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May 19, 2026 20 min

#051 The Real Reason Willpower Isn't Working

from Sit Around the Fire Hosted by Ashlea Dillard

Have you ever known exactly what you should do — and still found yourself repeating the same patterns anyway? That frustration isn't a character flaw. It's neuroscience. In this episode, Ashlea Dillard breaks down why the subconscious mind holds onto emotional patterns — even painful ones — and how modern hypnotherapy gives us a direct pathway to change them. Drawing on the foundational clinical work of Gil Boyne and the transpersonal frameworks of Matthew Brownstein, Ashlea explores how affect bridge techniques, neuroplasticity, and emotionally resonant imagery work together to create the kind of transformation that actually sticks. You'll walk away understanding: Why your subconscious is protecting you, not sabotaging you — and why that matters for healing How neuroplasticity works and why repetition, emotion, and focused attention are the real drivers of lasting change Why intellectual insight alone often isn't enough — and what hypnotherapy does differently The one reflection practice that can help you start identifying the stories keeping you stuck If you've ever felt like you're trying to change but something invisible keeps pulling you back — this episode is for you. 🔥 New episodes every week. Find all resources at sitaroundthefire.org and ashleadillard.com.

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