12 - They’re Not Your Soulmate (And That’s a Good Thing)

What this episode covers

We’ve been sold a story. That one day, someone will come along and complete us. That we’ll lock eyes, feel the fireworks, and just know. That all the pain we’ve carried will finally make sense. But what if that story is keeping us stuck? What if chasing “the one” — your soulmate, your twin flame — is just another way to abandon yourself? In this episode, we dive into the myth of soulmates and why the fantasy of being “completed” by someone else can actually lead us further away from real, grounded love. This is about trauma bonds, projection, obsession disguised as destiny — and the wild, liberating truth that love is not something you find. It’s something you remember. We talk about what it means to become the love you were looking for, how to reclaim your energy, and why healing doesn’t always come in a pretty package with soulmate sparkles. This one is tender. And fiery. And freeing. The book is out! All The Way Alive is now available on Amazon in paperback, hardcover, and Kindle. It's a love letter to the truth inside you — messy, real, and wildly alive. Grab your copy here - https://a.co/d/19ecCHN If you are curious about what else I may share and some of the work that I offer, please visit my IG @soulalignedcaroline or website www.carolinestewart.ca Podcast Intro mastered by Miko Lay IG @komi.artist