering to laugh has helped us stay positive along the way. Parenting a child with autism is a marathon, not a sprint, and sometimes joy and humor are the tools that get you through.Whether you’re a parent, caregiver, or simply someone who wants to better understand the autism journey, we hope this conversation reminds you that even in serious times, laughter is essential.Send us Fan Mail

In this special episode, we sit down with Alec’s very first therapist, Jill Scarbro—affectionately known as “Big Deal Jill!” Jill has provided Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA) services to individuals with autism since 1997. She earned a bachelor’s degree in special education with concentrations in mental impairments and physical handicaps from Marshall University and a Master of Science in behavior analysis from the University of North Texas.  After operating a consulting practice in Texas, Jill and her daughter Caroline returned home to West Virginia in 2006, making Jill the first Board Certified Behavior Analyst (BCBA) in southern West Virginia. She opened Bright Futures Learning Services, one of the state's first ABA centers, in 2017. BrightFuturesAba.comAs a founding member, and current Vice President of Mountaineer Autism Project, Jill worked to pass autism insurance legislation and continues to work towards systems changes to increase access to quality ABA in WV. Jill is a founding member and past president of the West Virginia Behavior Analysis Association,  founder of Community Autism Resources and Education Systems (CARES),  and a member of the inaugural class of the WV Healthcare Hall of Fame.  Jill was named WV Woman Owned Business of the year in 2019, and the national Small Business Person of the Year by the U.S. Small Business Administration in 2022.  WVCaresForAutism.org Together, we reminisce about Alec’s early therapy days, reflect on the impact ABA had in shaping his skills and independence, and talk with Jill about the progress—and challenges—she’s seen in the autism community over her impressive 28 years of work with individuals on the spectrum.Send us Fan Mail

Doing the Most (and Still Feeling Like It’s Not Enough) In this episode, Christi opens up about what it was like to pour her heart and soul into Alec’s therapies and programming—doing everything she could to give him the best start possible—yet still feeling like it wasn’t enough.We share the honest truth that this journey can feel overwhelming, but it’s not about racing to a finish line. It’s a marathon, not a sprint. Along the way, we talk about the importance of celebrating the little victories, enjoying the small moments, and giving yourself credit for the progress your child makes—because those wins matter.Our hope is that other parents listening will feel inspired, encouraged, and reminded that they’re doing better than they think.Send us Fan Mail

In this follow-up conversation, Angie Matheney and Christi Jensen talk about what it takes to not just land a job, but to keep it and succeed in the workplace. We share strategies that have helped Alec, from setting up routines and systems of support, to teaching the importance of punctuality, appropriate dress, and workplace communication. We also talk about how to build natural supports at work, use visual schedules, and how the environment can be the teacher, if you let it.There will be challenges too—like dealing with sensory environments, co-worker interactions, and learning the rhythm of a new job. Power through the challenges because it is so rewarding to see the confidence and pride that comes when individuals with autism find their place in the workforce. They too, can be contributing members of society.Send us Fan Mail

In this episode, we dive into the important topic of employment opportunities for individuals with autism. Finding meaningful work is about more than just a paycheck—it’s about building confidence, independence, and a sense of purpose.Part One is all about landing a job. We talk about preparing for employment by practicing independence at home through skills like wiping, washing dishes, sweeping, and vacuuming. Beyond the home, we encourage families to seek out volunteer opportunities in the community—these experiences not only build confidence but also strengthen resumes.We also discuss the importance of setting your child up for success with a resume, preparing for interviews, and the practical ways you can help them shine in those moments. Along the way, we share some of the hurdles we’ve faced with Alec and remind listeners that while the path to employment isn’t always easy, there are opportunities out there. The key is persistence—don’t give up hope!Stay tuned for Part Two, where we’ll dive even deeper into supporting autistic individuals once they find meaningful work.Our favorite laser pointer! (pricy - but tried and true)Send us Fan Mail

In this episode, we’re talking all about something we’ve come to call “table work”—a key part of Alec’s day where structured learning happens in a supportive, engaging way.We share what kinds of programs we run at the table—like matching, receptive discrimination, and communication practice—and how we set clear expectations while still making the experience enjoyable. We’ve learned the importance of pairing the table with fun from day one, using reinforcers like edibles, slime, beads, music, or even short show clips to keep Alec motivated and present.We also discuss how vital it is to keep sessions short, read your learner’s signals, and end on a win—because pushing past their limits can undo the progress you’ve worked so hard to build. This episode is full of practical tips for making table work a meaningful, positive experience in your learner’s day.Send us Fan Mail

In this episode, we’re diving into the world of hobbies—why they matter, how to introduce them, and how to support autistic children and adults in developing interests that bring joy and purpose.We share how we’ve helped Alec explore different hobbies over the years, what worked (and what didn’t), and how hobbies have contributed to his self-confidence, motor planning, communication, social connections and even employment. Hobbies give our kids a chance to express themselves, feel proud of something that’s their own, and connect with others in a meaningful way.Whether it’s music, art, outdoor activities, sports, or something totally unique, we’ll talk about how to identify a hobby, nurture it, and adapt it to fit your child’s abilities and preferences.Send us Fan Mail

In this episode, we’re talking about something we use every single day with Alec: presence activities. These are closed-ended, hands-on tasks that help Alec focus his body and mind while giving him a sense of independence and accomplishment.We share why these kinds of activities are such an important part of his routine—not just as a proactive way to structure his time, but also as a reactive tool when things start to feel overwhelming. Whether it’s threading beads, dropping straws into a cup, picking up bean bags, or collecting the largest (or smallest) Connect Four pieces you've ever seen, these simple tasks can make a big impact.We’ll talk about how we introduce these activities, why they work, and how you can create your own set of presence activities tailored to your child’s interests and needs. It is not too late to introduce these to your learner, get started today and see the impact these simple tasks have! Send us Fan Mail

In this episode, we’re talking all about ABA—Applied Behavior Analysis—what it is, why it works, and how it’s shaped Alec’s progress over the years.We dive into what makes ABA such a powerful approach: it’s data-driven, evidence-based, and tailored to the individual. But more than that, we talk about how ABA isn't just something that happens during therapy sessions—it can (and should) become part of your everyday life.From daily routines to real-world problem solving, we share how we’ve integrated ABA into Alec’s home, team, and day-to-day interactions. It’s not about perfection—it’s about consistency, understanding, and creating an environment where learning and growth are always happening.If you’re new to ABA or looking for ways to make it more natural and sustainable, this episode is for you.Christi's Favorite ABA Book - Don't Shoot the Dog!: The New Art of Teaching and Training by Karen PryorSend us Fan Mail

In this episode, we’re talking about one of our favorite strategies for supporting individuals with autism: being proactive. We dive into how setting up thoughtful systems, routines, and supports ahead of time can make a huge difference in helping someone thrive—not just survive.We share the proactive measures we’ve seen work time and time again with Alec, including packing a well-stocked backpack, using social stories, setting clear expectations, and even simple tools like counting. These are the kinds of things that don’t take a ton of time but can prevent so many meltdowns, miscommunications, and stressful moments.Being proactive doesn’t mean trying to control everything—it means creating an environment where success is more likely. We hope this episode gives you ideas, encouragement, and a few practical tools to use in your own journey.Send us Fan Mail

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At some point in your child’s—or adult child’s—journey, you’ll likely find yourself assembling what we call a “team.” These are the people who support, care for, and help your loved one thrive—and you're the one managing it all.In this episode, we (Angie Matheney and Christi Jensen) share what we’ve learned from 25 years of building teams for Alec across three states and two countries. From in-home programming during early childhood to now relying on a team for Alec’s 24/7 care as an adult.This is Part One of a two-part conversation, where we’ll dive into the core elements of building a reliable, supportive care team. Be sure to tune in for Part Two.Interview Questions: Send us Fan Mail

In this episode, we open up about one of the biggest—and hardest—decisions we’ve made for Alec: moving him to Utah.We share what led up to that choice, what we learned during his time in Colorado, and how those experiences helped shape the path forward. This wasn’t a decision made lightly. It came with a lot of reflection, careful planning, and most importantly, Alec’s own input.Now that he’s settled in, we can honestly say—it was the right move. Utah has become the place where Alec feels most at home, and we’ve seen firsthand how the right environment and a supportive team can make all the difference.Whether you’re facing a similar decision or just curious about what goes into a major transition like this, we hope our story encourages you to trust your instincts, include your loved one in the process, and stay open to what’s possible.Send us Fan Mail

In this episode, we’re diving into the sometimes overwhelming—but incredibly important—world of data collection. We talk about why we take data, how it helps us support Alec, and how we use it not just for his progress, but also to guide and support our team.We share how we decide what to track, when too much is too much, and how we’ve learned to strike a balance between meaningful data and practical, sustainable routines. We also touch on celeration charts—a tool with a solid place in the ABA world, but if we’re being totally honest, they were our least favorite. And that’s okay! The goal is finding a method that works for your child and your team.We discuss some of our favorite skills tracking tools such as: Dr James Partington's ABLLS: the Assessment of Basic Language and Learning SkillsANDSteve Ward's: Teaching Good Learner RepertoiresWhether you’re just getting started or looking to simplify your approach, this episode is packed with real-life examples, lessons learned, and encouragement to make data work for you—not overwhelm you.Send us Fan Mail

In this episode, we’re talking chores—how we got Alec started, how we create chore chains with just the right level of support, and why these daily tasks are so much more than household responsibilities.Chores have been a huge part of Alec’s journey toward independence. We share how we taught him to complete tasks step by step, how we adjusted support as his skills grew, and why we believe every child—regardless of ability—can take pride in contributing at home.Chores also lay a solid foundation for real-world job skills. These early routines can turn into resume-worthy experience, and we’ve seen firsthand how powerful that can be.Send us Fan Mail

In this episode, we dive into one of the most important routines in Alec’s daily life: sitting down at the start of each shift with his team member to plan out their time together. This isn’t just a schedule—it’s a thoughtful, intentional way to make sure Alec is engaging both his body and his mind in meaningful ways.We talk about the parameters we’ve set to help guide those daily plans and create a well-rounded routine. From going to the gym and moving his body in new ways, to doing chores at home, visiting a museum, going to the movies, or bowling—each activity serves a purpose. It’s about building structure, variety, and joy into Alec’s day while supporting his independence and personal growth.We hope this gives you ideas for how to shape daily routines for your own child or loved one—routines that honor their interests, challenge their abilities, and support both their physical and emotional well-being.Send us Fan Mail

In this episode, we talk about one of our most practical tools for daily life with Alec—the backpack. Whether you’re running errands, heading to a therapy appointment, or spending the day out and about, being prepared can make all the difference when caring for a child with autism.We share what we always keep packed and ready to go—from sensory supports and snacks to communication tools and cleanup supplies. Our favorite? The Under Armour Hustle 5.0 backpack—but the most important thing is finding a bag that fits your child’s specific needs and routines.We’ll walk through our must-haves, a "thank goodness we had that” stories, and tips for building your own go-bag to reduce stress and stay one step ahead of the unexpected.Click here for Under Armour Hustle 6.0 backpackSend us Fan Mail

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In this episode, we share what Alec’s life looks like today—from the home he lives in to the systems we’ve put in place to support his independence and well-being. Over the years, we’ve worked hard to tailor his living environment to meet his unique needs, and we’re excited to give you a glimpse into the thoughtful setup that helps him thrive.We walk through the amenities in Alec’s home, how we designed the space to reduce stress and increase comfort, and how his daily life is organized. We also break down the five core categories that guide how Alec and his team structure his time: community access, self-care, independent living skills, communication and downtime.Whether you’re planning for the future or just curious about adult autism supports, this episode offers a real-life look at how we’ve built a framework that helps Alec live with purpose and support.Send us Fan Mail