The Vine with Joe & Katie Devine

Send us Fan MailWe record on a chaotic Sunday between Mass, naps, phone calls, and too many dogs, then get honest about what is stretching our marriage and our patience. We look back on “Take Root,” share why “Capacity” is our word for 2026, and talk about trusting God for the strength we need today. • peaks and pits from family visits, travel, and new parent life • the reality of overstimulation and managing a house full of dogs • why grandma’s 90th birthday feels like a witness of lived Catholic faith • what “Take Root” means after our fertility journey shifts into new life • learning that the only constant is change and faith is home • why our 2026 word is capacity and how it grows over time • surrendering control, daily manna, and carrying unexpected crosses • letting babies and parents be human instead of robots Like, comment, and subscribe An exclusive from Dery Media Podcasts. Explore diverse perspectives and enrich your knowledge at derymedia.com. Telling stories that matter, sparking meaningful discussions.

Send us Fan MailWe trade our usual studio feel for a family-farm recording with Deacon Dad and a very real background chorus of baby life, dogs, and interruptions. We dig into discernment, what a Catholic deacon actually does, and why saying yes often comes before you feel ready. • live-audience chaos and a quick family roll call • peaks and pits with newborn sleep and early mornings • praying the outdoor Stations of the Cross as a community • the first nudge toward the permanent diaconate • a Diocesan Youth Conference adoration moment that changed everything • what “deacon” means and how deacons serve alongside priests • why parishes can feel different while staying fully Catholic • Roman Rite structure and variety across languages and rites • why priests are usually celibate and why some are married • the vow permanent deacons take regarding celibacy after widowhood • capacity, humility, and “God help me” as a real prayer • deacon ministry as a couple and the hidden work of spouses • formation as a lifelong process shared with family and community • marriage meeting idiom quiz and the Chin-family phrase struggle An exclusive from Dery Media Podcasts. Explore diverse perspectives and enrich your knowledge at derymedia.com. Telling stories that matter, sparking meaningful discussions.

Send us Fan MailWe pick up five months after Mary Jo’s birth and finally talk out loud about what the newborn season has felt like for us. The big surprise is how much bonding, confidence, and even our marriage grew through time, work, and a lot of messy learning. • catching up after a long break and naming this as a real-time processing talk • peaks and pits from the week and why change can feel so unsettling • the birth story from “is this labor?” to five centimeters dilated and a fast delivery • expectations for the golden hour compared to shock, pain, and the reality of holding a newborn • early bonding and why it can feel delayed for both moms and dads • the mental load of new parenthood and why everything feels high stakes at first • structure versus flexibility and how we’re learning what works for our family • trusting each other with solo parenting and building confidence by pushing ourselves • favorite baby products we actually use and would recommend Let’s keep growing together. An exclusive from Dery Media Podcasts. Explore diverse perspectives and enrich your knowledge at derymedia.com. Telling stories that matter, sparking meaningful discussions.

Send us Fan MailWhat happens when you've spent years praying for something that seems impossible? After nearly three years of struggling with infertility, we're finally ready to share our miracle—we're expecting our first child!This journey has been filled with doctor appointments, medications, surgeries, tears, doubts, and ultimately, a deepening understanding of what hope truly means. As we celebrate our four-year wedding anniversary, we reflect on how we've grown individually and as a couple. We've learned that while time changes circumstances, those core qualities that drew us together at 16 still remain at the heart of our relationship.The path to pregnancy wasn't simple. After endometriosis surgery and working with multiple doctors, we found ourselves at a crossroads—feeling defeated and ready to move on. Then came an appointment I almost canceled, with a doctor who offered a completely different approach. Instead of more tracking and supplements, she simply said, "Let me do it for you." That permission to release control became the unexpected gift we needed.This episode explores more than just our pregnancy announcement. We dive into what it means to maintain hope when disappointment feels inevitable. By incredible coincidence, Katie was asked to lead a workshop on hope for our church before knowing she was pregnant. The framework she developed—recognizing what hope is, embarking on the journey of hope, looking for signs, and anchoring yourself in hope—became the compass that guided us through our darkest moments.For anyone walking through infertility or any season of painful waiting, this one's for you. We've been where you are, and while everyone's story unfolds differently, we want you to know that hope truly does not disappoint—even when it takes forms we never expected.Reflection:Read the Pope Francis’ Bull of Indiction (Letter addressing the Jubilee Year of Hope) HERE: https://www.vatican.va/content/francesco/en/bulls/documents/20240509_spes-non-confundit_bolla-giubileo2025.htmlHave you experienced a season of waiting? How did you maintain hope?Where do you “hide” your hope behind? How can you cling to God in the Hopelessness?  We'd love to hear your stories and continue growing together through this new chapter.An exclusive from Dery Media Podcasts. Explore diverse perspectives and enrich your knowledge at derymedia.com. Telling stories that matter, sparking meaningful discussions.

Send us Fan MailHave you ever found yourself caught between hope and waiting, wondering how to share your struggles without feeling vulnerable? Join us on "The Vine" as we explore this emotional landscape with honesty and courage. This week, we kick things off with our "peak and pit" segment, sharing personal tales from the candy-strewn streets of Greenville to the communal joy of youth group retreats. With laughter and a touch of tummy troubles, we invite you to reflect on the highs and lows that make up the tapestry of our lives.Our conversation takes a more poignant turn as we open up about the journey of coping with infertility, emphasizing the power of vulnerability and the need for honest dialogue. It's a topic that touches many, yet is often shrouded in silence. We navigate the fear of having our experiences minimized and highlight the transformative power of sharing our stories with those who truly understand. Inspired by spiritual guidance, we reach out with empathy, hoping to connect with listeners on similar paths and reassure them that their feelings are valid and they are not alone.In our final segment, we unpack the power of hope and trust when facing life's uncertainties. Together, we explore the delicate balance between waiting and hoping, the struggle with control, and the solace found in faith and prayer. Reflecting on the wisdom of St. Pope John Paul II, we encourage embracing every challenge with courage and hope, no matter how daunting it may seem. Join us for a heartfelt journey that promises to lift your spirit and inspire you to face your own challenges with renewed strength and faith.An exclusive from Dery Media Podcasts. Explore diverse perspectives and enrich your knowledge at derymedia.com. Telling stories that matter, sparking meaningful discussions.

Send us Fan MailThe first day of October finds us buckling a car seat, grabbing microphones, and laughing through nerves as “baby day” finally arrives. Two weeks ago we thought labor had started—turns out it was two kidney stones at thirty‑six weeks—an ordeal that pushed us to ask better questions, lean on each other, and relearn the difference between bracing and trusting. From nesting wins to a quiet pilgrimage to the Shrine of Our Lady of La Leche in St. Augustine, we trace how grace threads through pain, humor, and ordinary preparation.Our conversation moves through September’s Gospels with fresh eyes. Luke 14 confronts the true cost of discipleship and why “hating” sin actually makes room for deeper tenderness. John 3:16 on the Feast of the Exaltation of the Holy Cross reframes suffering with the serpent‑to‑cross arc: what once harmed can be lifted up and turned into hope. Then Luke 16 sneaks up on us—first with the “dishonest steward” as a jolting lesson in prudence and foresight, and then with the rich man and Lazarus, a stark warning about comfort, omission, and the people we stop seeing at our own gates.We also share why we’re taking a short hiatus to welcome our daughter, how a 33‑day Marian consecration and the Litany keep our hearts steady, and why turning outrage into real conversation might be the most countercultural act of love right now. If you’re here for Catholic faith that’s lived, not performed—for practical holiness, honest marriage talk, and Scripture that reads your life back to you—you’ll feel at home with us. Subscribe, share this with a friend who needs some courage, and leave a review to help others find the show. We’ll be back in the new year—pray for us, and we’ll be praying for you.Litany of The Blessed Virgin Mary: https://www.nashvilledominican.org/prayer/litanies/litany-of-the-blessed-virgin-mary/Joe's Resource for the Dishonest Steward: September Gospels: Luke 14:25-33Great crowds were traveling with Jesus,and he turned and addressed them,“If anyone comes to me without hating his father and mother,wife and children, brothers and sisters,and even his own life,he cannot be my disciple.Whoever does not carry his own cross and come after mecannot be my disciple.Which of you wishing to construct a towerdoes not first sit down and calculate the costto see if there is enough for its completion?Otherwise, after laying the foundationand finding himself unable to finish the workthe onlookers should laugh at him and say,‘This one began to build but did not have the resources to finish.’Or what king marching into battle would not first sit downand decide whether with ten thousand troopshe can successfully oppose another kingadvancing upon him with twenty thousand troops?But if not, while he is still far away,he will send a delegation to ask for peace terms.In the same way,anyone of you who does not renounce all his possessionscannot be my disciple.”Love the creature, forget the creator - st augustineJohn 3:13-17Jesus said to Nicodemus:"No one has gone up to heavenexcept the one who has come down from heaven, the Son of Man.And just as Moses lifted up the serpent in the desert,so must the Son of Man be lifted up,so that everyone who believes in him may have An exclusive from Dery Media Podcasts. Explore diverse perspectives and enrich your knowledge at derymedia.com. Telling stories that matter, sparking meaningful discussions.

Send us Fan MailWhat does it mean to build a family with intention? As we prepare for the arrival of our daughter, we're diving into the meaningful (and sometimes challenging) conversations about what we want our family to stand for and how we'll approach raising our children.Creating a family mission statement might sound like corporate jargon, but we're discovering it's a powerful way to align our values and set a course for our growing family. Joe's concise statement centers on being "a welcoming Catholic family spreading the gospel by intentionally living out God's word," while Katie's more detailed version emphasizes that family extends beyond blood relations, the importance of building each other up, and moving heavenward together as a team. As we work toward a combined statement, we realize that perhaps "Love God, love your neighbor, love your family" captures the essence of what matters most.Beyond our mission statement, we explore our current thinking on everything from education choices to dating rules, cell phone policies to picky eating struggles. We're discovering that while we have ideas now, we'll likely need what Joe calls "bespoke parenting" – tailoring our approach to fit each child's unique needs rather than applying blanket rules. The conversation reveals our hopes, fears, and the values we want to instill, all while acknowledging that our perspectives will evolve as we gain experience as parents.Whether you're just starting your family journey or well into raising children, join us for this honest, lighthearted conversation about creating a blueprint for family life. We'd love to hear what guides your parenting journey.An exclusive from Dery Media Podcasts. Explore diverse perspectives and enrich your knowledge at derymedia.com. Telling stories that matter, sparking meaningful discussions.

Send us Fan MailAugust Sunday Gospels:August 3rd - Luke 12: 13-21August 10th - Luke 12: 32-48August 17th - Luke 12: 49-53August 24th - Luke 13: 22-30August 31st - Luke 14: 1, 7-14What does it mean to count the fruit in our spiritual lives? In this reflective episode, Katie and Joe dive deep into the August Gospels, uncovering a consistent theme that challenges comfortable Christianity. Together, they explore Jesus's urgent calls to readiness, proper prioritization, and genuine humility.The conversation weaves through powerful parables – from the rich man building bigger barns to servants waiting for their master's return. "Where your treasure is, there your heart will be also" emerges as a guiding light through these reflections, prompting us to examine what we truly value. Katie and Joe vulnerably share their own struggles with these teachings, including their tendency to prioritize friends over strangers and their wrestling with expectations in relationships.Between scriptural insights, the hosts share personal updates that ground their spiritual discussion in everyday reality. Katie opens up about pregnancy challenges and finding unexpected acceptance in her workout community, while Joe recounts driving 2,200 miles in a week and their ongoing battle with a delayed refrigerator delivery. These honest glimpses into their lives create a relatable backdrop for profound spiritual truths.The episode culminates in a beautiful recitation of the Litany of Humility, a prayer that perfectly encapsulates the themes explored throughout their gospel reflections. By asking for deliverance from desires for esteem, love, and approval, the prayer invites listeners to join in a countercultural approach to faith – one that prioritizes heavenly treasures over earthly recognition.Whether you're looking to deepen your understanding of August's liturgical readings or seeking authentic conversation about faith amid life's complexities, this episode offers both spiritual nourishment and genuine companionship on the journey. Subscribe now and continue counting the fruit alongside Katie and Joe.An exclusive from Dery Media Podcasts. Explore diverse perspectives and enrich your knowledge at derymedia.com. Telling stories that matter, sparking meaningful discussions.

Send us Fan MailJoe and Katie discuss their recent move to a new home while preparing for their first child, exploring how dreams evolve and when it's time to leave comfort for growth.• Moving with the help of 12-14 friends who emptied their old house in just 2.5 hours• The mental and emotional challenges of moving versus the physical labor• Discerning when to make major life changes simultaneously (pregnancy and moving)• How spiritual desires should shape material decisions• Finding peace by aligning worldly situations with spiritual longings• Reflections on their Seattle trip that helped them find contentment before their pregnancy• The importance of consulting trusted people when making significant life changes• Marriage statistics showing the average age of first-time homebuyers has increased from 28 to 38 since 1991• Second-time homebuyers now average 61 years old, highlighting housing accessibility issuesLet's keep growing together!!An exclusive from Dery Media Podcasts. Explore diverse perspectives and enrich your knowledge at derymedia.com. Telling stories that matter, sparking meaningful discussions.

Send us Fan MailKatie and Joe return to The Vine discussing life amid moving chaos while reflecting on several Gospel readings from Luke that highlight how we should love God and our neighbors.• The challenging logistics of moving while maintaining their weekly recording schedule• Their pregnancy photoshoot in their empty new house creates a special memory amid the chaos• Gospel reflection on Luke 10:1-12, 17-20 about Jesus sending out disciples and the importance of intentional ministry• Discussion of remaining in one place when ministering rather than moving from house to house• The Good Samaritan parable and the simple yet profound command to love God and neighbor• Personal stories about giving to those in need and the challenge of showing mercy with boundaries• Mary and Martha's story exploring the tension between active service and contemplative presence• Reflections on Jesus' teaching about persistence in prayer and trusting God even amid unanswered prayers• Fun conversation about what their last meals would be—Katie choosing sushi and ice cream, Joe selecting hot chicken and cookie dough cheesecakePhotographer Mentioned: @sarahmarie.photoAn exclusive from Dery Media Podcasts. Explore diverse perspectives and enrich your knowledge at derymedia.com. Telling stories that matter, sparking meaningful discussions.

Send us Fan MailWhat makes the Catholic Mass special beyond the obvious? In this heartfelt conversation, we peel back the layers of our weekly worship experience to discover the moments that truly move us.From the uncomfortable joy of incense smoke filling the sanctuary to the community-building awkwardness of the sign of peace, we're diving into the elements of Mass that have shaped our faith journeys in unexpected ways. Katie shares how walking up to communion during her struggle with infertility became a profound act of surrender and healing, while Joe reflects on the humbling power of the penitential rite that reminds us the Church is for broken people, not the already perfect.We explore how small traditions reveal big truths—like the way we stand for the Gospel or gather for post-Mass chatter. These seemingly minor rituals carry profound meaning when we pause to appreciate them. And because no Catholic conversation would be complete without music, we rank our all-time favorite Mass "bangers" (looking at you, "On Eagle's Wings" and "They'll Know We Are Christians By Our Love").Whether you're a lifelong Catholic who could recite the Nicene Creed in your sleep or someone curious about what happens inside those stained-glass windows every Sunday, this episode offers a fresh perspective on ancient traditions that continue to speak to modern hearts.Take a break from your micro-retirement (yes, that's just PTO with a fancy new name) and join us for this celebration of sacred moments that make us laugh, cry, and draw closer to something greater than ourselves.Catholic Bangers Spotify Playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6I5UMDOJ41BkdShpX9uUSo?si=lGlWrBO9T_G1DdlsgCoSvQ&pi=YzEKKVwtQhyrw&nd=1&dlsi=59ecc1b9a85f4647An exclusive from Dery Media Podcasts. Explore diverse perspectives and enrich your knowledge at derymedia.com. Telling stories that matter, sparking meaningful discussions.

Send us Fan MailIntroducing a new series - "Count the Fruit". A series where we highlight the "fruit" from each Sunday Gospel reading. This Episode we cover the Gospels for June 2025.Across every Sunday in June, our Catholic faith celebrated a different solemnity – each one a feast day of the highest rank celebrating a profound mystery of our tradition. Little did we realize how these five Gospels would weave together to tell the remarkable story of how the early Church was formed and what it means for our faith today.From the Ascension where disciples "returned to Jerusalem with great joy," to Pentecost when Jesus breathed the Holy Spirit into his followers saying "Peace be with you," these readings trace Christ's transition from physical presence to spiritual guide. We explore why the disciples felt joy rather than abandonment when Jesus left, and how that moment launched their mission to spread the Gospel.The mystery of the Holy Trinity emerges as a communion of persons we're invited to know through prayer rather than a theological puzzle to solve intellectually. As Jesus himself acknowledges, "I have much more to tell you, but you cannot bear it now." This permission to embrace mystery rather than demanding complete understanding liberates us to grow in faith through relationship rather than reason alone.Our conversation takes a practical turn examining the miracle of loaves and fishes. When disciples honestly admitted their limitations – "five loaves and two fish are all we have" – Jesus didn't dismiss them but instead invited their participation in preparing for a miracle. How often do we resist God's prompting because it seems illogical or insufficient? Openness to faith, we discover, is what unravels the miracle.Perhaps most profound is Jesus's personal question to Peter that echoes through centuries to each of us: "Who do you say that I am?" Beyond theological definitions or cultural understandings, this intimate question invites us to articulate our personal relationship with Christ – a relationship that likely changes day by day as we navigate life's complexities.Join us for this deep dive into scripture that reminds us we possess the keys to the kingdom of heaven and the power to overcome all obstacles through Christ. We'll be exploring the Gospels monthly moving forward, helping all of us remember to live with scripture as our guide through every season of faith.An exclusive from Dery Media Podcasts. Explore diverse perspectives and enrich your knowledge at derymedia.com. Telling stories that matter, sparking meaningful discussions.

Send us Fan MailHave you ever felt the unmistakable presence of someone walking beside you during life's most challenging moments? In this heartfelt conversation, we dive into the extraordinary companions who have shaped our spiritual journeys – both the saints in heaven and the ordinary people on earth who've guided us through uncertainty and joy.We share how our relationship with the saints transformed from distant historical figures to intimate spiritual companions during our season of infertility and medical struggles. Saint Faustina's honest spiritual diary taught us to suffer well, while Saint Thérèse's "little way" showed us how to find God in life's simplest moments. The tangible signs of their intercession – like roses appearing at pivotal moments of discernment – remind us that heaven is actively involved in our earthly journey.Saint Peter's story of repeated failures and ultimate leadership resonates deeply with those of us who get in our own way spiritually, while Saint Joseph's quiet, behind-the-scenes faithfulness offers a counterbalance for those who crave recognition. Beyond the canonized saints, we explore how ordinary people like Grandma Josie, Mr. Rogers, and C.S. Lewis have profoundly shaped our understanding of faith through their examples of genuine love, emotional intelligence, and intellectual curiosity.As we prepare for major life transitions – a new home, a baby on the way – we're discovering that slowing down and recognizing God's presence in our current circumstances might be more important than constantly seeking the next spiritual achievement. The "humans of heaven" remind us that holiness comes in countless forms, and that we're never truly alone on this journey of faith.Ready to discover the saints and spiritual companions waiting to walk alongside you? Join us for this intimate conversation about the cloud of witnesses that surrounds us all.An exclusive from Dery Media Podcasts. Explore diverse perspectives and enrich your knowledge at derymedia.com. Telling stories that matter, sparking meaningful discussions.

Send us Fan MailHave you ever found yourself spiritually exhausted while just trying to make it through another day? In this deeply practical episode, we peel back the layers of Catholic spirituality to reveal what daily faith really looks like when you're juggling work, relationships, and yes—even pregnancy and moving stress.We start with a revolutionary perspective shift: beyond Mass attendance and sacraments (which are vital), what are the simple, tangible practices that help Catholics navigate everyday challenges? Katie introduces Maslow's hierarchy of needs as a spiritual foundation—acknowledging that addressing our physical and mental health creates the necessary space for spiritual growth. This isn't separate from our faith journey; it's an essential component God designed into our human experience.Joe emphasizes the power of perspective, reminding us that many of the things that overwhelm us aren't as permanent or important as they seem in the moment. We discuss how surrounding yourself with positive people fundamentally changes your outlook, while negative relationships can subtly pull you down. One particularly practical suggestion we explore is maintaining ongoing conversation with God throughout your day—whether through structured morning prayer, adoration streaming on your TV, or even texting prayers to yourself under God's contact name!The conversation turns deeply personal as we share our own struggles with maintaining faith amid life's distractions. Katie reflects on her pregnancy journey and the physical realities that have made spiritual practices more challenging, while Joe opens up about how daily examination of conscience has transformed his self-awareness. We wrap up with an unexpected revelation: creating a "joy inventory" can counter our natural tendency to focus on negative experiences.What makes this episode truly special is our willingness to admit that Catholic living isn't about perfection—it's about progress. We are broken people capable of extraordinary love only through God's grace. Ready to transform your daily spiritual practice? Join us for this conversation that will leave you with practical tools and renewed hope.An exclusive from Dery Media Podcasts. Explore diverse perspectives and enrich your knowledge at derymedia.com. Telling stories that matter, sparking meaningful discussions.

Send us Fan MailWe've all been there—that moment when life's big transitions make us question where we're rooted. Whether it's starting a family, moving to a new city, or facing unexpected challenges, these moments often spark a desire to reconnect with faith and find deeper community.In this episode, we dive into what it means to restart or rekindle your faith journey using the Parable of the Sower as our guide. The seed that falls on the path, rocky ground, among thorns, or in good soil perfectly illustrates the different ways we respond to spiritual truths throughout our lives. We candidly share our own struggles with staying rooted during busy seasons and the subtle ways worldly concerns—from financial worries to social comparison—can choke out our spiritual growth without us even noticing.What does it really mean to take root in good soil? We explore the two essential ingredients: genuine desire and trust in the process. Faith isn't a magic trick or instant solution—it's a relationship that requires cultivation, patience, and community. Throughout history, Christianity has survived precisely because it offers something real and sustaining to those who seek it.Whether you're taking your first step toward faith or trying to find your way back after drifting, this conversation offers practical insights on overcoming common obstacles and creating the conditions for authentic spiritual growth. The journey isn't always straight, but with the right community and commitment, it leads to a life of deeper meaning and purpose.Ready to get started (again)? Join us as we explore how to find good soil for your faith to flourish. Your spiritual roots might be dormant, but they're just waiting for the right conditions to grow.Read along!!The Parable of the Sower: Mark 4: 1 - 20 Reflection: 1. Where do you find your faith right now? Fallen onto the path? Falling on the rocks? Falling on the thorns? Sown on the Good soil?2. What do you cling to when life feels hard? Do you feel supported in this? 3. As the sower, do you feel confident "sowing the seed freely"? Where do you feel God is calling you to "sow the seed" and share hope with others? An exclusive from Dery Media Podcasts. Explore diverse perspectives and enrich your knowledge at derymedia.com. Telling stories that matter, sparking meaningful discussions.

Send us Fan MailWhen our Lenten journey doesn't go as planned, where do we find ourselves in the Easter season? Katie and Joe dive deep into their personal experiences during the past 40 days, sharing both triumphs and struggles with refreshing honesty. The conversation begins with reflections on Easter celebrations and the beauty of Catholic traditions during Holy Week. We explore how these sacred rituals connect us physically to Christ's journey, from Palm Sunday through the resurrection. But what happens when our spiritual aspirations collide with the realities of busy lives, work travel, and house-hunting stress?Katie reveals a powerful moment with her spiritual director who gently suggested that feelings of disconnection might actually be God's way of calling her back. This revelation sparked a deeper understanding about the nature of our relationship with God – not based on perfect performance but on surrender and openness to divine invitation.Joe shares a profound meditation on the two thieves crucified alongside Jesus, highlighting the stark difference between demanding salvation on our terms versus surrendering to God's will. "One criminal commanded Jesus: 'Save us!' while the other simply asked to be remembered," Joe notes, challenging us to examine which approach characterizes our own spiritual lives.The episode concludes with heartfelt reflections on Pope Francis' legacy and his declaration of the Jubilee Year of Hope – a fitting theme as we navigate the disappointments of imperfect Lenten practices while embracing the joy of Easter.Whether you've maintained perfect spiritual disciplines or struggled to keep your Lenten commitments, this conversation offers a grace-filled perspective that will resonate with anyone seeking authentic relationship with God beyond religious performance. Join us as we discover how true transformation often happens not in our successes, but in our surrender.An exclusive from Dery Media Podcasts. Explore diverse perspectives and enrich your knowledge at derymedia.com. Telling stories that matter, sparking meaningful discussions.

Send us Fan MailMoney talks often lead to money fights—especially when a dedicated saver marries an enthusiastic spender. We're pulling back the curtain on our financial journey, revealing how our drastically different money mindsets have clashed, compromised, and ultimately created a stronger partnership.Katie grew up viewing money as something to protect and preserve, carefully saving birthday money and living with a scarcity mindset. Meanwhile, Joe approached finances with a "you can always earn more" attitude, finding joy in spending freely and worrying about tomorrow...well, tomorrow. Our house-buying journey has forced us to confront these differences head-on as we navigate one of life's biggest financial decisions.This episode explores how our upbringings shaped our financial perspectives, from Katie never filling her gas tank completely (just enough to get by!) to Joe viewing career choices primarily through the lens of providing for family. We discuss the spiritual dimensions of money management, sharing how faith communities have supported us and others during tight seasons, and why prosperity isn't measured by account balances.You'll hear practical advice about investing early, seeking financial guidance, and finding the delicate balance between saving for tomorrow and living fully today. We even reveal our top three spending categories (hello, Amazon addiction) and get vulnerable about our money mistakes. The conversation raises important questions about what it truly means to be "rich"—is it having wealth, family, purpose, or something else entirely?Whether you're struggling with a partner who views money differently, wondering how to approach retirement planning, or simply curious about how others handle their finances, this honest conversation offers both practical wisdom and permission to talk more openly about one of life's most taboo topics. Let's start normalizing these discussions—your financial wellness depends on it.Our Financial Planner: https://blackbridgefinancial.com/An exclusive from Dery Media Podcasts. Explore diverse perspectives and enrich your knowledge at derymedia.com. Telling stories that matter, sparking meaningful discussions.

Send us Fan MailWhat happens when your little sister joins your podcast? Pure magic and unexpected wisdom! In our latest episode, we're thrilled to welcome our very first guest—Katie's sister Alli —who brings a refreshingly honest perspective on navigating the early twenties.Remember when everyone said college would be "the best years of your life"? Alli turns this idea on its head, sharing why she's actually found more genuine happiness since graduating. She opens up about the freedom that comes from shedding the social pressure of campus life and focusing on quality relationships rather than quantity. Her insights on finding confidence through financial independence and setting meaningful personal goals will resonate with anyone navigating this transformative life stage.As the conversation deepens, we explore how faith evolves during these pivotal years. Alli candidly shares her journey through doubt and questioning, offering a perspective that feels authentic rather than prescribed. Her realization that inconsistent prayer stems from desire rather than time constraints strikes a powerful chord: "The failure wasn't in time but in the desire." This moment of raw honesty creates space for listeners to examine their own spiritual practices without judgment.The episode weaves through practical advice for recent graduates ("Do things that scare you"), the evolution of friendships beyond college, and ends with a hilarious segment where Alli tests our knowledge of Gen Z slang. From "skippity toilet riz" to "raise your ya-ya-ya," we prove just how out of touch we really are!Whether you're currently in your twenties, supporting someone who is, or simply remember the challenges of this formative decade, this conversation offers both comfort and challenge. Subscribe now and join our growing community as we navigate life's meaningful moments together.An exclusive from Dery Media Podcasts. Explore diverse perspectives and enrich your knowledge at derymedia.com. Telling stories that matter, sparking meaningful discussions.

Send us Fan MailOur discussion dives into the true meaning of Lent, sharing personal stories and exploring how sacrifices can lead to spiritual growth. We reflect on our childhood experiences with Lent, what we've learned over time, and how this season offers a unique opportunity for deeper connection with our faith. Our explorations emphasize the need to balance suffering and joy and engage listeners in conversations about their own Lenten journeys.- Personal memories of Lent growing up - Importance of sacrifice and spiritual growth - The balance between suffering and joy during Lent - Creative approaches to celebrating Lent today - Conversations on guilt versus healthy conviction - Encouragement for embracing Lent as a transformative season As we head into this Lenten season, we encourage you to reflect on your intentions and seek ways to deepen your relationship with God.An exclusive from Dery Media Podcasts. Explore diverse perspectives and enrich your knowledge at derymedia.com. Telling stories that matter, sparking meaningful discussions.

Send us Fan MailThis episode explores how Katie Devine was made to be who she is today. She discusses the interconnectedness of family, culture, and friendships in shaping her identity. With stories from a vacation in the Keys, reflections on missed flights, and the ups and downs of life, we invite listeners to consider their own experiences and the role relationships play in personal growth. • Highlights from a trip to the Keys • The emotional impact of family health scares • The influence of Filipino culture on identity and values • Navigating friendships during transitional life stages • Emphasizing the lessons learned from life's unpredictabilityAn exclusive from Dery Media Podcasts. Explore diverse perspectives and enrich your knowledge at derymedia.com. Telling stories that matter, sparking meaningful discussions.

Send us Fan MailThis episode is a heartfelt exploration of how Joe Devine became Joe Devine. Katie interviews Joe  about the different life experiences that shape who he is today. Joe reflects on his relationships/experiences with family, friendships, and careers, blending humor with meaningful insights about his past and who he has become today.• Exploring emotional peaks and pits of the week • Discussing family dynamics and their influences on personal identity • The value of friendships and long-lasting connections • Career development inspired by personal and familial influences • Life-altering experiences from youth programs • Fun segment on medical terms revealing their playful rapportAn exclusive from Dery Media Podcasts. Explore diverse perspectives and enrich your knowledge at derymedia.com. Telling stories that matter, sparking meaningful discussions.

Send us Fan MailWhat happens when meticulously planned itineraries give way to spontaneous adventures in the wild? We found out on our recent trek through Olympic National Park, where glaciers, rainforests, and driftwood-strewn beaches set the stage for unforgettable experiences. Join us as we recount not only the thrill of these natural wonders but also the delightful surprises, like discovering the best crab at the Seattle airport. The contrast of chilly adventures and our longing for Greenville's warmth offers a playful backdrop to our tales.Is dreaming of the perfect life setting us up for disappointment? In our candid chat, we unpack the tension between pursuing endless adventures and finding satisfaction in the present. Society often nudges us toward constant achievement, but we explore how this can lead to unmet expectations and a consumerist mindset. Through personal reflections, we delve into the concepts of FOMO and JOMO, shedding light on how finding joy in missing out can lead to richer, more authentic experiences. We even draw parallels with celebrity lives, using them as a springboard to discuss the subtleties of contentment.Imagine vacationing with spiritual purpose in mind, where spontaneity meets faith. Our journey in Washington wasn't just about sightseeing; it was a pilgrimage that intertwined with daily routines like attending Mass, ensuring our spiritual compass stayed true. We ponder how such moments foster gratitude and highlight the role of spiritual practices as guiding stars. Our episode concludes on a lighter note, featuring amusing stories about our dog, Oliver, and a fun quiz on U.S. city populations—a reminder that life's simplest joys often offer the most profound insights.33 Days to Eucharistic Glory: https://www.dynamiccatholic.com/33-days-to-eucharistic-glory/33EG.html?srsltid=AfmBOoodzIGN3vm1UQBiu-E-ZtYAU7-z34wTSVF4DzYA5bLuQeLAZSU-An exclusive from Dery Media Podcasts. Explore diverse perspectives and enrich your knowledge at derymedia.com. Telling stories that matter, sparking meaningful discussions.

Send us Fan MailAs we enter 2025, we reflect on our chosen phrase "Take Root," which symbolizes our desire to deepen our faith and connection with God. This episode explores the journey of selecting this word, its biblical significance, and how we can actively nurture our spiritual growth this year.• The significance of choosing a "Word of the Year" • Personal reflections on peaks and pits from the past year • Exploration of various words that were considered • The symbolism behind "Take Root" from a biblical perspective • Encouragement to engage with prayer and community for growth • Practical strategies for implementing this phrase in everyday life • Goals for the podcast and desire for community growthAn exclusive from Dery Media Podcasts. Explore diverse perspectives and enrich your knowledge at derymedia.com. Telling stories that matter, sparking meaningful discussions.

Send us Fan MailWhat if the holiday season is less about the hustle and more about finding magic in the mundane? Join us as we navigate the whirlwind of December, sharing our personal tales of holiday traditions, from the unlit Advent candles to the joy and chaos of family gatherings. As we laugh through our own experiences, we also ponder the effect of changing seasons on our moods and the stress of workplace transitions, all while keeping an eye on the delightful possibility of recording future episodes with a live audience.Reflecting on the past year, we open up about 2024's unforgettable moments, like career pivots and thrilling sports events, which have both challenged and enriched our lives. Our journey through 14 podcast episodes has not only captured our growth as hosts but also strengthened our marriage, shedding light on the support and shared joy we continually discover in each other. Amidst the festive cheer, we acknowledge the shades of seasonal depression that accompany early sunsets, yet find solace in the warmth of holiday gatherings.In a world bustling with expectations, we explore the transformative power of "beholding" and embracing divine presence. Discussing the delicate balance between action and contemplation, we delve into the depth of spiritual connection through visual meditation and prayer. These soulful practices have redefined our focus on the present, uncovering beauty in everyday moments and nurturing an intimate relationship with God. Join us on this reflective journey as we seek to behold the stillness and majesty of divine love in our hectic lives.An exclusive from Dery Media Podcasts. Explore diverse perspectives and enrich your knowledge at derymedia.com. Telling stories that matter, sparking meaningful discussions.

Send us Fan MailHave you ever found unexpected joy in the smallest moments, like feeling truly seen at work or reconnecting with friends over a beloved Friendsgiving tradition? That's exactly what we dive into as we share our recent personal highs and lows, including my sister's beautiful wedding and some chilly weather struggles. Join us as we navigate the bittersweet reality of post-college life and the thrill of mentoring resilient young people in our community. It's a journey filled with laughter, nostalgia, and the warmth of shared experiences.Thanksgiving is just around the corner, and with it comes a lively debate about what really makes the holiday feast special. From the polarizing opinions on turkey and stuffing to cherished childhood customs like St. Nick's Day, we reminisce about the quirky family traditions that make the season bright. Gift-giving dynamics during Christmas also come into play, sparking memories of Santa's sole role in our holiday celebrations, all while humorously acknowledging the occasional tummy troubles from festive overeating.Our exploration doesn't stop there. We delve into the rich tapestry of Catholic traditions, drawing parallels between the timelessness of spiritual practices and the storytelling of the Marvel Cinematic Universe. With personal anecdotes about rosary prayers and the significance of saints, we reflect on the evolution of religious customs and how they enhance our faith. Whether it's the liturgical seasons of Advent or the fun debates over potential baby names, this episode is an invitation to appreciate the profound connections that tradition and faith foster throughout the holiday season.An exclusive from Dery Media Podcasts. Explore diverse perspectives and enrich your knowledge at derymedia.com. Telling stories that matter, sparking meaningful discussions.

Send us Fan MailWhat happens when life’s everyday hurdles, like perfecting sourdough on a rainy day, turn into profound reflections? Join us as we share candid moments of laughter and vulnerability, from Joe's tears over heartwarming dog documentaries to Katie's ongoing quest to master the perfect loaf of bread. Our conversation navigates the emotional highs and lows that shape our days, all while keeping humor and gratitude at the forefront, even when it means breaking into a spontaneous sing-along.Ever found yourself cruising through life on autopilot and missing out on the meaningful connections around you? We dive into the importance of staying actively engaged in our relationships and spiritual journeys. Through personal stories of infertility and the unexpected community support it brought, and the joy sparked by a Ravens’ win or a spiritual reset at confession, we explore how surrender and connection bring strength. Inspired by Brandon Sanderson's wisdom, we reflect on acknowledging failures and embracing growth, particularly in the context of marriage and life's commitments.Explore the powerful theme of faith in action, illuminated by the biblical story of Elijah and the widow. This episode challenges complacency, urging us to embrace active participation in our spiritual and personal growth. From quirky discussions on Daylight Savings Time and its unexpected bug-related origins to the call for continuous development inspired by St. Therese, we remind each other to stay safe, keep growing, and find joy even amid life’s complexities.An exclusive from Dery Media Podcasts. Explore diverse perspectives and enrich your knowledge at derymedia.com. Telling stories that matter, sparking meaningful discussions.

Send us Fan MailEver had a week of power outages, wedding nostalgia and live football thrill? This episode captures it all!  After a short break, we're back on the mic, sharing laughs about the struggle of reacquainting ourselves with new recording equipment and catching up on life's peaks and pits. From Joe's incredible Ravens game experience to the recent hurricane challenges in the Carolinas, we'll take you through the emotional whirlwind of these events and the heartwarming resilience of our communities.Join us as we navigate the rollercoaster of wedding highs and lows, offering candid reflections on what we loved and what we might have done differently. We're spilling the beans on everything from awkward seating arrangements to the hilarity of forgotten wedding favors. Plus, we dive into the meaningful traditions that made our day uniquely ours, with stories of sacred ceremonies and cultural touches that brought our families together in a celebration of love and unity.Feel the adrenaline of game day as we recount the unforgettable atmosphere of a live football match, complete with the joy of unexpected seat upgrades and the camaraderie of high-fiving strangers. As we wrap up this episode, we reflect on our journey together—intertwined by both the thrill of victory on the field and the cherished memories of our wedding day. It's a conversation filled with laughter, love, and the many stories that bond us. Tune in for a heartfelt ride through life's challenges and triumphs.An exclusive from Dery Media Podcasts. Explore diverse perspectives and enrich your knowledge at derymedia.com. Telling stories that matter, sparking meaningful discussions.

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of 'The Vine,' Joe and Katie discuss the challenges and importance of having difficult conversations with loved ones. They explore themes of trust, vulnerability, and the significance of opening up about struggles and joys in life. Throughout the episode, they share personal anecdotes, delve into scriptural insights, and provide practical advice on handling sensitive topics with family and friends. The couple also injects humor with a lighthearted 'would you rather' segment and updates listeners on their daily experiences. This episode offers a thoughtful look at building deeper connections through honest communication.00:00 Introduction and Greetings01:05 Setting the Scene: Coffee and Motorcycles01:49 Katie's Unsettled Feelings03:59 Joe's Busy Schedule and House Updates05:00 Weather Talk and Hurricane Debbie05:21 The Pasta Hair vs. Cheeto Fingers Debate09:00 Discussing Uncomfortable Topics17:00 Effective Communication in Relationships18:03 The Importance of Listening18:50 Problem Solving vs. Venting19:40 The Power of Sharing Struggles23:19 Dealing with Shame and Openness24:58 Finding the Right Person to Talk To28:50 Journaling as a Form of Communication31:41 Balancing When to Share39:08 Olympic Anecdotes and Wrap-UpAn exclusive from Dery Media Podcasts. Explore diverse perspectives and enrich your knowledge at derymedia.com. Telling stories that matter, sparking meaningful discussions.

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of 'The Vine,' Katie and Joe Devine dive into the second part of their series on living a joyful life, focusing on the 'Others' aspect of the acronym J.O.Y. (Jesus, Others, Yourself). They share personal stories, biblical insights, and practical advice on how prioritizing others can enhance one's own joy. The couple also updates listeners on their daily lives, including their experiences with cooking, gardening, and upcoming vacations. Filled with humor and deep reflections, this episode offers a heartfelt exploration of faith, community, and personal well-being.00:00 Introduction and Greetings00:36 Funny Classroom Memories03:49 Cooking and Weekend Activities07:04 Garden Update10:06 Joy: Serving Others17:06 The Power of Joy and Compliments17:20 Finding Joy in Serving Others21:02 Balancing Self-Care and Serving Others22:43 The Importance of Loving Yourself27:30 Faith and Joy: A Spiritual Connection31:13 The Secret to a Joyful Life33:28 Romanticy: The New Book Sensation35:36 Conclusion and FarewellAn exclusive from Dery Media Podcasts. Explore diverse perspectives and enrich your knowledge at derymedia.com. Telling stories that matter, sparking meaningful discussions.

Send us Fan MailThe Joyful Life: Jesus, Others, and YourselfIn this episode of 'The Vine,' hosts Katie and Joe explore the concept of living a joyful life through the acronym J.O.Y., which stands for Jesus, Others, Yourself. They discuss the significance of each component, with a particular emphasis on developing a strong relationship with Jesus. The conversation includes personal anecdotes, biblical references, and practical advice on balancing these elements for a fulfilling and content life. The episode is filled with humor, relatability, and deep insights into faith and personal well-being.00:00 Welcome to The Vine Podcast00:25 Katie's Spontaneous Singing01:11 Episode Count Confusion01:35 Addressing Technical Issues02:13 Weekly Check-In: Peaks and Pits04:36 Katie's Cleaning Mishap07:29 The Secret to Living a Joyful Life08:03 The JOY Acronym: Jesus, Others, Yourself10:31 Balancing Life's Plates12:18 Prioritizing Jesus in Your Life16:23 The Greatest Act of Love and Joy18:17 The Yoke of Jesus: Shared Burdens20:18 Understanding Jesus' Role in Our Lives24:31 Restoring Your Relationship with Jesus29:51 The Importance of Communication with Christ30:39 Marriage Meeting and AI Discussion34:05 Conclusion and Final ThoughtsAn exclusive from Dery Media Podcasts. Explore diverse perspectives and enrich your knowledge at derymedia.com. Telling stories that matter, sparking meaningful discussions.

Send us Fan MailJoe and Katie dive into various facets of married life, from humorous attempts at unique greetings to practical advice for young couples. They discuss the importance of maintaining individual hobbies and faith lives, balancing time with friends and their spouse, and always being honest in communication. Highlights include Katie's thriving, albeit chaotic, garden thanks to their dog Lucy's 'green paw,' and Joe's frustrating yet enlightening traffic ordeals. The couple also shares personal anecdotes and ten pieces of crucial advice for newly married couples based on their three years of experience. Tune in for a blend of humor, relatability, and actionable insights on nurturing a healthy marriage.00:00 Introduction and Greetings00:51 Roommate Updates and Garden Talk02:44 Travel Stories and Traffic Woes04:20 Welcome to The Vine Podcast05:02 Ten Things Every Young Married Couple Should Know06:20 First Advice: Always Play08:48 Second Advice: Give Problems Time and Distance13:48 Third Advice: Have Something of Your Own16:41 Balancing Relationships Inside and Outside Marriage17:43 Embracing Individuality and Independence18:42 Understanding Loneliness vs. Being Alone21:19 Navigating Daily Challenges in Marriage25:36 The Importance of Honesty and Transparency27:56 Knowing and Speaking Each Other's Love Languages32:43 Fun and Practical Marriage Tips33:50 Economic Vibes and Pizza Capitals37:17 Reflecting on Marriage and Personal GrowthAn exclusive from Dery Media Podcasts. Explore diverse perspectives and enrich your knowledge at derymedia.com. Telling stories that matter, sparking meaningful discussions.

Send us Fan MailKatie and Joe embark on a lively, casual Saturday morning recording, sharing updates from their lives and reflecting on lighthearted topics. They discuss Joe's new job, their busy schedules filled with weddings and family events, and their experiences with their dog, Lucy, who is now on Prozac. Moving to more profound discussions, they explore the concept of life's purpose, touching on personal faith, spirituality, and small acts of love. Katie shares her struggles and growth in faith and mentorship, while Joe reflects on advice from his mother and the role of self-change. They feature quotes from various sources on life's purpose, dissecting and analyzing their meanings. The conversation is peppered with humor and personal anecdotes, encapsulating both light moments and deeper philosophical reflections.An exclusive from Dery Media Podcasts. Explore diverse perspectives and enrich your knowledge at derymedia.com. Telling stories that matter, sparking meaningful discussions.

Send us Fan MailJoe and Katie discuss significant life transitions, both personal and shared. They reflect on how moving from high school to college impacted Joe deeply and how post-college adulthood presented challenges to Katie, especially regarding independence and finding her footing. The couple explores themes of accountability, handling unexpected changes, and the role of faith in navigating such transitions. They also address the happiness disparity across different age groups in the U.S., drawing insights from the World Happiness Report. The episode blends personal anecdotes with broader reflections on adjusting to new life stages.An exclusive from Dery Media Podcasts. Explore diverse perspectives and enrich your knowledge at derymedia.com. Telling stories that matter, sparking meaningful discussions.

Send us Fan Mail Joe and Katie share their journey and insights into discerning life vocations. They discuss the recent challenges they've faced, including unexpected expenses and job changes, and how they balance each other out through difficult times. The episode delves into Katie's personal discernment of religious life and her ultimate decision for marriage, highlighting the importance of community, support, and faith in making life choices. They emphasize that vocations are continuous and multifaceted and not limited to single, one-time decisions. The discussion closes with the importance of living out your vocation and the joy and peace that stem from following this path.00:00 Introduction and Welcome01:53 Unexpected Expenses and Financial Stress05:10 Life Changes and New Beginnings08:49 Discerning Your Vocation12:03 A Life-Changing Pilgrimage15:25 The Subway Drive-Thru Revelation17:11 The Nun Confession18:49 Discernment Retreat Insights21:03 Choosing Joy in Vocation25:09 Living Your Vocation31:49 The Marriage MeetingAn exclusive from Dery Media Podcasts. Explore diverse perspectives and enrich your knowledge at derymedia.com. Telling stories that matter, sparking meaningful discussions.

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of The Vine, hosts Joe and Katie discuss the concept of discernment, emphasizing the importance of seeking and recognizing God's voice amidst life's decisions. They explore biblical examples like Eve and Mary to illustrate discernment, highlight the need for faith in making choices, and reflect on personal experiences. The episode also includes humorous interactions and a glimpse into their weekly 'marriage meeting' routine, providing listeners with practical and spiritual insights.00:00 Introduction and Welcome00:25 Playful Banter and Celebrity Comparisons01:19 Deep Dive: How Are You Really?03:29 Discussing Discernment07:57 Personal Stories of Discernment12:07 Understanding God's Voice15:24 Relatable Lessons from Scripture16:35 The Story of Eve in the Garden18:09 Mary's Encounter with the Angel Gabriel20:07 Contrasting Eve and Mary21:47 The Leap of Faith in Discerning God's Will23:43 The Importance of Asking Questions26:27 Faith vs. Facts27:12 Upcoming Episode Teaser27:49 Marriage Meeting and The Masters32:28 Conclusion and FarewellAn exclusive from Dery Media Podcasts. Explore diverse perspectives and enrich your knowledge at derymedia.com. Telling stories that matter, sparking meaningful discussions.

Send us Fan MailIn the premiere episode of The Vine, Joe and Katie introduce themselves and share their excitement about starting their podcasting journey despite initial tech challenges. They discuss the purpose of the podcast, which centers on navigating life's challenges and staying rooted in faith, community, and dialogues about God. The couple talks about their personal lives, Joe’s sales job, Katie’s work as an oncology nurse, and their experiences with prayer and friendships. They also discuss the concept of building a genuine community versus just having company and extend an invitation to listeners to join them in exploring faith. The episode wraps up with a fun segment where Joe educates Katie about March Madness.00:00 Welcome to The Vine Podcast00:29 Our Podcast Journey: Trials and Errors01:56 Meet Your Hosts: Joe and Katie Divine03:37 The Inspiration Behind The Vine11:09 Building Community: Company vs. Community16:11 Barriers to a Relationship with God17:15 The Journey of Faith19:40 The Power of Simple Prayer23:04 Introducing the Marriage Meeting25:04 March Madness Explained29:24 Podcast Wrap-Up and Future PlansAn exclusive from Dery Media Podcasts. Explore diverse perspectives and enrich your knowledge at derymedia.com. Telling stories that matter, sparking meaningful discussions.