108: Love What You Love

A poem by Mary Oliver, Wild Geese, a confession about pleasing others, a story about my Father, immigration and ancestry with the topic of “niceness”, a live self-forgiveness of myself for ways I judge myself, change your life any moment, and What would a horse do?I loved this line from Mary Oliver’s poem, Wild Geese: “You only need to let the soft animal of your body love what it loves.” This touches deep into my heart and body. It reminds me how simple it can be on some levels — that what we love is what we love. To allow what it is that your body already loves to be.Shoutouts to Nick Werber, Charmayne Kilcup, Dr. Kristen Donigan. Links, Article, and ResourcesAll Show Notes for This Episode📝 https://CandiceWu.com/lovewhatyoulove Podcast Homepage🎧 https://candicewu.com/podcastNewsletter & Embody Community💌 https://candicewu.com/embody-communityDonations – Your Support Means So Much!💝 https://candicewu.com/supportCandice Wu Page on Facebook👫 https:///EmbodyYourNatureFollow Candice on Instagram📷 https://instagram.com/EmbodyYourNature The Embodied Healing Group Call Sponsored the Funds to Produce and Create This EpisodeThe Group call is a monthly group online to enjoy embodied support, empowering connection, and healing guidance! The group is 2–3 people and exists to support you in being at ease in your own body and spirit, tapping into your intuition and wisdom, and somatic and ancestral healing around anything you’re experiencing or challenged with each month.Check it out at https://CandiceWu.com/product/monthly-embodied-healing-group-session Show Notes00:00 Intro01:23 Sponsored by My Group Healing Call02:00 Starting With a Poem04:27 Not Everybody Will Like Me — and That’s Ok05:43 Discovering This in My Ancestry07:06 The Journey of My Father09:02 My Past Down Experience and Learning to Accept Myself More Deeply10:59 Sometimes What I Do Feels Heavy — Because I Try to Please Too Many People12:24 Check-in Questions for You and Me14:31 What Am I Afraid Of?16:26 Are There Ways You Are Giving Your Energy Away?17:16 Experientials You Can Use for Alignment With Yourself18:23 My Unscripted Self-Forgiveness for Today23:18 You Do Not Have To…25:41 What Would a Horse Do?27:10 We Are Not Limited!28:51 Outro & Gratitude