Reality Diary

The scriptures says love but hmmm it’s difficult to understand but I’ll trust the process i guess

Fact is there are laws that your emotions cannot change. Just because you don’t like it doesn’t mean it’ll change. Being delusional doesn’t solve a problem. If something is working, someone made it work…

Before you crucify me, hear me out

You want Abi you no want? It’s actually non-negotiable especially as a believer, you can keep allowing the devil deceive you into thinking Peace was a privilege rather than a birthright! Let me just tell you now, Peace is nonnegotiable and if the devil likes, let him go an hug transformer, we’re coming for that his yeye kingdom that’s not even authorize! Selah

While you wait, do what waiters do, they serve!

Before we can understand Healing, we should understand sickness. First, I believe we are physical, emotional and spiritual beings. When our beings are plagued by forces which attack any one of these areas, it takes away our wholeness, and we are sick. We take medications over the counter to heal ourselves and when those fail, we go to the doctor to get more serious treatment. When that fails, we go to hospitals and treatment facilities for more intense solutions. When that fails, someone will say, Well, there’s nothing left to do but Pray.

When you get angry at something happening to you, it’s always because of something happening inside you. Anger isn’t a sin. It’s just a sign. It’s a sign that one of your hopes and dreams is being threatened. There are three specific hopes and dreams that we all have. We want: 1. Security: (physical, financial, emotionally) 2. Connection: (relationships, feeling valued and accepted) 3. Control: (feeling empowered to make choices and have options) We get angry when we feel one of those three is being threatened.

Wouldn’t it be fun to have your spouse as your prayer partner? Oh well trust me I’ve tried it and it’s the best feeling

Coals of fire 🔥

I know what you’re going through because I’ve been here too and trust me it hurts so bad that you don’t know what to do next but trust me when I say you can pull through.

Look for the blessings in your storm rather than sulk or complain, yeah we’re human and it’s ok to feel terrible but still? It’s important to not miss out on the blessings.

Are you trying or are you always walking away the victim?

Before you make a choice, take a moment to rethink your choices and plans

Withdraw, Evaluate, Move Forward

Your mind is too powerful to be trivialized!

It’s not ok to live beneath what you’ve heard or been told! Be the change you expect!

I know you feel it’s easier to forgive than to forget but let me ask you this, how many people hurt you this week? How many can you recall? How many have you truly forgiven?

Sacred as it is, they remind us of the events in our lives that hurt us so bad we almost quit, but as much as we joke about it later, it doesn’t change what we became afterwards

Something it’s invisible but trust me when you’re intentional about the things that affect you especially your relationships, you’ll find those that would kill you before they attempt it!

Being too nice is different from being kind hearted! You loose yourself when you’re a people pleaser because you’re not even focused on you but on others!

In relationships, one of the easiest way out is keeping secrets from your partner! Trust me it works faster in destroying that relationship than anything else!

I personally feel it’s easier to be grateful than to complain about things you can’t even control in the first place. You will find it more fulfilling when you complain less. I know it feels lonely to think nobody cares about you but trust me, try being grateful for a while and see the difference…

I feel getting married early makes a lot of sense although this isn’t for everyone and marriage itself isn’t for everyone but really just listen sha!

Funny thing about moving on is that you’re not starting over, you’re starting with experience especially if you’re going into what you recently left.

Why allow fear stop your awesomeness?

As cute and heavy as the topic sounds, we all go through life either being a victim or a villain of this very condition. Fundamental Attribution Error

People deserve the same chance you got, always learn to pay it forward, it’s called humanity

Fact remains that whatever is worth doing should be well done

You have no idea what you have in you till you start gaining knowledge of what you’re capable of! Why wait when you’re can research you?

What’s your take?

Have you ever wondered why people apologize when they don’t actually mean it? Sad!!!

It’s my celebrations day!

We tend to monitor people who made vows to see if they would break them rather than helping them keep those vows, forgetting that we’re all human and there’s always a place for human error

A successful way to live happily

What really is your humanity about? Are you part of the problem or the solution?

Just listen, you would understand better!

This matter is long! But in all honesty, you can’t have people assume the worse about you neither should you be the one assuming. Get clarity and also communicate!

Yeah I know how it feels to be in a relationship but still feel alone because your partner doesn’t care or isn’t ready to know what makes you you!

No caption, just listen ✌🏽

This is the most expensive gift anyone can give you especially in times like this, never let go of it, rather let go of the person and they will thank you for doing so!

Yes! They exist in every human and it takes split seconds to get there! Guard your heart else someone else would!

See it’s easy to say things but you know your heart says something different! I get that opening up can be stressful and painful but really you have to because no one wants to be around those that don’t care about them

Sometimes we admire peoples successes but we don’t want the struggle! Sorry but we can’t skip this to the good part! Go back and give in

Some people will just frustrate you like a rat eating you up and petting you

We all have this inner feeling that we think no one cares so in return we don’t care! Chill your emotions are valid, don’t punish other with nonchalance and show your inner most feelings till you know it’s over! Be you! Show some remorse, it could change how you’re seen

There are somethings you shouldn’t let worry you at all, if you can’t control it, let it be!

So yeah I know most of us shy away from this conversation every time but we really have to talk about it because our future depends on it!

So many of us think forgiveness has to do with just the forgiver, so what should the forgiven do? Find out…

Sometimes you’ll find that it’s important to forgive someone dear because you know their value even when they don’t

So I had to clear some misconceptions about the previous podcast! Don’t worry, listen first and you’ll understand 😁