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EPISODE · Apr 9, 2026 · 25 MIN

11 Harsh Truths I Wish I Knew In My 30s

from Building Your Money Machine · host Mel H Abraham, CPA, CVA, ASA

Welcome to another episode of the Building Your Money Machine Show! Today, I’m sharing the 11 harsh money truths I desperately wish I’d known in my 30s. This isn’t your uncle’s “skip the lattes” advice, we’re talking real-world, straight-up lessons that can make or break your journey to financial freedom. Whether you’re raking in six-figures or grinding to build your first money machine, these are the unfiltered truths that you might not want to hear, but you absolutely need.I get totally real about why high income alone won’t set you free, why the old playbook is dead, and how your money stories are probably running the show more than you think. From behavior shifts to wealth-building priorities, and even what happens when your health throws a curveball, I’m giving you the play-by-play to help you cut years off your learning curve and sidestep the financial landmines I tripped over.Let’s get into it.IN TODAY’S EPISODE, I COVER:Why earning more doesn’t equal freedom—and what actually doesHow your money habits and stories secretly drive your entire financial lifeBudgeting myths that keep you stuck in scarcity modeWhy the 401(k) isn’t your golden ticket and what you need to do insteadThe irreplaceable value of your health over any dollar amountDon’t just chase numbers; build a machine that fuels your real, vibrant, and intentional life. Hit play and let’s master this money game—on your terms.Subscribe, share, and catch me in my Facebook group for even more unfiltered money truths and actionable tips. Let’s go!RECOMMENDED EPISODES FOR YOUIf you liked this episode, click here to enjoy these and more:https://melabraham.com/show/When Does Investment Income Finally Beat Your Day JobI'm Politely Begging You To Get Good with MoneyEvery Financial Trap Middle Class People Fall Into ExplainedRich People Don’t Buy Luxury...They Buy These 8 ThingsPsychology of Families Who Stay Rich For GenerationsRECOMMENDED VIDEOS FOR YOU If you liked this video, you'll love these ones:When Does Investment Income Finally Beat Your Day Job: https://youtu.be/bRyW3hxzRac I'm Politely Begging You To Get Good with Money: https://youtu.be/tEJ89xF2ZZ0 Every Financial Trap Middle Class People Fall Into Explained: https://youtu.be/kn5nCbd5FOU Rich People Don’t Buy Luxury...They Buy These 8 Things: https://youtu.be/clc7oX7VJUQ Psychology of Families Who Stay Rich For Generations: https://youtu.be/phB_2VcYPbA ORDER MY NEW USA TODAY BESTSELLING BOOK:Building Your Money Machine: How to Get Your Money to Work Harder For You Than You Did For It!The key to building the life you desire and deserve is to build your Money Machine-a powerful system designed to generate income that’s no longer tied to your work or efforts. This step-by-step guide goes beyond the general idea of personal finance and wealth creation and reveals the holistic approach to transforming your relationship with money to allow you to enjoy financial freedom and peace of mind.Part money philosophy, part money mindset, part strategy, and part tactical action, these powerful frameworks will show you how to build your money machine.When you do you’ll also get over $1100 in wealth resources & bonuses for FREE! TAKE THE FINANCIAL FREEDOM QUIZ:Take this free quiz to see where you are on the path to financial freedom and what your next steps are to move you to a new financial destiny at http://www.YourFinancialFreedomQuiz.com

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Welcome to another episode of the Building Your Money Machine Show! Today, I’m sharing the 11 harsh money truths I desperately wish I’d known in my 30s. This isn’t your uncle’s “skip the lattes” advice, we’re talking real-world, straight-up lessons...

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