091 | How to be more assertive at work – a fresh approach, with Trisha Lewis

If you feel like you should be more assertive at work, or you've had other people around you recommend that you start being more assertive, it can be hard to know what to do about it. After all, what does 'being assertive' actually mean and how can you be assertive if it isn't something that feels like it comes naturally to you?This episode of HR Coffee Time is here to help. Professional communication coach Trisha Lewis joins career coach, Fay Wallis, to share her fresh approach to being more assertive.Trisha talks through a whole range of ideas including:The aggressive/assertive continuumSelf-squashing and unsquashingThe female 'double-bind'The warmth/strength quadrantBeing assertive in a way that feels authentic for youHow feedback and role play can helpUseful LinksConnect with Fay on LinkedInFay’s website: Bright Sky Career CoachingConnect with Trisha on LinkedInTrisha Lewis’ websiteTrisha’s TedX talk: The Self-Squashing ProphecyThe 7 Best TED Talks for Career Success (includes Amy Cuddy’s talk about body language)Book Recommendations(Disclosure: the book links are affiliate links which means that Fay will receive a small commission from Amazon if you make a purchase through them)Trisha’s book: ‘The Mystery of the Squashed Self: How to stop self-sabotaging and make your business thrive’ by Trisha LewisTrisha’s book recommendation: ‘Compelling People: the hidden qualities that make us influential’ by John Neffinger & Matthew Kohut Other Relevant HR Coffee Time EpisodesEpisode 78: 5 tips to get useful feedback at work to help your HR/People careerEpisode 57: Using the Johari Window to develop & grow in your HR career (a great feedback tool) Rate and Review the PodcastIf you found this episode of HR Coffee Time helpful, please rate and review it on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. If you're kind enough to leave a review, let Fay know so she can say thank you. You can always reach her at: [email protected] This Episode? Don't Miss the Next One!Be notified each time a new episode of HR Coffee Time is released and get access to other free career tips, tools and resources by signing up to receive the free weekly HR Coffee Time email.How Fay & Bright Sky Career Coaching Can Help YouIf you’ve been enjoying the podcast & would like some support from Fay or her colleagues at Bright Sky, take a look at all their services detailed on the Bright Sky Career Coaching website.