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EPISODE · Jun 29, 2026 · 2H 5M

032 | Why Kids Need Failure Early | Danny Sawyer

from Hold This Thought · host with Christian Boatright

On Set w/ Chadwick Boseman | Professional Baseball | Coaching | Grass (yep, grass) | Parenting | FailureFormer pro athlete, actor, and coach Danny Sawyer joins Hold This Thought for a wide-ranging conversation on sports, life on a movie set, fatherhood, discipline, resilience, and the long-term impact adults have on young athletes. Drawing from years of experience on the field, in performance, and in coaching, Danny shares why discomfort, adversity, and failure are essential ingredients for real growth.This episode dives into youth sports culture, confidence, identity, parenting through pressure, and the danger of tying self-worth to performance. Danny and Christian explore what healthy competition actually teaches kids, how strong mentors shape character, and why protecting children from every setback may unintentionally weaken them later in life.At its core, this is a conversation about building capable, grounded people. Whether you’re a parent, coach, athlete, or someone trying to lead well in your own life, this episode offers practical wisdom on responsibility, perspective, emotional strength, and preparing kids for the realities of adulthood.Danny has been married to his wife for nearly 13 years and is the proud father of two sons. As a family, they love traveling, staying active, playing sports, and spending as much time outdoors as possible. A former professional athlete, Danny continues to prioritize health, fitness, and an active lifestyle. His competitive mindset, passion for sports, and commitment to personal growth continue to shape both his family life and the way he approaches leadership, coaching, and everyday life.Chapters:00:00 | Life On Set with Chadwick Boseman06:48 | Coaching Effort, Attitude & Respect Instead of Outcomes13:27 | Why Parents Yelling From the Stands Miss the Point19:56 | Kids Mirror Emotional Regulation Before They Understand It26:11 | Failure, Confidence & Teaching Kids How to Respond32:42 | Correcting Character vs Correcting Athletic Performance39:08 | Competitive Parents & the Pressure Kids Quietly Carry45:36 | Learning to Lose With Grace and Win With Humility51:52 | How Coaching Changes From Childhood to High-Level Sports58:14 | Life After Baseball & Losing an Athletic Identity1:04:37 | Transitioning Into Marriage, Fatherhood & Family Leadership1:10:56 | Prioritizing Family Time, Faith & Intentional Parenting1:17:03 | The Lawn Conversation: Pride, Home & Creating Space for Kids1:23:11 | How Baseball & Coaching Sparked an Obsession With Grass1:29:44 | Reel Mowers, Bermuda Grass & Why Frequent Cutting Matters1:35:58 | Sand Leveling, Top Dressing & the Science Behind Perfect Lawns1:42:19 | Golf, Quiet Competition & Why the Game Feels Therapeutic1:48:37 | Landscaping Projects, Creativity & Working With Your Hands1:54:52 | Fitness After Pro Baseball & the Wake-Up Call to Get Healthy2:00:41 | Sustainable Health, Recovery, Stewardship & Final Reflections

On Set w/ Chadwick Boseman | Professional Baseball | Coaching | Grass (yep, grass) | Parenting | FailureFormer pro athlete, actor, and coach Danny Sawyer joins Hold This Thought for a wide-ranging conversation on sports, life on a movie set, fatherhood, discipline, resilience, and the long-term impact adults have on young athletes. Drawing from years of experience on the field, in performance, and in coaching, Danny shares why discomfort, adversity, and failure are essential ingredients for real growth.This episode dives into youth sports culture, confidence, identity, parenting through pressure, and the danger of tying self-worth to performance. Danny and Christian explore what healthy competition actually teaches kids, how strong mentors shape character, and why protecting children from every setback may unintentionally weaken them later in life.At its core, this is a conversation about building capable, grounded people. Whether you’re a parent, coach, athlete, or someone trying to lead well in your own life, this episode offers practical wisdom on responsibility, perspective, emotional strength, and preparing kids for the realities of adulthood.Danny has been married to his wife for nearly 13 years and is the proud father of two sons. As a family, they love traveling, staying active, playing sports, and spending as much time outdoors as possible. A former professional athlete, Danny continues to prioritize health, fitness, and an active lifestyle. His competitive mindset, passion for sports, and commitment to personal growth continue to shape both his family life and the way he approaches leadership, coaching, and everyday life.Chapters:00:00 | Life On Set with Chadwick Boseman06:48 | Coaching Effort, Attitude & Respect Instead of Outcomes13:27 | Why Parents Yelling From the Stands Miss the Point19:56 | Kids Mirror Emotional Regulation Before They Understand It26:11 | Failure, Confidence & Teaching Kids How to Respond32:42 | Correcting Character vs Correcting Athletic Performance39:08 | Competitive Parents & the Pressure Kids Quietly Carry45:36 | Learning to Lose With Grace and Win With Humility51:52 | How Coaching Changes From Childhood to High-Level Sports58:14 | Life After Baseball & Losing an Athletic Identity1:04:37 | Transitioning Into Marriage, Fatherhood & Family Leadership1:10:56 | Prioritizing Family Time, Faith & Intentional Parenting1:17:03 | The Lawn Conversation: Pride, Home & Creating Space for Kids1:23:11 | How Baseball & Coaching Sparked an Obsession With Grass1:29:44 | Reel Mowers, Bermuda Grass & Why Frequent Cutting Matters1:35:58 | Sand Leveling, Top Dressing & the Science Behind Perfect Lawns1:42:19 | Golf, Quiet Competition & Why the Game Feels Therapeutic1:48:37 | Landscaping Projects, Creativity & Working With Your Hands1:54:52 | Fitness After Pro Baseball & the Wake-Up Call to Get Healthy2:00:41 | Sustainable Health, Recovery, Stewardship & Final Reflections

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On Set w/ Chadwick Boseman | Professional Baseball | Coaching | Grass (yep, grass) | Parenting | FailureFormer pro athlete, actor, and coach Danny Sawyer joins Hold This Thought for a wide-ranging conversation on sports, life on a movie set,...

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