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 In Bhutan, you see many houses and temples decorated with phallus symbols. Naturally, you ask: Why?This question leads to profound insights—and just might change your life.Who Was Drukpa Kunley?Drukpa Kunley was born in 1455 in Lhasa, Tibet. He became a monk and later a Lama, following the Tantric teachings. He was a deeply sincere seeker with great insights, and during his time in monasteries, he was admired for his wisdom.But he often asked uncomfortable questions—questions that mostly went unanswered.What if our discipline is driven by fear of punishment or a need for validation?What if we achieve a higher rank and feel proud of it? Isn't that motivation rooted in ego?Why do we need validation that we are "good"?Isn't our very search for enlightenment an ego trip?Why do we aspire to become a Lama or a Rinpoche?Might it not be better to just be an ordinary person?The Monk Who Left the MonasteryOne day, he left the monastery for good. He traveled through Tibet, teaching as he went—but he was just as likely to be found in taverns, drinking alcohol with ordinary people.When he visited temples, he would invite the monks to drink with him. If they refused, he would ask:"Are you afraid of the alcohol? Or are you afraid of breaking the rules? Or perhaps you're afraid of losing your status as an honorable monk?"The Saint of 5000 WomenDrukpa Kunley became known for his unconventional methods of enlightening others—especially women, which earned him the title "The Saint of 5000 Women." Women would sometimes seek his blessing through sexual intercourse.His intention was radical for his time: to show that enlightenment and a healthy sex life are not mutually exclusive. He sought to demonstrate that celibacy is not a requirement for spiritual realization.How the Mad Saint Saved BhutanAt that time, Bhutan was suffering from unfavorable signs that led to bad harvests. The people needed a solution to change their negative karma.They asked Drukpa Kunley for his blessing.He explained that Bhutan was under a curse from a goddess. To counter it, he introduced sexual Tantra to the kingdom. From that moment on, the curse was lifted, and the land prospered again.Teachings That ChallengeMany religious people came to him for advice. They would list all the practices and sacrifices they had already made on their spiritual path.His response cut through their seeking:"If you have done it the right way, why do you need my validation?"He taught that if you have built a genuine connection—a true faith—in God, you don't need anyone else to validate it.The Ego Trap of EnlightenmentDrukpa Kunley questioned the very goals of the spiritual path:In Buddhism, the goal is Nirvana, enlightenment, or freedom from rebirth.But he saw these as ego-driven aspirations. You cannot reach them, he suggested, because they were never truly separate from you to begin with.The Sufis say: Don't make a business out of your death. Surrender to God without conditions—not even for paradise.The true Christians, he observed, put God first in every decision, without conditions or bargaining.Why Do We Need Spiritual Titles?Drukpa Kunley also questioned the need for spiritual titles—Lama, Rinpoche, and so on. These, he pointed out, are creations of the ego.Purpose vs. FaithWestern philosophy has created a life built around purpose or mission—think of Tolstoy. This often happens, Drukpa Kunley might observe, when people have lost their faith in God.The danger of a purpose-driven life is that your purpose can be taken away. You can age, fall ill, or face war—and suddenly your mission is gone.But no one can take away your connection to God.Faith in God is infinitely superior to any earthly purpose.My Video:  Drukpa Kunley: The Mad SaintMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast5/Drukpa-Kunley-The-Mad-Saint.mp3

 Two simple practices can make a profound difference:Massage THIS spot for 1 minute daily to restore potency.Add raw, unprocessed cacao mass to your morning drink—it will improve your performance in every area of your life.The 60-Second Massage That Changes EverythingWhen you gently massage this point for 60 seconds each day, you:Detox the blood vessels in the pelvic areaRelease chronic tension in the pelvic musclesDecompress the nerves responsible for erection, restoring sensitivityMassage the prostate glandWhat Is This Point?This is one of the most important points in Yoga and Traditional Chinese Medicine. It is called:The PerineumHui Yin (in Chinese medicine)The "One Million Dollar Point"The "Gate of Death"This point is located in the area of the root chakra, and it connects the root chakra directly to the crown chakra.Where to find it:It lies between your legs, between the scrotum and the tip of your tailbone (coccyx). There is a small "cave" or indentation—massage inside this area.The point may feel tender at first. With regular massage, the tenderness will fade.How to Massage This PointBe gentle. Use light pressure—never force it.Use oil. Castor oil is ideal, but any natural cold-pressed oil (like coconut oil) works well.Be consistent. Massage every day. You may begin to notice results after about one month. Continue the practice for life.Get comfortable. Lie down on your bed relaxed, or sit on the edge of a chair with your knees open. If your pelvis is tense, you won't get the full benefit.Timing matters. Do not do this massage right before sexual activity. Do it when you are relaxed, without pressure or expectation.Technique:Massage the area gently, then press for 5 seconds, release for 5 seconds. Repeat this 4 times.Raw Cacao: Nature's Performance BoosterRaw cacao mass supports your entire body—including your sexual vitality. It has one of the highest antioxidant levels of any food, specifically flavonoids, which are superb for cardiovascular health. And good circulation is exactly what your sexual organs need.1. Better Cardiovascular and Heart HealthBlood Pressure & Circulation: The high level of flavanols in raw cacao helps produce nitric oxide, which relaxes arteries, lowers blood pressure, and improves overall blood flow.Reduced "Bad" Cholesterol: Raw cacao helps reduce the oxidation of LDL cholesterol, preventing plaque formation. This benefit is often lost in heavily processed chocolate.2. Superior Antioxidant ContentRaw cacao contains significantly higher levels of antioxidants—specifically flavonoids—because it is not subjected to high heat (roasting) or chemical processing. It has one of the highest ORAC (Oxygen Radical Absorbance Capacity) scores of any food. Some estimates suggest it has 40 times the antioxidants of blueberries.3. Improved Cognitive Function and MoodMental Clarity: Raw cacao boosts focus, memory, and attention span by improving cerebral blood flow.Natural Mood Enhancer: It contains compounds like Anandamide (the "bliss molecule") and Phenylethylamine (PEA), which promote feelings of euphoria and relaxation. These compounds are far more preserved in raw, unprocessed cacao.4. Higher Mineral DensityMagnesium: Essential for muscle function, nerve health, and heart health.Iron: Raw cacao provides a highly absorbable source of plant-based iron—especially valuable for vegetarians and vegans.Other Minerals: It is also rich in potassium, copper, manganese, and phosphorus.My Video:  How to Increase Your Potency? https://youtu.be/pXt7lpbOeNQMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast5/How-to-Increase-Your-Potency.mp3

 For many years, Carl Jung studied dying people and published his observations shortly before his own death. Here is what he discovered.1. You do not have a soul. You are the soul.2. As people drew closer to death, their dreams changed completely.3. In their dreams, the ego began to fade—along with concerns about reputation, wealth, success, and identity.4. Symbols of homelessness, mandalas, circles, and images of completion began to appear.5. These symbols appeared in a specific sequence, as if the psyche knew that death was near.6. The psyche was preparing for a transformation—or a return. (Jung explored this deeply in his book Memories, Dreams, Reflections.)7. In their final week, patients stopped fearing death. It wasn't because they had found religion. It was because their unconscious had shown them something—a vision, a knowing—that their "small self" was only a temporary construction. Beneath it, something was waiting. Something that had already been there. Something that did not die.Jung called this the Self—the part of you that existed before you were born and continues after you pass away.8. Most people never meet their true Self. They live their entire lives identified with their ego—the small self that is terrified of disappearing.9. But those who do their inner work—a process Jung called individuation, the integration of the unconscious—they meet their true Self while still alive. And when they do, they no longer fear death.Why? Because they realize that the part of them afraid of dying was never real. The small self, the ego, is just a mask—a temporary structure built to navigate the world. It was never who we truly are.10. This realization is not about preparing for a next life. It is about waking up—now—and knowing what you really are, before death arrives.11. If you wake up before death, you understand that you wasted your life on a false assumption: that you are only the small self, the ego. The ego is not in control. And if you never looked deeper, you missed the one thing that truly matters: the true Self—the eternal part of you that was there before you took birth and will remain long after your death.12. Jung also discovered a pattern in the dreams of dying people—four stages that emerged months before death. He saw these as the psyche preparing for the final curtain.Stage One: The JourneyThe person dreams of journeys—long roads, distant lands, crossing rivers, climbing mountains.Stage Two: The GuidesDreams fill with animals, old figures, and guides. Jung called these archetypes—universal symbols that appear in every culture, like the Wise Old Man or the Great Mother. When these figures appeared night after night, Jung knew the dreamer was being guided—not by the conscious mind, but by something deeper. The true Self was preparing them for what comes next.Stage Three: The LightThe dreams become luminous. They are filled with light, golden views, glowing cities, radiant figures. Patients would wake and describe these dreams with tears in their eyes—not from sadness, but because the dreams felt so real. The unconscious was showing them their true Self, the place they were about to return to.Stage Four: The DissolutionIn the final stage, the person stops dreaming about themselves. The individual self fades away. Instead, they dream in symbols—unity, circles, mandalas, spirals. The true Self has fully emerged. No longer separated. No longer alone. Connected to something infinite.In these final dreams, the ego dissolves. What remains is pure consciousness—no longer personal, but universal.13. Jung documented these four stages across different cultures and belief systems. The pattern was always the same.And he noted that those who practice contemplation—who do the inner work—can experience the true Self without being in the process of dying.My Video:  Carl Jung's Final Message Before He Died https://youtu.be/sZa6rGbPFzYMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast5/Carl-Jung's-Final-Message-Before-He-Died.mp3

 Many people assume emotional security means never feeling jealous, arguing or questioning where they stand. But couples in emotionally secure relationships can navigate discomfort without losing trust in each other.1. In relationships, small problems are blown up to immense problems… For what is that good?We want to solve our problems and don’t want to enlarge them in the future… Just solve them in the here and now. Strategy go in baby steps… If you want to go from A to B in the night you can see only 50m, and you have to go 400km… Should you panic, or you ask what is If I am going wrongOr I have an accidentIf I am not on timeIf I have not enough petrol, even you have… This leads to nothing.It is always enough to solve the problems that you have right now. We go forward, stubbornly forward regardless how the situation looks projected in the future.We don’t know the future and to assume the worst case scenery makes life awful. Here are five things good relationships do regularly.1. They always resolve conflicts.Secure couples argue, sometimes passionately. In fact, research shows that they’re quite skilled at it. The difference is that they don’t sweep problems under the rug or storm off indefinitely.Instead, they face discomfort head-on, acknowledging hurt feelings, admitting faults and tolerating the awkwardness of disagreement.Most importantly, they always adjust their behavior afterward. For a conflict to truly end, it must leave both partners feeling heard and respected.2. They give each other freedomEmotionally secure couples enjoy nights out separately, maintain friendships outside the relationship, and pursue personal goals without guilt. They know trust grows when closeness and autonomy coexist.Constant proximity is not a measure of intimacy. Secure partners understand that individuality fuels attraction and energy, making time together richer and more rewarding.3. They don’t narrate each other’s feelingsIn insecure relationships, partners often assume they know what the other is thinking: “You’re distant because you don’t care,” or, “You’re mad because I didn’t take your advice.” This can escalate misunderstandings.Secure couples strive to resist this impulse: When one of them seems off, the other asks and then listens. They ask, they listen and they trust the answers.When you trust your partner will tell you what you need to know, you don’t feel compelled to read between the lines.4. They make space for boredomNot every phase of a healthy relationship has to feel electric. Workweeks, errands, and responsibilities can make life feel repetitive. In insecure couples, this monotony can trigger panic or doubt about the “spark.”Emotionally secure couples, on the other hand, know not to panic when things sometimes feel monotonous. They see steadiness as a sign of safety, not stagnation, and recognize that love isn’t meant to feel like a constant high.5. They don’t outsource reassuranceEven secure people have moments of doubt, but they don’t bombard each other with constant “Do you love me?” check-ins, nor do they withdraw in protest when reassurance isn’t immediate. They rely on evidence from their actions.My Video:  Real Relationships have real problems https://youtu.be/utfbigq_9YwMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast5/Real-Relationships-have-real-problems.mp3

 If you want to meet someone who can fix any situation you don't like, who can bring you happiness in spite of what other people say or believe, look in a mirror, then say this magic word: 'Hello.'What the caterpillar calls the end of the world the master calls a butterfly.Every problem in your life carries a gift inside it.You wait a lifetime to meet someone who understands you, accepts you as you are. At the end, you find that someone, all along, has been you.Every person, all the events of your life are there because you have drawn them there. What you choose to do with them is up to you.Mistakes - call them unexpected learning experiences.To bring anything into your life, imagine that it's already there.Argue for your limitations, and sure enough they're yours.The bond that links your true family is not one of blood, but of respect and joy in each other's life.You're never given a dream without the power to make it true.Life does not listen to your logic; it goes on its own way, undisturbed. You have to listen to life.Cherish yesterday, Dream tomorrow, Live today.If your happiness depends on what somebody else does, I guess you do have a problem.I do not exist to impress the world. I exist to live my life in a way that will make me happy.You are always free to change your mind and choose a different future, or a different past.A tiny change today brings a dramatically different tomorrow.There are no mistakes. The events we bring upon ourselves, no matter how unpleasant, are necessary in order to learn what we need to learn; whatever steps we take, they're necessary to reach the places we've chosen to go.My Video:  Richard Bach Quotes https://youtu.be/dMGpsQXhKxsMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast5/Richard-Bach-Quotes.mp3