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Aug 8, 2024 11 min

1: How to Stop Feeling Lonely

from This Isn't Working

In this week's episode I dive into a common, yet rarely discussed, issue in long-term relationships: the loneliness and isolation that can arise even (or maybe especially) after years of being together. Episode Highlights: The Trap of "Should": We explore how the tendency to behave in ways we think we "should" or that are "good" for others can lead us away from our true selves. This disconnection from authenticity is a major contributor to feeling lonely in a relationship. People-Pleasing and Boundaries: Learn how actions driven by obligation, people-pleasing, or an inability to say "no" can create a barrier between who we really are and who our partners think we are. When we sacrifice our true selves, we compromise our emotional intimacy and connection. The Illusion of Connection: Discover how our partners may unknowingly fall in love with our behaviors rather than our true selves, leading to a sense of loneliness and disconnection. The Role of Integrity: We discuss the importance of integrity in relationships—acting in alignment with who we truly are rather than manipulating situations, even unintentionally, to control the reactions of others. What to Do: This episode offers practical suggestions for how to reconnect with your authentic self and bring that into your relationship, creating a deeper, more genuine connection with your partner. Want More Tips & Suggestions? Follow Me on Socail!! Facebook Instagram TikTok Subscribe & Review: If you enjoy the show, subscribe, follow and leave a review :-) Your feedback helps me reach more people who need to hear this message!

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