062 | How to Stop Second-Guessing Yourself: Using Your Values and Human Design Authority to Make Aligned Decisions

Here's the truth about why you keep breaking promises to yourself: you're trying to make decisions without a compass, and every choice becomes an internal battle instead of a clear yes or no.  In this episode, I'm sharing how discovering my values after my miscarriage in March 2020 completely changed how I make decisions - and then how learning I'm a Self-Projected Projector took it to the next level. This isn't just about knowing what matters to you; it's about letting your values work WITH your Human Design Authority to make decisions FOR you. You'll hear my vulnerable story about that dark time in my life, how my counselor's simple values exercise cracked something open, and the exact framework I use now to stop second-guessing myself and breaking trust with myself. What we're covering: How values become your internal compass that literally make decisions for you The different Human Design Authority types and how to use yours for body wisdom The Texas Roadhouse bread basket principle (how values + Authority eliminate self-sabotage) Why combining what you value with how your body knows creates unshakeable clarity The exact questions to ask yourself when you're confused about any decision Resources mentioned in the episode: Values Exercise Pull your Human Design Chart 012 | Be Decisive & Trust Your Intuition Using Your Human Design Inner Authority Ready to Transform From the Inside Out? If you're tired of breaking promises to yourself and want to learn how to make decisions from a place of clarity instead of confusion, I have a few spots open for 1:1 coaching. This is deep work around aligning with your values, understanding your Human Design Authority, and creating the internal compass that makes every choice clear. Send me a DM if you're ready to stop second-guessing yourself and start living in total integrity with who you're becoming. Screenshot this episode, share it to your stories and tag me! Hit subscribe so you never miss an episode. ✨ Be brave, not perfect, my babe! Xx, Kaija . . . Disclaimer: This podcast shares personal stories, experiences, and reflections on relationships, consciousness work, and personal growth. The content is not intended as a substitute for professional mental health support, medical advice, or therapeutic treatment. If you're experiencing crisis, abuse, or severe mental health symptoms, please reach out to a qualified professional. Your journey is your own - trust yourself to know what support you need and when you need it.