101: Get intimate with yourself

Not only is masturbating fun (and totally common and normal), it's good for your health! Dr. Oakley & Holly want you to forget all the taboos about self-love- masturbation is still a big one for many women. It's not something that comes up a whole lot in conversation, even between the most open of girlfriends. So, getting to know what you like and don't like in the bedroom isn't necessarily straightforward. Lucky for us, masturbation is one of the easiest way to learn. Taking some solo time to work out what turns you on can even increase your self-esteem. Once you are more comfortable with your own body and confident in articulating what makes you feel good, you can also expect to have better sex (YAY!) We answer your questions: What Is a Yoni Egg—and Why You Shouldn't Put One in Your Vagina Energy Orgasms- Love, Sex and Goop My husband continues to watch porn and masturbates while I'm in the next room Clitoris desensitization (not from vibrators) - is it fixable? If you have a question or topics that you would like to explore on the show, reach out to us and we may answer your question on one of our upcoming episodes. Email us at [email protected].