050 - Love At First Sight? Vetting For Healthy Relationships, Polarity, Intuition Vs. Impulse With Taylor Burrowes PhD

https://www.instagram.com/taylorburrowes/?hl=en https://drtaylorburrowes.memberful.com/checkout?plan=98906 2:11 - Taylor’s story 4:00 - How common is sexual trauma? 4:49 - Trauma could have been normalized 6:00 - Ashley’s story 6:43 - Identity & how we see ourselves after trauma or even being a single mom 9:00 - Amazing story of Ashley’s grandmother finding love at 78, traveling the world 11:00 - Influenced by the media 13:00 - Age gaps 17:50 - Vetting 20:11 - What to look for when vetting 23:50 - Interests are not indicative to compatibility 24:30 - Intuition vs. Impulse (gut feeling vs. being triggered) 25:30 - Stockholm syndrome (going back to an abuser because it feels safe) 30:00 - Love at first sight 31:40 - Masculine role vs. feminine role 32:30 - Pacing 34:30 - Enthusiasm often comes from the feminine, and pacing often comes from the masculine 36:00 - Boundaries when dating 38:15 - Polarity 40:40 - 80/20 rule works for Taylor personally 43:33 - Date planning, leave it for the masculine? 45:30 - Love is not control Follow me on Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/ashleytaylorwellness/ https://www.instagram.com/highmaintenancehippiepodcast/ Interested in 1:1 coaching? Click here: https://ashleytaylorwellness.as.me/schedule/8230ed17