120: Cheating, Jesus + The Coldplay Scandal

I knew this conversation with Kristina would be tender, heavy, and potentially triggering - but also desperately needed. We're diving into a topic that's rarely discussed from this perspective: what it's like to be the woman who steps outside of her marriage. Kristina courageously shares her seven-year journey through an affair, the crushing weight of shame that followed, and how she ultimately found healing through radical honesty and somatic work. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ The snowball effect: how disconnection, miscarriages, and unmet emotional needs created the perfect storm for infidelity ➡️ How shame manifests in the body and mind - from compartmentalization to the desperate need to disappear ➡️ The viral Coldplay concert scandal and what it reveals about our collective judgment versus compassion ➡️ Why "judging a tree by its fruit" requires curiosity, not condemnation - and how Jesus modeled radical grace ➡️ Practical rhythms for dissolving shame: radical honesty, somatic practices, and finding safe people to hold your story ———————————————————————— Love Note From Becky Aste: I’d love to hear from you! Dm me "PODCAST" on Instagram and I’ll send you a free training that pairs perfectly with this episode 💬 ➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/becky_aste⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Would rather stalk before we talk? No judgement here ;) Here’s my website!➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.idobreakthrough.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ FREE Higher Self Guided Visualization - ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://vimeo.com/948846163⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to learn more about working with Becky? Book a call with her right here: [⁠https://calendly.com/idobreakthrough/free-connection-call⁠] XO Huge Hugs - Becky ———————————————————————— ➡️ Follow Kristina Robertson 🔗 Intimacy After Infidelity Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/intimacy-after-infidelity-rebuild-connection-emotional/id1691443054 IG- @kristinajoycoaching www.kristinajoycoaching.com