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Send us Fan MailTouch a candle once and you learn fast. Keep reaching for it anyway and you learn something deeper about yourself. That’s where Pastor Joey and Pastor Richard start: the strange pull of sin, the way we argue with warnings, and the moment consequences finally make the danger feel real. If you’ve ever thought, “I know this is wrong, so why do I keep choosing it?”, you’re not alone and you’re not stuck.We ground the conversation in Romans 6 and the tension every Christian feels between God’s grace and daily obedience. Grace is a rescue, not a permission slip, and Paul’s command “do not let sin reign” means real change is possible. We talk about strongholds and “pet sins” that grow when we nurture them, why “the devil made me do it” and “I was born this way” become excuses, and how temptation often hooks us through our own desires. Sin may be “fun for a season,” but the payday is real and it always costs more than it promised.Then we get concrete with six anchors for overcoming temptation and breaking habitual sin: don’t go back to prison, don’t give in to sinful passions, don’t fight for the enemy, embrace God’s authority, remember your story, and serve the King. Along the way we unpack what it means to starve the flesh and feed the Spirit, change what you consume, build practical boundaries, and live like someone who’s actually been set free by Jesus.If this helped you, subscribe to the show, share it with a friend who’s battling a stronghold, and leave a review so more people can find Real Life and Real Faith. What’s the one area you’re ready to stop feeding today?We hope you enjoyed this episode of The Reality Is. If you have found our podcast to be an encouragement to you, please consider subscribing, leaving a review, and sharing it with your friends and family. Your support means the world to us.Don't forget to connect with us on social media to stay updated on upcoming episodes and engage in the conversation. We love hearing from our listeners!YouTubeApple PodcastSpotifyFacebookWe value your input and can't wait to hear your thoughts on this episode. Connect with us on social media, leave a review, and write a comment sharing your thoughts on this episode on YouTube. Your involvement keeps our podcast community thriving!

Send us Fan MailIf you’ve ever heard “join a life group” and thought, OK but what do you actually do there, we get it. Pastor Joey sits down with Pastor Ed to spell out the real nuts and bolts of a healthy church life group, including the simple rhythm that makes it sustainable: a little fellowship, clear prayer requests, then a Scripture-centered discussion that follows a sermon-based Bible study guide. We also talk about why “hard start, hard stop” matters more than people think, especially for parents, commuters, and anyone hesitant to get stuck in a three-hour meeting.From there, we dig into what makes a good group different from a bad one. The goal is participation, not one person talking the whole time, and creating an environment where you’d feel comfortable inviting an unbelieving neighbor. That means keeping the Bible as the center, treating it like shared ground, and refusing to derail the night with politics or awkward rabbit trails. Ed also explains how leader training and mentorship help groups handle tough questions without requiring leaders to be scholars.We end with the big obstacle most people feel: “What if it’s not the right fit?” You’ll hear why chasing a perfect match can miss the point, why intergenerational community accelerates maturity, and why the best group is often the one you can consistently attend based on distance and schedule. If you’re on the fence, let this be the push to take one concrete step: show up, try a few groups, and stick with it long enough to see real change. Subscribe for more conversations on real life and real faith, share this with a friend who needs community, and leave a review with the biggest question you still have about life groups.We hope you enjoyed this episode of The Reality Is. If you have found our podcast to be an encouragement to you, please consider subscribing, leaving a review, and sharing it with your friends and family. Your support means the world to us.Don't forget to connect with us on social media to stay updated on upcoming episodes and engage in the conversation. We love hearing from our listeners!YouTubeApple PodcastSpotifyFacebookWe value your input and can't wait to hear your thoughts on this episode. Connect with us on social media, leave a review, and write a comment sharing your thoughts on this episode on YouTube. Your involvement keeps our podcast community thriving!

Send us Fan MailChurch can be packed and still feel lonely. We’ve both seen it: you can worship with hundreds of people, shake a few hands, and leave with zero meaningful connection. That gap is exactly why we’re talking about life groups (small groups, community groups, Sunday school). For many believers, a life group is the difference between attending a church and actually living as the church.We break down three big reasons life groups matter. First, connection: if you don’t build real relationships, it’s easy to drift away without anyone noticing. Second, ministry and care: in a larger church, most real support happens through a smaller circle that knows your name, your story, and your needs, whether that’s a hospital visit, a crisis at home, or simply showing up when life gets heavy.Third, discipleship and Bible study: Scripture was meant to be read with God’s people, and learning to slow down, observe the text, and talk it through together protects us from shallow takes and confident misreads.We also get honest about what keeps people away: busyness that’s really a priorities fight, the awkwardness of walking into a group for the first time, and the fear of being known. If you’ve ever thought, “I’m fine on my own,” we challenge that assumption and talk about the spiritual danger of voluntary isolation. Part one closes with a clear reality check and sets up part two on what actually happens inside a life group and how it can change you.We hope you enjoyed this episode of The Reality Is. If you have found our podcast to be an encouragement to you, please consider subscribing, leaving a review, and sharing it with your friends and family. Your support means the world to us.Don't forget to connect with us on social media to stay updated on upcoming episodes and engage in the conversation. We love hearing from our listeners!YouTubeApple PodcastSpotifyFacebookWe value your input and can't wait to hear your thoughts on this episode. Connect with us on social media, leave a review, and write a comment sharing your thoughts on this episode on YouTube. Your involvement keeps our podcast community thriving!

Send us Fan MailRevenge has a way of feeling like justice, especially when the wound is fresh and the story keeps replaying in your head. We’ve both felt that pull to even the score, to say the sharp thing, to plan the perfect comeback, or to “make it right” in our own strength. But the more we chase payback, the more we find it doesn’t heal anything. It feeds anger, shrinks our peace, and drags us down to the same level as the offense.We dig into what the Bible really teaches about retaliation and justice, including why “an eye for an eye” is so often misread, and why “Vengeance is mine, says the Lord” is not a throwaway line but a lifeline. We talk through Joseph’s story and how God can work purpose through real betrayal, plus David’s surprising restraint when he has every reason to strike back. Along the way, we unpack Romans 12, Proverbs, and the hard truth that our desire for revenge can reveal a faith gap: we forget our own forgiveness, choose self-protection over trust, and act like God isn’t in control.Then we get practical. What do you do when you feel wronged right now? We walk through steps that start with prayer, not against someone, but for them, and for God to expose our part and soften both hearts. We also talk about waiting on God’s timing, doing good without putting yourself in danger, loving your neighbor, and forgiving as an act of freedom rather than a feeling.If this helped you, subscribe, share it with a friend, and leave a review. What’s the hardest part for you: praying, waiting, or forgiving?We hope you enjoyed this episode of The Reality Is. If you have found our podcast to be an encouragement to you, please consider subscribing, leaving a review, and sharing it with your friends and family. Your support means the world to us.Don't forget to connect with us on social media to stay updated on upcoming episodes and engage in the conversation. We love hearing from our listeners!YouTubeApple PodcastSpotifyFacebookWe value your input and can't wait to hear your thoughts on this episode. Connect with us on social media, leave a review, and write a comment sharing your thoughts on this episode on YouTube. Your involvement keeps our podcast community thriving!

Send us Fan MailResentment doesn’t usually announce itself. It slips in when an offense goes unspoken, a tone gets misread, or a “that wasn’t fair” moment keeps replaying until it feels like a settled fact. Joey and Richard go straight at what most of us avoid: grudges, perceived injustice, and the hidden cost of staying angry while the other person might not even know we’re upset.We talk about why a grudge is more than a mood, it’s a refusal to forgive, and why that matters spiritually and emotionally. We dig into the difference between forgiveness and reconciliation, because forgiving someone doesn’t mean you give them access to hurt you again. We also challenge the instinct to “make sure justice gets done” and wrestle with what it means to let God handle vengeance, even when we don’t like how merciful He can be.If you’ve been carrying church hurt, resentment in ministry, or anger because someone called out sin you didn’t want to face, you’re not alone. We share practical steps rooted in Scripture: focusing your love on God daily, choosing to love others, listening to the Holy Spirit, praying for the person who hurt you, and pursuing peace as much as it depends on you (Romans 12:18). The closing takeaway is simple and hard: know who you are in Christ, stop giving cruel words so much power, and don’t let people own you.If this hits close to home, subscribe, share it with a friend who needs it, and leave a review telling us: what grudge are you ready to release?We hope you enjoyed this episode of The Reality Is. If you have found our podcast to be an encouragement to you, please consider subscribing, leaving a review, and sharing it with your friends and family. Your support means the world to us.Don't forget to connect with us on social media to stay updated on upcoming episodes and engage in the conversation. We love hearing from our listeners!YouTubeApple PodcastSpotifyFacebookWe value your input and can't wait to hear your thoughts on this episode. Connect with us on social media, leave a review, and write a comment sharing your thoughts on this episode on YouTube. Your involvement keeps our podcast community thriving!

Send us Fan MailEaster gets packaged as candy, brunch, and a spring holiday, but we can’t get around the central claim: the resurrection of Jesus Christ. We lay it out plainly: Christianity hinges on whether Jesus truly died, was buried, and rose again. If that didn’t happen, faith is empty and we’re still in our sins. If it did happen, it changes everything about forgiveness, hope, and what it means to follow Christ.Pastor Joey and Pastor Richard walk through 1 Corinthians 15 as the clearest summary of the gospel and the strongest reminder of what matters most. We talk about why you can’t celebrate Resurrection Sunday while avoiding Good Friday, why “resurrection” without death and burial makes no sense, and why the cross and the shedding of blood are not a grim obsession but the necessary answer to real sin. We also push back on the idea that the resurrection is only symbolism, pointing to the biblical claims of a bodily resurrection, physical appearances, and Jesus eating with His disciples.Then we get into evidence and credibility. Paul points to eyewitness testimony and even “over 500 at once,” and we mention historical voices outside the Bible like Josephus and Tacitus that acknowledge key facts around Jesus and the explosive spread of early Christianity. We also address common counterclaims like the stolen-body story and why it falls apart under scrutiny.If you’ve been curious, skeptical, or you want the conviction you hear in this conversation, we also give a simple prayer to receive Christ and encourage you to reach out so we can help you take the next step. Subscribe, share this with a friend, leave a review, and tell us: what’s the biggest question you still have about the resurrection?We hope you enjoyed this episode of The Reality Is. If you have found our podcast to be an encouragement to you, please consider subscribing, leaving a review, and sharing it with your friends and family. Your support means the world to us.Don't forget to connect with us on social media to stay updated on upcoming episodes and engage in the conversation. We love hearing from our listeners!YouTubeApple PodcastSpotifyFacebookWe value your input and can't wait to hear your thoughts on this episode. Connect with us on social media, leave a review, and write a comment sharing your thoughts on this episode on YouTube. Your involvement keeps our podcast community thriving!

Send us Fan MailJealousy can hide behind jokes, ambition, or “just being human,” but it quietly steals joy and turns gratitude sour. Pastor Joey and Pastor Richard start with a simple question: who are you really doing life for, God or yourself? From a funny boots story to hard truths from Proverbs and James, we draw a clear line between envy (wanting what someone else has) and jealousy (guarding what we think is ours or what we believe we deserve). If you’ve ever felt that spike of comparison after seeing someone’s success, family photo, or new purchase, you’ll recognize the problem fast. We talk about the real cost of jealousy and envy: bitterness that won’t let go, relationships that fracture, confusion that multiplies, and the inner heaviness Scripture describes as “rottenness to the bones.” We also unpack why these can become “respectable sins” in Christian culture, accepted because everyone struggles with them, even though they still block spiritual growth and keep us living like “mere men” instead of people led by the Holy Spirit. Then we get practical. We walk through how identity in Christ breaks the comparison cycle, why contentment is a discipline that can be learned, and how daily habits reshape desire. That includes time in Scripture, guarding what you listen to on the road, choosing community wisely, and taking an honest break from social media when it becomes a highlight reel that fuels envy. If you want biblical teaching on jealousy, envy, coveting, contentment, and spiritual maturity that lands in real life, this conversation will help. Subscribe for more real life and real faith, share this with a friend who needs peace, and leave a review so more people can find the show. What’s the biggest trigger for comparison in your world right now?We hope you enjoyed this episode of The Reality Is. If you have found our podcast to be an encouragement to you, please consider subscribing, leaving a review, and sharing it with your friends and family. Your support means the world to us.Don't forget to connect with us on social media to stay updated on upcoming episodes and engage in the conversation. We love hearing from our listeners!YouTubeApple PodcastSpotifyFacebookWe value your input and can't wait to hear your thoughts on this episode. Connect with us on social media, leave a review, and write a comment sharing your thoughts on this episode on YouTube. Your involvement keeps our podcast community thriving!

Send us Fan MailStruggling with pride? This episode offers a clear, biblical guide to developing humility. Pastor Joey and Pastor Richard share how serving others, trusting God, and giving Him glory can transform your mindset and strengthen your faith.We hope you enjoyed this episode of The Reality Is. If you have found our podcast to be an encouragement to you, please consider subscribing, leaving a review, and sharing it with your friends and family. Your support means the world to us.Don't forget to connect with us on social media to stay updated on upcoming episodes and engage in the conversation. We love hearing from our listeners!YouTubeApple PodcastSpotifyFacebookWe value your input and can't wait to hear your thoughts on this episode. Connect with us on social media, leave a review, and write a comment sharing your thoughts on this episode on YouTube. Your involvement keeps our podcast community thriving!

Send us Fan MailWhy does anger seem so common today? Pastor Joey and Pastor Richard examine the spiritual dangers of uncontrolled anger and how it affects relationships, faith, and personal health. They point listeners back to Scripture and the work of the Holy Spirit as the path toward peace, humility, and restoration.We hope you enjoyed this episode of The Reality Is. If you have found our podcast to be an encouragement to you, please consider subscribing, leaving a review, and sharing it with your friends and family. Your support means the world to us.Don't forget to connect with us on social media to stay updated on upcoming episodes and engage in the conversation. We love hearing from our listeners!YouTubeApple PodcastSpotifyFacebookWe value your input and can't wait to hear your thoughts on this episode. Connect with us on social media, leave a review, and write a comment sharing your thoughts on this episode on YouTube. Your involvement keeps our podcast community thriving!

Send us Fan MailPastor Joey sits down with Pastor Pete, an Old Testament professor and pastor at Crossroads Community Church, to explore why the Old Testament is essential for understanding the Bible. Pastor Pete explains how the Torah shapes the entire story of Scripture and how later biblical authors constantly return to it. The conversation encourages believers not to skip the Old Testament but to read and reread it as part of encountering Jesus.We hope you enjoyed this episode of The Reality Is. If you have found our podcast to be an encouragement to you, please consider subscribing, leaving a review, and sharing it with your friends and family. Your support means the world to us.Don't forget to connect with us on social media to stay updated on upcoming episodes and engage in the conversation. We love hearing from our listeners!YouTubeApple PodcastSpotifyFacebookWe value your input and can't wait to hear your thoughts on this episode. Connect with us on social media, leave a review, and write a comment sharing your thoughts on this episode on YouTube. Your involvement keeps our podcast community thriving!

Send us Fan MailPastor Richard and Pastor Joey unpack the weight of guilt in the believer’s life and why denying sin only deepens spiritual bondage. Rooted in 1 John 1:8–9, they explain how confession leads to cleansing and freedom. This episode clarifies the difference between guilt and shame while pointing listeners to the cross as the only true path to forgiveness and restored identity in Christ.We hope you enjoyed this episode of The Reality Is. If you have found our podcast to be an encouragement to you, please consider subscribing, leaving a review, and sharing it with your friends and family. Your support means the world to us.Don't forget to connect with us on social media to stay updated on upcoming episodes and engage in the conversation. We love hearing from our listeners!YouTubeApple PodcastSpotifyFacebookWe value your input and can't wait to hear your thoughts on this episode. Connect with us on social media, leave a review, and write a comment sharing your thoughts on this episode on YouTube. Your involvement keeps our podcast community thriving!

Send us Fan MailIn this heartfelt episode, Pastor Joey and Pastor Richard discuss the reality of grief, from losing loved ones to enduring life altering changes, and how believers can process sorrow in a healthy, biblical way. They explore the difference between grieving with faith and grieving without hope, reminding listeners that grief is not sinful but must be surrendered to God. With practical wisdom and personal stories, they offer encouragement for walking through loss while holding tightly to Christ.We hope you enjoyed this episode of The Reality Is. If you have found our podcast to be an encouragement to you, please consider subscribing, leaving a review, and sharing it with your friends and family. Your support means the world to us.Don't forget to connect with us on social media to stay updated on upcoming episodes and engage in the conversation. We love hearing from our listeners!YouTubeApple PodcastSpotifyFacebookWe value your input and can't wait to hear your thoughts on this episode. Connect with us on social media, leave a review, and write a comment sharing your thoughts on this episode on YouTube. Your involvement keeps our podcast community thriving!

Send us Fan MailWhy do we cut ourselves off when we’re struggling the most? Pastor Joey and Pastor Richard discuss how secrecy, pride, and hopelessness keep Christians stuck in repetitive sin cycles. Through Scripture and practical insight, they show how confession, community, and the power of the Holy Spirit bring true restoration and renewed joy.We hope you enjoyed this episode of The Reality Is. If you have found our podcast to be an encouragement to you, please consider subscribing, leaving a review, and sharing it with your friends and family. Your support means the world to us.Don't forget to connect with us on social media to stay updated on upcoming episodes and engage in the conversation. We love hearing from our listeners!YouTubeApple PodcastSpotifyFacebookWe value your input and can't wait to hear your thoughts on this episode. Connect with us on social media, leave a review, and write a comment sharing your thoughts on this episode on YouTube. Your involvement keeps our podcast community thriving!

Send us Fan MailWhy do we protect our sin like a cherished pet? In this convicting follow-up, the pastors challenge listeners to quit justifying disobedience and start setting up safeguards. Learn what it means to build spiritual walls, starve the flesh, and walk in the light of God’s truth.We hope you enjoyed this episode of The Reality Is. If you have found our podcast to be an encouragement to you, please consider subscribing, leaving a review, and sharing it with your friends and family. Your support means the world to us.Don't forget to connect with us on social media to stay updated on upcoming episodes and engage in the conversation. We love hearing from our listeners!YouTubeApple PodcastSpotifyFacebookWe value your input and can't wait to hear your thoughts on this episode. Connect with us on social media, leave a review, and write a comment sharing your thoughts on this episode on YouTube. Your involvement keeps our podcast community thriving!

Send us Fan MailPastor Joey and Pastor Richard launch a powerful three-part series diving into the persistent struggle with “pet sins,” those hidden, recurring behaviors we excuse or justify. In this opening episode, they explore how spiritual warfare and our misplaced affections feed these sins and how to begin the fight to overcome them through God's Word and the armor of God.We hope you enjoyed this episode of The Reality Is. If you have found our podcast to be an encouragement to you, please consider subscribing, leaving a review, and sharing it with your friends and family. Your support means the world to us.Don't forget to connect with us on social media to stay updated on upcoming episodes and engage in the conversation. We love hearing from our listeners!YouTubeApple PodcastSpotifyFacebookWe value your input and can't wait to hear your thoughts on this episode. Connect with us on social media, leave a review, and write a comment sharing your thoughts on this episode on YouTube. Your involvement keeps our podcast community thriving!

Send us Fan MailPastor Joey and Pastor Richard dive into what true Christlikeness looks like, not just in church but in daily life. They explore Romans 8:29, 2 Corinthians 3:18, and 1 John 3:2 to show that being conformed to the image of Christ is a divine process led by the Holy Spirit. From love to sanctification, this episode offers a rich foundation for anyone desiring to reflect Jesus more authentically.We hope you enjoyed this episode of The Reality Is. If you have found our podcast to be an encouragement to you, please consider subscribing, leaving a review, and sharing it with your friends and family. Your support means the world to us.Don't forget to connect with us on social media to stay updated on upcoming episodes and engage in the conversation. We love hearing from our listeners!YouTubeApple PodcastSpotifyFacebookWe value your input and can't wait to hear your thoughts on this episode. Connect with us on social media, leave a review, and write a comment sharing your thoughts on this episode on YouTube. Your involvement keeps our podcast community thriving!

Send us Fan MailIn this impactful continuation, Pastor Joey and Pastor Richard reveal the final four habits of a spiritually mature Christian: embracing trials, living a Christlike lifestyle, trusting God over self, and pursuing personal holiness. Through Scripture and honest reflection, they tie together all eight habits as a practical framework for growth in 2026 and beyond.We hope you enjoyed this episode of The Reality Is. If you have found our podcast to be an encouragement to you, please consider subscribing, leaving a review, and sharing it with your friends and family. Your support means the world to us.Don't forget to connect with us on social media to stay updated on upcoming episodes and engage in the conversation. We love hearing from our listeners!YouTubeApple PodcastSpotifyFacebookWe value your input and can't wait to hear your thoughts on this episode. Connect with us on social media, leave a review, and write a comment sharing your thoughts on this episode on YouTube. Your involvement keeps our podcast community thriving!

Send us Fan MailPastor Joey and Pastor Richard close the episode by tying together the first four key habits for spiritual maturity: daily Bible study, intentional prayer, committed corporate worship, and cultivating godly friendships. They remind listeners that maturity isn’t formed by one step but by a community-supported lifestyle of ongoing growth in Christ.We hope you enjoyed this episode of The Reality Is. If you have found our podcast to be an encouragement to you, please consider subscribing, leaving a review, and sharing it with your friends and family. Your support means the world to us.Don't forget to connect with us on social media to stay updated on upcoming episodes and engage in the conversation. We love hearing from our listeners!YouTubeApple PodcastSpotifyFacebookWe value your input and can't wait to hear your thoughts on this episode. Connect with us on social media, leave a review, and write a comment sharing your thoughts on this episode on YouTube. Your involvement keeps our podcast community thriving!

Send us Fan MailIn a lighthearted yet powerful conversation, Pastors Joey and Richard share family Thanksgiving traditions and move into a deep discussion on spiritual thankfulness. They explore why we should be thankful for Christ’s sacrifice, our new identity, and God’s comfort in every trial. A rich message filled with encouragement and joy.We hope you enjoyed this episode of The Reality Is. If you have found our podcast to be an encouragement to you, please consider subscribing, leaving a review, and sharing it with your friends and family. Your support means the world to us.Don't forget to connect with us on social media to stay updated on upcoming episodes and engage in the conversation. We love hearing from our listeners!YouTubeApple PodcastSpotifyFacebookWe value your input and can't wait to hear your thoughts on this episode. Connect with us on social media, leave a review, and write a comment sharing your thoughts on this episode on YouTube. Your involvement keeps our podcast community thriving!

Send us Fan MailThis episode explores how God brings glory to Himself through our hardships. With references to Acts 12, Romans 5, and 2 Corinthians, the Pastor Richard and Pastor Joey explain that suffering isn’t pointless... it's preparation for deeper trust and greater impact in the lives of others.We hope you enjoyed this episode of The Reality Is. If you have found our podcast to be an encouragement to you, please consider subscribing, leaving a review, and sharing it with your friends and family. Your support means the world to us.Don't forget to connect with us on social media to stay updated on upcoming episodes and engage in the conversation. We love hearing from our listeners!YouTubeApple PodcastSpotifyFacebookWe value your input and can't wait to hear your thoughts on this episode. Connect with us on social media, leave a review, and write a comment sharing your thoughts on this episode on YouTube. Your involvement keeps our podcast community thriving!

Send us Fan MailIn this heartfelt episode, Pastor Joey and Pastor Richard dive deep into the raw and often unspoken pain of church hurt. They open up about their own wounds, confront the dangers of bitterness, and remind listeners that while people may fail us, God never does. With biblical wisdom and honest reflection, they encourage healing without forsaking the body of Christ.We hope you enjoyed this episode of The Reality Is. If you have found our podcast to be an encouragement to you, please consider subscribing, leaving a review, and sharing it with your friends and family. Your support means the world to us.Don't forget to connect with us on social media to stay updated on upcoming episodes and engage in the conversation. We love hearing from our listeners!YouTubeApple PodcastSpotifyFacebookWe value your input and can't wait to hear your thoughts on this episode. Connect with us on social media, leave a review, and write a comment sharing your thoughts on this episode on YouTube. Your involvement keeps our podcast community thriving!

Send us Fan MailPastor Joey and Pastor Richard unpack the spiritual importance of church attendance, tackling common objections and cultural excuses. From corporate worship to discipleship and acts of service, they highlight why gathering with fellow believers is more than tradition... it's obedience, joy, and a vital part of Christian growth.We hope you enjoyed this episode of The Reality Is. If you have found our podcast to be an encouragement to you, please consider subscribing, leaving a review, and sharing it with your friends and family. Your support means the world to us.Don't forget to connect with us on social media to stay updated on upcoming episodes and engage in the conversation. We love hearing from our listeners!YouTubeApple PodcastSpotifyFacebookWe value your input and can't wait to hear your thoughts on this episode. Connect with us on social media, leave a review, and write a comment sharing your thoughts on this episode on YouTube. Your involvement keeps our podcast community thriving!

Send us Fan MailIn this heartfelt episode, Pastor Joey and Pastor Richard explore how trials are not the end, but classrooms where God teaches us endurance, faith, and trust. Drawing from Scripture and personal stories, they encourage listeners to see difficult seasons as spiritual growth opportunities.We hope you enjoyed this episode of The Reality Is. If you have found our podcast to be an encouragement to you, please consider subscribing, leaving a review, and sharing it with your friends and family. Your support means the world to us.Don't forget to connect with us on social media to stay updated on upcoming episodes and engage in the conversation. We love hearing from our listeners!YouTubeApple PodcastSpotifyFacebookWe value your input and can't wait to hear your thoughts on this episode. Connect with us on social media, leave a review, and write a comment sharing your thoughts on this episode on YouTube. Your involvement keeps our podcast community thriving!

Send us Fan MailSpecial Guest Craig Tuck shares the inspiring story behind Pray Charleston, a 24/7 interdenominational prayer movement uniting over 50 churches across Greater Charleston. Learn how persistent prayer is changing lives, lowering crime, and stirring revival.We hope you enjoyed this episode of The Reality Is. If you have found our podcast to be an encouragement to you, please consider subscribing, leaving a review, and sharing it with your friends and family. Your support means the world to us.Don't forget to connect with us on social media to stay updated on upcoming episodes and engage in the conversation. We love hearing from our listeners!YouTubeApple PodcastSpotifyFacebookWe value your input and can't wait to hear your thoughts on this episode. Connect with us on social media, leave a review, and write a comment sharing your thoughts on this episode on YouTube. Your involvement keeps our podcast community thriving!

Send us Fan MailPastor Joey and Pastor Richard dive into what it really means to remain faithful during life's hardest battles. With scriptural truth from Hebrews, Ephesians, and Philippians, they unpack how the armor of God, a strong church connection, and a steady devotional life help believers persevere and grow stronger through trials.We hope you enjoyed this episode of The Reality Is. If you have found our podcast to be an encouragement to you, please consider subscribing, leaving a review, and sharing it with your friends and family. Your support means the world to us.Don't forget to connect with us on social media to stay updated on upcoming episodes and engage in the conversation. We love hearing from our listeners!YouTubeApple PodcastSpotifyFacebookWe value your input and can't wait to hear your thoughts on this episode. Connect with us on social media, leave a review, and write a comment sharing your thoughts on this episode on YouTube. Your involvement keeps our podcast community thriving!

Send us Fan MailWhat’s the simplest and most effective framework for sharing your faith? Pastor Richard and Pastor Joey break it down: ask people their story, listen with the gospel in mind, and speak truth in love. Together, they share real-life moments, practical wisdom, and biblical insight to show how compassion and scripture come together to transform lives—one story at a time.We hope you enjoyed this episode of The Reality Is. If you have found our podcast to be an encouragement to you, please consider subscribing, leaving a review, and sharing it with your friends and family. Your support means the world to us.Don't forget to connect with us on social media to stay updated on upcoming episodes and engage in the conversation. We love hearing from our listeners!YouTubeApple PodcastSpotifyFacebookWe value your input and can't wait to hear your thoughts on this episode. Connect with us on social media, leave a review, and write a comment sharing your thoughts on this episode on YouTube. Your involvement keeps our podcast community thriving!

Send us Fan MailThis episode confronts the lie that “it’s just between me and God.” Pastors Joey and Richard illustrate how concealed sin damages not only the sinner but everyone around them, from families to entire churches. With stories from Scripture and personal ministry experiences, they urge listeners to deal with sin before it destroys.We hope you enjoyed this episode of The Reality Is. If you have found our podcast to be an encouragement to you, please consider subscribing, leaving a review, and sharing it with your friends and family. Your support means the world to us.Don't forget to connect with us on social media to stay updated on upcoming episodes and engage in the conversation. We love hearing from our listeners!YouTubeApple PodcastSpotifyFacebookWe value your input and can't wait to hear your thoughts on this episode. Connect with us on social media, leave a review, and write a comment sharing your thoughts on this episode on YouTube. Your involvement keeps our podcast community thriving!

Send us Fan MailIn this heartfelt episode, Pastor Joey and Pastor Richard challenge listeners to move beyond surface-level Christianity. What does it mean to really love the church and God’s people—even when it’s inconvenient, messy, or painful? They unpack Hebrews 10 and the costly call of real love and sacrifice within the body of Christ.We hope you enjoyed this episode of The Reality Is. If you have found our podcast to be an encouragement to you, please consider subscribing, leaving a review, and sharing it with your friends and family. Your support means the world to us.Don't forget to connect with us on social media to stay updated on upcoming episodes and engage in the conversation. We love hearing from our listeners!YouTubeApple PodcastSpotifyFacebookWe value your input and can't wait to hear your thoughts on this episode. Connect with us on social media, leave a review, and write a comment sharing your thoughts on this episode on YouTube. Your involvement keeps our podcast community thriving!

Send us Fan MailIn this candid and convicting episode, Pastor Joey and Pastor Richard invite listeners to evaluate their spiritual lives through the lens of scripture. From unforgiveness to unfiltered speech, it’s time to assess where you truly stand.We hope you enjoyed this episode of The Reality Is. If you have found our podcast to be an encouragement to you, please consider subscribing, leaving a review, and sharing it with your friends and family. Your support means the world to us.Don't forget to connect with us on social media to stay updated on upcoming episodes and engage in the conversation. We love hearing from our listeners!YouTubeApple PodcastSpotifyFacebookWe value your input and can't wait to hear your thoughts on this episode. Connect with us on social media, leave a review, and write a comment sharing your thoughts on this episode on YouTube. Your involvement keeps our podcast community thriving!

Send us Fan MailWelcome back to Season 3! In this episode, Pastor Joey and Pastor Richard dive deep into the struggle many face with lingering guilt from past sins, even after salvation. They explore the difference between regret, remorse, and true repentance, and how understanding God's complete forgiveness can free us from shame and self-condemnation.We hope you enjoyed this episode of The Reality Is. If you have found our podcast to be an encouragement to you, please consider subscribing, leaving a review, and sharing it with your friends and family. Your support means the world to us.Don't forget to connect with us on social media to stay updated on upcoming episodes and engage in the conversation. We love hearing from our listeners!YouTubeApple PodcastSpotifyFacebookWe value your input and can't wait to hear your thoughts on this episode. Connect with us on social media, leave a review, and write a comment sharing your thoughts on this episode on YouTube. Your involvement keeps our podcast community thriving!

Send us Fan MailIs there really a split between the Jesus of history and the Jesus of faith? Pastor Joey and Dr. Gravely say no—and explain why. Together, they confront academic theories with practical faith and encourage listeners to trust the gospel accounts while addressing tough questions thoughtfully.We hope you enjoyed this episode of The Reality Is. If you have found our podcast to be an encouragement to you, please consider subscribing, leaving a review, and sharing it with your friends and family. Your support means the world to us.Don't forget to connect with us on social media to stay updated on upcoming episodes and engage in the conversation. We love hearing from our listeners!YouTubeApple PodcastSpotifyFacebookWe value your input and can't wait to hear your thoughts on this episode. Connect with us on social media, leave a review, and write a comment sharing your thoughts on this episode on YouTube. Your involvement keeps our podcast community thriving!

Send us Fan MailPastor Joey and Pastor Richard dive deep into the topic, "If I Were the Devil," exposing the deceptive tactics Satan uses to derail believers. From spiritual complacency to the misuse of social media, they unpack how the enemy subtly infiltrates our lives and ministries, urging listeners to remain vigilant, accountable, and spiritually disciplined.We hope you enjoyed this episode of The Reality Is. If you have found our podcast to be an encouragement to you, please consider subscribing, leaving a review, and sharing it with your friends and family. Your support means the world to us.Don't forget to connect with us on social media to stay updated on upcoming episodes and engage in the conversation. We love hearing from our listeners!YouTubeApple PodcastSpotifyFacebookWe value your input and can't wait to hear your thoughts on this episode. Connect with us on social media, leave a review, and write a comment sharing your thoughts on this episode on YouTube. Your involvement keeps our podcast community thriving!

Send us Fan MailPastor Joey and Pastor Richard tackle widely quoted sayings like "God helps those who help themselves" and "Cleanliness is next to godliness," clarifying what scripture actually says, and what it doesn’t. This episode emphasizes the importance of knowing God’s Word for yourself.We hope you enjoyed this episode of The Reality Is. If you have found our podcast to be an encouragement to you, please consider subscribing, leaving a review, and sharing it with your friends and family. Your support means the world to us.Don't forget to connect with us on social media to stay updated on upcoming episodes and engage in the conversation. We love hearing from our listeners!YouTubeApple PodcastSpotifyFacebookWe value your input and can't wait to hear your thoughts on this episode. Connect with us on social media, leave a review, and write a comment sharing your thoughts on this episode on YouTube. Your involvement keeps our podcast community thriving!

Send us Fan MailLife rarely unfolds the way we plan. Pastor Richard and Pastor Joey explore what it means to remain faithful when God redirects our steps. Drawing on scriptures, personal testimonies, and pastoral insight, they challenge listeners to remember God's past faithfulness and trust His sovereignty in the unknown.We hope you enjoyed this episode of The Reality Is. If you have found our podcast to be an encouragement to you, please consider subscribing, leaving a review, and sharing it with your friends and family. Your support means the world to us.Don't forget to connect with us on social media to stay updated on upcoming episodes and engage in the conversation. We love hearing from our listeners!YouTubeApple PodcastSpotifyFacebookWe value your input and can't wait to hear your thoughts on this episode. Connect with us on social media, leave a review, and write a comment sharing your thoughts on this episode on YouTube. Your involvement keeps our podcast community thriving!

Send us Fan MailPastor Joey and Pastor Richard continue their powerful conversation on the real-life impact of the resurrection. They ask the tough questions: Does your faith change how you live each day? Is Easter just a holiday, or is it a personal transformation? This episode dives deep into the power of resurrection to break sin, fuel daily devotion, and banish the fear of death. It’s not just about knowing Jesus rose—it’s about living like He did.We hope you enjoyed this episode of The Reality Is. If you have found our podcast to be an encouragement to you, please consider subscribing, leaving a review, and sharing it with your friends and family. Your support means the world to us.Don't forget to connect with us on social media to stay updated on upcoming episodes and engage in the conversation. We love hearing from our listeners!YouTubeApple PodcastSpotifyFacebookWe value your input and can't wait to hear your thoughts on this episode. Connect with us on social media, leave a review, and write a comment sharing your thoughts on this episode on YouTube. Your involvement keeps our podcast community thriving!

Send us Fan MailAs the Easter season approaches, Pastor Joey and Pastor Richard confront the question: does the resurrection matter to you? In this heartfelt discussion, they explain the real hope that Easter offers—not just for eternity, but for everyday life. With humor, honesty, and scripture, they point listeners to the risen Savior who intercedes on our behalf.We hope you enjoyed this episode of The Reality Is. If you have found our podcast to be an encouragement to you, please consider subscribing, leaving a review, and sharing it with your friends and family. Your support means the world to us.Don't forget to connect with us on social media to stay updated on upcoming episodes and engage in the conversation. We love hearing from our listeners!YouTubeApple PodcastSpotifyFacebookWe value your input and can't wait to hear your thoughts on this episode. Connect with us on social media, leave a review, and write a comment sharing your thoughts on this episode on YouTube. Your involvement keeps our podcast community thriving!

Send us Fan MailIn this heartfelt episode, Pastor Joey and Pastor Richard dive deep into the true essence of biblical counseling. They discuss the danger of advice rooted in personal opinion versus scripture and why real counsel must be grounded in God's Word. The pastors lay out four essentials for biblical counsel and remind listeners that offering scripture-based wisdom is one of the most loving things we can do for one another.We hope you enjoyed this episode of The Reality Is. If you have found our podcast to be an encouragement to you, please consider subscribing, leaving a review, and sharing it with your friends and family. Your support means the world to us.Don't forget to connect with us on social media to stay updated on upcoming episodes and engage in the conversation. We love hearing from our listeners!YouTubeApple PodcastSpotifyFacebookWe value your input and can't wait to hear your thoughts on this episode. Connect with us on social media, leave a review, and write a comment sharing your thoughts on this episode on YouTube. Your involvement keeps our podcast community thriving!

Send us Fan MailIn this episode, Pastor Joey and Pastor Richard explore the deeply personal issue of “pet sins”—those sins we justify, excuse, or quietly enjoy while claiming to walk in righteousness. From gossip and grudges to discontentment and blame, they break down how these sins can subtly dominate our lives and hinder spiritual growth.We hope you enjoyed this episode of The Reality Is. If you have found our podcast to be an encouragement to you, please consider subscribing, leaving a review, and sharing it with your friends and family. Your support means the world to us.Don't forget to connect with us on social media to stay updated on upcoming episodes and engage in the conversation. We love hearing from our listeners!YouTubeApple PodcastSpotifyFacebookWe value your input and can't wait to hear your thoughts on this episode. Connect with us on social media, leave a review, and write a comment sharing your thoughts on this episode on YouTube. Your involvement keeps our podcast community thriving!

Send us Fan MailIsolation may feel safe, but it can be spiritually dangerous. This week, Pastors Richard and Joey discuss the effects of isolation on faith, how discouragement thrives in loneliness, and why the Bible calls believers to be part of a community. Tune in for encouragement and practical advice on building strong, faith-filled relationships.We hope you enjoyed this episode of The Reality Is. If you have found our podcast to be an encouragement to you, please consider subscribing, leaving a review, and sharing it with your friends and family. Your support means the world to us.Don't forget to connect with us on social media to stay updated on upcoming episodes and engage in the conversation. We love hearing from our listeners!YouTubeApple PodcastSpotifyFacebookWe value your input and can't wait to hear your thoughts on this episode. Connect with us on social media, leave a review, and write a comment sharing your thoughts on this episode on YouTube. Your involvement keeps our podcast community thriving!

Send us Fan MailThe company we keep shapes who we become. In this insightful discussion, Pastor Joey and Pastor Richard examine how to identify godly role models who prioritize prayer, scripture, and discipleship. They also challenge listeners to become the kind of examples others can follow. Is your faith influencing others in a positive way? Tune in to find out!We hope you enjoyed this episode of The Reality Is. If you have found our podcast to be an encouragement to you, please consider subscribing, leaving a review, and sharing it with your friends and family. Your support means the world to us.Don't forget to connect with us on social media to stay updated on upcoming episodes and engage in the conversation. We love hearing from our listeners!YouTubeApple PodcastSpotifyFacebookWe value your input and can't wait to hear your thoughts on this episode. Connect with us on social media, leave a review, and write a comment sharing your thoughts on this episode on YouTube. Your involvement keeps our podcast community thriving!

Send us Fan MailJust like drifting in the ocean, we can slowly and unknowingly drift away from God. Pastor Joey and Pastor Richard break down how small compromises lead to spiritual distance and offer practical ways to stay anchored in faith. Discover how accountability, time in Scripture, and a vibrant prayer life can keep you close to Jesus.We hope you enjoyed this episode of The Reality Is. If you have found our podcast to be an encouragement to you, please consider subscribing, leaving a review, and sharing it with your friends and family. Your support means the world to us.Don't forget to connect with us on social media to stay updated on upcoming episodes and engage in the conversation. We love hearing from our listeners!YouTubeApple PodcastSpotifyFacebookWe value your input and can't wait to hear your thoughts on this episode. Connect with us on social media, leave a review, and write a comment sharing your thoughts on this episode on YouTube. Your involvement keeps our podcast community thriving!

Send us Fan MailDiscipleship doesn’t have to be limited to a classroom. Whether fishing, having coffee, or simply spending time together, discipleship happens in everyday moments. Join us as we share practical, creative ways to disciple others and live out the Great Commission in our daily lives.We hope you enjoyed this episode of The Reality Is. If you have found our podcast to be an encouragement to you, please consider subscribing, leaving a review, and sharing it with your friends and family. Your support means the world to us.Don't forget to connect with us on social media to stay updated on upcoming episodes and engage in the conversation. We love hearing from our listeners!YouTubeApple PodcastSpotifyFacebookWe value your input and can't wait to hear your thoughts on this episode. Connect with us on social media, leave a review, and write a comment sharing your thoughts on this episode on YouTube. Your involvement keeps our podcast community thriving!

Send us Fan MailMarriage is full of ups and downs, but faith makes all the difference. Pastor Richard and Joy open up about their journey—the lessons, the laughs, and the challenges that made them stronger. Their wisdom will encourage and inspire anyone seeking a Christ-centered marriage.We hope you enjoyed this episode of The Reality Is. If you have found our podcast to be an encouragement to you, please consider subscribing, leaving a review, and sharing it with your friends and family. Your support means the world to us.Don't forget to connect with us on social media to stay updated on upcoming episodes and engage in the conversation. We love hearing from our listeners!YouTubeApple PodcastSpotifyFacebookWe value your input and can't wait to hear your thoughts on this episode. Connect with us on social media, leave a review, and write a comment sharing your thoughts on this episode on YouTube. Your involvement keeps our podcast community thriving!

Send us Fan MailAfter 41 years, Pastor Richard and his wife, Joy, have learned what it takes to make a marriage thrive. From learning each other's triggers to embracing each other's quirks, they share how God has shaped their relationship through the years. Tune in for a 2 part series on practical wisdom, funny moments, and timeless biblical principles for a lasting marriage.We hope you enjoyed this episode of The Reality Is. If you have found our podcast to be an encouragement to you, please consider subscribing, leaving a review, and sharing it with your friends and family. Your support means the world to us.Don't forget to connect with us on social media to stay updated on upcoming episodes and engage in the conversation. We love hearing from our listeners!YouTubeApple PodcastSpotifyFacebookWe value your input and can't wait to hear your thoughts on this episode. Connect with us on social media, leave a review, and write a comment sharing your thoughts on this episode on YouTube. Your involvement keeps our podcast community thriving!

Send us Fan MailNot all friendships are created equal. Pastor Joey and Pastor Richard break down what makes a true Christian friend and why it matters. They discuss how our relationships impact our spiritual growth, why we need friends who pray for us, and how to recognize when we’re surrounding ourselves with the wrong influences.We hope you enjoyed this episode of The Reality Is. If you have found our podcast to be an encouragement to you, please consider subscribing, leaving a review, and sharing it with your friends and family. Your support means the world to us.Don't forget to connect with us on social media to stay updated on upcoming episodes and engage in the conversation. We love hearing from our listeners!YouTubeApple PodcastSpotifyFacebookWe value your input and can't wait to hear your thoughts on this episode. Connect with us on social media, leave a review, and write a comment sharing your thoughts on this episode on YouTube. Your involvement keeps our podcast community thriving!

Send us Fan MailPeople may not always listen to what you say, but they will watch how you live. In this thought-provoking episode, Pastor Joey and Pastor Richard discuss the importance of integrity, consistency, and intentionality in sharing Christ. They also tackle the challenge of truly listening to others before speaking, ensuring that our words and actions align with the gospel we preach.We hope you enjoyed this episode of The Reality Is. If you have found our podcast to be an encouragement to you, please consider subscribing, leaving a review, and sharing it with your friends and family. Your support means the world to us.Don't forget to connect with us on social media to stay updated on upcoming episodes and engage in the conversation. We love hearing from our listeners!YouTubeApple PodcastSpotifyFacebookWe value your input and can't wait to hear your thoughts on this episode. Connect with us on social media, leave a review, and write a comment sharing your thoughts on this episode on YouTube. Your involvement keeps our podcast community thriving!

Send us Fan MailWhat does your Monday faith look like? In this episode, Pastors Joey and Richard challenge listeners to align their daily lives with their proclaimed beliefs, ensuring that worship becomes a lifestyle rather than a weekend event.We hope you enjoyed this episode of The Reality Is. If you have found our podcast to be an encouragement to you, please consider subscribing, leaving a review, and sharing it with your friends and family. Your support means the world to us.Don't forget to connect with us on social media to stay updated on upcoming episodes and engage in the conversation. We love hearing from our listeners!YouTubeApple PodcastSpotifyFacebookWe value your input and can't wait to hear your thoughts on this episode. Connect with us on social media, leave a review, and write a comment sharing your thoughts on this episode on YouTube. Your involvement keeps our podcast community thriving!

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of The Reality Is, Pastors Joey and Richard explore the five key relationships every believer should cultivate. From the guidance of a "Paul" to the encouragement of a "Barnabas" and the discipleship of a "Timothy," they outline how these connections deepen faith. Plus, discover why engaging with non-believers is a vital part of living out the gospel.We hope you enjoyed this episode of The Reality Is. If you have found our podcast to be an encouragement to you, please consider subscribing, leaving a review, and sharing it with your friends and family. Your support means the world to us.Don't forget to connect with us on social media to stay updated on upcoming episodes and engage in the conversation. We love hearing from our listeners!YouTubeApple PodcastSpotifyFacebookWe value your input and can't wait to hear your thoughts on this episode. Connect with us on social media, leave a review, and write a comment sharing your thoughts on this episode on YouTube. Your involvement keeps our podcast community thriving!

Send us Fan MailIn this episode, Pastor Joey and Pastor Richard discuss the importance of leaving the past behind, whether it’s past failures or successes, and focusing on God’s purpose for the future. Learn how to overcome regret, embrace grace, and move forward in faith this new year.We hope you enjoyed this episode of The Reality Is. If you have found our podcast to be an encouragement to you, please consider subscribing, leaving a review, and sharing it with your friends and family. Your support means the world to us.Don't forget to connect with us on social media to stay updated on upcoming episodes and engage in the conversation. We love hearing from our listeners!YouTubeApple PodcastSpotifyFacebookWe value your input and can't wait to hear your thoughts on this episode. Connect with us on social media, leave a review, and write a comment sharing your thoughts on this episode on YouTube. Your involvement keeps our podcast community thriving!

Send us Fan MailIf your faith feels distant, this episode is for you. Joey and Richard talk about how to bring your relationship with God back to life by making simple changes and trusting His plan.We hope you enjoyed this episode of The Reality Is. If you have found our podcast to be an encouragement to you, please consider subscribing, leaving a review, and sharing it with your friends and family. Your support means the world to us.Don't forget to connect with us on social media to stay updated on upcoming episodes and engage in the conversation. We love hearing from our listeners!YouTubeApple PodcastSpotifyFacebookWe value your input and can't wait to hear your thoughts on this episode. Connect with us on social media, leave a review, and write a comment sharing your thoughts on this episode on YouTube. Your involvement keeps our podcast community thriving!