004 The Big Lie

Derek and Mike discuss the importance and pointlessness of small talk, forgetting the names of people we just met, tips for remembering stuff, Derek's enormous unforgivable lie, avoidance behavior, making friends when you move a lot, the joy of watching your kids be joyful, transitioning from party guy to parent, banana epiphanies, reflections on zen budhism and the politics of monk chores.