10 | Are you trying to find your worth in achievement or perfectionism? It’s time to flip the paradigm

I don’t know about you - but I have had my fair share of analysis paralysis, a common symptom of perfectionism. It’s been a constant struggle, trying to make sure that everything is perfect before starting, or not starting at all because of thinking it’s not enough. Growing up, I had perfectionist stress - alcohol really helped bring relief. It helped me to stop caring about the things I was stressed out about. I went to the other extreme, from caring too much to not caring at all. Now here I am, 12 years sober trying to find the healthy middle because alcohol isn’t an option anymore but perfectionism kind of is. I don’t know about you - but I don’t want to fill this God-sized hole in my heart with perfectionism anymore, the same way I decided to stop filling that God-sized hole with alcohol. Are you constantly trying to find your worth in achievement or perfectionism? It’s time to learn how to flip that paradigm!  
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