033: One Part Lion & One Part Lamb W/ STEPHEN SCOGGINS, Entrepreneur & Speaker

Bill welcomes faith-based entrepreneur, speaker, and author Stephen Scoggins, who shares his journey from a period of homelessness to building and exiting a company he started from “trash piles,” scaling it to just under nine figures in top-line revenue with a 400-person team across three states. Despite outward success after selling the company in 2023, Stephen describes feeling empty in 2024 and traces his transformation to becoming an “integrated leader” rooted in authenticity, identity, strength, and humility. He recounts pivotal influences including his grandfather’s advice to become “one part lion and one part lamb,” and mentor Steve Myrick, who gave him a second chance after Scoggins lost early wealth due to arrogance and poor stewardship. Scoggins explains the contrast between “immature lamb” (people-pleasing and self-abandonment) and “immature lion” (control and aggression). He outlines five leadership constraints—arrogance, ignorance, impatience, fear, and insecurity—and their antidotes: humility, teachability, presence/patience, pursuing truth through intentional faith, and compounded confidence. He also discusses practices for balance and presence, including a morning routine and mantra, and how he helps high achievers move from striving to “being,” reconnect identity from the inside out, and pursue meaning through service. The episode concludes with Scoggins sharing upcoming plans for 2026, including the Integrated Leaders Lion Den, increased speaking engagements (including Create Conference in Atlanta the weekend of January 27), and inviting listeners to take a free 10-minute leadership assessment at stevensgoggins.com/leader, along with a 30–40 page PDF, and connect with him on Instagram. 00:00 Welcome to The Fortitude Forum + Meet Stephen Scoggins 00:45 From Homelessness to Building Companies: The Big Mindset Shift 03:13 The ‘Lion and Lamb’ Lesson from Grandpa Silver Fox 04:20 Saul vs. David: Identity, Approval-Chasing, and Integrated Leadership 07:42 Rock Bottom at the Gym Mirror: Dropping the Mask 11:20 Limiting Beliefs & the Mentor Who Gave a Second Chance 15:12 Do the Pushups: Why We Don’t Execute (and How Mentorship Mirrors Us) 17:37 When to Be Lion vs. Lamb: Daily Practices to Lead from Presence 20:56 Why Businesses Really Fail: It’s Behavior, Not Tactics 21:36 Arrogance → Humility Without Self-Abandoning 22:05 Ignorance → Teachability (and How to Find What You Need) 23:03 Impatience → Presence: “Be Where Your Feet Are” 24:01 A Hard Lesson in Presence During Divorce 25:48 Fear of Success/Failure → Pursuing Truth & Intentional Faith 27:07 Insecurity → Compounded Confidence & Living Forward 28:42 Helping High Achievers Feel Whole Again: From Striving to Being 30:48 Identity After the Exit: Why Success Can Feel Empty 32:09 Legacy, Service, and Building Identity From the Inside Out 34:33 Workshop: Rewriting Identity After Sports (Host’s Story) 38:33 What’s Next: 2026 Vision, Free Assessment, and Where to Connect