Unleashing Possibilities

In this episode, Mark and Cherry explore how unconscious stories can show up in youth as patterns like pulling away, risky behavior, or self-sabotage. They discuss how mentors can approach these moments with curiosity and compassion, rather than judgment, and how understanding the story beneath the behavior can shift the way we show up in support.

In this episode, we explore how mentors can support teens in building healthy boundaries. Rather than giving scripts or telling teens to simply say no, this episode focuses on helping young people notice their internal signals, understand their needs, and take small, realistic steps to care for themselves. You will learn why boundaries can be especially challenging for teens, common adult missteps, and a simple framework you can use to guide awareness-building moments that strengthen self-trust and connection.

In this episode, we explore how mentors can support teens in building their decision-making capacity—not by handing them the “right” answers, but by helping them pause, think, and reflect. You’ll learn how to guide teens through uncertainty, separate facts from assumptions, and ask thoughtful questions that build ownership and self-trust. We also share a simple framework you can use in any mentoring conversation when a young person feels stuck.

In this episode, Mark Teetor joins us for a deep dive into one of our core distinctions—Framework for Action. Together, we explore how this tool can help mentors notice when their mentee is stuck, identify what might be missing (like skills or support), and guide them forward with care and consistency. Whether your mentee is in a breakdown or you just want to strengthen their follow-through, this conversation offers simple, actionable ways to support growth without judgment. 

In this heartfelt episode, Julio, Director of Level Up, reflects on his own journey grieving the loss of a parent. Together, Mark and Julio explore how mentors can hold space for grief—how to show up with presence, validate a wide range of emotions, and sit with discomfort rather than rushing to soothe it. This conversation offers powerful insights for any mentor navigating grief—either their own or their mentee’s.

In this episode, Mark is joined by Anahi from New Pathways for a conversation on how mentors can support youth when they’re feeling stuck. You’ll explore how to help teens notice when something’s off, discern what kind of support they may need, and encourage them to take care of themselves so they can meet challenges with full presence and authenticity. The episode includes practical tools and reflective questions to deepen your mentoring connection. 

In this episode, Mark is joined by Melissa from New Pathways to explore how active listening can transform communication and connection. Using the EARS framework—Eye Contact, Acknowledge the Speaker, Reflect Feelings, and Summarize in Your Own Words—you’ll learn how mentors and teens can strengthen their listening skills together. This episode offers practical tips, relatable examples, and strategies to help build stronger, more supportive relationships through the power of truly listening. 

In this episode, Mark is joined by Lindsay from New Pathways to talk about why it’s so valuable to branch outside your usual social circles. You’ll hear how stepping beyond familiar groups can build empathy, broaden perspectives, and open doors to new opportunities. Mark and Lindsay also share practical ways to start conversations, form friendships across differences, and embrace inclusivity in everyday life. 

In this episode, Mark and guest Pashion explore how mentors can help youth build the capacity to forgive—others, themselves, and even ask for forgiveness when needed. They talk about how forgiveness supports healing, emotional growth, and stronger relationships, while also acknowledging how difficult the process can be. Whether you’re navigating this with your mentee or reflecting on your own journey, this episode offers real tools, stories, and encouragement for practicing forgiveness in everyday life. 

In this episode, Mark and guest Leslie explore how to navigate dating in a healthy and self-aware way. They break down what healthy relationships look like, the importance of boundaries, and how mentors can support youth in recognizing red flags and setting personal standards. With practical advice and personal stories, this episode is a helpful resource for anyone working with young people navigating relationships.

In this episode, Mark and guest Trish unpack the real meaning of self-care—what it is, what it isn’t, and why it matters. They explore common signs that we might be neglecting our self-care and share simple, meaningful ways to bring it into our daily lives. Mark and Trish also discuss how mentors can support youth in recognizing their own self-care needs and building habits that support their well-being. 

In this episode, Mark and guest Margarita dive into a powerful framework that can transform how we navigate challenges—not just in mentoring, but in life. They explore the shift from the Drama Triangle, where we feel stuck in victim, persecutor, or rescuer roles, to the Empowerment Dynamic, where we step into being creators, challengers, and coaches. Together, they break down how mentors can unknowingly fall into the Drama Triangle and share practical strategies for fostering empowerment in themselves and their mentees. 

In this episode, Mark and guest Alejandra explore how we navigate the world through the Three Centers of Intelligence: Mind, Heart, and Body. They discuss how each of us tends to default to one center—thinking, feeling, or acting—but that doesn’t always mean we’re truly resourced there. Together, they unpack what it looks like to be in balance versus under-resourced in each center and share practical ways to cultivate greater awareness and alignment. Tune in for insights, personal reflections, and actionable strategies to help you engage all three centers with intention and resilience!

In this episode, Mark and guest Vané dive into the importance of navigating tough conversations in mentoring relationships. They discuss how these conversations help mentees build vital skills like self-advocacy and conflict resolution, and how mentors can guide them with preparation and empathy. Mark and Vané also explore why it’s essential for mentors to have their own challenging talks with mentees, offering practical strategies to make these discussions impactful. Tune in for actionable tips and inspiring insights to help you turn awkward moments into growth opportunities for both you and your mentee!

In this episode, Mark and guest Farrah talk about how technology affects teens and how mentors can help them manage it. They discuss both the benefits and challenges of tech, like screen time, social media, and online safety. Mark and Farrah share practical tips for mentors, like setting tech boundaries and encouraging offline activities. Listen for simple ways to help teens use technology in a healthier way. 

In this episode, Mark and guest Nick discuss the power of a learner’s mindset in mentorship. Instead of feeling pressured to always have the answers, mentors can create a richer, more open space for growth by embracing curiosity and focusing on learning alongside their mentees. Nick shares his experiences with shifting from a “knower” to a “learner” approach, offering practical tips like asking open-ended questions, staying present, and embracing observation. Together, they highlight how this mindset fosters deeper connections and empowers mentees to discover their own insights.

In this episode of the Unleashing Possibilities podcast, Mark is joined by Taylor, the Training Coordinator at New Pathways, to tackle the important topic of time management. Together, they explore why managing time can be such a challenge for teens, particularly those from under-resourced backgrounds, and how mentors can step in to make a difference. They discuss practical strategies like the “Big Rocks vs. Little Rocks” analogy, the A-B-C method for task prioritization, and breaking down big tasks into manageable steps. Tune in to learn how you can help your mentee develop time management skills that will empower them for future success.

In this episode of the Unleashing Possibilities podcast, Mark is joined by Manny, a former youth participant turned NPFY staff member, to discuss the essential skill of collaboration. They delve into why working well with others is crucial for teens and explore strategies for mentors to support this growth. Topics include building trust, encouraging teamwork, handling conflicts, and celebrating collaborative successes. Tune in to discover how you can help your mentee develop strong collaboration skills.

In this episode of the Unleashing Possibilities podcast, Mark is joined by special guest Amit to explore the crucial topic of building advocacy skills. Together, they discuss the importance of empowering teens, especially those in poverty, to advocate for themselves and others. Amit shares his insights on the unique challenges these youth face and the barriers they encounter in developing these essential skills. Tune in to discover practical strategies and ideas on how to help your mentee find their voice, build confidence, and navigate the complexities of self-advocacy.

In this episode of the Unleashing Possibilities podcast, Mark and special guest Dulce explore the importance of finding one's voice and communicating effectively. Delve into the unique challenges teens in poverty face in developing these crucial skills and understand why they struggle. Learn valuable strategies and ideas for supporting mentees in overcoming these barriers and building confidence in their communication abilities.

In this episode of the Unleashing Possibilities podcast, join Mark and special guest Julian as they explore the power of "free won’t" in decision-making. Delve into the science behind the brain’s veto power, discover common unhealthy patterns, and learn effective techniques to practice "free won’t." 

In this episode of the Unleashing Possibilities podcast, join Mark and special guest Michael as they discuss the impact of loneliness on young people and strategies for mentor support. Explore common signs of loneliness, practical tips for mentors, and actionable insights for building resilient mentoring relationships. 

Join Hunter and Mark as they explore decision-making and resilience. Together, they'll explore the importance of considering alternatives and tradeoffs when navigating life's ups and downs. Listen in as they share practical strategies and insights on making choices that empower us to overcome obstacles and achieve our goals.

Join Mark and Kiana as they discuss the importance of resourcing ourselves on the journey towards stability and growth. Through exploring the Four Human Domains framework, listen as they delve into how mentors and youth can equip themselves for the challenges ahead. Discover how nurturing our mind, body, relationships, and physical surroundings empowers us to navigate life's terrain with resilience and intentionality.

Join Mark and Alejandra for a discussion on the transformative practice of letting go of expectations and embracing reality. In this episode, we explore the impact of unrealistic expectations on our lives and relationships, uncover common barriers to letting go, and offer practical strategies for cultivating mindfulness and presence in everyday life. 

Join Mary Kate and Mark in this episode as they explore the transformative power of forgiveness. Going beyond mere letting go, forgiveness becomes a constant attitude, fostering healing and personal growth. Discover the psychological and health benefits, understand the barriers, and gain practical tips for stepping into forgiveness.

In this episode, Brenda joins Mark to explore the important work of practicing cultural humility—an ongoing journey of self-reflection and learning about social identities influenced by systems of power and privilege. Tune in to discover invaluable strategies that empower you to give voice to your mentee in your mentoring relationship.

In this episode, Beatriz joins Mark to discuss ways of supporting our youth in gaining access to the “Don't Know Don't Know.” At times, unintentionally, we can become barriers to their exploration of new possibilities. Join them as they explore strategies to help young minds uncover the vast potential within every possibility.

In this episode, Maria joins Mark to discuss the transformative power of “Declaration”. Declarations can shape our identities, relationships, and actions. Listen as they share practical ways we can support our mentees in showing up as their authentic selves through active practice. 

Join Mark and Nina as they uncover the various levels of commitment, from the initial stages of "fun" and "something better" to the transformative Level Three commitment, where true change and impact happen. Listen as they discuss the importance of recognizing and nurturing commitment levels, especially when supporting mentees facing challenges, and explore strategies to empower them toward Level Three commitment. 

Join Mark as he dives into the realms of self-awareness, emotional responsibility, and trigger management. Explore the inner workings of your mind and emotions as you learn more about the actionable strategies that empower us to transcend reactive impulses, guiding us toward the space of intentional responses.

Join Mark and Heidi as they delve into the impact of friction on pattern and habit changes. Listen as they unveil ways of reducing friction to make healthy habits more accessible while also revealing the power of increasing friction to put a stop to harmful ones.

Join Mark and Emily as they explore the process of self-monitoring and its application in mentoring relationships. Discover how self-monitoring cultivates self-awareness, supports self-accountability, and enhances self-regulation. Gain insights into the three-step process of observation, data collection, and active reflection, and learn how you can support your mentee in setting goals and fostering a space of observation and curiosity. 

In this podcast, Mark and Briana invite continuous reflection and exploration with your mentee about "What's at Risk" (WAR), referring to the opportunities, experiences, and possibilities we stand to lose if we do not participate in the New Pathways program. By continuously exploring WAR, we can recognize that we are not the same person as we were before, with new tools and capacities to approach it differently. Supporting our mentees means meeting them where they are in the moment, being reflective, and letting go of our own dreams and anticipations for them.

In this episode, Mark and Christy delve into the nuances between mental health issues and typical teenage angst. They offer insights on how we can discern and evaluate the challenging behaviors of our teenage mentees and respond accordingly, sometimes by simply being present and demonstrating care. Tune in as they share practical strategies for assessing the mental wellbeing of teens and creating a supportive environment that promotes healthy growth and development.

Mark and Christy talk about the tension that exists when we are sitting in the gap between our current reality and what we want to happen. Listen as they share ways to work with this dynamic tension to support forward action that gets us closer to what we strive for in life. 

Mark and Christy discuss the limitations of how success is viewed in American society. Listen as they share a way to redefine success that invites more possibility and intention to our lives. 

Mark and Christy talk about how important trust is in helping us to feel safe and vulnerable in relationships. Listen as they share how we can lay the groundwork to restore trust when it has been damaged. 

Mark and Christy talk about how we can take on one of the six common moods that close us off to the world. Listen as they share the antidote that supports us staying open to meeting life fully.  

Mark and Christy discuss ways we cut parts of ourselves off when our unconscious stories show up. Listen as they share strategies to support us working with our unconscious stories that allow all parts of us to emerge.    

Mark and Christy discuss how we can unintentionally amplify our own pain and suffering as human beings. Listen as they share ways we can embrace pain and suffering and build capacity to be present in life. 

Mark and Christy discuss the importance of knowing and embodying the qualities we have declared ourselves to possess. Listen as they share ways we can be in practice to bring our declaration qualities forward more easily in our lives.  

Mark and Christy discuss how our “window of tolerance” is the optimal zone we want to be in – it’s here where we can deal effectively with life and the emotions we are experiencing. Listen as they share ways we can return to our window of tolerance when we find ourselves in an activated state outside of this zone. 

Mark and Christy discuss how we can fall into clusters of patterns called a vicious cycle. Listen as they share ways we can work with our own vicious cycles so we have choice to be present, authentic, and intentional in relationship and how we engage with life.   

Mark and Christy discuss how we can find ourselves leaning into the Hero and avoiding the messages of the Rival. Both of these parts bring forward something for us to observe and attend to.  And, both can have limitations. Listen as they share how we can expand our understanding and invite other possibilities by befriending the Hero, Rival, and Witness.  

Mark and Christy discuss how we can often get stuck in our beliefs, emotions, and/or body sensations.  Listen as they discuss ways to get unstuck including how to support our mentees through their own “stuckness”.  

Mark and Christy discuss the components that support our youth achieving their goals. Listen as they discuss how shifts in commitment, skills, and structures of support can transform a breakdown into a breakthrough. 

Mark and Christy discuss emotions and their value to us as humans. Listen as they discuss ways we can embrace all emotions, even the ones connected to pain and suffering, to allow them to support us fully in our life journey. 

Mark and Christy discuss how it's human nature to attach (or grasp) at outcomes, ideas, things, relationships, and more. Listen as they discuss ways we can be practice nonattachment to relieve us from the pain and suffering that comes from attachment.

Mark and Christy talk about why forgiveness can be so challenging and how alignment with our three intelligence centers can support us in overcoming these challenges. Listen as they discuss intentional ways we can build capacity for forgiveness that brings forward transformation in our lives.