103. When the Abuse Gets Worse During the Divorce

In today’s episode, as crappy as it is - we talk about when the abuse gets worse during divorce. It’s not a fun topic, but we would be doing you a disservice if we didn’t talk about it.We bring in Katharine Rupp, a family law attorney based in California, who shares insights on the legal process of divorce, the significance of being organized and prepared for legal battles, and the usefulness of tools like Our Family Wizard app (hollaaa!) in co-parenting and divorce documentation. Expect to hear strategies for dealing with emotional abuse and conflict, learn the importance of communication and documentation in divorce proceedings, and get practical advice for navigating the divorce process more effectively - as per usual! Main Takeaways:*Importance of Our Family Wizard - (OFW) is a valuable tool for organizing divorce-related information in one platform*Responding to Attacks (so hard- but DON'T attack back)*Avoid Escalation and Emotional Response (again, so hard)*Documenting and Communicating*Seek Support and GuidanceIf you want some more information on how to respond to your POS ex, (hee hee) head here:http://www.ourfamilywizard.com/notsuck Ask your attorney if Our Family Wizard would be right for your case. In our opinion, it can only help give you the boundaries you deserve. Join our private community for more support. http://www.facebook.com/thehownottosuckatdivorcecommunity Mentioned in this episode:Guided Divorce MeditationsFor the moments when you're about to lose your sh$t. We've got you, baby. Just press play and you'll be calmer. https://www.hownottosuckatdivorce.com/guides/p/divorce-guided-meditationsGuided MeditationsNeed Extra Cash?Why not see how much Worthy can get you for your ring? It's a risk free process- and Worthy works with you to get the best price possible. Get an extra $100 if your ring sells for more than $1500. https://vip.worthy.com/divorcepod/?utm_medium=podcast&utm_source=how_not_to_suck_at_divorce