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EPISODE · Jul 26, 2026 · 26 MIN

10 red flags of a toxic friendship and how to actually let go | july self-love book club

from the self-love archives · host Julia Salvia

click here to tell us how this landed for you ❤️ what if the friend that's draining you isn't a bad person- they're just bad for you?all july we've been talking about community, connection, softness, and making friends as an adult. this week we're flipping it over. how do you spot a toxic friendship, and what do you actually do about it?we're pulling from one chapter of our self-love book club pick of the month, Finding Your People by Alexandra Hourigan and Sally McMullen of Two Broke Chicks- the red flags they name, plus my own stories about one-uppers, the friend who wouldn't stop gossiping, and the friendship breakup i'm fresh out of.a note before you press play: this episode is about toxic friendships, not abuse. that's a different conversation and it deserves a professional. resources are linked below.🌊 self-love book club meets on the beach this Wednesday, July 29 to recap Finding Your People- if you're local, come hang! sign up for the monthly meetup membership: [here] 📖 join our free book club community on the Fable app: [link]❤️  the Love Yourself More Card Deck- 100 questions to know yourself better 💬 tell me which red flag hit hardest!next week we kick off August and our theme, releasing control and being flexible. same time, Sunday 12PM ET.connect with julia on instagram @beautybyjulia + tik tok @juliasalviaunlock more archive content on instagram @theselflovearchive + tik tok @theselflovearchivessign up for the self-love archives newsletter: www.theselflovearchives.com

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click here to tell us how this landed for you ❤️ what if the friend that's draining you isn't a bad person- they're just bad for you? all july we've been talking about community, connection, softness, and making friends as an adult. this week we're flipping it over. how do you spot a toxic friendship, and what do you actually do about it? we're pulling from one chapter of our self-love book club pick of the month, Finding Your People by Alexandra Hourigan and Sally McMullen of Two Broke Chic...

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