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Steel Roses Podcast
by Jenny Benitez
Steel Roses is a podcast created for women by women. Social pressures for women are constant. Professionals, stay at home moms, working moms, we are here to tell you that you are not alone! This podcasts primary focus is providing real honest content shedding light on the daily struggles of women while also elevating women's voices. All women are experiencing similar pressures and hurdles, and yet, no one is talking out in the open. If these topics continue to only exist as whispered conversations then we further permeate a culture of judgement and shame. Join Jenny weekly as she discusses topics that effect women in a relatable, honest way.
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Raising Emotionally Intelligent Kids: Communication, Conflict, and Confidence
Send us Fan MailWhat happens when a simple basketball game turns into a parenting lesson about emotional intelligence, communication, and conflict resolution?In this episode of Steel Roses Podcast, we unpack a real-life parenting moment: a basketball bounces the wrong way, a child gets hit in the face, and two very different parenting instincts show up right away — comfort first versus toughen up. But the most powerful part comes next, when a 10-year-old calmly finds the words to say, “I didn’t like that you did that.”That moment opens the door to a bigger conversation about raising emotionally intelligent kids, teaching children how to speak up respectfully, and helping them learn how to express feelings without shutting down or exploding.We also talk about the growing gap in communication skills for kids and teens. In a world where children are constantly connected through social media, many are still underprepared for real-life conversations, conflict, eye contact, emotional expression, and problem-solving. Instead of lectures, we explore how parents can model communication skills at home in everyday moments.This episode covers why a united front in parenting matters, how transparency after discipline builds trust, and why teaching children to understand more than one perspective can strengthen both empathy and resilience.We also touch on ADHD and emotional regulation, including why kids who struggle with impulse control or big feelings need extra coaching around labeling emotions, self-advocacy, and respectful communication.If you’re looking for practical parenting tips for raising confident kids who can speak up, listen well, handle conflict, and advocate for themselves with respect, this episode is for you.Listen now, share this episode with another parent, and leave a review to help more families find Steel Roses Podcast.Support the showLove this content? Check out our links below for more!Linktr.ee ContentInstagramYouTubeJenny's LinkedIn
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When It’s Not “Just Anxiety”: Women’s Symptoms That Get Overlooked
Send us Fan MailHave you ever been told your symptoms are “just anxiety” when you knew something deeper was going on? In this episode, we’re talking about the women’s health issues that are commonly misdiagnosed, dismissed, or overlooked — and why so many women are left fighting to be believed.We explore how conditions like endometriosis, PCOS, heart disease, autoimmune disease, fibromyalgia, ADHD, and perimenopause can show up in ways that are confusing, subtle, or easy to mislabel. From intense pelvic pain and sudden rectal pain to irregular periods, unexplained weight changes, acne, fertility struggles, chronic fatigue, brain fog, and pain that doesn’t fit neatly into one box, we unpack the symptoms women are often taught to minimize or stay silent about.We also talk about why endometriosis symptoms can go undiagnosed for years, how PCOS can be missed when doctors rely on stereotypes instead of listening to cycle history, and why heart attack symptoms in women may look like reflux, nausea, anxiety, jaw pain, back pain, or unusual exhaustion instead of classic chest pain.Then we widen the conversation to include autoimmune diseases like lupus, chronic pain conditions like fibromyalgia, and the way women’s symptoms are often mislabeled as depression, stress, or “nothing is wrong.” We also take a deep look at ADHD in women and girls, why it’s often mistaken for laziness, disorganization, or being overwhelmed, and how perimenopause can intensify ADHD symptoms when hormones begin to shift.Most importantly, we share practical self-advocacy tips for doctor’s appointments, including how to track symptoms, bring evidence, ask direct questions, push for a clear yes or no, and use the powerful phrase: “Please make a note in my chart.”If you’ve ever felt dismissed by a doctor, confused by your symptoms, or unsure how to advocate for yourself, this episode is a reminder that you are not imagining it — and you deserve answers.Press play, subscribe, share this episode with a woman who needs to hear it, and leave a review so more women can find these conversations.Support the showLove this content? Check out our links below for more!Linktr.ee ContentInstagramYouTubeJenny's LinkedIn
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Podcasting as a Working Mom: What’s Actually Sustainable
Send us Fan MailFeeling burned out trying to grow your podcast or side hustle on social media? Wondering if you really need to post every day, chase the algorithm, and sacrifice your time to succeed?In this episode, I share the honest truth about why I stopped promoting my podcast on social media—and what happened next. After juggling guest interviews, content creation, editing, and a full-time job, the pressure to “do it all” became unsustainable. Like so many working women, my weekends weren’t free—they were filled with the invisible mental load of managing a household, kids’ schedules, meals, and everything in between.So I made a bold decision: I cut social media, stopped guest episodes, and focused on creating simple, sustainable mini podcast episodes. The result? Unexpected podcast growth and a renewed sense of clarity.We unpack: Podcast growth strategies that don’t rely on social media Creator burnout and how to build a sustainable content strategy The reality of the mental load for working moms and women entrepreneurs Why authenticity and consistency may outperform algorithm-driven marketing The tradeoffs between career, side hustle, and family life If you're a podcaster, content creator, or working mom feeling overwhelmed by the pressure to constantly produce and promote, this episode will help you rethink what growth really looks like.🎧 Subscribe, share with a friend, and leave a review: Do you think men experience the same guilt balancing work and home—or is it a different reality?Support the showLove this content? Check out our links below for more!Linktr.ee ContentInstagramYouTubeJenny's LinkedIn
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Slynd for Hormonal Imbalance: Side Effects, Results, and Honest Review
Send us Fan MailMy SupplementsMagnesium - https://amzn.to/423o36RFish Oil: https://amzn.to/4tZgWIp - Do not take if you have high cholesterolB-Complex: https://amzn.to/4vEb4pFVitamin D3: https://amzn.to/4mFjCZiAny decision to take supplements should be reviewed with a primary care professional. I am sharing my own personal experience in this episode, the information shared should not replace guidance from a medical professional. The week before my period used to feel unbearable—like a switch flipped and everything changed. This wasn’t just PMS. It was intense mood swings, exhaustion, anxiety, and crying spells that showed up like clockwork.In this episode, I share my real experience navigating perimenopause symptoms, hormonal imbalance, and the frustration of being told I was “too young” or that this was just something to live with.We get into: The difference between PMS and perimenopause mood swings Why so many women are dismissed when they bring up hormonal mental health symptoms My journey trying different birth control options and looking for real solutions I also walk through my experience with Slynd (drospirenone), a progesterone-only birth control pill, including: The early side effects: headaches, heavier bleeding, and frustration What made me stick with it despite a rough start The moment I realized my perimenopause anxiety and depression symptoms improved Why this option can be life-changing for some women—but not all Beyond medication, I share what’s helping me feel more balanced day-to-day: Supplements like magnesium, vitamin D, iron, fish oil, and B complex Nutrition habits like adding berries for fiber and antioxidants Returning to weight training for hormone and mental health supportWe also talk about how to advocate for yourself: How to communicate effectively with your OB-GYN or healthcare provider Why tracking symptoms is critical for diagnosis and treatment What to do when your first treatment plan doesn’t work If you’re struggling with perimenopause, PMS, hormonal mood swings, anxiety, or depression, this episode is a reminder that you don’t have to accept feeling bad half the month.Support the showLove this content? Check out our links below for more!Linktr.ee ContentInstagramYouTubeJenny's LinkedIn
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Modern Parenting: How to Raise Emotionally Strong Boys and Independent Girls
Send us Fan MailMy twin daughters just turned nine, and it forced a realization: parenting isn’t just about love and routines—it’s about the subtle ways we shape our kids through language, habits, and everyday decisions.In this episode, I share honest, real-life parenting lessons from raising two girls and a boy, and how I caught myself unintentionally reinforcing traditional gender roles at home.We dive into: How gender bias in parenting shows up in toys, expectations, and everyday choices Why I naturally bought my son more STEM toys and skill-based activities, while my daughters gravitated toward more traditional play How chores and life skills can quickly become gendered—and how to reset them Practical ways to raise independent, confident kids regardless of gender Teaching all kids essential skills like communication, cooking, responsibility, and self-sufficiencyI also talk about the harder, often unspoken topics: Navigating dating rules, protectiveness, and body autonomy in age-appropriate ways Raising kids to respect and value themselves without fear-based parenting Balancing emotional intelligence and resilience in both boys and girls Plus, I break down what current parenting insights say about raising daughters vs. raising sons, and what actually works in my home—like co-parenting with different styles, encouraging open communication, and getting kids to talk without feeling interrogated.If you’re looking for practical parenting tips, a fresh perspective on gender stereotypes, and simple strategies to raise strong, emotionally healthy kids, this episode will give you tools you can use right away.Support the showLove this content? Check out our links below for more!Linktr.ee ContentInstagramYouTubeJenny's LinkedIn
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Gen Alpha and Screen Overstimulation: Why Your Child Is Melting Down
Send us Fan MailYour child melts down after screen time—and it feels like it comes out of nowhere. One minute they’re calm, the next it’s a full-blown tantrum. If you’ve ever tried to reason with your kid in that moment and made it worse, you’re not alone. In this episode, we break down why screen time causes meltdowns in kids, especially for Gen Alpha, and what’s really happening with overstimulation and nervous system dysregulation.We react to the growing conversation around Gen Alpha and screen addiction, exploring what it means to be the first generation raised on constant digital stimulation. From video games to tablets to social connection through screens, today’s kids are navigating a completely different environment—and parents are stuck balancing screen time limits with real-world readiness.We also unpack the modern parenting challenge: how do you reduce screen time tantrums without isolating your child from how they play, learn, and socialize? And how has parenting shifted from “go play outside” to managing safety concerns, structured time, and digital boundaries?Then we get practical. We share our real-life experience introducing immersive tech (and immediately regretting it), the behavioral changes we saw, and the screen time rules that actually work. We walk through simple, actionable strategies like: Setting realistic screen time limits for kids Building in post-screen recovery time (the missing piece most parents overlook) Using movement, hydration, food, and connection to reset your child’s mood Creating healthier daily screen habits without constant conflict If you’re trying to manage screen time, reduce tantrums, and support your child’s emotional regulation, this episode gives you parenting strategies you can start using today.Subscribe for more real-life parenting conversations, share this episode with a parent who’s dealing with screen time struggles, and leave a review with the hardest screen rule to enforce in your home.Support the showLove this content? Check out our links below for more!Linktr.ee ContentInstagramYouTubeJenny's LinkedIn
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From Sore Triceps To Stronger Years Ahead
Send us Fan MailTwenty minutes of light weights shouldn’t wreck you, right? I thought the same thing until I woke up at 3:30 in the morning convinced something was wrong with my arms. That moment pushed me to face a truth a lot of us avoid: strength doesn’t just fade, it slips away quietly when life gets busy, and it gets harder to rebuild the longer we wait.I talk through what brought me back to weight training and I don’t pretend it’s only about health. Vanity is part of it, and I say that out loud, but the bigger reason is longevity. Women start losing muscle mass and bone density in our 30s and 40s, and menopause can accelerate bone loss in a way that changes everything from injury risk to how active we can be. We dig into sarcopenia, osteoporosis prevention, metabolism support, functional strength, and why lifting matters if you want to hike, travel, kayak, and stay fully involved with your family as you age.I also share the context behind my motivation: pregnancy weight gain, postpartum depression, and how sleep, mindful eating, and consistent workouts helped me lose a significant amount of weight and maintain it. Then I get practical with supplements and research, including creatine monohydrate, protein, vitamin D, magnesium, and fish oil, plus simple ways to start with bodyweight exercises at home if the gym feels like too much.If this gave you a push, subscribe, share this with a friend who needs it, and leave a review with your biggest takeaway. What’s one small workout you can do this week to get started?Support the showLove this content? Check out our links below for more!Linktr.ee ContentInstagramYouTubeJenny's LinkedIn
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I Don't Love My Kids Equally....And That's The Point
Send us Fan MailLoving your kids “equally” sounds like the gold standard, but I think it’s the wrong target. I’m sharing an unpopular opinion from my own house: when you have multiple kids, you don’t love them in identical ways, because they aren’t identical people. The real job is fairness making sure each child feels seen, valued, and secure, without sending the message that someone else matters more.I start with family news and a fresh newborn that brought up a classic parenting question: what happens to your heart when you add another child? From there I break down what individualized parenting looks like with three kids close in age, including one strong willed, highly articulate boy and a set of twins who need room to become themselves. I talk about why comparison can quietly wreck confidence, how I encourage siblings to stop measuring themselves against each other, and why “you’re only in competition with yourself” is a rule I repeat constantly.We also zoom out to the generational shift around mental health. Many of us were raised by parents shaped by survival first priorities, and now we’re trying to raise emotionally healthy kids in a loud, demanding world. I’m honest about burnout, the days I want to “get lazy,” and why I still believe this work matters more than grades, sports, or perfect résumés. What I care about is raising strong individuals with a moral compass, real independence, and a deep belief in their own value.If you’re navigating sibling dynamics, twin parenting, mental health, or just trying to be a better parent on tired legs, this one is for you. Subscribe to Steel Versus Podcast, share it with a parent friend, and leave a review if it helps what part of this hits closest to home?Support the showLove this content? Check out our links below for more!Linktr.ee ContentInstagramYouTubeJenny's LinkedIn
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You Are Not Meant To Be For Everyone And That Is Freedom
Send us Fan MailBuy it and change your life --> Abundant Ever AfterSome advice sounds nice until you try to live it. “Be yourself” is one of those lines, right up until you feel the pressure to keep the peace, stay likable, and avoid disappointing anyone. Today we go straight into the tension between authenticity and people pleasing, and why trying to be “for everyone” quietly drains your energy, your confidence, and your joy. We pull a powerful excerpt from Cathy Heller’s Abundant Ever After and sit with a simple command that lands like a wake-up call: unsubscribe from pleasing everyone. From there, we talk about what authenticity actually does in real life, not as a slogan but as a signal. When you show up as you, the right people lean in, and the wrong people opt out. We also explore the “seven degrees” idea of energy alignment and why you can’t convince, argue, or force someone to meet you where you are. If they’re not ready, they can’t hear you and it’s not your job to drag them there. We make it practical and personal with stories about feeling someone’s high energy after a call, noticing misalignment in social spaces, and teaching our kids to trust their gut as an “inside feeling” that keeps them safe and grounded. We also name the hard part: as your boundaries get clearer and your mindset gets stronger, some friends and even relatives may fall away. That loss can sting, but it can also be a sign you’re finally choosing what supports your mental health, your peace, and your growth. If you’re working on boundaries, self trust, women’s empowerment, and healthier relationships, hit play. Then subscribe, share this with a friend who needs it, and leave a review so more women can find the ripple.Support the showLove this content? Check out our links below for more!Linktr.ee ContentInstagramYouTubeJenny's LinkedIn
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The Childcare Cliff
Send us Fan MailChildcare has a way of turning joy into panic, not because we love our kids any less, but because the math stops making sense. I’m coming off a flu week and easing back into routine, and a conversation in my own circle brings me right back to a hard truth: so many families are one childcare bill away from drowning.I share what it looked like in my house when we went from family help to daycare, why proximity mattered for sanity, and how quickly the monthly total climbed until it rivaled and then surpassed rent. I talk honestly about the career crossroads that show up when a paycheck no longer covers care, how health insurance can lock one parent into staying employed, and the ego and expectations that can push us to “power through” even when the cost is too high.Then we zoom out to the bigger policy picture: maternity leave in the United States, the pay cuts that hit right after birth, and what happens when childcare subsidies get frozen or restricted. I break down why administrative “fixes” like more paperwork and appeals can still crush parents in real time, especially when the cost of living is already exploding through energy bills and grocery prices. If women are essential to the modern workforce, childcare support has to be treated like infrastructure, not a side issue.If this hits home, subscribe so you don’t miss what comes next, share the episode with a working parent who needs to hear they’re not alone, and leave a review with the change you most want to see.Support the showLove this content? Check out our links below for more!Linktr.ee ContentInstagramYouTubeJenny's LinkedIn
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Flu Recovery Reset
Send us Fan MailThe flu knocked me down this week, and it forced a reset I didn’t know I needed. I talk honestly about what it feels like when your body won’t “bounce back” the way it used to and why real recovery sometimes means doing the thing we avoid most: stopping. No powering through, no cleaning while sick, no pretending rest is optional. Just listening, slowing down, and letting healing take the lead.One of the biggest lightbulb moments came from something simple: food aversion. When I’m sick, I don’t want to eat and neither did my kids. We’re taught to push soup and crackers no matter what, but I dig into the idea that appetite loss may be your body’s natural way of shifting energy toward repair. I connect it to intermittent fasting and autophagy, the cellular “cleanup” process people often talk about with fasting, and I share how I’m approaching it carefully in real life: focusing on hydration, letting hunger guide me, and only eating small amounts when I take medicine.To keep my mood from sliding while I’m stuck resting, I share one fast energy reset that always works for me: looking through old photos and letting that joy rise up on purpose. I also share a healthier, kid-friendly kitchen experiment I’m excited to try next, making homemade pickles and pickled vegetables as a fun snack project.If you want more honest talk about flu recovery, rest, hydration, intermittent fasting, and simple wellness habits that fit real family life, hit play. Subscribe, share with a friend who never slows down, and leave a review, what’s your go-to rule when you’re sick?Support the showLove this content? Check out our links below for more!Linktr.ee ContentInstagramYouTubeJenny's LinkedIn
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Flu Week Reality
Send us Fan MailI woke up knowing I was getting sick and did what so many working moms do anyway: I tried to outwork it. Two of my kids already had the flu, my body was starting to ache, and a major deadline still didn’t care. So I pushed through the day, got the priority project out, and then hit the wall hard. If you’ve ever felt that mix of pain, responsibility, and “I can’t let anyone down,” you’ll recognize every beat of this story.I also talk about the kind of leadership that makes brutal weeks survivable. I’m incredibly grateful for the women I work with and for a boss who rolls up her sleeves, quality-checks the work, and shows up alongside the team instead of above it. That support doesn’t erase the guilt of taking an unscheduled sick day, but it changes everything about how safe it feels to be human at work.On the practical side, I share what we leaned on at home, including elderberry supplements, Oscillococcinum, and a fresh juice mix with citrus, pineapple, and ginger to support inflammation and recovery. And then I zoom out to the bigger takeaway: sometimes getting sick is a forced full stop when you’ve been run down for too long. What if that pause is information, not just inconvenience?If this resonates, subscribe to Still Roses Podcast, share the episode with a fellow working mom, and leave a quick review so more women can find these honest conversations.Support the showLove this content? Check out our links below for more!Linktr.ee ContentInstagramYouTubeJenny's LinkedIn
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Sick Kids, Missed Festival, And Burnout Realizations
Send us Fan MailYour weekend plans can be perfect on paper and still get wiped out by a single phone call from school. I went into the week excited for a local spring festival with my kids, friends, and a rare chance to slow down, then a low-grade fever turned into a house-wide crash. Missing the fun wasn’t the hardest part. The harder part was hearing the message underneath it all: it’s time to slow down, stop fighting reality, and just be for a minute.That moment opened the door to a bigger conversation about working mom burnout, mental load, and the pressure to keep everything running while your own energy disappears. I talk honestly about what burnout feels like for me: brain fog, the inability to focus, dreading even the things I normally enjoy, and the constant sense that work is an emergency every day. I also share a story from early in my career when I first learned what burnout really is and why “gutting it out” only works for so long.We get practical too. I walk through simple burnout recovery tools you can try right now: sorting tasks into red, yellow, and white to downgrade false urgency, reducing decision fatigue with repeatable routines, time-blocking your energy so deep work happens when you’re sharp, and setting non-negotiable boundaries like no work after a set time. If you’ve been missing family time, feeling “always on,” or wondering why rest doesn’t feel like it’s fixing anything, you’ll leave with language for what’s happening and a path forward. Subscribe, share this with a friend who’s carrying too much, and leave a review. What’s the clearest burnout sign your body sends you?Support the showLove this content? Check out our links below for more!Linktr.ee ContentInstagramYouTubeJenny's LinkedIn
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Too Many Fart Jokes And One Hard No
Send us Fan MailI hit that parenting wall where everything feels too loud, too fast, and too much. After a weekend of my son’s big outbursts, a stressful attempt to do “normal” family plans, and me running on low fuel, I realize I’m not just tired I’m dysregulated. And when I’m dysregulated, my kids don’t get the best of me. They get the snapped tone, the short fuse, and the version of me I don’t feel proud of. So I do something I’m still learning how to do: I prioritize myself. Even though I already promised the kids they could have friends over, I cancel the playdate and set a boundary. I talk to each child calmly, explain that I’m overwhelmed, and choose a quieter day instead of forcing a situation that would push me into bitterness. The surprising part is what happens next: my kids notice, they pivot, and we find a little pocket of peace that actually feels like the weekend I was hoping for. We also get practical about what makes overwhelm worse, like skipping protein, not drinking enough water, and trying to power through without a reset. If you’re juggling motherhood, mental health, emotional regulation, and the constant pressure to “show up” no matter what, this conversation is your permission slip to back out when you need to. The support I get from other moms after I cancel is a reminder that women supporting women is real and necessary. If this resonates, listen now, share it with a friend who needs a breath, and leave a review so more moms can find it. What’s one boundary you wish you’d set sooner?Support the showLove this content? Check out our links below for more!Linktr.ee ContentInstagramYouTubeJenny's LinkedIn
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I Am Learning To Parent My Son Without Losing Myself
Send us Fan MailA five-minute wait for macaroni shouldn’t feel like a crisis, yet sometimes that’s exactly what ADHD parenting looks like. We’re sharing a raw, honest check-in from a weekend that tested our patience, our nerves, and our ability to stay regulated while our 10-year-old spiraled and then snapped back like nothing happened.We walk through what it takes to advocate for real support, from requesting an IEP (Individualized Education Program) to staying on top of the school system so our child doesn’t drown in mainstream expectations and lose confidence. We also talk about the medical side of getting answers, including neurologist visits, broader testing, and why we chose to add dyslexia screening. If you’re in the middle of an ADHD evaluation, trying to understand behavior outbursts, or wondering whether it’s your parenting, you’ll recognize the emotional whiplash and the second-guessing.We also share a practical pattern we’ve noticed at home: when the food schedule slips, the meltdowns get bigger. It’s not a perfect solution, but it’s one of the few levers that can make the day feel more predictable. Most of all, we make the case for honesty. So many moms stay quiet because they feel ashamed, but isolation makes everything heavier. Talking to other parents, neighbors, and friends can turn survival mode into something closer to community.If this resonates, listen, share it with a parent who needs to feel less alone, and subscribe so you don’t miss what we learn next. After you finish, leave a review and tell us what actually helps in your house when emotions spike.Support the showLove this content? Check out our links below for more!Linktr.ee ContentInstagramYouTubeJenny's LinkedIn
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Turning Disappointment Into A New Direction
Send us Fan MailBad news hits harder when you were already running on empty, and sometimes it doesn’t just ruin your day, it rewrites your direction. We’re talking about what happens when you’re expecting a big win, you’ve been holding your breath for the confirmation, and then you learn it’s delayed or may not happen at all. That moment can crack you open, especially when you’re the kind of person who keeps emotions private until they spill out anyway. We get honest about overwhelm, the need for real rest, and why weekends at home can be a mental health reset instead of a guilty pleasure. From there, we walk through the emotional anatomy of disappointment: feeling the sadness, naming the frustration, and letting it out instead of stuffing it down. Then comes the part that changes everything, stepping back and asking what the bigger picture might be. Maybe the closed door is protection. Maybe the detour is the point. Maybe the path you built out of “should” is not the path you actually want. We also talk about how other people can react in toxic ways that fuel paranoia or anger, and why staying grounded requires choosing your own interpretation before the noise takes over. If you’re navigating a career pivot, delayed goals, rejection, or an unexpected turn, this is a reminder that you can grieve and still move forward. Subscribe to Still Roses Podcast, share this with a friend who needs a reset, and leave a review with the biggest pivot you’ve survived.Support the showLove this content? Check out our links below for more!Linktr.ee ContentInstagramYouTubeJenny's LinkedIn
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Today’s Productivity Hack: Emotional Breakdown + Dishwasher
Send us Fan MailSome weeks don’t feel busy, they feel like a full-blown alarm that never shuts off. I’m in the middle of a “mommest mom” stretch where work fires, family needs, and the constant mental load stack up so fast that I caught myself about to text for prayers again, until a simple thought stopped me: if there’s an emergency every week, then it’s not an emergency. It’s just work, and I can adapt.I walk through a real working-mom day that includes logging on for meetings, pivoting to a long neurologist appointment for my child’s ADHD testing and evaluation, and trying to stay productive on a tiny screen while my brain begs for a break. If you work in communications or any role that requires nonstop talking, you’ll recognize the end-of-day crash, the tight throat, and that internal scream you keep swallowing.Then we get to the part that’s both funny and painfully honest: the dinner moment that shouldn’t matter, but does, because time is valuable and you’re tired. My “hot mom tip” is exactly what it sounds like, crying while cleaning, because sometimes emotional release and getting things done have to happen at the same time.If you’re navigating mom burnout, stress, ADHD parenting logistics, or the never-ending quest for work-life balance, this is your reminder that perfection isn’t the goal. Listen, share it with a working mom who needs a reset, and then subscribe, leave a review, or message me your best survival tip so we can keep each other going.Support the showLove this content? Check out our links below for more!Linktr.ee ContentInstagramYouTubeJenny's LinkedIn
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The Quiet Power Of Letting Go Of Who You Were
Send us Fan MailWhat if the most powerful pivot in your life is the moment you stop trying to be impressive and start choosing to be rested, regulated, and unavailable to what drains you? That quiet turn can feel radical, especially when you’ve spent years measuring worth by hustle and external praise. We open up about the messy middle—owning toxic patterns from younger years, grieving the loss of a “pre-baby” identity, and realizing that a racing career ladder can steal the small, irreplaceable moments right outside your window.The story moves from freewheeling 20s to focused 30s, when motherhood rewires the brain and priorities lock into place. With one child and then twins, security becomes the mission and work surges to the center—until the cost is too visible to ignore: your kids learning to dive while you’re stuck upstairs on a call. That ache sparks a second shift, away from being a “high achiever in everyone’s face” to redefining success as presence, balance, and choosing what actually matters. The lesson isn’t anti-ambition. It’s pro-alignment. You can do exceptional work without sacrificing the people you love.We also face down comparison culture and the myth that a beautiful life has no rough edges. Real talk about late bills, stretching groceries, and the quiet pride of getting by reframes gratitude as a practice, not a platitude. You’ll hear a simple, repeatable method: track micro-moments of alignment in your phone and on paper the second you feel that tiny spark—an extra shift offered, a small sale that helps, a sliver of calm when you need it. Over time, this list becomes proof that your life is moving with you, not against you.If you’re craving a gentler definition of success, this conversation offers language, tools, and permission. Subscribe, share with a friend who needs it, and leave a review to tell us about one small moment you’re grateful for today.Support the showLove this content? Check out our links below for more!Linktr.ee ContentInstagramYouTubeJenny's LinkedIn
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From Burnt Dinner To Better Marriage: Why Small Acts Matter
Send us Fan MailA flash of sun, a daydream about roses, and a short video of a mom melting down over a smoking pot — that’s all it took to crack open a conversation about the tiny, everyday acts that keep a family steady. We unpack how a small moment of presence can turn panic into laughter and why the quiet gesture often matters more than any display of flowers or fireworks.Across ten years of marriage and sixteen together, we’ve learned that love deepens when we tune into what our partner actually needs, not what we assume they should need. I share the oddly powerful story of my arch-nemesis — the overflowing laundry basket — and how one unnoticed switch flipped a bigger truth: attention is love made visible. We talk about dividing roles without keeping score, how clutter can spike anxiety, and how a single, thoughtful move can unclench a whole evening. Then we flip the lens and show the mirror gesture: washing and fueling the work car so the next morning starts smooth, and how a simple thank you turns a one-time favor into a shared habit.If you’ve ever felt like a small mistake proved you weren’t enough, this conversation offers a reset. We dig into mindful communication that calms rather than escalates, practical ways to map each other’s stress triggers, and the power of naming and appreciating what works. Forget the polished feeds and grand gestures — the real magic is in kitchens, hallways, and driveways, where tiny acts of care stack up into trust. Listen, reflect, and then tell us the one small thing that makes you feel most seen. Subscribe, share with a friend who needs this reminder, and leave a review to help more listeners find the show.Support the showLove this content? Check out our links below for more!Linktr.ee ContentInstagramYouTubeJenny's LinkedIn
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When Life Says Not Today, Choose To Pivot And Open Your Heart
Send us Fan MailEpisode with Elizabeth KippWhen your carefully laid plans fall apart—apps fail, weekends vanish, the clock runs you instead of the other way—what story do you tell yourself? We explore how a week of tech troubles and family overload turned into an invitation to pivot with grace, listen for redirection, and build a home where emotions are safe, not silenced.We start with the messy real life: a recording blocked by a glitch, a calendar packed with birthdays, and the tug to power through anyway. Instead of muscling past the friction, we name a gentler truth: delays can be guidance. That reframe opens into a larger shift at home, where we stop swallowing feelings and start modeling healthy release for our kids. Tears, deep breaths, and honest asks become normal. Hugs are medicine. Safety is something we create together, not a performance we fake alone.The conversation deepens with insights from an ancestral cleansing session with Elizabeth Kipp. What began as a question about money blocks uncovered a quieter belief: it didn’t feel fully safe to be completely vulnerable, even in a loving marriage. That guarded stance—always ready to “walk alone”—echoed scarcity across life and finances. We unpack how emotional safety, intimacy, and prosperity are woven together, and how loosening control can unjam both love and money. Expect practical reflections, from simple silence practices to small acts of openness that build trust without abandoning boundaries.If you’ve ever felt the pull to push harder when life says not today, this is your invitation to pivot, soften, and let support find you. Listen, share with a friend who needs a nudge toward gentler courage, and subscribe for more grounded conversations on healing, family, and sustainable success. Got a belief you’re ready to release? Tell us—we’re listening.Support the showLove this content? Check out our links below for more!Linktr.ee ContentInstagramYouTubeJenny's LinkedIn
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Act As If: Align Your Daily Choices With The Life You Say You Want
Send us Fan MailThe first flake falls and every working parent feels it: the calendar tightens, the inbox grows teeth, and the plan goes sideways. We open with the reality of snow days and share a simple method that protects your sanity and your career—planning at risk—so you can lead yourself and your family without burning out. From there, we dive into alignment: acting as if the life you want already has a place in your day, and building tiny, durable habits that prove it.I talk through the seasons when I over-indexed on independence and how that stance quietly blocked the intimacy I said I wanted. Shifting toward vulnerability wasn’t a slogan; it was daily practice—getting comfortable with love, letting trust take root, and recalibrating my energy so partnership could actually find me. We connect that same alignment to health, where long-term goals demand present-tense habits. No hacks, just small, repeatable choices: earlier sleep, intentional meals, and movement that fits real life.On the career front, we explore the tension between grind-era leadership and balance-first newcomers. Promotions don’t come from doing the job alone; they come from visible impact, initiative, and follow-through. I share practical ways to exceed baseline expectations—owning neglected processes, leading small pilots, measuring outcomes—so your value is obvious without posturing. Throughout, we return to one core practice: when words and actions clash, pause, step back, and choose the move that aligns with the future you want.If you’re ready to replace panic with preparation and wishful thinking with aligned action, this conversation offers clear steps you can try today. Subscribe, share this with a friend who needs permission to recalibrate, and leave a review with the one habit you’ll change this week—we’ll feature our favorites in a future show.Support the showLove this content? Check out our links below for more!Linktr.ee ContentInstagramYouTubeJenny's LinkedIn
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From High Achiever To Balanced Mom: Owning Ambition Without Losing Yourself
Send us Fan MailWhat if the “choice” between an ambitious career and a devoted family was never the point? We open up about the quiet negotiations behind working motherhood—how identity, systems, and support shape a life where achievement and care can both thrive. From a sink-or-swim start in medical communications to leading with calm under pressure, I share the lessons that turned challenges into catalysts. The viral idea of a “mom career crisis” sparked this conversation, not to dramatize the tension but to name it clearly and build better answers.You’ll hear practical strategies that keep real life moving: 4:30 a.m. deep work sessions, protected evening family blocks, and the surprisingly effective 4:30 p.m. kid dinner that anchors homework, showers, and bedtime. We look at balance as a verb, not a prize—hour-by-hour priority shifts, graceful pivots when plans break, and habits that reduce decision fatigue. We also get honest about messy nights when everything hits at once, and why a text to someone who understands can rescue both your mood and your momentum.Mentorship and culture matter just as much as calendars. A manager who develops talent instead of tearing it down can quiet imposter syndrome and help you grow faster with less self-doubt. That kind of support turns ambition into something sustainable. If you’re a high achiever, a working mom, or someone building confidence in a demanding field, consider this your reminder: you’re likely not behind—you’re building. Subscribe for more honest, practical episodes on women’s careers, resilience, and everyday systems that work. If this conversation resonated, share it with a friend and leave a quick review so we can keep elevating women’s voices together.Support the showLove this content? Check out our links below for more!Linktr.ee ContentInstagramYouTubeJenny's LinkedIn
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Rewriting Limiting Beliefs With Mindful Focus
Send us Fan MailCheck out the book that changed my life: https://amzn.to/4aR42W2A frozen February thawed into a personal reset. After a bruising Q4 where stress ran the show and meditation fell off my calendar, I took a slower, kinder route back to alignment. I share what actually worked: noticing autopilot thoughts, stacking tiny proofs of capacity, and pulling standout ideas from Kathy Heller’s Abundant Ever After that helped me shift my focus from fear to possibility.We walk through two powerful metaphors—tuning your life like a radio and directing your story like a film—and why the spotlight of attention quietly writes your outcomes. I open up about a long-standing belief that I’d lose everything no matter how much I earned, how it masqueraded as preparedness, and how naming it changed its power. With the help of AI as a thought partner, I traced the belief to a fear of unpredictability, not poverty, and reframed it into skills I can trust: decision-making, support systems, and adaptable plans.You’ll hear the exact prompts I used to challenge limiting beliefs, the capacity-focused affirmations that actually feel true, and the micro-habits that rebuilt momentum when motivation was thin. If you’ve struggled to get back to meditation, or if money anxiety keeps hijacking your focus, this conversation offers grounded tools, clear language, and a way to put your hand back on the dial when static hits. Join me as we reset our attention, re-author our inner script, and practice a sharper kind of gratitude that changes how we move through the day.If this resonated, follow the show, share it with a friend who needs a reset, and leave a quick review so more people can find it. Your notes and stories keep this community growing—what belief are you ready to rewrite?Support the showLove this content? Check out our links below for more!Linktr.ee ContentInstagramYouTubeJenny's LinkedIn
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Listening To Your Inner Thermometer
Send us Fan MailYour body knows when your life drifts off course—tight chest, restless mind, that ache in your throat you can’t name. We treat those feelings like data and show how to turn them into a compass for alignment, purpose, and practical next steps. I share the night I asked “Is this it?” at twenty-six and how that question sparked a ruthless life audit: rethinking friendships, habits, and what “success” should feel like from the inside. This isn’t about perfect morning routines or instant reinvention; it’s about small, honest moves that add up.We get real about community and energy. Friends either fuel your future or anchor you to the past, so we talk through choosing quality over quantity and why pruning your circle is not cruelty—it’s care. From there, we dig into adult development in a world that confuses scrolling with growth. I walk through starter tools like The Secret as a gateway to intention, then layer deeper practices: reading with purpose, tracking attention, and building skills by shipping messy first versions.Regret is the villain in this story, and we face it with a simple practice: follow the nudge. I break down how I test ideas—writing the mini business plan, exploring fully enough to reach a confident no or a grounded yes. We also talk sustainable growth without chasing viral chaos: tightening guest choices, protecting craft, and letting encouragement from real listeners guide the pace. If you’re feeling anxiety, sadness, or that low hum of “off,” consider this your sign to check your inner thermometer, take one brave step, and iterate. If this resonated, follow the show, share it with a friend who’s leveling up, and leave a quick review to help more women find their alignment.Support the showLove this content? Check out our links below for more!Linktr.ee ContentInstagramYouTubeJenny's LinkedIn
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Your Guest Bathroom Isn’t A Sephora, And That’s Okay
Send us Fan MailEver feel that calm rush when a restock video clicks into place, then realize your cart just doubled your grocery bill? We open up about the subtle shift from organizing for peace to buying for the camera—and how that shift is shaping our homes, budgets, and our kids’ expectations. What starts as tidy bins and color-coordinated snacks can morph into vanity hauls, boutique guest bathrooms, and a vibe that says love equals more.We trace the roots of this trend back to the pandemic, when screens became our window and creators turned their homes into sets. Aesthetic consistency exploded, and the message spread: stack fifteen backups, decant everything, and match every label. It looks serene, but it teaches a costly habit loop—purchase, display, repeat. We share where we’ve fallen for it too, from the thrill of The Home Edit to small moments with our twins asking for luxury gloss at eight years old. Instead of shame, we offer a path back to grounded living: finish what you have, backstock with intention, and buy to support your real routines, not an algorithm.You’ll hear practical scripts we use with our kids to decode marketing, navigate “wants” versus “needs,” and keep special moments special without normalizing luxury at a young age. We get honest about money trade-offs, why paid-off and modest often beats flashy and financed, and how “normal” life—repeating outfits, mismatched plates, non-aesthetic kitchens—can be deeply satisfying. This is a warm invitation to choose margin over merchandise, calm over carts, and a home that serves you, not your feed.If this resonated, share it with a friend who loves a tidy drawer but hates the pressure to perfect everything. Subscribe, leave a quick review, and tell us: what’s one purchase you’re pausing this month?Support the showLove this content? Check out our links below for more!Linktr.ee ContentInstagramYouTubeJenny's LinkedIn
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What If Success Starts With Silence Instead Of Striving
Send us Fan MailThe grind doesn’t always look like burnout; sometimes it looks like loving your job so much you forget yourself. After a week of being sick and “pushing through” from home, we unpack how easy it is to normalize always-on work, even when you lead a team and value healthy boundaries. That wake-up call led to a deeper reset: returning to meditation, reframing success around gratitude, and carving out a weekly pause inspired by Shabbat to protect presence, faith, and family.We open up about the shift from a misaligned role to a workplace that truly champions growth and how that joy quietly crowded out our rituals. The result was a slow slide from alignment to achievement mode—less “I’m grateful for this life” and more “what’s next.” We trace the personal consequences, from quiet internal panic to feeling distant at home, and then map the reboot: preparing Friday night to clear chores, creating a tech-light Saturday, and choosing simple, nourishing moments like cooking with attention, sewing with our kids, journaling, and a 30-minute meditation that resets the week.If a full day of rest feels impossible, we share practical ways to start small—blocking a four-hour no-tech window, naming a single boundary, and honoring it like your most important meeting. Along the way, you’ll hear about leadership that models rest, how gratitude shifts your energy from urgency to ease, and why presence is a strategy, not a luxury. Expect honest stories, actionable steps, and a gentle permission slip to build a life that’s both ambitious and aligned.If this resonated, follow the show, share it with a friend who needs a reset, and leave a quick review so more people can find these conversations. What hour will you protect this week?Support the showLove this content? Check out our links below for more!Linktr.ee ContentInstagramYouTubeJenny's LinkedIn
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Start Small, Live Long: Movement As A Lifelong Mindset
Send us Fan MailA single habit can protect your future mind. We dig into why daily walking—especially for women—delivers outsized benefits for memory, mood, and long-term cognitive health, and how to make it fit when your calendar is already bursting. Drawing on research around gray matter, hippocampal blood flow, and executive function, we connect the science to a simple routine you can actually stick to: walking during internal calls, short outdoor loops, and small strength add-ons when life allows.I share how an hour on a treadmill during morning meetings became my anchor, why that brain-scan image of intact gray matter at 85 changed my motivation, and how to push past the “it’s just walking” critique with data and lived results. We also get practical about barriers—childcare, commute timing, fatigue after heavy lifts—and the tools that lower friction, from an affordable walking pad to stacking steps with everyday tasks. If you’ve ever stalled out on a 5 a.m. gym plan, you’ll hear a kinder approach that still compounds: start where you are, keep it consistent, and let your identity shift toward “someone who moves.”By the end, you’ll have a realistic blueprint to boost processing speed, focus, creativity, sleep quality, and stress resilience without overhauling your life. We also look ahead to seasons when schedules open up and heavier training can layer in to support muscle and bone health. If you’re ready to trade all-or-nothing for always-something, press play and walk with us.If this conversation helped, follow the show, share it with a friend who needs a gentle nudge, and leave a quick review so more women can find practical strategies that protect their minds and time.Support the showLove this content? Check out our links below for more!Linktr.ee ContentInstagramYouTubeJenny's LinkedIn
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From Anxiety To Awareness: A Real Budget Reset
Send us Fan MailMoney fear can feel like static you can’t turn off—especially when bills, groceries, and surprise expenses pile up at once. We decided to stop flinching and start looking, and that choice changed everything: a short year-end audit, a clear monthly snapshot, and small habit swaps that cut anxiety without cutting all the joy.We walk through a practical breakdown of last year’s spending to spot the real leaks—housing and utilities as the big fixed block, groceries as the silent budget hog, and “convenience creep” from delivery apps and quick clicks. From there, we map a simple inflow-outflow view for the month: set non-negotiables first, give groceries a realistic number, and create a discretionary bucket you can feel. When the bucket’s empty, the decision is made—no guilt spiral, no guesswork. We talk about the tradeoffs that actually help: swapping delivery for pickup, using a discount grocery run, bulk-buying smart staples, and choosing when convenience is truly worth it.We also get honest about family spending. Kids grow fast; some buys are true needs. Others are just a scroll habit. The trick is reframing money as a tool that supports your season, not a scoreboard that fuels “bigger, shinier” wants. Auto-pay the essentials, set reminders for variables, and keep a “safe to spend” line you check once a day. That tiny routine eases late-night panic and turns planning into calm. Living below your means isn’t grim—it’s freedom. It makes room for savings, debt paydown, and future projects without the constant pressure.If money talk gives you knots in your chest, start small: do a quick 12-month lookback, pick one leak to shrink by 20 percent, and try two swaps this week that buy back cash without stealing time. Then tell us how it goes. If this resonated, follow the show, share it with a friend who needs a nudge, and leave a review so more people find these tools. Your next money decision can feel lighter—let’s make it happen.Support the showLove this content? Check out our links below for more!Linktr.ee ContentInstagramYouTubeJenny's LinkedIn
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When Knowledge Became Power For Women’s Health
Send us Fan MailThe story of women’s health is not a straight line—it’s a tug-of-war between power withheld and power reclaimed. We trace the path from being spoken about in exam rooms to being heard as full decision-makers, and we do it with clear language, lived experience, and a practical playbook you can use right now.We start with the roots: coverture laws that subsumed a married woman’s identity, a medical culture that labeled complex symptoms as “hysteria,” and practices like Twilight Sleep that erased consent during childbirth. From there, we follow the inflection points—contraception rights for married couples, then for everyone, and the rejection of spousal control over abortion decisions—that reframed care as a personal right. Alongside these legal shifts, the internet revolutionized access to information, turning symptom searches, patient forums, and journal articles into tools for informed choices. That change empowered many, but it also raised the stakes for credibility, context, and respectful dialogue with clinicians.We bring the history home with real talk about today’s gaps: lingering bias that dismisses pain as mood, recent rollbacks that make access dependent on geography, and the emotional labor of advocating when you’re unwell. To counter that, we share a step-by-step approach to self-advocacy: prepare a one-sentence chief concern, track symptoms with dates and impacts, ask for plain-language explanations and differentials, and request risks, benefits, and alternatives—including doing nothing. We honor trailblazers like Mary Edwards Walker, the only woman to receive the Medal of Honor, and Elizabeth Blackwell, who broke the medical school barrier and graduated at the top of her class, as proof that persistence shifts norms.If you care about women’s medical autonomy, shared decision-making, and practical strategies that make appointments more productive, this conversation offers history, context, and tools. Listen, take notes, and share it with someone who needs a boost before their next visit. Subscribe, leave a review to help others find the show, and tell us the one question you always ask your doctor.Support the showLove this content? Check out our links below for more!Linktr.ee ContentInstagramYouTubeJenny's LinkedIn
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A Practical Guide To Eating For Brain Health And Hormone Balance
Send us Fan MailBrain fog doesn’t have to rule your day. We dig into a practical, feel-good approach to women’s health in our 40s, showing how everyday foods can protect memory, smooth mood swings, and keep energy steady without complicated rules or bland meals. The focus is simple: add more of what your brain and hormones love, and let the rest fall into place.We walk through a brain-friendly pantry you can build this week—blueberries for memory, walnuts and omega-3s for focus, pumpkin seeds for clarity, spinach for folate, and green tea for graceful aging. You’ll hear how lentils stabilize energy without a crash and how kale earns a permanent spot on the grocery list, whether you toss it in a salad, sauté it with garlic, or juice it with apple. We also share easy, satisfying meals like a bright chickpea salad and a rich lentil soup powered by a quick sofrito that turns simple ingredients into comfort food.Midlife nutrition is more than macros. We talk about balancing higher protein with fiber and hydration to avoid constipation, getting calcium and vitamin D as estrogen declines, and spotting the patterns behind sugar slumps, pasta bloat, and coffee jitters. Instead of strict diets, we lean on small habits: weekend juicing, smart swaps for refined carbs, and honest check-ins with your body to see what truly helps. If you’re looking for a sustainable way to protect your brain and feel lighter in your skin, this conversation gives you tools you can actually use.If this resonated, follow the show, share it with a friend who needs a reset, and leave a quick review telling us your favorite brain-boosting food. Your feedback helps more women find practical support right when they need it.Support the showLove this content? Check out our links below for more!Linktr.ee ContentInstagramYouTubeJenny's LinkedIn
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How I Fought Brain Fog, Fatigue, And Fear Of Decline
Send us Fan MailThe calendar flipped to 2026 and the internet shouted “new year, new you,” but quick fixes don’t quiet the fear that hits when your thoughts disappear at the doorway. I talk candidly about the moment brain fog felt less like a joke and more like a warning, and how I refused to accept a slow drift into mediocre health. Instead of vague advice, I walk through what actually changed my day-to-day: getting real labs, addressing iron deficiency, stabilizing mood with SLIND, and building a supplement stack that keeps me clear, steady, and present.We get specific about what to prioritize in your 40s as hormones shift: protecting bone density with vitamin D and calcium, feeding your brain with omega-3s and B12, and using magnesium glycinate to support sleep, nerves, and—unexpectedly—reduce severe period pain linked to endometriosis. I share the backstory of nearly pursuing a hysterectomy, the surgical risks that gave me pause, and the surprising relief that came from consistent magnesium instead. If you’ve felt trapped between “just deal with it” and major interventions, this is the practical middle path.We also dig into a topic that doesn’t get enough airtime: vaginal and urinary health during perimenopause. Hormonal shifts change pH and microbiome balance, raising the risk of UTIs and yeast infections. I break down how a targeted women’s probiotic and cranberry support can prevent recurring issues and protect quality of life. Throughout, the focus stays on what you can control—testing, evidence-backed choices, and a plan that matches your body rather than internet noise.If you’re tired of feeling 60% human, press play and build your own maintenance plan for brain clarity, mood stability, and everyday strength. Subscribe, share this with a friend who needs real answers, and leave a review to tell me the one change you’re making this week.Support the showLove this content? Check out our links below for more!Linktr.ee ContentInstagramYouTubeJenny's LinkedIn
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Obesity, Food Choices, And Real Change
Send us Fan MailSome truths hit hard because they’re personal. I open up about crossing into severe obesity after having twins, the pain that made getting out of bed a struggle, and the string of diet attempts that didn’t work. The missing pieces weren’t just willpower—they were sleep, stress, and a food environment built on ultra-processed convenience that overrides hunger cues and keeps us stuck.We dig into why “it starts in the kitchen” isn’t a slogan but a strategy. I explain how calorie-dense, nutrient-poor foods undo gym efforts, and why sustainable weight loss begins with simple, repeatable meals you can make when you’re tired and short on time. We compare the American diet—heavy on soda, refined grains, processed meats, additives, and dyes—with European patterns that center fresh produce, legumes, fish, whole grains, olive oil, and slower, social eating. You’ll hear how some US ingredients are restricted abroad, why reformulated products exist in other countries, and what that means for your cart at home.This is a judgment-free, practical guide born from lived experience. We talk body positivity without denial, the real health risks of carrying excess weight, and the compounding power of small changes: one whole-food dinner a week, reading labels for added sugars and dyes, swapping deli meats for home-roasted protein, choosing seeded whole grains, and protecting sleep as a weight-loss lever. If you’re balancing kids, work, and a tight budget, you’ll get realistic ways to tip the odds back toward energy, mobility, and long-term health.If this conversation resonates, follow the show, share it with a friend who needs a boost, and leave a quick review with your biggest whole-food swap—you might inspire someone else’s first step.Support the showLove this content? Check out our links below for more!Linktr.ee ContentInstagramYouTubeJenny's LinkedIn
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Season Four Kick Off: Holiday Wrap Up and Fighting the Flu
Send us Fan MailA new season begins with a promise: keep it personal, practical, and rooted in community. We lay out the plan for the months ahead, including a monthly feature with our friend Kara as she navigates life with her son Nolan, who has KCNQ2. Treatment exists, but access is blocked by costs and coverage gaps, so we’re committing space and energy to amplify their story and keep the donation link front and center. If you’re new here, this is where advocacy meets everyday life—honest, direct, and built for action. I encourage you to take a few moments and visit the non profit that Kara has built, every penny counts towards changing someone's life --https://give.rarevillage.org/campaign/733811/donateFrom there we zoom out to the realities many families felt over the holidays. Sales were thin, budgets were tighter, and creative choices kept the season afloat—from Five Below finds to thoughtful, modest gifts. That financial picture sets the stage for a bigger conversation about health decisions, because money, stress, and time shape how families respond when the flu knocks on the door. We use our own household as a case study: two kids, flu A, and a careful approach to fever that prioritizes safety while recognizing the body’s natural defense.We break down the two schools of thought on fever management. One side argues for suppression to limit strain; the other treats fever as a protective response that deserves room to work. We chose close monitoring, hydration, cooling measures, and nutrition over automatic fever reducers—and watched the illness resolve in two days for each child. Along the way, we talk through guardrails: age, temperature thresholds, risk factors, and when to intervene. We also share what helped: cold-pressed juice with kale, pineapple, and apple; pineapple skin and ginger tea with manuka honey and hibiscus; and steady fluids and rest for everyone exposed.If you’re a parent weighing comfort against recovery speed, or an advocate looking to support families facing rare disease, you’ll find practical insights and a clear path to help. Subscribe, share this episode with a friend who needs it, and leave a review with your fever philosophy—we’d love to learn how you navigate these choices.Support the showLove this content? Check out our links below for more!Linktr.ee ContentInstagramYouTubeJenny's LinkedIn
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The Fight For What Is Possible: For Nolan. For Thomas. For What Comes Next.
Send us Fan MailHope is here, but time is critical. Nolan is eligible for a groundbreaking, individualized treatment, and the final barrier is funding. Your donation today directly supports access to care that could change Nolan's life and ease the daily reality for his family and others. Give now. Every moment counts. --> https://give.rarevillage.org/campaign/733811/donateWe move from Nolan’s early journey into the present. We talk plainly about hypervigilance, sibling grief, community support, and the funding gap for N-of-one trials.• What ASO is and how it targets RNA to silence a bad copy• Why Nolan’s KCNQ2 variant is ultra-rare and high risk• Trial gains from a potassium channel opener and current limits• Daily caregiving realities, suctioning, feeding and dystonia• Hypervigilance as a permanent state for caregivers• The emotional load on siblings and lost moments• Goals that matter most, vision, purposeful movement, connection• How n-Lorem provides the drug and why delivery still needs funds• NP Believe via Rare Village as the donation pathway• Building awareness to help other nano-rare familiesSupport the showLove this content? Check out our links below for more!Linktr.ee ContentInstagramYouTubeJenny's LinkedIn
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No Manual, No Map: The Start of a Rare Disease Journey
Send us Fan MailNolan’s future depends on what we do right now. Kara has fought relentlessly to get her son to this moment. Your support, whether large or small, helps turn scientific hope into real treatment for Nolan and stability for his family. Please donate today --> https://give.rarevillage.org/campaign/733811/donateWe break hiatus to share Kara’s story of Nolan’s birth, crisis, and the fight to turn rare disease from a verdict into a plan. From induced coma and surgical hurdles to N-Lorem, we trace how a parent can move science toward real impact.• Nolan’s traumatic birth, seizures, and NICU coma care• Genetic diagnosis and first-line seizure strategies• G tube placement, hip reconstruction, and line infections• Ketogenic diet benefits and a rare, severe complication• PICU admission with anemia, scurvy, rickets, and recovery• ACTH trials, status seizures, and EEG realities• Family resilience, sibling empathy, and community support• The turn to ASO and CRISPR for KCNQ2• N-Lorem acceptance and current progress• Reflection pause and preview of part two airing WednesdayTake care and thank you for joining usSupport the showLove this content? Check out our links below for more!Linktr.ee ContentInstagramYouTubeJenny's LinkedIn
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You Cannot Do Everything, So Choose What Matters Today
Send us Fan MailWe talk about why “doing it all” breaks us and how to build grace into busy seasons. We then share Nolan’s story, a child with KCNQ2, and the urgent campaign to fund personalized therapy that could change his life.• myth of having it all and why it harms• using grace as a daily practice• setting priorities across family, job, and podcast• planning hard weeks and asking for help• Shonda Rhimes’ truth about trade-offs• Nolan’s diagnosis and what KCNQ2 means• personalized ASO therapy and quality of life• why funding is needed and how to support• sharing the donor link and spreading awarenessPlease message me if you know an organization that’d be willing to donate. I’m going to link the donor page in the description—even a small amount helps.https://give.rarevillage.org/campaign/733811/donateSupport the showLove this content? Check out our links below for more!Linktr.ee ContentInstagramYouTubeJenny's LinkedIn
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You must look inward first before you can look outward
Send us Fan MailIf dating feels like déjà vu, you’re not cursed—you’re unaligned. We open up about the inner work that makes healthy love possible, from naming your nonnegotiables to stepping off the hamster wheel of “fast and easy” connections. Instead of explaining away mixed signals, we walk through simple, honest ways to read priorities, set boundaries that stick, and protect your energy for people who show up with consistency.We get personal about the tug-of-war between a traditional home life and a driven career, and how to integrate those desires without shrinking either one. You’ll hear why taking a year-long pause from dating can be a powerful reset, not a setback—freeing up attention for journaling, meditation, affirmations, and visualization that sharpen your vision of partnership. We talk practical frameworks for clarity: defining the daily life you want, mapping how you handle conflict and money, and choosing routines that reflect your values.This conversation is a gentle push to trade intensity for steadiness and potential for proof. When your standards and your actions finally match, mismatched options fall away and the right person recognizes you faster. If you’re ready to stop settling, realign your choices, and build love that lasts, press play and join us. If a line here hits home, share it with a friend, subscribe for more grounded conversations, and leave a review with the one boundary you’re committing to next.Support the showLove this content? Check out our links below for more!Linktr.ee ContentInstagramYouTubeJenny's LinkedIn
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If you’re ready to lead without fear, grow on purpose, and find rooms that value your talent, press play
Send us Fan MailForget the myth that leadership means being the loudest voice in the room. We share a raw, funny, and practical journey from crash-and-burn manager to a leader who lifts, protects, and empowers. If you’ve ever had a boss who dumped everything on your desk at 5 p.m., you’ll recognize the old model—and you’ll get a blueprint for doing the opposite.We start with early missteps: mistaking a title for freedom, delegating without accountability, and learning what happens when you disappear on your team. Then we pivot to a new model built on service with standards: learning your team’s jobs well enough to backfill them, defending quality under pressure, and turning skepticism into trust with consistent action. Expect concrete examples of covering vacations, safeguarding clients, and translating values into daily behaviors that actually scale.Career growth is a thread throughout. We lay out a simple three-year cadence: master your role in year one, expand your impact in year two, and advocate for title and pay in year three. You’ll hear how to build receipts—revenue influenced, projects delivered, risk mitigated—and how to spot red flags like goalposts that move, gaslighting, or surveillance disguised as feedback. When the answer is always “not now,” we explain how to exit with clarity and momentum. This is a playbook for women navigating agencies and beyond, blending candid stories with tactics you can use tomorrow.If you’re ready to lead without fear, grow on purpose, and find rooms that value your talent, press play. Subscribe, share this with a friend who needs a push, and leave a review with the best leadership lesson you’ve learned. Your story might help someone else step up.Support the showLove this content? Check out our links below for more!Linktr.ee ContentInstagramYouTubeJenny's LinkedIn
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Rethinking Three Meals A Day
Send us Fan MailWhat if the rule of breakfast, lunch, and dinner was built for the clock, not your body? We take a hard look at the cultural origins of three meals a day, why that script became so dominant, and how a smarter approach to meal timing can improve energy, mood, and long-term health. Along the way, we unpack research on meal frequency, fasting windows, and the surprising backstory behind the 2,000-calorie “standard” that shaped nutrition labels more than it shaped wellbeing.We share personal results with intermittent fasting, from weight stability and better focus to improved blood sugar and fewer afternoon crashes. Then we zoom out to the science: conflicting studies on high-frequency eating, new perspectives linking more frequent meals to higher disease risk, and the pivotal role of fasting duration between meals. Rather than a one-size-fits-all rule, we walk through variables that actually matter—food quality, circadian timing, and the sequence of what you eat—plus why a protein-forward first meal after a fast often beats a carb-heavy start.If you’ve ever felt trapped by food rules, this conversation gives you permission and tools to experiment. You’ll hear practical guidance on building a 14–16 hour fasting window, testing different first meals, and listening to data from your own body: energy, satiety, mood, and simple health markers. We also tackle myths around meat, processed foods, and the marketing that shapes our habits more than our hunger. Question the norms, keep what works, and rewrite the parts that don’t.Enjoy the episode, then tell us how you structure your day: How many meals serve you best, and what’s your ideal first bite after a fast? If this resonated, follow the show, share it with a friend, and leave a quick review so more listeners can find it.Support the showLove this content? Check out our links below for more!Linktr.ee ContentInstagramYouTubeJenny's LinkedIn
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Find Your Center and Find Your Excellence
Send us Fan MailEver feel your mornings run you instead of the other way around? We’ve been there—work piling up, kids home, routines slipping—until the day we chose a gentler restart. Today we share a candid update on parenting getting easier as kids grow more independent and how that small shift opened the door to rebuilding our inner calm with a practical morning ritual you can actually keep.We walk through The Miracle Morning by Hal Elrod—found through the always-inspiring Kathy Heller—and break down the SAVERS method: Silence, Affirmations, Visualization, Exercise, Reading, and Scribing. No perfection required. We show you how to scale it to five-minute blocks, how to shrink the routine on hard days without breaking it, and why momentum matters more than motivation. You’ll hear how simple practices like a minute of breathing, a single empowering statement, or one page of reading can steady your focus, mood, and confidence.Along the way, we talk about the people who shape our ceilings—why you truly are the average of your closest five—and how to audit your inputs across friends, feeds, and self-talk. We take aim at self-fulfilling prophecies, fear, and imposter syndrome with practical language shifts and tiny actions that restore agency. If you’ve been waiting for a clean slate or a New Year to start fresh, consider this your nudge: ritual beats resolution, and the best day to begin is the next morning you wake up.Press play, pick one micro-step, and start tomorrow. If this spoke to you, subscribe, share with a friend who loves a good reset, and leave a quick review to help more women find their voice and their morning.Support the showLove this content? Check out our links below for more!Linktr.ee ContentInstagramYouTubeJenny's LinkedIn
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A Struggling Rose Taught Me To Breathe, Cut Back, And Live Fully
Send us Fan MailUnleash Her: The Next Chapter BeginsA single rose stem fought through shade, found the light, and bloomed anyway—and that small miracle became our guide for how women can cut back, take space, and grow stronger roots. We read the final excerpt from Unleash Her: The Next Chapter Begins and turn a backyard discovery into a vivid blueprint for choosing yourself without apology.We start with the moment everyone said to rip out the “ugly” stem and replace it with something neat. Instead, we trimmed the overgrowth, waited, and watched the stem push new branches until it needed a bigger stake to hold the weight of its own success. That journey mirrors so many lives: suffocated by roles, starving for sunlight, still producing a bloom or two to prove we’re fine. We explore why pruning obligations is not loss but leverage, how boundaries invite breath, and where practical support—mentors, partners, better systems—turns fragile progress into lasting change.From there, we go deeper on voice. If your calendar is choking your spirit, clarity is oxygen: ask for what you need at work, at home, and within yourself. We share language for clean requests, discuss how to anchor growth as opportunities expand, and talk about the moment when your branches lean with the weight of new wins. Finally, we widen the lens to sisterhood. The chorus of me too grows louder each year, and that solidarity is the trellis that keeps us upright while we bloom. If you’re ready to stop shrinking and start thriving, this conversation is your stake in the ground.Want a signed copy of Unleash Her? We’re gifting five to listeners who message mailing details on LinkedIn or Instagram. If this story resonates, follow, share with a friend who needs it, and leave a quick review—your words help more women find the light.Support the showLove this content? Check out our links below for more!Linktr.ee ContentInstagramYouTubeJenny's LinkedIn
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My Anxiety Thinks It’s My Boss; I Gave It A Pink Slip
Send us Fan MailUnleash Her: The Next Chapter BeginsWhat if the voice telling you you’re not ready is just noise—and you could learn to turn the volume down? We open the pages of Unleash Her and read an excerpt that cuts straight to the heart of imposter syndrome, the late-night spiral that convinces capable women to shrink. From becoming a homeowner to leading at work, I share how doubt tried to rewrite my story and the simple, repeatable steps I use to reclaim it.We talk about the gap between facts and feelings—the daylight evidence of competence versus the midnight reel of “I’m a fraud.” I walk through my nightly reset: naming the pattern, checking the proof, and deciding whether the fear is a signal that calls for new skills or just noise that needs to pass. You’ll hear practical strategies for building confidence on purpose, including micro-prep routines, evidence lists, and a shift from perfection to precision that makes progress sustainable at home and at work.This is a short, focused conversation that blends a personal origin story with tools you can use tonight. If responsibility has landed on your desk, that’s not an accident—it’s a vote of confidence you can grow into. Let these pages remind you who you already are, and let the next chapter begin on your terms: with clarity, courage, and a steady voice. If the excerpt resonates, grab the book, share this episode with a friend who needs it, and leave a quick review so others can find it. Your story is worth the page—ready to turn it?Support the showLove this content? Check out our links below for more!Linktr.ee ContentInstagramYouTubeJenny's LinkedIn
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My Laptop Didn’t Come To Lunch, And Neither Did The Guilt
Send us Fan MailUnleash Her: The Next Chapter BeginsWhat happens when the habit everyone applauds slowly empties you out? We open up about growing up with a self-sacrifice script, chasing a career while raising kids, and the silent resentment that builds when rest is always last on the list. The story moves from the 9-to-5-to-2 a.m. grind to a gentle, grounded reset: morning rituals that actually stick, boundaries that protect both family and focus, and one surprisingly luxurious act of self-care that cost nothing but time.You’ll hear the honest timeline of burnout—how “doing it all” became doing too much—and why sustainable ambition asks for seasons, support, and clear limits. We talk about redefining progress beyond hours worked, trading performative productivity for presence, and learning to trust your value without midnight emails. There’s also a behind-the-scenes look at Unleash Her, the anthology featuring powerful stories from women who chose a different path, and how those voices helped build Still Roses and its mission to elevate women’s experiences.If you’ve ever felt guilty for resting or felt praised for running on empty, this conversation offers a practical path back to yourself. Expect real-life tools: a simple morning routine, permission to drop or delegate, and language for setting expectations at work and at home. Plus, a listener giveaway for the first five who message us for a copy of the book. If this resonates, share it with a friend who needs the reminder, tap follow to stay close to the journey, and leave a review to help more women find their way back to time that truly feeds the soul.Support the showLove this content? Check out our links below for more!Linktr.ee ContentInstagramYouTubeJenny's LinkedIn
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When You Change The Question, You Change The Outcome
Send us Fan MailEver notice how the plans you waited years to achieve can feel misaligned the moment they arrive? We get honest about that awkward middle—holding a long‑earned job while craving creative momentum—and unpack how a small shift in thinking can unlock big results without burning out.We start by naming the control trap and why trusting timing is hard when you’re used to managing every detail. From there, we reframe goals by changing the math behind them, drawing on a vivid example about raffling value and a proven story from Jack Canfield: break big targets into units you can actually influence. Instead of chasing one perfect win, multiply smaller wins you can repeat—price, volume, cadence, and channels. That lens powers a fresh approach to podcast growth too. If each episode earns predictable downloads, then consistent output becomes a lever for discovery and a path toward monetization, even when time is tight.Along the way, we talk practical systems: simplify production, ship more often, and measure what matters—weekly downloads, completion rates, and saves—so your next move is guided by data, not guesswork. We also dig into the emotional side: how to honor a career you pursued for sixteen years while nurturing a two‑year creative calling, and how to pivot without abandoning your values. The takeaway is simple and liberating: ask better questions. How else could you reach the number? What can you do less of to get more? Where is the workaround hiding?We wrap with a preview of next week’s readings from a new anthology featuring powerful stories by women authors, plus details on links and giveaways for loyal listeners. If this conversation sparked a new way to measure your goals, subscribe, share with a friend who needs momentum, and leave a quick review to tell us what mindset shift you’re trying next.Support the showLove this content? Check out our links below for more!Linktr.ee ContentInstagramYouTubeJenny's LinkedIn
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I Skipped Intermittent Fasting, Drank Alcohol, And My Body Protested
Send us Fan MailA simple weekend slip turned into a wake-up call. After letting intermittent fasting drift, leaning on late-night snacks, and saying yes to back-to-back drinks, the fatigue hit like a wall—stealing precious hours meant for family and fresh air. Rather than chalk it up to a bad day, we zoom in on what really changed and why midlife bodies respond faster and louder to small choices.We walk through the chain reaction: how alcohol fragments sleep and stirs late-night hunger, how refined carbs spike and crash energy, and how perimenopause shifts magnify these effects. From there, we rebuild with practical, compassionate steps. Think: recommitting to a realistic fasting window, front-loading protein and fiber, closing the kitchen earlier, and choosing whole foods that keep blood sugar steady. If you eat meat, we talk quality and balance. If you’re plant-forward, we share anchors that satisfy without inviting the 10 p.m. pantry tour. No fear, no shame—just data you can use tomorrow.Along the way, we share the mindset that keeps momentum: quick audits when fatigue flares, small course corrections instead of crash diets, and simple weekend systems that protect your energy. The message is clear and empowering: your 40s and 50s aren’t a cliff; they’re a feedback loop. Listen to the signals, adjust your plate and timing, and reclaim the hours that matter most. If you’ve felt that surprise nap creeping in, this conversation gives you the tools to push back with grace.If this resonates, tap follow, share with a friend who’s navigating perimenopause or energy slumps, and leave a quick review to help more women find these tools. Your story might be the nudge someone else needs today.Support the showLove this content? Check out our links below for more!Linktr.ee ContentInstagramYouTubeJenny's LinkedIn
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A Honest Month-One Check-In On Slynd
Send us Fan MailWe share a car-recorded throwback, a trunk-or-treat line that tested patience, and a candid month-one update on Slynd: headaches, breakthrough bleeding, and why we’re staying the course for hormonal stability. The goal is a steadier baseline for moods, more presence with our kids, and practical steps when symptoms test resolve.• car recording as a nod to early seasons• small parenting wins that shift perspective• handling irritation and edge days with grace• week-by-week Slind adjustment and headaches• breakthrough bleeding and longer cycles explained• doctor guidance on sticking through the first months• coping tools for PMS rage, anxiety and dark days• defining safety lines and tracking trends over days• commitment to updates and honest testimonySupport the showLove this content? Check out our links below for more!Linktr.ee ContentInstagramYouTubeJenny's LinkedIn
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What If You Don’t Need To Be A Perfect Mother
Send us Fan MailWe explore the many faces of mom guilt after a busy stretch and trade perfection for presence, repair, and rest. Simple one-on-one rituals and low-pressure learning games turn limited time into real connection.• balancing work and motherhood during busy weeks• one-on-one time as an antidote to guilt• turning games into low-pressure learning• choosing presence over recording memories• naming guilt types and why they persist• asking for help and protecting rest• honest apologies and emotional repair with kids• accepting tradeoffs without chasing perfectionSupport the showLove this content? Check out our links below for more!Linktr.ee ContentInstagramYouTubeJenny's LinkedIn
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I Scheduled Sunrise, Sandwiches, And Laundry — Guess Which Won
Send us Fan MailWe open with a packed weekend and a candid look at what balance really means when a career doesn’t fit into nine to five. We share practical ways to set timelines, accept imperfection, and rebuild routines after a busy season without guilt.• difference between a job and a career for mothers• kids’ honest read on parental stress and pride• grace as a tool for imperfect days• planning a day around tradeoffs that fit values• communicating time-bound busy seasons at home• leaning on a strong team to make work meaningful• realistic meals and shortcuts that protect sanity• rebalancing health basics like water, sleep, movement• returning from crunch time with small, steady habits• encouragement for women working, studying, and parentingKeep at it, keep up with it, and I will catch you on the next oneSupport the showLove this content? Check out our links below for more!Linktr.ee ContentInstagramYouTubeJenny's LinkedIn
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How many bad days until we demand better?
Send us Fan MailWe tell a raw, clear story about early perimenopause, the “dark cloud” weeks that shook our home, and the decision to push for medical help after lifestyle changes weren’t enough. We share how cycle tracking, food choices, and advocacy led to a progesterone-only plan and a commitment to speak up.• early signs and confusion with anemia• food triggers, whole foods, and energy stability• cycle tracking to predict mood shifts• the breaking-point weekend and recovery• deciding not to accept only 23 good days• advocating at the appointment and pressing for care• starting SLYND (progesterone-only) and supportive steps• naming hard symptoms: dryness, libido changes, nausea• inviting partners and kids into the plan• ending stigma and refusing silent sufferingMake time, prioritize. I will continue to let you know how things are going on my side. I would love for you guys to be with me on this part of the journey because it is something that is so poorly documented and is just not talked about enough.Support the showLove this content? Check out our links below for more!Linktr.ee ContentInstagramYouTubeJenny's LinkedIn
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Proactive Parenting in a Reactive World
Send us Fan MailWe open up about the awkward but necessary work of setting boundaries with other parents, teachers, and kids’ friends to keep our children safe online and offline. We share proactive scripts, red flags to watch for, and how to hold firm without starting a fight.• weekend check‑in and why boundaries are top of mind• different household rules and respectful alignment• giving teachers permission to share concerns• how to raise issues with other parents calmly• red flags around body safety and inappropriate behavior• online gaming norms, monitoring, and group texts• simple scripts that reduce conflict and set standards• teaching kids their own body and voice boundaries• choosing supervision, limits, or pauses when trust is shaky• ending with a clear, simple message parents can send today“Hey, I know our kids are friends—please reach out anytime if you hear something, and I’ll do the same.”Support the showLove this content? Check out our links below for more!Linktr.ee ContentInstagramYouTubeJenny's LinkedIn
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
Steel Roses is a podcast created for women by women. Social pressures for women are constant. Professionals, stay at home moms, working moms, we are here to tell you that you are not alone! This podcasts primary focus is providing real honest content shedding light on the daily struggles of women while also elevating women's voices. All women are experiencing similar pressures and hurdles, and yet, no one is talking out in the open. If these topics continue to only exist as whispered conversations then we further permeate a culture of judgement and shame. Join Jenny weekly as she discusses topics that effect women in a relatable, honest way.
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Jenny Benitez
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