The Family Church NJ

We have learned that natural fathers often distort or neglect our spiritual needsbecause they are imperfect. The word acknowledges God as a close, personalfather. Abba is an invitation to approach Him as a child approaches theirDaddy! Tonight, we will continue to discover that our crisis only ends throughan encounter and experience with ABBA that causes us to become ourfather's child!

Men, I want today to be about the ladies in the room young and mature. I am believing that if they receive this WORD then it will become about YOU! Take a look around. There are life givers, dream deliverers, atmosphere shifters, burden carriers, nurturers, builders, warriors AND vision carriers!! These are women who: pray families through, carry pressure silently, hold homes together, nurture while empty, love while hurting and fight battles nobody sees. So if this is true, why does she break under pressure, lose herself in pain, shrink because of fear, forget her value and abort what God placed inside of her. Today, we are going to revive The “Real” Superwoman!!!

After God has ruined what could not go into our next season, and before we ever step into full restoration, God will not leave us empty. He will give us a glimpse. He will give evidence. He will give grapes. The grapes are God’s way of saying, “I haven’t changed My mind about you.” Today we will begin the journey of “Recovering My Faith to Taste the Grapes!”

We have just come out of a Ruin Season. God didn’t ruin you;He ruined what was ruining you. He ruined idle words. He ruined ungodlyagreements. He ruined soul ties. Ruin was not punishment. It was preparation.As we step into recovery, it’s not about getting stuff back; it’s about gettingyour faith back first. Today, we will begin the journey of “Recovering My Faith2 Taste the Grapes!”

We have been learning about soul ties. This is where our mind, will and emotions are tied to people, places and things. Now we are moving from being connected by a soul tie, to something in me, that is now bound because of the soul tie.”A tie touches your life—but a knot takes over your life. Today we are going a little deeper. Not every soul tie is the same. There is a difference between a tie and a knot. A tie connects you but a knot entangles you. Some of you are not just tied to your past—you are tied up by it. 

Sunday we uncovered how grief — when it is not surrendered — can turn into a soul tie. We learned that you can lose something and instead of releasing it, you become emotionally loyal to it. Many of us are not just dealing with loss; we are living in the aftermath of multiple endings. Not one closed door, but a history of things not working out the way we expected, and if we’re not careful, repeated endings will start rewriting our expectations!

Not everything that dies is meant to be resurrected. Not every ending is meant to be revisited. And not every loss is meant to be lived in. You can lose something and instead of releasing it, you can become tied to it. You didn’t just grieve it, you bonded with it. And now what ended is still influencing what’s living. Today, we are exposing soul-ties formed through prolonged grief and unexpected endings.

When a season brings loss through death, relationship changes, or major transitions, a period of mourning naturally follows and scripture gives it permission. But when sorrow lingers, it can quietly bind the soul, keeping a person emotionally, spiritually, and even physically tethered to what God allows to pass. Tonight, we will understand that a season of sorrow is not the end, but a God-given invitation to trust Him to lead us into the next one, untangled, healed, and free to let go of prolonged sorrow from death.

You can walk away from a place, and still carry its imprint. You can disconnect from a person, and still be governed by what they did to you. Today, we will begin to untangle what trauma tied, what pain preserved, and what God never approved.

We have been learning about the different soul ties that keep you connectedeven after being delivered. Tonight we are going to learn how to identify andbreak free out of perverted family ties that keeps you in spiritual bondage.Tonight what has held us, will hold us no longer, tonight, it breaks.

Jesus reveals our Father's plans that we would inherit His kingdom lifestyle.  He also shows that our enemy plans to separate us from our Father's will and prevent us from embracing our new life in Christ. Today, we will learn that water baptism symbolizes the conversion that takes place in the life of every believer who identifies with the finished work of Jesus Christ. It's time to be Made New and embrace your change!

We’ve been learning that there is a difference between being delivered and being disconnected, and that you can break a relationship but still feel bound to the person. Tonight we are going to learn the power of parasitic relationships and the danger of not breaking the tie that binds you. This is an important revelation because what you don’t fully disconnect from, you will eventually return to – and what you return to will reclaim you!

Something can be out of your life physically, but still attached toyour soul spiritually. You can leave Egypt, and still have Egypt living in you.Deliverance removes the access, but it doesn’t always break the attachment.This series is about more than stopping behavior; it’s about ruining theconnection. God doesn’t just want you free. He wants you untangled!

There is a difference between being delivered and being disconnected. Scripture gives us a sobering picture not just of sin, but of returning to what you were supposed to be free from. This is not a salvation issue, this is a soul attachment issue. You can renounce a sin but still feel a pull back toward it. Deliverance removes the access but it doesn’t always break the attachment. This series is about more than stopping behavior; It’s about ruining the connection. God doesn’t just want you free. He wants you untangled!

We learned that some curses come from what we say. Some spiritual battles come from ungodly agreements. Today, we must answer the deeper question: Why does God take this so seriously? God sees idolatry as  adultery. Today, we are going to learn that God’s goal is not to destroy us. God’s goal is to ruin the affair, so He can renew the vow!

We have come to a place where we have to decide who we are going to serve. Our hearts can no longer be divided. The altar of our heart reveals who and what we trust in. Our actions expose the idols we have allowed to steal our worship. Ungodly altars are being destroyed tonight! 

We’ve learned not every curse comes from a witch. Sometimes it comes from our own mouth. The word teaches that an oath establishes binding certainty. If Godly oaths establish blessing, ungodly oaths establish bondage. Tonight, we go deeper as we discuss how ungodly oaths affect the soul of a believer and how they affect our relationship with Christ. Because salvation is a covenant exclusive, Christ must remain Lord!

We've been learning that not every curse comes from a witch.Sometimes it comes from our own mouth. Today, we are not attackingpeople. We are exposing principles! Idle words can become idol words whenthey rival the authority of Christ in our lives. And, anything that binds yourloyalty, your identity, or your future outside of Jesus must be confronted.Today, we are ruining ungodly oaths.

Throughout this series, we have confronted rash words, gossip, and curse words! Tonight, we move deeper - from casual speech to covenant speech. Some words don’t just hurt people, they bind us before God. Tonight, we will restore Kingdom weight to our words!

The word of God teaches you don’t have to be cursed by awitch to “live under” a curse. Sometimes the curse comes because we “lovedcursing,” and Scripture says what you love, you wear and what you wear longenough, you become. Today, we will begin to discover that life is not aboutblaming others for what’s wrong in life because the greatest danger is notwhen the en

Jesus teaches that our hearts function like treasuries — storehouses where what we value is deposited over time. Our words toward others and about ourselves expose what we have been treasuring. Foul language and cursing are not merely bad habits to manage—they are spiritual signals pointing to deeper loyalties, affections, and patterns of worship. Tonight, we are going to examine our treasuries, understand how Scripture regards corrupt and curse-filled speech, and l

Last week we established that idle words don’t just slip out; they set up altars. We exposed: #1. Rash words; #2. Sarcastic words; #3. Complaining and Murmuring #4. Faithless and Self- Doubting words. Today, we will discover that where there is no wood the fire of Gossip goes out!

Tonight, we are addressing something that many people have experienced, but few people have ever healed from. Some of us have never been in a physical fight, but we have been wounded by a conversation we were never invited into. Jesus teaches us that words do not just come from our mouths — they come from a storehouse in our hearts. And what we say has the power to either heal or harm, to build or bury. Tonight, we are not only dealing with gossip as a sin, but gossip as a wound

Last week we established that idle words are not harmless, but unemployed speech that builds nothing godly, produces no fruit, and leaves space for the enemy to operate. Idle words don’t just slip out—they set up altars. We exposed: #1. Rash words: speech released before wisdom arrives. #2. Sarcastic words: violence wrapped in vocabulary. Today, we will go deeper from words spoken quickly to words spoken consistently because some words don’t explode—they erode!

 We live in a society where almost everything is measured by someelement of speed. AI describes it as a “Rush Culture.” A key element of this rushculture is our need to communicate quickly, and we are praised for being “quickwitted.” Though quick, yet not always wise in our communication, therebyresulting in our words being RASH! Why do we need/use them? We mustunderstand that RASH words have both long and short-term effects on us andothers. And, anything that is a distraction from God’s purpose is spiritual waste!Therefore, our RASH words said in HASTE will make for spiritual WASTE!

We live in a generation that underestimates the power of words.We believe words are casual, speech is harmless, and talking is just talking.Words are not just sounds; they are seeds, weapons, covenants, and altars.Many of us don’t have idols in our homes; we have idols in our mouths!Today, we will continue our journey of deliverance not from demons, but fromdeclarations!

We live in a generation that underestimates the power of words.We believe words are casual, speech is harmless, and talking is just talking.We will begin to learn that what begins as idle speech often ends as idolworship. Many of us don’t have idols in our homes; we have idols in ourmouths! Tonight, we begin a journey of deliverance not from demons, but fromdeclarations!

The fast is ending but the war is not. In fact, the most dangerous moment of a fast is not during the fast, it is right after it because fasting exposes the flesh but a fasted lifestyle crucifies it. In Mark 9, Jesus told the disciples: “This kind only comes out by prayer and fasting.” Jesus did not say: “This kind stays out automatically.” Deliverance can be momentary. Freedom must be maintained. Satan is not intimidated by a temporary fast; he is threatened by a transformed appetite!

God has already declared that all things are possible to those who believe. Yet for many believers, what God has promised has not yet been experienced because something is standing between promise and manifestation. Today, we are going to expose one of the enemy’s most effective weapons against believers: the flesh. The flesh does not keep you from being saved; it keeps you from seeing what salvation has already made available: breakthrough!

Fasting is the language of surrender and consecration is the proof of devotion.  The two work together to make it holy. One empties you & the other sanctifies what’s left. All through Scripture, when God called His people to fast, He wasn’t after their food…He was after their focus. There were moments when nations were hanging by a thread, when the faithful stood in foreign lands, and when even the Son of God had to face temptation in the wilderness. Tonight, we will see how each of those moments carried a divine pattern, showing us that fasting has never been about starvation but rather transformation. This is the fast that breaks because it doesn’t just change what you do for a time, it changes who you are for all-time.

Last week we learned that rain must ruin what can’t remain before recovery and restoration can occur. When the disciples asked why they were unable to heal someone, Jesus responded, “This kind cannot be driven out by anything but prayer and fasting.” Fasting is not punishment; it is partnership, and how we cooperate with God’s demolition phase. Today, we will continue to discover this is not a fast to get something from God. This is a fast to let God remove something from us! 

Too often believers walk in doubt and defeat because they walk by sight and not by faith.  We think that what we see, experience and go through is bigger than the God we serve. Today, we get back into alignment and walk by faith and not sight by using our keys to unlock the door and power of fasting. We crossed over into a new year and there are some things that we should have left behind. The keys to the kingdom are not one of those things.  Some things can only be done through prayer and fasting.

There are moments in the Kingdom when God is not responding to what we are asking; He is responding to what He has already decided. This is not the year of survival, but the year of sovereignty. Rain must ruin what can’t remain, we must recover what was weakened, and God will restore what was always promised, and position us to reign in life. The Word teaches that when God moves, there is a prophetic order: Ruin • Recover • Restore!

There are moments in the Kingdom when God is not respondingto what we are asking; He is responding to what He has already decided.When God decides to move, the question is never if He will move, but whetherHis people are prepared for the movement He has already released. The Wordteaches that when God moves, there is a prophetic order: Ruin • Recover •Restore!

God does not enter our lives to blend in. He enters to take over. Before peace comes, order must be confronted. Tonight, we will begin to discover that the greatest gift received does not come from a present under a tree but from receiving the DISRUPTIVE POWER OF HIS PRESENCE!

In this powerful and timely message, Pastor Ted Winsley teaches on spiritual warfare and the importance of putting on the full armor of God. You’ll gain insight into spiritual maturity, discernment in unseen battles, and how to steward the victory Christ has already won.This word will strengthen your faith, sharpen your awareness, and equip you to stand firm in your God-given authority.

As Jesus ministers to the disciples, He also reveals that the tragedy of the modern church is not a lack of promise. It is unused keys! We shout about doors, but ignore the keys that open them. We ask God to move, while ignoring the authority He already gave. We’ve discovered that one of the greatest keys in the Kingdom is not money, not position or title, not emotion, not hype. One of heaven’s master keys is faith. Tonight, we will continue to uncover that we are the King’s Kids as we learn to turn the Keys of Faith!

Jesus taught that Kingdom authority is God’s power working through God’s people to do God’s will on the earth. This is important because it explains how God moves, what He expects from us, and why we must walk in authority instead of confusion or disappointment. The Word teaches that healing is a finished work; it’s not a request.  It’s a right! You don’t chase healing; it followsauthority as we exercise the Kingdom key called Faith. Today, we will begin to understand what is required to turn this key and experience the life made available to King’s Kids!

Jesus taught that Kingdom authority is God’s power working through God’s people to do God’s will on earth. Binding and loosing is not a spiritual cliché—it’s the legal enforcement of the will of Heaven. Tonight, we will continue to understand that healing is not simply a miracle. Healing is a sign that the Kingdom has arrived, and God’s authority is at work.

Jesus taught that Kingdom authority is God’s power workingthrough God’s people to do God’s will on the earth. In scripture, Christ revealsthat Kingdom authority is exercised through binding and loosing. This is not amagic phrase o

The Lord has declared a prophetic mission for all of our lives. He said that we are to live a full life, an abundant or a superior life. But there are forces designed to sabotage, distract, and pervert that life. Today, we expose the demonic ambushes—the sneak attacks—that attempt to derail your destiny.

Jesus taught that Kingdom authority is God’s power workingthrough God’s people to do God’s will on earth. In scripture, Christ revealsthat Kingdom authority is exercised through binding and loosing. This is not amagic phrase or a church spell! Tonight, we continue to move from revelationto enforcement.

We have learned that many believers are saved but not seated, and shouting in church but silent in the spirit realm. Kingdom authority is God’s power working through God’s people to do God’s will on earth. Jesus didn’t just save us from hell; He restored us to Kingdom authority on earth! Today, we continue to move from revelation to enforcement.

Many believers are saved but not seated, born again but notruling, shouting in church but silent in the spirit realm. Jesus didn’t just saveus from hell; He restored us to Kingdom authority on earth! Jesus taught thatmove from revelation to enforcement.