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EPISODE · Mar 31, 2026 · 20 MIN

109 | Not fair! Do women who cheat get shame while men get a pass?

from Intimacy After Infidelity | Cut Contact, Rebuild Trust, Shed Shame, Avoid Divorce, Forgiveness for Adultery · host Kristina Joy | Affair Recovery Coach, Spiritual Healing, Emotional Healing

Healing can feel unexpectedly lonely once the crisis passes and life returns to “normal.” Today, I talk honestly about a deeper layer many women experience but rarely say out loud: the double standard in affair recovery, and why it often feels like women carry the weight of shame while men are given more space to “struggle.”   I share my own experience of searching for resources and finding none, the internal shame that filled that silence, and why so many women feel unseen in this journey.   We explore: - Why women often carry more visible shame after an affair - The gap in resources for women navigating their own betrayal story - How shame keeps women silent and reinforces the feeling of isolation - Why the Church and culture haven’t always known how to hold women in this well - How we begin to shift the culture by becoming safe, honest, connected women   If you’ve ever felt like you’re the only one- you’re not. And you don’t have to carry this alone anymore 🤍   Let’s Work Together: www.kristinajoycoaching.com/apply  Facebook community: www.facebook.com/groups/intimacyafterinfidelity Instagram: www.instagram.com/kristinajoycoaching Email: [email protected] 

Healing can feel unexpectedly lonely once the crisis passes and life returns to “normal.” Today, I talk honestly about a deeper layer many women experience but rarely say out loud: the double standard in affair recovery, and why it often feels like women carry the weight of shame while men are given more space to “struggle.”   I share my own experience of searching for resources and finding none, the internal shame that filled that silence, and why so many women feel unseen in this journey.   We explore: - Why women often carry more visible shame after an affair- The gap in resources for women navigating their own betrayal story- How shame keeps women silent and reinforces the feeling of isolation- Why the Church and culture haven’t always known how to hold women in this well- How we begin to shift the culture by becoming safe, honest, connected women   If you’ve ever felt like you’re the only one- you’re not. And you don’t have to carry this alone anymore 🤍   Let’s Work Together: www.kristinajoycoaching.com/apply  Facebook community: www.facebook.com/groups/intimacyafterinfidelity Instagram: www.instagram.com/kristinajoycoaching Email: [email protected]

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