From Submissive to Dominatrix | Temptress Pixie on BDSM, Pegging, & Power Exchange

Have a question or comment? Send it to Kristin!This week, I chat with Temptress Pixie, erotic writer, kink educator, dominatrix, and open relationship expert, to explore a world that's often misunderstood. We talked about BDSM, power exchange, pegging, tantra, conscious domination, submission, nervous system regulation, and how kink can become a profound path toward healing.Whether you're deeply immersed in kink or curious about why so many people find freedom through conscious power dynamics, this conversation goes way beyond whips and chains.We also get into...• how she accidentally discovered BDSM through Rihanna's S&M song• the surprising journey from lifelong submissive to dominatrix• why communication is the sexiest foreplay• how fantasy conversations can strengthen relationships• what tantra and BDSM actually have in common• why pegging carries so much unnecessary shame• how play helps us reconnect with parts of ourselves we've forgotten• and why pleasure, healing, and spirituality might all be speaking the same language.As always...take what resonates, leave the rest, and stay curious.Watch the episode on YouTube. Timestamps:00:00 Introduction and guest introduction01:21 How Timtress Pixie discovered BDSM03:32 Defining BDSM and kink04:25 Range of interests in BDSM and kink05:58 Submissive and dominant roles explained07:07 Pain, confidence, and power exchange09:17 The story of the switch to dominance11:53 Creative role play and trust14:56 Evolving into full dominance17:55 The importance of play and imagination22:40 Daddy and Mommy Dom roles26:01 BDSM as therapy and emotional healing27:38 Tantra and energy work in BDSM32:58 Journey into different BDSM styles and tools36:55 Pegging: Tips, conversations, and overcoming shame44:53 Prostate play, anal exploration, and tantraConnect with Temptress Pixie:IG: @temptress.pixie & @enm_diariesSupport the showConnect with Kristin:WebsiteInstagramFacebook YouTubeKristin’s Book:Sex, Drugs, & Soul Spotify AudiobookSubscribe:YouTubeSpotifyApplePeptides:Oral Quicksilver GHK/Copper Peptidehttps://elliemd.com/kristinbirdwellMicrodose 🍄 https://myfeelium.co/password: opensesameCode: kristin20 for 20% off