SELFLOVELOVESELF365 Podcast With Lahayla Dahlia Lore

SLLS365: Self Compassion 1st }|{Always Have Compassion For Yourself & Innerstand That Having Compassion For Yourself Allows You To Have Compassion For Others But It All Starts With You.Check Your Behaviour,Check What You Blindly Carry Forward That Has Been Passed Down Through Your Family That Doesn’t Serve You & Each & Everyday Do Better.Hatred Is A SicknessLove Is Medicine.You Get To Choose How You Move Once You Are Conscious & Aware Enough, To Know So.What Are You Choosing?You Deserve Abundance,Don’t Get Complacent Know That, That Too,Comes From You 🦋 Get full access to S e l f l o v e l o v e s e l f 3 6 5 at selfloveloveself365.substack.com/subscribe

Know That You Can Trust Yourself, Even After Experiences That Have Rocked You To Your Core. Have Compassion For Yourself.Sometimes Our Greatess Flaw Is That We Want To See The Best In Others But It’s A Problem If It Comes At The Detriment Of Ourselves.You Have Instincts for A Reason,Abusers Will Purposely Work On Chipping Away At Your Ability To Trust Yourself So Always Be Wise.Anyone Who Coerces You To Overlook Your Instincts Is Someone You Should Be Wary Of.You Are A Powerful Force To Be Reckoned With & History Has Shown All The Hatred In The World Cannot Kill Magnificence, It May Dim It But Never For Too Long. Something Maybe Be Taken Physically But Energy Never Dies.Always Remember That What Is Done In The Dark Always Comes To Light,In Order For Anything To Heal It Must Be Seen.Start With Yourself.Love Yourself Enough To Trust Yourself 🦋And Remember: “To Love Thyself Would Be An Awfully BIG Adventure.” Lahayla Dahlia Lore Get full access to S e l f l o v e l o v e s e l f 3 6 5 at selfloveloveself365.substack.com/subscribe

SLLS365: Importance & Knowledge Of Choice }|{Unfortunately & Disgustingly,There Are Times When Choice Is Taken From Us,We Aren’t Offered Choice,People Try To Force Us To Deal With The Consequences Of Their Conduct Which Can Leave Us Feeling Helpless But You Have The Choice To Decide What You Do On These Occassions, You Get To Choose How You Move Going Forward & How You Want To Live, Who You Want Around You & What You Are/Aren’t Willing To Tolerate.Choosing Yourself,Creating Safety For Yourself & Loving Yourself Are Important Choices.Sometimes We Need Time To Make Choices & That’s OK.Remember Coercion Is A Tool Used To Make You Think You Are Making A Good Choice Or That You Have Made A Choice For Yourself.Be Mindful.This Is Your Life,Do Not Rush Into Choices That Cause You Deep Regret,When Had You Have Slowed Down & Afforeded Yourself Time, You know You Could Have Chosen Differently.Don’t Carry Shame Forced Upon You By Those Who Made Harmful, Heinous Choices For You.Always Remember,You Have Choice.Use Choice Positively,To Choose To Love Yourself & To Choose To Live A Life You Love 🦋And Remember: “To Love Thyself Would Be An Awfully BIG Adventure.”Lahayla Dahlia Lore Get full access to S e l f l o v e l o v e s e l f 3 6 5 at selfloveloveself365.substack.com/subscribe

SLLS365: Belief In Others }|{ Get full access to S e l f l o v e l o v e s e l f 3 6 5 at selfloveloveself365.substack.com/subscribe

Believing in yourself is like planting a seed that doesn’t need to be watched in order to grow but does require maintenance. When you can state in truth with faith and knowing, that you believe in yourself how, can you nurture & maintain this belief? Through A C T I O N. Doing the Self Work only you know you need to do and that can look like showing up for yourself in new ways, trying new things &/ continuing with what you have, that works for you. If believing in yourself is the seed, how are you then, nurturing yourself to ensure positive growth? You are more powerful than you know & how you choose to wield your power is important. Choosing to love yourself is important too, very important & perhaps, the first step is learning to believe in yourself & put that belief to action.And Remember: “To Love Thyself Would Be An Awfully BIG Adventure.” Lahayla Dahlia Lore Get full access to S e l f l o v e l o v e s e l f 3 6 5 at selfloveloveself365.substack.com/subscribe

SLLS365: Gratitude For Uncomfortable Moments Of Truth }|{It’s Heartbreaking Being Kicked When You Are Down Or Seeing Things Clearly Because You Have Had The Courage To Remove The Rose Tinted Glasses & Whilst In The Midst Of Experience,It Can Be Difficult To See The Light,It Doesn’t Mean Light Isn’t Present, Sometimes Reframing Your Perspective Shows You That You Were Merely Being Guided In A New Direction, One More Aligned With Who You Truly Are & Also Liberating You From Harm.Look How Far You’ve Come.Look At Your Heart. Get full access to S e l f l o v e l o v e s e l f 3 6 5 at selfloveloveself365.substack.com/subscribe

SLLS365: Try & Try & Try Again }|{You Are Always Learning, No Two Experiences Are Them & That’s True Of People However Human Beings Can Get Stuck With Their Approach, Failing To Treat People Well Can Be An Indicator Of A Lack Of Love For Self, Going Into New Experiences With An Old Mindset Can Cause Harm.With Self Love & Actively Working On Yourself Through Exploring Different Therapeutic Modalities (Highly Recommend #emdr & #eft ) You Can broaden Your Perspective.Things Don’t Always Work Perfectly The First Time Round But Quitting On Yourself Should Never Be An Option. Give Yourself Permission To See Yourself.Try & Try & Try Again 🦋 Get full access to S e l f l o v e l o v e s e l f 3 6 5 at selfloveloveself365.substack.com/subscribe

SLLS365: You Are Your Greatest Investment }|{The More You Show Up For Yourself, The More You Recognise That You Are, Your Greatest Investment.Small Steps, Turn Into Big Moves.Loving Yourself Is No Longer Something You Merely Talk About But Can Be Seen In Every Action & Sometimes That Action In No Way Pacifies Anyone Else & That’s Not Only Important But It’s Ok.Focusing On How To Better Serve Yourself, In Turn, Allows You To Be Of Better Service To Others & Also Asks That We Get Out Of One Anothers Way.Doing One Thing Differently Today Ensures Small Change Tomorrow & Perhaps, That’s Just In Mindset Alone But Remember You Are On A Journey; Overnight Is Actually Months, Years, Decades, Of Small Steps, Focused Alignment & Appropriate Movement Which In Turn, Allows You To Achieve So Invest In Yourself, ALWAYS!You Are Deserving 🌹You Are Worthy 🐛🦋You Are Love 💚 Get full access to S e l f l o v e l o v e s e l f 3 6 5 at selfloveloveself365.substack.com/subscribe

SLLS365: Be Mindful Of What You Tolerate & Choose Presence }|{Small Amounts Of Anything, Eventually Add Up & You’d Be Wise To Remember This When It Comes To What You Are Tolerating.Always Listen To Yourself & Where Possible, Communicate What does & Doesn’t Work For You But Remember You Do Not Have To Settle Especially When You Are Operating At A Different Level Or On A Different Frequency &/ The Disrespect Is Loud.Love Yourself Enough To Know Your Worth & Commit To A Life That Is Aligned Without Diminishing Your Character.Some Days You Can Do 1000 Things & Some Days Maybe Just 1 But Your Worth Isn’t determined By Productivity, Your Soul Values Presence & Gratitude For All That You Are, All That You Have Been & All You Are Becoming 🌸Presence Reminds You To Look Around, Witness How Far You’ve Come & Give Thanks For The Ability To Keep Going 🦋And Remember: “To Love Thyself Would Be An Awfully BIG Adventure.” Lahayla Dahlia Lore Get full access to S e l f l o v e l o v e s e l f 3 6 5 at selfloveloveself365.substack.com/subscribe

No One Said It Would Be Easy But If You Truly Love Yourself, You Will Know You Are Worth It & The Key Ingredient Is, Living A Life You Actually Choose.It’s Specific To You.Once You Acknowledge & Accept This, Also Recognise That The Onus Is On You To Move Accordingly & Take Responsibility For The Role You Play Day In & Day Out.The Point Of Learning Is To Understand New Things & To Grow, To Truly Grow,You Will Always Be Learning & There Is So Much To Learn, So Much You Can Do, As Long As You See It So.Your Personal Perspective Matters & Your Age, A Level In The Game.So How Do You Put Your Known Skills To The Test Whilst Establishing New Skills:You Move Slow & Steady, One Day At A Time & Give Thanks For Life.From You Have Life,You Have Options & Honouring The Ability To Look At Yourself Will Lead To Elevation & Liberation.Take The Time To Get Out Of Your Own Way,Change The Narrative You Hold In Mind & See What Comes To Be 🦋And Remember: “To Love Thyself Would Be An Awfully BIG Adventure.” Lahayla Dahlia Lore Get full access to S e l f l o v e l o v e s e l f 3 6 5 at selfloveloveself365.substack.com/subscribe

SLLS365: Get Comfortable Choosing Yourself }|{Choosing Yourself Holds Great Purpose!The Better You Do By Yourself,Heightens The Likelihood That You Will In Turn, Do Right By Others.Choosing Ourselves Can Be Uncomfortable When We Know Our Intentions & Heart Yet It Won’t Always Translate In Our Actions, It’s Important To Hold Awareness For This.Being Different Makes You Unique, Honouring Your Differences Allows You To Flourish Instead Of Succumbing To The Ill Led Rhetoric Of Dying Societies, Dishonest Narratives & Lies, Passed On For Centuries That Class Some As Better Than Others Which In Truth Stems From An Inferiority Complex.I Hope You See Yourself.I Hope You Witness Your Greatness.I Hope You Choose Yourself Over & Over Again;Over The People Who Hurt You,Over The People Who Mock You,Over The People Who Judge You& Most Importantly, Over The Version Of You Who Didn’t Know Better & Shied Away From Tending To Your Own Needs.Loving Yourself Means Putting Yourself First In The Most Precious Ways & As I Said Practicing To Choose Yourself Is, Contrary To What We Are Taught, A Far More Effective Way Of Helping Others & Reminding Others It’s OK & Important For Them To Choose Themselves Too 🦋And Remember: “To Love Thyself Would Be An Awfully BIG Adventure.” Lahayla Dahlia Lore }|{ Get full access to S e l f l o v e l o v e s e l f 3 6 5 at selfloveloveself365.substack.com/subscribe

SLLS365: Vulnerability With Self 1st }|{What If, When We Think We Are Being Vulnerable We Are Merely Behaving In Accordance To What is Expected Of Us, Opposed To Truly Knowing Ourselves & Through Societal Conditioning, Experiences & Mistreatment, We Have Shied Away From Being Vulnerable With Ourselves?Recognising When Our Pains Only Hurt Us Because They Aren’t Actually Our Truths, Acknowledging & Witnessing Some Behaviours Are Only Present Because That Is What Has Been Shown To Us & So We Role Play To Fit In & Embody Moulds That Take Us Far, Far, Away From Self…When Were You Last Truly Vulnerable With Yourself & How Did You Self Soothe? 🦋 Get full access to S e l f l o v e l o v e s e l f 3 6 5 at selfloveloveself365.substack.com/subscribe

SLLS365: C o n s e n t }|{Being Intoxicated & Taking/Forcing/ Inappropriately Touching Someone Is No Excuse & It Won’t Always be Clear & You Won’t Always Know What Others Are Happy With.There Is No Harm In Asking & People Should ALWAYS Feel Safe To Say No However This Isn’t Always The Case But Forcing Yourself On Someone Who Is A Sleep Isn’t Consent, Touching Someone Inappropriately When Intoxicated Without Consent Isn’t Ok. Causing People To Have Regrets They Didn’t Ask For Is Damaging. Forcing People To carry Shame Is Unforgivable.People Have A Choice But If Fear Takes Over Or They are Unconscious, You Are Removing The Choice Which Is Sickening & Unfair.Care For One Another By Checking In,Slowing Down,Accepting No Means No,Someone Deliberately Moving Away From your Advancement = No.Coercion Isn’t Consent.Stay Safe.Protect One Another.Check Your Brothers.Check Your Friends.& Don’t Be Led By Lustful Desires Or Cause Harm, Out Of Envy & Spite.And Remember: “To Love Thyself Would Be An Awfully BIG Adventure.”Lahayla Dahlia Lore Get full access to S e l f l o v e l o v e s e l f 3 6 5 at selfloveloveself365.substack.com/subscribe

SLLS365: What You Seek Outside of Yourself, Can Come From Within }|{If You Keep Waiting Around For Someone Else To Give You What You Should Be Giving To You, You May Wait Forever…But Why Wait At All When Abundance Is A Mindset Change Away From Greeting You.Pay Attention To How You Get In Your Own Way, The Behaviours You Comkit To That You Know Steer You Wrong & Unpack Why You Alloe Negativity To Consume You; Why You Allow A Lack Of Self Belief To Hold You Back & Why You Intentionally Sabotage Yourself?No One Can Sort Your Puzzle For You. It Is Your Duty To Become, To Blossom, To Step Into Fulfilment & You Can’t Do That Seeking Things Outside Of Yourself, Particularly Things You Should Have Had, Like A Mothers Love, For Example.It’s Normal When We Don’t Know Better To Seek Love Outside Of Ourselves But When We Know Better, It Is Of The Utmost Importance That We Furl Ourselves, That Way Not Only Do You Get To Truly Learn The Love You Authentically Embody But You Call In That Same Love & Without A Doubt, Never Settle 🦋And Remember: “To Love Thyself Would Be An Awfully BIG Adventure.” Lahayla Dahlia Lore Get full access to S e l f l o v e l o v e s e l f 3 6 5 at selfloveloveself365.substack.com/subscribe

Stay Safe. Stay Aware }|{ Get full access to S e l f l o v e l o v e s e l f 3 6 5 at selfloveloveself365.substack.com/subscribe

Tell Your Truth But Be Aware Of Enablers }|{ Get full access to S e l f l o v e l o v e s e l f 3 6 5 at selfloveloveself365.substack.com/subscribe

Ego Driven }|{ Get full access to S e l f l o v e l o v e s e l f 3 6 5 at selfloveloveself365.substack.com/subscribe

Slow Down & Ask Why }|{ Get full access to S e l f l o v e l o v e s e l f 3 6 5 at selfloveloveself365.substack.com/subscribe

It's Embarrassing Not To Try }|{ Get full access to S e l f l o v e l o v e s e l f 3 6 5 at selfloveloveself365.substack.com/subscribe

It's on You So How Are You Moving? }|{ Get full access to S e l f l o v e l o v e s e l f 3 6 5 at selfloveloveself365.substack.com/subscribe

Loving Yourself Prevents Harm }|{ Get full access to S e l f l o v e l o v e s e l f 3 6 5 at selfloveloveself365.substack.com/subscribe

I Am Responsible For The Choices I Make & The Consequences They Create }|{ Get full access to S e l f l o v e l o v e s e l f 3 6 5 at selfloveloveself365.substack.com/subscribe

Key Indicators }|{ Get full access to S e l f l o v e l o v e s e l f 3 6 5 at selfloveloveself365.substack.com/subscribe

The Work Starts With You }|{ Get full access to S e l f l o v e l o v e s e l f 3 6 5 at selfloveloveself365.substack.com/subscribe

Do Yourself A Favour }|{ Get full access to S e l f l o v e l o v e s e l f 3 6 5 at selfloveloveself365.substack.com/subscribe

You Are Remarkable }|{ Get full access to S e l f l o v e l o v e s e l f 3 6 5 at selfloveloveself365.substack.com/subscribe

Be Present Where You Are }|{ Get full access to S e l f l o v e l o v e s e l f 3 6 5 at selfloveloveself365.substack.com/subscribe

You Made It }|{ Get full access to S e l f l o v e l o v e s e l f 3 6 5 at selfloveloveself365.substack.com/subscribe

Motion, Movement, Change }|{ Get full access to S e l f l o v e l o v e s e l f 3 6 5 at selfloveloveself365.substack.com/subscribe

Pay Attention To How You Get In Your Own Way }|{ Get full access to S e l f l o v e l o v e s e l f 3 6 5 at selfloveloveself365.substack.com/subscribe

Difficult Times Build Resilience }|{ Get full access to S e l f l o v e l o v e s e l f 3 6 5 at selfloveloveself365.substack.com/subscribe

Lack & Overgiving }|{ Get full access to S e l f l o v e l o v e s e l f 3 6 5 at selfloveloveself365.substack.com/subscribe

Observer }|{ Get full access to S e l f l o v e l o v e s e l f 3 6 5 at selfloveloveself365.substack.com/subscribe

Own Your Sh?!t }|{ Get full access to S e l f l o v e l o v e s e l f 3 6 5 at selfloveloveself365.substack.com/subscribe

Ego & Self Respect }|{ Get full access to S e l f l o v e l o v e s e l f 3 6 5 at selfloveloveself365.substack.com/subscribe

Judgement & Projections }|{ Get full access to S e l f l o v e l o v e s e l f 3 6 5 at selfloveloveself365.substack.com/subscribe

How You Feel About Yourself Matters }|{ Get full access to S e l f l o v e l o v e s e l f 3 6 5 at selfloveloveself365.substack.com/subscribe

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Navigating & Negotiation }|{ Get full access to S e l f l o v e l o v e s e l f 3 6 5 at selfloveloveself365.substack.com/subscribe

Take A Moment }|{ Get full access to S e l f l o v e l o v e s e l f 3 6 5 at selfloveloveself365.substack.com/subscribe

Keep Your Heart Open }|{ Get full access to S e l f l o v e l o v e s e l f 3 6 5 at selfloveloveself365.substack.com/subscribe

F O C U S }|{ Get full access to S e l f l o v e l o v e s e l f 3 6 5 at selfloveloveself365.substack.com/subscribe

Continue To Show Up For Yourself }|{ Get full access to S e l f l o v e l o v e s e l f 3 6 5 at selfloveloveself365.substack.com/subscribe

Your Choices Add Up }|{ Get full access to S e l f l o v e l o v e s e l f 3 6 5 at selfloveloveself365.substack.com/subscribe

Be Wary }|{ Get full access to S e l f l o v e l o v e s e l f 3 6 5 at selfloveloveself365.substack.com/subscribe

Attention & Self Centering }|{ Get full access to S e l f l o v e l o v e s e l f 3 6 5 at selfloveloveself365.substack.com/subscribe

Be Proud }|{ Get full access to S e l f l o v e l o v e s e l f 3 6 5 at selfloveloveself365.substack.com/subscribe

Self Avoidance & Honesty }|{ Get full access to S e l f l o v e l o v e s e l f 3 6 5 at selfloveloveself365.substack.com/subscribe

A d m i r a t i o n }|{ Get full access to S e l f l o v e l o v e s e l f 3 6 5 at selfloveloveself365.substack.com/subscribe

One Foot In Front Of The Other }|{ Get full access to S e l f l o v e l o v e s e l f 3 6 5 at selfloveloveself365.substack.com/subscribe