117 Helping Kids Take Control of Learning with Josh Aronovitch

Website: 🌐 www.andiclark.comSupport Circle Membership: https://andiclark.thrivecart.com/support-circle/Self Assessment form: https://subscribepage.io/big-emotions-self-assessmentBook a 30-Minute Call with Andi – Get your questions answered and explore next steps: Book here: https://tidycal.com/andi1/bookacallWhat if SAT prep wasn’t just about getting a better score—but about helping your child see their worth, trust their process, and feel empowered to handle hard things?In this conversation, Andi sits down with coach and educator Josh Aronovitch, who’s known for helping kids not just improve test scores—but deeply reconnect with their own strengths. From supporting neurodiverse kids with test anxiety to helping students find the college path that fits who they are, Josh brings a perspective that goes far beyond academics.Whether your child is preparing for high school, college, or still figuring things out, this episode is packed with emotional insight, practical wisdom, and the kind of hope parents need.Key TakeawaysTest-taking is a skill, not a reflection of intelligence. Many kids know the material—they just haven’t been taught how to take tests in a way that works for their brain.Your child’s nervous system matters. Emotional regulation, mindset, and even breathwork play a bigger role in performance than most people realize.Standardized tests are flawed—but can be a powerful opportunity. With the right tools and perspective, even students who struggle can thrive.Success doesn't come from doing it right the first time. The journey—mistakes and all—helps kids build grit, confidence, and the ability to handle life’s curveballs.College planning should start with who your child wants to be—not just what job they’ll have.Episode Highlights[00:03:00] – Do SATs still matter? Josh explains how “test-optional” doesn’t always mean optional—and why test scores can still open doors.[00:05:30] – Why kids struggle with testing (and it’s not what you think): From psychological spirals to perfectionism, Josh breaks down what really gets in the way.[00:08:30] – Helping a student go from 720 to 1190: How a 2-year journey transformed not just scores—but self-belief.[00:10:45] – Test prep as emotional growth: Why learning to pause, breathe, and “get off the wrong train” changes everything.[00:16:00] – Understanding before memorizing: Why high-achieving kids often get stuck in math—and how to teach it differently.[00:21:00] – The truth about multiple choice and second-guessing: Josh shares how depth of thinking can actually backfire—and how to help.[00:28:30] – Finding the right college path: Josh flips the question—starting with how your child wants to feel, then working backwards.[00:35:30] – The power of failure: Why kids need safe experiences with mistakes in order to grow.[00:41:00] – A client story: 7 SATs, a perfect score in math, and med school dreams realized.[00:46:00] – Josh’s global lifestyle and why travel helps kids dream bigger: A story about dancing, yoga, and finding joy through discomfort.Resources MentionedConnect with Josh:Website: www.aronovitchcoaching.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ARONOVITCHCOACHINGInstagram: https://instagram.com/joshthesatguy LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/josharonovitch/Text Josh directly: 856-341-0503Retreat: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1AbgkhYVGakwYWtG-vSYOe6Zo94AX5Mrk0omdu77w36g/edit?usp=sharingIf you loved this episode, make sure to subscribe and leave a review!