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Send us Fan MailAuthenticity is everywhere right now, but most definitions feel thin the moment real relationships get hard. We sit down to start a new Praxis series and name a more grounded, Jesus-centered picture: authenticity is being real rather than counterfeit, becoming whole rather than divided, and closing the gap between your inner life and your outer life.We talk through what authenticity is not, especially the idea that it means unfiltered self expression. Saying whatever you feel and calling it “my authentic self” can turn into a shield against growth and a licence to harm. Instead, we frame honesty as the starting point for spiritual formation, the kind of truth telling that invites transformation into Christlike love. Along the way we tease out the difference between authenticity, transparency, and vulnerability, including the practical wisdom of sharing the right information with the right person at the right time.Then we ask the bigger question: does Jesus actually value authenticity, or is this just a modern self help trend. We look at Jesus’ honesty with the Father, his vulnerability in suffering and grief, and his direct confrontation of hypocrisy when people polish the outside while neglecting the heart. We also share how pressure and expectations can distort leaders and families, and how anchoring to values aligned with Jesus helps us stop outsourcing our discernment to other people’s reactions.We close with concrete practices you can try this week: get fully honest with God, examine where you feel incongruent, and take one small courageous step that matches your convictions. If this helps, subscribe, share the episode with a friend, and leave a review so more people can find the podcast.

Send us Fan MailBelonging is not the same thing as being allowed to attend. We talk about disability in the church all the time as a matter of access and inclusion, but what happens when someone is “welcomed” and still treated like a project, a problem to solve, or a person to hover over? That gap is where real discipleship gets tested, and it is where our conversation with Nilda Rivera begins. Nilda is a minister and missions associate with Special Touch Ministry, and she also lives with spina bifida. She shares her story with honesty: growing up in foster care, navigating daily life with a wheelchair, and carrying real wounds from abuse. We slow down to talk about healing as a process, what a trustworthy church response can look like, and why minimizing someone’s pain can do lasting damage. Her journey also highlights God’s grace in surprising places, including mentors, pastors, and a community that made room for her voice. From there we move into the heart of disability ministry and church culture: the difference between being ministered to and ministering with. We unpack why repeated “Are you sure you don’t need help?” can feel small but demeaning, how people with disabilities are often overlooked, and what it looks like to restore agency and mutuality. We also talk about worship, and how people with disabilities often model a freer, more embodied love for God that the rest of us need to learn. If you want a clear next step, we offer one: become a friend. Listen, then share this with someone who serves in your church, and tell us what practice you want to try this week. Subscribe, leave a review, and pass the episode along to help more churches move from inclusion to true belonging.

Send us Fan MailWhat if the measure of a healthy church isn’t polish, but belonging? We sit down with Emily Robillard, leader of disability ministry at Woodridge Church and longtime staff at Hammer Residences, to explore how communities can move past surface-level inclusion toward a culture where people with disabilities are seen, empowered, and invited to contribute.Emily’s story starts with proximity: a childhood shaped by neighbors from a group home and parents who treated difference as ordinary. That early formation became a vocation she never planned, guiding her into residential care where coaching daily skills—budgeting, cooking, work readiness—replaces pity with possibility. She shares vivid snapshots of life in group homes, the staffing and rhythms that make growth possible, and why the same mindset can (and should) shape church life.We then step into Tuesday nights, a weekly service alive with flags, shakers, spontaneous prayers, and zero shame. Seventy adults worship in their own ways without being hushed, and volunteers learn that belonging is discovered through contribution: an autistic fifth grader thrives as part of a safety team; a hockey-loving congregant is welcomed on the ice at a fundraiser. Along the way, we name barriers churches cite, such as time, space, or volunteers, and answer them with Scripture’s urgency (think Mark 2 and a roof turned into a doorway) and practical tools: buddies, sensory spaces, family collaboration, and training focused on individuals rather than labels.This conversation blends pastoral warmth with missional clarity: people with disabilities represent a vast, often unreached community. When we trade performance for presence and programs for relationships, everyone changes. You’ll leave with concrete next steps—pray, notice who’s already near, read the Gospels through a disability lens—and a renewed vision for a church where joy is louder than perfection.Mentioned in this episodeAccessible Church by Sandra PeoplesJesus and Disability by Chris H. HulshofAbilities Ministry https://abilityministry.com/

Send us Fan MailWhat if inclusion is only the starting line—and belonging is the finish we’re called to run toward together? We sit down with a special guest, Emily Enockson, to explore how a life shaped by foster care, medical fragility, and a steadfast sister named Josie became a vocation at Zachariah’s Acres, a 175-acre sanctuary where people with disabilities don’t just attend events—they help design the experience. Through stories that are equal parts tender and funny, we unpack the daily practices that turn good intentions into genuine community.Emily walks us through the quiet tug of calling—how it rarely arrives like a spotlight and more like a series of faithful steps. She shows how inclusion often keeps a hidden power gap in place, while belonging invites mutuality: not “we serve them,” but “we do life together.” From a volunteer who learns to embrace imperfection in the kitchen to students who grow and package produce for the farm store, we see dignity thrive when people are seen, named, and invited to shape the space. We talk eye contact, assumptions, processing time, and why speaking directly to the person (not only the parent) is a baseline act of respect toward those with special needs.You’ll leave with four practices to try this week: be present, connect, keep showing up, and be courageous. Whether you’re a pastor, parent, volunteer, or someone unsure where to start, this conversation offers a pathway from awkwardness to authentic relationship. Along the way, we ground the journey in a simple theology of belonging: people are not projects; they are co-creators of community who reveal something of the Creator to us.Ready to move beyond comfort and into connection? Listen now, share it with a friend, and tell us one step you’ll take this week. If the episode resonates, subscribe, leave a review, and help more people discover a vision of church where everyone belongs.

Send us Fan MailWhat if “all are welcome” still leaves people standing alone? Statistically, chances are high that either you or someone close to you lives with a disability. Yet far too often, people with disabilities find themselves pushed to the margins. This special episode comes from The Leader's Journey Podcast, where Mac and Josie open up about parenting their son Griffin, who has Down syndrome and likely autism. His life has forced them to rethink ability, achievement, and what church is for.They further explore how ableism shows up in ordinary moments: the rushed band tryout, the inaccessible bus plan, the Sunday greeting time where some are always left out. They talk candidly about the limits of inclusion, the harm of disability blindness, and why pity and programs can’t create the mutuality needed. Instead, they point to Jesus’ pattern of noticing, honoring dignity, and disrupting the crowd’s anxious order—and what that means for pastors, volunteers, and anyone who wants their community to reflect the kingdom.If you’re a tired leader wondering how to start, take a breath. You don’t need another ministry to manage. You need a fresh lens and an asset-based posture that surfaces the gifts already in your congregation, especially from people with lived experience. Practical ways to guide attention, reduce anxiety, and build real friendships are shared. Along Mac and Josie's journey, Griffin has taught them that persistence opens doors, belonging transforms rooms, and joy can be loud, off-beat, and exactly what the body needs.If this conversation resonates, follow the show, share it with a friend, leave a review, and be sure to check out The Leader's Journey Podcast for more great content.

Send us Fan MailWhat if the only true measure of spiritual maturity is love—and not the easy versions? We bring our series on mental models for missional discipleship to a close by naming love as the plumb line that aligns everything: discipleship, mission, leadership, and daily life. Not the Hallmark fuzzies, not constant affirmation, not Midwest nice. We look to Jesus who had grace and truth in full measure, self-giving at the cross as the standard that straightens what our culture and our churches often bend.Together we build a thicker vision of “God is love.” Love isn’t one attribute balanced against holiness, justice, or power; it’s the very nature through which God expresses all of them. That reframe changes how we read the Bible, how we think about divine power at Christmas, and how we set goals for our churches. From hospitals and universities to abolition and peacemaking, we celebrate the quiet, steady legacy of cruciform love. Then we tell the truth about our failures: empire-chasing politics, us-versus-them religion, judgmentalism, and scandals that misuse God’s name and wound the vulnerable.Finally, we get practical. We share simple practices to receive before we try to give, because loved people love people. Try a daily examen of love to notice where God met you and where love flowed through you. Then, each morning, choose one person to intentionally love with words and actions calibrated by grace and truth. Over time, these small, steady moves align our lives to the straight edge of Jesus-shaped love and deepen our witness in a world hungry for the real thing.If this conversation challenged or encouraged you, follow the show, share it with a friend, and leave a review so others can find it. What’s one way you’ll measure your day by love this week?

Send us Fan MailWhat if the kingdom of God isn’t an exit plan but a present reality that disrupts our politics and reorders our lives? We open with a bold claim: God’s kingdom looks like Jesus’ ministry. That means good news to the poor, freedom for the oppressed, healing for the sick, and a reconciling community that previews the world to come. We unpack the “already and not yet,” grounding it in Luke 4, Luke 17, the Lord’s Prayer, and the sweeping arc of Scripture that refuses to pick between personal transformation and systemic change.From there, we wade into contested terrain. We challenge the left’s impulse to pursue kingdom values without the King, outsourcing shalom to institutions while neglecting discipleship and abiding. We also confront the right’s habit of rejecting biblical terms—justice, peacemaking, reconciliation, creation care—because they sound “woke,” forgetting these are ancient, central commands. Policy is complex, and outcomes matter, but abandoning Scripture’s core is not an option. We show how overhearing and underhearing distort what’s said, and how to listen beyond soundbites with humility and courage.The conversation lands with practices that move us from votes to vocation. Examine your loyalties and ask where party identity is discipling you more than Jesus. Act locally: engage foster care, food insecurity, mentoring, and community partnerships with a long obedience and real relationships. Rehumanize the “other side” by buying a meal and only asking questions. The kingdom advances through Spirit-filled people who embody justice and mercy right where they live, becoming a living preview of heaven meeting earth.If this resonates, subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a friend who’s ready to trade outrage for presence. Then tell us: what one practice will you start this week?

Send us Fan MailHoliday season or pressure cooker? Between the nonstop events, gift budgets, and Hallmark-level expectations, December can intensify everything—joy and grief, laughter and loneliness, unity and old wounds. We get candid about why family dynamics spike this time of year and map out a practical way to move through it with grace and truth.We start by naming the hidden currents: idealized scripts that make real life feel lacking, grief that returns on anniversaries, and the logistics of blended schedules that stress even strong relationships. Then we dig into family systems—the unwritten rules, predictable roles, and the “togetherness force” that pressures us to go along to get along. When beliefs diverge, a comment about politics or health can secretly ask, “Are you still one of us?” Instead of cutting off or complying, we offer a better path: emotional maturity as being defined and connected at the same time.You’ll hear clear, usable tools: how to set boundaries that serve relationship (not as excuses to disappear), how to listen deeply when your blood pressure spikes, and how to shift from fixing others to researching your own reactions. We look to Jesus as our model for calm clarity under pressure—from the temple at twelve to his composed presence before Pilate—showing that differentiation doesn’t require defensiveness.Walk away with a simple holiday plan: decide your values in advance, notice your body’s triggers, choose healthier modes of communication, and prepare one-to-one questions to build real connection with each person. Assume everyone else will be who they’ve always been; focus on the one variable you can control—how you show up. If you can grow your maturity even a notch, you’ll feel it not only around the table but in your marriage, parenting, friendships, and work.If this conversation helps, share it with a friend, subscribe for future episodes, and leave a quick review so more people can find the show. What’s one boundary you’ll set to protect connection this year?LinksNavigating Grief During the Holidays - Praxis EpisodeHow to Slow Down When Life Speeds Up - Blog Post

Send us Fan MailWhat if the most important work of your life happens where no one sees it? We dig into a core conviction of missional discipleship—God cares about the who, not just the do—and trace how that truth reframes leadership, mission, and everyday faith.We start with Jesus’ own pattern: decades of hidden formation before three years of public ministry. That ratio alone confronts our bias for speed and scale. From calling the Twelve to be with him before sending them, to telling returning disciples to rejoice in belonging rather than power, Jesus centers identity over output. We connect these scenes to John 15’s abiding, clarifying that lasting fruit grows from union, not hustle. Along the way we name how the fruit of the Spirit is character, not competence, and why performative religion—clean cups on the outside, chaos within—erodes witness.Then we get practical about the pressures we all feel: the midday pull to produce, the subtle ways church culture can celebrate results over reality, and the harm that follows when we measure leaders by charisma and numbers instead of character. We talk about building congruence so your public life matches your private life, treating people as co-stewards in God’s story rather than instruments in ours, and finding stability when identity is rooted in Christ instead of applause. Finally, we offer simple, repeatable practices: prioritize prayer over productivity, reflect daily to notice where you’re hurried or hiding, and invite honest feedback to close blind spots. Real transformation is slow and often invisible, but it’s the only path to durable fruit and trustworthy leadership.If this resonates, share it with a friend, subscribe for more conversations like this, and leave a review to help others find the show. What “who before do” shift will you make this week?

Send us Fan MailWhat if the order of your life is backwards? We’re tackling a simple idea with radical implications: trust leads and effort follows. Starting with Jesus’ baptism and temptation, we explore how identity received—not achievement earned—powered his ministry. From there, we trace how the New Testament consistently places grace before effort, and why that sequence frees us from the grind, clarifies our calling, and sustains real fruit.We get honest about the cultural worship of hustle and how easily it sneaks into church life. From “pastorpreneur” pressures to BHAGs that sound holy but center ego, we challenge the metrics that define success. Instead of bigger buildings and busier calendars, we talk about character, faithfulness, and fruit that lasts. Along the way, we name the “religious false self,” the temptation to do impressive things for God without doing them with God, and the quiet erosion that happens when our worth rides on outcomes.This conversation isn’t abstract. We share everyday moments where the order flips—sermon prep, worship leading, parenting, even a Sabbath gone sideways—and how small shifts recalibrate everything: prayer before action, rest before work, and identity before activity. Trust doesn’t cancel effort; it focuses it. When God initiates, God sustains. The result is a non-anxious presence, a deeper peace under pressure, and clearer discernment of where to put your best energy right now.If this resonates, hit follow, share it with a friend who’s tired of running on empty, and leave a review. Tell us: where do you sense God inviting you to trust first this week?

Send us Fan MailThe kingdom of God was the centerpiece of Jesus' teaching, but what exactly does this kingdom look like? Far more than a distant heavenly realm we'll experience after death, God's kingdom is a present reality that Jesus embodied through his revolutionary ministry. When we understand that "God's kingdom looks like Jesus' ministry," we gain a powerful lens for discipleship today.Jesus didn't just announce God's kingdom theoretically—he demonstrated it tangibly. He healed the sick, fed the hungry, forgave sins, welcomed outcasts, and consistently challenged systems of oppression. These weren't merely nice religious acts; they were disruptive to the social, economic, and political structures of his day. They revealed an alternative kingdom that upended hierarchies and offered liberation to the marginalized.This paradigm challenges our tendency to spiritualize Jesus' message while ignoring its real-world implications. It also confronts our modern habit of filtering Jesus through our political preferences rather than allowing his life and teaching to shape our politics. God's kingdom is political—in that it addresses power structures and systems of injustice—but it's not partisan. It doesn't fit neatly into our contemporary political categories.As disciples today, we're called to continue embodying this kingdom through both individual transformation and community action. Rather than outsourcing kingdom work to political parties or getting entangled in partisan debates, we can unite around Jesus' vision by becoming students of his way, creating spaces for mature dialogue across differences, and actively participating in kingdom work through our local communities.What might happen if we truly let Jesus' ministry—not our political ideologies or cultural preferences—define what God's kingdom looks like? Join us as we explore this revolutionary conviction that shaped Jesus' life and can transform ours as well.

Send us Fan MailWhat comes into our minds when we think about God shapes everything else in our lives. Yet most of us carry distorted images of God that we've picked up from our upbringing, painful experiences, or cultural messages—images that create barriers to authentic relationship with him.In this episode, we unpack five common misconceptions about God that might be operating beneath the surface of your faith: the Distant Deity who remains uninvolved, the Sovereign Puppet Master who controls everything, the Cosmic Cop who's always disappointed, the Vending Machine God who exists to fulfill our wishes, and the Passive Enabler who never confronts our destructive patterns.These false images create profound spiritual consequences. They make us hide when we fail, blame God when we suffer, and live as functional atheists in our daily lives. But what if there's a clearer, more accurate picture?We explore how Jesus provides the perfect revelation of God's character. Looking at Jesus shows us a God of cruciform love—self-giving, non-coercive, and deeply present—who moves toward us in our brokenness rather than away. This truth doesn't just correct our theology; it heals our hearts.Whether you're struggling with disappointment in God, battling shame, or simply longing for a more authentic connection with your Creator, this conversation offers practical ways to examine your core beliefs and make Jesus your interpretive key. Because when we see God as truly like Jesus, everything changes.

Send us Fan MailWhat if God doesn't wait for us to clean up our act before loving us? What if He actually meets us exactly where we are—in all our messy, broken reality?In a discussion about our second mental model for missional discipleship, we unpack the life-changing truth that "God bends to meet us in reality." This isn't just feel-good theology—it's the pattern we see throughout scripture and most vividly in Jesus himself.From Genesis where God sought Adam and Eve after their sin to Jesus dining with tax collectors and sinners, we discover a God who consistently stoops down to meet humanity in their brokenness. The good news is that we don't need to fix ourselves before approaching God. The challenging news? We must be honest about where we truly are.Many of us struggle with pretending, especially in church settings. We put on our "Sunday best" not just in clothes but in behavior and spiritual appearance. Yet authentic transformation begins only when we drop the masks and embrace reality—when we learn to "hug our cactus," as Mac puts it.Whether you're wrestling with shame, struggling to trust God's grace, or finding it difficult to extend that grace to others, this episode offers practical wisdom for embracing reality and experiencing the freedom that comes with it. Because when we stop hiding, we discover God has been waiting there all along.Listen now and discover how to live authentically in God's grace—no more pretending required.

Send us Fan MailWhen was the last time you felt the pressure to "bring God" to a situation? What if God was already there, working long before you arrived? This episode challenges our fundamental assumptions about mission and discipleship by exploring the conviction that God's presence always precedes our participation.We dive deep into what "missional" truly means – not as a trendy church growth strategy, but as a theological reality that reshapes how we engage with the world. From examining Jesus' own approach of only doing what he saw the Father doing, to unpacking common misunderstandings of missional theology, we reveal how this perspective shifts our posture from striving to discernment.When God is the primary agent in mission, we're freed from the weight of producing spiritual results through our own efforts. All of life becomes sacred ground for spiritual formation – from workplace conversations to washing dishes. Church leadership transforms from performance to equipping, and our metrics shift from outcomes to faithfulness.With suggestions for developing a divine detective mindset, attending to God's work in others through better questions, and prayer walking with new awareness, you'll discover how to spot God's activity all around you. This isn't just theological abstraction – it's an invitation to a lighter, more collaborative way of discipleship that centers God's movement rather than our own.

Send us Fan MailWhat if the way Jesus saw the world could transform how you live your everyday life? In this illuminating conversation, we unpack the concept of mental models—those invisible frameworks that shape everything from how we parent and lead to how we interpret Scripture and engage in mission.Think of mental models like prescription glasses. While rarely noticed, they constantly filter how we see reality.Where do these frameworks come from? Our first formation in family, personal experiences that shape our beliefs, education that trains our thinking, and the cultural waters we swim in all contribute to our unique set of lenses. These mental models are neither inherently good nor bad—they're simply the tools our brains use to make sense of a complex world. The question becomes: are they accurate and life-giving?What makes this conversation particularly powerful is realizing that Jesus was consistently in the business of disrupting flawed mental models. He challenged how people viewed God, showing Him as an intimate Father rather than just a distant deity. He transformed perceptions of the marginalized, treating each person as an image-bearer. He inverted models of power, demonstrating that true leadership comes through service.Join us as we preview our exciting new series exploring the mental models behind Jesus' approach to missional discipleship—convictions like "God's presence precedes our participation," "God is like Jesus," and "God cares about who we are, not just what we do." Through examining and updating our mental models, we can align our thinking more closely with Christ and participate more fully in His mission.How might your life change if you could see the world through Jesus' eyes? Listen now and begin the journey of transformation.

Send us Fan MailWhat does it truly mean to love your enemies in the way of Jesus? This question isn't just theological theory—it's a practical challenge we face whenever someone wrongs or mistreats us. In this powerful conclusion to our forgiveness series, we explore what might be Jesus's most radical teaching: not just breaking free from cycles of enemy-making, but actively loving those who harm us.Most people naturally default to either fight (retaliation) or flight (passive submission) when wronged. Jesus offers a stunning third way—what we're calling "Kingdom Aikido"—that refuses to mirror evil while still actively resisting it. By examining Jesus's teaching in Matthew 5:38-48 through its historical context, we discover that "turn the other cheek" wasn't advocating doormat Christianity, but a creative nonviolent resistance that exposes injustice while preserving human dignity.Through compelling examples and personal stories, we unpack four essential components of this approach: refusing to respond in kind, reclaiming your agency, holding up a mirror to injustice, and inviting the wrongdoer to repent. This isn't just about theoretical ethics—it's about practical wisdom for transforming conflicts in our families, workplaces, and communities. What might change if we approached challenging relationships not with passive resignation or aggressive hostility, but with the creative, dignity-affirming resistance Jesus modeled?Loving enemies isn't easy, but it's at the heart of the gospel. After all, "we love God only as much as we love our worst enemy." Join us as we explore what it means to follow Jesus in the radical art of turning enemies into friends.

Send us Fan MailThe journey from forgiveness to reconciliation is one of the most challenging paths in Christian discipleship. While many believers embrace God's forgiveness and understand the importance of forgiving others, the question of what comes next often leaves us confused, frustrated, or even stuck.In this episode, we unpack a powerful distinction that clarifies the forgiveness process: "Forgiveness is a solo, reconciliation is a duet." Through the inspiring story of Elizabeth Elliott, who forgave and lived among the indigenous people who killed her missionary husband, we witness the transformative power of extending grace beyond our human capacity.But what happens when forgiveness doesn't lead to reconciliation? Must we always return to relationship with those who've hurt us? We explore the nuanced spectrum of reconciliation—from simple cordial peace to full relational restoration—and the wisdom required to discern what's appropriate in each situation. When trust has been broken, particularly in cases of abuse or serious harm, reconciliation may look very different than simply returning to how things were.At the heart of genuine reconciliation is a mutual commitment to acknowledging reality. Without both parties willing to face the truth of what happened, reconciliation becomes impossible or unsafe. Yet even when perspectives differ, grace can cover the gaps when hearts are open.For those navigating this difficult terrain, we offer practical guidance on setting healthy boundaries, clarifying your needs, and communicating respectfully during the recalibration process. Whether you're seeking reconciliation with someone who's not ready or discerning how to respond to someone who wants to reconnect with you, these practices can help you embody both grace and wisdom.Ready to deepen your understanding of forgiveness and reconciliation in your own relationships? Listen now, and discover how to practice the way of Jesus even in your most challenging relationships.

Send us Fan MailWhat does it actually look like to forgive someone who's hurt you deeply? After acknowledging the pain and choosing to move toward forgiveness, how do you actually release the debt and free yourself from resentment?In this episode, we dive into the mechanics of forgiveness – the practical steps of extending forgiveness to others even when our emotions haven't caught up with our decision. We unpack the difference between verbally declaring forgiveness and truly embodying it through our actions. While saying "I forgive you" matters, what follows matters more.Through personal stories – including Mac's struggle to forgive Josie for breaking his precious vintage Coleman lantern – we illustrate how forgiveness often involves an internal battle between what we know is right and what our emotions are demanding. We share practical exercises for releasing wrongdoing, from writing letters of forgiveness to symbolic acts like releasing hurts down an imaginary river.The benefits of forgiveness extend far beyond spiritual alignment. Research increasingly shows that holding onto bitterness keeps our bodies in chronic stress, while forgiveness brings mental, emotional, and physical healing. When we forgive, we not only free ourselves but potentially inspire others around us to do the same.Ready to experience the freedom that comes from genuinely forgiving others? Listen now, and take your next step toward embodying the forgiveness Jesus modeled for us.

Send us Fan MailWe explore how naming and lamenting the impact of wrongful actions in Jesus's presence serves as the first step toward engaging in cruciform forgiveness. Developing this essential spiritual practice helps us move from bitterness to freedom.• Why facing reality is essential for true forgiveness• The cycle of enemy-making that traps us in unforgiveness• How acknowledging pain allows healing rather than keeping us stuck• Biblical examples of lament from David to Jesus himself• The danger of spiritual bypassing when we minimize hurt• How Jesus meets us in our pain when we invite him into our lament• Personal examples of Jesus bringing healing through reimagining painful experiences• The importance of growing our pain tolerance to increase emotional maturityTake time this week to identify a wrong you've experienced, journal what happened, write a prayer of lament, and ask Jesus to speak to your pain. You can find resources for writing your own lament at on our website.Writing A Lament ResourceFlywheel of Unforgiveness Illustration

Send us Fan MailWhat does it truly mean to forgive like Jesus? This transformative episode dives deep into the heart of Christian forgiveness by examining both Jesus' teachings and his lived example. Through powerful stories like Corrie Ten Boom confronting her Nazi prison guard and Jesus forgiving from the cross, we discover how forgiveness breaks the destructive cycle of enemy-making that traps so many of us.When someone wrongs us, we often respond by ruminating on the hurt, hardening our hearts, and eventually seeking revenge. But Jesus offers a radical alternative. From his teachings on unlimited forgiveness to his practice of forgiving even those who betrayed him, Jesus demonstrates that forgiveness isn't just something we do for others—it's essential for our own spiritual freedom.The conversation reveals how our ability to forgive others directly connects to our experience of God's forgiveness. As N.T. Wright notes, "Failure to forgive isn't failing to live up to a moral teaching—it's cutting off the branch you're sitting on." Through practical steps like confession, Scripture memorization, and imaginative engagement with gospel stories, we learn how to break free from resentment and become conduits of God's transformative love.Whether you're struggling to forgive a small slight or facing the seemingly impossible task of forgiving a profound hurt, this episode offers both the theological foundation and practical wisdom to begin your journey toward freedom. Between any wrong done to us and our response lies a choice—and choosing forgiveness opens us to experience the full depth of God's love flowing through us to others.

Send us Fan MailForgiveness is a journey that challenges us to confront our own hearts while navigating the complexities of relationships. Understanding the cycle of enemy-making reveals how ruminating on wrongs can harden our hearts and distort our perceptions of others. By intentionally practicing forgiveness, we reclaim our agency and foster deeper connections rooted in love and mercy.In this episode we will:Explore the definition and significance of forgiveness Understand the cycle of enemy-making and its components Learn how ruminating affects our hearts and perceptions Differentiate between real and imagined wrongs Discover passive and active forms of revenge in relationships Reclaim your agency to break free from unforgiveness Practical steps to address lingering resentments and forgive

Send us Fan MailEver struggled to forgive someone, even when you know it's the right thing to do? That's a journey we're all familiar with, and in this episode, we seek to unravel the complexities of forgiveness and share insights that could transform your perspective.Throughout our conversation, we tackle the misconceptions surrounding forgiveness. We delve into the difference between forgiveness and reconciliation, exploring why letting go of bitterness is a personal decision, while rebuilding trust requires mutual effort. With personal stories, theological insights, and the wisdom of figures like Martin Luther King Jr., we challenge the notion that forgiveness is a sign of weakness. Instead, we present it as a profound act of strength and liberation, capable of opening doors to healing and growth in both personal relationships and broader societal contexts.This episode seeks to redefine forgiveness by examining its spiritual and emotional dimensions. It’s not about ignoring or excusing harm, but about acknowledging the truth and choosing to release resentment. By discussing how forgiveness aligns with redemption and underscores the importance of boundaries, we highlight that it doesn’t erase the memory of wrongdoing but cancels the emotional debt without removing accountability. Join us as we explore how the act of forgiveness can be a powerful tool for personal transformation and a catalyst for hope in our everyday lives.

Send us Fan MailOur episode dives into the phenomenon of de-churching, a significant shift affecting millions in America. We explore why individuals leave the church, how to engage them compassionately, and the importance of being a person of peace in their lives.Exploring the statistics of de-churching in AmericaDiscussing motivations behind leaving the churchHighlighting the need for compassionate engagemenIdentifying ways not to engage: guilt, shame, and fearEmphasizing the importance of curiosity and authentic listeningRecognizing individuals as “people of peace”Paying attention to God’s work in their livesOffering practical steps for engagement Encouraging active participation in community life If you're interested in learning more or have any questions, feel free to reach out!

Send us Fan MailLicensed therapist Terri Koschnick joins us for a heartfelt discussion on navigating grief during the holiday season. With over 30 years of experience, Terri offers her invaluable insights into managing the complex emotions that arise during this time. We begin on a lighthearted note, followed by an episode filled with empathy, practical advice, and the reminder that grief, though intensified during the holidays, is a natural response to loss.As we explore the unpredictability of grief, Terri guides us in recognizing various types of loss, from the passing of loved ones to significant life changes. We delve into the therapeutic benefits of journaling, allowing emotions to be processed and triggers managed. Through personal stories, we highlight the importance of self-care, setting boundaries, and seeking a supportive community. Terri also emphasizes the vital role of faith in navigating grief, reminding us that emotions like sadness and anger are not contrary to spiritual strength.The episode offers practical advice for handling holiday gatherings, encouraging listeners to set boundaries and find compassionate support. We discuss the need for self-awareness and patience, particularly during this emotionally challenging time. With Terri's guidance, learn how to embrace grief with grace and find solace in faith, all while equipping yourself with tools for healing. Whether you're facing grief yourself or supporting someone who is, this episode provides the understanding and strategies needed to navigate the holiday season thoughtfully and compassionately.

Send us Fan MailWhat if the quiet exodus from American churches is reshaping the very fabric of our communities? Join us on Praxis as we explore the Great Dechurching, where over 40 million adults have stepped away from church attendance in the last quarter-century. This significant shift raises questions about what individuals miss by leaving church life and how it impacts their spiritual and communal experiences.Church communities offer unique spiritual and communal fulfillment, inspired by the early church model in Acts 2. We address the vital role these communities play in fostering generosity, support, and a shared sense of purpose. By engaging with diverse groups of people, churches provide a nurturing environment that challenges and enriches personal growth. Personal stories illustrate how intergenerational relationships within these communities contribute to spiritual development, highlighting the importance of engaging with others to refine character and deepen faith.We delve into the transformative power of communities centered around Jesus' teachings, offering support and guidance in maintaining Christ-like values. This episode invites listeners to reflect on their faith journeys, emphasizing the profound impact of communal connections in navigating life's challenges.

Send us Fan MailWhat happens when 40 million adults in America decide to step away from church attendance? This episode of the Praxis podcast takes you on an enlightening journey through the cultural phenomenon known as the great de-churching. We navigate the complexities behind this mass exodus, examining how it reshapes our communities and challenges those still committed to church life. Join us as we celebrate our two-year anniversary with lighter moments—a humorous nod to "fat bear week" and a discussion of our favorite indulgent winter foods—while setting the stage for a thoughtful exploration of faith and spiritual priorities.As we face the reality of Christians transitioning from places of honor to spaces of shame and hostility, urgent questions arise about the church's evolving role. Through personal stories and reflection, we tackle church-related trauma and the healing journey many undertake. Discover how overcoming church hurt can transform individuals into advocates for more compassionate and inclusive communities, while we emphasize the critical need to address deconstruction in faith with openness and humility. Our discussions are grounded in shared experiences, from the vulnerability required for authentic transformation to balancing busy lives with spiritual commitments.Through real-life examples, we underscore the importance of intentionally maintaining community connections during these pivotal times. This episode also scrutinizes the impact of modern cultural pressures like consumerism on church attendance and spiritual priorities. As we close, expect insights into the de-churching phenomenon's broader implications, challenging some motivations behind it while affirming others. Don't miss this opportunity to explore profound changes in the religious landscape with us.

Send us Fan MailEver wondered why modern churches often struggle with embodying the humility and self-sacrificial love that Jesus exemplified? Join Katie, Mac, and Josiah as we navigate the journey of molding our communities into reflections of Christ, questioning how Enlightenment ideals and individualism have reshaped our understanding of selfless love and humility.As we continue our conversation, we grapple with the tension between contemporary church leadership models and the countercultural way of Jesus. The book "A Church Called Tov" prompts us to reevaluate pastoral roles, contrasting the CEO-like expectations with the biblical image of shepherds committed to prayer and spiritual guidance. We share how others' expectations sometimes clash with authentic discipleship values, emphasizing that true growth and success aren't always measured by numbers but by faithfulness and transformation through divine grace.Finally, we reflect on the importance of embracing faithfulness over immediate success. Inspired by Jesus' ministry and author Eugene Peterson's experiences, we discuss the temptation to create momentum artificially and the pitfalls of consumer-driven church cultures. Through the analogy of navigating with a compass, we underscore the necessity of aligning our direction with core Christian values, acknowledging the gaps between our current state and where we need to be. Join us as we encourage a collective reassessment of our spiritual journeys, fostering a community rooted in the faithful love and teachings of Christ.

Send us Fan MailWhat happens when you prioritize service, humility, and genuine love in your church community? Join us in this episode as we explore the transformative power of cultivating a Tove church culture, following Jesus' example from Mark 10. We'll illustrate how embodying goodness, kindness, and love can close the gap between the current state of your church and a healthier, more vibrant community.We delve into the historical shifts in pastoral credibility, emphasizing the importance of character over celebrity. Drawing inspiration from figures like John the Baptist, we discuss the cultural pressures exacerbated by social media and the need for self-care to prevent burnout in service-oriented environments. Learn practical tips for maintaining sustainable and grace-filled motivations in your ministry, ensuring that your service remains genuine and impactful.Serving with integrity and humility is a complex dance, especially in the age of instant gratification and social media fame. We discuss power imbalances and the significance of viewing those we serve as equals, sharing insights from mission trips and community engagements. Discover how to create a culture of service that values communal well-being over individual recognition, and how to instill these virtues right at home, paving the way for a life of humble service.

Send us Fan MailWhat does it mean to truly embody justice in our daily lives and church communities? Inspired by the wisdom of Micah 6:8, we embark on an exploration of how justice can transform church culture into a space radiating goodness, kindness, and love. We begin with some personal updates, sharing the joy of summer's end and the excitement of new school routines, and we celebrate a significant milestone in Josiah's life—his recent marriage!Anchored in the insightful book, "Church Called Tov", we unravel the complexities of biblical justice beyond political lenses. We explore how justice is central to faith and relationships, drawing on the teachings of Jesus and theologians like Miroslav Volf. Through Jesus' prophetic actions and teachings, we reveal the integral role of justice in embodying God's heart and creating a loving community. This episode underscores the significance of living justly, not just as an abstract concept, but as a tangible practice that shapes our interactions and the church's health.We're not just talking theory; we highlight real-world examples of addressing and recognizing injustice within and beyond church walls. Through powerful stories of advocacy and the necessity of empathy, we discuss the importance of transparency and proactive measures to tackle wrongs. Our aim is to inspire listeners to build relationships and cultivate a church culture that mirrors God’s justice, love, and empathy. Tune in for a compelling discussion that challenges each of us to live out justice authentically in our communities.

Send us Fan MailHuman trafficking is a hidden crisis in our communities, but knowledge and awareness can empower us to fight back. On this special episode of Praxis, we have Brianna Saxer from Zeteo Community joining us to shed light on this urgent issue, particularly in Wisconsin. You'll hear Brianna's compelling story of how she transitioned from massage therapy to becoming a dedicated advocate for survivors of sexual exploitation and human trafficking. Learn about the realities that go beyond sensational media portrayals and discover practical steps you can take to recognize and prevent trafficking in your own community.Together with Brianna, we explore the subtle signs of grooming and exploitation. Through relatable anecdotes and expert insights, this episode emphasizes the need for compassionate care and awareness in various settings like schools, churches, and workplaces. We also highlight the critical role of digital safety and share real-life stories that underscore the importance of educating children and teenagers about online risks.This episode is a call to action for our community at Crosspoint and beyond. Whether you're a parent, educator, or simply someone who wants to make a difference, there's something here for you. From personal stories to actionable advice, we aim to educate and inspire you to get involved in this vital work. Listen, learn, and consider how you can contribute to the fight against human trafficking. Stay tuned for more episodes, and don't forget to visit our website for additional resources and ways to connect with organizations like Zeteo Community.Mentioned in this episode:Zeteo CommunitySafe House ProjectJoin The Movement (Toolkits for teens and parents)More About Survivors: Rebecca Bender, Theresa Flores and Sula Lael

Send us Fan MailOn this episode of Praxis, we explore the transformative power of truth-telling within church communities. We unravel the concept of "trafficking in the truth" and discuss the critical importance of transparent leadership. Drawing insights from "A Church Called Tov", we underline the dangers of hiding moral failures and how openness can lead to authentic growth and a healthy church culture. Join us as we bridge the gap between toxic and nurturing church environments, and discover how embodying truth, as Jesus did, fosters a culture of goodness.Balancing truth and grace can feel like walking a tightrope, but it’s a vital skill for nurturing a thriving church community. Through the lens of Jesus' interactions with the Samaritan woman and Peter, we illustrate how addressing deep personal issues with love and dignity can lead to transformation. We reflect on why merely pointing out faults fails without the good news of God's love and restoration. Learn how Jesus' method of asking probing questions promotes internalizing truth, contrasting starkly with the dogmatic approaches often seen in modern culture and social media.Creating a shame-free environment for honest dialogue can revolutionize church culture. We share personal anecdotes on the pitfalls of aggressive truth-telling and deceptive grace-giving, emphasizing the need for transparency and integrity. Through touching stories and humor, we highlight the importance of self-truth and building communities where honesty flourishes. Drawing from teachings of Jesus and James, we stress that letting your "yes" be yes and your "no" be no is key to authentic communication. Tune in as we uncover how to balance truth and grace, cultivate genuine connections, and foster a culture of goodness.

Send us Fan MailHaving done the difficult work of taking an honest look at what’s not going well in the church, we have now begun describing the key nutrients that we need to put into the soil in order to bear kingdom fruit. If toxins corrupt the soil and prevent fruit, what nutrients can we put into the soil to help grow fruit?Today we want to discuss the importance of putting people first.We want to submit that healthy churches put people first and create a people-focused culture that maintains and sustains relational health.Join us for a great episode!

Send us Fan MailHaving done the difficult work of taking an honest look at what’s not going well in the church and some of the things that are blocking kingdom from fruit from growing, we have now begun describing the key nutrients that we need to put into the soil in order to bear kingdom fruit. If toxins corrupt the soil and prevent fruit, what nutrients can we put into the soil to help grow fruit?So we are building off the list that Scot & Laura provide in their book entitled Church Called Tov — albeit we are putting our own spin on them — but today we want to discuss the importance of grace.We want to submit that healthy churches create a grace-filled culture.We'll discuss what is grace, look at how Jesus cultivated it, and learn how we can embody grace the way that Jesus did.

Send us Fan MailAfter several episodes of naming some of the major toxins in the American church soil, we have turned the corner, and we are now discussing some of the healthy nutrients we can put into the soil to help create a healthy church culture. Join us as we define what empathy within the church can look like, observe how Jesus embodied empathy, and discuss practical ways that we can begin to engrain empathy into our church culture.

Send us Fan MailWe are in a series right now focused on cultivating a healthy church culture. Every church has a culture, whether they realize it or not.  And while some churches have a healthy church culture, many do not! So over the last few episodes we’ve discussed two toxins in the soil of the American church that are inhibiting kingdom fruit. We talked about "celebrity-ism", or having a personality-driven church, we talked about "growth-ism" or the belief that growth is the mark of success, and we talked about the misuse and abuse of power.In this episode, we want to name and discuss a third toxin in the soil of the American church and it’s dogmatism. We'll define what we mean, talk about examples we've seen, and discuss and healthier way of relating to our beliefs and the beliefs of others.

Send us Fan MailWe are in a series right now focused on cultivating a healthy church culture. Every church has a culture, whether they realize it or not.  And while some churches have a healthy church culture, many do not! So over the last few episodes we’ve discussed two toxins in the soil of the American church that are inhibiting kingdom fruit. We talked about "celebrity-ism", or having a personality-driven church, and we talked about "growth-ism" or the belief that growth is the mark of success.In this episode, we want to name and discuss a third toxin in the soil of the American church and it’s the misuse and abuse of power.

Send us Fan MailWe are in a series right now focused on cultivating a healthy church culture. If you didn’t get a chance to listen to the previous two episodes, we encourage you to go back and take a listen because we covered a lot of ground.  Every church has a culture, whether they realize it or not. And while some churches have a healthy(ish) church culture, we are seeing signs of widespread dysfunction in churches — revealing that many do not.We’ve been using this metaphor of a fruit tree to help us.  The most important thing is the soil; if the soil isn’t healthy, the tree won’t be healthy and won’t be able to produce healthy fruit. Today we want to name a second toxin in the soil of the American church: the idol of church growth.Let's discuss the problems we find in equating success with church growth, how this became the norm, and what we can do to shift away from it and be mindful of it in our own churches.

Send us Fan MailEvery church has a culture whether they realize it or not.  Some cultures are reasonably healthy; others are not.  And while no church is perfect, part of the work every church needs to engage in is intentionally working to close whatever gap exists between being healthy and where they currently are.So in this series, we are seeking to help close the gap. And this involves not only talking about the marks of an unhealthy church culture but casting vision for how we as the church can embody a way of life together that, while it may not be perfect is oriented toward goodness, kindness, and love.And today we want to talk about church cultures that are personality-driven, a powerful toxin in the soil of unhealthy church cultures.When a church builds the church around a single person (and typically this is the lead pastor) an unhealthy church culture is created.  A lead-pastor-centric church that orbits around the pastor’s personality and gifting will not be a healthy church.And yet this is commonplace. Let's talk about why that is, notice the pitfalls, and look at how we can move towards a healthier alternative.

Send us Fan MailToday we are starting a new series on creating a healthy church culture.Culture is the way that people consciously or unconsciously do life together.  And every church has a culture whether they realize it or not. Some of these cultures are healthy and some are not.In recent years we’ve become somewhat accustomed to news headlines of celebrity pastors being exposed for moral failure or abusive leadership, leaving behind a wake of hurt and pain for everyone involved. And that’s not how things should be. So in this series, we not only want to talk about what an unhealthy church culture might look like but cast a vision for how we as the church can embody a way of life together that, while it may not be perfect, is oriented toward goodness and kindness and love.Mentioned in this episode:Redeeming Power by Diane LangbergCelebrities for Jesus by Katelyn BeatyWhen Narcissism Comes to the Church by Chuck DeGroatThe Way of the Dragon or The Way of the Lamb by Jamin Goggin & Kyle StrobelThe Subtle Power of Spiritual Abuse by David Johnson & Jeff Van VonderenChurch Called Tov  by Scot McKnight & Laura BarringerPivot by Scot McKnight & Laura Barringer

Send us Fan MailHow often do you contemplate the essential role that boundaries play in your life? In a chat teeming with wisdom and practical advice, we, your hosts Katie and Mac, team up with our delightful guest, the ever-insightful therapist and long-standing church community member, Terri Koschnick. Together, we navigate the dynamic world of boundaries, discussing their significance, the physiological and chemical responses they elicit, and their profound impacts on our overall well-being.We examine the cornerstone role of boundaries in fostering honesty and the pitfalls of unspoken assumptions that often lead to boundary trespasses. With Terri's expert guidance, we shed light on how clear communication and boundary setting in tandem with our values can bolster the health and integrity of our relationships. We also delve into the perturbing world of gaslighting and power dynamics, sharing insights on setting boundaries to shield ourselves from such toxicity.As we wrap up this enlightening exchange, we present you with practical steps to help you implement and prioritize boundaries in your life. Learn how practices such as journaling, initiating boundary-setting dialogues, and keen awareness of your feelings and thoughts can lead to healthier relationships and better self-care. And stay tuned for a little taste of what's next - our upcoming series on church health. So, join us for this enriching dialogue with Terri Koschnick, one that extends beyond the realm of healthy relationships to a life lived in harmony and balance.

Send us Fan MailDo boundaries really impose control or are they statements of self-definition and values? This episode of Praxis aims to demystify this, taking you on a journey through the importance of emotional maturity in discipleship and the key role it plays in setting boundaries. We dive into the concept of boundaries, portraying them as property fences that provide clarity and foster growth. We illuminate different types of boundaries, from personal to time management in relationships, and how they can be recognized and respected. Let's face it, setting and maintaining boundaries can be challenging. It's like walking on a tightrope where you are trying to balance your own needs while respecting those of others. In this conversation, we address common misconceptions about boundaries being a form of control and explain how they are actually ways of defining ourselves and our values. We delve into the difficulties faced when trying to set boundaries and underscore the importance of self-awareness and intentionality in doing so.Finally, we highlight the power of communication in establishing boundaries. Jesus, our perfect example, taught us how to set boundaries with love and respect. We need to understand that boundaries are not instruments of division but tools for nurturing healthier relationships. We examine how Jesus set boundaries between himself and his disciples, and how we can apply these lessons in our relationships today. Don't miss out on this fresh perspective on boundaries and relationships in this intriguing episode of Praxis. You are guaranteed to walk away with some new insights that will enrich your relationships.

Send us Fan MailWhat if you could navigate life and relationships with ease, exhibiting a high emotional quotient akin to that of Jesus? Imagine the impact of bringing such emotional maturity into your daily interactions, your parenting style, your friendships, and every other aspect of life. Join us as we embark on an in-depth exploration of this significant element of discipleship while shedding light on the disruptive role anxiety plays.We've all been there - caught in the relentless cycle of over-functioning, driven by our need for validation and fear of failure, leading to exhaustion, bitterness, and resentment. We'll guide you in recognizing this behavioral pattern and how it may be infiltrating your life. More importantly, we present strategies for self-awareness and humility to shift your response from anxiety-driven to one of genuine care. The impact of over-functioning and under-functioning on relationships can create a power imbalance; we'll share Jesus' guidance on setting boundaries, refusing to carry the emotional weight of others' thoughts and feelings.Communication is key - being open and honest can make all the difference. We believe these conversations, hard as they may be, are necessary for personal growth and healthy relationships. So, we invite you to journey with us, growing in emotional maturity and equipping yourself to better navigate life's challenges.

Send us Fan MailEver wondered why a simple conversation can suddenly turn into a web of tension and misunderstanding? Through our journey into emotional maturity and anxiety, we'll shed light on the concept of relational triangles, and how they impact our emotional well-being and relationships. From pop culture to everyday examples, we'll unravel these triangles, and how they can serve as a source of tension or an opportunity for positive interaction.Discover how you can turn negative triangles into positive ones, fostering healthier communication and relationships. We'll also delve into the world of positive triangles in parenting, siblings, and within families, which can help you navigate your own relationships better.Tune in as we explore the model set by Jesus in navigating relational triangles, as seen in the stories of Mary, Martha, James, and John. Learn how Jesus displayed emotional maturity and neutrality, guiding us on how to handle relational conflicts gracefully without losing our values. Remember, staying neutral doesn't mean checking our values at the table, but rather it's about responding to pressure out of principle, not emotion. Come, join us on this enlightening journey and let's navigate the complexities of relational triangles together.

Send us Fan MailEver felt that familiar knot in your stomach that signal anxiety creeping in? Have you noticed how you respond when the tension rises - Do you confront, hide, or put on a pleasing demeanor? We're unwrapping these gut reactions to anxiety in our vibrant discussion today, exploring the fight, flight, and fake responses, and how they shape our relationships and emotional growth. And, while we're at it, we do get a little side-tracked with our love for apple cider donuts and fall season charm!Unmasking the 'fake' response, we dissect the Midwest's infamous 'Minnesota nice' - a seemingly pleasant, but ultimately harmful, method of people-pleasing. It's like sugar-coating reality, luring us into a trap where we forsake our needs for the approval of others. This response may seem harmless or even virtuous, but it chips away at our sense of authenticity and community. We argue that this 'fake' response is as destructive as a confrontational 'fight' response because it erodes honesty within relationships.Now, you're probably wondering, how does one break free from these default responses? The key lies in self-reflection and understanding how our upbringing, personality traits, and surroundings influence our reactions to anxiety. We explore how Jesus faced his anxieties and consistently exhibited emotional maturity. By the end of our discussion, you'll have practical insights on pivoting from unhealthy defaults, managing anxiety effectively, and fostering deeper, authentic relationships. So buckle up for an enlightening journey into the realm of emotional maturity and anxiety.

Send us Fan MailThis episode of Praxis is a deep dive into the world of emotional maturity, focusing on the role of anxiety in our lives and relationships. We kick off the discussion with personal stories on our strong opinions about seemingly insignificant matters (Who knew Mac loathed gum and Katie couldn't drink coffee?) to set the stage for a lighthearted yet profound dialogue.As we traverse the winding paths of anxiety, we shed light on its various sources ranging from scarcity mentality to double binds and the ensuing tension that arises with responsibility. Unravel the mechanics behind our physiological responses and the 'thinker, feeler, doer' continuum that aids us in managing our anxiety better. We also delve into the intricacies of handling anxiety in relationships, emphasizing the need to distinguish between our responsibilities and those of others. Wrapping up, we venture into the realm of curiosity, a powerful tool in anxiety management. Drawing inspiration from Jesus' non-anxious leadership model, we discuss how we can embody a non-anxious presence with emotional maturity. Join us, as together, we peel back the layers of anxiety and uncover practical ways to manage it better.Mentioned in this episodeManaging Leadership Anxiety by Steve CussUnwinding Anxiety by Judson BrewerAn overview of the Four Spaces of Anxiety from Truth Applied

Send us Fan MailWe are in a series right now on emotional maturity where we are looking at four components that comprise emotional intelligence and one thing that makes what we are doing a bit unique is that we are attempting to do this while keeping our eyes on Jesus to see how Jesus embodied these things. So far we’ve talked about self-awareness, self-regulation, and social awareness. And today we are going to discuss the ins and outs of relational management.Relational management refers to our ability to communicate clearly, maintain good relationships with others, connect with those from other cultures, work well in teams, and manage conflict. Relationship management is using your awareness of your own emotions and those of others to manage interactions successfully. It's a lifelong journey of learning and something that we never arrive at but the benefits to our relationships are so worth it.

Send us Fan MailSocial awareness refers to the ability to perceive, understand, and consider other people's perspectives, needs, and behaviors. It's complex. It's hard work. It's a lifelong process of learning. It's taking all we discussed in our last episode about self-leadership and adding another layer to it where we are attuned to other people's emotions.So in this episode, we take time to discuss what social awareness is, what it looks like when we are living into it, and how we can grow.

Send us Fan MailToday we discuss an important component of emotional maturity: self-leadership or self-regulation. We take time to define what it is, compare the difference between those with self-regulation and those without it, and discuss ways that we can grow into it.

Send us Fan MailWe are in a series right now on emotional intelligence and how it is essential to discipleship. Dallas Willard once said that "Jesus is the smartest man who has ever lived" and we believe that to be true, including when it comes to emotional intelligence. We believe that Jesus had more EQ than any other person that has ever walked the planet and consistently embodied emotional maturity and so, if we are going to grow as disciples of Jesus, we must grow our emotional maturity. An important component of emotional maturity is self-awareness. So today we continue in this series by talking about what self-awareness is and how we can begin to grow into it.Mentioned in this episodePrayer of ExamenEmotions wheel and EQ Matrix can be found on our website

Send us Fan MailToday we are jumping into a new series on Emotional Intelligence. Dallas Willard once said that "Jesus is the smartest man who has ever lived" and we believe that to be true, including when it comes to emotional intelligence. We believe that Jesus had more EQ than any other person that has ever walked the planet and consistently embodied emotional maturity and so, if we are going to grow as disciples of Jesus, we must grow our emotional maturity. Growing in emotional maturity is an essential part of following Jesus and living as disciples.In this episode we provide a basic introduction to Emotional Intelligence: what it is, why it matters and how we can begin growing into it.And to help get us started and set the stage for the rest of this series, today are joined by two very good friends, and our first guests ever on Praxis, Trisha Taylor and Jim Herrington from The Leader’s Journey.Mentioned in this episodeThe Leader's Journey WebsiteThe Leader's Journey PodcastManaging Leadership Anxiety by Steve CussExtraordinary Relationships by Roberta GilbertEmotional Intelligence by Daniel GolemanEmotional Intelligence 2.0 by Travis Bradberry & Jean Greaves