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Oct 29, 2026 34 min

112. When Fear Does the Talking, Connection Gets Lost

from The Leader in You Hosted by Connect your people; transform you culture. With Dr. Lola Gershfeld

“You’re not tired.” “That’s not what happened.” “We’re doing it my way.” Could these everyday responses be quietly disconnecting us from the people who matter most? In this episode of The Leader in You, we explore how dismissing someone’s feelings can fuel conflict—and how patterns learned in childhood follow us into the workplace. From parenting moments to team disagreements and a discussion of royal family tensions, we unpack what happens when fear drives the conversation. Discover how slowing down, understanding your own emotional triggers, and replacing judgment with curiosity can help you break painful patterns and find your way back to connection. At work or at home, repair begins with making room for each other’s experience. The Leader in You is the go-to podcast for anyone who wants to create a workplace culture where teams can thrive. Envision a future where you are more grounded, confident, and in sync with your team. CONNECT: EmC Leaders Facebook Twitter LinkedIn YouTube Channel RESOURCES: TESA - TEAM EMOTIONAL SAFETY ASSESSMENT RESOURCES & DOWNLOADS CONFLICT RESOLUTION MASTER PROGRAM CONTACT US Connect with Dr. Lola Gershfeld: LinkedIn: Dr. Lola Gershfeld Instagram: @drlolaemc Connect with Polina Marian: LinkedIn: Polina Marian Instagram: @livewithfivekids Dr. Lola Gershfeld, a distinguished organizational psychologist, has dedicated her career to delving into the intricate layers of employee engagement, team dynamics, and wo...

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“You’re not tired.” “That’s not what happened.” “We’re doing it my way.” Could these everyday responses be quietly disconnecting us from the people who matter most? In this episode of The Leader in You, we explore how dismissing someone’s feelings can fuel conflict—and how patterns learned in childhood follow us into the workplace. From parenting moments to team disagreements and a discussion of royal family tensions, we unpack what happens when fear drives the conversation. Discover how slow...

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