#007 The Attraction Trap: Why We’re Drawn to the Wrong People

Ever feel like you’re stuck in a dating déjà vu—drawn to the same type of person who just doesn’t make you happy? You’re not alone! Today, we’re diving into why we’re subconsciously attracted to people with traits that can be toxic or hurtful and how our past may be steering the wheel in our love lives. It’s time to break the cycle and finally understand what’s pulling us toward the wrong people! The Wisdom of... with Dr. Heather Wisdom, the podcast that brings you all things relationship and topics most won’t discuss. Links: Buy The Doctor a Coffee: buymeacoffee.com/drwisdom  Dr. Wisdom’s Website: ⁠drheatherwisdom.com⁠ X: ⁠x.com/drheatherwisdom⁠ Facebook: ⁠facebook.com/profile.php?id=61564972856679⁠ TikTok:  ⁠tiktok.com/@thewisdomofsex?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc⁠ Dr. Wisdom's Store: ⁠drheatherwisdom.com/my-favorite-things⁠ Buy Dr. Wisdom's book: The Wisdom of Sex...For Men Dr. Wisdom's Book: ⁠amzn.to/4h6zWyR⁠   Who is Dr. Wisdom? Dr. Wisdom is a seasoned, Licensed Mental Health Counselor with nearly 20 years of experience in the field. With a Doctor of Psychology in Grief Counseling and a Master of Science in Counseling Psychology, Dr. Wisdom has dedicated their career to exploring the depths of human emotions and relationships. “Be open, be curious, don’t be rude, know your limits and stay wise.”   Sponsors:   Tru Power Shot, Pre Workout Extra Strength Energy Shots with BCAAs ⁠https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CXF22J4F?ref=t_ac_view_request_product_image&campaignId=amzn1.campaign.3OWL0X8OTU74Y&linkCode=tr1&tag=behavioralh09-20&linkId=amzn1.campaign.3OWL0X8OTU74Y_1731785027337⁠     Bean Products Zafu and Zabuton Meditation Cushion Set ⁠https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00J3ZVD0Y?ref=t_ac_view_request_product_image&campaignId=amzn1.campaign.Y9ZDWD3B42GT&linkCode=tr1&tag=behavioralh09-20&linkId=amzn1.campaign.Y9ZDWD3B42GT_1731784944213⁠     AROEVE Air Purifiers for Bedroom Home, ⁠https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09GM8Y8BN?ref=t_ac_view_request_product_image&campaignId=amzn1.campaign.2LGVAVZU87Y1F&linkCode=tr1&tag=behavioralh09-20&linkId=amzn1.campaign.2LGVAVZU87Y1F_1731784981183⁠ In this eye-opening episode, we explore why we’re often attracted to the very qualities that don’t serve us in relationships. Are we truly choosing these partners, or is our subconscious guiding us based on patterns from our past? From unresolved childhood dynamics to hidden attachment styles, we uncover the reasons behind our dating habits and how to make healthier choices moving forward. Join the doctor on the couch, and let's talk.