Stop Trying to Be Spiritual

If you feel energy constantly like tingles, pressure, chills, emotional waves, heart openings, chakra activation, or electricity moving through your body, this episode will help you understand what’s actually happening. How do you know if it’s your intuition, spirit guides, psychic information, your own energy, or simply the energy around you? In this episode, I break down energetic discernment and psychic development so you can stop second guessing yourself and start understanding how your intuitive language works. We talk about: • Why sensitive people often feel overwhelmed energetically • The importance of knowing your baseline energy • How to clear energy that isn’t yours • Why people confuse intuition with external energy • Learning the energetic signature of your spirit guides • Psychic discernment and energetic boundaries • Understanding chakra sensations and energetic movement • Why not every energetic feeling carries a deep message I also share how I teach students inside Awaken and mentorship to connect with their guides, recognize energetic patterns, understand psychic information, move energy through the body, and trust what they’re receiving without spiraling into fear or confusion. If you’ve ever wondered, “Am I intuitive or am I just overwhelmed?” this episode is for you. Work with me: Spirit Connector Sessions- HERE + Mentorship Container- HERE If this episode resonated, leave a rating and share it with someone navigating their spiritual awakening. Until next time, stop trying to be spiritual. Just be it.      

You keep asking your intuition for guidance. You pull tarot cards. You meditate. You ask your guides. And you're still waiting for a clear answer. But here's the truth: You're not confused. You already know the answer. You're just waiting for it to feel good/safe. In this episode, I'm calling out the real reason your intuition feels unclear - and it has nothing to do with your psychic abilities. We cover: Why you're asking the wrong question ("should I stay?" vs. "what do I want?") The two opposing forces fighting in your intuition (soul vs. fear) Why you want your guides to make you feel better instead of telling you the truth How fear blocks you from receiving higher guidance Why following your intuition is painful (and that's actually the point) The difference between being dragged through the storm vs. choosing to walk through it If you've been waiting for your intuition to tell you something that doesn't require you to change anything - this episode will shake you awake.   Spirit Connector Sessions - HERE 1:1 Mentorship - HERE

Why do the same painful patterns keep showing up in your life? Why do certain people betray you in ways that feel cosmically orchestrated? Why can't you shift some relationships no matter how hard you try? Soul contracts. In this episode, I'm breaking down what soul contracts actually are, how they show up in your life, and why some experiences are destined to happen even when you see them coming. We cover: What soul contracts are (and how I see them in the Akashic Records) Why certain people are contracted to create upheaval in your life How your astrology shows your soul's contractual themes (North Node/South Node) When you CAN shift a contract vs. when you can't My personal story: how my council warned me 3 times about a destined betrayal Why painful experiences are often initiations into your next level If you keep attracting the same patterns, the same types of people, the same painful experiences - this isn't random. Your soul chose this. And understanding WHY changes everything. AWAKEN Course (just started, can still join through May 3-4) - HERE 1:1 Mentorship - HERE 

You feel like you are seeing random images but discounting them because they don't make sense to you. You think you're making it up. But you're actually sitting on a gold mine of intuitive information - you just don't know how to read it yet. In this episode, I'm breaking down the hidden language of clairvoyant symbols and how to actually decipher what your intuition is telling you. We cover: Why symbols show up confusing (and how to decode them) The difference between universal symbols and personal symbols How to ask for more symbols when you're stuck Why clairvoyance needs other psychic abilities to work The curiosity practice that unlocks symbol reading Real examples from my sessions  If you're seeing images but thinking "this is random, I'm making it up" - this episode will change how you receive. AWAKEN Course (enrolling now, starts April 28) - AWAKENJULY2025 1:1 Mentorship - Mentorship. — Laila Taylor  

If you have a Higher Self, why connect with spirit guides? If your intuition isn't your spirit guide, what is it? Why can't you find your spirit guide after trying for years? In this Q&A episode, I'm answering the questions you've been sending me about Higher Self, spirit guides, intuition, and how to actually connect with clarity. We cover: Higher Self vs spirit guides (and why you'd choose one over the other) Why you can't find your spirit guide (and the 3 things you're missing) How to ask better questions in readings (so you don't get vague answers) What your intuition actually is (it's not your spirit guide) Why reading celebrities' energy online is unethical and dangerous If you've been confused about how all this works or frustrated because you're "not connecting" - this episode clears it up. All roads lead to Rome. You just need to know which road you're taking.   AWAKEN Course (enrolling now, starts end of April) - HERE 1:1 Mentorship - HEREPodcast Newsletter - HERE

You want to trust your intuition. But every time you try to connect, you're already frustrated with yourself. "I'm not there yet. This should be easier by now." Here's the thing: your shadow, body, and inner child are showing up because you created them to keep you safe. And you're treating them like enemies instead of teachers. This episode is about why you keep bulldozing the parts of yourself that need compassion and why that's the exact thing blocking your intuition. We cover: The symbolic trinity: shadow, body, inner child Why "I've done the work for years" usually means information without embodiment How being harsh creates success in life but blocks spiritual connection What your body is holding that you think you've processed Why meeting resistance with curiosity IS your intuitive practice If you're frustrated and feel like you should be "there" by now this is for you. AWAKEN (enrolling till end of April) - AWAKENJULY2025 Spirit Connector Sessions & Mentorship - Mentorship. — Laila Taylor Follow me on IG/ TikTok - @laila.l.taylor

You're not making it up. Your guides ARE talking to you. You just don't trust it yet. In this episode, I'm breaking down why you feel disconnected from your spirit guides (spoiler: it's not them, it's your energy field) and exactly how to build an actual relationship with them. We're covering: Why asking yes/no questions kills the flow How to create an "energetic signature" for each guide The practice I do daily to stay connected (even with 3 kids and zero time) Why talking to your guides OUT LOUD changes everything How to know if it's your guide or just your mind If you've been frustrated thinking your guides aren't showing up for you - this episode will shift everything. Your guides aren't MIA. We just need to create the relationship, first. MENTIONED: 1:1 Mentorship - Mentorship. — Laila Taylor Spirit Connector Sessions -Spirit Connector Sessions — Laila Taylor Awaken Course (enrolling now for 4/27) - AWAKENJULY2025

Episode 84, we talk about why everyone should be developing their psychic abilities and how to practically use them.  You don’t develop psychic abilities to become a psychic. You develop them to understand yourself Your intuition is how you: feel, know, hear, and see what’s really going on inside of you. Most people feel confused because they don’t have the language for that. So, they look outside of themselves for answers, but your psychic abilities are what bring you back to you. AWAKEN is open for it's 4th LIVE round at the end of April. Early enrollment discount until 3/31 using code: POD15 at checkout. Check out AWAKEN HERE Laila  www.lailataylor.com / @laila.l.taylor   

  When your mind is racing & you are feeling like "Spirit tell me what to do" The answer is going to come, by doing something different than pulling a tarot card or asking for another. The 'need' to have it answered, is a sign for all of us, that we are disconnected from our truth.  In this episode I'm breaking down why over-questioning is actually a symptom of disconnection and what to do instead. In this episode: Why having a lot of questions means your mind has taken over What actually happens in your energy when you're desperately seeking answers Why getting the answer you wanted rarely satisfies the fear underneath it The paradox at the heart of spiritual connection How to move from desperate questioning into genuine intuitive clarity If you've ever felt like you're doing everything right but still can't get clear. This one will reframe everything. The Awaken course opens end of April -early access and special discount for podcast listeners linked below. Info on Awaken Course HERE use code: POD15 for 15% off till 3/31 Mentorship info HERE. Session info HERE.  Until next time. Stop trying to be spiritual. Just be it.

 You have a gift. You feel it moving through you. But the moment you think about letting someone see, something stops you. Not because the gift isn't real. Because being seen feels dangerous. This is one of the most common things I witness in my clients, my mentorship students, and honestly in myself. The ability is there. The connection is there. But somewhere between receiving and sharing, fear shows up and you pull back. In this episode I sit down with Caitlin — a woman who had been quietly receiving guidance and writing it down, too afraid to share it with anyone but her husband. Together we work through what's actually underneath that fear, meet her main guide, and watch what happens when she stops asking for permission. This is a live spirit connector session. You will find yourself in it somewhere. In this episode: Why your gifts feel real in private but terrifying in public What's actually underneath the fear of being seen How to feel and identify your spirit guide's energy The difference between asking for permission and asking for guidance What shifts when you stop hiding and start moving If you've been sitting on something — a gift, a message, a knowing and you can't quite let yourself go there yet. This one is for you. Mentorship + courses are linked below if you're ready to move through your next level with structure and support. Mentorship info HERE. Session info HERE. How to Actually Change your Life course HERE. Until next time. Stop trying to be spiritual. Just be it.  

You don’t feel fear because you’re off track. You feel fear because something is about to change. Right before a new timeline becomes real.Right before you’re seen differently, paid differently, living differently. Your nervous system reacts. Doubt gets loud. Your body tightens. Your mind starts questioning everything. In this episode, I break down: • Why fear increases at the edge of expansion • The difference between true misalignment and growth • The “threshold” most women retreat at • How to meet fear without abandoning your calling Creating a new reality for yourself isn’t just visualizing and waiting. It requires identity shifts. It requires bravery. It requires walking through the moment your old self wants to turn back. If you’ve been standing at the edge of something bigger.This will help you understand why it suddenly feels harder. Mentorship + courses are linked below if you’re ready to move through your next level with structure and support. Mentorship info HERE.  Session info HERE. How to Actually Change your Life course HERE Until next time. Stop trying to be spiritual.

If you don’t know what your own energy feels like, it becomes almost impossible to trust your intuition, psychic abilities, or guidance. In this episode, I break down the real reason intuitive people feel confused, overwhelmed, or unsure of what they’re receiving and why it has less to do with your abilities and more to do with the energy in your field. You’ll learn simple, grounded practices to clear your energy, call your power back, and create the inner stability that makes intuitive connection feel natural instead of chaotic. This is energetic hygiene not spiritual fluff.  In this episode, we cover: • Why empaths absorb energy (and how it distorts perception) • Emotional vs physical empath responses • Why intuition feels unreliable when your field isn’t clear • How to call your energy back from the past and future • Strengthening your aura and energetic boundaries • Grounding techniques for overwhelm and anxiety • The “energy shower” practice to release what isn’t yours • Why clarity comes from stability, not intensity If you want deeper support, grab the free guide below. 🔗 Reclaim Your Power Guide: Grab the FREE guide here 🔗 Work with me 1:1: Mentorship 🔗 Spirit Connector Sessions: Session info 

If you’re sensitive to energy but your intuition doesn’t always feel clear or accessible when you want it to, this episode will show you why. Your channel doesn’t open through trying harder. It opens through your energy. In this episode, I walk you through what actually blocks your channel, why emotional and energetic patterns affect your ability to receive, and what truly allows your connection to become clear, grounded, and consistent. This is the shift that changes everything from occasional moments of clarity to a reliable, embodied connection. Ways to work with me: Spirit Connector SessionSpirit Connector Sessions — Laila Taylor Spirit-Led Intuitive ReadingSpirit Led Intuitive Sessions — Laila Taylor 3-Month MentorshipMentorship   Follow the show and share this episode with someone ready to open their intuition & start channeling. Stop trying to be spiritual

One of the biggest causes of human suffering is disconnection from your soul, your intuition, and the part of you where the Divine speaks through you. In this episode, I’m talking about what happens when we outsource our truth to institutions, relationships, other people’s opinions, and the version of ourselves we think we need to be to be loved. That severance creates shame, self-abandonment, exhaustion and a life that doesn’t feel like yours. We’ll explore: • Why “looking outside yourself” creates spiritual confusion • How control, fear of being wrong, and conditioning block self-trust • Why intuitive development is only level one and shadow integration is the work • The parts you’ve locked away that are holding your power • How to reconnect to your knowing and become your own authority This is for the woman who’s tired of performing, tired of searching, and ready to come back to herself not as a concept, but as a lived reality. Listen now and let this be your permission slip to stop conceding your truth to anyone outside of you. Check out the 'How to Actually Change your Life' course and use code- Divine20 for 20% off for podcast listeners.  If you love this podcast, please follow & rate to help others find this podcast too! Until next time, stop trying to be spiritual.

Intuition doesn’t develop in a straight line, and it isn’t meant to feel the same every time. In this episode, I explain why intuitive guidance can feel inconsistent as you develop it, and how that shift is part of learning self-trust rather than a sign of disconnection. We cover: • Why intuition operates on a spectrum • The difference between intensity and accuracy • How daily ritual builds reliability instead of dependency • How conditioning and control interfere with intuitive trust • Why mature intuition integrates into everyday life This conversation is for women developing their intuition for themselves or in service to others who want a grounded, sustainable relationship with their intuitive abilities. Book a 1:1 Spirit Connector session and let's work on channeling your intuition with clarity-Appointments 3 — Laila Taylor Until next time — stop trying to be spiritual.

If you’ve ever felt too emotional, too intense, or like parts of you needed to be hidden in order to be accepted — this episode is for you. In this conversation, I’m joined by Lisa Brogi, licensed therapist and astrologer known as The Lilith Therapist, to explore how astrology can be used as a powerful tool for healing, self-understanding, and reclaiming personal power. We talk about: • Black Moon Lilith and why she represents the parts of you that were exiled or shamed • How your Moon, Chiron, Saturn, and rising sign reveal emotional needs and survival patterns • The connection between shadow work, therapy, and astrology • Why compassion and curiosity not fixing are what actually create healing This episode is about bringing the hidden parts of yourself back into wholeness. Without spiritual bypassing, and without shame. Check out Lisa's offerings here: Pink Moon Therapy // California Astrology Oriented Online Therapy Or follow on TikTok HERE Until next time: stop trying to be spiritual.

Most people are trying to connect to their intuition in ways that keep them second-guessing themselves. They pull cards. Ask for signs. Worry they’re being deceived. And never feel fully grounded or clear. In this episode, I break down what spirit guides actually are, how they communicate, and why learning to connect from within not through fear, tools, or external authority...changes everything. I share: Why spirit guides are one of the most underutilized resources in spiritual awakening The difference between guides, angels, higher self, and loved ones in spirit How fear and unintegrated shadow shut down intuition Why your guides don’t command you and what it means if you think they are How to start trusting what you receive instead of questioning it This conversation is about sovereignty, discernment, and embodied spiritual connection not spiritual hierarchy or blind belief. If you’re ready to stop outsourcing your intuition and start trusting yourself, this episode is for you. Let's work 1:1 on your spiritual abilities: Mentorship Until next time: Stop trying to be spiritual.

If 2025 felt like an ending you didn’t ask for… you’re not imagining it. In this episode of Stop Trying to Be Spiritual, I’m joined again by Courtney Taylor (numerologist + psychic) to unpack what was actually happening in 2025’s collective Year 9 energy and what 2026’s collective Year 1 means for your identity, leadership, and the next 9 years of your life. We talk about numerology in a way that’s practical, grounded, and weirdly validating. Especially if you’ve been in that in-between space where you know everything changed… but you can’t fully see what’s next yet. Inside this conversation: Why 2025 felt heavy: endings, shedding, and “the universe will do it for you” energy What 2026 Year 1 is really about (and why you may not see instant results yet) How to calculate your personal year (and why it hits differently depending on your life path) Master numbers in personal years (11/22) and when they matter The personal day numbers system Courtney uses to plan her life + business (and stop the shame spiral) “Money days” (yes, that’s a real thing in this method) + why Day 8 is best Odd vs even number energy: momentum vs integration (and why some of us hate structure but need it) Compatibility + number dynamics (and why some number pairings feel… challenging) Timing for launches, big decisions, and even conceiving/creation cycles Courtney’s closing message for 2026 is simple: move before you’re ready. Not from chaos. From self-leadership. Connect with Courtney: She shares her work, sessions, and her program The Legend Code (personal days + timing) find more info here: The Legend Code Until next time: Stop trying to be spiritual.

If you’ve ever questioned your intuition, felt overwhelmed by what you’re sensing, or wondered if you’re doing something wrong spiritually. This episode is for you. In this episode, I break down: Mediumship and spirit communication after death Angels vs spirit guides and how they actually feel different The fear around “entity attachments” and why it’s often misunderstood Energy cleansing myths and what’s really happening beneath the surface This isn’t about denying spiritual experiences. It’s about understanding them without fear, coming back into your body, and learning to trust your intuition from a grounded place. 1:1 Mentorship information HERE If interested in yearlong mentorship + Intuitive healer program email me at- [email protected] for more information. Sessions & Offerings HERE Until next time: Stop trying to be spiritual.

Listen to this podcast/masterclass if you can read energy clearly for other people, but when it comes to your own life, your intuition feels confusing or quiet. In this episode, I break down why this happens and why it has nothing to do with your gifts or ability. This isn’t an intuition problem. It’s a self-trust and worthiness pattern. We talk about how ego interferes with intuitive clarity, why yes/no questions keep you stuck, and how to ask better questions so your intuition can actually guide your decisions. If you’ve ever felt like your intuition works for everyone but you, this episode will bring clarity. Work with me HERE... Stop trying to be spiritual. ❤️

If you have experienced deep rejection, isolation, or pain, especially early in life, this episode is for you. Many healers and intuitives are forged through hardship, not because something went wrong, but because their soul required it. Rejection is not punishment. It is initiation. Feeling blocked or off path is often the very thing pushing you back toward your purpose. In this episode, I share: Why healers and intuitives often experience rejection and isolation How pain becomes the medicine that awakens you Why spiritual awakenings require identity death and ego dismantling The reason relationships and old versions of you fall away before alignment arrives How your hardship is redirecting you toward your soul’s path If you are in the middle of a spiritual awakening that feels confusing, heavy, or lonely, you are not broken. You are being forged. Your pain has meaning. And it is leading you home. My intuitive led courses are 25 percent off through the Solstice on 12/21 HERE One to one mentorship and healer pathways are also open HERE Stop trying to be spiritual.

If your intuition feels unclear or hard to trust, this episode shows you the real reason: the conversations you’re avoiding, the boundaries you’re crossing, and the patterns you’re still repeating in your daily life. I break down: Why your self-betrayal becomes intuitive confusion How the “good girl / martyr” identity blocks spirit connection Why retreats + readings spark awakening but don’t sustain it How to become the intuitive in your actual life, not just in meditation The exact moment your psychic abilities start to feel clear If your spiritual awakening isn’t “working yet,” it’s still working on you. This episode will help you shift from surface-level spirituality into embodied, trustworthy intuition. Courses + Mentorship Mentioned: • How to Actually Change Your Life (identity + embodiment work) • Awaken (psychic abilities + spirit guides) • 3–12 Month Intuitive Mentorship- 2 spots left If this episode hit you, follow, share, and leave a review — it truly helps the show grow. Until next time… stop trying to be spiritual.

If you’ve been feeling the nudge to go deeper into your intuition and healing work, I’m running a special holiday sale through December 21. All readings are 20% off and courses are 25% off for a limited time 🎄 You can explore the offers and grab your spot here: https://laila-taylor.mykajabi.com/holiday Feeling lost, unsteady, or unsure who you’re becoming on your spiritual path, this episode is for you. I’m sharing a channeled collective oracle reading using the Angel Guide Oracle, and the cards that came through: Spiritual Growth, Clear Cancel and Release, Do the Work, Listen Deeply, and Take Charge and Action all tell a very clear story. Right now, many people are experiencing spiritual expansion and contraction at the same time. There is confusion, identity shedding, nervous system quivering, and the sense that something new is trying to be born through you. This episode walks you through what that actually means, why it feels so intense, what you’re being asked to release, and how to move forward when you don’t know what you’re doing yet. I talk about the real process of spiritual growth. The part no one prepares you for. The part where old beliefs fall apart, your sense of self shifts, your intuition whispers instead of shouts, and you’re asked to act before you feel ready. If you’ve been asking spirit for clarity, this will help you understand what’s unfolding and how to work with it rather than fight it. Use this episode as a meditation point, a grounding space, and a reminder that nothing about your awakening is random. You’re being asked to trust yourself, clear what is no longer yours, and take small, grounded action toward the identity your soul is trying to grow you into. Work 1:1 with me here: www.lailataylor.com

If you’ve been feeling the nudge to go deeper into your intuition and healing work, I’m running a special holiday sale through December 21. All readings are 20% off and courses are 25% off for a limited time 🎄 You can explore the offers and grab your spot here: https://laila-taylor.mykajabi.com/holiday Clairvoyance is not about seeing perfectly or receiving crystal clear images on command. It is your ability to see energy, symbolism, memory, and intuitive truth through your inner vision. But when clairvoyance is ungrounded, it can feel confusing, overwhelming, and impossible to trust. In this episode I walk you through why your clairvoyance might feel chaotic, why you see random faces or intense imagery, and how much of what you perceive is shaped by your beliefs, fears, and unprocessed emotional energy. I share the real reason your psychic vision can shift so dramatically and why grounding and integration matter more than simply trying to “open your third eye.” You will learn how to create an energetic viewing screen so your clairvoyance becomes stable, clear, and functional instead of scattered and frightening. I explain how to differentiate symbolic images from actual intuitive information, how to work with your imagination in a grounded way, and why developing boundaries with spirit actually strengthens your gifts rather than limiting them. If you want to deepen your clairvoyance without fear and begin receiving messages that are aligned, compassionate, and clear, this episode will help you understand the inner work that makes your psychic vision trustworthy. For deeper development, you can explore my Spirit Connector sessions, the Awaken course, or apply for Mentorship. Thank you for being here and for sharing your time with me. Until next time, stop trying to be spiritual.

In this episode I break down what psychic abilities actually are and how to recognize the ones you already have. Most people are using their gifts every day without realizing it, so I walk you through the core abilities and how they show up in real life. We explore • clairvoyance and why it is not the most reliable sense • clairaudience and how to tell spirit from your own thoughts • clairsentience and the difference between intuitive feeling and empathic overwhelm • clairtangency, clairalience, and clairgustance and how they come through the body I explain how your beliefs, your nervous system, and your self trust impact the way you receive messages and why developing your abilities is less about being gifted and more about awareness and practice. If you want to go deeper into intuition, spirit guides, and energy work, My Awaken course is a self-paced, you got for life course, if you’re ready to explore your gifts, meet your spirit team, and build intuitive confidence. Use code: PODCAST to get 20% off.  You can also book a Spirit Connector session for one-on-one mentoring HERE Let me know what you think your primary psychic ability is ✨

In this episode, I share how to stop treating your intuition like a magic eight ball and start living from it as a natural, effortless part of who you are. You’ll learn why intuitive trust isn’t something you “turn on” when you need answers, but a frequency you build through daily devotion and connection to your soul. I talk about the difference between using your intuition to get guidance and living as the intuitive woman you already are. If you’ve ever felt disconnected from your intuition, unsure if you’re “doing it right,” or only check in when you have big decisions to make, this episode will show you how to embody intuitive living every day. I also share how this simple shift transforms your relationship with Spirit, your energy, and your sense of inner peace, so that intuition becomes second nature. Listen now to begin living from the energy of your soul. My course How to Actually Change Your Life begins November 6. Learn the rituals and practices to make intuitive living your natural state HERE

Your awakening isn’t something to give away; It’s a call to remember yourself. In this episode, I share why so many intuitives feel stuck or burnt out when their spiritual path becomes about healing others. You’ll learn how to reconnect to your own energy, meet yourself in the present moment, and return to the truth that your spiritual awakening is for you. How to Actually Change your Life course info HERE If you haven't already, please like, share, and comment how this episode hit you!! It's a FREE & easy way to support this free content. 😘

If you’ve ever wondered why your intuition feels confusing, unpredictable, or even draining; You may be an empath who hasn’t learned what your own energy feels like yet. In this episode, I walk you through what it really means to be an empath, why it can make your psychic abilities feel unreliable, and how to start regulating your energy so you can finally trust your intuition again. I share what it was like when I was first opening up my gifts. How I used to feel other people’s emotions and physical pain and what finally helped me stop absorbing energy that wasn’t mine. We’ll talk about the difference between emotional and physical empathy, the link between empathy and childhood safety patterns, and how to shift from being consumed by energy to actually working with it. If you’re tired of feeling like your sensitivity is a curse, this episode will help you see it for what it really is a pathway to your deepest intuitive power. I also share how I teach this work inside my: How to Change Your Life course, where I show you how to clear, hold, and balance your energy so your intuition can guide you with clarity and confidence. Get on the list to Change Your Life HERE and check out my offerings HERE

If you’re someone who gives intuitive or psychic readings or wants to; This episode is essential. I’m sharing what completely changed my confidence, accuracy, and connection when I started reading for clients… and it wasn’t another training or tool. It was my inner child. I used to spiral before every session. What if I get it wrong? What if I don’t get anything? What if they don’t understand me? I thought I just needed to get better at reading… but what I really needed was to meet the part of me that was scared to be seen, scared to be wrong, and scared to be magical. In this episode, we dive deep into: – How your inner child affects your clarity as a reader – What to do before every session to feel grounded and expansive – Why your nervous system is the missing key to connection – How I accidentally blocked clients from booking because of self-doubt – Symbolic inner child work to build confidence and trust – What I did every day to go from self-doubt to soul-trust If you’re ready to feel clear, grounded, and powerful in your readings, this episode will show you how to reconnect with the part of you that always knew. Join the waitlist for How to Actually Change Your Life, my ritual-based course for empaths, intuitives, and healers. It’s launching at the end of the month with a special bonus and exclusive price for waitlist members only. Link is below. Jump on the waitlist HERE Until next time, stop trying to be spiritual.

How do you know if it’s really your intuition speaking or just your thoughts, your fears, your stories? In this episode of Stop Trying to Be Spiritual, I’m answering the real questions that came straight from my newsletter community the ones we all ask on the spiritual path. You’ll hear me share: • How to tell the difference between intuition and your mental chatter (with real-life examples that will click immediately) • The signs of a spiritual awakening and how it might be unfolding in your own life right now • What to do when it feels like you know you’re guided… but still feel disconnected from your spirit team • Ways to strengthen your psychic gifts even if you’re not sure what they are yet • How to create a “calling card” with your guides so you can recognize their energy and actually trust it • Why your intuitive gifts may not show up the way you expect and how to work with what’s already there • A real conversation about the discouragement that can happen on this path, and how to move through it with self-trust This episode is full of practical tools, gentle guidance, and the kind of truth-telling that helps you remember what you already know. Want to go deeper? •  How to Actually Change Your Life is the course I've been dreaming of creating for you. I will show you the exact rituals, intentions, & practices to not just know you are intuitive but LIVE it fully. Opening at end of October sign up HERE to get on the email list & get special rates and access.  • My Awaken course is a self-paced, you got for life course, if you’re ready to explore your gifts, meet your spirit team, and build intuitive confidence. Use code: PODCAST to get 20% off.   

If your intuition feels foggy, your channel feels blocked, or your readings feel "off" you’re probably bypassing the work or need to double down on it; That will truly change everything. In this episode, I’m sharing why inner child and shadow work are the missing keys to unlocking your clearest, most trustworthy psychic abilities. These gifts do not turn off; they just get flipped on their heads. Your clairvoyance becomes fear. Your clairsentience becomes overwhelm. Your clairaudience turns into mental noise. We talk about: Why your psychic abilities must be grounded in nervous system safety The connection between fear, trauma, and your energetic filter How shadow work reveals where your light has been misdirected The daily energetic check-in I do to tune my “channel” A story about my clairvoyant husband and what happened when he hit a spiritual wall The dangerous side of spiritual gifts without deep self-connection This is a transmission straight from my guides to your spirit. If you’re ready to move from chaos and fear into clarity and confidence in your gifts: this episode is your sign. Listen now and reclaim the parts of you holding the power you’ve been seeking.  Leave a comment below let me know how this episode hit you <3

If you've ever felt like you're not receiving anything from your intuition; like you're trying to hear your spirit guides, channel the Akashic Records, or connect psychically and it’s just… crickets. This episode is for you. This wasn’t the episode I planned to record today. But after a mentorship session, I had to hit record and speak straight to you all. Because the truth is: the reason you think you're blocked isn't because you're not intuitive it's because you're being way too serious about it. In this raw and real conversation, I walk you through: Why being “stuffy” is actually choking your intuitive voice How childhood patterns, trauma, and religious conditioning block your spiritual gifts The underestimated magic of play, imagination, and “BS-ing” in your spiritual practice Why your fear of being wrong is holding you back more than any actual lack of ability How ritual and subconscious reprogramming actually unlock intuitive clarity I’ll also share some reflections from my own journey and the practices that changed everything. Whether you're an intuitive beginner or a seasoned channeler, this episode will help you soften, reconnect, and flow with your gifts in a whole new way.  Reminder: You don’t need to prove your worth to receive spiritual connection. It’s already yours. You just need to stop judging what’s coming through. Let’s have more fun with it. Book a Spirit Connector Session or look out for my upcoming course if you want to go deeper. Until next time… stop trying to be spiritual

What do you do when life hits you with the kind of grief, betrayal, and shock that makes you question everything you thought you knew? In this personal episode, I share what’s been coming up for me during this current eclipse season especially around unexpected endings, betrayal, and the unraveling of relationships I thought were solid. This isn’t just about astrology (though yes, Virgo/Pisces eclipse energy is loud); it’s about the universal moments when life cracks open and forces us to decide who we’re going to be in the middle of it. I talk about:-The patterns of people-pleasing and perfectionism that keep us silencing ourselves-What it means to actually move emotions through the body without intellectualizing them -How I’ve been learning to use my voice in a way that’s messy, heart-led, and true -Why boundaries are holy, and why forgiveness starts with yourself- And the power of staying steady even when everything feels unstable If you're in the middle of something right now if your world feels a little upside down this ones for you. Come float in the storm with me. You’re not alone. And even in the confusion, all is well. Let this episode be your permission to grieve, to reset, and to come back to your truth.

What happens when science meets spirit? In this conversation, I sit down with former mentorship student and nurse practitioner turned medical intuitive, Kiara Martinez Guerrero, to explore how a traumatic car accident awakened her psychic abilities and reshaped the way she approaches healing. We dive into the intersection of medical intuition, holistic health, and energy healing and how Kiara blends her medical background with her spiritual gifts to help others heal from the inside out. From autoimmune challenges to chakra balancing, she shares how trauma and emotional dysregulation can manifest in the body, and why authenticity and self-trust are the true medicine for transformation. Whether you’re navigating your own health journey, learning to trust your intuition, or curious about how spirituality integrates with healthcare, this episode will open your eyes to what’s possible when you soften into your gifts and show up fully for yourself. Inside this episode, you’ll hear: How Kiara’s awakening began after her 2020 accident The link between trauma, autoimmunity, and energy imbalances Why empaths in healthcare need energy clearing & protection Practical self-care rituals for spiritual and emotional well-being The role of authenticity in deep healing and personal growth This is a powerful reminder that your body, mind, and soul are connected and when you trust yourself, healing unfolds in ways you never imagined. Connect with Kiara and her work HERE

This episode isn’t planned or scripted; It’s a channeled message straight from my guides for you. The message that came through? You’ve already accomplished more than you realize… but instead of celebrating, you keep rushing into the next race. That constant striving is leaving you disconnected from your joy, your body, and your intuition. My guides spoke on: Why it’s time to pause and honor how far you’ve come Rediscovering what you actually like (beyond what you were told to want) How creativity opens the doorway to intuition and spiritual connection Healing grief, shame, and self-judgment stored in the body Why your truth needs to be spoken even if it’s messy at first This is a transmission for the women who feel like they’ve “graduated” in their growth but don’t know what’s next. A reminder that the next level isn’t about perfection or control… it’s about rediscovering yourself and letting your soul lead. Take what resonates, leave what doesn’t. If you’re listening, it’s for a reason. Connect with me at www.lailataylor.com

If your future self could sit across from you today, what would she tell you about developing your intuition, unlocking your psychic gifts, and creating a spiritual life that actually lasts? In this episode I take you deep into the long game of spiritual awakening: the consistent, integrated inner work that builds unshakable self-trust, clear intuitive guidance, and personal power over time. I share my journey from registered nurse to full-time intuitive mentor, including the breakthroughs and challenges that shaped my gifts, and the exact practices I wish I had committed to sooner. You’ll learn: • Why consistency beats intensity when growing your psychic abilities • How to integrate your intuition into daily life so it becomes second nature • The power of investing in yourself to collapse timelines and step into your next-level reality sooner • How to connect with your future self for clarity on your next steps • The hidden blocks such as grief, self-worth wounds, and ancestral patterns that silently undermine your intuitive trust  and how to heal them Whether you are just beginning your spiritual awakening or have been on the path for years, this conversation will help you stop chasing the next spiritual high and start building the kind of intuitive legacy your future self will thank you for. Ready to embody your most magnetic, intuitive, and healed self? Work with me one-on-one in my transformational mentorship, a personalized deep dive into your gifts, healing, and future vision. More info HERE

If you’ve ever felt like Spirit is nudging (or shoving) you to quit your job and go full-time in your spiritual business... this episode is your permission slip to pause. I know. That’s not the popular narrative. In the spiritual community, there’s a lot of pressure to “take the leap,” trust the Universe, and walk away from anything that no longer aligns. But what happens when you leap and land in scarcity, confusion, or burnout? In today’s episode, I’m sharing exactly why I didn’t quit my job right away when I started my intuitive work and how that decision changed everything for me. We’ll talk about: The signs you are meant to do this work and how to read them with discernment Why making your nervous system feel safe is the first portal to expansion How to build your spiritual business with integrity, clarity, and actual demand The difference between spiritual knowledge and spiritual embodiment What I told Spirit that opened the door for my full-time transition (and how you can do the same) Whether you’re just starting or deep in your healing journey, I want you to feel deeply supported in building your spiritual business not pressured to bypass your real-life needs. This episode is for the intuitive woman who knows she’s meant for more… but wants to do it her way. At the end, I’ll also share how you can work with me 1:1 inside my mentorship or Spirit Connector sessions if you’re ready to clarify your voice, ground your gifts, and walk your path fully supported. More info can be found HERE

This episode is a raw one. I share what came through in a powerful mentorship session with a client who was in the thick of it: grief, confusion, doubt, body pain, and the aching sense that everything she’d been guided to do was falling apart. We’ve all been there. You follow the intuitive nudge. You leap, lean into trust. And then? It all seems to crumble. In this episode, I guide you through why this happens. The dark in-between space before the breakthrough. The part no one posts about. The identity death before the rebirth. The contractions before the expansion. We talk about: Why your body aches during big soul upgrades What to do when your intuition feels silent How to hold yourself through the void without gaslighting your grief Why expansion always requires a death of the old identity And how to choose faith anyway, even when there’s no evidence yet This is the energy of labor. The sacred contraction before you become the woman you’ve called in. You have not been led astray. You aren't wrong. You’re birthing. Hold steady. And as always… Stop trying to be spiritual Let's work 1:1 on remembering who you are, your spiritual gifts, & soul healing HERE

If I wasn't afraid to hurt your feelings, I would tell you that: your psychic abilities/ intuition and how you feel about your life is directly connected to your spiritual practice & the inner work you are doing or not doing.  In this episode, I’m sharing what actually creates powerful intuition and deep spiritual connection and it’s not more card pulls or waiting for a sign. It’s consistency. It’s self-honesty. It’s healing. I talk about my own journey of navigating fear, letting go of performing spirituality, and how everything changed when I finally committed to being with myself through meditation, shadow work, and real embodiment. If you’re ready to stop trying to look spiritual and actually start living it this conversation is for you. Here’s what we dive into: Why psychic gifts aren’t meant for performance — they’re here to help you heal How fear and avoidance keep you disconnected from your truth Why consistency in your spiritual practice matters more than chasing signs What I learned about manifestation (that no one talks about) How to reconnect with your intuition and finally feel clear Let this be your reminder: you were never meant to seek outside yourself. You’ve always had access you just have to show up for it. Work 1:1 with me here: www.lailataylor.com 

Clairvoyance isn’t just “seeing spirits” or having wild visions. It’s subtle. It’s intuitive. And it’s probably already happening for you; you're just not calling it that yet. In this episode, I’m breaking down the truth about clairvoyance: what it really is (and isn’t), how to know if you're already using it, and the sneaky ways language and spiritual dogma can block you from trusting your gifts. I share my own awakening journey, the doubts I had, and how I began to fully reclaim my psychic vision. Whether you're deep in your spiritual work or just starting to tune in, this is your reminder that your intuition is real and it’s time to trust it. I’ll also give you a glimpse inside my Awaken course, where we go deeper into unlocking your psychic gifts in a grounded, supported way.  Takeaways: • Clairvoyance shows up in many forms, not just images • Doubt and confusion are part of the awakening path • Reframing your language around intuition is a game-changer • Self-trust is everything • You can learn to read the energy and messages that are already flowing to you Ready to deepen your gifts? Join the July cohort of Awaken—a live course experience to develop your intuition, connect with your spirit team, and trust your inner knowing fully. Discover more info HERE

In this episode, I’m talking all about what it really looks like to unlock your psychic abilities — not from a place of perfection or pressure, but through healing, daily connection, and trust. I share some of my own journey — from opening up my gifts to guiding others through theirs — and how things like meditation, shadow work, and simple practices changed everything for me. We’ll explore the difference between intuition and psychic ability, why you don’t have to “fix” yourself to be intuitive, and how things like affirmations, healing work, and calling your energy back can support your path. This is for the woman who knows she’s intuitive… but wants to go deeper. Whether you’re just getting started or you’re in the thick of your awakening, I hope this episode feels like a grounded exhale and a reminder that your gifts are already here — you’re just learning how to work with them. Join AWAKEN & find more info for the July 8th cohort HERE & Download my FREE Masterclass on Clairvoyance HERE

In this episode, I’m sharing a powerful session I had with a student who connected with her ancestors for the first time—and was completely overwhelmed by the love that came through. But here’s the thing… her lived experience growing up was the opposite. There was pain, gossip, disconnection. So how do you integrate that kind of spiritual love when your body still remembers the old story? This conversation goes deep into what happens when your awakening gives you a truth your nervous system isn’t used to holding. When you know you’re loved and guided—but you still feel tethered to old pain. If you’ve ever felt the gap between what spirit shows you and what life still feels like… this episode is for you. Want to work 1:1 with me? Discover more of you, HERE  

In this episode of Stop Trying to Be Spiritual, I’m guiding you into the presence of your guardian angel—not as a concept, but as an energetic reality that you can feel, trust, and call on. We often associate angels with religion, but they are frequency-based beings of unconditional love, not bound by any belief system. And yes—you have one, even if you’ve never felt it before. You’ll hear: What guardian angels actually do (it’s more than protection) A client story that brought angelic healing into real-life trauma support Why your ability to receive their energy is more about trust than technique How to know if you’re feeling your angel’s presence (and what to do if you don’t) The difference between intellectual belief and embodied experience when working with spiritual energies Plus, I share simple ways you can connect with your own guardian angel—today. Whether you’re new to intuitive development or deeply on your path, this is an invitation to feel deep emotional support, healing, and peace… beyond words. Spirit Connector Sessions → 1:1 intuitive session to help you meet your guides, unlock messages, and feel validated in your gifts: LailaTaylor.com The AWAKEN Course → My foundational program for psychic development, intuitive trust, and connection with spirit guides, angels, the Akashic Records & more AWAKEN COURSE

In this episode of Stop Trying to Be Spiritual, I’m breaking down why your voice—not your third eye, not your rituals, not your perfect morning routine—is the most potent spiritual tool you have. If you’ve ever felt like you say you want to trust your intuition... ...but deep down you’re still second-guessing yourself, ...still swallowing your truth because you’re afraid of how others will respond, ...still trying to "protect your peace" by avoiding hard conversations— This episode is for you. I’ll share: Why so many intuitive, sensitive, empathic women feel blocked in their psychic abilities How your inability to speak your truth is creating fragmentation and inner chaos The difference between speaking from the wound and speaking from the heart Why comfort isn’t what you actually want (and what your soul really desires instead) How to collapse old patterns by using your voice as an alchemizer This is the conversation the spiritual world avoids—and it's the one that will change your life. If you’re ready to trust your gifts, anchor into your truth, and finally feel like you can stand strong in all parts of you... This is where it starts. With your voice. With your truth. Want to experience this in your body (not just in theory)? In June, I’m opening a new space for deep embodiment, integration, and calling all parts of you back home. Make sure you’re on my email list to get the details. Sign up for more details HERE

This week on Stop Trying to Be Spiritual, I’m pulling back the curtain on what it really looks like to build a spiritually-aligned business—especially when your gifts feel big, your vision feels overwhelming, and your human self is still catching up. We’re talking about the identity shifts that no one prepares you for, how to stay present when your mission feels massive, and why entrepreneurship is one of the most powerful healing paths you can walk. If you’ve ever felt stuck, unsure, or like your purpose might swallow you whole—this episode is your anchor. I share how to build confidence in your gifts without waiting until you feel "ready," how to weave your spiritual self into your everyday life, and why mentorship isn’t just helpful—it’s essential. Because your calling is real. And it’s not too big for you. You’re just becoming the version of you who can hold it. ✨ Ready to go deeper and walk this path with support? My 1:1 mentorship is here when you're ready to stop waiting and start moving. More info HERE

 This week on Stop Trying to Be Spiritual, we’re diving into the beautiful messiness of spiritual growth, self-discovery, and psychic development. Aka—the real stuff no one tells you when you first wake up. I’m talking about the fear that you might be “going crazy,” the inner battles with your beliefs, and how self-doubt loves to sneak in just when your intuition starts speaking up. If you’ve ever felt like you’re unraveling and waking up at the same time—this one’s for you. I get real about what it actually takes to access your psychic gifts (spoiler: healing is non-negotiable), how to trust your intuition when your inner voice is fogged by fear, and why mentorship can be the lighthouse you didn’t know you needed. You’ll also hear me talk about shadow work, belief systems, and how I’ve come to understand psychic abilities—not as something outside of us, but as something we return to when we integrate all the messy, beautiful parts of who we are. It’s a conversation that’ll remind you: you’re not broken, you’re becoming whole. And if this episode lights something up inside of you—if you're feeling the call for deeper support, guidance, and soul-anchored clarity—my 1:1 mentorship is where the real magic happens. We go deep, get real, and move you into alignment with the YOU that’s been waiting all along. More info HERE.    

In this week's podcast you are going to hear an actual client mentorship call that hits home amongst all spiritual seekers. That is the imposter syndrome, 2nd spiritual awakening, dark night of the soul, and the questioning of everything in life. Sounds dreamy, right? This client has such a beautiful energy and graciously allowed this recording to be shared, because sometimes you just need to hear that you aren't alone. I am always sharing my experiences and being real with you guys, because fake all love and light spiritual teachings hasn't ever helped anyone really. So yes, I share my own existential crisis, my imposter syndrome and how I moved through my own self-limiting beliefs to end up where I am now. Which is not surviving but thriving as a spiritual entrepreneur who's always looking for new ways to love and embrace me. That's what I encourage for you to. This whole spiritual awakening life can be a trip. Might as well do it together.  If you like what I share here & online you will love my 1:1 mentorship. It's such a fun and intimate space that truly can help you bust through your old identities, expand your spiritual abilities, and feel truly aligned to the YOU of who you are. Check out more info HERE

In this podcast episode, I talk about the need for embodying and speaking our truth on the spiritual journey. I bring up some recent client experiences that help give context to people who have been doing the 'work' but yet don't see that shift yet in their reality and explore what's really going on there We discuss how the Universe is always responding to what we believe about ourselves and sending us more of what we agree to. That to truly shift your experience of reality, you must lean into your discomfort with speaking your truth and to do it rooted in love and compassion. If you listen to this episode and feel drawn to healing or want to connect in with your guides, your own spiritual abilities, intuition, and more and want direction. I also have multiple 1:1 offerings to assist you. You can look into more information HERE

If you are interested in manifestation, this podcast episode is for you. I have Kelsey Yeager who uses her knowledge as a chemical engineer and her flair for breaking down scientific complex topics into easy-to-understand nuggets. Showing others how to blend the world of science and woo to help you manifest the life you want.  If you have been wondering 'how does manifestation actually work?' or maybe 'did I manifest this disaster in my life?'. Kelsey shares her knowledge of how the universe works, the science of coherence, and what quantum leaping actually means.  Take a deep dive with me and Kelsey, as we talk all things quantum, manifestation, and surrender.  Interested in connecting more to Kelsey's work? You can find her on IG/TikTok: @themanifestingscientist or HERE Please rate, share, and review if you love this episode and podcast!!!  

In this podcast episode, I talk about spiritual entrepreneurship and the challenges many face with imposter syndrome & feeling confused on what you are actually supposed to be doing to fulfill your purpose. I discuss ways to move past the fear & how to embody a different identity in your journey. I go through my journey of starting to offer sessions and my absolute fear with being wrong and not being good enough. Also, how my spirit guides gave me a very clear message that changed my whole look on how I approach business and how you can apply it as well.  If you are wanting to start offering your services to others and/or you already have a business but feel lost. Try applying some of the techniques and thought processes to your own offerings. But if you listen to this episode and feel drawn to healing or want to connect in with your guides, your own spiritual abilities, intuition, and more and want direction. I also have multiple 1:1 offerings to assist you. You can look into more information HERE